Talking and acting as a Dominatrix

                                                        Talking and acting as a Dominatrix

As a Dominatrix there are requirements and standards when interacting with and speaking to your bitch, and these standards are crucial for submission, obedience, reprogramming, and successfully training him to be the best sub he can be for you. You are training him to be the perfect bitch, to obey, to act and do exactly what you want and this means being very strict, aggressive and doing what's necessary to train him correctly. This is why standards are extremely important but standards also help with your dominance, asserting power and authority, as we are not talking about who is more in charge or who wears the pants in the house and you certainly don't want a power struggle. We are talking about Femdom (Female Domination) here, which is completely about female empowerment, authority, control and dominance over your male. A Dominatrix doesn't want a submissive bitch that is unruly, disobedient, backtalks, or questions her as she would never allow any of this, she would beat it out of him with a very severe punishment every time he deserves it. A proper caning will show you the difference of his submission before and after the caning and trust me a severe ass beating will stop all misbehavior and bring forth a very submissive and obedient bitch. A Dominatrix enforces a very strict routine and guide on how her bitch is to act and obey at all times including strict rules and household chores he is to complete. Her bitch is well disciplined, very submissive, and obedient following every rule with complete accuracy for fear of an extreme punishment caning. A Mistress doesn't have a husband or an equal, she doesn't want one either, she wants something far better, A devoted submissive bitch! You are "THE MISTRESS" and I'm talking about you here, you own a bitch, a domesticated submissive servant WHO's only purpose is to serve, obey, AND hand over his entire paycheck!!! So start treating him like the bitch you want and deserve. The mistress has all the power and control, you own everything and take his entire paycheck, he may have a small allowance for gas and drink. You must not think of your relationship as husband and wife, as partners, as friends or equals. You want it the way it should be, a more natural and matriarchal order that only benefits you, with you as the Dominatrix and he as your submissive bitch. If you don't take this serious, fail to realize this and act on it appropriately, then sweetheart you will fail and all the work you put in will be for nothing. So ask yourself this, are you a Wife or a Mistress? Will you do what's necessary to have what you deserve?

Femdom is complete dominance; physically, verbally and especially mentally. It is, taking all control over the male and forcing his submission and obedience to you. The very meaning and whole point of Femdom is "female dominance and power", to dominate, and control every aspect of your male. Including his diet, his thoughts, and to rule over him in an extremely strict, very cruel, ruthless manner so that there is no doubt or question that you are in control and his place is on his knees in front of you. With that said, if this is not your belief, what you practice, or the way you operate, then you are probably not a Domme and should think about what you truly want and deserve. I can guide you and tell you what you need and should be doing but your success or failure is up to you. This is the natural order and you do deserve this, so your only goal, focus and the most important act or action you do is to be a Mistress and do your part. Do not mix hubby and wife with Dominatrix and submissive bitch. Start completely breaking him down physically and mentally and destroy all that is male to create your perfect devoted bitch. You do not care about his thoughts or feelings or what he wants, it will be your way and he will obey you. Make no mistake, you must be the Dominatrix, you must be strict, cruel, sadistic and punish severely. You must demoralize him, degrade, emasculate, and effeminate him (sissify if that's your goal), to completely destroy his masculinity, male ego and male thinking. Then you train him aggressively hard, being very strict, and reprogram him to be the bitch you want and deserve. Before long you will have the best life and the best sex you ever thought possible. YOU are a Dominatrix, YOU deserve to be pampered, spoiled, and worshiped as such,  and you deserve a devoted obedient and completely submissive male to serve