FEMDOM SADIST
Part 1
BDSM stands for; Bondage - Discipline - Sadist - Masochist. In the female domination lifestyle (Femdom for short) BDSM is an aspect of the lifestyle, just as cuckolding, sissification, and various other fetishes are. MAKE NO MISTAKE, this is a 24/7 lifestyle and the natural way of order.
Bondage is not just about physically tying him down or binding him in certain positions or places. It is also a metaphor that means much more as it represents the entirety of Femdom as a whole, and a lifestyle. Bondage is a display and use of your power, it is forcing him to kneel and obey, to follow rules, orders, and a routine of service and chores. It is a belief that you are the superior sex and should always be in control, the authority, the Mistress. Its your power-his weakness, your authority-his submission, your freedom-his servitude. You controlling his actions, his body and even his mind. Bondage is forcing him and changing him to become what you want, training his body and mind to submit and obey with out question, thoughts, or balk talk. It is you replacing his wants, needs and sexual desires to yours, making him know and believe his place is serving and obeying you, the Mistress. Bondage is physical restraint and more importantly strict mental control......Breaking his will, emasculating him, feminizing him, making him weak and forcing him to submit, to serve and obey. But it is also about your pleasure, your desires, your sexual freedom, doing what you want, whenever you want. It is taking your place as his mistress and forcing him into his, using your power over him and creating the type of submissive you desire and deserve!
Discipline is not the same as punishments although the two go hand in hand. Discipline is a strict act or practice of training your male to follow a routine of service, to submit and obey, to follow rules and orders, using severe punishments to correct and deter disobedience. Discipline is breaking him down, emasculating him, feminizing him, forcing him into his natural place and bringing out his submission and desire to serve you. It requires you doing your part, being strict, aggressive, controlling, cruel, dominant and doing whatever it takes to get the submission you want and deserve. You must be serious, and extremely committed, put in the time and effort to get what you truly want and deserve. Discipline has no morals, no discrepancy, no bottom line, no point to far, and is unyielding to extract the perfect submissive....You simply do what you must in order to achieve a perfectly trained sissy bitch servant. Discipline and the use of punishments have no mercy, no sympathy, no regret and should always be aggressive, relentless, ruthless, humiliating, and demanding. Discipline with punishments is to be feared, to be dominant, to be sexy, to be idolized, and to be worshiped as a Mistress and superior. It is using control, humiliation and severe punishments with a forceful aggressive like demeanor and attitude to achieve the desired submission.
Sadist is a female who gets sexual pleasure or excitement from the humiliation, pain, and punishments of her male submissive. She loves the power, the control, and servitude of her male while she has the freedom to have sex with whoever she wants and do as she pleases. She loves to use humiliation to deepen his submission and control him. She enjoys teasing him with her sexuality, her body, her voice, while denying him any access to her body, especially pussy, and sexual relief. She loves to destroy his masculinity, forcing him to surrender and accept his submissive place....Bowing his head in humiliation because of it, as he begs to serve her. More so, it pleases her to inflict pain to force his submission and obedience to her. She loves to flaunt her sexual freedom and affairs in his face, humiliating him about his inadequate size, performance, and how pathetic he is. She gets excited and even wet when she hears him screaming and begging her to stop as she inflicts pain from punishments, especially after his ass is severely welted, marked up, and bruised, insuring he won't soon forget he is there to serve and obey. She loves to hear the begging turn into screaming out, crying, and pleading for her to stop, because she knows this is true power and he will be extremely submissive because of it. She loves seeing him on his knees, obeying her and it greatly excites her to turn him into a sissy cock loving slut and hear him moan from her cock, submitting to it, craving it, transforming him into a cock whipped bitch. She loves and enjoys the power and control over her submissive with no regard or care of his thoughts, feelings, wants or needs. He is not her equal, he is not a man, he is her sissy bitch who's only purpose is to pay for pussy and serve and obey. He is not her mate, or husband, he is simply there to serve, to obey, and to worship her as his superior, his Mistress.
