Wednesday, November 16, 2022

His new treat

                                                                        HIS NEW TREAT  


I have been a dominatrix for over 5 years, which has been most of my marriage (at 7 yrs) and it's definitely been the best part of my marriage as I'm sure all Dom's will tell you. I'm not just talking about cuckolding him and the sex part, even though that in itself has been unbelievably mind blowing and honestly the main reason I forced him into submission in the first place (I think why most Doms do it). But I'm also talking about the quality, tranquility, and lifestyle of our reformed relationship, which is not as husband and wife. No, our relationship is far better, natural, and how it should be with him on his knees serving and obey me 24/7/365. But not just serving in my home, he serves me at all times and everywhere we go including holidays, vacations, even on our anniversary, and yes in public as well. I demand this and so should you, as his Mistress it's what I deserve and the way it should be but also the way I want it. Since the day I started taking this serious (there was a short time I didn't) being a Dom and actually living the femdom relationship, I have never been happier and neither has he. By serious,  meaning; being an actual Dominatrix which is dominant to say the least, aggressive, controlling, cruel, and sadistic, but also extremely strict and taking full control forcing his submission. Now, there is never a fight or argument, there is no back talking, (he is severely punished for it), I don't put up with any male bullshit at all, or anything else that comes with normal marriage. I don't ask him to do things, I command it and I simply do what I want, when I want and I control everything including the money. We live a 24/7/365 femdom lifestyle as Mistress and Bitch (actually he is a sissy bitch) just like every other femdom relationship does, and I do truly believe this is the way it should be. The terms Husband and Wife are never used, mentioned or even thought of and he is never allowed to think of himself as an equal, or even a man, nothing but my cock whipped sissy bitch. This is what I want and I do everything I can to keep it that way, I make him tell me several times a week, that he is my sissy bitch, that I own him, and tell me his place. He must also accept his place and acknowledge it when ordered to say it then say"he is my bitch and my property". In fact he has no input and he isn't even allowed to speak unless he asks for permission to do so. He has no opinion, thoughts, or control on anything, not even himself, much less his chores, how I govern my house or his servitude to me. He's never to touch my property (phone and all) and never allowed to question me or ask anything about my pussy in any capacity, Its none of his business as he is simply here to serve, obey and pay (actually hand over his entire paycheck) for the privilege of being on his knees in front of me. 

I don't play around with him, I want him to know his place and understand he is my bitch and I'm very dominant, strict, and controlling of him at all times. I take rule violations and disrespect very serious, none is tolerated and all infractions are dealt with severe punishments immediately as it should be and must be! If I could give you words of advice to be successful and get to the next level of submission or even just finishing his training, is this; You must understand that you are changing him mentally and physically through training and chemical altering and conditioning (by denying him sex/orgasms and building up key hormones in his system that keep him horny and promote submissiveness) and this is exactly what you want. But, because of this transformation YOU must take this serious and be the Dom not a wife and friend in order to keep the training progressing to the next level. As he takes this journey he will need you to be his Dom, he must believe that this is truly what you want and he must fear you to let go of any notions that he has any power or worse that he could still have pussy if he throws a big enough fit or temper tantrum to get it. He will never be the submissive he should be and you will never get the devoted submissive bitch you deserve if he doesn't fear you and believes he can get pussy if he really wants it. You must break him through cruelty, humiliation, and punishments forcing his submission to you. You must maintain his submissive nature by forcing him to accept his natural place kneeling at your feet, being devoted, obedient, and very happy to be there. It truly is vital that you be aggressively dominant, very cruel, and sadistic, plus enforce rules and routines with severe punishments for rule breaking or disobedience. This means at the time of the infraction or as soon as possible, NOT days later if you even do it at all, punishments must be given! Lastly you must also understand that Femdom can't be a half the time or only when its a convenient lifestyle, it is a belief and a 24/7/365 choice and should always be in the forefront of your mind. Men's brains are not capable of switching on and off in that capacity, and even if they could the chemical change wouldn't allow them to go from submissive to normal especially very long without complications and remember it is their natural place to be submissive to you. So Being as mean, strict, ruthless and cruel as you can be, is the only way to success and what he really needs to be the best bitch he can be, FOR YOU! Beside it takes no more energy, or skill to be what you want to be anyway. You have to take the initiative and change things up, try doing scenero's you read about, (even this scenario) try new things like putting him in different positions, or new places (woods, hotel rooms, ect.) different types of humiliation and punishments, get new toys or devices (even have him make them if money is tight) and keep him guessing what's next! When you are very strict, dominant, and cruel he will have no choice but to serve and obey as you direct him, plus it makes the days when you are not able to (maybe your sick, etc.) carry through to the next day when you can. So ask yourself this, what do you truly want? Where do you want to be in 3-4 month from now? How can you make that happen? Maybe you want a serious relationship with a hottie you might be talking to? Do you want to be the Boss in the relationship and do what you want when you want to from here out? Do you want to come home to a clean house, laundry done, and meals cooked, no backtalk or question asked, with full body messages, feet rubs and a very submissive bitch waiting on you hand and foot, eager to serve and obey just for the privilege of being your bitch? If you said yes to any of this, take my words of advice and be proud, be the Dom you are meant to be!    

Obviously when it all started for me, I didn't have a guide so I had to learn (why I put my time posting thess how to's, and scenes to try). I wasn't sure exactly what I was doing and I wasn't one of those women that naturally took charge and control because I'm fairly shy, didn't want to embarrass myself or look stupid, and I didn't want to hurt him to bad or scare him away. Honey, let me tell you this, you could never do anything to make yourself look anything but perfect if your doing things as you should be, and he needs exactly that! You also couldn't hurt him anymore than he needs or deserves and trust me, if your the Dom you should be no other woman would matter, he would only want to kneel at your feet and serve you. While most Doms already know all of this and have no problem breaking their bitch, it took time for me to realize that I had to be very dominate, strict and cruel with him. I'm not talking about telling him no, making him kneel or just refusing him sex, no I mean down right cruel, ruthless, and sadistic not to mention pain and punishments. Doing things that I didn't even know I could do or had in me. I'm talking about locking him in a dog cage for hours and using a litter box instead of a toilet, eating and drinking from dog dishes (that he washes out by hand) walking him on a leash, keeping him on his knees, spitting on his face or in his mouth, and even pissing on his face and/or in his mouth, sometimes forcing him to swallow some of it. This was just the tip of things I now do, I also took him to woods, strip him naked and walked him on a leash to a tree that I tied him to, then used a whip and cane on him till he cried and walked him back to the car. I also have made him stand in the corner at the mall or in stores, and even kneel at my feet in the food court while I ate. As crazy as this all sounded to me, it also turned me on and I eventually found out these are all normal things all Dom's do. I also made him serve friends and even boyfriends wearing nothing but his chastity and his panties, and had him used (fucked and suck cock) regularly by gay or bi-sexual men. So to say the least I eventually let loose, let out the bitch and let go of whatever was holding me back from taking my true and natural place as his mistress plus having the best sex I've ever had. He must fear you, The truth is you have to be dominate, cruel, sadistic, and ruthless to be a proper Dom and you have to punish every time he deserves it. Not just for your benefit, or because he needs this from you to be the best bitch he can be, but because this is how its meant to be. As I said before you deserve this so don't let yourself hold you back from having a devoted sissy bitch and a hot boyfriend to fuck you like you need it. Wants you let go of feeling restricted and start treating him the way he should be treated it will feel natural and honestly it will start to turn you on. Now I absolutely love the power and control I have over him as well as being served and treated like a goddess. OH and I really, really loved the fact I could have his complete submission and devotion as my bitch as well as date and fuck whomever I wanted while cuckolding and denying him sex. 

"His new treat" I had been seeing my boyfriend for just under 2 months. He was attractive and we got along great, plus the sex was so amazing, as I saw him more and more I couldn't get enough. He felt the same and we both admitted we really liked each other, so the last time he was over (2 days prior) we decided to make it more than just fuck friends (FWB) and officially be exclusive with each other. So today, (Friday) we wanted to have a few drinks to celebrate the official "we're dating thing", plus have more intimate sex. Earlier that morning I planned how the day and night would unfold. First thing I went to the mall to get a new lingerie outfit to wear for my boyfriend (Carter) and obviously tanning and nails as well. From there I went to the local sex store to buy a sissy porn video, and a couples toy for Jarrad. I ended up getting a small anal/vag vibe for me called a We-Vibe Jive that is remotely controlled by a phone app. Carter had mentioned he wanted to get something he could remotely control when we were out at dinner or where ever to turn me on and watch the reaction in my face, plus I could wear it while we had sex. Next it was the liquor store for Jack and coke for him and premade margarita drinks for me. From there I ended up at the grocery store to get some large ginger for my cock slut and a small pack of condoms. It was now pretty late so I hurried home to get stuff ready before my sissy bitch got home from work. I peeled the ginger - ginger causes a bad burning sensation when inserted into the ass and left, which gets worse the longer its left in or when the butt is tensed up from a punishment spanking (google ginger punishment) and put it into a small bowl of cold water with 4 ice cubes and then took it down to my dungeon for later. While I was downstairs in my dungeon I put the sissy video into the disc player and pressed play (the dvd player starts over when the disc is finished) for later. This is humiliating for him to watch because it focuses his attention on him being a sissy and craving cock.

