PEGGING
You've stopped having sex with him, locked his clitty in a chastity, hopefully started dating to some degree or at least having sex regularly (this is important for your health) and training towards permanent chastity for you bitch. You should be pegging him by now, so this blog is about different techniques and the proper way to peg him and the benefits of pegging. First off, pegging is essential in femdom and orgasm denial as its an obtainable pleasure for him, usually as a reward for his submission and obedience or other reasons like sissy training etc. Pegging is something that will become very valuable to him (since its his only source of pleasure) and the longer he is denied sex and orgasms the more sensitive his p-spot becomes making it more addicting and pleasurable especially if using the edging technique. This is power for you as he will not be able to control it and with time even beg you to use your cock on him. Pegging will also give him drive and focus to serve and obey you, as you eventually take pussy completely away as most Doms do. However, pegging isn't just a reward and pleasure for him, it's a powerful training tool for you and will help convert his desire from your pussy to your cock. Pegging mixed with chastity, denial of pussy and loss of orgasms will make him very submissive towards you and the pleasure of your cock, he will essentially become "cock whipped". Pegging is something you can easily control and it will help to control him by giving or taking it away as necessary after training. Eventually after you find a full time boyfriend to date and he is really cock whipped, you will only peg him as a reward obviously when you decide (usually twice a week) he's earned it. During training, you will train him to always beg for your cock, and suck it prior to giving him the privilege to have it. You will even train him to beg you to have all the cock you want just so he might be allowed the privilege of your cock, after all a sexually satisfied Dom craves the power of making her bitch squeal.
Pegging is also the only way to sissy training and goes hand in hand with chastity, especially permanent chastity as it truly will be his only source of pleasure. Pegging him will turn you on and give you pleasure, plus most dom's state they have had orgasms while doing strap-on pegging. It will make you feel powerful and in control as you force your cock into his tight little hole and watch him eventually turn into a screaming cock slut, sissy bitch, begging for your cock. This is something to be proud of and at the same time laugh at him because he really is turning into a cock slut. Its normal to feel he's sexually pathetic and has a clitty, that he is not a real man and that you definitely don't want him between your legs again. Accept and embrace these feelings because this is what you want, you need and deserve real pleasure and orgasms. When you start pegging he might not like it and will resist until the pleasure forces him to submit to it and then he will not be able to resist it. As he is tied down/up forced to endure the penetration and the friction of your cock assaulting his prostate he will give into the pleasure. Eventually he will submit to the control of your cock, be addicted to it and beg you to get it....He will be your cock whipped sissy bitch. Pegging is a valuable tool for humiliation as well as to bring out submission, it is very humiliating (in several ways) to beg for your cock, to crave it, to moan from it and to eventually submit to it especially if done in front of another person, boyfriend, girlfriend, or even a "master" you set up for him. The humiliation helps degrade and emasculate him which takes away his manhood making him more trainable and obedient. It also switches his pleasure zones from that little clitty to his tight little pussy, and helps to reprogram his mind to crave cock. It also replaces his sex with your sex by defacto, meaning by keeping conventional sex and orgasms from him and fucking him with your dildo, you are making him dependent on your cock for pleasure. This insures that you will keep him dependent on you getting sex from real men in order to have the privilege of your cock. A skilled Dom utilize this and re-program him (using firm aggressive directives and commands while under heavy hormone influence), during pegging and edging or copulin arousal techniques. Directives like; you will think about my cock stretching your pussy the entire time you see or hear me fuck a real man (my boyfriend), or You will be cock whipped and there's nothing you can do to stop it etc. Tell him things (in a firm voice) that you want to embed into his subconscious mind. Reprogramming directives are statements or comments said (again with a firm voice) that unknowingly imbed into his thinking process during a high arousal state making him feel or act as you describe in said statements. This is a reprogramming or brainwashing technique. Basically while his arousal levels are very high describe what, how, or when he is to act or think and he will (with time of this training) due your bidding.