Masochist is a male who has been broken or near broken and emasculated, disciplined and converted to derive pleasure and even sexual gratification from his submission to his Mistress. You forcing his loss of masculinity, freedom, pleasure, sex, orgasms, and sexual enslavement has changed how he achieves pleasure. He has lost all normal means of pleasure, been placed in chastity, dominated, controlled and exposed to heavy humiliation through cuckolding, pegging and/or sissified. Usually he is cuckolded because of his small penis size and poor sexual performance, which ironically leads most Mistresses into the lifestyle. The cuckolding inflects extreme humiliation, especially when done properly, which furthers and deepens his submission, a cycle that creates mental enslavement and forced submission. As a cuckold, he has complete loss of orgasms, is permanently denied sex, and usually denied anything at all to do with or associated with pussy. This means he is denied any real physical pleasure that would grant him a penis orgasm, thus keeping him dependent on her sexual affairs/cuckolding, pegging, and cruel acts for pleasure. He cannot resist being turned on by a cruel dominant, aggressive female, in fact he is naturally submissive to this demeanor. Some of her strongest power and control over him is being cruel, humiliating and degrading him and treating him like a bitch, forcing him to be just that. To show she does not care about what's done to get his submission, or the extremes she does to keep him submissive. He is now simply "a sissy bitch", whose only purpose to to pay her bills, serve and obey!
🅰️mistress truly believes that she is the authority, and was meant to rule over her bitch and control everything. She knows his natural place is kneeling at her feet with the sole purpose to hand over his paycheck, serve and obey her. He is owned and her property, existing only to amuse and please her. She will do anything and everything in her power to make that happen, there is no other way of life, and nothing more important than keeping her sissy bitch in his place. She will never let anything get in the way of her belief, her desires, and the femdom lifestyle. She will never return to the social norm of mutual respect, and equality of conventional marriage. This is not the natural way, it is an illusion conspired by small dick men trying to control sex with women and keep them powerless. She will never go back to the short, dull, chore of unsatisfying sex, as she knows SEX is for women's pleasure, given only to endowed males, worthy of her pleasure. Her sissy bitch is not meant for sex, he doesn't even deserve sexual pleasure of any kind, in fact he wasn't meant to have anything to do with her pussy, and deserves to be locked in chastity permanently. Her marriage is that of a Mistress/Dominatrix and a submissive sissy bitch, a marriage of female dominance and superiority, and her devoted obedient sissy bitch. She desires and wants nothing more than a real man to fulfill her sexually and a sexless submissive sissy bitch to serve and obey her.
She wants a marriage that better suits her, one of her making, her choices, and her decisions. One that sets the natural order of the domesticated male and superior female, that has no concern for his feelings, thoughts, wants, or needs. She makes the rules and enforces them with strict discipline and harsh punishments. She must be dominant, aggressive, sadistic, cruel, and ruthless, she must be feared! She will not be questioned or disrespected and she will not allow disobedience. She will not accept anything less than complete submission. She has had a taste of power, how life is meant to be, with the natural placement of Female dominance and authority, and a sissy bitch on his knees worshiping her, cleaning up after her, serving and obeying her. She has experienced excitement, passion, with the thrill of unbelievable sex, and powerful orgasms from real men with the servitude and obedience of her devoted submissive sissy bitch. She indulges the freedom to go and do as she pleases with no questioning or explaining. She is the Dominatrix, a woman that loves the power, embraces it, and uses it to make her life better. She is not shy, timid, or embarrassed about who she is, what she wants, or what she does to achieve it. She is proud to be a Dominatrix, a women of dominance and power, a mistress ! She has all the power as she is the essence of sex and pleasure and knows sex was meant for her pleasure. She has the power of her mind and body to control and command her sissy bitch. She will be relentless, take complete control over her submissive, his body but especially his mind. She wants him to know he is powerless to resist, that he was meant to serve and obey her. He has no choice as this is his natural place, this is a gift from her, a privilege to be on his knees serving and obeying his mistress. She is divine, erotic, captivating, sexy and the beauty that is female, his Mistress.
