Pussy Power or pussy control ? No matter how you word it or look at it, pussy rules. For those of you who may have never really thought about the relationship with your man, its time you took a step back. You may be so accustom to it that you just don’t see the big picture or you realize it but don’t know how to capitalize on it. I’m talking about control. In your everyday life you shout out orders to some degree or another and he obeys. He may hesitate, complain, or half ass do it….But he does it. Some of you women might know exactly why this is so, but others may not. You have what every straight man needs, and under the correct conditions would do just about anything to have. This is called pussy control. But think about it, is pussy control the ability to make your man do what you want? To merely submit to your demands and only get sex when you grant it. Sure it’s a form of it, but true pussy control is much more in depth, and satisfying for you. Pussy control is natural, so much so, that half of you don’t even realize that you in fact run most of the house if not all of it. Natural because you don’t even think about it, its like instinct and its a way of life for all dominate women. Its been going on for many century’s and its gaining great popularity theses past few years, in fact its still the way of life in many countries. More and more women are realizing the benefits of being dominate and in control. I’m not talking about just shouting out orders, I mean true and absolute control. I’m talking PUSSY CONTROL. They can not only have control of the house and all aspect of life but also the sex, giving them the life they desire and deserve. Pussy control is easily learned and its skill lies with in all women, a skill that has been used by women of all types. Its not a talent and all women are capable, it’s a trait all women posses, they just need to know how to bring it out. Pussy is very powerful, it has the ability to bring out a mans submission or his dominance depending on how she wants it and sets it up. It has the ability to make men do practically anything. True pussy control is the ability to do as you please, and order him to do what pleases you. To take control of him and his mind, making him submit to your authority. To deny him sex or even an orgasm till you grant it (if you ever grant it), but still enjoy passionate sex with your lovers as often as you want, with him begging you to do it. It’s the ability to control and rule, to demand and enforce, to humiliate and punish, to be feared and respected, to command obedience and loyalty. The ability to make him see how much happier he is obeying your rules, pleasing you, and getting what little rewards you give. True pussy control is when he wants to obey and serve you, knowing its his job! Before you take this journey, you need to think about just what you want, how bad you want it, and how far will you go to get it. This is no on again off again play time, this life should be lived 24/7, I take my control and power very serious and so should you. This lifestyle is time consuming, it requires your complete attention on a regular basis, and you must be willing to dominate, and punish harder and further than he ever thought possible. He will need you to show him the way. Be strict, forceful and punish him for his disobedience. The rewards and pleasures are endless for you and he will find no better reward than to please his mistress, your happiness is above anything else. You will have the power and freedom to do as you wish, while he is happy obeying and doing his chores.
Before I get started let me explain that there are several types of female dominance, and just as many ways to train or control your man. My way is just but one of them, but I feel it is true dominance and they way life should be for men and the women they serve. I have also found it to be very effective and it takes the relationship on a whole new level. I also ask that if your not serious or ready to make this commitment to this lifestyle then to not start, you must be very strict and dominate. This doesn't’t mean you don’t love him, just that you want things your way, you want what’s rightfully yours.