Pegging also gives him a focus point and reward for being your sissy bitch, as I said its an obtainable pleasure he is permitted, pleasure that last for as long as your fucking him. Pegging is a pleasure unlike anything he could experience with his clitty. Unlike normal sex where he does all the work and most of his pleasure comes at the end from the ejaculating orgasm, then his sex is over. However pegging is a constant pleasure that builds to a climax (much like our sex, but far less as intense) where he has what's called a sissygasm. He can have sissygasms over and over and even back to back (again just like us) for as long as your cock pounds his tight little pussy. This is also another reason he will become addicted to your cock and learn to love it and submit to it. Also sissygasms last a lot longer than normal orgasm, but they are not the same feeling as an ejaculation orgasm because it comes from 2 different places much like a clit orgasm vs a vaginal orgasm with us. The best thing is, sissygasms are not sexually satisfying because they don't effect the sex nerves/erogenous zones that trigger the orgasmic muscle contractions meant to ejaculate, which in turn signals the brain to release chemicals that stop blueballs (in short his balls don't get emptied with sissygasms so he remains horny and submissive). In fact, most Dom's (especially if in permanent chastity phase) after mid to end of training don't even remove the chastity to peg their sissy bitches or they use an electro-chastity devices to intensify his need for cock and give a little shock pain at the same time. He is also free from the stress of having to preform and please pussy, keep an erection, or premature ejaculation all of which he fails at because he was meant to be your little cock slut. Sissygasms do nothing at all to ease his arousal level or submission, but instead intensifies it and helps build his submission and arousal level, especially towards cock.
There are 3 types of pegging; freestyle (using a dildo with your hands) strap-on (dildo in a harness) machine (dildo in a fuck machine). Its important to know, pegging is not about the speed of how fast you can pump the cock in and out of him. Using a slower, steady pace will give better pleasure than a fast pace. Switching from slow and deep with firm impacts to long strokes will also switch up the intensity of pleasure. Pay attention to his body and moans to see what's doing the trick, if he is requesting you to slow down or speed up there is a reason (to much sensation, pain etc.), try to remember his preferences. Regardless of which style you do, you always want him sucking a dildo prior to using one on him (ideally a clean or unused dildo solely for the purpose of sucking it). This is humiliation and a non-threatening prep to get him ready to suck real cock if you choose this path (part of sissy training). Freestyle pegging is good for most times as its simpler and quicker to get ready for and a bit easier to clean after. It is fairly less body work physically, but can give your arm a good workout until you get use to it (great for burning fat off your arms though so switch between arms). It does a good job of giving him sissygasms and a desire for cock. You can put him in any position for freestyle pegging, I always suggest changing it up during each time, at least occasionally, and definitely tie him down securely. ** NOTE** with any type of pegging start off rubbing the outside of his pussy to arouse him. The area around his hole is pleasurable and helps build arousal and anticipation. Then work up to fingering his hole and prostate for a few minutes to get it lubricated. Now that he is lubricated and aroused, slowly slide you cock in and start off with slow short strokes going in only about half way. As you see him relax and moan, slide it all the way in and let it sit for a few seconds as you rub/massage his balls and rub your finger around his stretched hole. Then start to move it in and out with long, slow, deep strokes, **NOTE** avoid pulling it out to far, you don't want it falling out. You want the ridge of the head to hit the end of his prostate and slide down it on the pull out stroke and then on the in stroke the head of the cock will stroke the full length of his prostate giving him max pleasure. Now pick up speed moving it in and out to a STEADY pace (remember steady is key), pushing the cock firmly into his pussy (imitating hips bouncing off his ass). **NOTE** Something to think about, a steady pace is more real like actual fucking, gives the prostate time to pulse which gives a much better feeling and pleasure than a fast pace plus its less work on you. However a faster speed is good now and then (key word now and then) to change up the pleasure. *NOTE* clitty stimulation (if not in perma-chastity) should be sporadic.
