Tuesday, July 5, 2016

How to be Strict and Demanding

          Words of wisdom from a good friend

Being strict and demanding is easy, you just need to have the right outlook on it, its finding ways to do it in public or around guest that is hard. Why is it so important to to be strict and demanding? Well for one it leaves no doubt in his mind that you are in charge. It also forces him to take his place because he will fear you. It reinforces that his place is serving you, which will keep him from back talk (especially if he is punished for the act). One girl told me she treats her Sub like a dog. She always speaks in a firm voice and uses simple or one word orders like knell or shut up. She snaps her fingers and points to the floor and he knows what to do, of course he had to be trained this way. She also uses words like good boy, with a little rub on his chastity area when he has done whats expected. I think this is on track as the slave term "BITCH" actually originates from that. However you need to be more than that, more aggressive and take no shit stance. I think you need to be a ruthless mean bitch so to speak, and your attitude and demeanor needs to reflect that your in control.

I look at it like this, and you should too, I'm the boss and he obeys me period. I don't want an equal, I don't want his input, and I really don't want to hear anything out of him but yes mistress or begging to please me. Actually, I don't even want our relationship to be husband and wife, I want it to be Mistress and bitch. I mean that's what he is here for, to serve and obey me and even though I love him deeply, I don't let that get in the way of his purpose to me, training, and punishments. I want him to know his place and beg to be there. I want him to accept being my bitch and his submission to me. I want him to accept that his little clit is locked away 24/7 and focus on serving me they way he should, and I deserve. His purpose for me is following commands, and obeying with out back talk. He is never to ask or question me about whom I'm fucking, where I'll be, or when I'll come home. To do so would be a punishment so severe he wouldn't ever forget it. I want him to be humiliated about his little clit, and I want him to be humiliated about me fucking other men with bigger cocks. I also want him humiliated that he isn't allowed anything to do with pussy, and humiliated that he has to be fucked like a sissy bitch to get any pleasure. All this is a form of control that forces him to take his place, and it actually makes him more submissive. The more demanding I am and the more I force him to obey, the more submissive he is, especially if done while i'm getting fucked.

He will never have a penis orgasm or put it in pussy again, Especially not mine. In fact he isn't allowed anything to do with pussy and I mean anything. That's how I want it, that's how it is, thats how its going to be. I keep it this way because it turns me on, and because being strict keeps him submissive, and keeps him under control. Being strict is keeping him on his knees and making him do things to serve and obey you. When you demand his submission and punish for all his failures he will fear not obeying you, he will fear you and always do as he is told. Making him follow the rules full time keeps him in check and keeps him submissive.

When I speak to give an order I say it in a firm voice, "get me a soda" I sometimes say "NOW" at the end of orders to help motivate him faster. With that same mind set, you should never ask him to do anything and if he is slow moving obeying orders, then speak in a louder tone and repeat the order or say "do it now". Being strict means you make him follow every rule, always! If you are in public or places that would prohibit normal submission, come up with other ways that would allow him to show his place as your submissive, like opening all doors for you or you ordering his food. Either way, ALWAYS make him follow the rules and be the bitch you want.

Being strict and demanding means nothing if you don't back it up with making him follow the rules or obey orders, and punish harshly for rule breaking, back talking, asking in appropriate question, speaking with out permission, or even failure to show his submission. Do not take any bull shit from him and punish if he gives it. Once you do it for a few days to a week you will see a change in his attitude and submission. No more complaints about spending money, or what ever.....Always punish, always, always!      

Monday, July 4, 2016

Pegging your Bitch to bring out the Sissy

Pegging is just the proper word in the BDSM community for fucking your man in the ass with your strap-on. At first he will resist, begging you not to, and even think its gay. There is nothing gay about it and it will become one of your most valuable tools to keep him submissive, wipe out his ego, turn him sissy, drastically reduce the male moncho attitude, and get what you want out of him. Eventually he will love it and even beg for it because it will be the only pleasure he gets. It's also the only way to transform him into the best behaved sissy bitch if you want to go that route. Once you start locking up that little dicklet, take away pussy and train him to get pleasure from ass and prostate manipulation, he will become dependent on that big cock taking his ass.

