Tuesday, August 2, 2016

Submissive Sexual Control - how it works

                      The technical reasoning 


A special thanks to Susan Anderson for sharing this with us. Susan works for one of the worlds leading research facilities and specializes in sexual behavior and psychology. she has a PhD in psychology and a masters in neuroscience and biomedical research.  

Sexual Control is using the brain's own chemicals to take control and modify actions, behavior, feelings, and thoughts of the male. This process is called mental subjugation and is achieved by building and maintaining a high arousal state for a repeated, extensive amount of time causing the over production and build up of neurochemicals through out the brain. This forces the break down of specific brain functions associated with thought, behavior, and reasoning as well as other parts of the brain that control emotions and muscle control. This action puts the male into a submissive, trance or hypnotic state which makes him amenable and susceptible to reconditioning and control. In this state he is unable to reason, think for himself, or resist commands and training making him submissive. There are several levels of this trance like state ranging from low to completely hypnotic depending on Time and the level of build up in the brain. The Neurochemicals produced also control and activate key parts of the brain like the pleasure circuit. This circuit is activated by stimulating erogenous zones/nerve endings on the head of the penis, anus and prostate. When active the pleasure circuit releases dopamine, another neurochemical (this is the brains own erotic feel good drug, it is addictive) and the increased production puts the circuit in overdrive. Dopamine activates the pleasure center of the brain called the nucleus accumbens which rewards you for having sex. Through sex or the continued stimulation of the correct erogenous zone, orgasm is achieved giving the release of Endorphin's, Oxycontin, Dopamine, Adrenaline, and other chemicals that are associated with climax. For this reason it is highly recommended only the head of the penis and anal/prostate stimulation is given. The nucleus accumbens is also responsible for addictive things like cigarettes and drugs. This is also the section of the brain which remembers pleasure and causes you to repeat pleasurable things (like having sex). This is why strict disciplined training is so important as you will chemically imprint on his brain that serving and obey you, is satisfying to him thus changing what he use to derive his pleasure from to what pleases you. Which is why you may see his penis get an erection watching you have sex, being humiliated, by doing chores or obeying you.

 During this process and at the same time as building the arousal state, the Dominatrix will refocus his attention and desires towards obeying and serving her as well as how he perceives pleasure (This is the actual ongoing training part). This gives the Dom the ability to implement her rules, control and commands making her will his own and her pleasure his only priority. This entire process involves *edging* the repeated prolonged genital, anal, and prostate stimulation. The stimulation is done by building and keeping/maintaining him *on edge* to just before the point the orgasm occurs. This edging procedure, done daily over weeks and months is what builds up the neurochemicals and testosterone. The excessive testosterone levels are what drive the desperate need for release/orgasm and helps bring out the submissive side of the male. The inability to release/orgasm forces the brain to over react and release more neurochemicls that control the emotional part of the brain which only deepens his submissiveness. After approximately 3 weeks to a month (varies by male) of this process the male may lose emotional control, BEG and CRY for release. This means the process is working,  DO NOT give in, humiliate and laugh at him and tell him to get use to it. The longer the stimulation of the male gentiles and the longer the time at which its done, the more the buildup and retention of the neurochemicals. This build up combined with verbal and physical reconditioning and enforcement of desirable behavior, (training) forces the male to be at a submissive and controllable state. Training is reinforced with severe punishments to the point where the entire process has completely reconditioned and reprogrammed the male to the desired submissive state. This procedure requires uninterrupted and consecutive training days/weeks/months and strict guidelines which include complete loss of orgasm, restricted penis stimulation (head only), bondage, and the use of a chastity device. The requirements call for a dedicated, demanding, strict Dom and the use of the punishment and reward system to distinguish between acceptable and non-acceptable behavior and actions. Rewards never include sex and vary by Dom depending on her type of training, but can include seeing, licking or smelling pussy, watching the Dom have sex, and free time. Any deterring from the course including Drama/arguments will cause the release of counter acting neurochemicls greatly diminishing the submissive state. this will cause undesired effects and delays in training time and could ultimately cause failure of the process. This is why daily training, being a very strict dom, and extreme punishments are so vital for mental and physical change of the male.

After about 5 days of *edging* the male begins to be chemically hypnotized by the prolonged build up and surge of neurochemicals. After a few weeks to a month of correct stimulation and training the male will begin to experience mental loss of control or helplessness and a deeper hypnotic state. This is greatly expedited by verbal (small penis and his bigger penis) and physical (watching you have sex) humiliation. This is mostly because the orbitofrontal cortex section of the brain is shutting down. This is the front section of the brain that controls thought, behavior, and reasoning. This section of the brain can be clouded because of extreme libido/horniness making him easily manipulated or even controlled, this is how trained sexually seductive women (like strippers) procure money from men, however it normally only shuts down during orgasm. It is the prolonged, extreme build up of the right neurochemicales that force the cortex to shut down, with out orgasm. This is the highest level of trance like- hypnotic state he will achieve. At this point he will have feelings that he is week, unable to control himself or the situation, submissive and unable to resist anything you say or command. He simply can't at this point, and he will agree to anything you say or submit to anything commanded of him, anything......Including questions you may ask with out the inability to lie and will accept your control over him as the way it should be. At this point you will create his new purpose to you and tell him what he is and how he will be, you will tell him whats expected of him and his proper place.  This is the point you want to build him to daily and keep him there for as long as possible. At least an hour after build up and for a minimum of 3 months or until you see he has completely been broken and submitted fully to anything and every thing you say or command. Everything you train him for is eventually what he will want, he will believe that his natural place is serving and obeying you. He will want nothing else as it will feel natural and pleasing to him. He will remain sexually loyal to you, with out the ability to cheat, in fact he will have trouble getting/keeping an erection with out your participation/interaction. His sexual fantasies and pleasure will revolve around what pleases you and his happiness will rely on serving and obey you.

