Saturday, November 11, 2017

The Black and White of cuckolding

             THE BLACK AND WHITE OF CUCKOLDING

Cuckolding for most women is the epitome of female domination. That is to say it is the focus or prime reason most Dominatrix or Mistresses live this lifestyle. There is an alluring, thrilling and intoxicating feeling you get, when you meet an attractive man and have erotic, passionate, mind blowing sex (even if he has an average cock), especially with the freedom to date him. It feels euphoric, completes you as a women, satisfies and fulfills that deep feminine desire, the same one that makes you wet every time you think about sex with him. It is the power of owning a submissive bitch to serve and obey you, while having an alpha male to please you sexually that gives you the feeling of being blissfully complete, sexually empowered, and with utter happiness. Sure its a real turn on, and extremely satisfying to be a Dom with a bitch kneeling at you feet, obeying and serving you. Doing all the chores, cleaning, picking up after you, running errands....What ever you command and all with out back talk, arguing, or even input. Not to mention the freedom to do what ever, when ever you want and spoil yourself with shopping, hair and nails, or what ever you desire. Then there is the added fun of humiliation, and inflicting pain or torment for your amusement. What could be better than owning a bitch, right? As fulfilling and exciting that all this is, and it truly is, this is just the prelude and benefits of CUCKOLDING, of course you have to train him to be that perfect little bitch first. But why have all this power, I mean whats the use of having a bitch if your not sexually satisfied, or even worse sexually frustrated from small cock and 5 minute sex. Forced with only big dildo toys, masturbation, or his oral service to have pleasure. Lets face it, getting yourself off will only get you by for so long and his tongue does very little for satisfaction when you need the feeling of deep penetration and thickness. That big dildo you love is OK for now, but it is nothing like having the real thing and will eventually lead you to wanting the real thing even more!

This is why you said, No more of his little dicklet, his selfishness of being the only one to have a great orgasm or enjoying sex, no more of you having to masturbate or use toys! There should be no reason your not enjoying your full power, the benefits of having a bitch at your feet, and getting fucked by those big cocks you crave and think about. Those cocks that have the ability to bring you multiple powerful orgasms, to please a women the way she deserves and was meant to be fucked. That's the beauty of it, by dating and fucking who you want when you want, your going to make your bitch even more submissive and want to serve you even more! You can have as many as you want as often as you want and you don't have to lie, cheat, or sneak around. Your going to do it openly and even in front of him and humiliate him about it. Your going to deny him sex, lock away his dicklet, and treat him like the pathetic little dicklet bitch he is and fuck who you want, when you want. Thus you will create that submissive cock loving bitch as a bonus to getting what you really want and deserve. He was meant to be a bitch, he was meant to serve and obey you, he built to take your cock. To bring out the bitch, your going to fuck him with the very same dildo you were forced to fuck for pleasure. Soon he will be begging for it and dependent on it for pleasure, talk about irony right! He will beg you to go get all the big cock you want, and be extremely turned on by you doing so. He will be the bitch you want and best of all, there is nothing he can do to stop it, change it, or resist it. Whats more is he will beg to serve you, obey, worship your feet and ass, plus feel and believe this is his place and what he's meant for. If you really want to see a submissive bitch, wait till you take a bull or even a boyfriend full time, fucking 4,5,6 nights a week and he is completely denied pussy and anything to do with it except clean up duty. That's when you will see your training him into a sissy bitch really come out. He will do absolutely anything to have that big cock of yours.     

Cuckolding is the ultimate power and completion to being a Mistress. This is having your cake and eating it too. Why wouldn't it be, women truly were built for sex and pleasure just as much as they were for ruling over their bitch. Women experience great pleasure from penetration and it builds to the climax/orgasm. We can have various types of pleasure and orgasms, and we are the only ones with a sex organ (clit) designated solely for pleasure. We can have multiple orgasms and experience greater longer pleasure and orgasms. Plus we are the only ones that experience sex solely for pleasure, as biologically we gain nothing form the experience except that said pleasure. While a mans purpose to have sex is the deposit of semen and he experiences the majority of pleasure at the end, from the orgasm that is meant to force muscle contractions to expel the semen. Meaning the only reason he even has an orgasm is to ejaculate and deposit semen.

