Female Sadist
Part 2
As a Dom, being a female Sadist is very important, it is your highest quality as a Dom, the internal compass that focuses your power and is the source of pleasure which drives you to be dominant, ruthless, and aggressive. It is also key to being a successful Dominatrix and maximizing his submission to the fullest you deserve, and you deserve to be served and obeyed!!! Because of this, it is extremely important that you let out that side of you and embrace it, be the woman you were meant to be, the women you need to be, his mistress. You will need to change your whole demeanor and attitude towards him, for it is your interactions with him that emphasizes your place and authority. It is the way you speak to him, and how you treat him that reinforces your power and authority over him. A strict, aggressive, and dominant Mistress will get much further with a submissive than an innocent, quiet speaking, and polite, wife will ever get and that is fact.
A Mistress is not nice or polite to her bitch and she definitely is not reasonable, accepting, or respectful towards him. She is a strict, demanding, cruel and ruthless, bitch and she doesn't care about what he wants, what he likes, his thoughts or feelings on anything. Why should she, It will be her way always, she does not request, ask, or negotiate, she demands and commands, she gives orders and expects complete submission. I can not stress it enough, YOU are the only key to your success and to be successful you need to demand respect, obedience, and submission. NEVER accept back talk, unruly behavior, or disobedience, doing so reduces your control and gives him power. You must be dominant, cruel, and very strict, extremely hard core, as they say, so you don't look feeble and weak. Never give the impression he can control anything as there should be no question who the boss is and he should fear displeasing you. Your going to need to be aggressive, relentless, very cruel, and do things you may never thought you could.....Things he never thought you would or could do. Things that are very humiliating and emasculating to him, like licking clean all cum messes, peeing on his face (if you really want to show dominance, piss in his mouth, maybe even drink a little of it), spitting in his face, or better in his mouth (which is actually no different than kissing except you don't get any of his saliva), posting ads on bi-sexual and gay sites to have him used sexually (always chastity on), Make him knell in public, address you as mistress in public, admit that he obeys you in public, even make him stand in a corner at the mall, etc. Things that are cruel and degrading like keeping him in a dog cage and only allow him to eat from dog bowels on the floor, making him (actually forbid him the privilege of using the toilet), use the restroom in kitty litter box in his cage (even if he is allowed the privilege to be out of the cage he must go in and use the kitty litter box), make him worshiping your feet and ass hole with his tongue, make him wear a collar at all times possible and even walk him around on a leash. Forbid him from getting off his knees while in your presence. Clean the bathroom with a toothbrush, make him wear his sissy panties 24/7 or lingerie and fuck a dildo, then break out the camera and record it and post it on a gay or bi website to have him used sexually. Use your mind and do every thing you can think of to humiliate, degrade, and emasculate him, no mater how bad or terrible you think it is, that is the point!!!!!
You will need stop thinking like a wife and equal partner, let go of being a wife with a vanilla life and conventional marriage, this is not how you want it, not how its supposed to be, and its not your natural place. You cannot be his friend, or allow him to be your equal, make any decisions (and I do mean any at all) have an opinion, give input, or speak with out permission for that matter. You must realize his true purpose is to kneel at your feet, to to please you, make your life better, to serve and obey you, to simply be your bitch! You need to take your rightful and natural place, be the Dominant and strict authority, the Boss, the Mistress! You don't need a husband, and deep inside you don't want a husband, you will have something far more valuable, much better and more satisfying. A submissive sissy bitch that will worship the ground you walk on, give you all the securities of a husband (with out all the bullshit that comes with it), hand over his pay, do all the chores, run errands, clean up after you, serve and obey you. Plus as I said, you get none of the negative issues of having a husband, like him questioning you, bitching at you, having to answer to him, cleaning up after him, chores, made to have unsatisfying sex, and do things he wants. Instead you will come and go as you please, do as you want with no questions, no compromising, spoil yourself, and best of all have the best sex of your life while you date and fuck whom ever you want when you want.