As mentioned, it is the flood and build up of neurochemicals that force parts of the brain to over load and stop functioning or go into over drive giving you the ability to train him. This however is not long term and only happens after the build up occurs daily and only after the build up period has reached around 5 days. The chemicals will steadily build as long as the above mentioned process is done (min one hour) daily or at least within 36 hours of the last training time. Any longer than that, the build up will steadily decline. When done properly, with time, and with strict training, the level of build up will continue till he is unable to handle the euphoric feeling and lack of release, causing him to completely accept his submission and your authority over him. After this point you may gradually reduce your training days to at least 2-3 days per week and if you desire reduce or stop contact with his penis and permanently chaste him. Like any drug it will wear off in time so it is vital that you remain strict, demanding, and always punish severely to reinforce the training from now on. It is also highly recommended that before, during, and after daily training, you keep him focused on his submission, purpose, rules, and chores with out interference (like unneeded communication, arguments, or stress). Keeping the levels high as possible day in and day out for months will make him submissive and chemically rewire his thoughts and reasoning process to the way you train him. With proper training and punishments he will get aroused by doing his chores and obeying you and it is this that will help keep the cycle going after training is over. During and especially after training you must keep his sexual energy and libido high to maintain a certain level of neurochemicls. This is easily achieved by simply being sexy, acting your part, enforcing rules, humiliating, and being sexually promiscuous/slutty

*Caution* at no point do you want to allow your male release through his penis. Release/orgasm with his penis releases another neurochemical called Prolactin, which relieves sexual arousal and loss of interest and libido. This greatly diminishes submissiveness and the build up of the key chemicals that control his thoughts and behavior. Thus you should watch closely for any signs of ejaculating leading to orgasm. It is near impossible for an orgasm to come from anal/prostate play or pegging alone with out penis stimulation. It is also harder but not impossible to reach orgasm through the stimulation of the penis head alone. However if stimulated together, the chance of orgasm is more likely. To be safe watch closely and limit stimulating both at the same time. The male actually reaches higher levels of pleasure through anal and prostate play which is possible because the the greater number of nerve endings and nerve transmitters to the brain. This makes it possible for increased submissiveness and quicker build up time.  Prostate milking the male is recommended 2-3 times per month to reduce the back up of seminal fluid into the bladder and other heath risks. This does lower the testosterone level for a short period of time lowering the libido mildly, but it is quickly recovered during the next training session. However it does prevent the loss of neurochemicls which is longer and harder to recover and greatly reduces the possibility of orgasm during stimulation of the penis. Many Dominatrix use the milking in a humiliating way and sexually humiliate the male during the process. This is further accomplished by demanding he lick and consume the discharged fluid.

This process has been studied and documented by myself and a small group of 4 female colleagues for over 5 years using a selected group of 340 males and 40 females. The males came from various work back grounds and education levels. The females were not asked, but were however sexually active with one or more partners. The group consisted of married couples, dating couples, and singles. We used structural magnetic resonance imaging, various MRI's, electroencephalography, and various techniques including ATLUM, and Brainbow combined with constant supervision. The results were conclusive and varied slightly from male to male with each controlled group but the facts and findings were the same across the groups; Men can be sexually and physically controlled and reprogrammed. This backs our previous study of female remodification of chosen mates where females subconsciously or knowingly, choose mates they can physically and mentally change/adapt to their preference. Furthermore during these test and procedures we found that the men in the sexual control group were sexually satisfied and excitable with only the one female paired with them versus multipile, especially ones that were very strict, controlling, harsher punishments. At the same time the women were more blissful with a higher libido in groups that women used sexual control. Also they were quite more euphoric and erotic wanting sex more often when pared with multiple sex partners other than their mate.                   





Submissive Sexual Control - how it works

                      The technical reasoning 


A special thanks to Susan Anderson for sharing this with us. Susan works for one of the worlds leading research facilities and specializes in sexual behavior and psychology. she has a PhD in psychology and a masters in neuroscience and biomedical research.  

Sexual Control is using the brain's own chemicals to take control and modify actions, behavior, feelings, and thoughts of the male. This process is called mental subjugation and is achieved by building and maintaining a high arousal state for a repeated, extensive amount of time causing the over production and build up of neurochemicals through out the brain. This forces the break down of specific brain functions associated with thought, behavior, and reasoning as well as other parts of the brain that control emotions and muscle control. This action puts the male into a submissive, trance or hypnotic state which makes him amenable and susceptible to reconditioning and control. In this state he is unable to reason, think for himself, or resist commands and training making him submissive. There are several levels of this trance like state ranging from low to completely hypnotic depending on Time and the level of build up in the brain. The Neurochemicals produced also control and activate key parts of the brain like the pleasure circuit. This circuit is activated by stimulating erogenous zones/nerve endings on the head of the penis, anus and prostate. When active the pleasure circuit releases dopamine, another neurochemical (this is the brains own erotic feel good drug, it is addictive) and the increased production puts the circuit in overdrive. Dopamine activates the pleasure center of the brain called the nucleus accumbens which rewards you for having sex. Through sex or the continued stimulation of the correct erogenous zone, orgasm is achieved giving the release of Endorphin's, Oxycontin, Dopamine, Adrenaline, and other chemicals that are associated with climax. For this reason it is highly recommended only the head of the penis and anal/prostate stimulation is given. The nucleus accumbens is also responsible for addictive things like cigarettes and drugs. This is also the section of the brain which remembers pleasure and causes you to repeat pleasurable things (like having sex). This is why strict disciplined training is so important as you will chemically imprint on his brain that serving and obey you, is satisfying to him thus changing what he use to derive his pleasure from to what pleases you. Which is why you may see his penis get an erection watching you have sex, being humiliated, by doing chores or obeying you.

 During this process and at the same time as building the arousal state, the Dominatrix will refocus his attention and desires towards obeying and serving her as well as how he perceives pleasure (This is the actual ongoing training part). This gives the Dom the ability to implement her rules, control and commands making her will his own and her pleasure his only priority. This entire process involves *edging* the repeated prolonged genital, anal, and prostate stimulation. The stimulation is done by building and keeping/maintaining him *on edge* to just before the point the orgasm occurs. This edging procedure, done daily over weeks and months is what builds up the neurochemicals and testosterone. The excessive testosterone levels are what drive the desperate need for release/orgasm and helps bring out the submissive side of the male. The inability to release/orgasm forces the brain to over react and release more neurochemicls that control the emotional part of the brain which only deepens his submissiveness. After approximately 3 weeks to a month (varies by male) of this process the male may lose emotional control, BEG and CRY for release. This means the process is working,  DO NOT give in, humiliate and laugh at him and tell him to get use to it. The longer the stimulation of the male gentiles and the longer the time at which its done, the more the buildup and retention of the neurochemicals. This build up combined with verbal and physical reconditioning and enforcement of desirable behavior, (training) forces the male to be at a submissive and controllable state. Training is reinforced with severe punishments to the point where the entire process has completely reconditioned and reprogrammed the male to the desired submissive state. This procedure requires uninterrupted and consecutive training days/weeks/months and strict guidelines which include complete loss of orgasm, restricted penis stimulation (head only), bondage, and the use of a chastity device. The requirements call for a dedicated, demanding, strict Dom and the use of the punishment and reward system to distinguish between acceptable and non-acceptable behavior and actions. Rewards never include sex and vary by Dom depending on her type of training, but can include seeing, licking or smelling pussy, watching the Dom have sex, and free time. Any deterring from the course including Drama/arguments will cause the release of counter acting neurochemicls greatly diminishing the submissive state. this will cause undesired effects and delays in training time and could ultimately cause failure of the process. This is why daily training, being a very strict dom, and extreme punishments are so vital for mental and physical change of the male.