As I was coming up My bitch was coming through the door and I said (in a firm voice)go take your fucking place. He hurried up the steps to get undressed and into his place kneeling by the door and the bed. I came in and said," You are to straighten up the house and get back in your fucking place, also the dungeon looks like shit CLEAN IT UP! Yes Mistress, thank you mistress! and he crawled out (he is never allowed to walk in front of me, he must crawl in the house) I proceeded to look for something sexy to wear for Carter. I had decided to just wear the lingerie outfit with a sexy see through robe that was rested just above the bottoms of my ass cheeks. I jumped into the shower to wash and shave, Carter likes a landing strip so I trim it to please him (I showed sissy the first time I shaved it for humiliation).  I came out of the shower to find my cum slut kneeling in his place (my towel was rapped around me as sissy is never allowed to see me naked, unless for humiliation) I asked if the chores were all done including laundry, dishes, and vacuuming? Yes mistress, and your drink is setting on your nightstand (he keeps up on the chores daily so they are finished fairly quick). He has been trained to fetch me a drink if he see's I don't have one or its empty. I took a drink and told him to get in the fucking corner (you must speak firmly). Since he is never allowed to see me naked, he must either kneel in the corner or put his face on the floor hands out in front of him (called the submit position). He isn't allowed to ask me whats going on or question me in any way so at this point he has no clue what's going to happen tonight. I did my hair and makeup then carefully put on the lingerie outfit. My sissy bitch isn't allowed to see me in lingerie unless my boyfriends see's me first, and he is serving in some manner, so I put on a bathrobe over it until my boyfriend arrives. I told my sissy he could come take his place, as he crawled over very close, I'm sure he could smell that I was very aroused and excited to see Carter. I stuck my finger inside me and put it up close to his nose then said do you smell how excited I am to see Carter tonight? Yes mistress, thank you mistress for allowing the privilege to smell Carters pussy. Smelling pussy is also a rare treat for him and when I use this I can practically get him to do anything, and I do use it to make him do humiliating acts just to be allowed the privilege to smell it, even on my finger. What can I say I'm a cruel bitch, LoL. I was looking at him seductively as I was thinking how happy I was that I emasculated, chatized, and mentally castrated him. Thrilled that I broke him and striped him of everything it was to be a man and reprogramed him into the perfect devoted and cock whipped sissy bitch that I deserve. Not to mention how much it turns me on to be cruel and sadistic to him, so I spit in his face (he isn't allowed to clean it off unless I say) and shout worship my fucking feet bitch. While he is thanking me for the privilege and worshiping my feet my boyfriend text me and said he is taking the exit. Oh shit, I need to get moving 

I opened the drawer and grabbed his prostate massager put his leash on  (he always wears a collar in the house) and walk him down (he always crawls) the stairs and into the family room towards his corner to kneel. I said SUBMIT (the position where his ass is in the air, legs spread apart, his chin on the floor looking down and his arms out in front of him) and slid the toy inside his pussy and turned it on. Then I ordered him to kneel in the corner and not to move unless ordered to do so. Then hooked the hand part of the leash onto his collar with a carabiner (the carabiner is left on his collar for instances like this). I got into my purse and got the condoms out and took them up to my bedroom for later and hung up my bathrobe. As I came down Carter was coming through the door, and saw me in the lingerie I picked out for him. WOW! he said, you look very beautiful and sexy to girl! He grabbed me and started kissing me passionately (I love how he kisses me) and squeezing my ass cheeks. After a few more kisses he took my hand and walked me upstairs to the bed room to drop his duffle bag of cloths then began telling me about his day and asked me about mine while he was getting dressed into something comfortable, grey sweats and a tight black t-shirt with socks to be exact (It turns me on when he wears grey sweets because I can see the outline of his big cock). That reminds me, I picked up the condoms on the nightstand and explained my plans for my sissy bitch later. He obviously knows all about my bitch as I explained most everything to him on our second date and of course he had questions that were explained in more detail on the third date and so on. For the record, men are very turned on by taking control of and pleasing another mans pussy. I told him that it really wasn't even an open relationship that Zack was my bitch, sissy bitch to be exact. I also explained that his only purpose was to serve and obey me and pay the bills. But what really excited Carter was that my bitch wasn't allowed sex or anything at all to do with my pussy, no touching, not even allowed to see it. If that didn't excite him enough, I told him he wore a chastity 24/7/365 and showed him picks of him in his pink chastity with panties on. See he isn't even allowed to touch his clitty as I laughed. So he wears the chastity all the time, he said? YES, it's only removed to change between chastities and clean a few times a month. To which he said, I'm actually turned on and impressed! However, the first time we meet I told him I was in an open relationship and explained I do what I want (never tell a potential boyfriend your married). Here we are almost 2 months later and he's starting to command my bitch himself and help me use him for sexual activities as well because we talked about it really turning me on. 

After I told him about my plans for my sissy tonight, he said your ruthless and it's fucking hot! He was also pretty turned on so he picked me up and laid me on the bed as we kissed. He pulled down the bra and began sucking my breast at the same time his finger pulled my panties aside and entered me. I started to moan as he moved to sucking on my neck. He then slid down and started licking on my clit while he fingered me and I quickly got off, 2 times to be exact. By now I was wanting his cock so bad (I actually wanted it the day prior so I was really horny for it by now). I pulled him up to sit up and suck his cock which was already swollen and rock hard. I absolutely love his cock, it's not just long (8 1/2 inches) but very thing (the way I love it) and he really knows how to use it. He truly fucks me way better than my pathetic sissy bitch ever did. He grabs a condom off the nightstand and says should I wear it now or wait till I'm about to cum and just blow inside it? I said, you know I love to feel you bare back, so just blow in it when your close! He opened it up to have it ready and laid it next to me as he slid his beautiful cock inside me. Almost instantly I started moaning (men love hearing a woman moan). He got me off at least 5 times over the next 30 minutes and quickly grabbed the condom and slid it on and then his cock back inside me and pumped till he came (which caused me to orgasm yet again). He got up and I squeezed his cock as I carefully slid the condom off to make sure I got every last drop. I then Tied it into a knot and slid it inside me with the knot barley hanging out (easier to grab to pull out) to keep the cum wet and warm for later. He slid his sweats back on as I straightened my self up and put my panties back on. then we walked back downstairs to see my cock slut still kneeling in the corner like a good bitch.

We sat down on the couch and I laid on Carter's chest as he turned on the movie that he told me he wanted to see on the phone (he bought it on my sissies account). I ordered my sissy bitch to get ice and make our drinks, yes mistress he said as he crawled to the kitchen to stand up to full fill my order. Since he wasn't able to crawl with 2 drinks in his hand (he is allowed to walk but must kneel immediately after). He kneeled and looked at the floor (he is never allowed to make eye contact unless ordered) and handed us our drinks. Now get my phone, I left it up stairs on the nightstand. This was done on purpose for humiliation as I wanted him to go upstairs and see that the bed he made earlier was messed up from sex and so that he could smell sex in the air (the hormones make sissy's weak and submissive). But I also wanted him to see the condoms and the open wrapper the condom was in (mind fuck for later lol). He quickly returned crawling with my phone and kneeled in his place at our feet. Now go get back into the corner until your required again, yes mistress he said. I ordered chinese food (Carter loves it) on my bitches credit card. As we somewhat watched the movie we were making out fairly heavily and I know my bitch could hear as we messed around. After about 30 minutes into the movie the doorbell rang. GO GET OUR FOOD BITCH, I yelled. He quickly crawled out to go get on his tight pink spandex shorts and pink half shirt to answer the door in. He's made to wear them as part of his humiliation as they go up the crack of his ass and if you look, you can see his chastity outline, he looks very sissy like. He again walks back in and gets silverware for our food and comes to kneel back in his place repeating as he did earlier. I took our food out of the bag and told him to sit the bag (this was his food) on the counter and make us another drink. He returned with drinks and I said back to your fucking corner cock slut! After we ate he was ordered to clean up the mess and back to the corner. 