Being a Dominatrix is not complete with out having the best erotic, most thrilling and passionate sex you deserve and need, to be a woman and feel complete. And nothing is better than coming home to a spotless house after a date night with your boyfriend, after which(like every sex night) you got the pounding of your life. Having trained your bitch to kneel at the door for you. Taking off your shoes, worshiping and licking your feet, and told to fetch you a drink, then meeting you in the bed room to knell at the bed. Where you've got undressed and put on a fresh pair of panties as the used ones have a greater purpose. You humiliate him, and tell him how pathetic he is, how he isn't a man, he's your bitch with a clitty and he should be grateful that you allow him the privilege of serving you. This is the third time this week you went to get fucked and its only Thursday, and you are extremely pleased and happy, but you are cruel to him and treat him just like the bitch he is. He has only one purpose to you, and that's all you want him for, being your bitch.....Serving, obey, and handing over his pay. You always speak in a firm demanding voice and punish him severely for ANY rule breaking, this keeps him very obedient. You love to be a cruel bitch, humiliating, and degrading him, it turns you on and you know it makes him weak, very submissive, and scared of you. You know he needs that, he needs you to be cruel, demanding, and aggressive with him to be the best bitch he can. He needs a strict, ruthless, punishing mistress to follow your rules and beg you to get the very cock that helps keep him in his place. This keeps him focused on his submission to you and is a constant reassurance that this is his place and he is grateful to be there. You order him to take his usual place lying on the floor (he is never allowed in your bed) hands under his back. You place the blind fold on him and then straddle him just inches from his face. He can already smell the copulins and sweetness of your sex and its very intoxicating to him as he instinctively tries to get closer to the smell and breath in as much as he can. You pull your panties aside to squeeze out the cum into his open mouth, you even reach in with your fingers to scoop out every last drop and force it into his mouth. The smell is hypnotizing but he is repulsed by the taste of cum and very humiliated of his place, he wants to stop licking it off your fingers but knows the punishment for resisting is far more sever than the humiliation of cleaning the cum left by your black boyfriend. You are turned on by the power you feel, and that he truly is your bitch, there to serve and do as he is told while you do as you please. You order him saying," lick every fucking drop off my fingers bitch" and then tell him to open wide as you move to spit in his mouth saying "you can wash it down with that you fucking pathetic bitch". Those are not just words, you mean them, you believe he is a pathetic bitch and you are completely happy about it. After your satisfied he took it all, you get up and fix your panties, then you remove the blind fold and sit on the edge of the bed as you say in a very firm voice "TAKE YOUR FUCKING PLACE BITCH" and he quickly gets up to his knees. You order him to rub your feet as you put the used panties over his head resting at his nose so that your pheromones (copulins) can do their job and help take control of his mind. You know that they are addicting and hypnotic, you tell him about how well you just got fucked by a real man, how much you truly love your boyfriends big black cock, how hard he makes you cum, how it reaches places he can't, and how it fills and stretches your pussy. You tell him the main details to arouse him but also to humiliate him, to make him week, and want to please you just as much by serving. As you explain how much better sex is with your black BF than him, that all of your orgasms with his pathetic little clitty couldn't even equal one of his, you notice his cock straining to get hard in his chastity. You laugh and say, "the poor little clitty is trying to get hard! The thought of your tiny dicklet getting hard is fucking hilarious". You then tell him how pathetic he is, how much of a bitch he is, that he can't please you and has to submit to you fucking another man to even be allowed the privilege of smelling your pussy. You tell him that you never want his pathetic clitty again and that you are locking it away for good. In your mind you think to yourself, he may not believe or realize it yet, but he will after a few months as you truly don't want it. For that matter, you don't even want to touch it or waste your time with it.... Mostly because it is worthless to you, but also because you know his locked up clitty is key to getting the cock you love and deserve. At the same time your voice and words are humiliating and degrading him, breaking him down, the aroma from your pussy, a cocktail of pheromones, copulins and cum is extremely intoxicating to him. Its hypnotizing to him and makes him even weaker, forcing him to submit and obey as it creates a vivid picture of the sex you had, the sex you loved, in his mind that is arousing yet so humiliating that he all he can do is knell and beg to be your bitch. He does just that, he begs you to allow him the privilege to serve you from there on, he thanks you for that privilege, and for locking his dicklet away. You reply in a firm voice, "that's right bitch, you know that's all I want from you and the way it's supposed to be, don't you?" YES mistress, thank you so much for getting the big black cock that pleases you like you deserve and allowing me the privilege to smell your sex! That's a good bitch, you should be grateful, you deserve nothing to do with pussy, NOTHING! If it wasn't for me getting that big black cock and needing the cum cleaned up you wouldn't even be allowed to smell it. Yes Mistress! Please Mistress, I'm begging you to get all the big cock you want, PLEASE! Oh I will, I love it, I'm going to get as much as I want and your going to be a good little bitch and serve me while I do! Yes mistress, thank you mistress! 