Before you peg it would probably be better if you watch several videos, this is to get a view of the actual act and the basics. While its pretty straight forward, there is actually a technique to doing a good job, even though the videos might not show it . Once you get an understanding of whats actually going on, and how to go about it visually, you should be ready to do it. Your first time take it slow and remember he probably is not excited about taking your cock. He is more than likely dreading it, nervous, and humiliated that your forcing him to take it. No matter, he is going to take that fucking cock, your going own his ass and believe me he will soon be begging you to.

After the first time, he is no longer a virgin, and he has just taken a big step to being your bitch. He has lost part off his manhood and is humiliated that he was forced to take it, but worse he started to enjoy it. This humiliation is good because its the first step to breaking him and wiping away his manhood...Once he realizes he has no control and and admits to his self that he gets pleasure from it, he will accept it, as well as other humiliating submissive acts. Once he does start to enjoy it and wants your cock, he will be humiliated that he is begging for it, even more so if he is made to do other humiliating acts to be granted that privilege. If he only knew what was coming. *BIG GRIN*

Before your first time you will need to make sure his horniness is built up for several weeks. During that time you will also need to start using toys and your finger to manipulate his prostate. This will break the barrier from virgin ass to pegging and get him use to something going into his ass as well as the pleasure his prostate is capable of giving. Also no pussy or orgasms at all, as you should have already started switching his pleasure from his penis to his ass and prostate. This way those areas are sensitive and easily stimulated. Take sometime time before you insert a finger or toy to rub his ass and the area between his ass and balls at the same time. His ass hole its self will give him a lot of pleasure now that he has not been getting orgasms, and this pleasure will lead to him wanting you to stick your finger in, and eventually your cock. This zone is now his erogenous and soon the zone to have him begging to have your cock. it is the most important place on his body for him and you from now on, especially if you whish to turn him sissy. Soon that will be the only place he gets pleasure.  Also take some time to play with or lick his balls as that will realy get him horny.

He should always be tied down when pegging and its always best to get him horny before starting. Also you should use a finger to loosen up his ass and/or a butt plug  before you go shoving your cock in his ass. As time goes on this may not be necessary or at best just a finger or two will do the trick to loosen him up. The best position for pegging is doggy style (especially for the first time) and it allows you to pull his hair and smack his ass good and hard through out the pegging. After 5 or 6 times when he is use to getting your cock, you will want to change it up now and then by putting him on his back for pegging.  Always use a condom on your dildo, unless its only used for his ass, I still do anyway for easy clean up. Also use plenty of lube.

Start out slow giving his ass time to adjust to the size (the bigger the dildo the longer he may need). Slide it in inch by inch taking a few minutes in between until he can take it all and then give him a few minutes to get use to the whole cock in his ass (you may need to ask feed back from him). Now slowly pump in and out with short strokes. After you see that he is relaxing and accepting the cock you can use longer strokes and start working your way to fucking him fast and hard. Use his reactions to judge by how fast and hard you slam it in him. You will learn his body reactions and better technique the more times you do it. As time goes on he will eventually start moaning and screaming like a girl when pleasure is ats its best for him, and may even try to back up on it as you fuck him..

For those who have been doing Pegging for a while and begginers
*Technique* Use your hands a lot, grab his hips pulling him back firmly towards your cock as you fuck him. Pull his hair, smack his ass hard and leave hand prints to show as ownership later after the fucking. Smack it off and on during the whole time and occasionally grab his balls and play lightly for short amounts of time with his little dicklet (that is until you start keeping it in the chastity full time). Ideally you will want to fuck him just like you like getting fucked doggy style, but with a bit more harshness, driving that cock in good and hard. *NOTE* Its very important in making his ass feel owned and thus the smacking of the ass leaving the hand prints for visual after. You want him to believe you own his ass but more importantly you want him, to want you to own it.

*Technique*  From time to time go slow and use your hands to really spread his ass cheeks far apart while you fuck him. You should also do this when fucking him faster as well. You should be very verbal and humiliating him. Say things like, "you like my big cock taking this ass, don't you?" After he says yes, and he will, tell him"you want my cock from now on don't you?" this is a great time to make him feel like your submissive little bitch, and to want to be your bitch. Also remember to take time here and there to pull his hair and smack his ass very hard. Use other toys and tools from time to time when fucking him, I like to tie a rope around the base of his balls and cock and pull it snug to tie off at the bottom of the bed. This keeps him in position and every time I slam it in he gets a little squeeze of pain, especially when I give the rope a little pull by hand. Remember you want to be very verbal your self, humiliating him about this being the only pleasure he will get, and how he is being a good bitch taking your cock (what ever else you want to say to humiliate him) Make him beg for it or you will stop, have him tell you he wants to be your bitch from now on.....What ever you want, and have fun with it. Trust me the more you make him feel like your bitch, the more he will want to be your bitch.

