Position is very important for both the mistress and the Sub as it sets the place of both. Position is also a physical tool to use on the Sub and will aid in the training process and continued submission of the male after training. Keeping him in his proper place reinforces her control over him and is a constant reminder that he is there only to pay for and serve, and nothing else, especially with regards to sex.
The Female/Mistress is the hierarchy, meaning she is in complete control, she is the boss and the only authority in the relationship. For that reason her position is always on top of the submissive. She should be standing or sitting on a higher ground than that of her PS. She should at several times through the day make her sub acknowledge his place, beg for it, and show his gratitude for allowing him that privilege by making him lick, suck, kiss and worship her feet, toes and ass. Her word and rules are law, and should always be obeyed with great humbleness and submission from her sub. She will not accept anything less, nor will she accept anything less than complete respect from her sub, and punish severely for any disrespect, rule breaking, failing to complete orders promptly and as directed, back talk and in appropriate questioning. She should never ask for something to be done, only order it in a firm demanding voice. She never accepts back talk or input from her sub, and does not allow herself to be questioned. She is always addressed as mistress, ma'am, madam, boss, or any name she gives the male to address her by, and she should come and go as she pleases. She always views her sub as only her sub, never her equal or a man, and she does not communicate with her sub like she would her man or an equal. This means limited or no conversation, only commands or orders. He is and does exactly what her purpose for him is, and his only purpose is to pay, serve, and please his Mistress to the best of his ability. She will deny him sex and all access to her body saving it only for her lovers or boyfriends. She will work towards permanent chastity and sissyfing of her sub if that turns her on. She will not be shy or timid about her rules,demands, what she wants from him, or expects him to do, including sex or sexual interactions with other lifestyle males. If it turns her on, she is amused, for humiliation purposes or just because she wants it done, she will give the orders to make it happen and then see that it does, again punish severely for failure to obey (even in front of other lifestyle male or people who know of the situation). She will train him to forget about his clit dick, and focus all his energy on pleasing her. She will also train him to derive pleasure from his pussy/anus and tease and humiliate him about that fact. She will be ruthless, domineering, aggressive, demanding and especially humiliating at all times to keep him in his proper place and enforce her rule over him. She will not care of his thoughts or feelings on matters, or care about how much pain and agony he is in when training and especially when being punished. She will carry herself as a Dom/Mistress, getting hair and nails done, shopping, flirting with real men, including fucking and dating. She will also keep her body in good physical shape by going to the gym regularly, and tanning.
The Submissive is just that, he is the server of the mistress and he obeys all orders, rules, and commands. He realizes and is taught that she is inferior to him in every way and that this is the natural way, and the only way of the relationship. She does not want him as a man or for sex, she wants and deserves real men for that purpose. Her only use for him is serving and pleasing her in any manner she chooses. For that reason he is always on the bottom of the mistress and her bulls/lovers. He must ask for permission to do anything except chores or obey orders and take his place at the bottom by kneeling naked at her feet at all times. He must especially be there when asking permissions, serving drinks or food. Proper kneeling is where he is up on his knee's, legs slightly spread, and hands behind his back and his eyes either facing down toward the floor or at his mistresses crotch level. This position is called "Knell or Place" and he will be taught that when you say that one word he immediately gets undressed if not already and takes that position. He should be in the "knell" position and naked, at all times or as much as possible and only allowed to sit- his ass on his legs/heels (like a kneeling sitting position legs spread apart) when you say the word "ease" or if you give permission when he asks to "Ease". Ease is the word you will teach him and use that means he can relax to a semi-relaxed submissive state. But his proper place to ask his mistress for permissions, address his mistress, beg, or to worship his mistresses ass is in the "Knell" position. Another position is on all four's like a dog, legs spread apart head down towards the floor. This position is called "Heel" and you could use this position to scold him or to let him relax (he is never to sit on his ass) for a change of positions, or to use him as a foot rest or stool, or just before your make him worship your feet. the other position is called the "Submit" This is a favorite among Mistresses, used on him for when he is begging, humiliation, worshiping your feet, a quick spanking or just because you want to see him humbled and in place and its basicly the same as Heel/ dog position only his face is on the floor and arms are in front of him like he is diving into water, palms flat on the floor but close to his face. The sub must be taught/trained that his only purpose is to serve and please his mistress and never to expect anything in return. His reward is privilege of serving his Mistress or what ever else she may deem fit (never allow pussy or orgasms through his penis). The sub should ALWAYS be treated as the sub and never allowed input of any kind. He should be talked to like a bitch, treated like a bitch, and addressed as a bitch, or another sub name you give. He will be punished severely for any rule breaking, back talking, or failure to please his mistress. He will always wear a chastity device and keep it cleaned daily as well as all pubic hair removed/shaved. Conversation with him will be limited to only necessary replies, and command words will be used as much as possible. The Mistress should design her own words as well.
The mistress should either be standing (best is possible) or sitting with the submissive full kneeling at her feet and his head/eyes focused on the floor, hands behind his back when she gives him a command/order to follow. She will teach him that this is his full time place when not doing chores or obeying his mistress.
He should spend all of his time that he is not doing chores, kneeling at his mistresses feet or beside the bed/chair and just because he asks for permission to ease, heel, or enter the bed does not mean that she should grant it, permission should be when she is ready to grant it. This is the perfect time to use her female powers of seduction, and body display.
If he is to ask permission to serve his mistress or worship her ass/feet it should be done while he is in his proper position "knell" or "submit" and he must ask/beg for that privilege.
CHORES
He should be given chores that are simple enough for him to do successfully, or taught how to do the hard ones. Load the dish washer, carry down laundry, vacuum, wipe off counters, walls, sweep the floors, clean up dinner, clean up after his mistress, open the doors for her, clean the bathroom, or anything else you need that he can do simple enough. Cooking is always a hard task for men.
You should make a chore list and break it down to things done daily, weekly and monthly, and you should never do any of his chores unless he is ill, or for some work/family reason unable to fulfill his duty. Also if you chose the option to fuck your lovers out of sight or away (at your lovers house) from your PS, you should give him chores (Typically washing panties) to do while you are gone.
Remember, his place is to serve you and yours is to command. Try to keep talking casually with him to a minimum, especially after a training sessions or punishments. Make sure he asks for permission to do every thing, even speak. Never argue or fight, this will kill built up horniness and submission.
Rules
1. Always address mistress as mistress or her approved name
2. Always ask for permission to do anything, including bathroom.
3. Always kneeling at all times, NAKED if possible. especially to ask for permissions or beg.
4. Keep pubic hair trimmed or shaved to mistress's specifications
5. Always show submission, at all times; example opening all doors, letting the mistress order food.
6. Never back talk or ask questions to the mistress, it is not your concern or your business.
7. Never ask for pussy or anything to do with it.
8. Obey all orders on command with out hesitation.
9. Get all daily chores done.
10. Respect and serve your mistress to the best of your ability, including lovers/boyfriends or friends.
11. Never touch the mistress or her property (tiny clit dick included)
12. Always address your self as the mistress property or her bitch
Remember your place, KEEP him in his!
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