A Dominatrix is an intelligent woman and she knows very well how to get what she wants. Her mind is her strongest tool, it is built to control, to rule over her bitch, and it is the strength to keeping control. Her body is her weapon, she will use her body and her hormones (copulins) to seduce and hypnotize her bitch and keep him happily in his place. A Dominatrix is proud of what she is, and takes pride in her position, she is the superior sex. She is exalted, she is privileged, she is female and she will be served, obeyed, and worshiped as a mistress. She should never be shy, timid or embarrassed, about her position and authority. She will flaunt her power and position over him, she will demand complete submission and respect. She should be extremely pissed off for (the three D's) disobedience, disrespect, and dissatisfaction. A sexy dominant and sadistic women could have anything she wants, she could even rule the world or at least rule the most powerful men in the world and many women do. A sadistic Dom is especially important with the more extreme sides of femdom like cuckolding and sissifying. I'll explain; When cuckolding you don't want sex with your bitch, you probably don't even want to touch his clitty and you really don't care that he will never feel the pleasure of pussy or have an orgasm again. that is part of your sadistic side, and that side will also want to humiliate him about those facts and how his little clitty is pathetic. You are sadistic and think its funny that ***** will also humiliate him by telling your girlfriends and boyfriends )ones that know of your lifestyle) As a sadistic Dom, you also don't care about his feelings on anything or how often, when and where you have sex with other men or your BF, its truly is none of his business. Why should it be, its your pussy, your sex, your pleasure and that is exactly how its supposed to be. Your the Dom and he's the bitch, the only thing he should be focused on is serving and obeying you, right? Absolutely! That is also your sadistic side enjoying your power and freedom, and loving his obedience and humiliation of being cuckolded. However the real sadist fun starts when you date a boyfriend full time, and your bitch truly becomes a cuckold. That's when you really get pleasure and the extreme humiliation starts. This is the time the extreme sadist needs to come out, extreme humiliation needs an extreme sadistic Dom. Your going to train for and permanently lock away his clitty, you will also take pussy completely away from him as it now rightfully belongs to your BF. Of course your going to verbally humiliate him from the start but that's not good enough for a sadistic Dom. Your going to rub his fucking face in your much better sex life. not only will you tell him all about how much better the sex is, positions, how many orgasms, how you love his much bigger cock and how he reaches places the bitch never could. But you will also force him to aid in your and your BF's pleasure. You might hive him worship your feet or ass while your getting fucked (accommodating positions to make that possible) or maybe you want to put him beneath you so he can see up front and personal as that big cock spreads you wide open, only to have him clean the mess as your BF's cum drips from your freshly fucked pussy directly into his mouth. While the both of you humiliate him and you finger feed the rest to him (warning this will need training and a mouth spreader the first 2 or 3 times) If at all possible you might make him watch and serve your BF as well, sucking that big cock hard for you or having your BF cum directly into his mouth as you bitch is locked kneeling (also requires training and a mouth spreader the first 2 or 3 times). Regardless to rather this is a show and tell BF or not, you will make him smell your sex through your used panties or directly when you make him do clean up duty and then humiliate him about how pathetic he is and how he could never make you cum and will never feel pussy again. The humiliation can never be extreme enough...
But you want more, you want to satisfy that deep desire with in you...His penetration! His sissification! You want to feminize him and make him your cock loving sissy bitch. You love the power you feel when you fuck him with that big strap-on cock making him moan and scream turning him into a sissy. You love making him suck your dildo's and beg for your big cock, but the sadist inside you say's that's not good enough, your deep desire is the power to transform him into a real cock slut. You want him craving and begging to be fucked, but you want it done by real cock! You want to watch him kneel and suck a real mans cock, then get fucked by it while you masturbate, maybe even joining in the fun with your strap-on. You probably even want him submitting to a real man, any man for that matter, any man that will use him good, especially men that loves it or knows how to make him submit. You not alone, sissy training is the most popular among Femdom women, and they use it to make their bitches completely submissive so they never disobey or interfere with their ability to date real men.
You don't ever want to stop fucking your boyfriend or go back to a vanilla life, and you really don't want to fuck that little clit of his. So your going to do what ever it takes to keep him submissive and humiliated, your going to make sure he knows his place. Your future and success greatly depends on your ability to take your place to its fullest, because eventually he will rebel to some degree or another. The chastity, lack of sex, and you enjoying all the great sex you want, will get the best of him, it will cause him to question you, to argue, to fight, in order to destroy his place or your power over him. You will not let that happen, you will be the Mistress he needs you to be in order to accept his place, you will be the sadistic Dom.
You want to extremely humiliate him, make him weak and submissive, the kind of submission that only comes from you fucking other men on a regular basis. Your going to go out and meet guys, and get all the cock you want. Your going to humiliate him about it while you make him lick clean the mess and your going to love how submissive it makes him. Eventually you will find a hot guy that really turns you on, one with a big cock that you love to fuck, a lot. You will want to take your pussy completely away from the bitch as you make a more serious relationship with the new BF. So your going to need your sadistic bitch to ensure you get what you want. After about 2 weeks of dating your new BF, your going to whip your bitch into a cuckolding submission of your new BF, your going to make sure he knows he has no choice or input of you dating. Again your going to love how submissive he becomes because of it. Your going to welt up and bruise his ass while you make him beg you to get fucked. As you whip his ass red and swollen, your going to tell him that your going to start dating full time, that your new boyfriend owns your pussy. You will continue to whip as you tell him its none of his fucking business who you fuck or how often your BF gets pussy, that he is never permitted to ask questions. You will make him acknowledge this and then tell him he is never to ask what time you will be home, or expect anything when you do get home. you will reinforce that he is to never touch your phone. You will whip him for at least 30 minutes, making sure that he is begging and pleading for mercy and drive it into his head that he has no say so and that his only place is serving and obeying.
