Thursday, March 13, 2014

Little bitch gets his reward




Once a month if her bitch has been a good sissy he is allowed the privilege of a little play time.
But directly after he'll have to clean up the mess and its back in the chastity....

Sunday, January 27, 2013

Power - Female Supremacy

All women have power and all women use it to some degree or another, but there's a growing percentage of us that can take it to the next level of female supremacy.  That percent of us that really knows how to use it, gets what they want and truly enjoys and embraces it. Female supremacy isn't about strength, it isn't about who's smarter, and it really isn't even about who's inferior,  its about knowing what you have, knowing your natural place and knowing how to use both to get what you want and deserve. Pussy is power, but knowledge, demeanor, and attitude are the control. Knowing how to use your pussy, your body, with your strict demeanor and attitude is the key to get what you want and deserve.

Lets talk about female power, what the power is, what gives us that power;
OK, first lets look at power as a whole....you have what every straight man needs, pussy!  Men are chemically and biologically programmed to need pussy, but they are also equally programmed to submit to power. The chemical that dictates both is produced in his balls and builds with every day of not getting pussy.  Every day that goes by that he does not get pussy, the urge and desire gets stronger and stronger. Sure he can get relief from masturbation or even a blow job, however this relief  is not the same as with pussy. Most males only get relief anywhere from 6 hrs to 1day. Where as getting relief from pussy could last any where from 3 to 4 days for most males depending on age, of course younger males may not even get relief that long. As of now no studies and very Little has been done to figure out why or how this is, but what is known is that pussy secretes certain chemicals that is absorbed through his penis that heightens the stimulation of nerve endings in a manner that only a warm pussy can give. This mixed with a certain working of pelvic muscles (the act of pleasing a pussy even if he is not successful) leading to an orgasm.  In short the act of fucking a pussy. More to come.....

Monday, December 31, 2012

Introduction to my blog (a must read)

I started this blog to inform, teach, and explain the Dominatrix/Cuckold lifestyle to women. Even if your just curious I encourage to read and take charge of your relationship. You have no idea of how great your sex life and relationship can be when you take your rightful and natural place as a dominatrix. Rather your new or veteran to the lifestyle, you can learn things from my blog. I'll teach you my trials and errors, helpful hints, solutions, attitude, aggression, and punishments. You can also communicate with me via email at herdesire@live.com for any questions or thoughts. By following my blog you will learn to be the best Dominatrix you can, and you will teach him to be the best and most submissive he can.

The cuckold dominatrix is not the way for every women,  some are just to closed minded or tied to the old ways, the "social norm" as its called. They have let society or family practice dictate their life and may be fearful of someone finding out, they may be to brain washed, or they may just enjoy what little power they have if any at all and prefer to keep it that way. However for those of you who want to break the cycle, who want more power and pleasure than you ever thought possible, then you have come to the right place. You just need to excepted your calling, demand and take your natural place at the top!

All my chapters are important and helpful, but some of them you must read and follow in order to achieve your goals. I will mark the must read chapters with these stars **. You will need to let go of your fears, embrace your new role and let out your female sexuality. Be the bitch he needs you to be. You must be aggressive, firm and controlling but above all, humiliate and degrade him down to his level, his place of servitude. This will bring out his natural submissive trait and he will be yours to command. He needs you to be his DOM, he needs you to control him and break his will, he needs you to make him fear you and make him serve you the way you desidre, he needs you to force him, humiliate him, be degrading and strict on him, he needs you to talk and treat him like the pussy whipped slave he really is inside, he needs you to be the best DOM you can in every aspect, even if he doesn't know that he needs it, even if he doesn't know he wants it, even if he doesn't know its his natural place....He eventually will! All men are trainable, and all straight men want what you have, so start using this to your advantage.

As you read through this blog, take notes or what ever you need to do to learn this. Make the step in the right direction to not only better your life but his as well. You will reap the rewards for it and he will be happy serving you.

