So some of you may be wondering what is the limit of punishment, whats to much? When should I punish and for how long? Well as with anything i say in this lifestyle, EXPLORE find his breaking point and push past that! For best results you should punish him at the time of his disobedience if at all possible, or at the next possible time. Really there should be no limit on how long or how often you punish your pussy slave, however the severity (how hard you hit) should be enough that he is yelping or moaning fairly loud with each hit. It should be hard enough to push his limits, and he should after a few miniutes of punishment be yelping and moaning loudly and begging for you to stop. I will say that you should always keep his physical safety in mind when giving out punishments. Meaning and only limited to making sure it will not cause permanent damage but be aggressive and demanding, be humiliating towards him. I also want to stress the fact that how strict you are and how hard you push the boundaries or severity of his punishments will determine his fearfulness of you, respect, obedience and the speed at which he trains. If he is not yelping or even begging you to stop, your not pushing hard enough or gone long enough with his punishment. It is the dominatrix who are ruthless, humiliating, and strict that are feared and Obed the most! And as I've said before, you know what you want, you know what pleases you, shouldn't you be willing to do what it takes to get what you deserve and to get the servitude of a very submissive PS, how far are you willing to go? If you have been the strict, demanding, and humiliating bitch at any time prior to reading this, then you have seen the difference in his obedience to you then from when you not how you should be. How far are you willing to go?
His ass is fairly resilient and can handle any type of tool and punishment using aggressive swings and force. If in a training session you should mix up the swats to his ass from mild when talking to him then hard when getting a point understood. His cock and balls, are more sensitive and require less harshness to get the point across. When slapping or squeezing his balls don't do it hard enough to rupture one of them. Keep in mind that cat tails or crops, even if used firmly (as they are suppose to be) will not do any long lasting damage, hit his balls with firm but short strokes. Also the position of his balls when hitting them can cause different kinds of pain. If smacking them while he is on his back, its a variance of pain and combine with you standing up straddling his chest so he can see the out line of your pussy and ass(with thongs on) its also a mental submission. But best result is when he is bent over, legs spread allowing his balls to hang away from his body(you may have to pull on them a bit to get them to drop or get a chainless ball stretcher). bending him over is a much more pin point pain that is sharper and intense. Regardless of how you punish his balls, remember to switch it up so that he doesn't know what to expect and feels the wide range of pain you are capable of giving if he doesn't obey. On his ass; welts, redness and even bruising are what to strive for, light abrasions are even tolerated......They may even be needed or warranted for getting the point across. Its not easy to damage his ass and you can't be to scared to welt it up or hurt it. If he complains that your hitting to hard or getting mouthy, put the ball gag in and smack his ass into submission only stopping if he is begging you to and you feel like it. Make sure before you stop that he understands you are the boss and he will obey and he repeats this to you, but you decide when he has had enough. On his cock and balls; redness and light welts are what to strive for. Also as I've stated before when training or giving out punishments, make sure his ropes and chains are pulled tight. Give him as little room as possible to squirm or move, this creates a helpless feeling, setting his mood for submission and keeps him from getting out or moving to block or lighten punishments.
Punishments should be given out for every infraction, and should always be given out the same day and if at all possible at the time the infraction occurred. Punishments can range from loss of privileges or simple corner time (naked with the full get up, on just like in the photo, just actually knelling in the corner. 10 minutes is enough and the required length of time but no less) all the way to corporal punishments like spankings, nipple and ball touchier or ball stretching.
Basically when giving out corporal or touchier punishments judge how much he can possibly take (do this by how much and how loud he is yelping, if its light or no sounds, your not even close) then push it 25 percent or more past that. Example; He is told to shut his mouth and does not. Then you should spank his ass until he is begging you to stop then put the ball gag in to cover his yelping and spank another 5 or 10 times. Same with smacking his balls. This should be enough to get his attention, letting him know your the boss, your rules are to be obeyed and you are serious. And if the same rule is broken 2 times in the same day there should be a set punishment. Example; Spanking as described above, knell in the corner (with full props) for 10 min, and a loss of privilege for the rest of the night.
Also learn to use all of your tools in his punishments, as in the blind fold, ball stretcher, ball gag, clamps, whips and crops....everything you have. Meaning there is no such thing as to much. You should also combine punishments for multiple infractions. If he brakes 2 or 3 rules, give him 2 or 3 punishments.
Use your mind to come up with punishments to use and be creative, but be harsh and strict while doing them. Don't forget to scold or humiliate him when doing them as well! Take a look at the pictures below on ways to use your creativeness and if anything search the INTERNET for ideas. If your PS is handy with tools he could make furniture or devices for you to use, maybe even help you come up with some of his own.
Change things up a bit and remember you can also use things he now derives pleasure from against him. One of the things i do on occasion (just to change things up a bit) even if not being punished is place him in the corner (either knelling or sitting in a special chair that the back folds down) with his full get up on, when my lover comes over. He is only permitted to hear us fucking We fuck until my lover cums the first time and i lay down his chair back or lay him back squatting over his face making him clean up the mess while i suck my lovers cock hard again. Of course I take off the blind fold so as he is doing his duty he can watch me suck my loves cock. Note; It is the sound of your moans and screams that get him excited and turned on, it is the sight of watching your loves bigger cock fuck you while you moan and scream that humiliates him. So keep this in mind and keep this scene to a minimum, putting him in the corner is a sensory change and a way to enforce that he never knows what could happen to him next.
Another thing I like to do is put my PS in a GATES OF HELL device, that way as he is watching my lover fuck me and he is getting hard, the gates device restricts his hard on causing a pain full pressure where the steel rings are. here is a link to a pic of one; http://www.lockeduplove.net/otherchastity
All three on this page are gates of hell, the top is described as a Chastity but it is just a locking gates device, of the other 2 one is also a locking (better locking one) and one is just a normal one. there are several types of these and they can be found in most sex store or on line store.
This idea is more of a training idea than a punishment but its fun for you and humiliating for him.
Buy yourself a double ended dildo (if you don't have one) and the next time you train him, tie him down to the bed, get him really excited/horny. pull his legs up to or by his hands and tie them there. (His ass should be in the air) Now lube up one end of the dildo and slid it in his ass, then turn around facing away from him (on your hands and knees) reach between your legs and slide the other end of the dildo in your pussy or ass and start fucking! You get to get orgasm and he gets to squeeze his ass mussels to hold the dildo in place for you with a sever punishment if he fails. Adding to his humiliation, if he is a PS allowed to see your pussy, put a blind fold on him.
What ever punishments you give him or when ever you train him. always remember to keep his ropes/chains tight, he yelps with ever hit, push him to break and be fearful of you, be DOMINATING- harsh, strict, bitchfull, aggressive, demanding, degrading and above all, be as humiliating as you can.
He needs this from you just as much as you need and should give it to him.
Other ideals and punishments coming soon......
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