After about 5 days of *edging* the male begins to be chemically hypnotized by the prolonged build up and surge of neurochemicals. After a few weeks to a month of correct stimulation and training the male will begin to experience mental loss of control or helplessness and a deeper hypnotic state. This is greatly expedited by verbal (small penis and his bigger penis) and physical (watching you have sex) humiliation. This is mostly because the orbitofrontal cortex section of the brain is shutting down. This is the front section of the brain that controls thought, behavior, and reasoning. This section of the brain can be clouded because of extreme libido/horniness making him easily manipulated or even controlled, this is how trained sexually seductive women (like strippers) procure money from men, however it normally only shuts down during orgasm. It is the prolonged, extreme build up of the right neurochemicales that force the cortex to shut down, with out orgasm. This is the highest level of trance like- hypnotic state he will achieve. At this point he will have feelings that he is week, unable to control himself or the situation, submissive and unable to resist anything you say or command. He simply can't at this point, and he will agree to anything you say or submit to anything commanded of him, anything......Including questions you may ask with out the inability to lie and will accept your control over him as the way it should be. At this point you will create his new purpose to you and tell him what he is and how he will be, you will tell him whats expected of him and his proper place.  This is the point you want to build him to daily and keep him there for as long as possible. At least an hour after build up and for a minimum of 3 months or until you see he has completely been broken and submitted fully to anything and every thing you say or command. Everything you train him for is eventually what he will want, he will believe that his natural place is serving and obeying you. He will want nothing else as it will feel natural and pleasing to him. He will remain sexually loyal to you, with out the ability to cheat, in fact he will have trouble getting/keeping an erection with out your participation/interaction. His sexual fantasies and pleasure will revolve around what pleases you and his happiness will rely on serving and obey you.

As mentioned, it is the flood and build up of neurochemicals that force parts of the brain to over load and stop functioning or go into over drive giving you the ability to train him. This however is not long term and only happens after the build up occurs daily and only after the build up period has reached around 5 days. The chemicals will steadily build as long as the above mentioned process is done (min one hour) daily or at least within 36 hours of the last training time. Any longer than that, the build up will steadily decline. When done properly, with time, and with strict training, the level of build up will continue till he is unable to handle the euphoric feeling and lack of release, causing him to completely accept his submission and your authority over him. After this point you may gradually reduce your training days to at least 2-3 days per week and if you desire reduce or stop contact with his penis and permanently chaste him. Like any drug it will wear off in time so it is vital that you remain strict, demanding, and always punish severely to reinforce the training from now on. It is also highly recommended that before, during, and after daily training, you keep him focused on his submission, purpose, rules, and chores with out interference (like unneeded communication, arguments, or stress). Keeping the levels high as possible day in and day out for months will make him submissive and chemically rewire his thoughts and reasoning process to the way you train him. With proper training and punishments he will get aroused by doing his chores and obeying you and it is this that will help keep the cycle going after training is over. During and especially after training you must keep his sexual energy and libido high to maintain a certain level of neurochemicls. This is easily achieved by simply being sexy, acting your part, enforcing rules, humiliating, and being sexually promiscuous/slutty

*Caution* at no point do you want to allow your male release through his penis. Release/orgasm with his penis releases another neurochemical called Prolactin, which relieves sexual arousal and loss of interest and libido. This greatly diminishes submissiveness and the build up of the key chemicals that control his thoughts and behavior. Thus you should watch closely for any signs of ejaculating leading to orgasm. It is near impossible for an orgasm to come from anal/prostate play or pegging alone with out penis stimulation. It is also harder but not impossible to reach orgasm through the stimulation of the penis head alone. However if stimulated together, the chance of orgasm is more likely. To be safe watch closely and limit stimulating both at the same time. The male actually reaches higher levels of pleasure through anal and prostate play which is possible because the the greater number of nerve endings and nerve transmitters to the brain. This makes it possible for increased submissiveness and quicker build up time.  Prostate milking the male is recommended 2-3 times per month to reduce the back up of seminal fluid into the bladder and other heath risks. This does lower the testosterone level for a short period of time lowering the libido mildly, but it is quickly recovered during the next training session. However it does prevent the loss of neurochemicls which is longer and harder to recover and greatly reduces the possibility of orgasm during stimulation of the penis. Many Dominatrix use the milking in a humiliating way and sexually humiliate the male during the process. This is further accomplished by demanding he lick and consume the discharged fluid.

This process has been studied and documented by myself and a group of 4 female colleagues for the past 5 years using a selected group of 340 males and 40 females. The males came from various work back grounds and education levels. The females were not asked, but were however sexually active with one or more partners. The group consisted of married couples, dating couples, and singles. We used structural magnetic resonance imaging, various MRI's, electroencephalography, and various techniques including ATLUM, and Brainbow. The results were conclusive and varied slightly from male to male with each controlled group but the facts and finding were the same across the groups as described above; Men can be sexually and physically controlled. Furthermore during these test and procedures we found that the men in the sexual control group were sexually happy and excitable with only one female versus several, especially ones that were very strict, controlling, and punished. At the same time the women were more happy, lively, with a higher libido in groups that women used sexual control  have a higher libido   Specifically, males are biolligically controlled to                  





Tuesday, July 5, 2016

How to be Strict and Demanding

Words of wisdom from a good friend
"It is very crucial and vital that you are Dominant, demanding, strict, and unyielding when training, punishing and treating your slave as you should 24/7"  

"His hornyness and eagerness for you to fuck other men, commitment to serve you, and complete submission depends on you treating him like the bitch you want him to be, but also constant, strict disipline and punished severely for any rule breaking. Thats the key to getting the truly begging submissive that waits on you hand and foot, never back talks and begs you to get fucked."

Being strict and demanding is easy, you just need to have the right attitude and outlook on it. Its finding ways to do it in public or around friends/relatives that can be a challenge. So why is it so important and vital to to always be strict and demanding? Well for one it sets his place and sends a clear message to him that you are and will be in charge, the boss, and only authority. This shows you are serious and will take no bullshit or excuses from him. But the main reason is after a month or two of no pussy and restricted or no orgasms, the elevated hormones will put him in over drive and cause him to rebel and look for a reason to have sex. He may even say he doesn't want to be the submissive anymore, pick fights or argue to ruin all your hard work to get you to give in and have sex with him. This is not his fault, its the surge of elevated chemicals in his brain that makes him lash out. But If handled properly those same surge of chemicals will eventually cause him to give in, feeling helpless to do anything about his situation, but surrender and submit to your authority. Thus why being so strict and demanding at all times is so vital. It will reinforce that he has no say so or choice, in all matters, rules, chores and especially sex. It will help maintain your power and authority on days when training has lapsed for what ever reason and it will shorten training time for him. Plus it forces him to be submissive to you because he will fear you. It also helps in reinforcing that his place is serving you, all of which will keep him from back talk or questioning you or your motives (especially if he is punished severely for those acts, which he definitely should be).