 At this point he is weak and completely submissive, he wants so bad to to serve you and be your bitch, he wants nothing more than to be your bitch from now on. He would lick up a gallon of cum just to be able to smell your pussy. But even worse and humiliating, he wants to feel your thick cock pounding him into submission, further stripping him of his manhood securing his place as your obedient bitch, your little sissy cock slut. Getting pussy isn't even a thought in his brain thanks to your training and punishments. He remembers the last time you fucked him for over an hour straight. Bringing him sissygasm after sissygasm which left him even more aroused than before you slid your thick black dildo into his tight pussy. He has become addicted to it, cock whipped you might say, and there is nothing he can do but accept it. Yet tonight he will get nothing, no cock, and no licking his balls or his pussy, not even a toy. Instead you spend the next 20 minutes using your lubed fingers to rub around the outside of his pussy, with an occasional finger penetration to get him extremely aroused and wanting your black cock even more. Only to deny him, and put him to bed....Like most nights, his reward for being a perfect little bitch and cleaning your house is the knowledge you were pleased very well, cleaning up the mess and smelling just how well you were fucked via your panties. That's right, his reward most of the time is humiliation of cleaning up the mess and the smell of your freshly fucked pussy or your used panties and he is happy to get even that. Every now and then you end the night with him licking and tongue fucking your asshole to orgasm while you use a vibrator on your clit. About 10 to12 times a month you give him that big cock he craves and if you have elected to turn him sissy, you have him fucked and used 1-2 times per week. But what ever you do, you never allow him to cum or out of his chastity, and your smart, you make it really humiliating for him. Also you tell him to go hand wash your panties so he can't sneak any unauthorized smelling. Then put him to bed in his spot on the floor where he will wake up and knell to serve again. 

This is how you want it, how it should be, how it's meant to be and this is how you should have it. You should not accept anything less than a complete obedient bitch, with no back talking or questioning you, who gets nothing but the little teases you allow. Why should we endure dull, pathetic sex however quick it is or suffer the lack of purely great sex because our Sub's inadequate ability to please, their pathetic dicklet size and stamina to please us as we truly deserve. Why should they ever be allowed the pleasure of pussy or an orgasm for that matter when they offer nothing in return and are more suited to serve and be a bitch, sissy even, to use for our purpose and amusement. We want better, we deserve better, and we deserve to fuck who we want when ever we want with out any input from him, in fact its really none of his business. He was meant to serve and make your life easier, an addition to the best sex, a bonus for doing and getting what we love, BIG COCK. He can't fuck, he can't last, he can't stay hard, he has a pathetic little dicklet and is not worthy of pussy. He is not a man he is a bitch and that's what he wants and deserve to be, even if he doesn't know it yet. He wants to be your bitch and serve you so that he may be allowed to take that big cock and receive the only pleasure he is permitted. Besides, nothing makes a bitch, more like a sissy bitch, submissive and eager to obey, than him watching or listening or even knowing for that matter that his Mistress is/was screaming and moaning to orgasm after mind blowing orgasm (which he can't do) as she freely gives her pussy to her alpha male while he is completely denied all access to pussy. Even more submissive if verbally told by the Mistress or Alpha/Bull who's pussy it is and that he is not allowed access to it, ever! Instead he is there for his true purpose, to hand over his pay, to kneel and serve, to obey with out question. Your sex life and whom you fuck is none of his business, you telling him the details about it (very important, especially if fucking away from him) is all he needs to know so he can be humiliated and even more submissive.

