Proper Pegging and Technique

                                     Pegging and Technique

Pegging is just the proper word in the BDSM/FEMDOM community for fucking your man in the ass with your strap-on dildo. Why would a Dominatrix want to peg her bitch? Well there are many reason why she may want to, and there is every reason she should. For one, there are fewer ways better than to emasculate a man by fucking him in the ass, which only compounds as he starts to love it and becomes addicted to it. It may turn her on or she may like the power she feels by taking his ass with her much larger cock. She may love to hear him scream and moan from it forcing his sissygasms, or she may love watching the penetration as it stretches his ass open with every deep thrust. She will definitely love how submissive it makes him. She may even want to permanently cuckold him and date a full time boyfriend, using pegging to completely deny him pussy. She may be a sadistic Dom and want to turn him into a sissy, manipulating his pleasure zone, forcefully and skillfully reprogramming him to become a cock whipped cum slut, begging to suck and get fucked by real cock. Or she may want to peg for all of the above, but regardless the reason, pegging is a very strong tool for training, submission, and psychological reconditioning of his mind.

 At first he will resist, struggle against it, beg you not to, and even think its gay. There is nothing gay about it and you will force him to take it to increase your power over him. It will become one of your most valuable tools to keep him submissive and help take sex completely away from him. It will eventually (with training and punishments) wipe out his ego, help turn him sissy, and drastically reduce the male moncho attitude (as long as your training correctly and punishing). Eventually he will love it, but more importantly, crave it, need it and even beg for it. This adds to the humiliation, authority, and power you have, as your the only way he gets it. It's also the only way to transform him into a sissy bitch, if you want to go that route and most do. Pegging is also mental training, meaning it will help to rearrange his thinking process and increase the need to obey you. Explained; Once you start locking up that little dicklet and take away orgasms, this will switch his pleasure zone from his dicklet to his ass. His ass will eventually be transformed into a pussy, chemically and physically. He will become dependent on your big cock and you owning his ass for his pleasure. When he becomes dependent on your cock, that means he has more less accepted that he will not be allowed pussy and give in to the only pleasure you allow him, COCK! Which he really has no choice because your going to force him to love it, as your cock will work its magic on his tight little hole. He literally won't be able to resist it, as it will force him to have sissygasms after sissygasm and submit to your cock. Plus it will be his only pleasure, even though it will never lead to a real orgasm or any sexual satisfaction or release. Every sub is different plus depending on how long he has gone without pussy or an orgasm and any prior training you've done with him will determine how quickly he becomes submissive to your cock.

WEAR YOUR STRAP-ON

Wearing your strap-on is a show of power, it is a symbol of control and dominance. It emphasizes your place as the dominant and his as the submissive (sissy if trained this way) and magnifies the atmosphere of female domination. It helps in turning him sissy and becoming cock whipped. It will eventually be erotic and sexy to him, as it is to every submissive bitch. You should wear your harness and dildo just about every training day, but at least 4 out of the 7 days a week. You can always remove it during training but at least start out with it on, even if you don't plan to peg him with it. This helps build anticipation, gets him use to seeing cock, preps him for the real thing (if that is your goal) and allows for you to force him to suck it for humiliation (or prep for the real thing). If your pegging with a strap-on he should always be tied down. This prepares him for the real thing as he will always be in chastity and tied down when you have him fucked by a real cock. Did I mention how much of a turn on it is to watch your bitch kneel, beg, and suck your cock, let alone a real cock!

Rather you are starting out new, or been pegging him for a bit, you need to read and follow all steps exactly as written.

