Proper punishments

I had a Mistress send me this the other day...This is a good example of using a cane to punish your slave for breaking rules. Notice how these Doms are enjoying themselves, they are relentless with spanking him, and make sure at the end his ass is bruised and welted up. This is not just a enjoyment or teaching spanking during training, this is a punishment spanking and meant to deter rule breaking and it is meant to be remembered. I counted over 200 hits in the full Video, which makes this about an average punishment, had he broked a major rule this would have been way higher as I will show below in other clips. The only thing I would have done different is tie or bound him down better so he could not move and take every hit to its fullest impact.


A good Mistress doesn't care about how much pain she inflicts, he deserves every minute of his punishment and it will help him be a better slave to her. Watch how she uses different instruments for whipping to inflict a variety of pain on him. The cane (both ratted and nylon), the leather paddle strap, and the leather whip are best for give extreme pain that can be given for long hard whippings with out numbing the butt or causing long term damage...But must be used correctly. Wood or rubber paddles are not for long spankings they can do more damage and numb the skin making the punishment less effective but are effective in small amounts, about 3 or 4 every so often.


In this clip the Mistress is very serious about his rule breaking and back talking. This is a very good example of of how to punish for major rule breaking or any rule breaking you don't want him to repeat. A spanking like this on his ass will turn him into a very sincere and completely submissive bitch for the next couple of days, and its then that you will see the difference in a disciplined slave.  She doesn't care about his crying or scream out (he has on a muzzle under his mask to dampen the sound) and you shouldn't care, in fact if he is screaming or even crying them the spanking is doing its job. The only 2 things wrong here is that she did not tie him down (because he is a seasoned slave and taught moving will bring even worse punishment), ALWAYS TIE DOWN and she is not humiliating and reinforcing his place or scolding him for his bad actions. Something else which is not necessarily bad is I never whip my bitch on the back for punishment, only the butt. If I do whip his back or tops of his legs where they meet his ass, I don't leave marks, in other words the hits are lighter or not at all. Marks in this are can be seen by other people, family or kids and there is no way to explain this, so you should refrain from hitting him there.


OK I've shown you some good clips of punishments, this one is a bad one. She is correct in the seriousness of the violation and inflicting pain to discourage future rule breaking. For the most part she is also doing good in hitting him consecutively (whipping one after another). However, she is hitting him with extreme force and eventually starts hitting with all she has. Through out this she breaks several instruments which shows she is hitting to hard. Then she switches to a paddle and continues to hit him with all she has which completely tears up his ass and far beyond acceptable marks and an effective punishment. When you beat like this you kill skin, muscle and nerve fibers,  dead skin and nerves fibers don't yield pain so at that point your just hitting meat. Not to mention the time it will take to heel will be months and the possible infections being that close to his ass hole when wiping. A hit should be firm and hard, never with all your might especially with a paddle. 20 to 30 hard consecutive hits is great and needed, especially to correct bad behavior but after that give a minute or two before hitting his ass again. Take that time to smack his balls or his face even. In the full video he is hit over 400 times, which may be needed or warranted for continued rule breaking or back talk. This is acceptable but only with proper hitting impact, and the 1-2 minute breaks in between each instrument. And always reinforce his place, humiliate, and scold for his bad behavior, and tell him how he is to act from then on. Always monitor his bruising and marks and adjust hits accordingly.



There is a difference between a punishment spanking and a training spanking. 

When training, you spank to bring attention to your words so that he is listening to what you are saying. This is why you would tell him your rules, tell him his chores, state his place, or humiliate him during a training spanking. You would be more relaxed and maybe even laugh at how pleased you are that his ass is bright red. It should be hard and firm and leave welts and red marks on his ass for a few days. You would hit him 100 to 150 times with 10-15 times in a row and switch from instrument to instrument (if wanted) while continuing to shout demands or orders. This pain is done to help him soak in all that you say but also as a deterrent for future rule breaking.

When giving a punishment spanking it is meant to be remembered, this will help deter him from future infractions. It should be hard enough and long enough with the correct welts and bruising for him to feel it for a week or so.  You must be very serious and speak in a firm voice. During the entire whipping you will scold him about his rule breaking/disobeying and also remind him of his place, the rules and whats expected out of him. Towards the end of the spanking you will put a ball gag in to block the sound and whip for at least another 40-50 times but harder and even faster. Then remove the ball gag and allow him to beg for you to stop, but you will not, you will spank for at least another 20 to 30 hits or longer but you will stop when you feels he is ready not because he begs.