I always make him beg for my cock on his knees and suck my cock first before I put him into position. I also from time to time make him suck a dildo while I fuck him. If you decide to go the sissy route, make him wear panties and stockings and leave them on while you fuck him.

Remember playing with his little dicklet to much during fucking him will cause him to get off and cum, that should only be done here and there.

Have fun!!

     

Thursday, June 9, 2016

The Guide to sexual freedom "by Mistress Quinn"

           THIS MANUAL IS BY MISTRESS QUINN AND SHE IS SHARING IT WITH US PER MY REQUEST, PLEASE BARE WITH HER AS SHE WILL COMPLETE IT IN HER SPARE TIME.

                 If your here on this blog, and reading this you must be looking for something more than the vanilla life and dull sex. Your looking for something more, something far more beneficial and rewarding to you than just sex with your man. You seek power, control, and your man's unyielding submission. You want the ultimate in sex and authority, to make the rules, to give orders and have them all obeyed with out question or backtalk,while you do as you please. But most of all, you want sexual freedom and the best sex you've ever had that comes with it. You want to be satisfied, you crave the pleasure only a big dick can give. You want to fuck hot, attractive, well endowed men with out fear of repercussions or questions from your man. You simply want to fuck who you want, when ever you want. Am I right? You keep reading about this lifestyle, and searching for help and answers on how to achieve this. Hearing tails of the elusive submissive male begging to serve and pamper you like the queen you are, begging you to get fucked and even turned on by it. Well its true, they do exist and your man can be turned into that perfect bitch you want. Your not alone, many women have felt this way and reached out, taking the necessary steps to train their man to do as they are told, take their place at the women's feet, and accept it as a way of life. In reality, It really is the natural place for your man.

You know what you what, you just need knowledge and the know how, but you also need the will and the drive to do it. With out the drive and commitment, you will waist your time as it is not exactly quick or easy. I can help with the knowledge part, but you have to do your part and make it happen. Yes, your going to need to put forth the effort and right now from this point you have to decide if your willing to do what it takes to get what you want. You need to commit and follow thru with training, humiliation and punishments to make it happen. With that said, you also have to be willing to break his will, destroy his male ego and punish him to tears, with out reluctance, guilt or remorse. You can't be shy or embarrassed about what you want or what you need to make him do. Your going to have to treat him like a bitch, and be strict, firm, and demanding. Your going to have to punish, torture, and humiliate him to the point he begs and cries. He will need this from you in order to transform into the bitch you need and want him to be. You also need to enjoy it, get satisfaction from it, and even crave it.....But most of all you have to do it every day, this is a lifestyle not a game.

**Warning**
This is a very real lifestyle, this lifestyle and guide will really change your man both physically and mentally (which is what you want, if you really want whats described above). This is because this kind of training involves the build up of naturally produced hormones in his body. Following this guide and lifestyle will effect his thinking process, reasoning, and alter how he perceives things, and achieves pleasure. Prolonged exposure to this treatment as directed by this manual will result in permanent reconditioning of his mind, attitude, demeanor, and desires. This will most likely lead to confusion and emotional distress, leading to withdraw from the lifestyle if not handled properly as described in this guide. This process also involves the use of chastity devices which can and most likely WILL result in erectile dysfunctions (which really shouldn't bother you as again its exactly what you want if your truly want this lifestyle).

IF your willing to commit, and agree with the warning lets begin....

