Saturday, January 2, 2016

Ginger punishment

Ginger for Punishment or Punishment enhancement (also known as figging)
While there is still controversy as to the origins and reasons to figging, it is fairly well agreed upon that it dates back to the Victorian era. 
Caning, a very popular form of punishment dating back even before the Victorian era … was elevated to an art form itself during that time. There is evidence that figging actually had it’s beginnings when ginger was used in a caning or spanking victim’s anus to prevent clenching the buttocks during punishment. Clenching reduces the effects/pain one experiences when spanked. However, clenching of one’s butt while it hosts ginger causes a very intense burning sensation. Even with out clenching, the ginger cause an uncomfortable burning that gets worse and worse the longer it's left in. This results in the male submissive to endure the full aspect of pain from the spanking or caning, but also the burning sensation of the ginger in between spankings.
Ginger, in its natural state is sold and called a "hand", it’s called a hand because it somewhat resembles one. The protuberances from the hand are called fingers. It is these fingers that will be used to bring undeniable submission and probably even tears from your bitch. Unfortunately, many supermarkets now precut the hand into fingers and package them as convenience. Try avoiding anything precut less than 4 inches, unless you’ve had enough experience to safely play with small fingers. Find a place that sells a full hand. If the supermarket doesn’t have any, try a different one or visit any oriental grocery store. Buy the largest hand you can find and scurry it home. Keep the entire hand in a cool dry place until you are ready to use it. The sooner you use it, the better the effect will be unless you age it properly which I’ll get to later.
Cut a finger of ginger from the hand. Unless the fingers are very long, do not cut the finger off at the joint of the hand. Remove the finger by cutting down into the palm of the hand so that you get a long, uniform width finger. Use a finger no smaller than 4 inches. Longer is better. Take a paring knife or vegetable peeler and remove the brown skin. Make sure all the skin is off as well as insuring that all the bumps and knots are cut off and smoothed as well. Try not to remove too much meat underneath the brown skin, as you want to retain as full a finger as possible for thickness and the juices are best in the meatier part.

Take your time and don’t rush this step. As you work, rinse it under cold water periodically to help wash away pieces of skin. Ginger is fibrous and sometimes takes a little time to prepare properly. If you’re into oriental cooking, you’ll love the delicate ginger aroma that is released as you do this step. The smell is a great stimulus for the submissive male as well while he is tied down, and it is brought into the room and placed on a table or bed near him, just before insertion. It heralds things ahead, especially once he becomes to recognize and associate the smell with or as his punishment.
After you have the skinned root all nice and smooth, you now have to perform the tricky bit. With the paring knife, a little over two-thirds of the way down, carve a concavity around the finger. This will act as a retention device to keep the root from falling in his anus, just like a butt plug. use the picture above as an example.
Make the ring no more than a half-inch wide. Remember; do not taper the finger all the way down to the end. You want full circumference of the finger two-thirds of the way down, a half-inch retention ring and then full circumference continuing down to the end of the finger, like the picture above. Do not carve out too much however, as this will weaken the finger and increase the possibility of breaking it while incerting it in the submissive male. You don’t need a very deep ring for retention.
After you have carefully completed this step, rinse the finger off and dip it in cold water. Make sure the tip of the finger is sufficiently rounded, use a knife or a peeler to accomplish this. Now it’s ready to insert. Unlike your own finger, you *do not use lube* with a ginger finger. Lubricant acts as a sealant and prevents the ginger moisture from releasing which will hinder the burning sensation he feels. Instead, use the cold water to keep the finger wet. Slowly insert the finger into the submissive male’s anus. Don’t rush at this point. Take your time. Wet ginger is slick enough to slide in with care. When the anus finally opens and accepts the ginger, slide it in up to the ring and let the submissive male close around it. The beauty of ginger is that it takes a little while for the effects to take place. This gives you time for stern taunting, humiliation, and other preparation for training or punishments like nipple clamps or ball stretcher etc.. Once it begins, it builds steadily. Directly after insertion and before the fun begins, go wash your hands. You don’t want to touch your eyes or your submissive male’s eyes by accident with ginger on your hands.
After about 5 min or so you should hear a change taking place from your sub and that's your cue that with in a few more minutes its time to begin, now its time enjoy your work. Or, as the Victorians did, start your caning or spankings. Most submissive males will become rather vocal as the ginger works its magic. Depending on the fortitude of the submissive male, the potency of the ginger and the mental attitude you projected will give you a variety of reactions. Most submissive males report that the effects were far greater than they imagined.
To increase the effect, squeeze your submissive male’s buttocks together and hold them for a minute or two. This causes a big boost in burning sensation and if done every so often, keeps your submissive male in better agony. The effects of the ginger will last approximately twenty minutes or so, after which, the effects diminish rapidly.
The nice thing about ginger is that no matter how intense the effect on the submissive male, you won’t hurt him and it is short-lived. Once the sensation ceases, remove the ginger.
Apply ginger to the genitalia while the ginger plug is in place and watch to see if it brings him discomfort as well. I have experienced some of the most stunning results with submissive males using this technique. I don’t have a perfect scientific explanation as to why ginger cause such an effect but suffices to say it works. You can also just use ginger as a punishment or combined with any other punishments, just remember to secure your bitch as he will try to remove it once the burning gets rough.