and obey you. You deserve a real man between your legs enjoying the best hot passionate sex every night! So you will do everything in your power to dominate and control him, YOU must do what is necessary!!! You must keep him in the proper atmosphere and you have to be very cruel and mean, you have to be dominant and aggressive, you have to be forceful, and you have to be sadistic at all times. SPEAK WITH AUTHORITY and demand submission! You must be cruel beyond anything you thought possible, doing sadistic things you didn't even know you could do, and you must break him to the point he is powerless to do anything but accept his natural role to serve and obey and you will tell him this. When I say strict, I very much mean Strict! Do you forbid him to make eye contact? He should be looking at the floor unless ordered to look at you. Do you make him address you as his mistress ALWAYS (even in public) it is all about respecting your authority? Do you make him ask for permission to do everything, including speaking and restroom privilege's? Everything you allow is a privilege and it requires permission, you may or may not allow it. Do you humiliate him throughout the day? Does he not have a small pathetic clitty, does he not suck in bed, is he not a pathetic (sissy)bitch, was he better suited to pleasure cock, is his purpose to serve and obey, then humiliate him about these things and more every day! Do you make him tell you he is your bitch and what his purpose is for you? Do you make him grovel at your feet at least 3-4 times a week? Do you make him lick/kiss your feet and ass 3-4 times a week? All of this is part of reprogramming him. Do you make him wear panties and girly attire or a french maid outfit to clean in? Do you make him shave off all his body hair (at least the genital area)? Do you make him kneel in the corner just because? Do you make him practice sucking cock while you read a book or watch TV? Do you make him wear a butt plug or prostate device around the house or out in public several times a week? Do you make him follow rules and do chores? Do you cane him once or twice a week for submission reminders or just because you enjoy hearing him scream? Do you have a cage for your bitch (if not buy one)? Do you make him stay in a cage when you go out or have someone over? Do you make him sleep in his cage sometimes or always? Do you tell him what he is allowed to eat and when he may eat? After all he needs to stay clean for taking dick! Do you make him wait to eat after you? Do you forbid him to eat when dining out and instead do you make him eat and drink all meals from dog bowls on the floor? Do you forbid him to speak in public unless spoken to and do you order his meals making him eat what you decide? Do you make him use a kitty litter box? Do you spit in his face at least 2 times a week (remember not to allow him to wipe it off) or do you spit in his mouth a few times a week (mix it up)? Do you make him wear a collar at all times possible? Do you walk him on his hands and knees with a leash at least 3 or 4 times a week? Do you make him kneel always? Do you make him crawl away from you before he can stand up? Do you make him stay naked at all times possible? Do you piss on his face or in his mouth at least once a month? Do you use torture devices on him like ball stretcher, ball crusher or smasher, anus stretcher, urethral stretcher, gates of hell (if you find one small enough), Shocking devices, suction cups, ball gag or mouth spreader (both do different things) penis pump (it actually hurts when left on for 10 minutes or so) Icy hot or tiger balm on balls or nipples? nipple clamps, ball clamps or cups?  Do you stretch his ass with large dildos or toys at least once a week? Does it turn you on to torture him with your toys as described above? Do you make him clean on his hands and knees? Do you make him clean with his mouth or a toothbrush or other humiliating devices? Do you cuckold him regularly (at least 2 or 3 times a week)? Do you humiliate him about the cuckolding (bigger, better, last longer, make you cum many times, cum harder, get fucked in many positions, allow him to do things your bitch can't, cum inside you? Do you make him listen or watch on occasions, do you forbid him to listen or watch most times?  Do you make him lick clean every cum mess, even his own? These are all things a Dominatrix does to her bitch, If you don't do these things, ALL OF THEM, then you are not being a proper Dominatrix, and you are definitely not being dominant and cruel enough, you are not taking your position serious!

