EDGING YOUR BITCH
EDGING
Like pegging and panties, edging goes hand in hand with forced chastity and sissy training, as it makes wearing the chastity more effective, deeper submission, helps with reprogramming and increases your control over your bitch. Most Dom's practice a form of edging in training without even knowing their doing so or what it is. However they are not properly doing it (technique), so its effects are not as strong as the technique below. So make sure you follow the technique below as close as possible. Edging is a very powerful tool for all Doms, as it forces submission, but it also forces cuckold desires. That's right, edging forces him to want to be cuckolded and he will even beg you to do so during this technique, as you will train him to want this during the edging process so it should be done daily throughout his entire training process and occasionally after (1-3 times a month) as well.
How its done; First and important, tie him down (very securely) with his knees and legs spread far apart to have easy access and this makes him feel helpless, MAKE SURE you also secured his ankles far apart so as not to accidently kick you during the edging. If you are edging correctly as instructed here, after about 2 weeks of continuous edging he will start to move his legs around and may accidently kick you, so secure them tightly. Then properly lasso his balls up to help prevent an orgasm. Take a thin rope (1/8 to 3/16) fold it in half using the center as a starting point, wrap the center from under the ball sack upwards on the outside of the balls and around both balls downwards through the center separating the balls from each other. At this point both balls should have one wrap around each of them, repeat this step wrapping each testicle this same way 2-3 times (depending on your length of rope) to separate them further from each other and to tighten the skin around them. Make sure both balls are equally wrapped with tightness (both look the same) and the skin should be tight on each ball with very little to no extra skin. On the last circle of ball wrap as your pulling the rope between the balls crisscross the rope at the bottom of the balls bringing the rope ends opposite of how you wrapped it prior. Then wrap the rope around the entire base 2 times and back on top to tie of the base of his clitty. Depending on how much you want to stretch his balls but also to draw them out away from the body you could also wrap the rope around both balls together prior to wrapping it around the base. NOTE* The rope needs to be fairly tight, but not to tight, as you barely want to restrict blood flow dulling the nerves that trigger orgasm. Judge by how tight the skin looks and the color, red and purplish is ok deep dark purple might be to tight but judge by his reaction.
Second, NOTE* Always start out licking his clitty prior to inserting a finger or toy into his rear-end. Begin by using your tongue and fingers to lick and rub the underneath of his shaft just below the urethra opening (called the frenulum) and the small pea sized area below the frenulum. Make sure you humiliate and degrade him during the entire time of edging. This is the time to really humiliate and degrade him, but it's also training time for him because what you want him to be or how your want him to behave will be retained subconsciously during this process especially when putting your pussy in his face using copulins to reprogram him. After a few minutes (3-4) lick the head and rim of the clitty and switch it up during the edging process. The entire head is your playground even the back side. However spend the most amount of time on the frenulum, and entire rim of his head as this gives the most pleasure. The object is to work him up and build his arousal level so high that he becomes weak, disoriented and submissive. Note* NEVER put his clitty fully into your mouth to suck, only lick it (like a clit), as this could cause a sudden orgasm. Licking makes it difficult to orgasm because it doesn't stimulate enough nerve endings at the same time to force an orgasm. Keep in mind that this is only relative to how long he has been denied an orgasm or milked, the longer he goes without either the more sensitive his clitty becomes so watch closely as I said its difficult, not impossible to cum. But, the threat of a severe punishment for an orgasm helps to deter it. However, If you haven't given him a proper punishment yet, your not taking your place serious and being the Dom you need to be, its time to do so! Keep in mind, a sissy's clitty doesn't deserve penetration of any kind, clitty licking is the best she will ever receive, besides its very disrespectful and degrading to a mistress to suck a sissy's clitty and sends the completely wrong message.