"Ageing ginger" 
Using your ginger soon after you buy it will assure potency. Strong ginger, unprotected, for long periods of time will loose its “zip”. However, if you have any ginger fingers left after playtime, place it in a sealed, plastic bag and place it in the veggie bin in the refrigerator. Check on it daily until mold forms. The mold is harmless and does not penetrate the tough, fibrous skin of the root. Wash off, Peel and prepare the ginger as before and play as usual. But look out! The juice of the ginger has increased dramatically in potency. If you think you had a good time when the ginger was new, wait till you play now. Any unused ginger should be discarded after this time.

I have also heard of a cream or topping that does the opposite. When applied directly to the anus it quickly builds to a burning or stinging sensation that is eased with the clenching of the anus. I heard about it from a male Dom during a social event. He said that it is used when he fucks his male and female subs. It forces them to clench giving him a tighter, better feeling on his cock but also makes them focus on clenching which forces them to loses pleasure. I'll look into it further to find the name of this cream and post back here with the information.


Friday, January 1, 2016

Bondage Ideas

       Bondage is probably one of the hardest things for some women, at least when it comes to using more imagination and getting away from the standard legs apart and arms above the head (arms and legs to the four corners of the bed). The idea is to have him put in awkward positions, humiliating positions, and even uncomfortable position while being able to utilize this position to tease him, peg him, milk him, force oral on him with your bull or his master, administering punishments on him, or what ever you want. This is also a great way to show your power over him and bring out his submission as he has no choice in the position, or how long he is kept in it and loss of movement is a great way to put him in his place. Make sure you humiliate him about the position he is in, and remind him this is the bitches place. Ideally you want him bound tight, so there is little room for movement and there for he is forced physically and mentally to take what ever you do to him. Spread arms and legs far, make them tight.

       The possibilities are endless, the tools and toys are endless, and the fun is just as endless. All you need is the gear and an imagination, or at least ideas. You need to switch it up from time to time, and try new things. you can and should involve things like hand cuffs, rope, spreader bars, blindfolds, nipple clamps, gags or hoods, anal hook, nose hook, mouth forceps, cages, slings, and of course any punishment device. I make it a practice that he is always tied down in some way or another if we are doing training or anything where he is not serving me or doing chores. Its also a good idea to have him tied in a good position for forced oral on your bull or forced pegging from your bull.

      Below are some examples of bondage.

This position you can do anything from behind from like pegging, milking, spanking, CBT etc.

This position is the same as above but just a different technique, and is mostly used for time out and or punishments...notice the butt plug
This position shows someone who used imagination and an anal hook, its perfect for milking or CBT, and can also be used for forced oral (cock sucking your bull) and spankings.

This pic shows a standard type position but notice that she used other gear like the blindfold, gag, and a little CBT.

All fours, another classic position with the humbler device which forces the slave to stay kneeling or on all fours. It also gives the ability for pegging, CBT, milking, spankings etc.

The classic standing position, but of course CBT is being used as well as ball gag and blindfold.

this pic shows good imagination....His arms are secured above and his legs are spread using a securing method to his arms. His waist is secured by the sides of the bed and his balls are tied down to the bottom. He can't move and this allows for CBT, teasing, among other fun things.

Here is a spin on the all four position, only arms behind the back. this could also have been done with arms between the legs and secured to his ankles or spreader bar, then attached to his balls. great for anything anal, punishments, spankings, CBT, or just to keep him on his knees for a while.

This pic shows display bondage, its only or main purpose it just bondage, placed to display the bitch, her property. In this case that would be his caged dick, but could easily have been his ass or what ever.

This pic shows a bitch still in his panties, tied to a luggage cart, using bungie ties for some CBT. He was left this way while her lover fucked her in that very bed. Great example!

This pic shows bondage that will focus on spankings, a twist to just bent over.

This is great use of a standard dog cage. The bitch has his but plug in and is secure to all corners of the cage. This is also his time out place, and his place when her lover or boyfriend comes over, he is not let out until he leaves.

This pic shows a bitch in an awkward and uncomfortable position. Great for spankings, anal play or pegging, and milking directly into his mouth.