So with all of the excitement and thrill of cuckolding, when it comes to finding a sex partner, boyfriend, Bull or even a one time fuck, there is several things us women are prone to go after or look for. Number 1, Attraction or looks, 2 dress/clothes, 3 size of the cock,  HOWEVER, we need to realize that this order is flawed and understand that looks while they may be important, should not be the number one thing we consider when looking for a sex partner. Size and their ability to please us should always be the most important because it gives the best, most powerful orgasms and the the ability to have them one after another. Not to mention it is half our power and his submission. NEXT is stamina or the ability to preform for a longer time, FOLLOWED by his comfort level or willingness to fuck in front of the bitch or at least not care he exists. We need to focus on finding a sex partner, not the looks, instead you should try to look for an attraction of some kind Maybe his smile, perfect teeth, sense of humor, attitude, personality or even if its just the fact that he will fuck you in front of your bitch, as there is a lot to be said about a man with a big cock who will fuck you in front of him. There is always time to find that hot or attractive, well hung guy, but for now you need sex. You need to cuckold, you need orgasms, and you need to show your bitch that you can fuck when ever you want and his place is serving and obeying you. Having regular sex is also healthier for us, it slows aging, regulates hormones, helps prevent depression, boost our immune system, makes us more energetic, firms our breast, helps maintain happiness, helps with weight loss, and boost our confidence just to name a few. I'm not saying you should fuck just anyone, just that you should not have high expectations and average looking standards. Looks should never be the main or deciding factor of you fucking a guy. If you are only after looks, your sex life will suffer as there will be weeks or months even with out sex which is bad for you, and bad for his submission. His submission will suffer because of this as he will doubt or question your commitment and motives. The amount of time you spend searching and not fucking will be a waste and make him doubt your desire to have bigger cock, possibly even that your not serious about it or not wanting his. He needs this just as much as you because your sex is his sex and if your going to prove to him his place and bring out his true submission. You can always search for the perfect boyfriend, the hot, built guy that makes you wet every time you think about him. For now enjoy what you can get, sex with average looking well hung men is great sex and pleasure, Saying your looking or talking about looking is not, and wasting your abilities and power. Besides that I have meet some hot guys while out on dates or hooking up with the average ones. One more thing to consider, most hot guys will only have an average sized cock or less, very few will have that perfect 8 and thick cock you desire.

BLACK VS WHITE

This brings me to the Black and White of cuckolding. When it comes to males and size, as well as alpha and being freaky, your odds are far better with black males over any other.  However the myth that all black males have big cocks is NOT true, its not. But it is true that the average black male has a bigger cock at a thicker 7 inches then the average white male at thinner 6.5 and that there are far more black males with bigger cocks than white. This means you are extremely more likely to find a black male with an 8 inch or bigger cock than a white male. Statistically speaking use this guide;
                                                     In 100 black males you would find
1 man with 5.5 or less, 5 men with 6 inch to 6.5.......44 men with average cocks of 7 inches.....35 men with 8+ inches......15 men with 10+ size.....
                                                     In 100 white males you would find
7 men with 5.5 or less, 27 men with 6 inches.......45 men with average 6.5 inches........15 men with 7.5 inches.........5 men with 8+ inches......and 1 men with 10+.

Obviously the ratio is not put scientifically but it helps you understand just how much more likely you will get a bigger cock from a black male than a white male. Your far more likely to get bigger thicker cock of  7 to 8 + inches being 80% of black males. Opposed to white males range of 7.5 to 8 inches at 20%.