Step 1; At this stage his ass is just that, an ass hole you want to peg, but you eventually want it to become a fuck hole, a bonafide pussy that craves cock just as much as you do. Firstly, it is very important that you peg him for a minimum of 20 minutes, but ideally 30 minutes or more, every night for 2 to 3 weeks to get him use to getting your cock. This is because you want this to be normal for him, you want him to accept his new role and pleasure. You want to turn that ass hole into a dribbling wet pussy and to feel as though he was meant to take cock and to please it. If possible, you should try to peg him 2 or even 3 times a day as this will really help make him cock submissive and turn him into a cock slut for your cock, IT does make a difference. If you have the ability to peg him multiple times a day, you don't need to do training on him every time you peg, unless you want to of course. Just tie him down and fuck him, then make him clean up and back to doing chores or what ever. TO START OUT the first week, use a dildo that's not to thick or long but above average. Just like you, he will prefer thickness over length so you will eventually go up in size to give his ass a good stretch. It is important that you ALWAYS start off licking (until you start permanent chastity) his clitty for a minimal of 10 minutes to build up arousal levels, as this is what intensifies the nerve endings and receptors around his ass and prostate making touch and friction really pleasurable. This will also switch his pleasure zones and link his now and normal pleasure to only getting anal pleasure. After he is aroused properly, start off with finger play, using one finger to rub the outside first and work up to sliding it in. Then work up to using 2 fingers and pay attention to what pleases him more using those motions the most, but switch it up every so often, just not to much. After you permanently lock up his clitty you will start off rubbing his hole, then fingering it, and then go straight to pegging. After you see he is very aroused or excited introduce a finger to his ass but only to rub around the hole at first then eventually insert it. Humiliation is very important for training and the psychological influence of pegging and cuckolding. During pegging you want to humiliate him about how much of a sissy he is. Laugh at him mildly and tell him he was meant to please cock. Tell him this is his sex from now on, being fucked like the little sissy bitch he is and he will never feel the pleasure of pussy again. Tell him you are going to permanently lock away his clitty.  Humiliate him the entire time you fuck him, but also during the day about how he is a cock slut and so on. You will humiliate him from here out, about being a cock slut (sissy if that's your training). Use the techniques listed at the bottom of the post.

Step 2, second week; During this step there is not much difference than the first week except starting the second week its time to go up in size. Use a dildo that is around 7 inches long and 2 inches thick or 6 inches around. Even if he is not a beginner, this is a good stretch dildo and will work his prostate very well giving him great sissygasms. This cock is the cock that you fuck him with regularly from here out (or cocks close to this size with different textures or shapes). Now is the time to start making him suck your dildo prior to using it on him, unless you have been pegging prior. If so then start off making him suck it. Fuck him with this cock for 2 weeks and remember it is very, very important to continue to humiliate him and use the techniques at the bottom of this post.

Step 3, forth week; By now he has more or less accepted pegging, especially after you start fucking him and he backs up on your cock (as long as your following this guide). He is probably very verbal with moans and screams and tells you he loves your cock. His ass has become more like a pussy, it gets wet, cums, and is starting to crave your strap-on cock. However its not broken in yet and is far from ready for real cock. In this 4th week, you will go up in size again, this will be his every now and then cock so you want it to give him a really good stretch, around 7.5 to 8 inches long and 2.25 to 2.50 inches thick. This cock is the cock that you use to really make him moan and sissygasm hard, but you don't want to use it every time (unless you want him to be a size queen or fisting). You will start off with the normal cock and then switch to the the large one. Again this week is just the introduction to the large cock, don't start out using it and only use it 2 0r 3 of the 7 days. The goal is to peg him until he has fully accepted it, wants it, needs it, and craves it. Meaning there is no resistance when you offer him the privilege of getting fucked and he is moaning and screaming soon as you start fucking him. You want him hooked on your cock, more less addicted to it, and trust me he won't be able to stop it or control his urge and is well on his way to becoming your sissy bitch. Remember to humiliate daily and use the techniques at the bottom of this post.