Also, as you read to the end of a topic you may find that it just ends or lacks an ending, this is because I'm constantly updating my blog, refining it and making it better for you women who want to be the best mistress you can be, or its a blog I started when I had free time and are yet to finish it (just bare with me). Dates and times on here are days and times that I started that particular topic but as I said I'm constantly updating things and moving things around so you may read a date of start from 2 yrs ago but I could have just changed it 2 weeks ago...Check back constantly to remain up to date on events, post and news.
If you have questions, comments, or want to discuss things more in depth about a particular topic, again please feel free to email me at herdesire@live.com.

Remember you hold the key to your success, you dictate your future, and you have the power! Except nothing but his complete obedience, his submission to your will. What you put into it, you get out...So if you want 110 percent from him put 110 percent into training him the way you want him!

Enjoy....

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

**How to manipulate his penis with out orgasm


 

 

Penile stimulation

The most important components of the physical erogenous zone and maxium stimulation of the penis are the sensations from the frenulum band, and rim of the head. These spots are not just useful for building arousal with your pussy slave but also good to use during foreplay with your lover or boyfriend. These structures each have their own feeling, and each contributes in its own way to the man's total sensitisation of pleasure and/or sexual build up. When training or building arousal of your PS It must be emphasized that emotional and mental excitement is an extremely important component of sexual control, and intensifies the man's perception of physical sensations  from his penis...... Thus the importance of verbal humiliation and describing in vivid detail about your long nights of fucking with your boyfriend or lover. While you are stroking and licking his over grown clit, you should be telling him all details so as to paint a picture in his mind of how much you enjoyed sex with your boyfriend and exactly how he pleased you. This does also serve another function, it helps to persuade his mind and thoughts to help prove that his tiny prick does not please you and that you really do prefer a real cock. When you pleasure your boyfriend or lover the same special attention should be given to his cock with the difference being that you will also mix this technique in while giving him a normal blow job. 

About the cock;
  • The rim of the head contains sensory receptors called Meissner corpuscles. research shows that these nerves, similar to nerve endings in the fingertips, are there to provide pleasure, as well as fine sensory perception. This seems to help a man to enjoy sex longer without ejaculating prematurely, because he can more easily tell when he is approaching the threshold of orgasm.
  • The male cock has 4000 nerve endings mostly located in the yellow and red areas of the picture below, while the clitoris alone has over 8000. The vagina also contains around 4000 nerve endings and they are mainly located at the vaginal opening to a depth of 1/3 of its total depth, thus the reason woman prefer bigger thickness/girth over length.
  • Thus the importance of pleasuring the rim from time to time during foreplay. 
  • Stimulation of the frenulum and ridged band results in intense pleasurable feelings during arousal. The ridged band consists of a number of "ridges", described by Dr. John Taylor in his recent article. Sensations from these structures during oral, intercourse, or masturbation are thought to be the primary trigger of orgasm in the intact male.
  • We believe that stimulation of the Frenulum, head, and ridge/rim is most significant in the later stages of sexual intercourse, when penetration is deepest and the nerve endings in the shaft come into play bringing sensation at its highest. Sensations from the all the glans contribute to the quality of the sensual experience and more easily triggers orgasm. This is why its very important that only the head can be inserted into the mouth or licking of the head is practiced when building or maintaining arousal of your PS.  
The Technique; Use the picture below to refer to when reading.
To start get his cock hard (remember that if it is your PS not to stick more than the head into your mouth and even keep that to a minimum). Once his cock is hard you will begin to lick his Frenulum bottom to top and vise versa. You should start to notice his cock harden even harder after a few minutes. Now its time to expand the licking from the bottom of his urinary opening to the bottom of the Frenulum and the rim from the side of his cock to where it meets the Frenulum left and right. After a few minutes and some serious signs of enjoyment from him its time to expand and add using your fingers. Do this by taking your pointer and middle finger(you can also use your index finger and thumb if it feels more comfortable to you) in a V shape then straddle your fingers over his cock in a position that both the left and right sides of his rim are between your fingers and then move them up and down while licking the bottom of the frenulum to the bottom of the urinary opening. After a few minutes of this he should be melting in your hands! Once you see he is good and worked up, use your finger to rub these area's especially the underside of the rim and rim also the Frenulum. Remember that if you are doing this to your lover or boyfriend you will also want to mix inserting his cock into your mouth