Your male was meant to serve and obey you, he was built for it (mind and muscles), it's in his genes and he can't help but obey an aggressive dominant women. However, it's not just going to happen because you shout a few orders, you have to put the work and effort into it and force out his natural submissive side. Plus you have to do your part, dress properly as a dom wearing dominant attire/lingerie and "ACT" as your supposed to. You don't want an occasional bitch that will at times back talk or refuse to obey, you want a full time, fully devoted bitch to never question you, or back talk, only follow orders and obey! As a Dominatrix, you must constantly be very humiliating towards him, saying humiliating things, doing humiliating things to him, putting him in humiliating positions, doing humiliating acts at different places. You must buy all kinds of toys and torture devices and use all of them, change up his training days and scenarios, do not do the same thing every day/night, keep him guessing what's next! Have you ever made your bitch stand in the corner at the mall while you shop? Have you ever made your bitch kneel at the food court while you eat? Have you said something very humiliating to him in front of a female store clerk or waitress? Have you ever made him wear something humiliating in public (not around friends)? Your mind and your thoughts must be as a Dominatrix, trust me, you can not be to dominant, cruel or aggressive enough, there is no such thing or point that's to far, or to humiliating, to cruel and sadistic, especially if it pleases you. It is your natural place to rule over him, to control and dominate him, and you need to be a dominant bitch towards him, enforcing your rules and orders with extreme and severe punishments for rule breaking, unruly behavior, or disobedience so that he fears you and submits to your control over him. Not only is it his natural place to kneel at your feet it is a privilege for him to submit to you, to serve and obey you. You must believe that it is a privilege for your bitch to kneel at your feet, to worship you, to serve and obey you as you deserve, you must know this and train him to accept it as his place and his only purpose. If you do it correctly, he know this and he will eventually get sexual gratification from kneeling, serving and obeying and believe he was meant to be there.

 Femdom is a belief that you the woman are superior over your male, that you deserve to rule as it is your right over him and that you deserve a completely devoted, loyal, and very submissive bitch to serve and obey you without question or hesitation. A Mistress is very proud of her position, she is not shy about it, timid or afraid to be who she was meant to be, nor is she shy about forcing her bitch to be who he was meant to be. In fact this lifestyle allows her to be who she was meant to be and allows her to let loose, to live live to its fullest, and enjoy her power, plus it turns her on immensely to be cruel towards her bitch! Are you a SLUT, do you embrace it? Do you love sex? Are you constantly looking for a suitable boyfriend? Do you date or have a full time boyfriend? If you are not answering yes to these questions then you are not being a Dominatrix! This lifestyle is not for when you feel like it or are in the mood, it is not a game or a pretend world, it is a 24/7/365 commitment that should be taken very serious. If you go down this path he will need you to be a mistress, he will need you to force him, to be cruel and sadistic to him, to discipline him and to punish him severely for disobedience. If you want to be a do Domme, you must be this Domme (short for Dominatrix) at all times, act and behave as a Domme and rule over him. It is imperative that you take your position serious, again to be dominant, sadistic, and very cruel, with an aggressive demeanor at all time, ALWAYS!!! Do not be friendly, do not joke, do not be polite, timid or shy towards him. Do not ask his opinion, his thoughts and do not treat him as an equal. You are his mistress and owner, you do not need his approval, his opinion, or his cooperation, he is your bitch so force him to obey as his purpose is to serve and obey you (clean your house, pay your bills, etc.). His place is on his knees serving and obeying his mistress, and trust me not only is he meant to be there, he will be very happy being there and the more dominant, cruel and aggressive you are towards him the happier he will be and the easier it will be on him. 

