BDSM - the sadist within the femdom lifestyle part 2

                                           Female Sadist 

                                                               Part 2 

As a Dom, being a female Sadist is very important, it is your highest quality as a Dom, the internal compass that focuses your power and is the source of pleasure which drives you to be dominant, ruthless, and aggressive. It is also key to being a successful Dominatrix and maximizing his submission to the fullest you deserve, and you deserve to be served and obeyed!!! Because of this, it is extremely important that you let out that side of you and embrace it, be the woman you were meant to be, the women you need to be, his mistress. You will need to change your whole demeanor and attitude towards him, for it is your interactions with him that emphasizes your place and authority. It is the way you speak to him, and how you treat him that reinforces your power and authority over him. A strict, aggressive, and dominant Mistress will get much further with a submissive than an innocent, quiet speaking, and polite, wife will ever get and that is fact.  

A Mistress is not nice or polite to her bitch and she definitely is not reasonable, accepting, or respectful towards him. She is a strict, demanding, cruel and ruthless, bitch and she doesn't care about what he wants, what he likes, his thoughts or feelings on anything. Why should she, It will be her way always, she does not request, ask, or negotiate, she demands and commands, she gives orders and expects complete submission. I can not stress it enough, YOU are the only key to your success and to be successful you need to demand respect, obedience, and submission. NEVER accept back talk, unruly behavior, or disobedience, doing so reduces your control and gives him power. You must be dominant, cruel, and very strict, extremely hard core, as they say, so you don't look feeble and weak. Never give the impression he can control anything as there should be no question who the boss is and he should fear displeasing you. Your going to need to be aggressive, relentless, very cruel, and do things you may never thought you could.....Things he never thought you would or could do. Things that are very humiliating and emasculating to him, like licking clean all cum messes, peeing on his face (if you really want to show dominance, piss in his mouth, maybe even drink a little of it), spitting in his face, or better in his mouth (which is actually no different than kissing except you don't get any of his saliva), posting ads on bi-sexual and gay sites to have him used sexually (always chastity on), Make him knell in public, address you as mistress in public, admit that he obeys you in public, even make him stand in a corner at the mall, etc. Things that are cruel and degrading like keeping him in a dog cage and only allow him to eat from dog bowels on the floor, making him (actually forbid him the privilege of using the toilet), use the restroom in kitty litter box in his cage (even if he is allowed the privilege to be out of the cage he must go in and use the kitty litter box), make him worshiping your feet and ass hole with his tongue, make him wear a collar at all times possible and even walk him around on a leash. Forbid him from getting off his knees while in your presence. Clean the bathroom with a toothbrush, make him wear his sissy panties 24/7 or lingerie and fuck a dildo, then break out the camera and record it and  post it on a gay or bi website to have him used sexually. Use your mind and do every thing you can think of to humiliate, degrade, and emasculate him, no mater how bad or terrible you think it is, that is the point!!!!! 

You will need stop thinking like a wife and equal partner, let go of being a wife with a vanilla life and conventional marriage, this is not how you want it, not how its supposed to be, and its not your natural place. You cannot be his friend, or allow him to be your equal, make any decisions (and I do mean any at all) have an opinion, give input, or speak with out permission for that matter. You must realize his true purpose is to kneel at your feet, to to please you, make your life better, to serve and obey you, to simply be your bitch! You need to take your rightful and natural place, be the Dominant and strict authority, the Boss, the Mistress! You don't need a husband, and deep inside you don't want a husband, you will have something far more valuable, much better and more satisfying. A submissive sissy bitch that will worship the ground you walk on, give you all the securities of a husband (with out all the bullshit that comes with it), hand over his pay, do all the chores, run errands, clean up after you, serve and obey you. Plus as I said, you get none of the negative issues of having a husband, like him questioning you, bitching at you, having to answer to him, cleaning up after him, chores, made to have unsatisfying sex, and do things he wants. Instead you will come and go as you please, do as you want with no questions, no compromising, spoil yourself, and best of all have the best sex of your life while you date and fuck whom ever you want when you want.