Male and female 
      Not that I have to convince you, but our bodies were made to have sex, lots of it and with different men....Lets start with the facts of all Males. All males are mostly visual creatures, meaning the sight of naked women rather on TV such as porn or in person such as your self or strippers arouses them. Once aroused, mental stimulation can work its magic to deepen their sex drive. 97 % of all Men are one time shooters (unless they have drug aid) and the average married male last about 6 minutes (20 min for non-married men). This means that they can only cum once with out a given amount of time which varies from male to male and age. Males are also highly sexually motivated, especially married males. On average males thinking about sex 30-40 times a day. All men are also programmed chemically and hormonal to need sex, the longer they go with out it, the more it builds. So much so, that if they don't get it after a given amount of time (also varies with age) they must self relieve by masturbating. Also their one and only purpose to have sex is to inseminate/deposit sperm, thus why they have only 20% of the nerve endings we have and why they really only get satisfaction during orgasm. After they achieve orgasm (from sex or masturbating), their sex drive drops drastically and takes on average 2-3 days or longer to build back up. Last but far from least, men are subconsciously submissive, easily controlled, with a natural desire to please women. Men know if they don't make the women happy or please her, sex is not happening. Studies also show that because a women is meant to have multiple sex partners, the mans penis (more specifically the head) is shaped to force out or pull out sperm (from the previous male) to ensure his sperm seeds the egg.
       Now WOMEN, we require more mental stimulation and then the visual and physical stimulation does its magic, this is completely opposite of men and for a reason. Men can be stimulated easily, (with out sex) which creates a quick deepen desire to please the women. Women are designed to have multiple orgasms, thus to have multiple male partners versus one partner for the male. We are designed to have many males to satisfy our sexual needs and desires while men only require one female to give him that one and only orgasm he needs every 3-4 days. Women have a limited sex drive, meaning we need the variety of several men to keep us interested in having sex, (Think about it, whens the last time you really wanted to fuck your man) but he only needs one naked women as his sex drive is built on seeing that and having that one orgasm. We also experience sex on a different level then men, and have far better orgasms as our nerve endings in the clit alone(8000) are more than double of the males (4000). In fact our clit is a sex organ, with its only purpose to give pleasure and is linked to over 15,000 other nerve endings in the women's body designed to give us pleasure through out our body before and during sex. Our eggs drop on their own, only once per month, we have sex for the purpose to get pleasure and get pleased. We are built to have sex and get pleasure from that sex, Men have sex to deposit sperm, and mostly only get pleasure from that one orgasm while it happens. Women's bodies age slower with the more sex partners she has, also our breast stay perkier longer and we actually get necessary nutrients and hormones from sperm by swallowing or absorption through the vaginal walls. The main problem is we need clean drug and disease free sperm, and now a days its hard to trust anyone.

  




Please bare with me as I'm doing this manual in my spare time, more to come.....

Sunday, May 29, 2016

Ginger punishment

Ginger for Punishment or Punishment enhancement (also known as figging)
While there is still controversy as to the origins and reasons to figging, it is fairly well agreed upon that it dates back to the Victorian era. 
Caning, a very popular form of punishment back then and even dating back before the Victorian era was elevated to an art form itself during that time. There is evidence that figging actually had it’s beginnings during that era as ginger was used in a caning or spanking victim’s anus to prevent clenching the buttocks during punishment. Clenching reduces the effects/pain one experiences when spanked. However, clenching of one’s butt while ginger has been inserted causes a very intense burning sensation that keeps getting worse the longer you clench. Even with out clenching, the ginger cause an uncomfortable burning that gets worse and worse the longer it's left in. This results in the male submissive to endure the full aspect of pain from the spanking or caning, but also the burning sensation of the ginger in between spankings.
Ginger, in its natural state is sold and called a "hand", it’s called a hand because it somewhat resembles one. The protuberances from the hand are called fingers. It is these fingers that will be used to bring undeniable submission and probably even tears from your male submissive. Unfortunately, many supermarkets now precut the hand into fingers and package them as convenience. Try avoiding anything precut less than 4 inches, unless you’ve had enough experience to safely play with small fingers. Find a place that sells a full hand. If the supermarket doesn’t have any, try a different one or visit any oriental grocery store. Buy the largest hand you can find and scurry it home. Keep the entire hand in a cool dry place until you are ready to use it. The sooner you use it, the better the effect will be unless you age it properly which I’ll get to later.
Cut a finger of ginger from the hand. Unless the fingers are very long, do not cut the finger off at the joint of the hand. Remove the finger by cutting down into the palm of the hand so that you get a long, uniform width finger. Use a finger no smaller than 4 inches. Longer is better. Take a paring knife or vegetable peeler and remove the brown skin. Make sure all the skin is off as well as insuring that all the bumps and knots are cut off and smoothed as well. Try not to remove too much meat underneath the brown skin, as you want to retain as full a finger as possible for thickness and the juices are best in the meatier part.