Most men have a submissive trait and can’t resist a woman in control, its in their genes and they can’t help but except the natural feeling they have to submit to a superior female. Some men are really easy to submit, even knowing they should submit to a women with out having one to submit to. This is where the INTERNET comes in. They look on line in various forms from humiliation, money slaves, to actual live in chore slaves. While other men are harder to submit, they need more direct control and an aggressive attitude. Even still most of these men eventually submit by withdrawing sex or orgasm and instilling discipline, control, and humiliation, which is the essence of pussy control. You have what he needs and eventually with out it he will break down, this is caused from the abundant chemicals in their bodies which is their natural way of knowing they need to ejaculate, other wise nothing would provoke them to have sex. Its called being horny, and horny is not just a word or a feeling, it’s the build up of chemicals in the testicles and brain that causes him to want orgasm. This is when they use masturbation to relieve the erg and blue ball feeling they get from periods with out sex. The higher the levels of chemicals, the stronger the need for release. To raise the level of chemicals, give more stimulation and longer periods with out orgasm. By controlling the stimulation and need for release (or lack of) you control him, again the essence of pussy control. We will get more into the chemicals later in the manual. Lets talk about lovers or bulls as they are called and my way of pussy control. I love getting fucked by my lover, and I do mean fucked. He really knows how to use his cock and move his hips. I love his cock, not only because he knows how to use it but because its thick. I really prefer his cock to my pussy whipped husband, and I make sure they both know it. Nothing pleases or turns me on more than getting oral sex buy a guy with a big cock, then fucked hard and long by him while my pussy slave is watching helplessly. The whole time he’s licking my twat and fingering my pussy, I’m moaning and thinking about how good his thick cock is going to feel while he’s fucking the shit out of me. The anticipation , the build up, and the heat of passion working on my pussy, getting it hot and wet. Then finally he’s slowly sliding it in, inch by massive inch. I’m slightly holding my breath, and feeling my pussy fill and stretch . My body starts to tingle, and the pleasure waves just start rolling. Just at this point, he hits bottom. I can feel his balls on my ass but he still has a few inches left to insert. He starts working his hips slowly, sliding his thick cock in and out and slowly grinding my pussy to except his last few inches . My whole body is awake and screaming with pleasure as a light moan breaks the silent ness of my lips. He picks up pace and by now my pussy has given in, excepting the entire eight inches of his cock. I feel his balls begin to slap the cheeks of my ass, and his hips grinding my clit. My moan is no longer soft but a raging moan and a breathless scream. OH YEAH, OH, OH FUCK, I say. His cock is big and he knows how to use it! Soon my body breaks into spasms, and I let out a loud mixture of moans and screams as my first climax hits leading to my orgasm. By this time I’m saying , “OH SHIT I love your cock, it feels so good” and I look over at my puny tic tac dick- pussy whipped husband so he can see the look as well as hear the moans of satisfaction on my face. I can see the look on his face as well, he’s beyond horny, he’s in subspace. His mind remembers the pleasure my pussy gave him when he was once allowed its grace, he imagines it is him I am riding. But reality soon hits him when he hears me scream and moan. He has never heard this when I use to fuck him. He now realizes I can be pleased better than him and he is far more than horny. He is humiliated! He is humiliated that I enjoy my lovers cock, he is humiliated at his lack of ability and size to please me, he is humiliated that not only do I want my lovers cock inside my pussy- I prefer it, and he knows he could never make me scream like this. He is over whelmed by horniness because of his lack of orgasm, and humiliated caused by the sight of watching me give a much larger cock the very pussy I deny him. In his current state he would do almost anything I tell him, including licking clean the mess my lover left as he came inside me. It is one thing to be humiliated by the sight of a more endowed man fucking me and making me scream in ways he cannot, but the utmost humiliation is watching it happen then being made to lick it clean while I humiliate and degrade him. He is never allowed to touch my lovers pussy, but this is one of the few times he is ordered to, it is his chore to clean up after my lovers mess. I still tie him down on the bed, lick his special spot till he’s begging for pussy. Then I squat over his face and continue to lick his head, I spread my lips open so he can see just how much my lover pleased me and at the same time I tease and humiliate him about how much better and bigger my lover is than him. I make him acknowledge that his cock is to small to