A main rule Domme's put on their list and train their subs to accept is; Never to expect or ask for anything (reward, treat, or privilege's of any kind) in return for his submission, servitude, and obedience, it is his natural place his purpose, and a privilege for him to kneel and serve you. He must be punished severely if he violates this rule, he must learn to accept this and in time he will get pleasure from being on his knees as you link his submission to you with sexual excitement through training. You will train him to get pleasure from cuckolding him, and eventually from taking away pussy completely but that's another story. You will teach him that it is his natural place, his purpose for you and that it is a privilege to kneel, serve and obey you - to be your bitch! Femdom is always about you being in total and complete control over everything, PERIOD, but it is also always about your happiness, sexual pleasure, and what pleases you! Never, EVER accept back talk, disrespect, questions, or disobedience as it shows weakness, gives him doubt about your power, control, and invites unruly behavior, so be the Domme you should be, and need to be! This means you are the authority, show your power and dominance at all times no matter where you are or who's around, and punish severely at the time of the infraction not days later. Never care for or about his feelings, opinions, or thoughts as they do not matter. The only thing that matters or should be his focus is obeying, chores, and what pleases you, so don't confuse your bitch as to what his place and purpose is by being nice to him or talking to him as an equal. This means you are his Mistress, not his wife or friend, you can't be both so you must decide what you want your role to be. You have the pussy, you are the superior, and you are a very powerful female who deserves to rule over him, you deserve to be pampered and worshiped as a Dominatrix, to have all the sex and pleasure you want, and you deserve to be obeyed by your bitch at all times. HOWEVER, you will never have complete control or a truly submissive and devoted bitch if you do not treat him as he should be treated, and keep him in his place 24/7/365! Just as important and crucial, you must keep him in the proper atmosphere, this means STOP being a wife or friend, STOP being polite and nice, STOP living a vanilla life, and take your natural place as his mistress and rule over him. Do not mix normal vanilla life with the Domme life as this will confuse him and regress training. FACT, you cannot be both, you must understand that your place is not as his wife, or his friend, YOU ARE his Mistress and the authority over him so you need to talk to him as such and treat him as he should be treated, like your bitch. Let me ask you this, what do you see when he is tied up/down on your training bench/table? What about when he is taking your cock or being punished yelping and begging you to stop? If you see a husband a partner, or anything other than YOUR BITCH then you do not have the correct mindset and you are not on the correct path. Remember, you own him and you never want your bitch to think or feel as though he is an equal, has say so or an opinion on anything, let alone any rights or choices. Your dominance, aggressive demeanor and cruelty towards him must be ruthless and extreme it is not a choice, it is a must and your success depends on it!     

If you question it at all, if your strict, dominant or cruel enough, then trust me you are not! Whatever you do never, never, ask him if you did good enough, trained good enough, or punished good enough! You should know by how he acts after the event. If you don't see a change in his attitude, actions, or demeanor, from the day you start training, then you are not being dominant enough, cruel enough, and aggressive enough and definitely not punishing him like you should be! FIRST rule to Domme's, never make small talk or ask for any of his input, as you do not mix everyday life with his servitude and submission. As I said, It will confuse him and give the wrong impression as well as take him off task. Other than speaking to him about directives, plans (as in your plans or your plans for him) or updates about these things, nothing else need be said. You only give orders or commands and enforce your rules and chore list, discussion makes you appear weak and implies lack of control! Also never talk to him about anything but training topics (rules,chores, humiliation, punishments, etc.) during training, keep him focused on the training and reprograming of his mind, keep him in the proper atmosphere. It is very important that he is kept in the proper atmosphere (read the atmosphere story in my blog) and in his place as your bitch. Remember, he is your property, you own him, he is your submissive bitch, your pathetic cock slut, sissy, so do not treat him or speak to him in any manner that would suggest otherwise, ever! You want to keep him focused on your pleasures and serving you properly as you deserve. You do not want him to think for himself, that is not his purpose or design, you want him programmed to obey you and do as he is trained, to perform and act as your obedient bitch, to do chores and do as he is told nothing else. Anything else or mixing normal life confuses him on how he is to act. Treating and speaking to him as an obedient sissy bitch helps force him to accept his place. Accepting his place, obeying, following commands/orders and doing his chores is the only way he can please you which might grant him privileges like worshiping your asshole (licking it while you use a vibe on your clit to have several orgasms) or feet etc. He is your bitch and as such, has rules and guidelines for his treatment that will never be crossed or confused with normal intentions. Below is an example of how to talk to you sub, always look at him as though you are serious and speak with a strict tone of voice, be aggressive and talk with a serious demeanor; This is a phone call on my way home from my boyfriends house that continued when I got home. This is how a Dominatrix acts towards her submissive, and how he should be treated, your success depends on how serious you take your position as his Mistress and remember his purpose for you! 