A Dominatrix is an intelligent woman and she knows very well how to get what she wants. Her mind is her strongest tool, it is built to control, to rule over her bitch, and it is the strength to keeping control. Her body is her weapon, she will use her body and her hormones (copulins) to seduce and hypnotize her bitch and keep him happily in his place. A Dominatrix is proud of what she is, and takes pride in her position, she is the superior sex. She is exalted, she is privileged, she is female and she will be served, obeyed, and worshiped as a mistress. She should never be shy, timid or embarrassed, about her position and authority. She will flaunt her power and position over him, she will demand complete submission and respect. She should be extremely pissed off for (the three D's) disobedience, disrespect, and dissatisfaction. A sexy dominant and sadistic women could have anything she wants, she could even rule the world or at least rule the most powerful men in the world and many women do. A sadistic Dom is especially important with the more extreme sides of femdom like cuckolding and sissifying. I'll explain; When cuckolding you don't want sex with your bitch, you probably don't even want to touch his clitty and you really don't care that he will never feel the pleasure of pussy or have an orgasm again. that is part of your sadistic side,  and that side will also want to humiliate him about those facts and how his little clitty is pathetic.  You are sadistic and think its funny that *****  will also humiliate him by telling your girlfriends and boyfriends )ones that know of your lifestyle) As a sadistic Dom, you also don't care about his feelings on anything or how often, when and where you have sex with other men or your BF, its truly is none of his business. Why should it be, its your pussy, your sex, your pleasure and that is exactly how its supposed to be. Your the Dom and he's the bitch, the only thing he should be focused on is serving and obeying you, right? Absolutely! That is also your sadistic side enjoying your power and freedom, and loving his obedience and humiliation of being cuckolded. However the real sadist fun starts when you date a boyfriend full time, and your bitch truly becomes a cuckold. That's when you really get pleasure and the extreme humiliation starts. This is the time the extreme sadist needs to come out, extreme humiliation needs an extreme sadistic Dom. Your going to train for and permanently lock away his clitty, you will also take pussy completely away from him as it now rightfully belongs to your BF. Of course your going to verbally humiliate him from the start but that's not good enough for a sadistic Dom. Your going to rub his fucking face in your much better sex life. not only will you tell him all about how much better the sex is, positions, how many orgasms, how you love his much bigger cock and how he reaches places the bitch never could. But you will also force him to aid in your and your BF's pleasure. You might hive him worship your feet or ass while your getting fucked (accommodating positions to make that possible) or maybe you want to put him beneath you so he can see up front and personal as that big cock spreads you wide open, only to have him clean the mess as your BF's cum drips from your freshly fucked pussy directly into his mouth. While the both of you humiliate him and you finger feed the rest to him (warning this will need training and a mouth spreader the first 2 or 3 times) If at all possible you might make him watch and serve your BF as well, sucking that big cock hard for you or having your BF cum directly into his mouth as you bitch is locked kneeling (also requires training and a mouth spreader the first 2 or 3 times). Regardless to rather this is a show and tell BF or not, you will make him smell your sex through your used panties or directly when you make him do clean up duty and then humiliate him about how pathetic he is and how he could never make you cum and will never feel pussy again. The humiliation can never be extreme enough...

But you want more, you want to satisfy that deep desire with in you...His penetration! His sissification! You want to feminize him and make him your cock loving sissy bitch. You love the power you feel when you fuck him with that big strap-on cock making him moan and scream turning him into a sissy. You love making him suck your dildo's and beg for your big cock, but the sadist inside you say's that's not good enough, your deep desire is the power to transform him into a real cock slut. You want him craving and begging to be fucked, but you want it done by real cock! You want to watch him kneel and suck a real mans cock, then get fucked by it while you masturbate, maybe even joining in the fun with your strap-on. You probably even want him submitting to a real man, any man for that matter, any man that will use him good, especially men that loves it or knows how to make him submit. You not alone, sissy training is the most popular among Femdom women, and they use it to make their bitches completely submissive so they never disobey or interfere with their ability to date real men.

