THE RITUAL

 THE RITUAL

The ritual is a subjugation act performed to force the submission of you dating your boyfriend in a serious type relationship or even exclusively AND it is repeated again when you decide to start permanent chastity, which should follow shortly after (about 2-3weeks or less) the committed relationship with your Boyfriend starts. The ritual is preformed even if you have been training correctly and your submissive is actively pleading (as he should be) you to date more seriously. The ritual is a powerful stance on your position to date whom you please, how you please and removes any doubt that he has no choice in your decision and must submit to it, plus it reinforces his place as your obedient sissy bitch. It is done to subdue him physically but also mentally with the forced acceptance of your decisions and to help prevent any defiance, disobedience, temper tantrums, or unruly behavior that could otherwise arise when the humiliation of complete denial sets in. You will more than likely need to repeat the ritual multiple times through out your relationship with your BF as weeks turn to months of denial on top of permanent chastity when the realization sinks in that he will never have the privilege's of pussy again. It is imperative and highly recommended that you do this ritual when you have made the decision to date your boyfriend full time, but also DO IT AGAIN when you enact permanent chastity. Not doing it will likely result in unwanted behavior, disruption in training and servitude, or flat out disobedience. The ritual is done when you have decided to allow your boyfriend to fuck you without a condom and cum inside you, but also more importantly you have chosen sex this way because you are very attracted to him, or have feelings of some sort or even infatuated and want to date him on a serious level. You have also decided to give him complete access to your body and completely deny your sissy bitch anything to do with pussy. At this point as far as your concerned it is now his pussy (this decision could come in a week, a month, or whenever you decide after you first meet your boyfriend) and this decision means you want to spend time with your boyfriend intimately but also, you truly never want sex with your sissy bitch. 

Fucking with a condom is just sex, this could happen with anyone you want to have sex with and as a Dom I'm sure you've already done many times. Fucking without a condom and cumming inside your pussy is a stronger sexual connection and attraction, but also typically proof of a relationship or at least the acceptance of one. The continuous or on-going sex in this manner is an extreme attraction, with passion and desire, also a high form of intimacy (not to mention makes sex way better), thus making the relationship more than just a fuck. A relationship of sorts with SERIOUS involvement you could even say. Deciding to date with serious involvement, and allowing your BF access to your pussy anytime he wants it day or night is A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP and and your right as a Dom if you so choose. This desire to form a relationship in this manner should be talked about mutually with your boyfriend. "The ritual" is where you make it formally known to your sissy bitch that you have decided to date your BF seriously and/or exclusively, even permanently if you choose, giving him complete access "AKA ownership" of your body and/or pussy. You will date with the intentions of intimate sex with out a condom, to cum inside his pussy and you doing whatever sex acts that turns him on sexually (oral, 3some's etc.) including how you dress, lingerie, how you shave pussy. As a Dom it is your right to have sex with whom ever you want, how you want, you deserve the best pleasure and sex possible and you deserve to date a real man in any manor you choose. This ritual as well as your decision to date seriously is reinforcement that your sissy's only purpose to you is just handing over his pay, serving and obeying you, with complete servitude and obedience, nothing else. This means you (at your own discretion or your BF's) will drastically limit or completely deny your sissy bitch access to your pussy and most probably your body. Clean up duty (in the manner you choose) and the occasional copulin training is absolutely a must!   

Maybe you have already allowed your boyfriend to cum inside you for a few weeks or longer before you've made this decision and that's OK and actually normal, the ritual isn't to just to signify and inform him that your BF is cumming inside you, the humiliation is actually worse if your boyfriends been doing it for some time without his knowledge. Along with worse humiliation ,this also helps with reinforcing the "Its none of your business" practice you should be enforcing. The ritual is making your sissy acknowledge and accept your status together and commitment to your boyfriend (with or without the BF's knowledge of the actual ritual) on a more serious level. Also as said above, that you are officially giving your BF complete access to your pussy and/or dating full time/seriously with his permanent denial of pussy. This denial will be as you demand it, like none of his business and complete denial of sex, with complete denial of pussy as in no touching it, and/or seeing it bare with out panties on and only smelling it through panties or clean up duty (copulin arousal/training) or only smelling it on your fingers or in freshly worn panties. And lastly, its about the enforcement of denial through this act and further punishments. 

This ritual is done at night, best if the cum and hormones are fresh (with in 30 minutes or less of your BF cumming inside you) but if not possible, as soon as you possibly can. *Note do not ever clean up any of the mess, as we normally do when we go to the restroom after sex, you don't want to lessen the hormones and you want it very messy to degrade and humiliate him. 

AFTER INTIMATE SEX WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND, FOLLOW BELOW.....

1st; Begin by having him kneel on the floor where you normally do training and start stripping down to just your panties. Now humiliate him and then make him beg to serve you and worship your feet for 2-3 minutes. After this, tell him you have a treat for him and show him the wet spot from sex soaked into your panties. Stick your finger into your pussy and wipe it under his nose to make him weak. 

2nd; Then order him up to his back in a firm voice, proceed to tie him down on his back for 10-15 minutes of edging and be sure to use a finger or prostate toys to help flood his brain with hormones. 

3rd; Now flip him over and tie him down securely for a punishment spanking, but DO NOT tell him (he will think he is getting pegged) as you want fear to start after the first hit. After he is firmly tied down, get your canes ready and start off with 10 very firm and slow, one at a time hits, while you humiliate him about being your sissy cock slut and will never receive the pleasure of pussy again nor will he ever cum again. Tell him he doesn't deserve it, and never deserved it *be very serious about this*. 

