I read this blog from time to time as I find it very insightful and knowledgeable when it comes to the male submissive and mistakes women make when training them. Although I have never really ran into problems when it came to training my husband the way I wanted him to obey. Mostly because I knew what I wanted and I knew that I had to do what ever it took to make that happen. I didn't let anything stand in the way. I admit it was probably easier due to a few things, one being that we have no kids and I don't work. The other major difference was that I really believe I should be the one in control and I didn't let feelings or guilt stand in the way of taking that control. I treated him just like the bitch I wanted him to be and I was very demanding, strict, and relentless with punishments. I made sure he was very fearing of not obeying me because the severity of the punishment reinforced my control and he knows I follow through with every punishment I give. I would punish severely for every broken rule, and failure to obey me properly, but especially back talk!! That's just how it has to be, how it needs to be, and quite frankly how it should be. Trust me, showing weakness in anyway or not punishing when its needed, and not giving a proper punishments will have him doubting your power, and questioning your authority. This can and will cause problems and threaten your authority over him. Not that I don't love him, I do and I would never leave him, I just want things my way, and I love to see him on his knees serving me....But I also want the ability to fuck whom ever I want, when I want. Its not that he has a small penis, well tiny anyway (its average at 5 1/2 inches). Its just not the size that can give me the really good orgasms, the long and strong ones that make your toes curl and actually make you look forward to sex. Besides that he can only last 5-7 minutes.
We met at the town fair and our dating was normal, even the start of our marriage was mostly normal even though I did usually get my way. We didn't dabble in this lifestyle for months or years before we jumped into it for real. It only took one night before I was hooked and realized I had wanted something like this my whole life. It started with a Movie we were watching that has a girl dressed up in this black leather lingerie outfit and as described in the movie she was a dominatrix. I was immediately intrigued and aroused (this was before 50 shades of grey). Of course I didn't know what this was, but the next day I looked it up. Let me tell you, Google had plenty of resources on the matter and I found my self reading all I could over the next few days. I was fascinated with everything and really wanted to try it all, especially the cuckolding part. the only down fall was the free stuff didn't go into much detail, and most of it was paid sites and even those lacked detail , so be weary of that.
After giving it a little thought of how to bring my husband into this, which I really didn't care if he wanted to do it or not, SERIOUSLY we were doing it! I decided to do it slow, calculating and meticulously, by first withdrawing sex from him, and and changing my attitude and demeanor towards him. after the first week, I started to give orders and not ask for them to get done as I read on the net, I knew that the more strict and demanding I was the easier and quicker he would take to his new role. It said he would instinctively and subconsciously submit to my authority if I gave him no choice. I also started tying him down to the bed or chairs to tease him to the edge, and have him watch me get my self off with a dildo. I would also tease him and be seductive as much as possible during the day, using my body naked or not to turn him into jello (just like strippers do at strip clubs to get money from horny men) rub his dick through his jeans. Sometimes at night I would allow him to lick me to orgasm but rolled over when finished saying I was really tired. After 3 weeks of this I knew he started jerking off in the shower, but I also knew that would only satisfy him short term, and that this was about to change when I put the chastity on him. I watched porn with him, and even took him to strip clubs on occasion. My goal was to get him as horny as possible as much as possible, keep him on the egde as much as possible, and control his mind. You see they go hand in hand....You need to control his cock by taking away his ability to please himself (and trust me, all men do) and make it so that only you control his orgasms. But you also have to control his mind because that takes away any power he has, (resistance physically and mentally) and control his mind helps to control his cock.