The movies was just about over (about 20 minutes or so left) and we started kissing as he rubbed my clit. I was so turned on, not that it mattered as I was already wanting his cock again. I made sure my bitch could hear us kissing and messing around throughout the movie but it was time for some more humiliation, so I stood up and said, "GET OVER HERE BITCH!" He quickly crawled over as his ass depended on it, literally. As he kneeled, I took off my see through gown so he could get a little glance of the lingerie outfit and I said hold this as I threw it over his shoulder. I turned around to face Carson and bent over so sissy could see my ass really good (about a foot away from his face) but more importantly Carter's big cock through the opening between my legs. I had it out playing with it towards the end of the movie and he was still hard, unlike my sissy, his pathetic clitty wouldn't be able to stay hard. It's good for submission, but I also love to humiliate my sissy about how much bigger Carson's cock is (if your cuckolding you need to humiliate about how much bigger, better, and last longer than your sissy), how he is a real man and he can actually please me. Humiliation helps put subs in there place but also keeps them there. I started to suck his big cock letting my sissy see how I could barely get it into my mouth, again more humiliation. I sucked for about a minute or two then turned to notice his clitty was dripping pre-cum out of the chastity. I then said, "GO THE FUCK AWAY!" This is a command I use that means "to go kneel in the corner of another room", which his place is the dining room so he can hear me give orders to obey. He's sometimes permitted to watch or just hear us mess around, but rarely allowed to watch us have sex unless for humiliation or when he is enhancing our pleasure by licking or sucking one of us or both of us. He crawls away to the dining room with a dripping clitty. When sissy's leak/drip pre-cum out of their chastity it is a sign of a high arousal state but more importantly its submission to the alpha male. This brings up another point between a real man and a pathetic sissy bitch, while I'm standing in front of my boyfriend (a real man) in lingerie he gets hard, grabs my ass, is excited and thinking about fucking the shit out of me. But I stand exactly the same in front of my sissy bitch and he gets weak, submits, and can only think about serving and worshiping my ass....Which is exactly what I want and why he was meant to be my bitch. Truthfully, He could never please me sexually with his pathetic small clitty, or last longer than a few minutes (not that I wanted him to with no pleasure) but he can please me or even turn me on (wanting Carson's big cock) by suffering for me, serving and obeying, or worshiping my feet and ass and last as long as I want him on his knees doing so. Not to mention the whole body massages, head and foot rubs, so he is where he was meant to be and exactly where I want him!

After my sissy left the room I kneeled down and sucked Carter's cock more, knowing he would lose whatever focus he had left on the movie and take me upstairs to fuck the shit out of me again. Needless to say a few minutes later he was saying lets go fuck (of course baby). We stood up and he kissed me, then he grabbed my hand walking me towards the steps. I yelled to my bitch to shut off everything, clean up and bring us up some fresh drinks. About 10 minutes later sissy came in with our drinks and kneeled next to us as I was straddled on Carter's lap facing him (both sitting up) with my arms around the top of his shoulder and neck, his holding my waist. We were both naked except my panties (as Carter undressed me and then threw off his clothes as soon as we got upstairs). I said sit the drinks down and put on your blindfold in the top draw. After it was on, I stood up checked the blindfold to make sure it was tight, then took off my panties and grabbed his leash pulling him over to my ass as I climbed back onto Carson. I said lick my fucking asshole bitch and you better do it right. As he licked the rim for a few minutes and then tongued deep into my asshole (which he knows I love), Carter laid back onto the bed and pulled me down on top of him so sissy could lick my ass better as we kissed. My bitch knows he is never to lick past my asshole to carters pussy (a severe punishment stopped that) After about 5 minutes I said enough and sissy thanked me for the privilege to worship my ass (he knows failing to thank me for privileges is a severe punishment). I took the leash off the carabiner and walked him through the door and told him to "submit" and stay. I then closed the door over the leash so that he was on the outside of the bedroom with the door closed and the leash went under the door and I pulled it up to hook on the door knob so he couldn't get up or move. All he could do is stay on his knees in the "submit position" and listen to Carson fuck the shit out of me as I moaned and screamed for over an hour (1 hour 15 minutes). The humiliation of hearing me moan and scream the entire time was not all the humiliation he received, he also heard me telling Carson that I loved his cock and Carson making me tell him its his pussy and that I wanted it to be his pussy from now on... How tight his pussy is and how good it feels, as well as other humiliating stuff. Humiliation is very important in his submission not just to me but also to Carson as it helps reprogram his mind and reinforce his position and purpose to me (as well as it will you). I really wanted him to know his place from now on, his true place and purpose for me which as I said is serving, obey, and paying me for the privilege to do so.      

After a hard fuck session with me moaning and groaning just about the entire time, we needed a break and Carter wanted some alone time for more intimate sex with me. Plus it was more humiliating for my bitch to only hear part of it (and why I love Carson's cock so much) then go to his cage not being permitted to hear the rest so his mind can run wild with humiliation. After I slid on some panties, I unhooked the leash from the door knob and opened the door and said in a firm voice up! I noticed that his clitty was leaking pre-cum so I bent down and wiped it with my finger saying open your fucking mouth and shoved it into his mouth. Then I ordered in a firm voice for him to lick clean the mess on the carpet. Then I walked sissy to the dungeon but instead of locking him in his cage as I normally do, I made him kneel at the foot of the bed/bench (its more of a tie down table) facing the door. I then cuffed his hinds behind his back and put in a mouth spreader so he would slobber all over himself and I could force him to suck my strap-on cock later. Then put the "wedge stool" under him to force him up on his knees (for torture knowing keeping him in his place, on his knees would be more painful with as long as he's been kneeling tonight). The "wedge" is a sharp triangle shaped kneeling stool made of wood (sometimes steel) that the sub kneels on to hold him in place. It causes pain in the area of the asshole and in between the balls if he lowers off his knees. So It basically keeps him on his knees, you can also strap various types of dildos onto it for added stretch pain as well. And you can attach shock pads from a shocking device and strap his balls to it, kind of forcing him to endure some pain from the wedge and shock at the same time. Finally I take some Tiger Balm and rub it all over his balls, then turned out the lights except the bright spot light which I have mounted on the wall facing his face. I shut the door and washed my hands (you don't want this in your eyes) before going back up to my bedroom. 

As I enter, Carson was still lying naked on the bed, only now he had some soft R&B music playing on my google nest hub (Mini screen device similar to Alexa) and was playing on his phone. As he quickly stood up, he asked if sissy was locked down, to which I replied painfully locked down whith a sadistic grin on my face. He grabbed my waist and pulled me to him and started kissing me very passionately then pushed me towards the bed. He gently pushed me back onto the bed and started licking me (which he is honestly very good at) for several minutes. After about three orgasms he slowly licks up my stomach to my breast and spent some time licking and sucking on my nipples until he left a sucker mark right next to my right nipple (so my sissy can see he's marking his property). He knows not to leave a hickey on my neck because I think its tacky but I'm fine anywhere else that shows sissy humiliation. He then starts kissing me again as I reach down to play with his cock that is already rock hard. He spreads my legs wide and slowly enters me and starts pumping in and out. I instantly feel pleasure and get very wet (something I've never done with sissy) as he again starts kissing me very slow and passionately. His cock is hitting that perfect spot that makes me build to a strong orgasm, only he's going slow and steady purposely to keep me building higher and higher to an orgasm. I'm already moaning softly from the pleasure of his cock, but now he starts sucking on my neck (which he knows I love), and I feel the orgasm build to the point I didn't think it could build anymore. But it did, higher and higher as he started picking up speed as his slow gentle strokes turned into harder steady strokes and there it was a mind blowing passionate orgasm that was far better than anything my sissy ever gave me (but then again they all were lol). But it wasn't over yet, as soon as I start moaning and screaming louder from the intense orgasm, he pulls my head up and we lock eyes as he starts pounding me harder and faster and I start scream out OMG, OMG as I completely explode to the best orgasm I've ever had.

We continue to have hot passionate sex like this in various positions for about another 1 1/2 hours,  It literally was some of the best sex I've ever had, if not the best. At the end he had cum at the same time I had another mind blowing orgasm and filled my pussy with his cum, I actually love it when he cums inside me and I feel his big cock get very hard as his warm load unleashes. We laid there for another few minutes kissing passionately as I felt his cock get soft (even soft he is still bigger then sissy hard) inside me. Carson rolled off me and laid next to me and we talked for a few minutes before I had to get up to go pee. I then grabbed the cum filled condom from earlier (I stuck in a heating pad on low setting to keep it warm and fresh). By now it was getting late so I put on my panties and told Carson I'd better get downstairs and punish sissy and give him his treat reminding him he was welcome to come watch. He said to leave the door cracked he might come down after he gets a shower. He has watched a few times before without my sissy knowing as he was wearing a blind fold. I kissed him then started to walk away and he pulled me back to kiss him again and said, "your so fucking hot when your cruel". I gave him an evil grin and walked down to the dungeon. 