Strap-on fucking is more visually appealing for you as you have a more realistic feel (like its your actual cock pounding him) of position and view of his pussy stretching as it takes your cock deep inside him. You also feel more power and control over him as its your thrust that makes him moan and scream. Strap-on pegging can also arouse you and a lot of girls can orgasm from pegging their sissy. You can also start off freestyle with a different dildo (smaller) then switch to strap-on after a few minutes. Strap-on is more physical, but worth the energy as it helps to keep you in shape and it is the best pleasure for males as it gives a more realistic feel and impact as your hips slam against his ass. It also allows your hands to be free for other activity (which is a must for bringing out the sissy bitch side of him) like pulling his hair back or his collar (make him wear a collar if he is low trimmed or bald) - smacking his ass or balls - inserting a finger with the cock to give that extra stretch - using both hands to spread his ass cheeks wide to expose and open up his pussy hole (makes sensation better - squeezing his ass cheeks - spitting on his pussy hole for lube (more humiliation than lube) - and one of the best techniques for increasing sensations is grabbing the base of his balls and pulling them up and towards you as you slam into him, lastly smack the shit out of his ass and leave a hand print (you can also use a leather slapper) that last a few days. Technique with strap-on is exactly like with freestyle pegging, start out slow with short strokes and build to long, deep strokes and eventually bouncing your hips of his ass with a steady pace and deep strokes, and change to short fast strokes from time to time. your hips can only move so fast so speed is not important with this style of pegging, just remember to switch it up. Again remember not to pull to far out on your out strokes, your cock will fall out!
As I said, Strap-on is the best sex for him, especially if training him to become sissy and take real cock, and it allows you to have him kneel and suck it prior to training and pegging. Freestyle is great for easier nights and a bit quicker, but it is a must to use Strap-on at least 3 times month. Machine pegging is good on days when your tired or don't feel like doing much training. You just humiliate him and let the machine do all the work and still achieve his submission of cock. It also allows your hands to be free to do other stuff just like with strap-on sex and even more like making him suck your cock (real or not) while he is fucked (although you could suction a dildo to the wall as you fuck him strap-on style) or your could whip his as with a cane or what ever while the machine pounds away at his tight little hole. This is actually a mind fuck as he can't fully enjoy the pleasure because the pain is to intense. Its also a bit harder to clench his ass cheeks with movement inside his hole, and the pain is a little more sensitive since the inner nerve ending are being stimulated. Machine pegging is also great because you don't even have to stay in the room if you have other things to do like get ready for a date, run a quick errand, or a DOM favorite, if your in the other room fucking a Boyfriend. The possibilities are endless, so use your imagination and try new things, especially putting him into different positions for pegging as each will give a different sensation and pleasure, and remember to let out your sadistic dominant side. Fucking him on his back (missionary) might be best for pleasure but its more humiliating for him fucking him doggie and your hands can do more stuff. This is why its always best to switch him around and be creative when pegging so his mind is always running wild with desire of your cock.
After a few weeks of no sex, chastity, and pegging, mixed with training and humiliation, you will notice a physical change to his ass. It will start to become more and more like a pussy, literally. It will start getting wet, self lubricate (still need lube from time to time) during sex, and eventually cum. Yes cum, a sissy equivalent to female cum that looks and smells like actual cum, but it is more lubricating and lacks sperm, as sperm cums from testicles and this comes from his prostate. This is a good sign that he is becoming cock whipped and a cock slut. **NOTE this is also the time to start sissy training and convert him to a "sissy bitch" permanently switching his pleasure zones. Now is when you start making him wear panties, even female lingerie (French maid outfits etc.), make sure he shaves all his pubic hair, clean up his own cum messes, all of them. Teach him to suck cock by sucking dildo's every training night, start accounts on bi/gay online dating sites and look for real cock for him to please. Note, once you convert his ass to a pussy and make him a cock slut, he will always crave cock. This will make it easier to turn him back into a cock slut if ever there is a lapse in the femdom lifestyle for unseen reasons.