There are many ways to help you find the proper tone and aggressiveness when speaking to him, just find one that works best for you. One girl told me she treats her Sub like a dog. She always speaks in a firm voice and uses simple or one word orders like knell or shut up. She snaps her fingers and points to the floor and he knows what to do, of course he had to be trained this way. She also uses words like good boy, with a little rub on his chastity area when he has done whats expected. I think this is on track as the slave term "BITCH" actually originates from that. However you need to be more than that, more aggressive and take no shit stance. I think you need to be a ruthless mean bitch so to speak, and your attitude and demeanor needs to reflect that your in control. Another girl told me that she treats her bitch like an unruly student or child. But one of the best ways I've heard is from a dominatrix that said she treats her sub hubby like a stranger paying for services. She has completely deferred his status and purpose as her husband to his more suited status as her bitch and his only purpose of serving her. She doesn't let feelings or emotions get in the way of how she treats him or punishes him in fact she is down right ruthless towards him. She said that while she loves him dearly, love has nothing to do with his place as her bitch and how he should be treated. His begging and tears from brutal spankings do not cause her to go easy on him, it helps her to know she's on the right track, especially how submissive and eager he is to please her the next few days after a good hard beating, I completely agree....  

I look at it like this, and you should too, I'm the boss and he obeys me period. I don't want an equal, I don't want his input, I don't want sex with him, and I really don't want to hear anything out of him but yes or no mistress or begging to please me. Actually, I don't even want our relationship to consist of husband and wife, I want it to be more of how it should be, " Mistress and bitch". I mean that's what he is here for, to serve and obey me and even though I love him deeply, I don't let that get in the way of his purpose to me, training, and punishments. I want him to know his place and beg to be there. I want him to accept being my bitch and his submission to me. I want him to accept that his little clit doesn't please me the way I deserve and is locked away 24/7 to focus on serving me they way he should, and I deserve. His only purpose for me is serving, following commands, and obeying with out back talk. He is here for the sole purpose to please me in any way I see fit and make my life better. He is never to ask or question me about whom I'm fucking, where I'll be, or when I'll come home. To do so would be a punishment so severe he wouldn't ever forget it. Obviously I tell him the jucy parts to humiliate him and arouse him. I want him to be humiliated about his little clit, and I want him to be humiliated about me fucking other men with bigger cocks. I also want him humiliated that he isn't allowed anything to do with pussy, and humiliated that he has to be fucked like a sissy bitch to get any pleasure. All this is a form of control that brings out his submissiveness and forces him to take his place, it actually makes him more submissive and horny to be treated just like the bitch I want him to be. The more I'm cruel, humiliating, strict, and demanding, the more he is submissive and eager to obey, especially if done while he is watching me get fucked or just after if he's not permitted to watch. Also the more I get fucked, the more submissive he is and willing to serve and obey me, especially if allowed to watch on those occasions. Being this way towards him and fucking other men or my boyfriend several times a week makes him very submissive and willing to do anything I say or want. He understands he must do what he can to please me as I am definitely being pleased sexually by other men which further reinforces his only reason and place. Its an erotic, blissful cycle!

He will never have an orgasm with his penis again or put his tiny worm in pussy again, especially not mine. In fact he really isn't allowed anything to do with pussy and I mean nothing except for the rare times he watches me get fucked, allowed to smell pussy through my panties, or when he's licking my clit as i'm getting pounded by big cock, all of which I do in humiliating ways. That's how I want it, that's how it is, that's how its going to be. I keep it this way because its a form of control, it works best, and it really turns me on. Being strict keeps him submissive, and keeps him under control. Being strict is keeping him on his knees and making him do things to serve and obey you. When you demand his submission and punish for all his failures or rule breaking he will fear not obeying you, he will fear you and always do as he is told. Making him follow the rules full time keeps him in check and keeps him submissive. He is happy serving me and even happier that I treat him this way and so am I.

When I speak to give an order I say it in a firm voice, "get me a soda" I sometimes say "NOW" at the end of orders to help motivate him faster. With that same mind set, you should never ask him to do anything and if he is slow moving obeying orders, then speak in a louder tone and repeat the order or say "do it now". Being strict means you make him follow every rule, always! If you are in public or places that would prohibit normal submission, come up with other ways that would allow him to show his place as your submissive, like opening all doors for you or you ordering his food. Either way, ALWAYS make him follow the rules and be the bitch you want. Depending on where your at, you may want to make him show his submissiveness in public to be humiliating to him, your call.

Being strict and demanding means nothing if you don't back it up with punishments or making him follow the rules and obey orders.  Punish harshly for rule breaking, back talking, asking in appropriate question, speaking with out permission, or even failure to show his submission. Do not take any bull shit from him and punish if he gives it. Once you do it for a few days to a week you will see a change in his attitude and submission. No more complaints about spending money, not getting pussy, or what ever.....Always punish, always, always!      

Monday, July 4, 2016

Pegging your Bitch to bring out the Sissy

Pegging is just the proper word in the BDSM community for fucking your man in the ass with your strap-on. At first he will resist, begging you not to, and even think its gay. There is nothing gay about it and it will become one of your most valuable tools to keep him submissive, wipe out his ego, turn him sissy, drastically reduce the male moncho attitude, and get what you want out of him. Eventually he will love it and even beg for it. It's also the only way to transform him into the best behaved sissy bitch, if you want to go that route. Pegging is also a mental training, meaning it will help to rearrange his thinking process. Once you start locking up that little dicklet, take away pussy and switch his pleasure zone from dicklet to ass and prostate manipulation, he will become dependent on your big cock and you owning his ass. When he is dependent on your cock, that means he has more less accepted that he will not be allowed pussy and give in to the only pleasure you allow him, which he has no choice if he ever wants to feel sexual pleasure again.  

Before you peg it would probably be better if you watch several videos, this is to get a view of the actual act and the basics. While its pretty straight forward, there is actually a technique to doing a good job, even though the videos might not show it . Once you get an understanding of whats actually going on, and how to go about it visually, you should be ready to do it. Your first time take it slow and remember he probably isn't excited about taking your cock. He is more than likely dreading it and nervous, thinking its going to hurt. He is also humiliated that your forcing him to take it. No matter, he is going to take that fucking cock, your going own his ass and believe me he will soon be begging you to. That's the attitude you need to have.