As I walked in sissy had slobber running down his face and his clitty was still leaking a lot of pre-cum. I said firmly, your pathetic little clitty can't stop leaking (remember leaking pre-cum is a sign of submission to an alpha male), you can't help but submit to a real man fucking me like I deserve because you know your meant to be a cock whipped sissy slut, don't you! Yes mistress he replied. It must be fucking humiliating that there's nothing you can do about it and you can't even control your fucking mess, but that's all that will ever come out of that worthless tiny clit. That's what Sissie's are for, humiliation, torture, amusement, and fucking obeying his mistress, OH, and paying for the privilege to serve me. Well I bet your ready to get out of those cuffs and off the "wedge" aren't you. YES Mistress! he tried saying through the mouth spreader. That's to bad, I have plans for your fucking sissy mouth, I went over and put on my strap-on with the large cock then forced it into his mouth. I fucked his mouth and made him gag a little as I humiliated him that Carson cock was about this big (it really is) and that he fucked me way better than your pathetic clitty ever could, but I'm sure you could tell, couldn't you bitch? He tried to say yes mistress the best he could with a large cock in his mouth. I had one hand on his leash and the other grabbing a hand full of hair forcing my cock into his wet mouth telling him to suck my fucking cock like he loves it. As he is gaging on it, I explained that he better get use to sucking and pleasing cock a lot because he was about to start for real as I had listed him a profile with pics of him (he didn't know I had taken them as he was blind folded) some naked pics of his ass in various positions and some with panties on, plus one with his pink chastity on and one with it off and hard. I posted them on several gay and bi-sexual web sites including "Grindr". I told him that I'd been talking to several guys from there and explained our situation and that he could literally be used anytime they wanted (with in reason and a little advanced notice). So you already have a few cocks that can't wait to use you like you fucking deserve. But don't worry, eventually your going to love it and even beg to have your cock hole fucked. I could see the desperation and humiliation in his eyes as he said, are you serious mistress? Yes, and you will be trained to please cock the proper way, I said as I laugh at him.  

After a few more minutes of humiliation I said, well lets get this mouth spreader off so you can suck the pre-cum off my finger, then I'll let you up to lick the wedge board clean of your nasty mess. After he finished cleaning up his mess (yes I made him suck the pre-cum off my fingers like it was icing), I uncuffed him and told him to worship my fucking feet, which he quickly bent down and started kissing and licking my feet. As he worshiped them, I reached over to get a latex glove on and then continued to humiliate him about being a pathetic panty wearing cock slut as I reached down to play with his asshole and started fingering his pussy. I bet your craving my cock right now aren't you bitch? Yes mistress as he moaned and continued to kiss and lick my feet. That's a good cock slut, now KNEEL I said in a firm voice to which he quickly obeyed. Beg me just like the pathetic cock whipped slut you are, beg me to allow you the fucking privilege to have my big cock deep in your pussy. Immediately he started to beg for my cock as he looked down at the floor (he is never allowed to look up unless ordered to do so). He was begging sincerely as I shouted, LOOK AT ME AND BEG! then I spit on his face. He looked up and said yes mistress, please mistress, may I please be permitted the pleasure of your big cock? May I please be permitted to be a good cock slut for you and amuse you by moaning and screaming to your big cock forcing me to cum and submit to it? Please mistress I'm begging you? SHUT THE FUCK UP and get up on the bench I yelled! He climbed up and I proceeded to lock him down good and tight because I didn't want him to move at all for what was about to happen. I unlocked his chastity (it had been almost a week since it was off) and pulled his tiny package (balls and all) back and clamped them in the bench. This puts his clitty facing down towards the floor, and I started to edge him by licking and fingering his prostate. After about 10 minutes he was begging for cock again and I said beg louder, to which he did as I walked around to the front of him and said SUCK MY FUCKING COCK AND GET IT READY! He opened wide as I slid it into his mouth and again began fucking his mouth. I pulled it out and slapped him across the face with it then lubed it up and slowly slid it in saying thank your mistress for the privilege of my fucking cock. He thanked me as his words turned into moans and whimpering from my cock stretching his pussy and going deep. I said That's right bitch as I laughed, you can't help but moan from my cock can you bitch? No mistress he replied. After about 20 minutes of pounding his pussy and humiliating him I pulled out and again went around the front, grabbed him by the leash and made him suck and lick my cock clean of lube (Strep can happen but is rare if properly cleaned out, and there's antibiotics if it does) saying suck my fucking cock clean slut! This is very humiliating for sissies, and reinforces their place. After about 5 minutes, I pulled it out and said what should you say slut? He again thanked me for the privilege of pleasing my cock. I absolutely love seeing and hearing him beg to be my bitch and transform into a true sissy bitch willing to obey my every command, it is so intoxicating. 

It was time for his treat and training to accept his treat with any dirty humiliating way I want him to take it. For the record, he has been forced to lick clean his own messes and even did clean up duty a few times with my last boyfriend, but this time it was going to be different. From now on he would do clean up every time possible, and from here out he would not be allowed to lick it directly from my pussy (at least very rarely). Instead I would squat over him and squeeze it into his mouth then finger feed the rest of it to him or do it in whatever humiliating way I could think of like having Carson shoot it straight into his mouth. I took off the strap-on and hung it up, then I got the ginger off the table by the door, took it out of the cold water and shoved it into his ass hole so it could start to take its affect on him before his caning. Then I grabbed the ball gag and walked in front of him saying its time for your new treat. He looked puzzled as his mind went wild with curiosity of what I was talking about. I walked over and grabbed his dog dish (it says sissy bitch on it in all caps) and placed it in front of him and proceeded to squat over it and pull my panties aside just enough for him to see the cum dripping from my pussy lips. I squeezed and fingered my pussy to get every last drop into his dish then reached up to wipe what was on my finger across the bottom of his nose and lips. I knew the smell of sex would both drive him crazy inside and make him weak and submissive. I then took the condom full of cum and cut it open and squeezed it into his bowl. The whole time he looked very humiliated as by now he was understanding 2 things, first what his new treat was going to be and how much of it there was, and second that I had started letting Carson cum inside his pussy. At least that's what he thought, but he was about to get even more humiliation. I Then stood up and said you look humiliated and frustrated! Yes Mistress, That's good, you should be. Mistress may I please have permission to speak, he said in a humble tone. Yes bitch, what? Its very humiliating that your going to make me eat his cum especially since I can't even lick it from his pussy but its really humiliating that you let him cum inside his pussy tonight. I laughed and said, your going to be eating Carson's cum every time possible from now on, but tonight wasn't the first time he didn't use a condom and cum inside me. He then spoke without permission saying, its not mistress? Again I laughed and said no, he's been fucking me almost the whole time without one and cumming inside his pussy. He looked like he was about to cry, and I said AW-AW, is sissy going to cry for me as I started laughing at him, don't worry sissy's going to have plenty of time for that tonight especially since you spoke with out permission. The fear of punishment snapped him back into submission as he quickly said I'm sorry Mistress for my disobedience! Oh your going to be very sorry, I promise you that. Yes Mistress!

Your probably really humiliated that he's fucked me this whole time with out a condom and you didn't know, yes Mistress! Its none of your fucking business though is it BITCH! I said in a very strict tone. No Mistress! That's right, you deserve nothing at all to do with pussy, the only reason you know now is for the humiliation of it and as I said before so you can expect to clean up the fucking mess every time possible. I walk over to get the cane and the cat-0-nine tails whip and start using the cane on his ass first, hitting his ass 10 times slow and hard. Then I said, I'm sure knowing this your really realizing that its going to be his pussy from now on and there is nothing you can do about it, is there bitch? No mistress, that's fucking right, your place and purpose for me is nothing more than serving and obey and paying for that privilege. Yes mistress! Then I hit another 10 times slow and hard, followed by 20 fast and hard hits. Do I have your attention bitch? YES MISTRESS! he yelped out. GOOD, your training is about to begin I said in a firm voice. I want you to know I meant what I said, you will never have anything to do with pussy again much less feeling the pleasure of it. I hit him another 20 fast and hard while saying, You will be grateful and thank me for the rare times I even let you smell it, even if on my finger is that understood bitch! YES MISTRESS! he cried out. Another 10 slow, hard hits. Now he is really whimpering and flinching with every hit, but the ginger is keeping him from clenching his ass checks so he must endure every hit. I speak in a dominant and firm voice from here till I'm finished with him, saying Your going to lick every drop of his cum out of your bowl and your going to beg me to do it, but not yet, not till I'm finished with you. I want you ready to do it, then hit him another 10 fast and hard. I want you really wanting his cum in your mouth, I want you sexually excited to taste his warm cum in your mouth and please me that way. I want you to be a true cock whipped slut, ass I hit him another 20 fast and hard. Then I put the ballgag in and continued to hit him in series of 10 and 20 hits mixing them slow and hard. He eventually was screaming and yelling with muffled cries and pleads to stop, but I continued to hit, humiliate and scold him about his place and purpose. His muffled yelps, and screams eventually turned into crying and tears and I laughed at him and hit more until I felt he was ready to beg me to lick up Carson's cum (over 300 hits later).