please me and tell him that he will never be allowed to feel pussy again. I Order him to open his mouth as I squeeze my pussy muscles and let the cum drip into his mouth. Once I see the first few spurts drop into his mouth I lower my ass to his face and order him to clean it saying, “please me the only way you can, clean up your fucking mess”. I grab his testicles for a hard squeeze in case he hesitates, but he quickly starts the task. I’m drunk with power as he licks away and my hard fucked pussy is soothed by his mouth. After I’m sure he’s cleaned the outside sufficient enough I scream out, “ put your fucking tong in my pussy and get every last drop out.” The whole time he’s licking, sucking and probing my hole with his tong, I’m building to an orgasm and playing with is tiny cock at the same time. As I feel the pleasure build I scream at him saying, “ lick my fucking asshole too you fucking dickless maggot! And you better get me off good or you’ll spend the next 20 minutes sucking my dildo while I’m fucking you in the ass and squeezing your balls. He gets me off really good, but of course I tell him he can do better, and Tie him up and use my strap-on anyways. Of course every now and then he is left knelling at the edge of the bed with his hands cuffed behind his back so he can get an upfront and close look at my lovers cock penetrating my pussy while he is made to suck my feet or lick my ass while I’m being fucked. I really enjoy his tong licking my ass as I ride my lover. It takes time to get him to the point where he obeys with out question. This is a few months or so of hard strict training, being forceful, giving rules, using discipline, humiliation and keeping him extremely horny. Keeping him on the edge and horny at all times is most important. A man naturally gets horny after a few days of no sex, but only to a certain degree. Getting him horny speeds up the process and raises higher levels not reached under normal circumstances. This is how it works. His nuts produce a chemical called testosterone which is used to enact a portion of the brain that controls his sex drive, and need for sex. When he goes without sex or is aroused for a period of time the level of testosterone increases (which is good for you). The longer he goes with out sex and the more he is aroused, the level keeps climbing and increases his need for orgasm. Testosterone in small amounts give him an aggression and strong urge to have sex, (thus by giving your lover sex when he wants it, while indicating to him you prefer a more dominate man in bed will create a great lover with a strong sex drive) but when produced in large amounts like when he is aroused in a training session, it causes a chemical reaction in the brain where several chemicals are released to over come the levels of testosterone. Some of the chemicals are dopamine, Estrogen, norepinephrine and serotonin. All of these chemicals do their own thing, but putting this in simple terms; they pretty much put the male in a hypnotic state where he is easily controlled, and able to be reprogrammed to your way of thinking. Another strong chemical only released around his peak horniness is benzodiazepine compound, which is the same thing prescribed for ADHD only in natural form (ADHD is mostly the result of low benzodiazepine compounds produced naturally in the brain). When these chemicals react together he is basically yours to command, and it’s the best time to do your training. This is also the time you would want to ask any questions as he is unable to lie because of the chemicals. You should always get him really excited /horny before you start with training sessions. Now as with any drug natural or not, the effect wears off after a period of time. The ideal is to keep him horny and aroused for prolonged periods of time. Basically keep him on the edge as often and frequent as possible, thus keeping the chemicals in his system as long as possible. Keeping him on the edge during normal time is easy as well, just do things in a sexy manner, even talking to him about things that turn him on can help keep levels elevated. Having him watch porn is another way to keep him aroused and its simple enough for you as you just have to tie him down put the movie in and walk away only returning to stimulate him at points during the movie or you could talk about your last fucking with your lover and go into a great detail as to how good it felt. It is also very important that you are strict on him and be very degrading, demanding, and humiliating as much as possible. BE VERY STRICT! He doesn’t need time to think, it has to be instinctive to obey you. Meaning he must not question your orders, only obey them with out hesitation. This is done by being very dominate, strict, degrading and humiliating as I said before! This keeps him in control, disciplined, and since your also the same dominate bitch during training when he is aroused the most, it will help him think about sex when you are strict and dominate OUT of training, thus getting him aroused when he is being dominated. This again keeps the chemical levels higher, and making him easier to control. It’s a cycle that is positive to your authority and reinforces his training.
