A special thanks to Susan Anderson for sharing this with us. Susan works for one of the worlds leading private research facilities and specializes in sexual behavior and psychology. she has a PhD in psychology and a masters in neuroscience and biomedical research.
Sexual Control is using the brain's own chemicals to take control and modify actions, behavior, feelings, and thoughts of the male. This process is called mental subjugation and is achieved by building and maintaining a high arousal state for a repeated, extensive amount of time causing the over production of testosterone and neurochemicals through out the brain. This forces the break down of specific brain functions associated with thought, behavior, and reasoning as well as other parts of the brain that control emotions and muscle control. This action puts the male into a submissive, trance or hypnotic state which makes him amenable and susceptible to reconditioning and control. In this state he's unable to reason, think for himself, and resist commands or training making him submissive. There are several levels of this trance like state ranging from low to completely hypnotic depending on the amount of time spent and the level of build up in the brain. The Neurochemicals produced also control and activate key parts of the brain like the pleasure circuit. This circuit is activated by stimulating erogenous zones/nerve endings on the head of the penis, anus and prostate. When active the pleasure circuit releases dopamine, another neurochemical. Dopamine is the brains own erotic feel good drug, it is addictive and most of the reason he will repeat submissive acts and find pleasure in yours. Dopamine activates the pleasure center of the brain called the nucleus accumbens which rewards you for having sex. The increased production of Dopamine puts the circuit into over drive effecting reasoning and thought, boosting the submissive state. Through normal sex or the continued stimulation of the correct erogenous zone, orgasm is achieved giving the release of Endorphin's, Oxycontin, Dopamine, Adrenaline, and other chemicals that are associated with climax which dissolve and eliminate the build up of key neurochemicales. For this reason it is highly recommended that he never obtain orgasm. Only the head of the penis and anal/prostate stimulation is given. The nucleus accumbens is also responsible for addictive things like cigarettes and drugs. This is also the section of the brain which remembers pleasure and causes you to repeat pleasurable things (like having sex). This is a key part of the brain used in reconditioning of the male and why strict disciplined training is so important as you will chemically imprint on his brain that serving and obey you, is sexually satisfying to him thus changing what he use to derive his pleasure from to what pleases you. So even though he won't be rewarded with actual sex acts his brain will be tricked into thinking that obeying and serving you is a sexual reward. Which is why you may see his penis get a full or partial erection watching you have sex, being humiliated, by doing chores or obeying you.
During this process and at the same time as building the arousal state, the Dominatrix will refocus his attention and desires of sex towards obeying and serving her as well as how he perceives pleasure (This is the actual ongoing training part). This gives the Dom the ability to implement her rules, control and commands, making her will his own and her pleasure his only priority. This entire process involves *edging* (testosterone build up) the repeated prolonged genital, anal, and prostate stimulation. The stimulation is done by building and keeping him *on edge* to just before the point the orgasm occurs, this is the state when arousal and neurochemicales are highest and when he is most susceptible to control and reprogramming. This edging procedure, is done daily over weeks and months, is what builds up and maintains the build up of neurochemicals and testosterone. The excessive testosterone levels boost his energy and are what drive the desperate need for orgasm. The use of a chastity device is needed to prevent definite masturbation. Elevated amounts of testosterone can causes an aggressive like sexual behavior (especially in single males) but when excessive amounts are produced without orgasm, it actually does the opposite causing the male to become submissive. When denied, the inability to orgasm forces the brain to over react and release more neurochemicls that control the emotional part of the brain which only deepens his submissiveness. After approximately a month or so (varies by male) of this daily process along with strict training and discipline, the male may lose emotional control. He may act out, BEG or even cry with tears for release. This means the process is working, DO NOT GIVE IN or feel sorry for him. Now is the most important time to be dominant, mean, and aggressive towards him, strongly humiliate and enforce your rule over him. This is another reason why strict discipline training is so important because at this point he can become an emotional fire ball causing problems with your training. The longer the stimulation of the male gentiles and the longer the time at which its done, the more the buildup and retention of the neurochemicals. This build up combined with verbal and physical reconditioning and enforcement of desirable behavior, ( also called training) forces the male to be at a submissive and controllable state. Training is reinforced with severe punishments to the point where the entire process has completely reconditioned and reprogrammed the male to your desired submissive state which leads to the finial phase of sexual control. This phase is called the acceptance phase, and is where the male has accepted his place as her submissive. He wants to serve and obey the mistress and now truly believes that it is his place and purpose. He now understands his place and his only purpose to you. He has been chemically, mentally, and physically emasculated to the point he has been broke, his male ego, will, and resistance to your authority is gone. He now gets sexual pleasure from serving and obeying his mistress and accepts she is being pleased sexually by a better more endowed man. He understands that he cannot in no way satisfy pussy and that the pleasure of pussy is only gifted to a better longer lasting, more endowed man and he looks to please pussy in other ways. He no longer thinks of pussy as an equal or pleasure he can ever attain but a power that is completely off limits, and meant to serve. He is now truly your SLAVE! At this point training is far less often but still required (once or twice a week) but rule enforcement and severe punishments are especially continued to keep control. You may choose to permanently chastise him and take a lover or boyfriend to completely replace him in bed. What ever you choose its your way from now on!