Step 4; After the end of the 4 weeks he has fully accepted pegging and his ass is now a bonafide pussy. He loves cock, feels submissive towards it and can't resist you offering it to him and is even begging for it. It's time to give him a 2 day break to let his urge/need for your cock build. During this time you should humiliate him and also tease him by using lube and rub around his pussy, by now just rubbing the outside of his pussy will give him a lot of pleasure and build his urgency to need cock, especially while licking his clitty. Eventually after rubbing and teasing his pussy you will finger it, go slow and don't use to much pressure (to much pressure is bad on the prostate). Remember its not the in and out of your finger that gives pleasure (like his clitty its to skinny) its the rub of his prostate. You can rub in a figure 8 pattern, a circle, back and forth/ side to side, the come here gesture, or mix them up, but see what works best on him. You may also use vibrating butt plugs, or prostate toys to build his need for cock. 

Step 5; by the end of 2nd day break he should be all worked up and horny for your cock, if not then give it another day. Now its time to make him show how bad he wants it by begging for it before you give it to him. You will make him beg good for it and begging should include him on his knees, worshiping your feet and then sucking your cock (and balls if there are some), with a lot of heavy humiliation. Tell him to get use to sucking cock, that he was made to please cock (you want him to know and believe this is his place and that he was meant to please cock). Tell him that he will suck what ever cock you tell him and soon he will be sucking a lot of the real cock. Keep up the humiliation and make sure you grab his hair or the back of his head and pull his mouth on your cock as he is sucking it. Take it out of his mouth and smack him in the face with it 2 or 3 times, then tell him to suck it real good. Try to use a dildo that has balls so that you can tell him to suck your balls. Once he has begged to your pleasing your going to tie him down and fuck him really good and hard. You want to treat him just like a cock slut, talking to him in a firm demanding voice as you pound his pussy good. Make him tell you how much he loves it, and thank you for that privilege, continue as you smack his ass hard over and over off and on through out the fucking. Rather you train him to be a sissy bitch or not this is very good humiliation for him and makes him submit to your cock.

Step 6; After that pounding give him another 2 day break and repeat step 5 above. Remember to play with his pussy during that break. Use a finger (or 2) a but plug, or other toys (that is not a dildo or resemble one). Again make sure he is all worked up and horny or give another day. Do as before and tie him down, only this time your going to make him suck another dildo cock while you fuck him (suction the dildo to a plate or wall). Start off  making him suck the cock for a bit, force his head up and down on it. While he sucks it get a cane or leather strap and start smacking his ass and make him tell you he loves it, if not hit him 20-30 times as you say in a firm voice, "Tell me you fucking love it!' Them make him tell you he accepts his place as your cock slut (sissy cock slut if training for it). You may humiliate him more, but at some point while he is sucking the cock, your going to start fucking him while he sucks it. Make sure he sucks it the whole time and humiliate him about how he's going to please real cock from now on. Smack his ass hard with a short cane, whip or leather strap as you fuck him hard and demand him to suck that cock. This is his place from now on and you want him to know and believe this so you need to be serious and dominant while forcing him into his cock slut place. 

Step 7; At this point he is 100 % a cock slut and ready for permanent cuckolding or full time boyfriend. If you already have one, definitely proceed to permanent chastity. If your training him to take the real cock and or suck it, now is the time to bring someone in. You will take the last 2 day break, then during training your going to tease him by spending a lot of time rubbing the outside of his pussy and edge of his hole while you lick his little clitty. Then you will start fingering him and get him all worked up. You will tell him that you will allow him the privilege of your cock one more time as from this point he will only be allowed your big cock when you feel he deserves it. From this point you will essentially be repeating step 6 above . Only difference is your going to make him confess that he is your cock slut (sissy if training). Your going to make him beg you (on his knees), worshiping your feet at first, then ordered to suck your cock, and while doing so, confess that he is your bitch.....That he is your little cock slut.....That he is cock whipped and will be your Bitch from then on (sissy, if training for this). Make him tell you how much he loves your big cock stretching his pussy open and how he will do anything to have it. Make him say all of this, and then tell him he is not a man, he is your pathetic bitch (Sissy if training) and that he will shave all hair on his body (at least pubic hair) and wear panties from now on. After you have humiliated him to your satisfaction, you will tie him down doggie style and peg him. At this point you will tell him you want to hear him moan and scream, that he better be a good little sissy bitch and take it deep and hard for you. Smack his ass hard and pull his hair and his nuts. During his pegging make sure you humiliate him and tell you he loves your cock, and who's pussy it is. You should fuck him for at least 45 min. to bring out the little cock slut you've created and when finished, make him get on his knees and thank you for allowing him to be your bitch. If he dribbles or oozes precum, he is to lick it clean.