Now your sadist side is shining but the fun has just begun, the first time you make him clean up the mess (you will always make him clean up the mess), tie him down, positioned and ready to be whipped, then use your fingers to scoop out the cum or empty the condom into a dog dish or a small plate and place it in front of him. As he is looking at it, tell him about the sex, how many times he made you cum, how he fucked you long and hard, how much you enjoyed his bigger cock. Tell him to smell it as you put the fingers you used to scoop out the cum in front of his nose, then tell him to smell the cum in the dog dish as you force his nose into it! Tell him he is going to lick it up, but not until he begs you to do it. This is the fun part, he is really humiliated thinking about having to lick it clean especially from a dog bowl and not from your pussy. He won't beg to do it, at least not yet but that will change shortly. Now your going to start whipping his ass with out a break and tell him you will stop when he begs you to lick it up. When he does, your not going to allow him to lick it until you whip his ass good and welt it up, you see the key is, you want him truly begging and pleading to lick it up. During which time you going to tell him you will stop whipping him when you feel he truly wants to lick the cum up to please you, when he has sincerely begged you good enough and when you allow him that PRIVILAGE he had better lick it up like he loves it, like his ass depends on it or you will whip him even longer. Once you have whipped him good enough and he is really begging to lick it up (remember he must be saying, "Mistress may I please have the privilege of cleaning up the mess!!") then you will command him to lick it and be aggressive saying "lick every fucking drop you pathetic bitch and thank me for that privilege (make sure he thanks you that way). As he is licking it up hit his ass a few times and say, "that's a good bitch, lick it all up, soon you'll be getting it straight from the cock!" Now, the next time he will be eager to clean up the mess but if not to your pleasure then repeat this. He will eventually find pleasure in pleasing you this way, but as I said you may need to whip him a second or third time if he is not doing it eagerly enough for you or if you just love the excitement (he should be licking it like a runny ice creme cone getting every last drop). From there you will do your regular training but remember after you return from fucking not to remove his chastity, he is only allowed his pussy play (fucking him), and remember to be cruel and very dominant.
During your entire relationship with your BF, you need to make it extremely humiliating for him, you need to constantly tell him how much you enjoy the cock, how the BF gets it often, and how he will never feel pussy again or cum through his clitty. It is important to keep your bitch in the mix, tell him all the details of how many times he made you cum, how he took a 20 minute break and fucked you again, how he woke you up in the middle of the night and fucked you, how you gave him a BJ in the morning, or how he fucked you in the break room at work or you left work early to meet him for sex, those are the things that will really humiliate him. Your also going to need to come up with ways to humiliate him physically like forcing him to suck on the used condom (if you fuck at your house). Eventually you will want stop using condoms and then you'll have to blind fold him and drip it into his mouth finger feeding it to him. Allow him to smell the sex first to really build his arousal and your pheromones (copulins). You will have to let out your sadistic side, see him as a bitch, and force him to do sissy things like sucking other cock, fucked by other men, find a Master or Bull for him to serve and service on a regular basis (possibly when you stay the night or weekend at the BF house). Keep this in mind though, when it first starts off its going to be new for him, humiliation that also turns him on is a very powerful submission tool. It will be exciting and arousing, forcing him deeper into submission than ever before. BUT as weeks turn into months and he is denied sex, orgasm, and all access to pussy while you flaunt your sex, fucking this much larger cock on a regular basis, the cuckolding angst may get the best of him. Excitement may turn into jealousy, and the humiliation that also turns him on will be more humiliation than a turn on. Not of the BF, but because he is getting pussy (if your doing it right, very often), and your bitch is not getting anything. Obviously being a true sadistic Dom, you don't give a fuck how humiliating it is, what he wants or how he feels about it, and you shouldn't, your going to keep fucking your BF and your going to do what ever it takes to keep it that way! He will never have anything to do with pussy, his dicklet will not get touched and you have no sympathy for him, even if he cries about it. He is your bitch, that's his purpose to you and what you want him to be, in fact, its turning you on more now that he realizes he can do nothing about it, that he must submit and his place is serving you from now on, especially since he is at his most submissive state and very eager to obey you because of it! However, he may start to rebel...While you should do things to keep it exciting for him as much as possible like pegging him every 3 or 4 times you get fucked, letting him hear on the phone, watch (close up) if that's possible or even included in to enhance your sexual pleasure, used sexually by other men to change up the humiliation, or what ever works. However, sooner or later there is a chance he will become very unruly, induce fighting, cause an argument, or any other excuse to end his submission or or worse simply not want to do it anymore.