As days turn to weeks and months of wearing a chastity and no sex and orgasm, his ass will become his pussy, it will actually become his pussy. It will chemically and physically change his demeanor, submissive state, and pleasure preference. It will become his pleasure zone and his weakness. You will train him to acknowledge and accept this is his pussy. You must treat his ass as a pussy, call it his pussy (your ownership is known so just keep it simply "his pussy" to avoid confusion) make him call it his pussy, rub it as a pussy, finger it as a pussy. The longer he goes without orgasm, and the more he is pegged, the more his ass feels like a pussy to him the more sissy he feels and becomes. Just rubbing the rim of his pussy will give him great pleasure and build his arousal level. (which is needed for Perma-chastity) You will want to tease him with this area prior to insertion of anything. Simply edge him for at least 10-15 minutes and start off by rubbing around the hole, and make sure you humiliate him. After enough time with out sex and fucking him, he will become dependent on you fucking him. Make him beg for it, make him suck the cock prior to being fucked. Remember, always spend time rubbing it prior to fingering or fucking to build up sensation and arousal. When fucking him, spread his checks and pussy wide to give better sensation, ALSO grab his balls and pull up on them, this adds pleasure and maximizes the sensation on his prostate. Experiment with it by trying all kinds of toys, shapes, sizes. Stick a finger in it at the same time as the dildo. Try to to use 2 smaller dildo's in his pussy at the same time, working them in and out independently for cross sensation. When fingering it, try to build up to 2,3,4, and eventually all 5 fingers in (this is not for a beginner, and don't try this every time you finger him, just occasionally). Note* 4 and 5 fingers are easier to get in after the use of a large dildo. When fucking him, be humiliating, Spit on his hole, tell him that's his lube, use his own cum to lubricate it, and humiliate him with that and how he is a sissy bitch. NOTE* remember to make him shave all hair around it and his clitty, all of it, especially if your going to train him to be a sissy bitch. Smack his ass hard several times when fucking him or use a leather strap or cane, reach down and pull his head back by his hair or around his neck or use a collar on him and pull the leash as he has a sissygasm. Switch it up, force his head down into the bed, make him keep it down, and make him spread his legs wide or arch his ass to take the cock or threaten to stop. Switch things up with dildo's, trying different shapes and make him take bigger. NOTE* don't use the bigger dildo every time, you don't want him use to it, you want it to be that OMG dildo every now and then. Also you don't want him to sore to take cock at all. Make him go out with but plugs or other toys in his pussy. Use remote control devices while your out. Note, plugs will put him into a submissive state and make it hard for him to focus, especially ones that move or vibrate. This is good for you and fun to play with while your out, remember to try new ideas. Remember to grag his balls and pull them as you fuck him or use your dildo on him. I usually grab them with both hands and use them as a handle to pull my hips into him forcing my cock deeper, or I'll use one hand to smack his as with a small crop (very hard).