You know the saying "once you go black, you never go back" well there is a lot of truth in that, and the reason white women fucking black males has become so popular even to the point that they are leaving their mates to get it. There is a good reason you see so many white females and even white celebrity women with black males. Women who haven't had it are curious and want to feel how good it feels as they want to experience the hype, and the ones who have had it are talking and spreading the word about how good the sex is with black men. They are realizing that size really does matter and that a BBC can give them orgasms they've dreamed about. In fact its the highest searched request on porn sites, and surprisingly mostly searched by women. I know plenty of Doms or women in general who will only fuck black men, and I have to say I completely understand. I'm not saying that I only fuck black males, but the majority of the males I fuck are black. For one, black men on average are way better in bed, its true and I have never heard any woman, Dominatrix or not that has fucked both say any different, myself included, even well hung white males don't compare there. Then the obvious, they have bigger, thicker dicks and you are far more likely to find a big cock than with a white guy. Most can last as long as you want and at the very least long enough to make you cum several times. Plus with having a bigger, thicker cock the pleasure and sex feels way better, more intense, and is more satisfying. Most also have the stamina to fuck you again and again with just a little time in between. Now I'm not saying that all White guys can't fuck, I've had a couple that fucked me very good almost as good as some of the black guys I fucked, however they also had a thick 8 inch cock. What I am saying is that those white men are few and far in between, although any white cock over 6 inches that last for 20 minutes is far better than what my little bitch at 5.5 inches and 6-7 minutes can offer any day. What I'm talking about is the extreme pleasure of having your pussy filled and stretched, hitting that spot that makes your cum hard and long. Having long, powerful orgasms that you feel through your whole body, over and over as long as you can take it and want it. Orgasms that feel so good and are so strong that they make you squirt. YES, even if you have never squirted, it is possible to with the right black cock, and no white cock has ever made me or anyone I know squirt. That's another humiliating fact to use on your bitch, he has never made you squirt. Another way to humiliate him is if you only fuck black men, white dicks are not allowed or rarely allowed if big enough.

I remember the first time I had sex with a black guy, just sliding it in felt way better and I loved the feeling of being completely filled by his thickness. He hit places I had never felt pleasure from and it made me orgasm long and hard. His cock made me feel pleasure I didn't even know was possible and I was hooked after the first time. So obviously I gave him sex again and again until he relocated because of work. Every since then I've mostly fucked black men, and the sex has always been great. I still occasionally fuck hung or hot white guys from time to time, but honestly the sex isn't the same. What I love about sex with a black man (including what I said above) and why so many white women love it.  I like that most of them are built nice and in shape. They are more alpha and aggressive in bed and controlling of pussy. They don't mind a few extra pounds, in fact black men in general like a bigger girl and would rather have a thicker girl than a petite one. They try their best to please you, they want you screaming and moaning from their big cock because they know they'll be offered pussy again, and again. You know the song, "I have the magic stick" if I can hit it once , I can hit it twice.....Yeah, there is fact to that too. Most of them love dirty talk and sex, are way more freaky than white guys and down for pretty much anything. This even includes other males joining or watching, or having you fuck his friends (try asking a white guy for that). They are really not intimidated by you having a husband (unlike most white guys)and most don't mind fucking you in front of him. In fact most are freaky enough to be a bull and dom your bitch and some even do humiliating sex acts to him or force him to do to them. But mostly I love the sex, even with out the other great things, it is undoubtedly the best sex I've ever had, and the best orgasms I've ever had bar none, everything else they provide is just icing on the cake. In all, there have only been 2 white guys that have really fucked me good but not as good as the black cocks, and all of them had an 8 inch and thick cock. Most of the white cocks were just OK sex, I got off a few times, but some gave good sex. However every black guy I've fucked has fucked me at least good and most was great sex, as I said a few has even made me squirt. No matter the color, even the average cocks were far better than my bitch, as is anyone with a big enough cock and a little stamina. I guess the question is do you want good sex from white cock when you can find it, or great sex from black cock just about every time. Mind blowing orgasms or just good sex, again anything you choose will be better than your bitch and Its up to you what you choose. Personally I prefer black men over white men, but I really don't care what other people think. I could easily be a black cock only girl, especially with how much it humiliates my bitch, but I'll fuck whom ever i'm attracted to especially if they have a big cock and give me great sex, and long powerful orgasms. Its just that this happens far more often with black men over white, and they don't mind humiliating my bitch and some don't even mind using him. Everyone has their preference, but some women just don't know what they are missing because they have never tried it, or worried about what other people think, while some will only fuck black men. Most important is just cuckold no matter who its with, just do it!  Seriously, it is extremely important to cuckold, as long as your cuckolding getting bigger cock, having great sex and fun, and keeping your bitch in his place, That's all that matters. My bet is, once you have black cock you will always want black cock OR only black cock.

If you are looking for a black lover/bull or boyfriend, the best results are the local black clubs or bars. I have picked up one or more every time I went. Or try any dance club or night club, there are usually a good selection there. You could also try a swingers club, although its hit or miss there. If anything, try black dating or hook ups sites, Craig's list, or swingers sites. Happy hunting!!
Email me if you have questions about training, sissy training, punishments, or cuckolding. herdesire@live.com
                  

No comments:

Post a Comment