"Ring, Ring, Ring, Ring" Yes Mistress, how may I serve you? What took you so long to answer the fucking phone. I'm sorry Mistress, my humble apologies I was finishing up with dishes. I don't care what your doing, you answer the fucking phone on the first ring, don't leave me waiting on you again or it will be 50 lashes for each ring over the first! Yes Mistress, I'm sorry mistress for wasting your valuable time. You should be, and you will be punished for it when I get home! Yes mistress. I'm on my way home, So you better be on your fucking knees in your place when I get there (he is always kneeling and naked waiting for me). Yes Mistress! "click" (25 minutes later I walk through the door) I say in a loud firm voice, "Take off my shoes and put them away bitch!". Yes Mistress. (I take my top off and throw it on the floor, not wearing a bra) Pick that up and put it away, then get my loose night shorts off the dresser and bring them to me. Yes Mistress. SUBMIT! I say firmly ("SUBMIT" is a position I've trained him to get in for various reason but this time my pussy will be exposed and he isn't allowed to see it). The position is done while kneeling, bending over keeping his ass in the air and putting his face/chin on the floor with his hands out in front of him (sorta like doing a push up only above his head and about 6 inches apart), then, he is not to move from that position until I say kneel. I remove my shorts and toss them on the floor next to his face, then take off my panties and inspect the wet spot from sex with John. I then put on my loose shorts with no panties. This is to tease him as when I sit because he can catch a glimpse of my ass or partial pussy lips depending on how I move and sit. (I then sit on the bed) Kneel! he says, Yes Mistress as he returns to the kneeling position. I then reach over and put my panties over his head and move the wet spot directly to his nose. Do you smell that? Yes Mistress, thank you mistress! (when sissies smell pussy juice it makes them really submissive especially if mixed with cum from sex) Do you smell how well my pussy was pleased. Yes mistress, thank you mistress for allowing me this privilege. May I please be your humble sissy boy and servant from here out, please Mistress, please? Oh, your going to be, that's what your made for and exactly why your here...to serve and obey me and your going to be a good sissy bitch aren't you? Yes Mistress! That's right you are, your a pathetic cock slut and your only purpose is serving and obey me isn't it? (I lean forward and spit in his face). DO NOT WIPE IT OFF! Yes mistress he says with a tremble in his voice. Your pussy and your tiny pathetic clitty belongs to me, if I wanted to beat it black and blue I will and you will fucking thank me to even give it that much attention because it never deserves to come out of that chastity much less get touched. I continue to humiliate him by saying, "You don't deserve anything at all to do with pussy, and I do mean FUCKING NOTHING!!"  Your fucking pathetic and you will never feel the pleasure of pussy again, and that's what you deserve, don't you bitch? Yes Mistress! You don't deserve to feel it, or to see it, and you don't even deserve to smell it do you bitch? No Mistress! But I know smelling sex with my boyfriend humiliates you and makes you weak and even more submissive doesn't it bitch? Yes Mistress, its really humiliating. It should be, knowing a bigger cock is pleasing me in ways you never could and hitting that special spot you can't reach all while your little clitty is locked away and your fucking doing your chores. Yes Mistress! But you know that's what you were meant for don't you bitch (I spit in his face again) DO NOT TOUCH IT! Yes mistress! Now fucking worship my feet and thank me for the privilege of being my bitch Yes Mistress, thank you Mistress for allowing me to be your humble pathetic sissy bitch, who's sole purpose is to serve and obey you. He kisses and licks my feet and says, "Thank you so much for allowing me to worship your beautiful feet!" That's a good little slut, just think, my feet were wrapped around my boyfriend tonight as he fucked the shit out of me and pounded his pussy to orgasm after orgasm and now your worshiping those same feet, thanking me for getting the pleasure I deserve. Yes mistress, he responds. Your so fucking pathetic, but you can't help it can you you bitch, No mistress! That's right, because you were meant to be my sissy bitch weren't you? Yes mistress! YES you were, a fucking cock whipped, sissy slut! Yes mistress! While you lick, think about how good he fucked me and how he stretched my pussy making me scream with every mind blowing orgasm. Yes Mistress! (he continues to lick and sucking my feet and toes). That's a good bitch, suck my toes like a little cock. Yes mistress! THANK ME!! Yes Mistress, thank you for allowing me the privilege to worship your feet, thank you for allowing me to serve you and the humiliation of knowing my place. (I laugh and say with a serious tone) That's right, this is your