After the first time, he is no longer a virgin, and unknowingly taken a big step to being your bitch. He has been mind fucked as well as ass fucked because of this; He has been penetrated by a larger cock than his little dicklet and ended up enjoying it. He has now lost part off his manhood and humiliated that he was forced to take it, but even worse he started to enjoy it and wants more. This humiliation is good because its the first step to breaking him and wiping away his manhood which you drastically need to get the true submissive you want. Once he realizes he has no control and admits to his self that he gets pleasure from it, he will accept it, as well as other humiliating submissive acts. Once he accepts that his pleasure now only comes from your cock he will actually loose more of his manhood and take another step towards being your perfect bitch. As the pegging becomes more of a reality he will start to get more pleasure because of not fighting it. The humiliation doesn't stop there, once he does accept it and wants/desires your cock, he will be humiliated that he can't help himself....That he needs it and is willing to beg for it and eventually do anything to get it. Even more so if he is made to do other humiliating acts to be granted that privilege. If he only knew what was coming.*BIG GRIN*

Before your first time you will need to make sure his horniness is built up for several weeks. During that time you will also need to start using toys and your finger to manipulate his prostate. This will break the barrier from virgin ass to pegging and get him use to something going into his ass as well as the pleasure his prostate is capable of giving. Also no pussy or orgasms at all, as you should have already started switching his pleasure from his penis to his ass. This way those areas are sensitive and easily stimulated. Take sometime time to play before you insert a finger or toy into his ass. Get some lube and Rub/message his ass hole and perineum (the area between his ass and balls) independently and at the same time. You should also take some time to lick (only, not suck) the underside of his head and lick his balls. After a few minutes he should be loving it A LOT! His ass hole its self will give him a lot of pleasure now that he has not been getting orgasms, and this pleasure will lead to him wanting you to stick your finger in, and eventually your cock. This zone is now his erogenous and soon the trick to have him begging for your cock. It is the most important place on his body, for him and you from now on, especially if you wish to turn him sissy. Soon that will be the only place he gets pleasure. After playing with his special spots for a while, go a head and slowly stick one finger in. Move it in and out a bit and then start to rub his prostate gently. Use finger motions to rub, example; figure 8, side to side, circles-little o's and big o's, the come hither (come here movement), back and forth, or any combination of the above. Again take some time here and there to lick his balls and the underside of his head. Now its time to really get him moaning,  pull out and get some lube on 2 fingers and slowly slide them both in. After playing with his prostate for a bit and then using 2 fingers, the pleasure is probably more than he can handle, so be sure not to touch his dicklet very much as you don't want him to orgasm. Just keep the teasing of his head going and he will be begging to serve you. after you have had your fun and he is good and horny, now its time to roll him over.

Time for Pegging
He should always be tied down when training but also when pegging and its always best to get him horny before. Always use a finger to loosen up his ass or butt plug at some point during training before you go shoving your cock in his ass. As time goes on this may not be necessary or at best just a finger or two right before will do the trick to loosen him up. The best position for pegging is doggy style (especially for the first time) and it allows you to pull his hair and smack his ass through out the pegging. After 5 or 6 times when he is use to getting your cock, you will want to change it up now and then by putting him on his back for pegging.  Always use a condom on your dildo, unless its only used for his ass. Also use plenty of lube and keep it lubed if needed.

Start out slow giving his ass time to adjust to the size (the bigger the dildo the longer he may need). Slide it in inch by inch taking a few minutes in between until he can take it all (hit bottom) and then give him a few minutes to get use to the whole cock in his ass (the first few times you may need to ask feed back from him). Now slowly pump in and out with short strokes giving his ass time to adjust to the motion. After you see that he is relaxing and accepting the cock you can use longer strokes and slowly start working your way to fucking him fast and hard. Use his reactions to judge by how fast and hard you slam it in him. You will learn his body reactions and better technique the more times you do it, As time goes on he will eventually start moaning and screaming like a girl when pleasure is at its best for him, and may even try to back up on it as you fuck him. This is a good time to laugh at him and tell him things like, "my little bitch loves that cock don't she) Make him answer and keep humiliating him!

For those who have been doing Pegging for a while and begginers
*Technique* Use your hands a lot, grab his hips pulling him back firmly towards your cock as you fuck him. This teaches him you have control. Pull his hair, smack his ass hard and loud, leave deep red hand prints to show as ownership later after the fucking. Smack it off and on during the whole time and occasionally grab his balls by the base and pull. Play lightly for short amounts of time with the underside of his little dicklet (that is until you start keeping it in the chastity full time) but never stroke him in a jacking off motion as he will orgasm/cum. Ideally you will want to fuck him just like you like getting fucked doggy style, driving that cock in good and hard. *NOTE* Its very important in making his ass feel owned and thus the smacking of the ass leaving the hand prints for visual after. This is a mental training as well as psychical. You want him to believe you own his ass but more importantly you want him to want you to own it.

*Technique*  From time to time go slow and use your hands to really spread his ass cheeks far apart while you fuck him, let him feel his ass crack spread which puts more sensation on his ass hole. You should also do this no and then when fucking him faster as well. You should be very verbal, this is the perfect time to degrade and humiliating him about how much of a bitch he is (and sissy if you want) and how much he loves your cock. Say things like, "you like my big cock taking this ass, don't you?" After he says yes, and he will, tell him"you want my cock from now on don't you?" this is a great time to make him feel like your submissive little bitch, and to want to be your bitch. Also remember to take time here and there to pull his hair and smack his ass very hard while humiliating him. Use other toys and tools from time to time when fucking him, I like to tie a rope around the base of his balls and cock and pull it snug to tie off at the bottom of the bed. This keeps him in position and every time I slam it in he gets a little squeeze of pain, especially when I give the rope a little pull by hand. I also like to take 2 small wooden pins (get at the local hardware store) and push his dicklet inside its self, putting the pins squeezed together with rubber bands at the end to keep the head from poking out, then roll it up like a hose, then use another rubber band to rap it around the new penis ball and his balls to secure it in place. This does 2 things, first it almost eliminates penis sensation which help keep him from orgasm through penis and it gives more sensation on his prostate because it forces the corpora cavernous down closer to the prostate, grouping the nerves closer. You could also just force it inside its self as far as you can and use a heavy duty pin or clip to hold it inside its self.  Remember you want to be very verbal your self, humiliating him about this being the only pleasure he will get, and how he is being a good bitch taking your cock (what ever else you want to say to humiliate him) Make him beg for it or you will stop, have him tell you he wants to be your bitch from now on.....What ever you want, and have fun with it. Trust me the more you make him feel like your bitch, the more he will want to be your bitch.

I always make him beg for my cock on his knees and suck my cock first before I put him into position. I also from time to time make him suck a dildo while I fuck him. If you decide to go the sissy route, make him wear panties and stockings and leave them on while you fuck him.

Remember playing with his little dicklet to much during fucking him will cause him to get off and cum, only touch his dicklet here and there as needed. *NOTE* It is very rare that a man can orgasm by fucking him in the ass, (he may have some cum ooze out, but that's not an orgasm). The feeling he gets is a lot like a pre-orgasm (much like you feel when your getting close to getting off but don't quite reach that stage, only not as intense as you feel). This is why pegging is so valuable to Dom's as a great tool to make him submissive, you get all the perks but he gets none of the glory. Its is the best tease you can do to him even with out you doing penis stimulation  on him and why its works great for long term chastity or permanent chastity. Every time he gets fucked, the sensation builds and he feels like he may cum, but it never happens. This leaves him unsatisfied, still horny(only worse), and begging for more, with the added benefit he feels more like your bitch and wants to please you to get your cock again. After a certain point, he will be hooked on your cock, begging to do anything you ask and please you to feel that cock in his pussy/ass.