My mentor
-Mistress Annabelle-
2008
2008
As a Mistress, you must fully live the femdom lifestyle IT CAN NOT BE PART TIME. It has to be second nature to you, constantly think about it and always in the back of your mind with every decision made to reflect it. You have to think and act like a mistress, it is the way you carry yourself that shows your power, this includes your attitude, dress, actions, and especially how you speak to your bitch. A mistress demands, she speaks with authority in a firm voice. She dresses sexy at all times and most of the time she wears a DOMINATRIX outfit when training. You must embrace your power and It must be lived 24/7/365, this is not a suggestion, it is vital, a must and the only way to succeed, anything less and it will fail. As a Mistress you are no longer a wife and equal partner, you must be the the Mistress at all times, there will be no question or doubt that you rule, no confusion that you are the authority and in complete control. You don't have a husband, you have a submissive sissy bitch, so start treating him the way you should be. You must be very strict and aggressively dominant to rule and force his respect and obedience of your authority. You must be sadistic, mean, and cruel to force his submission. You must emasculate, degrade, and humiliate him constantly and punish severely for his disobedience. He must respect you as his mistress and fear you, he must fear repercussions of disobedience.
As a Mistress, it is your rightful place and your responsibility to do what you want, to spoil yourself, to date and fuck whomever, and to be worshiped as a Mistress by your sissy bitch. If you are not doing all of these things, then you are not doing what you need to do, and you are not indulging in the euphoric and blissful life of a dominatrix. You are not being the Dominant that you must be in order to succeed. It is also your responsibility to be very aggressive, ruthless, and humiliating as well as make the rules, and enforce them with severe punishments. It's your responsibility to keep your sissy bitch in the correct atmosphere, to always treat him as a sissy bitch and keep him in his place no matter whos around. You deserve to have the hottest, erotic sex and mind blowing pleasure and orgasms, plus have a devoted, obedient sissy bitch to serve and obey you, to clean up after you, do the chores of the house, and to hand over his pay for the privilege of serving you his mistress. This is how it should be, how its meant to be, and how you want it. You will teach him this, and teach him it is a privilege to serve and obey you, that his true and proper place is serving, obeying and worshiping you always. You must do what ever it takes to make it happen, I mean anything! Be the Mistress you should be, use the power and let out the cruel, sadistic, Dominatrix inside you out!
A Mistress will not accept anything less than complete submission and obedience. However its not just going to happen because you put on a leather Dominatrix outfit and shout orders. This type of commitment takes a very strict Dominatrix, strict training, extreme humiliation, strict discipline and severe punishments on your part. PLEASE read that again, and again if you need to because if you believe nothing else,believe that!!!! You are training your pussy whipped male to be your bitch, but not just any bitch, your perfect sissy bitch, to serve and obey you properly and follow your rules, beg to be on his knees and worship you properly. You must understand that he has been biologically and socially programmed to want, need, and get pussy. You probably even gave it up anytime he demanded it, you gave him pleasure he did not earn and definitely didn't deserve, and got nothing or very little pleasure out of it. Not to mention everything else that is the flawed married male, like laziness, selfish, thinks he is king of the castle and makes the rules, or that he wasn't meant to do house work. Meaning you have been married for however many years prior to taking control? This is all wrong and bad mental conditioning, so you must correct his thinking of the male monch bullshit that he gets pussy anytime he needs it, or that he even deserves pussy at all. As well as his thinking that he's the boss and doesn't have to do house work. It's already deeply rooted in his simple mind that he owns your pussy and it's his right to have it when he wants it, rather your pleased sexually or not. So it's not as simple as denying him pussy, getting him horny, saying a few humiliating comments, and fucking his asshole then calling it a day. It requires you to take total and full control and not just during training, it must be 100 percent of the time, even in public and you will reprogram his mind to the proper way of thinking. As i've said, this requires you to be very strict, aggressive, cruel and dominant at all times, again not just in the bedroom!!!! You will have to be sadistic and very cruel and do things that you never thought you could do or probably never even thought about doing. You absolutely must treat him as a sissy bitch full time, and again, not just when you have the time, or it suits you, ALWAYS 24/7. You will need to put in the time to train him the correct way to extract the sissy bitch you want him to be and that you deserve. Think about that for a minute, what is it that you really want, what do you really