I hit him as I said are you ready to beg me to clean up Carson's cum, he shook his head violently saying yes mistress may I please beg you to lick it up. It was muffled but it still really excited me and turned me on especially with the power I have over him. I took off the gag and slobber was all over the floor and gag, I laughed and said see your slobber tells me you want it in your mouth more than you know, joking of course it was the ball gag that did this. Yes mistress he said in a trembling voice. Well, what do you have to say as I hit him another 10 times hard and fast. As He starts saying PLEASE MISTRESS! PLEASE!PLEASE! may I lick up Carson's cum. I feel Carson reach around to my pussy and start rubbing my clit. Please mistress I'm begging you to allow me the privilege of cleaning up his cum. I hit him another 10 times fast and hard as best I can anyways with Carson telling me how much it turns him on to see sissy submit to me. I say you can do better than that in a loud voice. Yes mistress! As he again pleads to taste his cum and begs to be my cum licking cock slut, Carson spins me around and kisses me passionately and I feel his cock harden as he presses it against my pussy lips (thinking thank goodness for the V pill). He starts to rub my clit with his cock pumping it in and out before he spins me around and slides it in from behind. He pumps about 10 times then pulls it out saying hurry this up and get your ass upstairs, I want that again before bed. Then he smacks me on the ass and walks out. I zone back in and sissy is still begging me to lick his cum from the bowl, so I don't think he even heard Carson in the room or at least he was to scared to take his focus off begging me for his cum to prevent another beating. Now I switch to the cat-o-nine tails whip and say tell me who's bitch you are and start hitting him back hand and front hand with the whip. As he confesses he's my bitch he pleads to stop, but I continue saying what's you place and where do you belong from here out? My place is serving and obey you mistress and I belong kneeling at your feet from here out mistress! GOOD BITCH! You may now clean up his fucking mess but you better not disappoint me! He licks the bowl clean and says thank you mistress for allowing me the privilege of licking his cum. His ass is extremely welted up, purple and red (black and blue as they say) and I'm very pleased with my work and the submission it accomplished.

I tell him I'm going to let him up, he is not to touch his ass or the ginger until the mess is cleaned up. I untie him and he quickly drops to his knees and thanks me for the privilege of serving me and allowing him to lick Carson's cum up. He begs to serve me from now on and asks me to please allow him to be my cock slut from here out. I smiled and said in a firm voice, YES that's your fucking place, now clean up the fucking mess. He quickly started cleaning up and came back to kneel at my feet, but all I could think of was hurrying to get up stairs to Carson. I said GET IN YOUR FUCKING CAGE! Then locked the door, I said as I walked to the door that if he was lucky after Carson left in the morning I would bring down his cum breakfast from morning sex and allow him to sniff my cum filled panties a bit before doing Saturday chores, as I was going upstairs to get fucked again. Then looked at him with an evil grin as he said yes mistress, please mistress may I have that privilege then turned out the light and closed the door saying we'll see bitch! I went upstairs and climbed on top of Carson and we had slow passionate sex for about 20 minutes, my pussy was already swollen and sore and I wanted it to rest before morning sex. I fell asleep laying on his chest. 

You can and even should use this entire event as a scenario for you to follow. I did as this is an actual ceremonial event most Doms due for forced cum eating or just for humiliation as they stop using condoms with a boyfriend. Till next time...

Your success is on you!

Mistress 

      

                   

      

       

                         

Monday, October 31, 2022

Talking and acting as a Dominatrix

                                                        Talking and acting as a Dominatrix

As a Dominatrix there are requirements and standards when interacting with and speaking to your bitch, and these standards are crucial for submission, obedience, reprogramming, and successfully training him to be the best sub he can be for you. You are training him to be the perfect bitch, to obey, to act and do exactly what you want and this means being very strict, aggressive and doing what's necessary to train him correctly. This is why standards are extremely important but standards also help with your dominance, asserting power and authority, as we are not talking about who is more in charge or who wears the pants in the house and you certainly don't want a power struggle. We are talking about Femdom (Female Domination) here, which is completely about female empowerment, authority, control and dominance over your male. A Dominatrix doesn't want a submissive bitch that is unruly, disobedient, backtalks, or questions her as she would never allow any of this, she would beat it out of him with a very severe punishment every time he deserves it. A proper caning will show you the difference of his submission before and after the caning and trust me a severe ass beating will stop all misbehavior and bring forth a very submissive and obedient bitch. A Dominatrix enforces a very strict routine and guide on how her bitch is to act and obey at all times including strict rules and household chores he is to complete. Her bitch is well disciplined, very submissive, and obedient following every rule with complete accuracy for fear of an extreme punishment caning. A Mistress doesn't have a husband or an equal, she doesn't want one either, she wants something far better, A devoted submissive bitch! You are "THE MISTRESS" and I'm talking about you here, you own a bitch, a domesticated submissive servant WHO's only purpose is to serve, obey, AND hand over his entire paycheck!!! So start treating him like the bitch you want and deserve. The mistress has all the power and control, you own everything and take his entire paycheck, he may have a small allowance for gas and drink. You must not think of your relationship as husband and wife, as partners, as friends or equals. You want it the way it should be, a more natural and matriarchal order that only benefits you, with you as the Dominatrix and he as your submissive bitch. If you don't take this serious, fail to realize this and act on it appropriately, then sweetheart you will fail and all the work you put in will be for nothing. So ask yourself this, are you a Wife or a Mistress? Will you do what's necessary to have what you deserve?

Femdom is complete dominance; physically, verbally and especially mentally. It is, taking all control over the male and forcing his submission and obedience to you. The very meaning and whole point of Femdom is "female dominance and power", to dominate, and control every aspect of your male. Including his diet, his thoughts, and to rule over him in an extremely strict, very cruel, ruthless manner so that there is no doubt or question that you are in control and his place is on his knees in front of you. With that said, if this is not your belief, what you practice, or the way you operate, then you are probably not a Domme and should think about what you truly want and deserve. I can guide you and tell you what you need and should be doing but your success or failure is up to you. This is the natural order and you do deserve this, so your only goal, focus and the most important act or action you do is to be a Mistress and do your part. Do not mix hubby and wife with Dominatrix and submissive bitch. Start completely breaking him down physically and mentally and destroy all that is male to create your perfect devoted bitch. You do not care about his thoughts or feelings or what he wants, it will be your way and he will obey you. Make no mistake, you must be the Dominatrix, you must be strict, cruel, sadistic and punish severely. You must demoralize him, degrade, emasculate, and effeminate him (sissify if that's your goal), to completely destroy his masculinity, male ego and male thinking. Then you train him aggressively hard, being very strict, and reprogram him to be the bitch you want and deserve. Before long you will have the best life and the best sex you ever thought possible. YOU are a Dominatrix, YOU deserve to be pampered, spoiled, and worshiped as such,  and you deserve a devoted obedient and completely submissive male to serve and obey you. You deserve a real man between your legs enjoying the best hot passionate sex every night! So you will do everything in your power to dominate and control him, YOU must do what is necessary!!! You must keep him in the proper atmosphere and you have to be very cruel and mean, you have to be dominant and aggressive, you have to be forceful, and you have to be sadistic at all times. SPEAK WITH AUTHORITY and demand submission! You must be cruel beyond anything you thought possible, doing sadistic things you didn't even know you could do, and you must break him to the point he is powerless to do anything but accept his natural role to serve and obey and you will tell him this. When I say strict, I very much mean Strict! Do you forbid him to make eye contact? He should be looking at the floor unless ordered to look at you. Do you make him address you as his mistress ALWAYS (even in public) it is all about respecting your authority? Do you make him ask for permission to do everything, including speaking and restroom privilege's? Everything you allow is a privilege and it requires permission, you may or may not allow it. Do you humiliate him throughout the day? Does he not have a small pathetic clitty, does he not suck in bed, is he not a pathetic (sissy)bitch, was he better suited to pleasure cock, is his purpose to serve and obey, then humiliate him about these things and more every day! Do you make him tell you he is your bitch and what his purpose is for you? Do you make him grovel at your feet at least 3-4 times a week? Do you make him lick/kiss your feet and ass 3-4 times a week? All of this is part of reprogramming him. Do you make him wear panties and girly attire or a french maid outfit to clean in? Do you make him shave off all his body hair (at least the genital area)? Do you make him kneel in the corner just because? Do you make him practice sucking cock while you read a book or watch TV? Do you make him wear a butt plug or prostate device around the house or out in public several times a week? Do you make him follow rules and do chores? Do you cane him once or twice a week for submission reminders or just because you enjoy hearing him scream? Do you have a cage for your bitch (if not buy one)? Do you make him stay in a cage when you go out or have someone over? Do you make him sleep in his cage sometimes or always? Do you tell him what he is allowed to eat and when he may eat? After all he needs to stay clean for taking dick! Do you make him wait to eat after you? Do you forbid him to eat when dining out and instead do you make him eat and drink all meals from dog bowls on the floor? Do you forbid him to speak in public unless spoken to and do you order his meals making him eat what you decide? Do you make him use a kitty litter box? Do you spit in his face at least 2 times a week (remember not to allow him to wipe it off) or do you spit in his mouth a few times a week (mix it up)? Do you make him wear a collar at all times possible? Do you walk him on his hands and knees with a leash at least 3 or 4 times a week? Do you make him kneel always? Do you make him crawl away from you before he can stand up? Do you make him stay naked at all times possible? Do you piss on his face or in his mouth at least once a month? Do you use torture devices on him like ball stretcher, ball crusher or smasher, anus stretcher, urethral stretcher, gates of hell (if you find one small enough), Shocking devices, suction cups, ball gag or mouth spreader (both do different things) penis pump (it actually hurts when left on for 10 minutes or so) Icy hot or tiger balm on balls or nipples? nipple clamps, ball clamps or cups?  Do you stretch his ass with large dildos or toys at least once a week? Does it turn you on to torture him with your toys as described above? Do you make him clean on his hands and knees? Do you make him clean with his mouth or a toothbrush or other humiliating devices? Do you cuckold him regularly (at least 2 or 3 times a week)? Do you humiliate him about the cuckolding (bigger, better, last longer, make you cum many times, cum harder, get fucked in many positions, allow him to do things your bitch can't, cum inside you? Do you make him listen or watch on occasions, do you forbid him to listen or watch most times?  Do you make him lick clean every cum mess, even his own? These are all things a Dominatrix does to her bitch, If you don't do these things, ALL OF THEM, then you are not being a proper Dominatrix, and you are definitely not being dominant and cruel enough, you are not taking your position serious!