Take your time and don’t rush this step. As you work, rinse it under cold water periodically to help wash away pieces of skin. Ginger is fibrous and sometimes takes a little time to prepare properly. If you’re into oriental cooking, you’ll love the delicate ginger aroma that is released as you do this step. The smell is a great stimulus for the submissive male as well while he is tied down, and it is brought into the room and placed on a table or bed near him, just before insertion. It heralds things ahead, especially once he becomes to recognize and associate the smell with or as his punishment.
After you have the skinned root all nice and smooth, you now have to perform the tricky bit. With the paring knife, a little over two-thirds of the way down, carve a concavity around the finger. This will act as a retention device to keep the root from falling in his anus, just like a butt plug. use the picture above as an example.
Make the ring no more than a half-inch wide. Remember; do not taper the finger all the way down to the end. You want full circumference of the finger two-thirds of the way down, a half-inch retention ring and then full circumference continuing down to the end of the finger, like the picture above. Do not carve out too much however, as this will weaken the finger and increase the possibility of breaking it while incerting it in the submissive male. You don’t need a very deep ring for retention.
After you have carefully completed this step, rinse the finger off and dip it in cold water. Make sure the tip of the finger is sufficiently rounded, use a knife or a peeler to accomplish this. Now it’s ready to insert. Unlike your own finger, you *do not use lube* with a ginger finger. Lubricant acts as a sealant and prevents the ginger moisture from releasing which will hinder the burning sensation he feels. Instead, use the cold water to keep the finger wet. Slowly insert the finger into the submissive male’s anus. Don’t rush at this point. Take your time. Wet ginger is slick enough to slide in with care. When the anus finally opens and accepts the ginger, slide it in up to the ring and let the submissive male close around it. The beauty of ginger is that it takes a little while for the effects to take place. This gives you time for stern taunting, humiliation, and other preparation for training or punishments like nipple clamps or ball stretcher etc.. Once it begins, it builds steadily. Directly after insertion and before the fun begins, go wash your hands. You don’t want to touch your eyes or your submissive male’s eyes by accident with ginger on your hands.
After about 5 min or so you should hear a change taking place from your sub and that's your cue that with in a few more minutes its time to begin, now its time enjoy your work. Or, as the Victorians did, start your caning or spankings. Most submissive males will become rather vocal as the ginger works its magic. Depending on the fortitude of the submissive male, the potency of the ginger and the mental attitude you projected will give you a variety of reactions. Most submissive males report that the effects were far greater than they imagined.
To increase the effect, squeeze your submissive male’s buttocks together and hold them for a minute or two. This causes a big boost in burning sensation and if done every so often, keeps your submissive male in better agony. The effects of the ginger will last approximately twenty minutes or so, after which, the effects diminish rapidly.
The nice thing about ginger is that no matter how intense the effect on the submissive male, you won’t hurt him and it is short-lived. Once the sensation ceases, remove the ginger.
Apply ginger to the genitalia while the ginger plug is in place and watch to see if it brings him discomfort as well. I have experienced some of the most stunning results with submissive males using this technique. I don’t have a perfect scientific explanation as to why ginger cause such an effect but suffices to say it works. You can also just use ginger as a punishment or combined with any other punishments, just remember to secure your bitch as he will try to remove it once the burning gets rough.

"Ageing ginger
Using your ginger soon after you buy it will assure potency. Strong ginger, unprotected, for long periods of time will loose its “zip”. However, if you have any ginger fingers left after playtime, place it in a sealed, plastic bag and place it in the veggie bin in the refrigerator. Check on it daily until mold forms. The mold is harmless and does not penetrate the tough, fibrous skin of the root. Wash off, Peel and prepare the ginger as before and play as usual. But look out! The juice of the ginger has increased dramatically in potency. If you think you had a good time when the ginger was new, wait till you play now. Any unused ginger should be discarded after this time.

I have also heard of a cream or topping that does the opposite. When applied directly to the anus it quickly builds to a burning or stinging sensation that is eased with the clenching of the anus. I heard about it from a male Dom during a social event. He said that it is used when he fucks his male and female subs. It forces them to clench giving him a tighter, better feeling on his cock but also makes them focus on clenching which forces them to loses pleasure. I'll look into it further to find the name of this cream and post back here with the information.

ENJOY!! 