    Penis Shaft

    The shaft of the penis is the part that extends out of the body to the rim of the head. When flaccid (no erect) the skin on the shaft of the penis will be loose and stretchy. It also contains nerve endings that help males feels penetration. These nerve endings help trigger a satisfaction feeling in the brain when the stimulation of the shaft is combined with frenulum and rim stimulation. Again the reason why we only stimulate the head and frenulum of our PS. However, using the same techniques with shaft sensation on your Boyfriend/lover will drive him crazy. 

    Glans Penis

    The head of the penis is called the glans, just below the tip of the urethral opening (where both urine and semen come out). The glans is a highly sensitive area, with many nerve endings. The glans is considered to be fairly similar in function to the clitoris with far fewer nerve endings.

    Frenulum

    The frenulum is the indentation on the underside of the penis where the glans meets the shaft and run up to the urethral opening. The frenulum is an area of great sensitivity, and when stimulated correctly can have a man on the edge for hours begging to be released, especially when using the rim and head stimulation jointly. While it has far less nerves than that of a womans clit and does not give as great of a sensation, it does trigger the part of a mans brain to release chemicals to put him in a trans like state.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

**Sissy-Bitch training

This is the ultimate kind of training, it takes dedication and a serious commitment to domination and truly wanting your PS to serve and obey you. Bitch training is usually associated with the act of 24/7 chastity and complete loss of all pussy privileges. Defined as; He is locked in his chastity near permanently only released for cleaning or training, and he is no longer permitted to have anything to do with pussy except for cleaning duty. This includes smell, touch, taste, or seeing it (even sometimes in panties).

OK, depending on where you are in training you might even say "Training your sissy bitch" to be just that, YOUR SISSY BITCH! This sort of training involves you pushing his limits and submission even further. As your BITCH, he would be trained to take your strap-on in the ass, maybe lick your ass while you get fucked and do clean up duty on you after you get fucked, HOWEVER as your sissy bitch he would be trained to; fluff your lover for you and re-fluff after he cums for rounds 2, 3 so on, insert his cock for you, give your lover a blow job on the days in the month you can't play, Clean up duty on both of you, Fucked in the ass by your lover (condoms always), used in in ways to help you and your lover achieve maxium pleasure during sex (not just licking your ass but licking your feet, sucking your lovers balls while you ride him, licking your clit as you mount him 69 style and your lover fucks you dogie style, your lover switches from fucking your pussy to fucking him in the mouth, or what ever humiliating ways you can come up with) Also made to wear sissy clothes: panties, stockings, skirts, dresses or what ever you decide, maybe even made to put a kotex in his ass on the days of the month you need one, even made to wear makeup. It all comes down to what turns you on and if your unsure, I would try different things.

Where do you start? Well first you going to need to get him far enough along in training (horniness level maintained fairly high and disciplined good enough to not back talk or question your orders) that he excepts this. He should be horny enough to except this to get a reward, yet to scared not to obey the orders to do what you command., Then your going to need to pick out a good name for him, or just simply call him bitch. At this point its time to start looking for a suitable lover that can fit the bull position, or learn to be a bull. He should be open minded, or maybe even Bi/ bi-curious, so as to not be afraid to be serviced by your Bitch. He would also be OK with/or even  turned on by being your Bithces "MASTER" thus ordering him to serve you and or him in what ever ways the two of you see fit. For the record and in case its entered your mind, this act and training does not make either of them gay, but more shows that they are comfortable with their sexuality, or open to explore fantasy if even for the sake of the only person that matters in this trio, YOU! A true Gay person would only desire the same sex partner for relationship or fun, and crave that atmosphere.