Your male was meant to serve and obey you, he was built for it (mind and muscles), it's in his genes and he can't help but obey an aggressive dominant women. However, it's not just going to happen because you shout a few orders, you have to put the work and effort into it and force out his natural submissive side. Plus you have to do your part, dress properly as a dom wearing dominant attire/lingerie and "ACT" as your supposed to. You don't want an occasional bitch that will at times back talk or refuse to obey, you want a full time, fully devoted bitch to never question you, or back talk, only follow orders and obey! As a Dominatrix, you must constantly be very humiliating towards him, saying humiliating things, doing humiliating things to him, putting him in humiliating positions, doing humiliating acts at different places. You must buy all kinds of toys and torture devices and use all of them, change up his training days and scenarios, do not do the same thing every day/night, keep him guessing what's next! Have you ever made your bitch stand in the corner at the mall while you shop? Have you ever made your bitch kneel at the food court while you eat? Have you said something very humiliating to him in front of a female store clerk or waitress? Have you ever made him wear something humiliating in public (not around friends)? Your mind and your thoughts must be as a Dominatrix, trust me, you can not be to dominant, cruel or aggressive enough, there is no such thing or point that's to far, or to humiliating, to cruel and sadistic, especially if it pleases you. It is your natural place to rule over him, to control and dominate him, and you need to be a dominant bitch towards him, enforcing your rules and orders with extreme and severe punishments for rule breaking, unruly behavior, or disobedience so that he fears you and submits to your control over him. Not only is it his natural place to kneel at your feet it is a privilege for him to submit to you, to serve and obey you. You must believe that it is a privilege for your bitch to kneel at your feet, to worship you, to serve and obey you as you deserve, you must know this and train him to accept it as his place and his only purpose. If you do it correctly, he know this and he will eventually get sexual gratification from kneeling, serving and obeying and believe he was meant to be there.

 Femdom is a belief that you the woman are superior over your male, that you deserve to rule as it is your right over him and that you deserve a completely devoted, loyal, and very submissive bitch to serve and obey you without question or hesitation. A Mistress is very proud of her position, she is not shy about it, timid or afraid to be who she was meant to be, nor is she shy about forcing her bitch to be who he was meant to be. In fact this lifestyle allows her to be who she was meant to be and allows her to let loose, to live live to its fullest, and enjoy her power, plus it turns her on immensely to be cruel towards her bitch! Are you a SLUT, do you embrace it? Do you love sex? Are you constantly looking for a suitable boyfriend? Do you date or have a full time boyfriend? If you are not answering yes to these questions then you are not being a Dominatrix! This lifestyle is not for when you feel like it or are in the mood, it is not a game or a pretend world, it is a 24/7/365 commitment that should be taken very serious. If you go down this path he will need you to be a mistress, he will need you to force him, to be cruel and sadistic to him, to discipline him and to punish him severely for disobedience. If you want to be a do Domme, you must be this Domme (short for Dominatrix) at all times, act and behave as a Domme and rule over him. It is imperative that you take your position serious, again to be dominant, sadistic, and very cruel, with an aggressive demeanor at all time, ALWAYS!!! Do not be friendly, do not joke, do not be polite, timid or shy towards him. Do not ask his opinion, his thoughts and do not treat him as an equal. You are his mistress and owner, you do not need his approval, his opinion, or his cooperation, he is your bitch so force him to obey as his purpose is to serve and obey you (clean your house, pay your bills, etc.). His place is on his knees serving and obeying his mistress, and trust me not only is he meant to be there, he will be very happy being there and the more dominant, cruel and aggressive you are towards him the happier he will be and the easier it will be on him. 

A main rule Domme's put on their list and train their subs to accept is; Never to expect or ask for anything (reward, treat, or privilege's of any kind) in return for his submission, servitude, and obedience, it is his natural place his purpose, and a privilege for him to kneel and serve you. He must be punished severely if he violates this rule, he must learn to accept this and in time he will get pleasure from being on his knees as you link his submission to you with sexual excitement through training. You will train him to get pleasure from cuckolding him, and eventually from taking away pussy completely but that's another story. You will teach him that it is his natural place, his purpose for you and that it is a privilege to kneel, serve and obey you - to be your bitch! Femdom is always about you being in total and complete control over everything, PERIOD, but it is also always about your happiness, sexual pleasure, and what pleases you! Never, EVER accept back talk, disrespect, questions, or disobedience as it shows weakness, gives him doubt about your power, control, and invites unruly behavior, so be the Domme you should be, and need to be! This means you are the authority, show your power and dominance at all times no matter where you are or who's around, and punish severely at the time of the infraction not days later. Never care for or about his feelings, opinions, or thoughts as they do not matter. The only thing that matters or should be his focus is obeying, chores, and what pleases you, so don't confuse your bitch as to what his place and purpose is by being nice to him or talking to him as an equal. This means you are his Mistress, not his wife or friend, you can't be both so you must decide what you want your role to be. You have the pussy, you are the superior, and you are a very powerful female who deserves to rule over him, you deserve to be pampered and worshiped as a Dominatrix, to have all the sex and pleasure you want, and you deserve to be obeyed by your bitch at all times. HOWEVER, you will never have complete control or a truly submissive and devoted bitch if you do not treat him as he should be treated, and keep him in his place 24/7/365! Just as important and crucial, you must keep him in the proper atmosphere, this means STOP being a wife or friend, STOP being polite and nice, STOP living a vanilla life, and take your natural place as his mistress and rule over him. Do not mix normal vanilla life with the Domme life as this will confuse him and regress training. FACT, you cannot be both, you must understand that your place is not as his wife, or his friend, YOU ARE his Mistress and the authority over him so you need to talk to him as such and treat him as he should be treated, like your bitch. Let me ask you this, what do you see when he is tied up/down on your training bench/table? What about when he is taking your cock or being punished yelping and begging you to stop? If you see a husband a partner, or anything other than YOUR BITCH then you do not have the correct mindset and you are not on the correct path. Remember, you own him and you never want your bitch to think or feel as though he is an equal, has say so or an opinion on anything, let alone any rights or choices. Your dominance, aggressive demeanor and cruelty towards him must be ruthless and extreme it is not a choice, it is a must and your success depends on it!     