Monday, February 1, 2016

Mistress Story "The Start"

I read this blog from time to time as I find it very insightful and knowledgeable when it comes to the male submissive and mistakes women make when training them. Although I have never really ran into problems when it came to training my husband the way I wanted him to obey. Mostly because I knew what I wanted and I knew that I had to do what ever it took to make that happen. I didn't let anything stand in the way. I admit it was probably easier due to a few things, one being that we have no kids and I don't work. The other major difference was that I really believe I should be the one in control and I didn't let feelings or guilt stand in the way of taking that control. I treated him just like the bitch I wanted him to be and I was very demanding, strict, and relentless with punishments. I made sure he was very fearing of not obeying me because the severity of the punishment reinforced my control and he knows I follow through with every punishment I give. I would punish severely for every broken rule, and failure to obey me properly, but especially back talk!! That's just how it has to be, how it needs to be, and quite frankly how it should be. Trust me, showing weakness in anyway or not punishing when its needed, and not giving a proper punishments will have him doubting your power, and questioning your authority. This can and will cause problems and threaten your authority over him. Not that I don't love him, I do and I would never leave him, I just want things my way, and I love to see him on his knees serving me....But I also want the ability to fuck whom ever I want, when I want. Its not that he has a small penis, well tiny anyway (its average at 5 1/2 inches). Its just not the size that can give me the really good orgasms, the long and strong ones that make your toes curl and actually make you look forward to sex. Besides that he can only last 5-7 minutes.

We met at the town fair and our dating was normal, even the start of our marriage was mostly normal even though I did usually get my way. We didn't dabble in this lifestyle for months or years before we jumped into it for real. It only took one night before I was hooked and realized I had wanted something like this my whole life. It started with a Movie we were watching that has a girl dressed up in this black leather lingerie outfit and as described in the movie she was a dominatrix. I was immediately intrigued and aroused (this was before 50 shades of grey). Of course I didn't know what this was, but the next day I looked it up. Let me tell you, Google had plenty of resources on the matter and I found my self reading all I could over the next few days. I was fascinated with everything and really wanted to try it all, especially the cuckolding part. the only down fall was the free stuff didn't go into much detail, and most of it was paid sites and even those lacked detail , so be weary of that.

After giving it a little thought of how to bring my husband into this, which I really didn't care if he wanted to do it or not, SERIOUSLY we were doing it! I decided to do it slow, calculating and meticulously, by first withdrawing sex from him, and and changing my attitude and demeanor towards him. after the first week, I started to give orders and not ask for them to get done as I read on the net, I knew that the more strict and demanding I was the easier and quicker he would take to his new role. It said he would instinctively and subconsciously submit to my authority if I gave him no choice. I also started tying him down to the bed or chairs to tease him to the edge, and have him watch me get my self off with a dildo. I would also tease him and be seductive as much as possible during the day, using my body naked or not to turn him into jello (just like strippers do at strip clubs to get money from horny men) rub his dick through his jeans. Sometimes at night I would allow him to lick me to orgasm but rolled over when finished saying I was really tired. After 3 weeks of this I knew he started jerking off in the shower, but I also knew that would only satisfy him short term, and that this was about to change when I put the chastity on him. I watched porn with him, and even took him to strip clubs on occasion. My goal was to get him as horny as possible as much as possible, keep him on the egde as much as possible, and control his mind. You see they go hand in hand....You need to control his cock by taking away his ability to please himself (and trust me, all men do) and make it so that only you control his orgasms. But you also have to control his mind because that takes away any power he has, (resistance physically and mentally) and control his mind helps to control his cock.

After a month of no pussy, seducing him, and breaking him down mentally (as best as possible before the real training started) It really started to take its effect on him and he started becoming agitated so  I finally told him how it was going to be. I spoke to him very firmly, in my serious and demanding voice, telling him I was going to be in control and he was going to obey, PERIOD! I got out the chastity I ordered for him and put it on. I told him pussy was now a privilege and he would get it when he earned it. Until then I would be using my new thick and long dildo I bought when I got his chastity. Over the next few weeks I was very forceful in what I wanted, giving him new rules to be followed and having him clean the entire house by his self, including laundry. I spent time getting him very horny, bringing him to the edge but not allowing him to cum. I did not care of his feelings in the matter, in fact it only turned me on more when he would beg me not to take pussy from him, or beg to just lick it. I wanted him at my feet, I wanted him cleaning my house, I wanted him begging to knell and serve me, if only to be allowed the privilege of licking my pussy. And I really wanted better sex with bigger, thicker cock. Of course at the start he would break rules, and not follow orders correctly, even disobeying me at times...That is until he started being punished severely every time that happened and then those times rarely happened. He would also beg most nights to be allowed pussy or to lick it, which I refused and eventually punished him for asking, stating it was not his place to ask for a reward, I would give it if he deserved it....which in all honesty no matter how much he served me, obeyed me, and did his chores I didn't want to fuck him, especially since I was having way better sex and orgasms with real cock. So I started once a month milking him into a bowl and then had him lick it up with threat of sever punishment if he didn't.