 Once you have the lover/'s picked out you would then discuss your plans/scenarios that you would like to take place, go over the do's and don'ts, answer and ask any questions you have. Don't be shy, or afraid to do what you want, what you want done or need to, all men are turned on by a women in control, especially if she flaunts it and is sexy about it. But if your not the take charge type of girl you should be or slowly developing the true you, then take the first time slow. Some of this has been gone over in other topics, and as always explore, have fun, and do what pleases you!

Enjoy!

Sunday, December 25, 2011

**From a Bulls/Lovers point of view

My point of view.... Well let me be clear here, I take my position in a cuckold relationship serious. I'm there for a reason, and that reason is very clear to all involved. My job is to make sure that the mistress is pleased sexually but also to use, help humiliate, and put her pussy slave in his proper place. My involvement really helps in his submission to his mistress, it helps break his will and ego. Once he sees his mistress is getting bigger, better cock, having far better orgasms and realizes that she prefers to fuck me not his little cock....Its a shock to his manhood. But also that she is willing to let me use him like a sissy bitch shows that she is a true dominatrix and demands his submission. I enjoy using her pussy slave, and i really enjoy how much it turns her on watching me use him. I believe that women are, and should be very powerful and sexually active creatures. I know she is capable of great pleasure, pleasure that far exceeds that of mine or any other male. I know how to please her and bring out her inner power, the true dominatrix she needs to be. No I'm not huge in the cock department but I'm above average, 7 inches and fairly thick. Plenty big enough to please her pussy the proper way and far bigger than her pussy slave, and I know how to use it. I also know how to talk to her, I know how to take control of her body and I know what turns her on. I know how she wants me to treat her pussy slave and I know how to use him properly to get both her and I excited and pleased.

I expect him to submit to me just as he does his mistress. He may find it hard at first, and he will definitely find it hard to take my cock into his mouth, but he will eventually submit to his place as my bitch. I want him to know I'm his master and while I don't own him, I will control him while I'm there. He is to knell at my feet and obey me just as he would her. He is to address me as master (some bulls go by SIR) and when he is ordered to suck my cock by his mistress or myself he is to submit to that command fully and show his submission by sucking my cock to his best ability. He is to deep throat it and suck it hard, I want to hear him gag and I want to see slobber dripping from his mouth. When His mistress wants me to fuck him in the ass (I always wear protection) He is to be tied down bent over across the bed or dogie style with his hands between his legs and cuffed to his ankles. When I know I'm going to fuck him after I'm done pleasing his mistress, I tell him that he is to show his submission while I'm fucking her by kneeling facing away from the bed, bend over with his face to the floor, reach back with his arms and spread his pussy (ass cheeks) open and stay that way till I'm done fucking his mistress. Before or after he gets tied down in his place to get fucked, he is ordered to suck my cock hard. As I'm behind him putting on my condom, I tell him to beg me to fuck him like the bitch he is. While I fuck him I take the time to slap his ass and also tell him I want to hear him scream and moan like the bitch he is. I also find it amusing to have him suck his mistresses dildo while I fuck his tight little pussy. Then after I've come but before he is let up, I pull the condom off and have him suck me clean. In case your wondering, "no" he does not get off and he always wears his chastity while he's taking my cock deep inside his pussy. Another humiliating act that really turns on his mistress is having him suck my cock while she fucks him with her strap on or smacking/paddling his ass and balls while he sucks me just prior to her fucking him.