Remember he is being trained that your pleasure is his pleasure. Using psychology and mind training is your best weapon as far as keeping him trained, submissive and realizing that your pleasure IS his. This utilizes the chemicals in his system and makes his training easier. You must be strict, and dominate to him, you must humiliate and degrade him and his cock. How hard and strict should you be on him? How much humiliation and degrading should you give him? You can NEVER be to hard or humiliate him enough. The question you should be asking is how can you be harder and more humiliating on him. How can you break his resistance to obey on command or back talk. The more strict, dominate, and humiliating you are, the more he will see his place and let go his ego. You are now his mistress, his boss, never let him forget it. In the one moment of sympathy or easiness you give him, he sees weakness in you and loses the fear and respect for you as his mistress. Be a bitch to him at every possible minute, I‘m not just talking about being rude or just plain mean….But more along the lines of demanding, giving orders not asking, talking in a firm and demanding voice, taking no back talk, being strict and punishing for all rules broken. Just make him do things because you can. Giving him demands and orders makes him feel as he has no choice and saying them in a firm voice means you are very serious about his submission in doing them. The training and psychology of his training will teach him the ways he is to act and his normal routines for pleasing you. By taking away all his privileges and things he enjoys, and granting them when you see fit further deepens his submission, and shows your control. When reducing him to his true meaning and teaching him his reason for being your submissive, and why he should obey you, he will truly start to understand his natural feelings of submission to you and be more open to your pleasure. He may naturally be submissive but he is not going to just hand it over to you, you must demand it, force it and take it from him! Also when you take all his sex away from him, and leave him with nothing, he learns to get excitement from your pleasure and watching you get pleased. He will be excited just by watching, like watching a porno, but by withdrawing sex from him he is more on the edge and eager for it to happen. This is a proven technique and psychology 101, Replace his pleasures for your pleasures and he will learn to be excited by your pleasures. Teach him habits that please you not him. Examples; Lets take food for instance. When all you have to eat is bread and water for a long time you get use to eating it, it becomes the norm. But every now and then you get to smell steak or see it, this makes your crave it and desire it much more. Then when you are finally allowed to taste it, you appreciate it very much more even doing what it takes or working harder to afford this privilege. This is the same effect when you take away his sex and only allow him to experience sex through your desires, he will come to enjoy your sex as much as you do, even becoming addicted to it as it is all he is allowed to experience and eventually him begging you to take a lover will surface from this need for pleasure. Habit; every day he comes home from work and does something that he does every day, change this to what he will do for you, like every day he is to strip from his work clothes and knell in the bedroom waiting for you to give him his orders for the night. You will replace everything he knows now to all the things you want him to be, and things you want him to do. Remember to always tell him good boy when he does as he is told and punish him for not following your orders and rules.
Also a very important rule you should never mix everyday things or common talk with a training session , or commands. Wait till it is over and then say or talk about things. Keep him focused on his training and don‘t side track his submissive emotions! Try to keep common talk for night time when your in bed settling down from the day, the day should be you as his mistress not his equal. His only equal should be another slave if you ever choose to have another one. Your position of authority is standing, and his position of submission is knelling at your feet. He mostly symbolizes your ass and pussy from behind as your source of power and he is more aroused and willing to submit when he sees it.  It is good practice at least once a week for you to be naked and order him to knell behind you and kiss your ass while you degrade him, telling him he is your little ass kisser. Find out things that turn him on and use them against him. When you are training him he must be tied down through out the process, and his chains or rope MUST be pulled tight! This keeps his helpless feeling heightened, and reduces and movement when punishments are given. Its also a very good ideal to switch things around and do things in different positions or try new things on him, keep him guessing as to what will happen next! Its good to pleasure your self in front of him using toys every so often or when you are horny, especially if you haven’t taken lovers yet. This is some of the fastest and strongest hormone jumps you can give him, just don’t make it an every time training deal. Its also best to give 2 days of good, hard and long training in between your normal sessions. Start off with him knelling at your feet, degrading him. Make him kiss your feet and then your ass. Then move him to the first stage of training, what ever you have in mind for him, and progress from there. Its best to build up his hormone levels by getting him extremely horny first before you move on, and finish off with any punishments he may have. If he asks question to which you don’t know how to answer, ask him what he thinks and run with that. End the night with orders and no normal talk until he is allowed to bed! Remember he is not your equal, so don’t treat him as so, you may love him but rules are rules and going easy or bringing something into the training, even if its after will make him lose focus of his submission, and orders. Make sure he knells at the side of the bed and he must ask for permission to get in bed with you. Nothing has ended until he is beside you in bed and you give him permission.