By now he is your cock whipped bitch and eager slut, your pussy can now be completely taken away from him and freely given to whom ever you choose as much and as often as you want. However it is very important that he never be allowed sex, or an orgasm with his clitty, only milking. Milking is not the same as cumming with an orgasm via his penis.

The prostate when stimulated grants him pleasure, much like penis stimulation, but it is a different kind of pleasure. Prostate stimulation uses a network of nerves that are more dense and out number penis nerves 2 to 1. This causes the brain to release higher levels of dopamine, serotonin and oxycontin, the hormones responsible for pleasure during normal sex and they are very addictive. The male brain is not set up to handle this type of pleasure, especially for this long of time. His brain becomes flooded with chemicals that cause a breakdown in normal thinking and reasoning. This is why you see him transform into a submissive, (now a cock loving submissive) and why he mumbles and agrees to anything you say. All he knows is that he loves the pleasure of that big cock and he wants more. He wants that big cock fucking him from then on and is now much more trainable to achieve it. At this point you could literately get him to admit, acknowledge, agree, or do anything. This addiction and higher levels of pleasure are how doms control subs, turn subs sissy, and how they get them hooked on cock, leaving them free to cuckold as much as they want. His desire for pussy will always be there, he will always crave it and be dependent on pussy. This is some what because of copulins, natures way of keeping men chasing women but also the pleasure pussy gives. While you will never rid him of the want, need and desire to get pussy, you can bury it deep and put way out of thought now that he has experienced this type of pleasure through pegging. Especially this pleasure he is permitted, pleasure he is being trained to accept as natural for the place he was meant to be in and what he was meant for.

While the prostate pleasure is greater, it can't lead to a penis orgasm with out also stimulation of the penis (studies show 99 % of men can't cum from pegging alone and need some sort of penis/ball stimulation to achieve penis orgasm while being pegged) When you peg him, the stimulation is built much like your own with vaginal sex, so he feels pleasure the entire time only once it reaches maximum climax there is no penis orgasm which is another reason why this is a powerful tool for a Dominatrix. Once the pleasure is built up to its highest level of pleasure, it can maintain that climax for up to 15 seconds as his stomach and anal muscles contract, it then subsides. That is known as a prostate orgasm, better known as a sissy orgasm (sissygasm for short). That's a far longer sensation than what a penis orgasm gives. Like you he can have multiple sissygasms but he will never feel any real relief  because he did not orgasm through his clitty and the cum stays in his balls. After several weeks of pegging him (or if you have pegged him prior to this training) mixed with chastity and no penis orgasm he will start to cum through his ass. That's right, he will cum through his ass, you are slowly chemically transforming his ass into a pussy. This cum is not the same as penis cum as it comes directly from the prostate and contains no sperm, it will however smell the same. Eventually with sexual excitement, his pussy will even get wet (the use of lube is still needed for fucking him).