OUR FIRST PLAY
From the first meeting I lean what she wants, and her expectations. I learn what turns her on and what pleases her, as well as the limits of both her and her pussy slave. Then on our first secession I meet the pussy slave, I go a little easy on him but not to easy. I give her what she needs, what she wants and craves.....Real orgasms, orgasms her pussy slave could never give and the thrill of watching her bitch serve me. I'm greeted at the door by a very seductive and sexy dressed mistress, she is eager to fuck and watch her bitch serve me. I come through the door and as we walk to the family room she yells for her bitch. No sooner than we sit down her naked(except for his chastity) bitch is kneeling at her feet. In a firm and strict voice she says, "Go get us a drink!". He quickly retrieves us a beer and again is kneeling in his place. She begins to humiliate him by telling him shes going to get pleased by a real mans cock and that he knows whats expected of him. I begin to rub her breast and humiliate him myself, telling him I'm going to please her the way she deserves, and that from now on he's going to serve me when I'm over. With in seconds I'm making out with her and fingering her pussy and on my way down on her.

After a few minutes she's good and wet, and shouting out to her bitch to go take his place in the bedroom.  We move up to the bed room and she puts his blindfold on and cuffs his hand behind his back. She then humiliates him as I start undressing her and myself. With him on his knees, he is perfect height to suck my cock, and she doesn't hesitate to grab his chain and pull him over to my cock while saying, "Suck his fucking cock and make sure you get it really hard and ready to fuck me since your tiny cock can't please me"! Then she grabs the back of his head and guides it to my cock and pushes his mouth onto my cock. As he is sucking my cock we are kissing and I'm rubbing her breast and fingering her pussy. After a few minutes she starts pushing the back of his head hard on my cock and shouts," Suck that fucking cock and let me hear you gag!" then she takes a crop off the wall and starts smacking his ass. Now he's really sucking my cock and its super hard! She pulls his chain and tells him to listen to how a real cock can make her scream. I go to town sucking her pussy, slide on my condom and have him put my cock into her pussy. She starts moaning as I slide it in, and with in a few minutes she is screaming from her first orgasm. After she has cum a few times I move from missionary position to her riding me and she pulls his chain over to have the bitch insert my cock and orders him to lick her ass. After a few orgasms I move him to the bed laying on his back head hanging over the bed. I slide my cock into his mouth and begin to fuck it and she rubs his balls. Then I grab her and pull her over him 69 position and tell him to put my cock in. As I start to fuck her dogie she tells him to lick her clit. Her orgasms build fast, and I can tell she is really turned on by all this. After several orgasms I cum deep inside her. She pulls her pussy just over his face and humiliate him about how well she was pleased, tells him its my pussy from now on and orders him to clean out the mess.
After she feels that he's properly cleaned up the mess, she gets a robe on, removes is blindfold, cuffs, and tells him to get us drinks. He promptly returns with drinks and takes his place. She spends the next 10 to 15 minutes humiliating him and tells him to get use to this because this is the way its going to be from now on. She then puts back on his blindfold but no cuffs and removes the robe. By now I'm on my back on the bed and she orders him to suck me hard again, at the same time she climbs on my face 69 position so I can lick her pussy and she can watch her bitch suck my cock. once she sees that I'm rock hard again she spins around and starts riding my cock push him out of the way and ordering him to the corner to knell. After another 40 minutes of fucking I cum and again he is order over for clean up duty. After he's done his job we get dressed and head down stairs and he is ordered to clean up the room and take his place by the bed to wait for her return. We go to talk a bit in the family room and discuss the next nights events. I tell her I'm eager to take the roll of his master and her bull/lover and she agrees to give me ownership of her pussy (when she's not fucking another lover) and control of her bitch.

From then on when I come over, I'm not easy about using him or ordering him around. I put him in his place and she loves every bit of it!   

Saturday, July 9, 2011

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I came across this video, and this site. They seem to have some good ameture vid's
check this one out and search the archives they have.

I really love how this mistress is in charge and knows how to put her pussy slave to good use and
in his proper place!

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