First off, if your being the proper strict and aggressive Dom, utilizing your sadistic side with discipline and punishments from the start, then the temper tantrum (or any temper tantrum for that matter) will be Far, FAR less likely to happen and a lot easier to deal with if it did!!!! You need to always handle the outburst or fit correctly (meaning don't fall for it and maintain your control). A smart Dom knows she has the power, thus she doesn't need to yell or scream at him causing the fight or argument to spin out of control. A smart Dom doesn't fight or argue, she knows fighting is bad and makes her look weak, that ANGER is the enemy and the only chemical release that will kill his submission. Its all about how you handle the situation and bring your bitch under control, try to punish him immediately for it if possible, if not then punish him for it later. Be calm but speak in a firm voice saying, "shut your fucking mouth now and get in your place!" snap your finger and point to the floor in front of you. If he tries to speak again, immediately repeat the step, If he doesn't listen and continues then say "we will talk about it after you take your fucking place" Note* 90% of all arguments, fights, or outburst happen when he is standing or sitting and rarely if he is in his place, thus the reason he needs to be in his place as much as possible when he is not serving or doing chores.* If he is still trying to speak or is not in his place say, "you already have a sever punishment, do you want to make it worse?" As I said if you have been doing your job from the start, he will fear those words and get in his place, if not then you have not been doing your job and you will have to calmly work through the outburst but try to get him back into his roll and on his knees as soon as possible.
Again if you would have been the proper Dom and using your sadist side during training and punishments the temper tantrum probably wouldn't happen in the first place as he would fear the severe punishment from it. No its not the same and would have no effect if you suddenly decide to punish him correctly after he wants to stop the lifestyle or you to stop having sex with other men or your boyfriend, or what ever the reason. Because at that point the angst or anger has already built out of control and you won't even get him into the dungeon let alone the position to be tied down to take his punishment. It is the discipline you follow, the type of control you yield, the fear he has, and the severe punishments he endures through out training and 24/7 that will keep him in check, keep him from having a temper tantrum, and returning to the bench for his punishment when he does get mouthy or rebels. Trust me nothing is worse in femdom then having to stop fucking a hot guy that you really like, with an awesome cock, that fucks you really good because you didn't do what you were suppose to this whole time. Because you were lazy, not dominant, and aggressive enough, and did not punish every time he disobeyed or broke a rule. Ask yourself, what do you really want, picture it in your mind, and then do everything you need to make it happen.
But you want more, you want to satisfy that deep desire with in you...His penetration! His sissification! You want to feminize him and make him your cock loving sissy bitch. You love the power you feel when you fuck him with that big strap-on cock making him moan and scream turning him into a sissy. You love making him suck your dildo's and beg for your big cock, but the sadist inside you say's that's not good enough, your deep desire is the power to transform him into a real cock slut. You want him craving and begging to be fucked, but you want it done by real cock! You want to watch him kneel and suck a real mans cock, then get fucked by it while you masturbate, maybe even joining in the fun with your strap-on. You probably even want him submitting to a real man, any man for that matter, any man that will use him good, especially men that loves it or knows how to make him submit. You not alone, sissy training is the most popular among Femdom women, and they use it to make their bitches completely submissive so they never disobey or interfere with their ability to date real men.
You don't ever want to stop fucking your boyfriend or go back to a vanilla life, and you really don't want to fuck that little clit of his. So your going to do what ever it takes to keep him submissive and humiliated, your going to make sure he knows his place. Your future and success greatly depends on your ability to take your place to its fullest, because eventually he will rebel to some degree or another. The chastity, lack of sex, and you enjoying all the great sex you want, will get the best of him, it will cause him to question you, to argue, to fight, in order to destroy his place or your power over him. You will not let that happen, you will be the Mistress he needs you to be in order to accept his place, you will be the sadistic Dom.