You don't ever want to stop fucking your boyfriend or go back to a vanilla life, and you really don't want to fuck that little clit of his. So your going to do what ever it takes to keep him submissive and humiliated, your going to make sure he knows his place. Your future and success greatly depends on your ability to take your place to its fullest, because eventually he will rebel to some degree or another. The chastity, lack of sex, and you enjoying all the great sex you want, will get the best of him, it will cause him to question you, to argue, to fight, in order to destroy his place or your power over him. You will not let that happen, you will be the Mistress he needs you to be in order to accept his place, you will be the sadistic Dom.

You want to extremely humiliate him, make him weak and submissive, the kind of submission that only comes from you fucking other men on a regular basis. Your going to go out and meet guys, and get all the cock you want. Your going to humiliate him about it while you make him lick clean the mess and your going to love how submissive it makes him. Eventually you will find a hot guy that really turns you on, one with a big cock that you love to fuck, a lot. You will want to take your pussy completely away from the bitch as you make a more serious relationship with the new BF. So your going to need your sadistic bitch to ensure you get what you want. After about 2 weeks of dating your new BF, your going to whip your bitch into a cuckolding submission of your new BF, your going to make sure he knows he has no choice or input of you dating. Again your going to love how submissive he becomes because of it. Your going to welt up and bruise his ass while you make him beg you to get fucked. As you whip his ass red and swollen, your going to tell him that your going to start dating full time, that your new boyfriend owns your pussy. You will continue to whip as you tell him its none of his fucking business who you fuck or how often your BF gets pussy, that he is never permitted to ask questions. You will make him acknowledge this and then tell him he is never to ask what time you will be home, or expect anything when you do get home. you will reinforce that he is to never touch your phone. You will whip him for at least 30 minutes, making sure that he is begging and pleading for mercy and drive it into his head that he has no say so and that his only place is serving and obeying.

Now your sadist side is shining but the fun has just begun, the first time you make him clean up the mess (you will always make him clean up the mess), tie him down, positioned and ready to be whipped, then use your fingers to scoop out the cum or empty the condom into a dog dish or a small plate and place it in front of him. As he is looking at it, tell him about the sex, how many times he made you cum, how he fucked you long and hard, how much you enjoyed his bigger cock. Tell him to smell it as you put the fingers you used to scoop out the cum in front of his nose, then tell him to smell the cum in the dog dish as you force his nose into it! Tell him he is going to lick it up, but not until he begs you to do it. This is the fun part, he is really humiliated thinking about having to lick it clean especially from a dog bowl and not from your pussy. He won't beg to do it, at least not yet but that will change shortly. Now your going to start whipping his ass with out a break and tell him you will stop when he begs you to lick it up. When he does, your not going to allow him to lick it until you whip his ass good and welt it up, you see the key is, you want him truly begging and pleading to lick it up. During which time you going to tell him you will stop whipping him when you feel he truly wants to lick the cum up to please you, when he has sincerely begged you good enough and when you allow him that PRIVILAGE he had better lick it up like he loves it, like his ass depends on it or you will whip him even longer. Once you have whipped him good enough and he is really begging to lick it up (remember he must be saying, "Mistress may I please have the privilege of cleaning up the mess!!") then you will command him to lick it and be aggressive saying "lick every fucking drop you pathetic bitch and thank me for that privilege (make sure he thanks you that way). As he is licking it up hit his ass a few times and say, "that's a good bitch, lick it all up, soon you'll be getting it straight from the cock!" Now, the next time he will be eager to clean up the mess but if not to your pleasure then repeat this. He will eventually find pleasure in pleasing you this way, but as I said you may need to whip him a second or third time if he is not doing it eagerly enough for you or if you just love the excitement (he should be licking it like a runny ice creme cone getting every last drop). From there you will do your regular training but remember after you return from fucking not to remove his chastity, he is only allowed his pussy play (fucking him), and remember to be cruel and very dominant.