fucking place and I want you in it serving me like the bitch you are from now on 24 fucking 7, is that understood BITCH!! Yes mistress! (after about 4-5 minutes of him worshiping my feet) I say," That's enough and firmly push his head away with my foot." Yes Mistress. I shout kneel and proceed to say, (panties are still on his head) is my bitch horny? Yes Mistress! Good you should be, You don't deserve anything to do with pussy and you should suffer so that you know what it feels like to be sexually unsatisfied like I had to suffer from your fucking pathetic clit dick for years, and you deserve to be lashed for it don't you bitch? Yes mistress! You really do and instead of giving you my cock I think I'm going to punish you again for being selfish and sticking the pathetic clitty inside of me, besides I want you submissive and eager to obey and I know nothing makes you more submissive than a long hard beating! Isn't that right, BITCH? Yes Mistress, please mistress i will obey you as you deserve, please mistress, please don't punish me, PLEASE MISTRESS! I laugh and say, that's good you know your place and know what you get when you disobey me, but nothing you say will prevent a beating you definitely deserve!  

I hook his leash on him and walk him to my dungeon, then proceed to tie him down good and tight so as to not allow any movement for his spanking. I tie him so that he is up on all four with his legs spread apart tied at the knees to the sides of the table and also at the ankles spread wide apart and secure at the sides of the table. I place a position strap tied from around and behind one knee, up his chest and around the back of his neck and back down the other side of his chest to tie around his other knee so that he can't move forward during the spanking. He is tied down firmly to prevent any movement but I also put on the ball stretcher and a chain with a 1 pound weight long enough to hang over the bed behind him, so that it helps hold him in place from that direction keeping him from flinching forward as I strike his ass. His hands are either pulled/stretched out in front of him or pulled up behind his back. NOTE* If this would have been an actual punishment spanking, I would have also shoved a thick cut of ginger root into his ass to keep him from tightening up his ass cheeks/flinching forcing him to endure all the pain from the smacks to his ass as well as the burning sensation from the ginger. I then remove his prostate toy (he's made to wear it the entire time I'm gone) Then I say, you know I love his cock, and I will NEVER give you pussy again, or even allow you an orgasm for that matter, Yes Mistress! Good, before you get punished I have good news, well for me anyways (I laugh) I've decided I'm going to date John from now on so some things are going to change. Yes Mistress! For one, I'm going to be seeing john a lot more, going over his house more for sex, and even spending the night. Mistress do I have permission to speak? QUICKLY! Yes Mistress, what about me what will I do? You'll do what your fucking told, what you were meant for, keeping my house spotless, wash the dishes, do the laundry, and anything else I fucking say needs done. BTW, I canceled the grass guy because you'll be cutting it with the push mower from now on. Yes Mistress! Besides that I have plans for you on some of the nights I won't be home. Plans Mistress? I smack him hard on the face, did you ask for permission to speak? No mistress! I'll add that to your spanking tonight! Yes Mistress! Anyway, yes "PLANS", I've been talking to a bi-sexual guy from your ad on Grinder (gay/bi-sexual app) and another bi-male on Fetlife. Both males said they would love to have you please them on some of those nights. Frantically he says, Mistress may I please speak? You may but I'd watch what you say! Thank you mistress, but that doesn't sound good or fun, its very humiliating and I'm worried what will happen, I don't think they will care about how they use me or my pleasure. Will you please reconsider? I say quickly, "SHUT YOUR FUCKING MOUTH," as I smack his balls firmly! Its not your fucking place to think, only obey. You are here to please me and I don't give a shit how you feel about it, how they use you, or if you get any pleasure!!! You were meant to please cock and that's exactly what your going to do! You will go and do what ever they command of you, is that understood!! Yes Mistress! GOOD, because they both have my permission to use you how ever they see fit and to even punish you accordingly if needed, then you will be punished by me when you get home. Is that understood? Yes Mistress. I have informed them, the only rules I have are, they must wear a condom every time, You must remain naked except for your pink panties and maid outfit, you are not to leave their house, and your chastity stays on always. I'll make up more as we go, especially if you stay the night because you will need a cage to sleep in. Yes Mistress, as you command. That's right, and you have another 50 lashes for back talk. Yes Mistress!