There are a few things you need to purchase, one of the more important things is a chastity device. This is to keep him from touching him self or masturbating, and is a must as he will take any opportunity he can to relieve his blue balls. It is also a constant reminder that he is owned, and that you hold his orgasm. Not to mention it takes away his man hood, and is humiliating in many ways and he isn’t even allowed to touch his own/your penis. Plus it gives you comfort that he cannot cheat while out of your presence. He must wear this 24/7 and only have it off for training time, bath time, or your play time if you chose to let him lose. You must also maintain your attention on him when he is allowed to have it off, the tempting erg to touch him self or masturbate might get the best of him especially if he is not a well trained PS. There is two small side effects to long term wearing of the devise, but nothing serious or health risking. First: His penis will shrink and he will loose 20 to 30% of his length and 10 to 20% of his thickness. Second: He will have a decrease ability to maintain an erection for long periods. These are not bad effects and actually beneficial to you because you don’t really need use of his penis anymore and both are great humiliation topics. Plus there is a benefit to extended wear time, his penis sensation is more sensitive and he is easier aroused and or quicker to get an erection. You can purchase these on line at any BSDM stores, but this place seems to be the best priced and also offers other attachments to the devise.
http://www.keptforher.com/index.htmlYou will need to buy some sort of cuffs or locking devices for his hands and feet along with some chains and locks. Then you will need to get some punishment toys like: a paddle, crop, whip, cane, ball stretcher, ball gag, blind fold, collar and leash, spreader bars, face mask, nipple clamps, electro shockers, and any other fun toys you think you could use to either stimulate him or punish him. There are many online sites that offer these toys but this one has a large selection of other things as well like bondage furniture and fucking machines:
http://www.stockroom.com/home.aspx Now its time for your toys and fun things. You will need to get you a few sexy outfits for going out in, and make sure you get your hair and nails done. If you are not dark complicated you should also get some tanning done as the point now is to be sexy. Also purchase at least one dominatrix outfit, preferably black, and its very important to wear this during training sessions. This a good online store to purchase your dominatrix outfit:
http://intimatefashionz.com/store/index.php?cPath=22 You will also need to get some sexy boots and high heels with stocking. Have you ever heard the term dress for success, well its true! Its always good to dress the part and It shows your serious about your position. Nothing is as intimidating as a women in an all black dominatrix outfit punishing him and destroying his ego. You will also need to pick out a good selection of sex toys for you like vibrators and dildos. Just get what ever turns you on or looks like a fun thing to try. The most important thing is to remember that this is all about your pleasure, what pleases you and turns you on, what makes you happy and pleases you will also please him. You must be willing to do as you please and keep him under strict control and limitations, everything must be a privilege and never taken for granite. He must ask for permission to do anything including the rest room. You can give small rewards for his obedience, but they should never include his pleasure but more of what pleases you, like after obeying for a few days he is allowed to lick you to an orgasm. It is up to you if you ever grant him an orgasm, but it should not come easy and only two or three times a year is more than sufficient. I personally feel that him receiving pleasure from mine is enough satisfaction for him to ever have. But of course I also feel his true meaning is to serve me and please me at all cost, to give up his will and submit to mine. I must warn you though, if he is promised sex through you having sex with your lover and it doesn’t happen, he will be disappointed just as if you refused him sex directly, remember your sex is his sex, and when it doesn’t happen its just like turning him down for sex. So you may experience some emotional or verbal distress from him, you must keep control when this happens and deal with it accordingly. You could just change it to a training night or punishment night, just stay in control. It may also be a good ideal when your lover is not available that night to use one of your dildos to pleasure your self in front of him and by all means degrade him about how much better it feels , giving him a good show of excitement your having. When you humiliate him about the size of his penis, remember to give a smirk or laugh at it.