4th; Dip your finger into your pussy and wipe the smell under his nose again, then explain that you have decided to date your Boyfriend seriously and/or exclusively, that you really like him and/or love his cock. Remember to humiliate him on how much bigger and better his cock is and how much better he fucks you. Tell him you deserve to be pleased and proceed to tell him that it is your boyfriends pussy from now on and he is no longer allowed anything to do with his pussy and then describe this in what even manner you have decided to restrict him from it. Remember if it is complete denial of pussy, explain he will only be able to smell it on rare occasions if at all, like when you allow him the privilege's of cleaning up the fucking mess and even then you may only finger feed it to him. *Note make sure you are speaking in a strict firm dominant voice, he needs to know you are serious about this decision and he needs to fear you. 

5th; Now Hit him with 20 slow firm and hard strikes and make sure he understands. Explain that his only purpose is giving you his pay or paying for pussy he will never have, serving and obey you! Next explain that he is not a man but your sissy bitch meant to serve you and that's what you want him to be your sissy bitch from now on.

6th; Now hit him 20 fast (in a row) hard hits then another 20 slow hits as you scream in a firm voice "IS THAT UNDERSTOOD BITCH!!"  He should yell YES MISTRESS!

7th; Now remove your cum soaked panties and position yourself in front of him as though he is going to lick pussy, sit with your pussy touching his nose. Spread your lips open and allow him to smell your sex for  5 minutes (to let the copulins do their job).  As you do this, tell him this is the last time he will see pussy ever again and demand him in a loud firm voice to lick clean the fucking mess. As he is licking up the mess, tell him that from this point forward he is never allowed to ask about or speak of (BLANK'S) pussy in any manner for any reason or face extreme punishments. Tell him this will be a taste of that punishment and demand him to lick deeper, you want ALL THE CUM CLEANED OUT!! 

8th; Now get up and place your cum soaked panties fully into his mouth then proceed to strike another slow 20 firm strikes. Then tell him you will not stop the punishments until he sincerely begs you to date and give your boyfriend complete control of your pussy, but you will not allow him to beg for that privilege until your ready to hear it. 

9th; Now pull out the panties and put them around his head to position the wet spot under his nose then put a ball gag in his mouth with the panties on his head and strike him with 20 slow firm hits followed by 20 fast firm hits followed by 20 slow hits without taking a break. 60 total hits back to back, he should be screaming into the ball gag.

10th; Now explain that from this point on his only purpose is to serve and obey you, and of course hand over his paycheck. Hit him with 10 slow hits as you yell "is that understood!". Now hit him with 20 fast strikes and explain that failing to be your sissy bitch and serve you as you deserve will result in extreme punishments including but not limited to no cock for a week. Now strike him with 20 fast hits and then explain that he may beg you to give your BF complete control of your pussy, then begin hitting him with a mix of slow and then fast hits, but don't stop striking him until you are satisfied with his begging (wait at least another 30- 40 hits). 

11th; After you stop then inform him that you will soon lock his clitty away permanently so that he can focus on serving you the way you deserve. Tell him his clitty doesn't deserve to be touched and that he will also beg you to lock it away permanently when you decide its time. Strike him 10 slow firm hits and explain that his only purpose is serving and obeying and handing over his paycheck. Now strike him another 10 times and shout "is that understood!"  YES MISTRESS! PLEASE MISTRESS! 

12th; Tell him its time to lock the clitty away for now and have him beg you to lock it on now,  hit slowly as you allow him to beg, once satisfied then lock on the chastity (you may have to flip him over if you can't put it on with his ass in the air. Note* he should have been screaming/crying and begging you to stop at least mid way through this, if not you are not hitting hard enough and need to hit harder and longer before each step. His ass should be red and blue with welts and bruising that last for at least 4-5 days. 

13th; Now put your strap-on on and force him to suck it while you humiliate him about how big cock will be his only pleasure from here out. Grab his collar and smack him in the face with your cock a few times and then back into his mouth. Continue to humiliate and degrade him about being a true sissy from here out and being used by real cock. Make sure you make him thank you for that privilege and humiliate him about being a cock whipped slut and sissy bitch from here out. After your done with humiliation, get behind him and fuck him good and hard for at least 30 mins or so and finish the night with him worshiping your feet and ass. 

If your boyfriend is in the house you may want to only fuck him for 20 min but the whole ritual shouldn't last more than 50 min to an hour. If your BF is not there, its better to make it last longer especially with the whipping his ass part. You could even make it worse by using a vibe on yourself as he licks your ass hole, kneeling at the foot of the bench of course (with or with out a blindfold on) but demand him to lick deeper. Regardless to what training you have left or fun you have, from this point DO NOT remove the chastity device after a date night with your Boyfriend. Wait till the next day to remove it as this will start the permanent chastity enforcement! Your cock, when you allow it is his only reward from now on. From this point on, your BF is the focus of your sexual desires, so definitely dress in what he likes, shave your pussy how he likes it, buy lingerie for him, if possible bring him on short vacations with your sissy bitch. I'm sure you get the point, its time for fun with your boyfriend and your sissy bitch should only be your cock slut sissy bitch and house servant. Just remember that you must continue to be very cruel, dominant, with strict discipline and severe punishments for disobedience and punish immediately if possible or as soon as possible, same day is very crucial.

REMEMBER REPEAT THIS WHEN YOU DO PERMANETLY CHASTITY!