Have fun!!

     

Thursday, June 9, 2016

The Guide to sexual freedom "by Mistress Quinn"

           THIS MANUAL IS BY MISTRESS QUINN AND SHE IS SHARING IT WITH US PER MY REQUEST, PLEASE BARE WITH HER AS SHE WILL COMPLETE IT IN HER SPARE TIME.

                 If your here on this blog, and reading this you must be looking for something more than the vanilla life and dull sex. Your looking for something more, something far more beneficial and rewarding to you than just sex with your man. You seek power, control, and your man's unyielding submission. You want the ultimate in sex and authority, to make the rules, to give orders and have them all obeyed with out question or backtalk,while you do as you please. But most of all, you want sexual freedom and the best sex you've ever had that comes with it. You want to be satisfied, you crave the pleasure only a big dick can give. You want to fuck hot, attractive, well endowed men with out fear of repercussions or questions from your man. You simply want to fuck who you want, when ever you want. Am I right? You keep reading about this lifestyle, and searching for help and answers on how to achieve this. Hearing tails of the elusive submissive male begging to serve and pamper you like the queen you are, begging you to get fucked and even turned on by it. Well its true, they do exist and your man can be turned into that perfect bitch you want. Your not alone, many women have felt this way and reached out, taking the necessary steps to train their man to do as they are told, take their place at the women's feet, and accept it as a way of life. In reality, It really is the natural place for your man.

You know what you what, you just need knowledge and the know how, but you also need the will and the drive to do it. With out the drive and commitment, you will waist your time as it is not exactly quick or easy. I can help with the knowledge part, but you have to do your part and make it happen. Yes, your going to need to put forth the effort and right now from this point you have to decide if your willing to do what it takes to get what you want. You need to commit and follow thru with training, humiliation and punishments to make it happen. With that said, you also have to be willing to break his will, destroy his male ego and punish him to tears, with out reluctance, guilt or remorse. You can't be shy or embarrassed about what you want or what you need to make him do. Your going to have to treat him like a bitch, and be strict, firm, and demanding. Your going to have to punish, torture, and humiliate him to the point he begs and cries. He will need this from you in order to transform into the bitch you need and want him to be. You also need to enjoy it, get satisfaction from it, and even crave it.....But most of all you have to do it every day, this is a lifestyle not a game.

**Warning**
This is a very real lifestyle, this lifestyle and guide will really change your man both physically and mentally (which is what you want, if you really want whats described above). This is because this kind of training involves the build up of naturally produced hormones in his body. Following this guide and lifestyle will effect his thinking process, reasoning, and alter how he perceives things, and achieves pleasure. Prolonged exposure to this treatment as directed by this manual will result in permanent reconditioning of his mind, attitude, demeanor, and desires. This will most likely lead to confusion and emotional distress, leading to withdraw from the lifestyle if not handled properly as described in this guide. This process also involves the use of chastity devices which can and most likely WILL result in erectile dysfunctions (which really shouldn't bother you as again its exactly what you want if your truly want this lifestyle).

IF your willing to commit, and agree with the warning lets begin....

Male and female 
      Not that I have to convince you, but our bodies were made to have sex, lots of it and with different men....Lets start with the facts of all Males. All males are mostly visual creatures, meaning the sight of naked women rather on TV such as porn or in person such as your self or strippers arouses them. Once aroused, mental stimulation can work its magic to deepen their sex drive. 97 % of all Men are one time shooters (unless they have drug aid) and the average married male last about 6 minutes (20 min for non-married men). This means that they can only cum once with out a given amount of time which varies from male to male and age. Males are also highly sexually motivated, especially married males. On average males thinking about sex 30-40 times a day. All men are also programmed chemically and hormonal to need sex, the longer they go with out it, the more it builds. So much so, that if they don't get it after a given amount of time (also varies with age) they must self relieve by masturbating. Also their one and only purpose to have sex is to inseminate/deposit sperm, thus why they have only 20% of the nerve endings we have and why they really only get satisfaction during orgasm. After they achieve orgasm (from sex or masturbating), their sex drive drops drastically and takes on average 2-3 days or longer to build back up. Last but far from least, men are subconsciously submissive, easily controlled, with a natural desire to please women. Men know if they don't make the women happy or please her, sex is not happening. Studies also show that because a women is meant to have multiple sex partners, the mans penis (more specifically the head) is shaped to force out or pull out sperm (from the previous male) to ensure his sperm seeds the egg.
       Now WOMEN, we require more mental stimulation and then the visual and physical stimulation does its magic, this is completely opposite of men and for a reason. Men can be stimulated easily, (with out sex) which creates a quick deepen desire to please the women. Women are designed to have multiple orgasms, thus to have multiple male partners versus one partner for the male. We are designed to have many males to satisfy our sexual needs and desires while men only require one female to give him that one and only orgasm he needs every 3-4 days. Women have a limited sex drive, meaning we need the variety of several men to keep us interested in having sex, (Think about it, whens the last time you really wanted to fuck your man) but he only needs one naked women as his sex drive is built on seeing that and having that one orgasm. We also experience sex on a different level then men, and have far better orgasms as our nerve endings in the clit alone(8000) are more than double of the males (4000). In fact our clit is a sex organ, with its only purpose to give pleasure and is linked to over 15,000 other nerve endings in the women's body designed to give us pleasure through out our body before and during sex. Our eggs drop on their own, only once per month, we have sex for the purpose to get pleasure and get pleased. We are built to have sex and get pleasure from that sex, Men have sex to deposit sperm, and mostly only get pleasure from that one orgasm while it happens. Women's bodies age slower with the more sex partners she has, also our breast stay perkier longer and we actually get necessary nutrients and hormones from sperm by swallowing or absorption through the vaginal walls. The main problem is we need clean drug and disease free sperm, and now a days its hard to trust anyone.

  




Please bare with me as I'm doing this manual in my spare time, more to come.....