A sissygasm bypasses the nerves associated with a penis climax, which force muscle contractions to ejaculate cum. This also releases dopamine, and serotonin (on a smaller scale) but also prolactin which is a chemical to rest and reset the body and makes him not need sex for several days (varies by male). Essentially he is experiencing sex similar to the way you do, it builds then releases and then builds again and again. Only far less as intense as you feel it and with out that finial climax that leads to your orgasm. As stated above after he has loss penis orgasms for a while, his pussy can also get very wet as the arousal state builds, and he can even loose cum through his prostate when he experiences a sissygasm. Again the relation to "sissy orgasm" and nick name of his ass to a "pussy". The repeated build up and release of pleasure with out satisfaction of orgasm can drive him into a submissive sex frenzy, pleading and begging for your cock. This intense pleasure and the key brain chemicals with the added loss of penis climax is what makes pegging very addictive and him more submissive.

This is what makes pegging such a powerful tool for a dominatrix plus the humiliation aspect of it, you control it, and he can't orgasm from pegging alone. This allows you to constantly keep him on edge and stimulated the whole time your fucking him with out the fear of him cumming. Also men were not meant to experience that intense of pleasure nor for the duration as they do when getting pegged. Which is why the prostate is inside his ass, hidden. Experiencing this pleasure from a dominant woman with the combination of chastity and loss of orgasm can bring powerful feelings of submission from him. Men don't have the sexual capacity or nerve path ways to deal with that pleasure like women do, even though its no where as intense as what we experience. Sex for them is not the same as it is for us, as they actually experience 95% of the total pleasure they have from the orgasm. Its just powerful enough to cause the muscle to spasm to shoot his sperm out. When they do experience the prolonged intense pleasure with out cumming, they become very submissive and can basically loose control including, moaning, screaming, and sometimes even crying, with willingness to obey any command. Seeing him this submissive and loose control like this is very arousing and intoxicating to a dominatrix, and this is the time you want to humiliate and show your authority . The submission comes from not being able to handle that amount of pleasure for that amount of time and the fact you control it and even force it. Also the psychological effect of you literally forcing that pleasure through penetration at which they have no control. You see, with his penis he could loose interest, not want it and go limp, but when you force pegging on him or even prostate play, he not only has no control physically, but also mentally as there is no going limp and he is literally forced to take the building pleasure leading to his moaning and screaming but with no end or climax for him as he can't cum.

For Beginners;
Before you peg it would probably be better if you watch several videos, this is to get a view of the actual act and the basics. While its pretty straight forward, there is actually a technique to doing a good job, even though the videos might not show it but I'll get into that a little later. Once you get an understanding of whats actually going on, and how to go about it visually, you should be ready to do it. Your first time take it slow and remember he probably isn't excited about taking your cock. He is more than likely dreading it and nervous, thinking its going to hurt, and it might if you go to fast. You don't want it to hurt, you want him to enjoy it, to love it, to need it and to become depended on it. He is also humiliated that your forcing him to be fucked by a cock, and one thats bigger than his. Thats ok, humiliation only adds to his submission and mind control, especially down the road when he is begging you to fuck him.

After the first time, he is no longer a virgin, and unknowingly taken a big step to being your bitch. He has been mind fucked as well as ass fucked because of this; He has been forcefully penetrated by a larger cock than his little dicklet and ended up enjoying it. He has now lost part off his manhood and humiliated that he was forced to take it, but even worse he started to enjoy it and wants more. This humiliation is good because its the first step to breaking him and wiping away his manhood which you drastically need to do in order to get the true submissive you want. Once he realizes he has no control and admits to his self that he gets great pleasure from it, he will accept it, as well as other humiliating submissive acts. Once he accepts that his pleasure now only comes from your cock he will actually loose more of his manhood and take another step towards being your perfect bitch. As the pegging becomes more of a on going reality he will start to get more pleasure because of not fighting it. The humiliation doesn't stop there, once he does accept it and desires your cock, he will be humiliated that he can't help himself, and he truly can't, he is dependent and addicted to that pleasure. Now more humiliated that he needs it and is willing to beg for it and eventually do anything to get it. Even more so if he is made to do other humiliating acts to be granted that privilege. If he only knew what was coming.*BIG GRIN*  This is why you will want to make him beg for it, preferably on his knees and made to suck it before before fucking him.