During your entire relationship with your BF, you need to make it extremely humiliating for him, you need to constantly tell him how much you enjoy the cock, how the BF gets it often, and how he will never feel pussy again or cum through his clitty. It is important to keep your bitch in the mix, tell him all the details of how many times he made you cum, how he took a 20 minute break and fucked you again, how he woke you up in the middle of the night and fucked you, how you gave him a BJ in the morning, or how he fucked you in the break room at work or you left work early to meet him for sex, those are the things that will really humiliate him. Your also going to need to come up with ways to humiliate him physically like forcing him to suck on the used condom (if you fuck at your house). Eventually you will want stop using condoms and then you'll have to blind fold him and drip it into his mouth finger feeding it to him. Allow him to smell the sex first to really build his arousal and your pheromones (copulins). You will have to let out your sadistic side, see him as a bitch, and force him to do sissy things like sucking other cock, fucked by other men, find a Master or Bull for him to serve and service on a regular basis (possibly when you stay the night or weekend at the BF house). Keep this in mind though, when it first starts off its going to be new for him, humiliation that also turns him on is a very powerful submission tool. It will be exciting and arousing, forcing him deeper into submission than ever before. BUT as weeks turn into months and he is denied sex, orgasm, and all access to pussy while you flaunt your sex, fucking this much larger cock on a regular basis, the cuckolding angst may get the best of him. Excitement may turn into jealousy, and the humiliation that also turns him on will be more humiliation than a turn on. Not of the BF, but because he is getting pussy (if your doing it right, very often), and your bitch is not getting anything. Obviously being a true sadistic Dom, you don't give a fuck how humiliating it is, what he wants or how he feels about it, and you shouldn't, your going to keep fucking your BF and your going to do what ever it takes to keep it that way! He will never have anything to do with pussy, his dicklet will not get touched and you have no sympathy for him, even if he cries about it. He is your bitch, that's his purpose to you and what you want him to be, in fact, its turning you on more now that he realizes he can do nothing about it, that he must submit and his place is serving you from now on, especially since he is at his most submissive state and very eager to obey you because of it! However, he may start to rebel...While you should do things to keep it exciting for him as much as possible like pegging him every 3 or 4 times you get fucked, letting him hear on the phone, watch (close up) if that's possible or even included in to enhance your sexual pleasure, used sexually by other men to change up the humiliation, or what ever works. However, sooner or later there is a chance he will become very unruly, induce fighting, cause an argument, or any other excuse to end his submission or or worse simply not want to do it anymore.

First off, if your being the proper strict and aggressive Dom, utilizing your sadistic side with discipline and punishments from the start, then the temper tantrum (or any temper tantrum for that matter) will be Far, FAR less likely to happen and a lot easier to deal with if it did!!!! You need to always handle the outburst or fit correctly (meaning don't fall for it and maintain your control). A smart Dom knows she has the power, thus she doesn't need to yell or scream at him causing the fight or argument to spin out of control. A smart Dom doesn't fight or argue, she knows fighting is bad and makes her look weak, that ANGER is the enemy and the only chemical release that will kill his submission. Its all about how you handle the situation and bring your bitch under control, try to punish him immediately for it if possible, if not then punish him for it later. Be calm but speak in a firm voice saying, "shut your fucking mouth now and get in your place!" snap your finger and point to the floor in front of you. If he tries to speak again, immediately  repeat the step, If he doesn't listen and continues then say "we will talk about it after you take your fucking place" Note* 90% of all arguments, fights, or outburst happen when he is standing or sitting and rarely if he is in his place, thus the reason he needs to be in his place as much as possible when he is not serving or doing chores.* If he is still trying to speak or is not in his place say, "you already have a sever punishment, do you want to make it worse?" As I said if you have been doing your job from the start, he will fear those words and get in his place, if not then you have not been doing your job and you will have to calmly work through the outburst but try to get him back into his roll and on his knees as soon as possible.