Sunday, May 29, 2016

Ginger punishment

Ginger for Punishment or Punishment enhancement (also known as figging)
While there is still controversy as to the origins and reasons to figging, it is fairly well agreed upon that it dates back to the Victorian era. 
Caning, a very popular form of punishment for hundreds of years was elevated to an art form itself during that time. There is evidence that figging actually had it’s beginnings during that era as ginger was used in a caning or spanking victim’s anus to prevent clenching the buttocks during punishment. Clenching reduces the effects/pain one experiences when spanked. However, clenching of one’s butt while ginger has been inserted causes a very intense burning sensation that keeps getting worse the longer you clench. Even with out clenching, the ginger cause an uncomfortable burning that gets worse and worse the longer it's left in. This results in the male submissive to endure the full aspect of pain from the spanking or caning, but also the burning sensation of the ginger in between spankings.
Ginger, in its natural state is sold and called a "hand", it’s called a hand because it somewhat resembles one. The protuberances from the hand are called fingers. It is these fingers that will be used to bring undeniable submission and probably even tears from your male submissive. Unfortunately, many supermarkets now precut the hand into fingers and package them as convenience. Try avoiding anything precut less than 4 inches, unless you’ve had enough experience to safely play with small fingers. Find a place that sells a full hand. If the supermarket doesn’t have any, try a different one or visit any oriental grocery store. Buy the largest hand you can find and scurry it home. Keep the entire hand in a cool dry place until you are ready to use it. The sooner you use it, the better the effect will be unless you age it properly which I’ll get to later.
Cut a finger of ginger from the hand. Unless the fingers are very long, do not cut the finger off at the joint of the hand. Remove the finger by cutting down into the palm of the hand so that you get a long, uniform width finger. Use a finger no smaller than 4 inches. Longer is better. Take a paring knife or vegetable peeler and remove the brown skin. Make sure all the skin is off as well as insuring that all the bumps and knots are cut off and smoothed as well. Try not to remove too much meat underneath the brown skin, as you want to retain as full a finger as possible for thickness and the juices are best in the meatier part.


Take your time and don’t rush this step. As you work, rinse it under cold water periodically to help wash away pieces of skin. Ginger is fibrous and sometimes takes a little time to prepare properly. If you’re into oriental cooking, you’ll love the delicate ginger aroma that is released as you do this step. The smell is a great stimulus for the submissive male as well while he is tied down, and it is brought into the room and placed on a table or bed near him, just before insertion. It heralds things ahead, especially once he becomes to recognize and associate the smell with or as his punishment.
After you have the skinned root all nice and smooth, you now have to perform the tricky bit. With the paring knife, a little over two-thirds of the way down, carve a concavity around the finger. This will act as a retention device to keep the root from falling in his anus, just like a butt plug. use the picture above as an example.
Make the ring no more than a half-inch wide. Remember; do not taper the finger all the way down to the end. You want full circumference of the finger two-thirds of the way down, a half-inch retention ring and then full circumference continuing down to the end of the finger, like the picture above. Do not carve out too much however, as this will weaken the finger and increase the possibility of breaking it while incerting it in the submissive male. You don’t need a very deep ring for retention.
After you have carefully completed this step, rinse the finger off and dip it in cold water. Make sure the tip of the finger is sufficiently rounded, use a knife or a peeler to accomplish this. Now it’s ready to insert. Unlike your own finger, you *do not use lube* with a ginger finger. Lubricant acts as a sealant and prevents the ginger moisture from releasing which will hinder the burning sensation he feels. Instead, use the cold water to keep the finger wet. Slowly insert the finger into the submissive male’s anus. Don’t rush at this point. Take your time. Wet ginger is slick enough to slide in with care. When the anus finally opens and accepts the ginger, slide it in up to the ring and let the submissive male close around it. The beauty of ginger is that it takes a little while for the effects to take place. This gives you time for stern taunting, humiliation, and other preparation for training or punishments like nipple clamps or ball stretcher etc.. Once it begins, it builds steadily. Directly after insertion and before the fun begins, go wash your hands. You don’t want to touch your eyes or your submissive male’s eyes by accident with ginger on your hands.
After a few min or so you should hear a change taking place from your sub and that's your cue that with in a few more minutes its time to begin, now its time enjoy your work. Or, as the Victorians did, start your caning or leather straping. Most submissive males will become rather vocal as the ginger works its magic. Depending on the fortitude of the submissive male, the potency of the ginger and the mental attitude you projected will give you a variety of reactions. Most submissive males report that the effects were far greater than they imagined.
To increase the effect, squeeze your submissive male’s buttocks together and hold them for a minute or two. This causes a big boost in burning sensation and if done every so often, keeps your submissive male in better agony. The effects of the ginger will last approximately twenty minutes or so, after which, the effects diminish rapidly.
The nice thing about ginger is that no matter how intense the effect on the submissive male, you won’t hurt him and it is short-lived. Once the sensation ceases, remove the ginger.
Apply ginger to the genitalia while the ginger plug is in place and watch to see if it brings him discomfort as well. I have experienced some of the most stunning results with submissive males using this technique. I don’t have a perfect scientific explanation as to why ginger cause such an effect but suffices to say it works. You can also just use ginger as a punishment or combined with any other punishments, just remember to secure your bitch as he will try to remove it once the burning gets rough.

"Ageing ginger
Using your ginger soon after you buy it will assure potency. Strong ginger, unprotected, for long periods of time will loose its “zip”. However, if you have any ginger fingers left after playtime, place it in a sealed, plastic bag and place it in the veggie bin in the refrigerator. Check on it daily until mold forms. The mold is harmless and does not penetrate the tough, fibrous skin of the root. Wash off, Peel and prepare the ginger as before and play as usual. But look out! The juice of the ginger has increased dramatically in potency. If you think you had a good time when the ginger was new, wait till you play now. Any unused ginger should be discarded after this time.

I have also heard of a cream or topping that does the opposite. When applied directly to the anus it quickly builds to a burning or stinging sensation that is eased with the clenching of the anus. I heard about it from a male Dom during a social event. He said that it is used when he fucks his male and female subs. It forces them to clench giving him a tighter, better feeling on his cock but also makes them focus on clenching which forces them to loses pleasure. I'll look into it further to find the name of this cream and post back here with the information.

ENJOY!! 

Monday, February 1, 2016

Mistress Story "The Start"

I read this blog from time to time as I find it very insightful and knowledgeable when it comes to the male submissive and mistakes women make when training them. Although I have never really ran into problems when it came to training my husband the way I wanted him to obey. Mostly because I knew what I wanted and I knew that I had to do what ever it took to make that happen. I didn't let anything stand in the way. I admit it was probably easier due to a few things, one being that we have no kids and I don't work. The other major difference was that I really believe I should be the one in control and I didn't let feelings or guilt stand in the way of taking that control. I treated him just like the bitch I wanted him to be and I was very demanding, strict, and relentless with punishments. I made sure he was very fearing of not obeying me because the severity of the punishment reinforced my control and he knows I follow through with every punishment I give. I would punish severely for every broken rule, and failure to obey me properly, but especially back talk!! That's just how it has to be, how it needs to be, and quite frankly how it should be. Trust me, showing weakness in anyway or not punishing when its needed, and not giving a proper punishments will have him doubting your power, and questioning your authority. This can and will cause problems and threaten your authority over him. Not that I don't love him, I do and I would never leave him, I just want things my way, and I love to see him on his knees serving me....But I also want the ability to fuck whom ever I want, when I want. Its not that he has a small penis, well tiny anyway (its average at 5 1/2 inches). Its just not the size that can give me the really good orgasms, the long and strong ones that make your toes curl and actually make you look forward to sex. Besides that he can only last 5-7 minutes.