Third, after about 5-10 minutes (or longer, NEVER SOONER) of licking its time to insert a finger (1 finger) and lick at the same time.*Never stimulate the prostate with a toy or finger until after the penis has been stimulated for at least 5-10 minutes first, even if your not edging him. Remember, you must build arousal, anticipation, and desire first for the edging technique to work properly. This also makes the nerve endings around the anus and prostate more sensitive creating the desire to be fucked. Plus this is key to sissy training as you want her ready to beg for cock through this technique. Continue to lick and work his prostate for another 5-10 minutes or more. After that, you may switch to a prostate toy if you choose to do so (a finger sometimes works best as it has better articulation and can hit the P-spot exactly right). In edging the length of time is key, as the longer you do it the better it works especially as the finger (or toy) works its magic on the prostate. This third step stimulates from the inside out and causes a surge in hormones and need for release (to cum), as it builds pressure in the epididymis (gland the sperm is stored in). The longer the stimulation the more the pressure and need for relief as the pressure starts to push the sperm through the vas deferens to the ampulla (located just above the prostate). If stimulated long enough without orgasm and ejaculation, the pleasure and pressure (the need to cum) can become so intense that it becomes almost intolerable. This is the point when you get true submission and begging, this is exactly how you want him. After several days and/or weeks of this, blue balls sets in and the male becomes very docile and accepting of his place and any training you give. It's also where cuckolding desires start to push to the surface. A sissy in training will start craving your cock as his P-spot is swollen, desiring the stroke and stretch of a cock, pleasure only a big cock can give. *Note Sporadic edging or edging done on occasion (not done daily) works to influence arousal level, but consecutive daily edging is far more effective and has the added submission effect, as I said before, a need for you to cuckold him. So start off every training session with edging him for at least 20 minutes, even if its punishment night, unless its a punishment only session.
Forth and lastly, by now you have spent at least 20 minutes hopefully more (again longer is far better) building arousal levels, its time to train him in various training scenarios like bring out his desire for you to cuckold him or date a boyfriend, sucking cock, taking cock, following rules, cleaning the house, wearing panties and other sissy aspects like heels, lingerie, and clothes and pretty much anything associated with dating your boyfriend full time. Remember to make sure you continue to lick and massage the prostate while you do it, and make him repeat, agree, and beg for everything your programing him to accept and do.
EXTREME EDGING
Almost all Dom's deny sex and sexual relief of any kind to keep his energy, arousal, and hormone levels high so he is easily trained and reprogrammed, very submissive and eager to obey. Besides sex with a sissy bitch sucks anyway and he doesn't deserve to cum. However serious Dom's take it to a higher level and use 2 very effective edging methods for increasing dominance and control, with a deeper submission. The first is extreme edging, done just as edging described above, however extreme edging is where you edge continuously with prostate stimulation, (toy or finger inserted) for a minimum of 40 to 50 minutes or longer, again longer is key. During this time she is very dominant, speaking aggressively to him and being cruel, spitting in his face, smacking his balls, pissing on his face, clamping his balls or any other cruel treatment to take over his subconscious mind as she reprogramms him. The second method is even worse, extreme edging all day, off and on, which requires you to lock him down each time (4-5 times or more) throughout the course of the day for 40 to 50 minutes or so, while you repeat it each time. *Note the all day edging obviously requires more time but the reward is significant with submission and shorter training time. All day edging should be done at least once during the training period. The all day technique is also used for forced sissy's cock pleasing (real cock) the same night because of its extreme heightened arousal state and submission (Explained in the sissy section of my blog). Both extreme edging and all day edging will result in an deeper, more intense pain from blue balls with a desperate and extreme need for release. When this edging is done for days turning to weeks, I have watched many sub males, even my own sissy break from this type of edging, becoming an utterly submissive bitch, so extremely submissive they would do anything to cum. Eventually, sissy's will turn to begging and crying (real tears) for release, desperate to cum. This will eventually turn into begging and crying, pleading just stop the edging (which you won't do) because the need to cum is so intense. This is prime time to break his will and show him why your in control. This power is very intoxicating and arousing for Dom's, it is the only pleasure the sissy is capable of giving you and pretty much the only pleasure you want from him. This is the point you know the edging is working, you need to laugh and humiliate the sissy if he does cry, and keep edging and humiliate him as this time is one of the best influencers of extreme submission and training plus key to extracting the sissy you want. Remember to use this time for training to reprogram him to your desires.
**NOTE**An added technique to extreme edging is the teasing technique called "PUSSY TEASING", which is also done in "COPULIN TRAINING". This is done by teasing him with pussy in some manner to increase his hypnotic state and natural desire to submit and obey you. This would be smelling pussy, seeing it up close while spreading your lips apart, and even sliding your finger or toy inside at the same time. You could also use the "power stance position" standing over him with legs spread on each side of his chest, facing his clitty as you humiliate and degrade him then squat to put pussy inches from his face. Or watching you use a dildo on yourself (or holding in his mouth). Any of these as well as your own ideas to tease him can be done during edging or anytime in training and they drastically bring out submission and cuckold desires. However, If you are currently dating a boyfriend or start in the future and forbid him anything to do with pussy, this can be done with panties on and still give near the same effect not to mention the effect the smell of pussy has on him.