At first when finding a lover, your lover doesn’t need to be great looking, for that matter even really endowed. His main purpose is to please you sexually, and humiliate your PS. The better looking and better endowed lovers can be found later. Of course an attraction of some sort is nice but really considering his main purpose, not that important. Remember you can find someone you are attracted to, or nicely endowed later on down the road, that would be the point to reach but if it happens from the start great. It is more important that you have sex, pleased sexually, and replace PS cock with your lovers. You are withdrawing sex from him and toys just don’t quite do it, so there is no need to hold off on sex for yourself, find someone to do the job until Mr. Perfect comes along, why should you go with out sex just because he has to. Once you have found the perfect lover/s and comfortable with him/them then the real fun begins. The new relationship opens the door for all kinds of opportunities. Regular visits through the week, helping humiliate your slave, serving both of you, more intimate sex like kissing and more foreplay, Even spending the night. A fun night for you and very degrading and humiliating night for your slave; Have your lover come over one night, start out kissing and things on the couch while your slave is knelling in front of you. Have him fetch you things and serve both of you while you two make small dirty talk. You start to kiss and make out, your lover undresses you and continues to kiss you, he slides his hands between your legs and you willingly open them for him. He starts rubbing your clit and fingering you, while sliding his tong deep into your mouth. Your slave is there naked and his puny cock starts to struggle to get hard in his chastity, you break just long enough to laugh at his small cock and say something humiliating to him. After just a little more foreplay you tell your slave to turn down the bedding and wait knelling for you. You and your lover slowly walk into the bed room, you get out your cuffs and cuff his hands behind his back, telling him to knell at the foot of the bed. Your lover grabs you and lays you down on the bed and slides his face to your pussy and slowly starts licking your clit. You are pretty worked up by now and very excite about getting some big cock. After a few orgasms he slides his cock to your mouth, you suck his cock to the point its rock hard. He lays you back and slides between your legs that you have spread wide for him and slides his big cock inch by inch inside you. After a good fucking for an hour or so he comes inside you. You make your slave clean it out as your lover watches. Eventually its time for bed and your slave is mad to sleep on the floor and tied up. Not long after he is laying there he begins to here sounds coming from your bed, and shortly he hears your soft moans. He knows something is going on but he is unable to sit up and see what’s going on because he is tied down. Your soft moans now turn into light screams, and shortly after that the covers are thrown aside and the bed starts to shake back and forth. He must listen to you scream again for another 20 or 30 minutes while he lies there helplessly only catching a glimpse of your ass as you ride your lover to finish the night off. You peak over the edge of the bed to smile and say,” awl poor pussy whipped didn’t get to watch, well I have a surprise for you tomorrow”. With that you disappear and he is left thinking about everything as he can hardly sleep from the excitement and being tied up. He’s thinking that he has never got pussy offered to him twice in one night, for that matter ever heard you scream that loud or tell him you love his cock. The next morning you untie him to go make breakfast and serve you and your lover in bed. He returns just in time to see you making out again. After breakfast you make him hand wash the dishes even though you have a dish washer, telling him to return and knell at the foot of the bed when he is finished, but not until then. Towards the end of dishes he hears you moaning again, and he finishes just in time to knell when your lover is sliding his cock inside you. After 30 or 40 minutes of great sex, he cums. You order your slave to the bed and tie him down there. You straddle his face and ask him if he is ready for his surprise, which is your lovers cum from the night before and that morning. You straddle his face and demand him to clean out every drop. He has now just experienced extreme humiliation and all while your lover watched. Your lover must go but your slave spends the day cleaning the house naked and serving you. Just remembering that weekend, makes me wet.
Your lovers don’t have to be just white men either, black men on average have larger penises and most are great fucks, in fact many cuckoldress prefer a black penis to a white one and some will only have sex with black men. This of course is your discretion but you should never be closed minded, enjoy yourself and try it at least once or even a few times to decide if you liked it. Your lover doesn’t even have to be a male, most women enjoy sex with women too. Women can in some ways be more fun, as they can join on the fun of training and punishment. Not to mention do you know how humiliating it is to be told your dick is puny in front of another woman, or have her tell you its puny, let alone to have to submit to her and serve her. Then there are the girl things you can do together like shopping, while little hubby follows holding the bags. Talking to other guys, dancing and clubbing. When you pair both a male and a female for lovers then you have a good verity of sexual fun. It is also not uncommon for a mistress to have 2 or 3 males pleasure her at the same time or play with 2 or 3 women at the same time. I encourage you to try new things and expand your sexual horizon. After all, all doors are open now that you run the show. Just keep in mind that even though this is all for your pleasure, you have a submissive to humiliate and degrade. Try to be in positions that will give him the full show, and also remember to be very verbal during this both humiliating him and showing your enjoying every minute of better sex. Also remember the importance of degrading him about how much better and bigger your lovers cock is than his. Probably the best position for him to get the best show is you riding your lover. You can turn your head slightly to shout at and humiliate like the pictures above, or you can ride your lover while facing you PS so he can get a good look at your face as you enjoy your lovers cock while you humiliate him. As you and your lover have been playing for a while, you should occasionally inter act with you PS during sex with your lover, use your PS to pleasure you while you get fucked. This is extreme close up and humiliation for him. Example; Slave has his chastity on and his hands cuffed behind his back. He is laid on the bed , you straddle his face 69 style and your lover mounts you from behind doggie style. He is made to lick your clit while your are getting fucked doggie style, this is extremely pleasurable for you and great humiliation for him. You could spank his ass while he licks your girlfriend to an orgasm. The scenarios are endless, just use your imagination and as I said above all have fun and make sure he is humiliated and degraded the whole way.