OK, Before your first time you will need to make sure his horniness is built up for several weeks. During that time you will also need to start using toys and your finger to manipulate his prostate. This will break the barrier from virgin ass to pegging and get him use to something going into his ass as well as the pleasure his prostate is capable of giving, and even a finger or 2 can have him moaning like a little girl. Also no pussy or orgasms at all, as you should have already started switching his pleasure from his penis to his ass. This way those areas are far more sensitive and easily stimulated. Take sometime time to play before you insert a finger or toy into his ass. Get some lube and Rub/message his ass hole and perineum (the area between his ass and balls) independently and at the same time. You should also take some time to lick (only, not suck) the underside of his head and lick his balls. After a few minutes he should be loving it, A LOT! His asshole its self will give him a lot of pleasure now that he has not been getting orgasms, and this pleasure will lead to him wanting you to stick your finger in, and eventually your cock. This is now his only erogenous zone and soon the trick to have him begging for your cock. It is the most important place on his body, for him and you from now on, especially if you wish to turn him sissy. Soon that will be the only place he gets pleasure, and the only place he will think about. After playing with his special spots for a while, go a head and slowly stick one finger in. Move it in and out a bit and then start to rub his prostate gently. Use finger motions to rub, example; figure 8, side to side, circles-little o's and big o's, the come hither (come here movement), back and forth, or any combination of the above. pay attention to the ones that make him moan louder as those are the ones that touch that special spot. Again take some time here and there to lick his balls and the underside of his head. (after a few times of playing with just one finger) Now its time to really get him moaning,  pull out and get some lube on 2 fingers and slowly slide them both in. After playing with his prostate for a bit and then using 2 fingers, the pleasure is probably more than he can handle, so be sure not to touch his dicklet very much as you don't want him to orgasm. Just keep teasing his head now and then and he will be begging to serve you. after you have had your fun and he is good and horny, now its time to roll him over.

Time for Pegging
He should always be tied down when training but also when pegging and its always best to get him horny before. Always use a finger to loosen up his ass or butt plug at some point during training before you go shoving your cock in his ass. As time goes on this may not be necessary or at best just a finger or two right before will do the trick to loosen him up. The best position for pegging is doggy style (especially for the first time)as it give you more control and it allows you to pull his hair and smack his ass through out the pegging. After a few times when he is use to getting your cock, you will want to change it up now and then by putting him on his back for pegging, standing him up bent over the bed or other ways. Always use a condom on your dildo, unless its only used for his ass. Use plenty of lube and keep it lubed if needed.

Start out slow giving his ass time to adjust to the size (the bigger the dildo the longer he may need). Slide it in inch by inch taking a few minutes in between until he can take it all (hit bottom) and then give him a few minutes to get use to the whole cock in his ass (the first few times you may need to ask feed back from him). Now slowly pump in and out with short strokes giving his ass time to adjust to the motion. After you see that he is relaxing and accepting the cock you can use longer strokes and slowly start working your way to fucking him fast and hard. Use his reactions to judge by how fast and hard you slam it in him. You will learn his body reactions and better technique the more times you do it, As time goes on he will eventually start moaning and screaming like a girl when pleasure is at its best for him, and may even try to back up on it as you fuck him. This is a good time to laugh at him and tell him things like, "my little bitch loves that cock doesn't he or she) Make him answer and ask him who's bitch he is as you smack his ass hard 3 times, then keep humiliating him!

*Technique*
Use your hands a lot, grab his hips pulling him back firmly towards your cock as you fuck him. This teaches him you have control. Pull his hair, smack his ass hard and loud, leave deep red hand prints to show as ownership later after the fucking. Smack it off and on during the whole time and occasionally grab his balls by the base and pull. Ideally you will want to fuck him just like you like getting fucked doggy style, driving that cock in good and hard. *NOTE* Its very important in making his ass feel owned and thus the smacking of the ass leaving the hand prints for visual after. This is a mental training as well as psychical. You want him to believe you own his ass but more importantly you want him to want you to own it.