At first his training will keep him from begging for pussy, but the intense edging will eventually break him and make him beg for it or at least beg to cum. The main thing that will keep this from happening is if you have been punishing him correctly for past disobedience or doing so prior, but he may still do so. This is because of the high levels of hormones, the intense feeling of blue balls, and extreme need to cum may cloud his thought process. This is why punishing correctly is so important but also why extreme edging is good for brainwashing and reprogramming him to become the bitch you want and deserve. Remember the higher the levels of hormones, the more submissive he is and the easier he is to control. Also, never under any circumstances at any time allow your sissy bitch to beg for pussy. This is insulting, and extremely disrespectful to a Mistress especially if she has a full time or serious boyfriend as pussy would belong to him, so this act should anger you, GREATLY so show it! If it does not, then you are not taking your position as his mistress serious and this will eventually cause difficulties with your submissive with regards to your boyfriend if it has not already done so. So it is very vital that you punish for disobedience and every rule not obeyed. For now, simply give his balls several smacks during edging and tell him he will be punished for it that he is never allowed to beg for pussy, DO NOT FORGET to punish him after training for this disrespect or at least the next day. Remember letting him get away with this will not only invite future invitations to beg for pussy and other disrespectful actions, but also make you look weak and have him questioning your authority. Also while edging him properly, your bitch may begin to do hump motions with his hips (might take a few days) while your licking his clitty. It's called dry humping (male dogs also do this) and he may not even be aware he is doing this, it's a natural sign that he is becoming extremely aroused and horny. While you want to see this happen as a sign your edging correctly, continued humping is very disrespectful, almost as much as asking for pussy. No self respecting Dom would ever allow a submissive bitch to hump her face. Again smack his balls as many times as needed to get him to stop and threaten punishment later. Remind him that even though he is a dog and should be treated like a dog, collared and caged....Humping will not be tolerated!
During extreme edging, this is the time to use his high levels of hormones to reprogram him, especially if you used pussy teasing and the copulins. Simply change his desire for pussy to wanting your cock and craving it instead. Use your own words to refocus his need and pleasure to what you want, like how its a privilege to serve and obey you. Point out how good your cock feels and how he will love all of it, how he can't resist it and make him tell you this and admit to it. Tell him he will be cock whipped, and he shouldn't resist it, that its his natural place and he can't resist it and must submit to it. Again make him admit that he loves it and wants it always. This is where your words and humiliation transform him through brainwashing. Tell him he is a pathetic sissy bitch and that he was born to please cock, explain that he will never be allowed the pleasure of pussy again, that he will love cock instead. Tell him he never pleased pussy, and that his clitty is to pathetic and tiny. You have to let your inner Dom out, use your imagination, ideas, and words to reprogram him to want and crave your cock OR even real cock if he is a sissy. If you have been pegging him for a weeks prior, and doing the edging technique with prostate stimulation, he will naturally have a desire to want fucked. This desire will increase with every day you edge and by your reprogramming his mind during edging, soon he will be begging for and serving your cock. Best of all he will truly believe that his purpose is serving you and pleasing cock and want it badly. *Note copulins are heavily built up during sex so it is necessary to use a dildo on yourself up close to his face or in a face harness as you ride it. because of this it is especially important to make him lick clean the mess after sex EVERY TIME!
Extreme edging is very, very effective in speeding up training time (as much as 1 month if training and punishments are done properly and edging done everyday), inducing deeper submission, and promoting a long term cock whipped state of mind. Crucial and important, extreme edging like other training methods is hormone manipulation and its a very powerful feeling to the submissive male as he is at his most (chemically forced) aroused state, with intense desire and pressure to cum with a deep pain from blue balls, yet helpless to do anything about it. SO you must be very dominant, aggressive, strict, ruthless, and punish severely to keep him in check by female power and authority. This will help prevent any rebelling, temper tantrums, or unruly behavior. Also and because of this, REMEMBER it is necessary that you always tie his legs down 1- at the ankles, 2 - at the knees (hips if possible), 3- and spread wide open to take the edging. This will prevent him from accidently kneeing you or kicking you as his legs start moving around from the intense desperation and need to cum. This may not happen in the first week or so of edging but, TRUST ME IF YOUR DOING IT CORECTLY IT WILL HAPPEN, so tie him down firmly and securely every time. Remember as a Mistress and/or Dominatrix it is your job and your responsibility to be very dominant and strict, to be degrading, cruel and extremely sadistic towards your sissy bitch! You get out what you put in....