Some of the women that I teach my lessons to tell me that training seems to be a slow process, while others tell me their men take right to it. The reason is that every man is different, of course training and technique play a huge factor in this as well. Your ability to be strict, dominate, and stick to the training greatly improves his learning factor and length of training. Its simply easier for you and him if you can truly be the strict dominate humiliating bitch I have been describing through this entire course. He will always need training nights not so much to teach him the things and ways that please you, but to keep him on the edge and refreshed in the ways. Your ability to enjoy this and show him that you enjoy this also helps with him realizing this is the way it should be. The time I saw the biggest change and complete willingness to obey by my husband was when I had started taking lovers in bed for real. When I started fucking my lovers most every night. They would call me and tell me they wanted pussy or I would call them and say I wanted cock, and even though on the phone I would have the conversation right in front of my PS. Until then I mostly used sex toys and I had a few encounters here and there, but at first it was just that. I guess you could say I was testing the waters before I dove in. I use to think I wasn’t pretty enough or that my body wasn’t good enough, and I was even shy about talking to guys. But the more I got into it, the more I realized how much I really did like flirting with and having sex with other men and women. The more I opened up the easier it was to have sex, of course the fact it was the best sex I ever had and my PS was eventually begging me to do it, made it easier. Plus other men were attracted to me and in fact said it was a real turn on to fuck the pussy that a women denies her husband. After my PS saw that his dick only came out of the chastity for training and I was strict about not letting him see or touch my pussy unless it was getting fucked or cleaned his submission deepened. But the real submission came when he saw that I became very aroused thinking about sex with my loves and seriously began having sex with my lovers on a regular basis. They change in attitude, willingness to obey and eagerness to submit took place because he knew I really didn’t need or want his dick anymore. He soon realized that his only place was to serve me, and to ensure my pleasure as that was the only way he would receive his and the only way he could please me. It was the fact that he saw me have sex for real on a regular basis with a few different guys, and that I not only preferred and enjoyed it, I loved it! I went out of my way to make sure he knew it. From then on he was pretty close to the perfect PS. However I still had to maintain strict control and discipline as he still made mistakes and sassed me here and there. He is a PS, and at times he will test you or try your patience’s when he is not aroused.