Moving on though, It was into the fourth month that I was really craving dick, the dildo just didn't do it for me at this point. It also didn't help that I really wanted to try the cuckolding side out as well. So I placed an add on Ashley M. and right off got guys interested in fucking. Most were not that attractive but a word of advice though, and something I leaned back in high school, its the average looking guys that have the biggest cocks. Once I picked out a few guys with nice cocks I set things up. I started training my little submissive to accept this, and played the first 3 or 4 times away from home. I didn't want to give my bitch to much to handle, or create jealousy and made sure when I returned he got a little reward by smelling my pussy (blindfolded) or allowed to lick my ass hole. It wasn't just that theses guys had bigger cocks and could fuck me better and give me far better orgasms than the bitch could, it was the excitement of meeting and fucking them. The humiliation of my bitch, and the power I felt as he eventually would beg me to get fucked by these much larger endowed men just so he could smell or taste my pussy even if it was on/from my finger or my dildo. Anything to be as close to it as he could. Everything together just made sex better for me, from the orgasms to teasing and humiliating my bitch. The more I would be strict and humiliating towards him, the more submissive he would be. Cleaning the house, begging to serve me, buying me gifts, and begging me to get fucked.

Eventually I wanted more, I wanted to push him to complete submissiveness. I wanted to make him my true sissy bitch never questioning me, what I do, where I go, or who I fuck. I'm also talking wearing panties and other girl clothing like pantyhose, garter belts and heels, calling him bitch or submissive names (even in public) at all times, showing his submissiveness in public (there are plenty of ways for that), and even getting fucked by my dildo and by another male/bi-male. I started out by allowing him the privilege of licking clean my dildo after I fucked myself (he was always blind folded). That lead to me making him suck it as he licked it, and that eventually led to me wearing a dildo and harness during every training session and forcing him to knell tied up with a mouth spreader in to force him to take a mouth fucking, and that led to him knelling and sucking it on command (especially before I fucked him with it). I didn't ever want it to go back to the plain married life, and I didn't ever want him to ask for pussy again. Instead ,I wanted him humiliated, submissive, begging to serve me, and begging me to fuck him in the ass. I even wanted him kneeling and serving another male and I didn't even want him seeing or touching my pussy, let alone ever fucking it again. All of this really turned me on, and excited me beyond words, and I made it happen....All of it! Today, I make him watch me get fucked (only sometimes) for humiliation, he also obeys and serves me and my boyfriend or bulls, he also gets fucked once or twice a month by me or my bull, and he sucks cock when ordered to. For the most part, he is the best behaved submissive I know, and its all because I made him this way. I took what I wanted from him, faded out what I didn't, and I turned him into my bitch, my true submissive sissy, cock sucking, ass fucking, BITCH. I didn't back down, take no for an answer, let anything get in my way, or let feelings or guilt stop me from getting what I wanted. I forced and punished him every time he needed it, and now I can reap the rewards of being in control. This is how it should be, I'm not only happier, the sex is amazing, last longer and is way exciting. He is happier, more loving, really appreciates his rewards when I allow it, and even feels like he really belongs at my feet serving me, and that's all that matters.          

Monday, November 30, 2015

Bondage Ideas

       Bondage is probably one of the hardest things for some women, at least when it comes to using more imagination and getting away from the standard legs apart and arms above the head (arms and legs to the four corners of the bed). The idea is to have him put in awkward positions, humiliating positions, and even uncomfortable position while being able to utilize this position to tease him, peg him, milk him, force oral on him with your bull or his master, administering punishments on him, or what ever you want. This is also a great way to show your power over him and bring out his submission as he has no choice in the position, or how long he is kept in it and loss of movement is a great way to put him in his place. Make sure you humiliate him about the position he is in, and remind him this is the bitches place. Ideally you want him bound tight, so there is little room for movement and there for he is forced physically and mentally to take what ever you do to him. Spread arms and legs far, make them tight....A must do for training, discipline, and punishments.