Moving on, In the past I allowed you to see my pussy from time to time, up to a a few days before I got fucked, but I don't think its appropriate that you see john's pussy anymore. Even though he doesn't really know about you (thinks he's a room mate), its his pussy and frankly I don't want you seeing it, you don't deserve to. Besides that, you don't serve me to see my pussy, you serve me because its your fucking place and a privilege to kneel at my feet and obey my every command. You don't ever deserve pussy, or anything to do with it so its done. Mistress, may I speak please? NO!!!! I already know your going to beg me not to take it completely away something like "Please don't take pussy away, please I'll do anything you say!!" as I mock and laugh at him. He's tied up doggie style to take his discipline spanking but I'm still able grab him by the hair of the head and smack his face saying I don't fucking care what you want, your going to do what I say regardless of what I do or take from you, is that understood! Yes Mistress! (I release his hair and say) But don't worry, at least you'll have a lot more times to clean up the mess. He turns me on and fucks me really good, way better than you ever did, you know this!! Besides I don't want you or your tiny prick for sex, it has never pleased me and honestly makes me want to laugh when I see the little thing. I say in a loud stern voice, YOUR FUCKING CLIT IS PATHETIC and you can't please pussy at all and you can't last more than 4 minutes. Why would I or any girl for that matter want to fuck you with that worthless clit? You are a bitch, a pathetic cock loving sissy and your were made to kneel at my feet and beg to serve me, you were made to please cock not pussy so get use to it! This is exactly why that worthless piece of skin should be locked away for good. I don't want to touch it and honestly I don't even want to see it outside of the chastity. (I remove the panties from his face and say in a loud strong tone)Your a pathetic little pussy whipped bitch and you should be on your knees begging me to get fucked by a real man. Begging me to get his big cock and have what my bitch could never give, ORGASMS and hot passionate sex! And your going to, your going to beg me to get all the cock I want because that's the only way your ever going to get close to my pussy again. (I pause, then laugh and say) Not that you get to touch it, or even see it, instead you get the humiliation of tasting what a real man gets to do after he pleases my pussy. (I get real close to his ear and say) You get to know how much better he fucked me by filling my pussy with his cum and that I not only want and prefer his cock, I absolutely love it. But at least you get to smell my freshly well fucked pussy as your licking every last drop out of his pussy, and that will be your reward for being a good little sissy bitch, cleaning my house and doing laundry while I'm getting fucked by a real man, just like it should be. Yes Mistress, I'm sorry for having a little clitty Mistress. You should be sorry, (I bend down and smack his balls 5 times and say) you should never of felt the pleasures of pussy, my finger feels better than you. I would rather finger myself from now on then suffer another 4 minutes of dull tiny clit sex that does nothing but frustrate and irritate me, Yes Mistress!