MALE PYSCHOLOGY
Taking away sex from the male and preventing or controlling his orgasm is very powerful. Not only for you as it gives access to take full control of him, but also for him. He is genetically and chemically designed to need orgasms and to achieve them at all cost, and the longer he goes with out achieving this the more he needs it, hence your ability to control him. You have to understand that while you are building his horniness level to do anything to get an orgasm, you are raising his natural chemical levels in his brain that effects his thought process and his will to act. He will not be his normal self, as his brain is flooded with chemicals to alter his ability to resist authority. Sex will be on his mind constantly. Studies with both humans and monkeys have shown this is natures way of select breeding on 2 fronts. First, its is always the females choice of who her sexual partner will be, and when she has given sex to a particular male he showed signs of ownership. These males are almost always well endowed or above average sized penises. A male ego is developed, and in short periods with out sex (one to three days) the male showed signs of aggression enforcing his ownership. Second the males who were not given permission or chosen to have sex would have to find other ways to get this privilege. Thus by doing what the female wanted rather it be bringing her food or like most human males not getting sex, obeying the female or showering her with gifts and money. This plus humiliation and strict training is where you will mold him into how you want him to be. He will slip into his natural submissive role and the normal unassertive, lazy man you want to change will transgress to the man you want him to be. But as I said before every chemical effect rather natural or narcotics will eventually wear off, this is why its so important to keep him controlled and aroused. Its not harmful in anyway to keep his own natural chemical levels high as they do not effect his ability to complete task or to react to life, but rather increase his willingness to submit to authority, your authority. And you can tell when he is under this effect by his submission, obedience and willingness to please you, which you will find at its greatest during training nights or when you are having sex with your lover.. This is why its not good to mix normal life, or conversation in with the training, and why being strict, dominate and degrading outside of training will give him the feel as though it’s a continued session and the norm. Women know men need sex, and they need it far more than women do especially if she has been pleased well during her last sexual encounter. The average male thinks about sex several times a day and when you deny him the privilege of sex or orgasm, its much more than that. The heightened chemicals in his brain will drive his thought process to do what it takes to achieve orgasm, and will keep him thinking of ways to please you. You want sex to be constantly on his mind and him constantly aroused, so this is a big plus for you. Because he is teased and denied he will think about sex more and he will voice his thoughts in that manner. Meaning he may ask when you plan on having sex with your lover (or him if allowed) again or when the next training night is, and he may do it a few times a day. This is the norm and its his hormones getting the best of him, and its actually good news for you as it shows he is still actively and frequently thinking about sex which means the testosterone and other chemical are still in his system. But they may not be at the best of levels which is why its not good to go more than 2 or 3 days with out training. Its when he doesn’t ask questions or bring up sex that he may be loosing interest and the eagerness to obey. Its not good to set fixed or scheduled days of the week for training, its better to train him sporadically. Meaning you should train 2 or 3 days in a row then skip a day or two, train for a day and skip a day or however you want to mix it up, just don’t span more than 3 days with out a training night, and do as many 2 or 3 days in a row of training you can fit in or do in a month.
MILKING
Most professionals agree that the male should be milked at least every 5-7 days, roughly 4 times a month. This is healthier for him, keeps his glands and ducts clean, renews the production of more semen and testosterone and keeps the so called wet dreams down. You should get a calendar and mark the days to keep track and not to forget. While it is ok to go a few days longer as its easy to slip your mind, I highly recommend not pushing past the 15 day marker. This puts milking at twice a month. Milking is very easy and done with out him achieving an orgasm, keeping him on the edge and eager to obey you. You do this with him tied down and the best position is him bent over something….A bed, chair or placing him in the doggie style position. Sit behind him and pull his penis down, between his legs and towards you. This position is also very good for stimulation in between spankings and cropping the balls. Start out stimulating his penis to get it good and hard, then you use a milking tool (A dildo may also be used as a substitute till you purchase one) to stroke his prostate, while stimulating his penis at the same time. Doing this for a period of time will create release of precum and eventually a discharge of semen. If an orgasm builds stop at this point then slowly stroke his penis. Judge his reactions on rather to stop for a minute, continue stroking slowly, or proceed with the same pace. Semen is discharged with out an orgasm, and his eagerness to obey and please you is not hindered in anyway. Remember to tell him that if he orgasms he will be punished severely. After time you will become an expert and know when he is close, until then you may have to have warning from him, with the punishment if he orgasms.
These are some good links to web sites and a must see. These sites give you a hint of how strict, demanding, and humiliating you should be. Plus they can give you good ideas on scenario’s with your lovers. Its also a good idea to have your PS look up good sites for you or look yourself.
http://bridesonblacks.tastyporn.com/galleries/006/403.mpg http://www.romanvideo.net/MoviePreviews/fromrussia.htm
http://www.interracialhotwife.com/
http://promo.lakeviewent.net/jennifer/mj_101508/mj_101508.html
http://promo.meninpain.com/g/22437:revshare/4978/m/4/h/w
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