Sexual Control is actually a natural event unknowingly exercised by women on a smaller scale every day and by all aspects and ages of women. It is effective only with men, predominately married men. The Sexual control procedure described above is exploiting and taking advantages of the natural chemical submission process mainly found and undergone by married men although some single males are effected the same way. This procedure requires uninterrupted and consecutive training days/weeks/months and strict guidelines which include complete loss of orgasm, restricted penis stimulation (head only), cuckolding, pegging/strap-on, bondage, and the use of a chastity device. The requirements call for a dedicated, demanding, strict woman (referred as a Mistress or Dominatrix) and the use of severe punishment and reward system to distinguish between acceptable and non-acceptable behavior and actions. Feeling sorry, pity, or going easy on the male will have adverse effects towards training and desired attitude of the male. Rewards never include sex and vary by Dom depending on her type of training, but can include seeing, licking or smelling pussy, watching the Dom have sex, and free time. Any deterring from the course including Drama, fights or arguments will cause the release of counter acting neurochemicls greatly diminishing the submissive state. this will cause undesired effects and delays in training time and could ultimately cause failure of the process. This is why daily training, being a very strict dom, and extreme punishments are so vital for mental and physical change of the male.
After about 5 days of *edging* the male begins to be chemically hypnotized by the prolonged build up and surge of neurochemicals. After a few weeks to a month of correct stimulation and training the male will begin to experience mental loss of control or helplessness and a deeper hypnotic state. This is greatly expedited by verbal (small penis and his bigger penis) and physical (watching you have sex) humiliation. This is mostly because the orbito frontal cortex section of the brain is shutting down. This is the front section of the brain that controls thought, behavior, and reasoning. This section of the brain can be clouded because of extreme libido/horniness making him easily manipulated or even controlled, this is how trained sexually seductive women (like strippers) procure money from men. However it normally only completely shuts down during orgasm. It is the prolonged, extreme build up of the right neurochemicales that force the cortex to shut down, with out orgasm. This is the highest level of trance like- hypnotic state he will achieve. At this point he will have feelings that he is week, unable to control himself or the situation, submissive and unable to resist anything you say or command. He simply can't at this point, and he will agree to anything you say or submit to anything commanded of him, This is the time the dominatrix will implement forced bi-sex acts if she is pursuing sissy training. At this point you will create his new purpose to you and tell him what he is and how he will be, you will tell him whats expected of him and his proper place. This is the point you want to build him to daily and keep him there for as long as possible. At least an hour after build up and for a minimum of 2 or 3 months or until you see he has completely been broken and submitted fully to anything and every thing you say or command. Everything you train him for is eventually what he will want, he will believe that his natural place is serving and obeying you. He will want nothing else as it will feel natural and pleasing to him. He will remain sexually loyal to you, with out the ability to cheat, in fact he will have trouble getting/keeping an erection with out your participation or interaction. His sexual fantasies and pleasure will revolve around you having sex and what pleases you....His happiness will rely on serving and obey you.