The only way you can please me is kneeling at my feet with your little clitty locked away permanently, cleaning my house, handing over your pay check and begging to serve me. Thats your purpose and why your here, you know that's all I want from you, nothing else and you know that is what you were meant for! Say it bitch, tell me what you were meant for! Yes Mistress, I was meant to hand over my paychecks and be your devoted sexless sissy bitch, to serve and obey you from now on. That's right, you should be paying me for the privilege to be my little sissy bitch and serving me. Its a fucking privilege to be my bitch, and you will beg me for that privilege everyday! Let me hear you bitch, beg to serve me! Yes Mistress, May I please mistress, please serve you from here out? May I please be your cock slut, I should be on my knees begging to serve you and please you anyway you allow. That's right slut, you should be, tell me it turns you on and that you love the thought of being nothing more than my cock slut, sissy bitch, serving and obeying me for the rest of your pathetic life!!! Yes Mistress, its true, I was meant to serve you and it makes me hard just thing about worshiping your feet and ass, it turns me on to obey you and to clean your house while you get fucked by a real man! That's a good GOOD BITCH, It turns you on to know your pleasing me by taking big cock in your mouth and sucking it hard doesn't it? He pauses briefly saying its humiliating mistress, before I smack his balls 10 times fast and hard. FUCKING say it bitch,  Screaming out, Yes mistress! It turns me on to knell and suck big cock hard for you!!! Go on! It turns me on to get used and to please big cock for you! Doesn't that feel better sissy? Yes mistress, it turns me on to clean your house knowing that I may be allowed to please your big cock or any cock with my pussy. That's right, because your worthless to me otherwise, especially now that I have decided to date John and take pussy completely away and lock away clitty for good. 

I go on to say, your going to be the best bitch ever, you have no choice, and your going to beg me for my cock. You'll do anything to get it cause you won't be able to help yourself, with clitty locked away, your going to want it and need it for pleasure. I like it that way, I like that your cock whipped I like that you will beg to serve me and follow my every command just hoping that I might feel gracious enough to allow you the privilege of a big cock deep into your tight little sissy boy pussy! It turns me on to hear you beg me to get cock, but even more to hear you moan and scream like a true sissy slut from big cock. Your not a man, I don't respect you as a man, and I don't want you as a man, I have a boyfriend for that, a real man. Your a cock whipped, sissy BITCH. I want you to be my bitch. I want you to be my cock loving, feet and ass hole worshiping, cum eating sissy bitch! It makes me wet to hear you scream and moan as I fuck you into submission and to hear you beg me to pound your pussy. It really turns me on knowing I own you, and can control you without even touching your little clitty, and you'll do anything I command just to have my big cock own your pussy. Won't you bitch? Yes Mistress, I'll do anything for your cock. Tell me you love my cock! Mistress I love your cock! Tell me what you'll do to have me own that pussy. Mistress I'll do anything you say, I need your cock. Good, cause its all your going to get from now on and I want you to remember, I want sex and prefer sex with a real man, not a sissy bitch and I'm going to get that from now on. Your going to clean my house, do my laundry, and service whomever I say. If you fail to obey me, you will be punished severely for it. I'm going to increase punishments and lashes. Its time to take your punishments and then kneel in the corner to think about how to properly serve me.

From here I proceed to administer a discipline spanking with well over 300 lashes with 200 lashes using a cane then the rest I used a leather strap, whip, and cat-o-nine tails ending with the cane again. His entire ass is welted up with deep red and blue marks, with abrasions (as you may have seen in a proper caning video) just as it should be. He was yelping and crying out after the first 20 hits and then during the rest of the discipline spanking. Towards the end he went from yelping and crying out to stop to full blown crying and begging me to stop, pleading to serve and obey me and for me to fuck my BF when ever I wanted. He begged to be my sissy cock slut servant from here out and that he would obey me without question or back talk. This is a needed discipline spanking (1 every 10 days or less at least 3 per month or more), one he will feel for days but less painful than an actual punishment spanking that has an average of 500 lashes and last for over a week. Something else that is a must is (if you don't already own them) buy yourself lots of toys like nipple clamps, ball stretcher, ball gag, electrical devices, whips, canes, crops, various sizes of dildo's, suction cups, and what ever torture devices that will turn you on and use them, use some of them daily!! Remember he is your bitch, you are not his wife, you are his mistress and owner, live, eat and sleep this always! You need sex! You need to date and enjoy sex with a real man! You need to have as much hot passionate sex as you can! He needs you to be the Dominatrix your supposed to be, he needs trained properly, he deserves to be disciplined and punished, you deserved to have a completely submissive and obedient bitch, your success or failure as a mistress is up to you. If you think of yourself as a wife, this lifestyle is probably not for you. Be the Domme he needs you to be!