We met at the town fair and our dating was normal, even the start of our marriage was mostly normal even though I did usually get my way. We didn't dabble in this lifestyle for months or years before we jumped into it for real. It only took one night before I was hooked and realized I had wanted something like this my whole life. It started with a Movie we were watching that has a girl dressed up in this black leather lingerie outfit and as described in the movie she was a dominatrix. I was immediately intrigued and aroused (this was before 50 shades of grey). Of course I didn't know what this was, but the next day I looked it up. Let me tell you, Google had plenty of resources on the matter and I found my self reading all I could over the next few days. I was fascinated with everything and really wanted to try it all, especially the cuckolding part. the only down fall was the free stuff didn't go into much detail, and most of it was paid sites and even those lacked detail , so be weary of that.

After giving it a little thought of how to bring my husband into this, which I really didn't care if he wanted to do it or not, SERIOUSLY we were doing it! I decided to do it slow, calculating and meticulously, by first withdrawing sex from him, and and changing my attitude and demeanor towards him. after the first week, I started to give orders and not ask for them to get done as I read on the net, I knew that the more strict and demanding I was the easier and quicker he would take to his new role. It said he would instinctively and subconsciously submit to my authority if I gave him no choice. I also started tying him down to the bed or chairs to tease him to the edge, and have him watch me get my self off with a dildo. I would also tease him and be seductive as much as possible during the day, using my body naked or not to turn him into jello (just like strippers do at strip clubs to get money from horny men) rub his dick through his jeans. Sometimes at night I would allow him to lick me to orgasm but rolled over when finished saying I was really tired. After 3 weeks of this I knew he started jerking off in the shower, but I also knew that would only satisfy him short term, and that this was about to change when I put the chastity on him. I watched porn with him, and even took him to strip clubs on occasion. My goal was to get him as horny as possible as much as possible, keep him on the egde as much as possible, and control his mind. You see they go hand in hand....You need to control his cock by taking away his ability to please himself (and trust me, all men do) and make it so that only you control his orgasms. But you also have to control his mind because that takes away any power he has, (resistance physically and mentally) and control his mind helps to control his cock.

After a month of no pussy, seducing him, and breaking him down mentally (as best as possible before the real training started) It really started to take its effect on him and he started becoming agitated so  I finally told him how it was going to be. I spoke to him very firmly, in my serious and demanding voice, telling him I was going to be in control and he was going to obey, PERIOD! I got out the chastity I ordered for him and put it on. I told him pussy was now a privilege and he would get it when he earned it. Until then I would be using my new thick and long dildo I bought when I got his chastity. Over the next few weeks I was very forceful in what I wanted, giving him new rules to be followed and having him clean the entire house by his self, including laundry. I spent time getting him very horny, bringing him to the edge but not allowing him to cum. I did not care of his feelings in the matter, in fact it only turned me on more when he would beg me not to take pussy from him, or beg to just lick it. I wanted him at my feet, I wanted him cleaning my house, I wanted him begging to knell and serve me, if only to be allowed the privilege of licking my pussy. And I really wanted better sex with bigger, thicker cock. Of course at the start he would break rules, and not follow orders correctly, even disobeying me at times...That is until he started being punished severely every time that happened and then those times rarely happened. He would also beg most nights to be allowed pussy or to lick it, which I refused and eventually punished him for asking, stating it was not his place to ask for a reward, I would give it if he deserved it....which in all honesty no matter how much he served me, obeyed me, and did his chores I didn't want to fuck him, especially since I was having way better sex and orgasms with real cock. So I started once a month milking him into a bowl and then had him lick it up with threat of sever punishment if he didn't.

Moving on though, It was into the fourth month that I was really craving dick, the dildo just didn't do it for me at this point. It also didn't help that I really wanted to try the cuckolding side out as well. So I placed an add on Ashley M. and right off got guys interested in fucking. Most were not that attractive but a word of advice though, and something I leaned back in high school, its the average looking guys that have the biggest cocks. Once I picked out a few guys with nice cocks I set things up. I started training my little submissive to accept this, and played the first 3 or 4 times away from home. I didn't want to give my bitch to much to handle, or create jealousy and made sure when I returned he got a little reward by smelling my pussy (blindfolded) or allowed to lick my ass hole. It wasn't just that theses guys had bigger cocks and could fuck me better and give me far better orgasms than the bitch could, it was the excitement of meeting and fucking them. The humiliation of my bitch, and the power I felt as he eventually would beg me to get fucked by these much larger endowed men just so he could smell or taste my pussy even if it was on/from my finger or my dildo. Anything to be as close to it as he could. Everything together just made sex better for me, from the orgasms to teasing and humiliating my bitch. The more I would be strict and humiliating towards him, the more submissive he would be. Cleaning the house, begging to serve me, buying me gifts, and begging me to get fucked.

Eventually I wanted more, I wanted to push him to complete submissiveness. I wanted to make him my true sissy bitch never questioning me, what I do, where I go, or who I fuck. I'm also talking wearing panties and other girl clothing like pantyhose, garter belts and heels, calling him bitch or submissive names (even in public) at all times, showing his submissiveness in public (there are plenty of ways for that), and even getting fucked by my dildo and by another male/bi-male. I started out by allowing him the privilege of licking clean my dildo after I fucked myself (he was always blind folded). That lead to me making him suck it as he licked it, and that eventually led to me wearing a dildo and harness during every training session and forcing him to knell tied up with a mouth spreader in to force him to take a mouth fucking, and that led to him knelling and sucking it on command (especially before I fucked him with it). I didn't ever want it to go back to the plain married life, and I didn't ever want him to ask for pussy again. Instead ,I wanted him humiliated, submissive, begging to serve me, and begging me to fuck him in the ass. I even wanted him kneeling and serving another male and I didn't even want him seeing or touching my pussy, let alone ever fucking it again. All of this really turned me on, and excited me beyond words, and I made it happen....All of it! Today, I make him watch me get fucked (only sometimes) for humiliation, he also obeys and serves me and my boyfriend or bulls, he also gets fucked once or twice a month by me or my bull, and he sucks cock when ordered to. For the most part, he is the best behaved submissive I know, and its all because I made him this way. I took what I wanted from him, faded out what I didn't, and I turned him into my bitch, my true submissive sissy, cock sucking, ass fucking, BITCH. I didn't back down, take no for an answer, let anything get in my way, or let feelings or guilt stop me from getting what I wanted. I forced and punished him every time he needed it, and now I can reap the rewards of being in control. This is how it should be, I'm not only happier, the sex is amazing, last longer and is way exciting. He is happier, more loving, really appreciates his rewards when I allow it, and even feels like he really belongs at my feet serving me, and that's all that matters.