If you question it at all, if your strict, dominant or cruel enough, then trust me you are not! Whatever you do never, never, ask him if you did good enough, trained good enough, or punished good enough! You should know by how he acts after the event. If you don't see a change in his attitude, actions, or demeanor, from the day you start training, then you are not being dominant enough, cruel enough, and aggressive enough and definitely not punishing him like you should be! FIRST rule to Domme's, never make small talk or ask for any of his input, as you do not mix everyday life with his servitude and submission. As I said, It will confuse him and give the wrong impression as well as take him off task. Other than speaking to him about directives, plans (as in your plans or your plans for him) or updates about these things, nothing else need be said. You only give orders or commands and enforce your rules and chore list, discussion makes you appear weak and implies lack of control! Also never talk to him about anything but training topics (rules,chores, humiliation, punishments, etc.) during training, keep him focused on the training and reprograming of his mind, keep him in the proper atmosphere. It is very important that he is kept in the proper atmosphere (read the atmosphere story in my blog) and in his place as your bitch. Remember, he is your property, you own him, he is your submissive bitch, your pathetic cock slut, sissy, so do not treat him or speak to him in any manner that would suggest otherwise, ever! You want to keep him focused on your pleasures and serving you properly as you deserve. You do not want him to think for himself, that is not his purpose or design, you want him programmed to obey you and do as he is trained, to perform and act as your obedient bitch, to do chores and do as he is told nothing else. Anything else or mixing normal life confuses him on how he is to act. Treating and speaking to him as an obedient sissy bitch helps force him to accept his place. Accepting his place, obeying, following commands/orders and doing his chores is the only way he can please you which might grant him privileges like worshiping your asshole (licking it while you use a vibe on your clit to have several orgasms) or feet etc. He is your bitch and as such, has rules and guidelines for his treatment that will never be crossed or confused with normal intentions. Below is an example of how to talk to you sub, always look at him as though you are serious and speak with a strict tone of voice, be aggressive and talk with a serious demeanor; This is a phone call on my way home from my boyfriends house that continued when I got home. This is how a Dominatrix acts towards her submissive, and how he should be treated, your success depends on how serious you take your position as his Mistress and remember his purpose for you! 

"Ring, Ring, Ring, Ring" Yes Mistress, how may I serve you? What took you so long to answer the fucking phone. I'm sorry Mistress, my humble apologies I was finishing up with dishes. I don't care what your doing, you answer the fucking phone on the first ring, don't leave me waiting on you again or it will be 50 lashes for each ring over the first! Yes Mistress, I'm sorry mistress for wasting your valuable time. You should be, and you will be punished for it when I get home! Yes mistress. I'm on my way home, So you better be on your fucking knees in your place when I get there (he is always kneeling and naked waiting for me). Yes Mistress! "click" (25 minutes later I walk through the door) I say in a loud firm voice, "Take off my shoes and put them away bitch!". Yes Mistress. (I take my top off and throw it on the floor, not wearing a bra) Pick that up and put it away, then get my loose night shorts off the dresser and bring them to me. Yes Mistress. SUBMIT! I say firmly ("SUBMIT" is a position I've trained him to get in for various reason but this time my pussy will be exposed and he isn't allowed to see it). The position is done while kneeling, bending over keeping his ass in the air and putting his face/chin on the floor with his hands out in front of him (sorta like doing a push up only above his head and about 6 inches apart), then, he is not to move from that position until I say kneel. I remove my shorts and toss them on the floor next to his face, then take off my panties and inspect the wet spot from sex with John. I then put on my loose shorts with no panties. This is to tease him as when I sit because he can catch a glimpse of my ass or partial pussy lips depending on how I move and sit. (I then sit on the bed) Kneel! he says, Yes Mistress as he returns to the kneeling position. I then reach over and put my panties over his head and move the wet spot directly to his nose. Do you smell that? Yes Mistress, thank you mistress! (when sissies smell pussy juice it makes them really submissive especially if mixed with cum from sex) Do you smell how well my pussy was pleased. Yes mistress, thank you mistress for allowing me this privilege. May I please be your humble sissy boy and servant from here out, please Mistress, please? Oh, your going to be, that's what your made for and exactly why your here...to serve and obey me and your going to be a good sissy bitch aren't you? Yes Mistress! That's right you are, your a pathetic cock slut and your only purpose is serving and obey me isn't it? (I lean forward and spit in his face). DO NOT WIPE IT OFF! Yes mistress he says with a tremble in his voice. Your pussy and your tiny pathetic clitty belongs to me, if I wanted to beat it black and blue I will and you will fucking thank me to even give it that much attention because it never deserves to come out of that chastity much less get touched. I continue to humiliate him by saying, "You don't deserve anything at all to do with pussy, and I do mean FUCKING NOTHING!!"  Your fucking pathetic and you will never feel the pleasure of pussy again, and that's what you deserve, don't you bitch? Yes Mistress! You don't deserve to feel it, or to see it, and you don't even deserve to smell it do you bitch? No Mistress! But I know smelling sex with my boyfriend humiliates you and makes you weak and even more submissive doesn't it bitch? Yes Mistress, its really humiliating. It should be, knowing a bigger cock is pleasing me in ways you never could and hitting that special spot you can't reach all while your little clitty is locked away and your fucking doing your chores. Yes Mistress! But you know that's what you were meant for don't you bitch (I spit in his face again) DO NOT TOUCH IT! Yes mistress! Now fucking worship my feet and thank me for the privilege of being my bitch Yes Mistress, thank you Mistress for allowing me to be your humble pathetic sissy bitch, who's sole purpose is to serve and obey you. He kisses and licks my feet and says, "Thank you so much for allowing me to worship your beautiful feet!" That's a good little slut, just think, my feet were wrapped around my boyfriend tonight as he fucked the shit out of me and pounded his pussy to orgasm after orgasm and now your worshiping those same feet, thanking me for getting the pleasure I deserve. Yes mistress, he responds. Your so fucking pathetic, but you can't help it can you you bitch, No mistress! That's right, because you were meant to be my sissy bitch weren't you? Yes mistress! YES you were, a fucking cock whipped, sissy slut! Yes mistress! While you lick, think about how good he fucked me and how he stretched my pussy making me scream with every mind blowing orgasm. Yes Mistress! (he continues to lick and sucking my feet and toes). That's a good bitch, suck my toes like a little cock. Yes mistress! THANK ME!! Yes Mistress, thank you for allowing me the privilege to worship your feet, thank you for allowing me to serve you and the humiliation of knowing my place. (I laugh and say with a serious tone) That's right, this is your fucking place and I want you in it serving me like the bitch you are from now on 24 fucking 7, is that understood BITCH!! Yes mistress! (after about 4-5 minutes of him worshiping my feet) I say," That's enough and firmly push his head away with my foot." Yes Mistress. I shout kneel and proceed to say, (panties are still on his head) is my bitch horny? Yes Mistress! Good you should be, You don't deserve anything to do with pussy and you should suffer so that you know what it feels like to be sexually unsatisfied like I had to suffer from your fucking pathetic clit dick for years, and you deserve to be lashed for it don't you bitch? Yes mistress! You really do and instead of giving you my cock I think I'm going to punish you again for being selfish and sticking the pathetic clitty inside of me, besides I want you submissive and eager to obey and I know nothing makes you more submissive than a long hard beating! Isn't that right, BITCH? Yes Mistress, please mistress i will obey you as you deserve, please mistress, please don't punish me, PLEASE MISTRESS! I laugh and say, that's good you know your place and know what you get when you disobey me, but nothing you say will prevent a beating you definitely deserve!  

I hook his leash on him and walk him to my dungeon, then proceed to tie him down good and tight so as to not allow any movement for his spanking. I tie him so that he is up on all four with his legs spread apart tied at the knees to the sides of the table and also at the ankles spread wide apart and secure at the sides of the table. I place a position strap tied from around and behind one knee, up his chest and around the back of his neck and back down the other side of his chest to tie around his other knee so that he can't move forward during the spanking. He is tied down firmly to prevent any movement but I also put on the ball stretcher and a chain with a 1 pound weight long enough to hang over the bed behind him, so that it helps hold him in place from that direction keeping him from flinching forward as I strike his ass. His hands are either pulled/stretched out in front of him or pulled up behind his back. NOTE* If this would have been an actual punishment spanking, I would have also shoved a thick cut of ginger root into his ass to keep him from tightening up his ass cheeks/flinching forcing him to endure all the pain from the smacks to his ass as well as the burning sensation from the ginger. I then remove his prostate toy (he's made to wear it the entire time I'm gone) Then I say, you know I love his cock, and I will NEVER give you pussy again, or even allow you an orgasm for that matter, Yes Mistress! Good, before you get punished I have good news, well for me anyways (I laugh) I've decided I'm going to date John from now on so some things are going to change. Yes Mistress! For one, I'm going to be seeing john a lot more, going over his house more for sex, and even spending the night. Mistress do I have permission to speak? QUICKLY! Yes Mistress, what about me what will I do? You'll do what your fucking told, what you were meant for, keeping my house spotless, wash the dishes, do the laundry, and anything else I fucking say needs done. BTW, I canceled the grass guy because you'll be cutting it with the push mower from now on. Yes Mistress! Besides that I have plans for you on some of the nights I won't be home. Plans Mistress? I smack him hard on the face, did you ask for permission to speak? No mistress! I'll add that to your spanking tonight! Yes Mistress! Anyway, yes "PLANS", I've been talking to a bi-sexual guy from your ad on Grinder (gay/bi-sexual app) and another bi-male on Fetlife. Both males said they would love to have you please them on some of those nights. Frantically he says, Mistress may I please speak? You may but I'd watch what you say! Thank you mistress, but that doesn't sound good or fun, its very humiliating and I'm worried what will happen, I don't think they will care about how they use me or my pleasure. Will you please reconsider? I say quickly, "SHUT YOUR FUCKING MOUTH," as I smack his balls firmly! Its not your fucking place to think, only obey. You are here to please me and I don't give a shit how you feel about it, how they use you, or if you get any pleasure!!! You were meant to please cock and that's exactly what your going to do! You will go and do what ever they command of you, is that understood!! Yes Mistress! GOOD, because they both have my permission to use you how ever they see fit and to even punish you accordingly if needed, then you will be punished by me when you get home. Is that understood? Yes Mistress. I have informed them, the only rules I have are, they must wear a condom every time, You must remain naked except for your pink panties and maid outfit, you are not to leave their house, and your chastity stays on always. I'll make up more as we go, especially if you stay the night because you will need a cage to sleep in. Yes Mistress, as you command. That's right, and you have another 50 lashes for back talk. Yes Mistress!