As you lock him into chastity and start pegging, you will also want to restrict pussy from him, let him see it or smell it occasionally until you have found a full time Boyfriend or bull. Pussy is very powerful to him and even a more powerful tool for you. Just the copulins alone are very valuable in aiding towards his submission and reprogramming him. Even just seeing it will cause a flood of hormones to make him weak, especially if its restricted and used to tease him. Smelling and tasting it will only compounding his feeling of submission as your copulins work their magic. You will threaten to take it away, especially when you find a bull or BF to fuck, but for now you need the extra control, humiliation and focused submission that pussy has on him. This means that on some days he wont see or smell it, while on others he may only see it in panties (rarely naked) or he maybe only smell it and other days he may smell and taste it. Switch it up, make it sporadic, and make sure you put 4 or 5 days of nothing in between his contact. It is very important that he smell pussy out of panties 3-4 times a month (with or with out a blind fold on) and you want to put it inches from his face and spread your lips open. Let him see you vagina opening, maybe even rub his nose in it. He needs to be close to inhale as much copulins as possible, and this is best with pussy inches away from his face and lips spread open. The more aroused you are the better, especially if done shortly after you fucked your BF. You could even fuck a dildo or use a vib on yourself to expedite the copulins production and add the arousal sight humiliation on him. Let him smell in for at least 5 minutes, while you use verbal humiliation and verbal training methods to brainwash him. The most powerful copulins are absorbed through his penis while you sit still on top of him for at least 5 minutes but up to 15. (see my copulins section for more info)
As days turn to weeks and months of wearing a chastity and no sex and orgasm, his ass will become his pussy, it will actually become his pussy. It will chemically and physically change his demeanor, submissive state, and pleasure preference. It will become his pleasure zone and his weakness. You will train him to acknowledge and accept this is his pussy. You must treat his ass as a pussy, call it his pussy (your ownership is known so just keep it simply "his pussy" to avoid confusion) make him call it his pussy, rub it as a pussy, finger it as a pussy. The longer he goes without orgasm, and the more he is pegged, the more his ass feels like a pussy to him the more sissy he feels and becomes. Just rubbing the rim of his pussy will give him great pleasure and build his arousal level. (which is needed for Perma-chastity) You will want to tease him with this area prior to insertion of anything. Simply edge him for at least 10-15 minutes and start off by rubbing around the hole, and make sure you humiliate him. After enough time with out sex and fucking him, he will become dependent on you fucking him. Make him beg for it, make him suck the cock prior to being fucked. Remember, always spend time rubbing it prior to fingering or fucking to build up sensation and arousal. When fucking him, spread his checks and pussy wide to give better sensation, ALSO grab his balls and pull up on them, this adds pleasure and maximizes the sensation on his prostate. Experiment with it by trying all kinds of toys, shapes, sizes. Stick a finger in it at the same time as the dildo. Try to to use 2 smaller dildo's in his pussy at the same time, working them in and out independently for cross sensation. When fingering it, try to build up to 2,3,4, and eventually all 5 fingers in (this is not for a beginner, and don't try this every time you finger him, just occasionally). Note* 4 and 5 fingers are easier to get in after the use of a large dildo. When fucking him, be humiliating, Spit on his hole, tell him that's his lube, use his own cum to lubricate it, and humiliate him with that and how he is a sissy bitch. NOTE* remember to make him shave all hair around it and his clitty, all of it, especially if your going to train him to be a sissy bitch. Smack his ass hard several times when fucking him or use a leather strap or cane, reach down and pull his head back by his hair or around his neck or use a collar on him and pull the leash as he has a sissygasm. Switch it up, force his head down into the bed, make him keep it down, and make him spread his legs wide or arch his ass to take the cock or threaten to stop. Switch things up with dildo's, trying different shapes and make him take bigger. NOTE* don't use the bigger dildo every time, you don't want him use to it, you want it to be that OMG dildo every now and then. Also you don't want him to sore to take cock at all. Make him go out with but plugs or other toys in his pussy. Use remote control devices while your out. Note, plugs will put him into a submissive state and make it hard for him to focus, especially ones that move or vibrate. This is good for you and fun to play with while your out, remember to try new ideas. Remember to grag his balls and pull them as you fuck him or use your dildo on him. I usually grab them with both hands and use them as a handle to pull my hips into him forcing my cock deeper, or I'll use one hand to smack his as with a small crop (very hard).