After a month of no pussy, seducing him, and breaking him down mentally (as best as possible before the real training started) It really started to take its effect on him and he started becoming agitated so I finally told him how it was going to be. I spoke to him very firmly, in my serious and demanding voice, telling him I was going to be in control and he was going to obey, PERIOD! I got out the chastity I ordered for him and put it on. I told him pussy was now a privilege and he would get it when he earned it. Until then I would be using my new thick and long dildo I bought when I got his chastity. Over the next few weeks I was very forceful in what I wanted, giving him new rules to be followed and having him clean the entire house by his self, including laundry. I spent time getting him very horny, bringing him to the edge but not allowing him to cum. I did not care of his feelings in the matter, in fact it only turned me on more when he would beg me not to take pussy from him, or beg to just lick it. I wanted him at my feet, I wanted him cleaning my house, I wanted him begging to knell and serve me, if only to be allowed the privilege of licking my pussy. And I really wanted better sex with bigger, thicker cock. Of course at the start he would break rules, and not follow orders correctly, even disobeying me at times...That is until he started being punished severely every time that happened and then those times rarely happened. He would also beg most nights to be allowed pussy or to lick it, which I refused and eventually punished him for asking, stating it was not his place to ask for a reward, I would give it if he deserved it....which in all honesty no matter how much he served me, obeyed me, and did his chores I didn't want to fuck him, especially since I was having way better sex and orgasms with real cock. So I started once a month milking him into a bowl and then had him lick it up with threat of sever punishment if he didn't.
Moving on though, It was into the fourth month that I was really craving dick, the dildo just didn't do it for me at this point. It also didn't help that I really wanted to try the cuckolding side out as well. So I placed an add on Ashley M. and right off got guys interested in fucking. Most were not that attractive but a word of advice though, and something I leaned back in high school, its the average looking guys that have the biggest cocks. Once I picked out a few guys with nice cocks I set things up. I started training my little submissive to accept this, and played the first 3 or 4 times away from home. I didn't want to give my bitch to much to handle, or create jealousy and made sure when I returned he got a little reward by smelling my pussy (blindfolded) or allowed to lick my ass hole. It wasn't just that theses guys had bigger cocks and could fuck me better and give me far better orgasms than the bitch could, it was the excitement of meeting and fucking them. The humiliation of my bitch, and the power I felt as he eventually would beg me to get fucked by these much larger endowed men just so he could smell or taste my pussy even if it was on/from my finger or my dildo. Anything to be as close to it as he could. Everything together just made sex better for me, from the orgasms to teasing and humiliating my bitch. The more I would be strict and humiliating towards him, the more submissive he would be. Cleaning the house, begging to serve me, buying me gifts, and begging me to get fucked.
Eventually I wanted more, I wanted to push him to complete submissiveness. I wanted to make him my true sissy bitch never questioning me, what I do, where I go, or who I fuck. I'm also talking wearing panties and other girl clothing like pantyhose, garter belts and heels, calling him bitch or submissive names (even in public) at all times, showing his submissiveness in public (there are plenty of ways for that), and even getting fucked by my dildo and by another male/bi-male. I started out by allowing him the privilege of licking clean my dildo after I fucked myself (he was always blind folded). That lead to me making him suck it as he licked it, and that eventually led to me wearing a dildo and harness during every training session and forcing him to knell tied up with a mouth spreader in to force him to take a mouth fucking, and that led to him knelling and sucking it on command (especially before I fucked him with it). I didn't ever want it to go back to the plain married life, and I didn't ever want him to ask for pussy again. Instead ,I wanted him humiliated, submissive, begging to serve me, and begging me to fuck him in the ass. I even wanted him kneeling and serving another male and I didn't even want him seeing or touching my pussy, let alone ever fucking it again. All of this really turned me on, and excited me beyond words, and I made it happen....All of it! Today, I make him watch me get fucked (only sometimes) for humiliation, he also obeys and serves me and my boyfriend or bulls, he also gets fucked once or twice a month by me or my bull, and he sucks cock when ordered to. For the most part, he is the best behaved submissive I know, and its all because I made him this way. I took what I wanted from him, faded out what I didn't, and I turned him into my bitch, my true submissive sissy, cock sucking, ass fucking, BITCH. I didn't back down, take no for an answer, let anything get in my way, or let feelings or guilt stop me from getting what I wanted. I forced and punished him every time he needed it, and now I can reap the rewards of being in control. This is how it should be, I'm not only happier, the sex is amazing, last longer and is way exciting. He is happier, more loving, really appreciates his rewards when I allow it, and even feels like he really belongs at my feet serving me, and that's all that matters.
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