You want to extremely humiliate him, make him weak and submissive, the kind of submission that only comes from you fucking other men on a regular basis. Your going to go out and meet guys, and get all the cock you want. Your going to humiliate him about it while you make him lick clean the mess and your going to love how submissive it makes him. Eventually you will find a hot guy that really turns you on, one with a big cock that you love to fuck, a lot. You will want to take your pussy completely away from the bitch as you make a more serious relationship with the new BF. So your going to need your sadistic bitch to ensure you get what you want. After about 2 weeks of dating your new BF, your going to whip your bitch into a cuckolding submission of your new BF, your going to make sure he knows he has no choice or input of you dating. Again your going to love how submissive he becomes because of it. Your going to welt up and bruise his ass while you make him beg you to get fucked. As you whip his ass red and swollen, your going to tell him that your going to start dating full time, that your new boyfriend owns your pussy. You will continue to whip as you tell him its none of his fucking business who you fuck or how often your BF gets pussy, that he is never permitted to ask questions. You will make him acknowledge this and then tell him he is never to ask what time you will be home, or expect anything when you do get home. you will reinforce that he is to never touch your phone. You will whip him for at least 30 minutes, making sure that he is begging and pleading for mercy and drive it into his head that he has no say so and that his only place is serving and obeying.
Now your sadist side is shining but the fun has just begun, the first time you make him clean up the mess (you will always make him clean up the mess), tie him down, positioned and ready to be whipped, then use your fingers to scoop out the cum or empty the condom into a dog dish or a small plate and place it in front of him. As he is looking at it, tell him about the sex, how many times he made you cum, how he fucked you long and hard, how much you enjoyed his bigger cock. Tell him to smell it as you put the fingers you used to scoop out the cum in front of his nose, then tell him to smell the cum in the dog dish as you force his nose into it! Tell him he is going to lick it up, but not until he begs you to do it. This is the fun part, he is really humiliated thinking about having to lick it clean especially from a dog bowl and not from your pussy. He won't beg to do it, at least not yet but that will change shortly. Now your going to start whipping his ass with out a break and tell him you will stop when he begs you to lick it up. When he does, your not going to allow him to lick it until you whip his ass good and welt it up, you see the key is, you want him truly begging and pleading to lick it up. During which time you going to tell him you will stop whipping him when you feel he truly wants to lick the cum up to please you, when he has sincerely begged you good enough and when you allow him that PRIVILAGE he had better lick it up like he loves it, like his ass depends on it or you will whip him even longer. Once you have whipped him good enough and he is really begging to lick it up (remember he must be saying, "Mistress may I please have the privilege of cleaning up the mess!!") then you will command him to lick it and be aggressive saying "lick every fucking drop you pathetic bitch and thank me for that privilege (make sure he thanks you that way). As he is licking it up hit his ass a few times and say, "that's a good bitch, lick it all up, soon you'll be getting it straight from the cock!" Now, the next time he will be eager to clean up the mess but if not to your pleasure then repeat this. He will eventually find pleasure in pleasing you this way, but as I said you may need to whip him a second or third time if he is not doing it eagerly enough for you or if you just love the excitement (he should be licking it like a runny ice creme cone getting every last drop). From there you will do your regular training but remember after you return from fucking not to remove his chastity, he is only allowed his pussy play (fucking him), and remember to be cruel and very dominant.
During your entire relationship with your BF, you need to make it extremely humiliating for him, you need to constantly tell him how much you enjoy the cock, how the BF gets it often, and how he will never feel pussy again or cum through his clitty. It is important to keep your bitch in the mix, tell him all the details of how many times he made you cum, how he took a 20 minute break and fucked you again, how he woke you up in the middle of the night and fucked you, how you gave him a BJ in the morning, or how he fucked you in the break room at work or you left work early to meet him for sex, those are the things that will really humiliate him. Your also going to need to come up with ways to humiliate him physically like forcing him to suck on the used condom (if you fuck at your house). Eventually you will want stop using condoms and then you'll have to blind fold him and drip it into his mouth finger feeding it to him. Allow him to smell the sex first to really build his arousal and your pheromones (copulins). You will have to let out your sadistic side, see him as a bitch, and force him to do sissy things like sucking other cock, fucked by other men, find a Master or Bull for him to serve and service on a regular basis (possibly when you stay the night or weekend at the BF house). Keep this in mind though, when it first starts off its going to be new for him, humiliation that also turns him on is a very powerful submission tool. It will be exciting and arousing, forcing him deeper into submission than ever before. BUT as weeks turn into months and he is denied sex, orgasm, and all access to pussy while you flaunt your sex, fucking this much larger cock on a regular basis, the cuckolding angst may get the best of him. Excitement may turn into jealousy, and the humiliation that also turns him on will be more humiliation than a turn on. Not of the BF, but because he is getting pussy (if your doing it right, very often), and your bitch is not getting anything. Obviously being a true sadistic Dom, you don't give a fuck how humiliating it is, what he wants or how he feels about it, and you shouldn't, your going to keep fucking your BF and your going to do what ever it takes to keep it that way! He will never have anything to do with pussy, his dicklet will not get touched and you have no sympathy for him, even if he cries about it. He is your bitch, that's his purpose to you and what you want him to be, in fact, its turning you on more now that he realizes he can do nothing about it, that he must submit and his place is serving you from now on, especially since he is at his most submissive state and very eager to obey you because of it! However, he may start to rebel...While you should do things to keep it exciting for him as much as possible like pegging him every 3 or 4 times you get fucked, letting him hear on the phone, watch (close up) if that's possible or even included in to enhance your sexual pleasure, used sexually by other men to change up the humiliation, or what ever works. However, sooner or later there is a chance he will become very unruly, induce fighting, cause an argument, or any other excuse to end his submission or or worse simply not want to do it anymore.