Moving on, In the past I allowed you to see my pussy from time to time, up to a a few days before I got fucked, but I don't think its appropriate that you see john's pussy anymore. Even though he doesn't really know about you (thinks he's a room mate), its his pussy and frankly I don't want you seeing it, you don't deserve to. Besides that, you don't serve me to see my pussy, you serve me because its your fucking place and a privilege to kneel at my feet and obey my every command. You don't ever deserve pussy, or anything to do with it so its done. Mistress, may I speak please? NO!!!! I already know your going to beg me not to take it completely away something like "Please don't take pussy away, please I'll do anything you say!!" as I mock and laugh at him. He's tied up doggie style to take his discipline spanking but I'm still able grab him by the hair of the head and smack his face saying I don't fucking care what you want, your going to do what I say regardless of what I do or take from you, is that understood! Yes Mistress! (I release his hair and say) But don't worry, at least you'll have a lot more times to clean up the mess. He turns me on and fucks me really good, way better than you ever did, you know this!! Besides I don't want you or your tiny prick for sex, it has never pleased me and honestly makes me want to laugh when I see the little thing. I say in a loud stern voice, YOUR FUCKING CLIT IS PATHETIC and you can't please pussy at all and you can't last more than 4 minutes. Why would I or any girl for that matter want to fuck you with that worthless clit? You are a bitch, a pathetic cock loving sissy and your were made to kneel at my feet and beg to serve me, you were made to please cock not pussy so get use to it! This is exactly why that worthless piece of skin should be locked away for good. I don't want to touch it and honestly I don't even want to see it outside of the chastity. (I remove the panties from his face and say in a loud strong tone)Your a pathetic little pussy whipped bitch and you should be on your knees begging me to get fucked by a real man. Begging me to get his big cock and have what my bitch could never give, ORGASMS and hot passionate sex! And your going to, your going to beg me to get all the cock I want because that's the only way your ever going to get close to my pussy again. (I pause, then laugh and say) Not that you get to touch it, or even see it, instead you get the humiliation of tasting what a real man gets to do after he pleases my pussy. (I get real close to his ear and say) You get to know how much better he fucked me by filling my pussy with his cum and that I not only want and prefer his cock, I absolutely love it. But at least you get to smell my freshly well fucked pussy as your licking every last drop out of his pussy, and that will be your reward for being a good little sissy bitch, cleaning my house and doing laundry while I'm getting fucked by a real man, just like it should be. Yes Mistress, I'm sorry for having a little clitty Mistress. You should be sorry, (I bend down and smack his balls 5 times and say) you should never of felt the pleasures of pussy, my finger feels better than you. I would rather finger myself from now on then suffer another 4 minutes of dull tiny clit sex that does nothing but frustrate and irritate me, Yes Mistress!

The only way you can please me is kneeling at my feet with your little clitty locked away permanently, cleaning my house, handing over your pay check and begging to serve me. Thats your purpose and why your here, you know that's all I want from you, nothing else and you know that is what you were meant for! Say it bitch, tell me what you were meant for! Yes Mistress, I was meant to hand over my paychecks and be your devoted sexless sissy bitch, to serve and obey you from now on. That's right, you should be paying me for the privilege to be my little sissy bitch and serving me. Its a fucking privilege to be my bitch, and you will beg me for that privilege everyday! Let me hear you bitch, beg to serve me! Yes Mistress, May I please mistress, please serve you from here out? May I please be your cock slut, I should be on my knees begging to serve you and please you anyway you allow. That's right slut, you should be, tell me it turns you on and that you love the thought of being nothing more than my cock slut, sissy bitch, serving and obeying me for the rest of your pathetic life!!! Yes Mistress, its true, I was meant to serve you and it makes me hard just thing about worshiping your feet and ass, it turns me on to obey you and to clean your house while you get fucked by a real man! That's a good GOOD BITCH, It turns you on to know your pleasing me by taking big cock in your mouth and sucking it hard doesn't it? He pauses briefly saying its humiliating mistress, before I smack his balls 10 times fast and hard. FUCKING say it bitch,  Screaming out, Yes mistress! It turns me on to knell and suck big cock hard for you!!! Go on! It turns me on to get used and to please big cock for you! Doesn't that feel better sissy? Yes mistress, it turns me on to clean your house knowing that I may be allowed to please your big cock or any cock with my pussy. That's right, because your worthless to me otherwise, especially now that I have decided to date John and take pussy completely away and lock away clitty for good. 

I go on to say, your going to be the best bitch ever, you have no choice, and your going to beg me for my cock. You'll do anything to get it cause you won't be able to help yourself, with clitty locked away, your going to want it and need it for pleasure. I like it that way, I like that your cock whipped I like that you will beg to serve me and follow my every command just hoping that I might feel gracious enough to allow you the privilege of a big cock deep into your tight little sissy boy pussy! It turns me on to hear you beg me to get cock, but even more to hear you moan and scream like a true sissy slut from big cock. Your not a man, I don't respect you as a man, and I don't want you as a man, I have a boyfriend for that, a real man. Your a cock whipped, sissy BITCH. I want you to be my bitch. I want you to be my cock loving, feet and ass hole worshiping, cum eating sissy bitch! It makes me wet to hear you scream and moan as I fuck you into submission and to hear you beg me to pound your pussy. It really turns me on knowing I own you, and can control you without even touching your little clitty, and you'll do anything I command just to have my big cock own your pussy. Won't you bitch? Yes Mistress, I'll do anything for your cock. Tell me you love my cock! Mistress I love your cock! Tell me what you'll do to have me own that pussy. Mistress I'll do anything you say, I need your cock. Good, cause its all your going to get from now on and I want you to remember, I want sex and prefer sex with a real man, not a sissy bitch and I'm going to get that from now on. Your going to clean my house, do my laundry, and service whomever I say. If you fail to obey me, you will be punished severely for it. I'm going to increase punishments and lashes. Its time to take your punishments and then kneel in the corner to think about how to properly serve me.

From here I proceed to administer a discipline spanking with well over 300 lashes with 200 lashes using a cane then the rest I used a leather strap, whip, and cat-o-nine tails ending with the cane again. His entire ass is welted up with deep red and blue marks, with abrasions (as you may have seen in a proper caning video) just as it should be. He was yelping and crying out after the first 20 hits and then during the rest of the discipline spanking. Towards the end he went from yelping and crying out to stop to full blown crying and begging me to stop, pleading to serve and obey me and for me to fuck my BF when ever I wanted. He begged to be my sissy cock slut servant from here out and that he would obey me without question or back talk. This is a needed discipline spanking (1 every 10 days or less at least 3 per month or more), one he will feel for days but less painful than an actual punishment spanking that has an average of 500 lashes and last for over a week. Something else that is a must is (if you don't already own them) buy yourself lots of toys like nipple clamps, ball stretcher, ball gag, electrical devices, whips, canes, crops, various sizes of dildo's, suction cups, and what ever torture devices that will turn you on and use them, use some of them daily!! Remember he is your bitch, you are not his wife, you are his mistress and owner, live, eat and sleep this always! You need sex! You need to date and enjoy sex with a real man! You need to have as much hot passionate sex as you can! He needs you to be the Dominatrix your supposed to be, he needs trained properly, he deserves to be disciplined and punished, you deserved to have a completely submissive and obedient bitch, your success or failure as a mistress is up to you. If you think of yourself as a wife, this lifestyle is probably not for you. Be the Domme he needs you to be!