       The possibilities are endless, the tools and toys are endless, and the fun is just as endless. All you need is the gear and an imagination, or at least ideas. You need to switch it up from time to time, and try new things. you can and should involve things like hand cuffs, rope, spreader bars, blindfolds, nipple clamps, gags or hoods, anal hook, nose hook, mouth forceps, cages, slings, and of course any punishment device. I make it a practice that he is always tied down in some way or another if we are doing training or anything where he is not serving me or doing chores. Its also a good idea to have him tied in a good position for forced oral on your bull or forced pegging from you or your bull.

      Below are some examples of bondage.

This position you can do anything from behind from like pegging, milking, spanking, CBT etc.


This position is the same as above but just a different technique, and is mostly used for time out and or punishments...notice the butt plug
This position shows someone who used imagination and an anal hook, its perfect for milking or CBT, and can also be used for forced oral (cock sucking your bull) and spankings.

This pic shows a standard type position but notice that she used other gear like the blindfold, gag, and a little CBT.

All fours, another classic position with the humbler device which forces the slave to stay kneeling or on all fours. It also gives the ability for pegging, CBT, milking, spankings etc.

The classic standing position, but of course CBT is being used as well as ball gag and blindfold.

this pic shows good imagination....His arms are secured above and his legs are spread using a securing method to his arms. His waist is secured by the sides of the bed and his balls are tied down to the bottom. He can't move and this allows for CBT, teasing, among other fun things.

Here is a spin on the all four position, only arms behind the back. this could also have been done with arms between the legs and secured to his ankles or spreader bar, then attached to his balls. great for anything anal, punishments, spankings, CBT, or just to keep him on his knees for a while.

This pic shows display bondage, its only or main purpose it just bondage, placed to display the bitch, her property. In this case that would be his caged dick, but could easily have been his ass or what ever.

This pic shows a bitch still in his panties, tied to a luggage cart, using bungie ties for some CBT. He was left this way while her lover fucked her in that very bed. Great example!

This pic shows bondage that will focus on spankings, a twist to just bent over.

This is great use of a standard dog cage. The bitch has his but plug in and is secure to all corners of the cage. This is also his time out place, and his place when her lover or boyfriend comes over, he is not let out until he leaves.

This pic shows a bitch in an awkward and uncomfortable position. Great for spankings, anal play or pegging, and milking directly into his mouth.

This is the anal hook, used to hold position in bondage. Great for holding your bitches head back for forced oral, or just cum shooting into his mouth. remember to use the mouth spreader.

Another uncomfortable position, also great for anything from behind

This pic shows good use of gear and force oral.

This Dom is milking her bitch. She is draining his balls directly into a dog bowl and will make him lick up the mess.

















 

Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Cock & Ball Torture Ideas and examples

        So I have received a several emails over the past few weeks regarding Cock and Ball Torture, also known as CBT. So I was thinking that I would gather some pics of real examples and give a little info on them to prevent me from going over this again and again. Besides that I have received great feed back from my past post using this method.

Well to start, CBT must be done correctly to avoid any long term or permanent damage. this is not to say that you cant be a little rough, and make him scream as that's the point, lots of screaming and if he's not then your not doing it right!This is an art and one that takes time to learn. A little pain goes a long way when it comes to torturing them. Ideally you want him moaning or screaming when administering CBT, if he is not then you should use more force till he is. Technique is key, and there are many was to punish and abuse them, from squeezing, smacking, flicking, clamping, bonding, roping, shocking, wax, ice, spikes, and chemical (icy hot). There are just as many toys and devices as there are ways to use them and your only limited by your imagination. My suggestion is try everything, don't hold back and experiment. Always make sure when doing any kind of play rather it be CBT, pegging, spankings, and even at times humiliation, he must be tied or locked down, try to tie him down in a way that he has very little or no room to move any body parts. This will keep him from hurting himself and you during the inflection of pain, again the point is to cause pain. It is not just the helpless feeling he gets, and your show of power/force, or loss of privilege of movement, it is also to keep him from dampening the pain through movement and forcing him to take the pain. As a must do rule when training, or punishing he should be locked down at all times anyway. CBT can and should be used as a training tool, as well as discipline, but it should also be given as a punishment. this can be done in conjunction with, prior to, or after spankings. It can also just be done just for your amusement. Make sure you shake things up and try new ways to do CBT from time to time. Also make sure he shaves his entire pubic area.