As mentioned, it is the flood and build up of neurochemicals that force parts of the brain to over load and stop functioning or go into over drive giving you the ability to train him. This however is not long term and only happens after the build up occurs daily and only after the build up period has reached around 5 days. The chemicals will steadily build as long as the above mentioned process is done (min one hour) daily or at least within 24 hours of the last training time. Any longer than that, the build up will steadily decline. When done properly, with time, and with strict training, the level of build up will continue till he is unable to handle the euphoric feeling and lack of release, causing him to completely accept his submission and your authority over him. Like any drug it will wear off in time so it is vital that you remain strict, demanding, and always punish severely to reinforce the training from now on. It is also highly recommended that before, during, and after daily training, you keep him focused on his submission, purpose, rules, and chores with out interference (like unneeded communication, arguments, or stress). Keeping the levels high as possible day in and day out for months will make him submissive and chemically rewire his thoughts and reasoning process to the way you train him. With proper training and punishments he will get aroused by doing his chores and obeying you and it is this that will help keep the cycle going after training is over. During and especially after training you must keep his sexual energy and libido high to maintain a certain level of neurochemicls. This is easily achieved by simply being sexy, acting your part, enforcing rules, humiliating, and being sexually promiscuous or cuckolding.
*Caution* at no point do you want to allow your male release through his penis. Release/orgasm with his penis releases another neurochemical called Prolactin, which relieves sexual arousal and loss of interest and libido. This greatly diminishes submissiveness and the build up of the key chemicals that control his thoughts and behavior. Thus you should watch closely for any signs of ejaculating leading to orgasm. It is near impossible for an orgasm to come from anal/prostate play or pegging alone with out penis stimulation. It is also harder but not impossible to reach orgasm through the stimulation of the penis head alone. However if stimulated together, the chance of orgasm is more likely. To be safe watch closely and limit stimulating both at the same time. The male actually reaches higher levels of pleasure through anal and prostate play which is possible because the the greater number of nerve endings and nerve transmitters to the brain. This makes it possible for increased submissiveness and quicker build up time. Prostate milking the male is recommended 2-3 times per month to reduce the back up of seminal fluid into the bladder and other heath risks. This does lower the testosterone level for a short period of time lowering the libido mildly, but it is quickly recovered during the next training session. However it does prevent the loss of neurochemicls which is longer and harder to recover and greatly reduces the possibility of orgasm during stimulation of the penis. Many Dominatrix use the milking in a humiliating way and sexually humiliate the male during the process. This is further accomplished by demanding he lick and consume the discharged fluid.
This process has been studied and documented by myself and a small group of 7 female colleagues for over 3 years using a selected group of 220 males and 40 females. The males came from various work back grounds, education levels and varied in age from 25 to 45. The females were not asked, and varied in age from 21 to 41. The group consisted of married couples, dating couples, and singles. Our purpose was to see if there would be any difference with age or education of the males when studied. We used structural magnetic resonance imaging, various MRI's, electroencephalography, and various techniques including ATLUM, and Brainbow combined with constant supervision and documented everything.
The results were conclusive and varied slightly from male to male with each controlled group, but the facts and findings were the same across the groups; Men can be, under the right circumstances and process, be sexually and physically controlled and reprogrammed. During these tests we found a few unexpected results as follows; The men in the sexual control groups were more sexually content or satisfied, even when denied sex altogether versus men not assigned to control groups and allowed sex twice a week. This was especially the case with men in groups where the women and submissive were married or long term dating plus were very strict and controlling, with harsh punishments. We believe that this is because even though men allowed access to sex are satisfied after orgasm, its short lived because the urge for release builds back after a short time. However, men in the control groups without orgasm were physically and chemically reprogrammed and trained that serving, obeying and watching their mate have sex was their pleasure. Thus being rewarded "sexually" multiple times through out a day, but the biggest gain of sexual reward being had while allowed to watch his mate have sex. These same submissive men were also more and in some cases only sexually aroused by their female Dominants versus being allowed to interact sexually with other non dominating women. This was evident to the point most could not even achieve or maintain an erection with out involvement from their Dominant partner. We found all evidence was more supportive with married men as apposed to single men as a whole. This evidence also supports the "domesticated theory" of men in long term marriage of 5+ years I posted last year. *a must read*