First off, if your being the proper strict and aggressive Dom, utilizing your sadistic side with discipline and punishments from the start, then the temper tantrum (or any temper tantrum for that matter) will be Far, FAR less likely to happen and a lot easier to deal with if it did!!!! You need to always handle the outburst or fit correctly (meaning don't fall for it and maintain your control). A smart Dom knows she has the power, thus she doesn't need to yell or scream at him causing the fight or argument to spin out of control. A smart Dom doesn't fight or argue, she knows fighting is bad and makes her look weak, that ANGER is the enemy and the only chemical release that will kill his submission. Its all about how you handle the situation and bring your bitch under control, try to punish him immediately for it if possible, if not then punish him for it later. Be calm but speak in a firm voice saying, "shut your fucking mouth now and get in your place!" snap your finger and point to the floor in front of you. If he tries to speak again, immediately repeat the step, If he doesn't listen and continues then say "we will talk about it after you take your fucking place" Note* 90% of all arguments, fights, or outburst happen when he is standing or sitting and rarely if he is in his place, thus the reason he needs to be in his place as much as possible when he is not serving or doing chores.* If he is still trying to speak or is not in his place say, "you already have a sever punishment, do you want to make it worse?" As I said if you have been doing your job from the start, he will fear those words and get in his place, if not then you have not been doing your job and you will have to calmly work through the outburst but try to get him back into his roll and on his knees as soon as possible.
Again if you would have been the proper Dom and using your sadist side during training and punishments the temper tantrum probably wouldn't happen in the first place as he would fear the severe punishment from it. No its not the same and would have no effect if you suddenly decide to punish him correctly after he wants to stop the lifestyle or you to stop having sex with other men or your boyfriend, or what ever the reason. Because at that point the angst or anger has already built out of control and you won't even get him into the dungeon let alone the position to be tied down to take his punishment. It is the discipline you follow, the type of control you yield, the fear he has, and the severe punishments he endures through out training and 24/7 that will keep him in check, keep him from having a temper tantrum, and returning to the bench for his punishment when he does get mouthy or rebels. Trust me nothing is worse in femdom then having to stop fucking a hot guy that you really like, with an awesome cock, that fucks you really good because you didn't do what you were suppose to this whole time. Because you were lazy, not dominant, and aggressive enough, and did not punish every time he disobeyed or broke a rule. Ask yourself, what do you really want, picture it in your mind, and then do everything you need to make it happen.
As a Dom you you want to be successful, you need to embrace your sadist side, you need to let it out and let it consume you. Feel its power, enjoy it, feed off it and let it give you pleasure as you use it to break him and force him to be the perfect submissive bitch. Let it guide and evolve you into the powerful women you are meant to be. Use it to make him fear you, use it to give him extreme humiliation, use it to force his submission. Enjoy his torment, and make him suffer for you, break his will and force him to do things for your pleasure and laugh at him because of it. Use it to emasculate him, to feminize him, to make him feel weak and submissive. Feel the rush of power, excitement, and ecstasy as you whip his ass bright red, extremely welted, that last for days. Listen to him scream out, pleading for you to stop, telling you he will be a good little bitch and beg to serve you...You get wet from hearing how submissive he is, you want more, you want to see him crying like a big sissy baby, you want him to suffer and know you have the power and he will never disobey you again. Take it slow and make it lengthy as you want this to be remembered, you don't care of the pain he endures, his screams or begs you to stop. No, on the contrary you love it, it so turns you on, gets you wet, and has you thinking about sex with your boyfriend because you know you will have his cock as long and often as you want because you are letting out your sadistic side. Because you have whipped him and humiliated him into submission. You love that you hold the power to stop when you see fit and it makes you even wetter to hear him scream begging you to stop, knowing he will be your bitch for it, that he will be completely submissive and do what ever you say when you finally stop. That he'll suck that cock when you command or drop to his knees in public...You will break him and create a submissive bitch forever serving and obey you.