desire? Don't you think you deserve to be pampered and obeyed, worshiped as his mistress, and paid for that privilege including the most erotic pleasurable sex you've ever had??? You should not just know that you truly deserve a submissive sissy bitch to obey you, you should believe it and make it happen. It is your right and your natural place to rule over your sissy bitch and be as mean and cruel to him as you can be. He will not only love you for it, he will be happier than he ever knew he could be, all you have to do is train him and re-programme him to the way you want him to be. You are female, superior in every way, you deserve a sissy bitch to cater to you, to clean up after you, to pay your bills, to serve and obey you without hesitation or back talk and he should beg for the privilege to do so. He should get nothing and never expect anything for the privilege of taking his rightful place kneeling at your feet. The amount of time you put in depends on how hard you train, how strict and cruel you are, how much you humiliate, and how well you discipline and punish. Obviously, the more strict and harder you are on him as described through out this post, the faster the training time (2-3 months). Think about what you want, what you deserve, how bad you want it, then make it happen with no excuses, because it really is as easy as being a cruel sadistic and dominant bitch 24/7, training him to be a sissy bitch, and giving sever punishments for disobedience. His natural place is serving and obeying you, but you have to make him realize this and bring it out of him. You need to train him, YOU WILL NEED TO FORCE him into his place and this will require you to do mean and cruel things, as i've said thing you never thought you could do, didn't think about doing or maybe even embarrassed to do them. Trust me, you could never be to strict, to controlling, and especially never to sadistic, do whatever it takes to break him and train him to get what you want. You must use your mind and your body to control him. You must be cunning, ruthless, sadistic and very cruel....Experiment, try new things, and definitely try everything at least twice to put him in his place, especially if it turns you on. AGAIN being a successful Dom requires you to be sadistic, ruthless and extremely cruel, and you must punish severely and mercilessly. You must drastically humiliate him... break his will.... crush his ego... destroy his manhood... emasculate and feminize him to strip him of his masculinity. He is your sissy bitch with a fucking puny pathetic clitty and his only purpose for you is to hand over his pay, (pay for pussy and the privilege of serving) serve and obey you, PERIOD!!!! He is there for your pleasure, and your amusement, so use him to relieve stress and anger (humiliate, beat and torture him) it really does work. You must put him in his place physically and mentally, take away all his free time and privileges, strip him of everything, even what it is to be a man, and replace all these with chores, service, routines, commands and all that it is to be your submissive sissy bitch. Transform him into the perfect sissy bitch you deserve and want serving you.
You are in a Femdom relationship as mistress, and like any relationship, the success of it depends on the commitment to it and how you live it. You must be dominant AT ALL TIMES!! You can not skip on training (its a must, at least once day for at least 1 hour is acceptable), you can not be lazy or make excuses for you not doing and living as it should be. You can't lax on rules, chores, submissive positions, and you cannot threaten punishment and not follow through, it makes you look weak. You must punish severely for every rule breaking, back talking or disobedience. He needs discipline, punishments, strict domination and submissive reinforcement, he needs to fear you, see and feel your power and for you to take it very serious. Because things done to him through training like humiliation, edging, taking away his ability to masturbate via chastity, denying him pussy and orgasms, will cause chemical changes in his brain. This is natural and necessary to bring out his true submission and chemically change his thinking process to what you want. This is very powerful to him as he is unable to control it or do anything about it, he is essentially powerless, making him feel weak and submissive as the chemicals build. This is because nature has programmed him to need to ejaculate into pussy, and to need release. After a certain point of being locked in chastity without sex or an orgasm, and his hormones are building up, he will not be able to deal with it, he will eventually become mouthy, disobedient, and rebel against you. He will try everything and anything to get pussy or at least an orgasm, including fighting, crying, or down right refusing to be your bitch (DO NOT GIVE IN, DO NOT GIVE HIM EITHER!!). This will happen UNLESS you are the strict, dominant, cruel, and sadistic bitch you need to be, with extreme humiliation and severe punishments from the start. He needs forced submission, strict training, strict discipline, and extreme unyielding punishments. I promise he will rebel at some point, he will try anything to get pussy or release if you are not the strict Mistress you need to be. It must be on your mind constantly, you must live the lifestyle, be the dominatrix, become it 24/7/365!