We also noticed that at the same time the women in these control groups were more blissful and lively with a higher libido than women who were not in the control groups and had only one sex partner, married or not. They were also much more sexually euphoric, and eager to have sex more often when pared with multiple sex partners while denying their mate. This in particular was not a surprise to us because of prior research done by another university, summarized as follows; Women with multiple sex partners were more sexually satisfied having a higher quality of orgasms and experienced them more frequently and multiple times during intercourse versus women with only one mate. They found that women experience pleasure/orgasms on many levels, (far surpassing that of men) each from different erogenous zones on their body and that larger penis size does play a role in the higher level of orgasms they experience.....Specifically thickness over length. They also found that women enjoyed and preferred the quality and variation of sex as well as the level of orgasm its self, using both to judge their overall sexual satisfaction. Where as men (especially married men) were more focused on the climax and judged their overall sexual satisfaction based on how many they achieved per week. Meaning men in general were sexually happy with only one women giving them sex regularly or as wanted and women in general were sexually happier with multiple sex partners which attributed to higher quality of sex itself. The study also found single men or men with out regular access to sex, instinctively had more tendency to sexually please women (more/longer forplay, lasting longer etc.) than married men. Which suggest that men with out regular access to vaginal sex try to please the women in hopes he may be offered return visits. It also found that married men on average, especially 5+ years drastically lacked the ability to sexually satisfy his mate with problems ranging from Impotence, pre-mature ejaculation, stamina, to even size. All of this in conclusion means several things; That men experience and relate to sex/pleasure mostly (not entirely) through the simple act of climax/orgasm and not the act of sex its self, regardless of how its achieved or who its with and all men are limited to the level of pleasure that climax gives. They experience sex about the same every time no matter the sex partner and it is the frequency of the orgasm that matters most to them. So contrary to earlier biased male publications and lies, its not the number of women men need to have sex with to be sexually fulfilled or happy, its the number of orgasms a male has in a given period reguardless if its one women or several. This by design means men were meant to have only one sex partner were as women derive pleasure from the sex acts, sexual experience, and variation as well as the climax for full sexual satisfaction.....all only provided by multiple sex partners. This also is supported by the ability for most women to have multiple orgasms and men have only one, among other things.
Over the past 40 years the study and publication of sexual behavior between men and women has been biased. Its been favorably altered to suit male interest or believes and fears despite actual scientific findings. This was done because of fear for loss of power or authority in the household leading to the natural place of married men as servants to their wives....but also sexual control of women for easy access to unearned sex. Female interest and desires have been suppressed or lied about to persuade public belief and more specifically the women them selves, that women are more monogamous preferring one sex partner to be sexually happy and are sexually passive while men are more dominant and wanting multiple sex partners to be happy when it comes to sex. While that may be somewhat true in some cases or small percent, evidence supports the opposite for the mass majority of men and women. Research shows that women are the more powerful sex, the drive and sexual energy when it comes to sex, this is why so many ads depict women sexually to sell product. It also shows that women (if not sexually suppressed) have a higher sex drive then men, its just used and focused differently. True men may have the drive to have sex more frequently, but that's not the same as sexual power and that can be accomplished by one woman with any size or shape vagina. Its also true that women desire being pursued, variation, and quality of sex which only multiple partners can give, and they also desire fulfillment that only larger penis size can give and most often that's not with their mate/husband. Studies also show we were also built for pleasure via having the only organ built specifically for sex (the clit), over triple the amount of nerve endings over men, ability to experience orgasms in all three erogenous zones and on multiple levels delivered through multiple pathways. Its been in recent years that researchers and scientist have actually began to study and publicize unbiased findings and its our goal to do the same. This practice of male sexual control has been around for thousands of years to some degree or another and its been the very skilled women who have used this art to get what they want in life. Women have used this skill to control some of the most powerful men in history, like Cleopatra. I have been in this lifestyle myself for years and wanted to know the reason why men verses women were so easily controlled. This is why I started this study, to see how deep the male could go and be controlled and why. Be warned this is real, the practice described above does work and the effects if done correctly are long term and can be irreversible if done for long periods of time. So if your not truly wanting a servant, slave, submissive, bitch, or what ever your training for DO NOT CONTINUE THIS PRACTICE FOR LONGER THAN 6 MONTHS.