Being sadistic is not only about making him suffer pain and punishments, its also about his humiliation. In fact 90 % of being a sadist is about how you humiliate him and make him suffer through out the day and nights when he isn't being punished or tortured for you amusement. This is through the use of your voice by humiliating him, and the use of physical acts by forcing him to do things that humiliate him. This can be anything from having him knell in a corner sucking a dildo, having him do clean up duty every time you fuck, to making him serve another person or pleasure another male. You should make him eat and drink from a dog dish, ask permission to do anything, spit in his face and mouth (spit is the same thing as french kissing so its the act that is humiliating) cage him at your desecration, stand him in the corner at the mall while you shop, walk him around your house on a leash, don't allow him to speak in public (you will order his food). Remember, he is your bitch, you should not care of his thoughts, feelings, or desires as he is there to serve you, to obey you, and suffer for you. It is your way always, you are the female, his dominatrix, the only authority and he has no say so, at all! No real Dom would ever put up with with attitude, backtalk, disobedience, demands, lectures, interrogations or questions. Let your sadist side show him you will not put up with it, make him regret is unruliness and make sure he is less likely repeat it. Make him suffer extreme humiliation, turn him sissy, have him used, suck cock, shave hair off his body, wear panties bra's, stockings, wigs, heels, service other men while your out, swallow cum, serve in public, serve in front of your select friends, what ever humiliates him do it, break him and put him in his place. What ever turns you on, what ever excites you, for him to be what you want him to be and how you want him to behave, always push him deeper and think of new ways to humiliate him.
Some questions and remarks I get all the time from women; Is there a limit to how you treat you sub, if there is anything to humiliating, or out of reason for punishments? or How hard is to hard for whipping, are the whippings online real? My husband is to manly, there is no way he will submit to me! My man would never admit he was wrong let alone submit to a beating for it! My husband would leave me if I tried to fuck another man! Let me start with the easy one, Yes I assure you those are real beatings by real Doms, on their subs. Every thing you see on websites, porn hub or where ever is real, you can't fake that type of stuff and trust me I've been involved with some of it, selling vid's for cash. Some are women who are punishing their domestic sub (husband) and some are women punishing owned subs. Owned subs are men that the Dom has no prior relationship ties with, and used for his services or they can be men (usually single men) who pay or support Doms to be used and owned. Most of these video's show women releasing their sadistic side and punishing for what ever the reason or just for fun. It is the norm and reality of punishments for subs who disobey or have a mistress fond of breaking her male slave down to nothing but serving. These are very common, even the extreme ones. I personally use crops, canes, and whips/leather straps for punishments. I use a slapper crop, a flat end crop, a 3/8 cane, a 1/4 cane, a cat of nine leather tails, leather strap, and a leather whip. I use firm strokes that are fairly hard, but not to hard (I judge by his yelps) so that I can whip for long periods of time with out major skin damage as I want his punishment to be long and remembered. The marks and damage will come in time and will hurt longer the more time you spend whipping. I spend at least 20 to 40 minutes of time whipping him (depending on his punishments). I start out with 100 to 150 hits before I give the actual punishment whippings and I whip him in a series of 10-20 consecutive strokes, take a few seconds break and repeat, after a few series of whippings I hit one at a time for 10 or 20 strikes (harder than normal to really bring out the stinging pain), then I go right back to my series of 11-20 strokes, mixing it up during the entire punishment. During this time I scold him, humiliate him, spit in his face, crop hit his balls, slap his balls, squeeze his balls, pull his hair. When I'm done I leave him there for a few minutes before release, then command him to knell in the corner to reflect his punishment, then I make him thank me for it. Punishments can also be acts, positions (such as put into the corner) extra chores, loss of free time, lost of allowance/money, loss of pleasure, what ever you want especially if it is humiliating. You may also do with whipping him, before or after whipping him, use CBT, bondage, candle wax, electric tens unit, toppings (icy hot) or roots in the anus like ginger or radish. The only limit is nothing that involves minors, family, or friends (unless they are lifestyle friends)
Now, Is there anything to humiliating or out of reason, NO, unless against the rule above. Many women use sissy training, to turn him into a sissy and that is one of the most humiliating types of subs. Its so humiliating because it involves transforming your male into a sissy, he is not a man or a girl but a male that has been feminized and trained to serve both. This is humiliation on two fronts as ONE, it is extremely humiliating to serve and obey a man, pleasing real cock by sucking or being fucked, (Bull, boyfriend, a gay or bi-male). TWO its also very humiliating to serve and obey another female, as she now has knowledge that the sub is a sissy bitch, has a little clitty, wears a chastity, is completely denied sex and takes cock and cock whipped....Not to mention if she humiliates him because of it or he is used to enhance their sex via licking ass, sucking on toes, tits or what ever. I use mostly gay or Bi-men as they really get into using him for their pleasure. Note* the first few times should be with your bitch tied down with necessary toys to carry out the scene) your imagination is your only limitation. I've seen women who are very talented and imaginative to humiliate their subs, some using tattoo's or branding, chemical castration, feminizing with forced cross dressing, forced transvestite (extreme sissy) public humiliation, being receiver of gay male orgy/train, and just about every use of submission you can think of.