So let's recap, you must become Mistress and sissy bitch from here out. This means you are not a couple anymore, not husband and wife, not friends and especially not equals. You have your place as his mistress and he has his as your sissy bitch servant. The love and commitment will always be there, but it will be there as its supposed to be, as Mistress and sissy bitch and it does not affect what you want, what you deserve, or your belief that you should rule and control him. It does not affect how things are meant to be and It will not affect your training of him, your punishments, or the way you live. You will not live as a couple, act as a couple, or talk and function as a couple, this is beneath you. Every thought you have, every action and decision you make, everything you do will be as HIS MISTRESS. His thoughts and actions will be of those that please you, to serve and obey you, to be your sissy bitch and you will train him that way. You must live it and keep him in the correct atmosphere so that he can thrive as the submissive sissy bitch you want and deserve. It is vital and imperative that you do not care about his feelings, his thoughts, or the pain he must endure to accept his permanent place. You will not care of his preference, his pleas, his misery or his tears. This is the way he needs it, how it must be, and what will make it easier for him to submit to you. You will not care that he is cuckolded, sexless, orgasmless, and permanently lock into chastity. You will not allow him input or questions. You will not care if he is uncomfortable, horny, bruised, angry, aggravated, upset or crying! In fact, you want it to be as hard on him as you can make it, you want it forced and for him to feel despair, but especially helpless to do anything about it, welted, bruised, and crying in order to break his will, accept his natural place and transform him into the sissy bitch you want and deserve. You want him helpless to resist, helpless to do anything about it, you want to break him and destroy his will, make him fear you, break him down to build the perfect obedient sissy bitch. When he does cry from lack of sex, edging, pain and torment, or from punishments, be more aggressive, strict and humiliating, show no mercy and explain that it will be this way from now on and he has no choice but to accept his place. He will start to accept it when he realizes he has no choice, but you must make him believe he has no choice. Once he does you will reprogram him to be the sissy bitch you want and deserve and you will see that not only will you be happier and have the best life and sex ever, he will also be extremely happy and never want to stop serving you. You will deeply satisfy him sexually in ways he never thought possible, through your sex (as it should be) through his submission to you and through the pleasure of your big cock and any cock that uses him. Soon you will shift his pussy whipped submission into a cock whipped submission. This has a greater advantage as a cuckolding Mistress with special perks.
Start using your sadistic side, embrace it, and use it to unlock your power and his deep submission. You will find that once you free your mind and body, you will get turned on, excitement, and even pleasure from punishments and making him suffer for your enjoyment. This is how a SADISTIC mistress should be; A sadistic Mistress will always wear Dominatrix outfits during training and sometimes in the house when not training for full effect. She will wear a strap-on in the same manner, and force him to suck it periodically but especially prior to fucking him with it. She will always make him beg to get the privilege of her big cock. Always make him beg for the privilege to serve his mistress and force him to acknowledge it and accept it. She will humiliate him constantly about his puny clitty and make him acknowledge he doesn't deserve sex ever. She will humiliate him about how pathetic he is to be turned on by being her sissy and begging to sever her just to get her cock. She will make him ask for permission to speak, to move, to use the restroom, to eat or drink, make him him ask permission to do anything! She will make him eat and drink on all fours, out of dog dishes in his cage (labeled BITCH) or on the floor. She will walk him with a leash around the house and make him crawl on his hands and knees at all times, but especially to fetch things. She will keep him in a dog cage as necessary, but especially when out on dates, and on times he is not permitted to see or hear sex with her boyfriend or bull, and sometimes when the boyfriend or bull sleeps over night. She will make him use kitty litter in place of the restroom (kept inside his cage) and clean it out when needed. She will stand him in the corner of every store she shops in at the mall and make him do humiliating things in public like kneeling at her feet in rest areas or food courts at the mall. She will scold or humiliate him in public, make him wear a collar in public. She will return from dates with doggie bags or take home boxes of food that wasn't ate and dump it in his dog bowl for his dinner or make him go till morning to eat. On nights he is allowed to accompany her to dinner, she will order his food and drink for him and make him wait till he is home to eat it out of the dog bowls. He will walk behind her (and boyfriend) in public with his hands behind his back, he will also open all doors for her. She will take all free time away from him, no games, no nights out with the guys, no sports, nothing but serving her. She will keep him on his knees at all times possible, even in front of her boyfriend, until she is ready to put him to bed. Sometimes she will force him to sleep on the floor. He will always sleep on the floor when her boyfriend is staying over or sleep in his cage on nights she wants privacy. She will kneel him in the corner when she wants rid of him or his wandering eyes. he must knell in the corner or on all fours - face on the floor, when she will be undressed or naked. He is never allowed to look at her face unless ordered to do so. She will force him to worship her feet legs and ass, sometimes licking her asshole to orgasm as she uses a toy OR while being fucked by her boyfriend.