*Technique*
 Just like for you getting fucked by a guy who knows how to fuck good, you need to learn how to fuck him good. The best positions for his pleasure and more fun is doggie style followed by him bent over the bed, next would be his ass on the edge of the bed with legs straight up (in chains) while he is on his back and you stand and fuck, followed by missionary, just remember he should be in chastity and tied down. While fucking him, from time to time go slow and use your hands to really spread his ass cheeks far apart, let him feel his ass crack spread which puts more sensation on his ass hole. You should also do this now and then when fucking him faster as well. You should be very verbal, this is the perfect time to degrade and humiliating him about how much of a bitch he is (and sissy if you want) and how much he loves your cock. Say things like, "you like my big cock taking this ass, don't you?" After he says yes, and he will, tell him"your going to be my bitch from now aren't you?" this is a great time to make him feel like your submissive little bitch, and to want to be your bitch. Also remember to take time here and there to pull his hair and smack his ass very hard while humiliating him. Use other toys and tools from time to time when fucking him, I like to tie a rope around the base of his balls and cock and pull it snug to tie off at the bottom of the bed. This keeps him in position and every time I slam it in he gets a little squeeze of pain, especially when I give the rope a little pull by hand. I also like to take 2 small wooden pins (get at the local hardware store) and push his dicklet inside its self, putting the pins squeezed together with rubber bands at the end to keep the head from poking out, then roll it up like a hose, then use another rubber band to rap it around the new penis ball and his balls to secure it in place. This does 2 things, first it almost eliminates penis sensation which helps keep him from orgasm and it can give more sensation on his prostate because it forces the corpora cavernous down closer to the prostate, grouping the nerves closer. You could also just force it inside its self as far as you can and use a heavy duty pin or clip to hold it inside its self.  Remember you want to be very verbal yourself, humiliating him about this being the only pleasure he will get, and how he is being a good bitch taking your cock (what ever else you want to say to humiliate him) Make him beg for it or you will stop, have him tell you he wants to be your bitch from now on. Laugh at him moaning and tell him "hearing you moan like a bitch makes me want to get fucked by a real man".  think of your own things to say, what ever you want, and have fun with it. Trust me the more you make him feel like your bitch, the more he will want to be your bitch.

I always make him beg for my cock on his knees and then suck my cock first before I put him into position and sometimes I make him suck it after he is in position before I fuck him. Regardless of what rout you go with him, you should always or at least most of the time make him suck a big dildo while you fuck him. Buy a dildo holder and place it in front of him while you peg him and demand he suck it. Make sure he does a good job and smack his ass really hard if he fails, also use this time to humiliate him about it and this is his place from now on, especially if you plan to turn him sissy and suck real cock. If you decide to go the sissy route, make him wear panties and stockings and leave them on while you fuck him.

*NOTE and re-cap* It is very, very rare that a man can orgasm by fucking him in the ass, (he may have some cum ooze out, but that's not an orgasm). The feeling he gets is a lot like a pre-orgasm (much like you feel when your getting close to getting off but don't quite reach that stage, only not as intense as you feel). This is why pegging is so valuable to Dom's as a great tool to make him submissive, you get all the perks but he gets none of the glory. Its is the best tease you can do to him even with out you doing penis stimulation on him and why its works great for long term chastity or permanent chastity. Every time he gets fucked, the sensation builds and he feels like he may cum, but it never happens. This leaves him unsatisfied, still horny(only worse), and begging for more, with the added benefit he feels more like your bitch and wants to please you to get your cock again. After a certain point, he will be hooked on your cock, begging to do anything you ask and please you to feel that cock in his pussy/ass. If you really want to push his boundaries, make him take your lovers cock.


Have fun!!