Is there a limit to how you treat your sub, NO, what you do to him and how you want him to behave is up to you and only limited by your imagination, amount of training, and your ability to commit and make it happen. If it excites you or turns you on then go for it as long as it doesn't break the above rule. I'll tell you about mine; My slave is always to kneel in his place when he comes home and await orders (unless done via text) he must always kneel at my feet when he approaches, and must always ask for permission to speak. He must ask for permission to do anything, including the bathroom. I treat him 100% as a sissy bitch, he must wear panties 24-7-365 (I have removed all but 5 of his undies for just in case moments). He must shave his ass, his balls, his pussy and clit area every other day. When we eat, I eat first, then he is allowed to eat on the floor from the dog bowl, and drink from a dog bowl. if we go out to eat, I order for him he is not permitted to speak or look at te server. Again I eat and then box his up to return home and put into the dog bowl. He must shave and shower every day and scrub his chastity (he wears the chastity 24-7-365 only removed for extra cleaning) At night he is to sleep on the floor with a small blanket and a pillow (unless being punished) He must always address me as mistress or "M" around other people. He is given chores to do every day, when I go out I lock him in a dog cage, when I have males or my BF over he is also locked in the dog cage (the dog cage is in basement) he is allowed to hear me fuck most times (unless being punished) and the cage is brought up to the spare BR at those times. He is given a bowl of water and a container to urinate in, until his release (if it is an emergency he may break the plastic dish to get the key to release himself with a sever punishment on that chance) He must open all doors and slide my seat if possible.
The point is to embrace your sadist side, to train him how you want him trained, and to enjoy the pleasures of having sexual freedom and a bitch to serve!
Now, Is there anything to humiliating or out of reason, NO, unless against the rule above. Many women use sissy training, to turn him into a sissy and that is one of the most humiliating types of subs. Its so humiliating because it involves transforming your male into a sissy, he is not a man or a girl but a male that has been feminized and trained to serve both. This is humiliation on two fronts as ONE, it is extremely humiliating to serve and obey a man, pleasing real cock by sucking or being fucked, (Bull, boyfriend, a gay or bi-male). TWO its also very humiliating to serve and obey another female, as she now has knowledge that the sub is a sissy bitch, has a little clitty, wears a chastity, is completely denied sex and takes cock and cock whipped....Not to mention if she humiliates him because of it or he is used to enhance their sex via licking ass, sucking on toes, tits or what ever. I use mostly gay or Bi-men as they really get into using him for their pleasure. Note* the first few times should be with your bitch tied down with necessary toys to carry out the scene) your imagination is your only limitation. I've seen women who are very talented and imaginative to humiliate their subs, some using tattoo's or branding, chemical castration, feminizing with forced cross dressing, forced transvestite (extreme sissy) public humiliation, being receiver of gay male orgy/train, and just about every use of submission you can think of.
Is there a limit to how you treat your sub, NO, what you do to him and how you want him to behave is up to you and only limited by your imagination, amount of training, and your ability to commit and make it happen. If it excites you or turns you on then go for it as long as it doesn't break the above rule. I'll tell you about mine; My slave is always to kneel in his place when he comes home and await orders (unless done via text) he must always kneel at my feet when he approaches, and must always ask for permission to speak. He must ask for permission to do anything, including the bathroom. I treat him 100% as a sissy bitch, he must wear panties 24-7-365 (I have removed all but 5 of his undies for just in case moments). He must shave his ass, his balls, his pussy and clit area every other day. When we eat, I eat first, then he is allowed to eat on the floor from the dog bowl, and drink from a dog bowl. if we go out to eat, I order for him he is not permitted to speak or look at te server. Again I eat and then box his up to return home and put into the dog bowl. He must shave and shower every day and scrub his chastity (he wears the chastity 24-7-365 only removed for extra cleaning) At night he is to sleep on the floor with a small blanket and a pillow (unless being punished) He must always address me as mistress or "M" around other people. He is given chores to do every day, when I go out I lock him in a dog cage, when I have males or my BF over he is also locked in the dog cage (the dog cage is in basement) he is allowed to hear me fuck most times (unless being punished) and the cage is brought up to the spare BR at those times. He is given a bowl of water and a container to urinate in, until his release (if it is an emergency he may break the plastic dish to get the key to release himself with a sever punishment on that chance) He must open all doors and slide my seat if possible.
The point is to embrace your sadist side, to train him how you want him trained, and to enjoy the pleasures of having sexual freedom and a bitch to serve!