This is the anal hook, used to hold position in bondage. Great for holding your bitches head back for forced oral, or just cum shooting into his mouth. remember to use the mouth spreader.

Another uncomfortable position, also great for anything from behind

This pic shows good use of gear and force oral.

This Dom is milking her bitch. She is draining his balls directly into a dog bowl and will make him lick up the mess.


Thursday, December 31, 2015

Cock & Ball Torture Ideas and examples

        So I have received a several emails over the past few weeks regarding Cock and Ball Torture, also known as CBT. So I was thinking that I would gather some pics of real examples and give a little info on them to prevent me from going over this again and again. Besides that I have received great feed back from my past post using this method.

Well to start, CBT must be done correctly to avoid any long term or permanent damage. this is not to say that you cant be a little rough, and make him scream as that's the point. This is an art and one that takes time to learn. A little pain goes a long way when it comes to torturing them. ideally you want him moaning or screaming when administering CBT, if he is not then you should up the force till he is. Technique is key, and there are many was to punish and abuse them, from squeezing, smacking, flicking, clamping, bonding, roping, shocking, wax, ice, spikes, and chemical (icy hot). There are just as many toys and devices as there are ways to use them and your only limited by your imagination. My suggestion is try everything, don't hold back and experiment. Always make sure when doing any kind of play rather it be CBT, pegging, spankings, and even at times humiliation, he must be tied or locked down. It is not just the helpless feeling he gets, and show of power/force from you, or loss of privilege of movement, it is also to keep him from moving (dampening the pain) and forcing him to take the pain. As a rule when training he should be locked down at all times anyway. CBT should be given as a punishment in conjunction with, prior to, or after spankings. It can also just be done through training sessions or just for your amusement. You should also try incorporate some kind of  bondage position when doing it for the added humility, and feeling helpless.

Wednesday, November 11, 2015


Here are various pics that were either sent to me, I was apart of, or I found in other Dom blogs. I posted these to give you examples and show you the end result and examples of a good punishment spanking and also to help give you your own ideas. In this section pay close attention to the pics. Look at how they are all tied down and being humiliated while being spanked. Notice that while some are naked, some are still in their panties or stockings(always spank a bare ass though). Also notice that these doms are enjoying them selves, they are really getting into this and they may be having a good time but they are serious about his spanking, showing no remorse or care less to bring tears, screams, and begging from him. They are talking to him in a firm aggressive voice and while doing this they are humiliating him, making him beg to please and submit to her, and apologize for his disobedience, as well as other ways to show his submissiveness and willingness to obey. He is made repeatedly to state his status as her bitch, and his place. Keep in mind that he is made to wear a ball gag for the first half of punishment spankings so as to show she cares not to hear his screaming and begging for her to stop but also to bring out the true submissive side that a good spanking always brings out. After that it is briefly removed for begging during following spankings. It's then reapplied for more spankings and then removed again at the end to allow more begging as spankings are administered for a last set. its the last set of spankings that you will see the true and utmost transformation of his submission to you as the boss. He must be scared of you and your power, and the best way to show your power is to give him sever punishments for rule breaking or disobedience.

Look at how red, marked up, and swelled up, their asses are during and after a well earned punishment spanking. This is how it should be, and if there was sound you could even hear them begging, screaming out, and crying like a bad little bitch deserves when they have violated a rule, failed to please their mistress, disobedience,  or back talked. The spanking should last for a while, a good 20 min, and again be one he never forgets! Keep in mind though, they should not tear or split skin open, thus why crops, paddles, and cat-o-9 whips, or floggers are best. Rotate the spanking tools and remember that taking time in between spanking is best to avoid numbing of his ass.

If you want to succeed in breaking him and getting the truly submissive bitch you want, you need to start doing this type of firm, strict, dominant punishment. You have to be aggressive, serious, demanding and unyielding. Let out the side of you that wants this, that loves this, and is turned on by the sight and sound of hearing him cry out and beg to please you like you deserve. Again punishment spankings should be ones that he never forgets and one that takes away any hesitation he has when he is ordered to obey. For example; suck a cock for you or to reluctantly knell naked with a chastity on at your feet and serve while you have your lover or company over, to even obeying your lover or guest orders. After one, two, or even sometimes, three and four punishment spankings for failure to follow command and obey, trust me he will gladly follow any orders you have. Keep in mind that no matter how well behaved he is and submissive, he will still need spankings once or twice a week to keep him in his place. You just don't hit as hard, shorten the time and number of spanking to achieve this.

Paddles, crops, and whips are best when doing spankings, however canes, switches etc. will work for tools in short moderation. remember to switch it up here and there. For a better detailed explanation of how, when and where to punish your bitch read my punishment section in this blog.

You can click on pics to enlarge.