She will force him to accept her boyfriend as the alpha male and serve her boyfriend on his knees. She will force him to call her boyfriend "Master or SIR" (whatever is approved by the BF). She will force him to orally pleasure the BF's cock to get it hard and ready while they make out or sometimes give a full blow job to please her boyfriend. She will cuckold him often and because the boyfriend is the alpha male (if he is into pegging your sissy) he will be forced to accept being used by the boyfriend and even finished inside of, then made to kneel over a plate and then clean up the cum after it runs out. She will use him in whatever way sexually to enhance their sex with no limits or rules to his use. She will punish him in front of her boyfriend (if the BF is okay with watching you bruise and welt his ass) then leave him tied up while they go make hot passionate love and return to force him to lick the cum in a humiliating manner. She will make him shave off all pubic hair (body hair if she desires it) make him wear panties 24/7/365, and make him wear lingerie and force him to wear maid outfits to clean. She will turn him completely sissy and force him to be used sexually. She will find him a bull or master to serve in front of her while she watches or send him off by himself while she stays the night with her boyfriend. She will find a girlfriend that will help humiliate him or help in training and use him for cleaning or whatever is needed. She will spit in his face and refuse him to clean it off or spit in his mouth. She will force him to do clean up duty in whatever way pleases her and make him clean up his own cum messes. She will smack his balls, smack his face and pull his hair at home or in public. She will make him suck dildos often, even in front of friends or her boyfriend. She will piss on his face or in his mouth and even occasionally force him to drink some of it. She will use him to lick her clean after she pisses in the bathroom, even at friends house. If he is not permitted anything to do with pussy, he must close his eyes during the entire time of cleaning up. She will place him in humiliating positions for her amusement: example-face on the floor ass in the air hold his ass spread to expose his pussy, or holding a dildo or butt plug inside his pussy. She will have a crop and cane handy at all times so she can spank his balls or ass solely for her amusement and to hear him yell or cry. This is about you using your power, being cruel and sadistic to him, to emasculate him to destroy his ego, and his masculinity. You don't want a man, you want an obedient sissy bitch to serve and obey you. You must be dominant, strict, ruthless, and cruel to your submissive bitch at all times even after he breaks, and especially after training is completed. This is a must, a requirement, this is absolute and not a request or a preference, it is the way and the life of a true Dominatrix. To be successful you will have to take your place, and forcefully put him in his. To be successful you must punish and be unyielding with it. Your rules and orders must be followed and obeyed exactly the way you want them and you must punish severely for rule breaking, disobedience and back talking. You should be feared, worshiped, and obeyed! It is the only way to get what you want, what you deserve!
I know I've gone over things again and again and there is a lot of redundancy in this post, but I need you to understand just how crucial this is and I want this to soak into your mind to help you. You must treat him as you should 24/7, keep him in the proper atmosphere, and train him properly. You must break him, be sadistic, cruel, strict and dominating as this is what works and what forces him to realize his natural place as well as yours! You must punish for disobedience, rule breaking, and back talking every time! You must not care of his thought, feeling or allow him input or say so! You can not appear weak, uncertain, or forgiving. You must train him hard as often as possible! You must flirt and go out and meet new guys at least once a week until you have a full time BF or a few sex partners or both! You must have sex at least 3 to 4 times a week and take care of yourself, do what turns you on! You can not be shy, embarrassed, or hold back what you want, what you need to say, how you need to act, or what needs done!!! A submissive male will be truly submissive to a female that takes control and is extremely dominant to him, he will be helpless and can't resist her power or authority especially if she is strict, cruel, and sadistic!!! Until part two....