As you lock him into chastity and start pegging, you will also want to restrict pussy from him, let him see it or smell it occasionally until you have found a full time Boyfriend or bull. Pussy is very powerful to him and even a more powerful tool for you. Just the copulins alone are very valuable in aiding towards his submission and reprogramming him. Even just seeing it will cause a flood of hormones to make him weak, especially if its restricted and used to tease him. Smelling and tasting it will only compounding his feeling of submission as your copulins work their magic. You will threaten to take it away, especially when you find a bull or BF to fuck, but for now you need the extra control, humiliation and focused submission that pussy has on him. This means that on some days he wont see or smell it, while on others he may only see it in panties (rarely naked) or he maybe only smell it and other days he may smell and taste it. Switch it up, make it sporadic, and make sure you put 4 or 5 days of nothing in between his contact. It is very important that he smell pussy out of panties 3-4 times a month (with or with out a blind fold on) and you want to put it inches from his face and spread your lips open. Let him see you vagina opening, maybe even rub his nose in it. He needs to be close to inhale as much copulins as possible, and this is best with pussy inches away from his face and lips spread open. The more aroused you are the better, especially if done shortly after you fucked your BF. You could even fuck a dildo or use a vib on yourself to expedite the copulins production and add the arousal sight humiliation on him. Let him smell in for at least 5 minutes, while you use verbal humiliation and verbal training methods to brainwash him. The most powerful copulins are absorbed through his penis while you sit still on top of him for at least 5 minutes but up to 15. (see my copulins section for more info)
**MOST IMPORTANT** You need big cock ASAP! As you deny you bitch and start pegging, you need to start cuckolding as you will soon loose chemicals that your body needs, CUM. Yes semen is very good for your body and emotional health. Semen is comprised of vital chemicals that helps your body stay healthy, like vitamins and minerals that promote energy, cognition, and helps viral immunity. Plus it has antidepressants to reduce stress, depression, anxiety and moods swings while it promotes happiness. It also contains hormones like testosterone, oxytocin, cortisol that slow aging, reduce inflammation (achiness and joint pain), improve blood flow (numb or cold hands and feet), and skin health (younger skin, reduces wrinkles, and quick healing) as well as other important chemicals. Not to mention having regular sex and orgasms is some of the best calorie burning and exercises you can do to loose weight and stay in shape. Penetration of the penis into the vagina exercises pelvic muscles necessary for healthy bladder control and functions (helps stop frequent peeing and regulate bowel movement) tightens uterus and vaginal walls to aid in a tighter vagina. SO YES, to say the least, it is very important that you have sex regularly!!!!! You need to take care of yourself and nothing is more important than your sex and best of all it feels really, really good!!!!! You also need to take care of your physical looks, work out, get manicures and pedicures, get your hair done, and tan, buy sexy outfits (and lingerie) to wear for your boyfriends. You need to look good for yourself esteem and for your boyfriend or potential boyfriends.
Do not be afraid to talk and flirt with guys, you need to do it often and everywhere. You must actively go out looking for boyfriends or sex partners, and enjoy sex with them. It is crucial to show him that you love the sex more and prefer bigger and better cock with your BF. He needs to be humiliated this way to help break him, and to understand his place was meant to serve you. He must see that you are excited and horny to go on date and get sex from your boyfriend. He needs to know that you do not want or need sex with him, he must believe it. You will tell him that your sex is none of his business and its none of his business who you date, where your going, when you'll be home, (if you even come home) or who you fuck. Tell him, if you want him to know then you will tell him, if not to keep his mouth shut, asking is a severe punishment. He should focus on serving you, not what you do. After your dating or maybe seeing several guys, (at least 2 guys) you will not tell him who your going out with, or anything about the date, IT IS none of his business! However for humiliation, only tell him about the sex, every detail. Where you fucked, what positions you fucked in, how long you fucked, how much better it was, how long it was, how wet you were and how many times you had orgasms. Bring home hickies on your boobs and inner thigh for him to see, show him the opened condom rappers as your order him to throw it away. Have him refill the travel sized lube you took with you but used all up during a long night of sex. It is vital that you include him in one way or another with all the sex you have. This can be as simple as bringing home a condom full of cum for him to mentally visualize your sex (possibly even made to suck on it till all the cum is gone), listening on the phone as you moan and scream over and over from all the orgasms, smelling worn panties after sex (especially if cum soaked), anything you can think of that keeps him horny and excited about you having sex. He must also clean up all messes, including his own precum and milking.
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