Again if you would have been the proper Dom and using your sadist side during training and punishments the temper tantrum probably wouldn't happen in the first place as he would fear the severe punishment from it. No its not the same and would have no effect if you suddenly decide to punish him correctly after he wants to stop the lifestyle or you to stop having sex with other men or your boyfriend, or what ever the reason. Because at that point the angst or anger has already built out of control and you won't even get him into the dungeon let alone the position to be tied down to take his punishment. It is the discipline you follow, the type of control you yield, the fear he has, and the severe punishments he endures through out training and 24/7 that will keep him in check, keep him from having a temper tantrum, and returning to the bench for his punishment when he does get mouthy or rebels. Trust me nothing is worse in femdom then having to stop fucking a hot guy that you really like, with an awesome cock, that fucks you really good because you didn't do what you were suppose to this whole time. Because you were lazy, not dominant, and aggressive enough, and did not punish every time he disobeyed or broke a rule. Ask yourself, what do you really want, picture it in your mind, and then do everything you need to make it happen.

As a Dom you you want to be successful, you need to embrace your sadist side, you need to let it out and let it consume you. Feel its power, enjoy it, feed off it and let it give you pleasure as you use it to break him and force him to be the perfect submissive bitch. Let it guide and evolve you into the  powerful women you are meant to be. Use it to make him fear you, use it to give him extreme humiliation, use it to force his submission. Enjoy his torment, and make him suffer for you, break his will and force him to do things for your pleasure and laugh at him because of it. Use it to emasculate him, to feminize him, to make him feel weak and submissive. Feel the rush of power, excitement, and ecstasy as you whip his ass bright red, extremely welted, that last for days. Listen to him scream out, pleading for you to stop, telling you he will be a good little bitch and beg to serve you...You get wet from hearing how submissive he is, you want more, you want to see him crying like a big sissy baby, you want him to suffer and know you have the power and he will never disobey you again. Take it slow and make it lengthy as you want this to be remembered, you don't care of the pain he endures, his screams or begs you to stop. No, on the contrary you love it, it so turns you on, gets you wet, and has you thinking about sex with your boyfriend because you know you will have his cock as long and often as you want because you are letting out your sadistic side. Because you have whipped him and humiliated him into submission. You love that you hold the power to stop when you see fit and it makes you even wetter to hear him scream begging you to stop, knowing he will be your bitch for it, that he will be completely submissive and do what ever you say when you finally stop. That he'll suck that cock when you command or drop to his knees in public...You will break him and create a submissive bitch forever serving and obey you. 

Being sadistic is not only about making him suffer pain and punishments, its also about his humiliation. In fact 90 % of being a sadist is about how you humiliate him and make him suffer through out the day and nights when he isn't being punished or tortured for you amusement. This is through the use of your voice by humiliating him, and the use of physical acts by forcing him to do things that humiliate him. This can be anything from having him knell in a corner sucking a dildo, having him do clean up duty every time you fuck, to making him serve another person or pleasure another male. You should make him eat and drink from a dog dish, ask permission to do anything, spit in his face and mouth (spit is the same thing as french kissing so its the act that is humiliating) cage him at your desecration, stand him in the corner at the mall while you shop, walk him around your house on a leash, don't allow him to speak in public (you will order his food). Remember, he is your bitch, you should not care of his thoughts, feelings, or desires as he is there to serve you, to obey you, and suffer for you. It is your way always, you are the female, his dominatrix, the only authority and he has no say so, at all!  No real Dom would ever put up with with attitude, backtalk, disobedience, demands, lectures, interrogations or questions. Let your sadist side show him you will not put up with it, make him regret is unruliness and make sure he is less likely repeat it. Make him suffer extreme humiliation, turn him sissy, have him used, suck cock, shave hair off his body, wear panties bra's, stockings, wigs, heels, service other men while your out, swallow cum, serve in public, serve in front of your select friends, what ever humiliates him do it, break him and put him in his place. What ever turns you on, what ever excites you, for him to be what you want him to be and how you want him to behave, always push him deeper and think of new ways to humiliate him.

Some questions and remarks I get all the time from women; Is there a limit to how you treat you sub, if there is anything to humiliating, or out of reason for punishments? or How hard is to hard for whipping, are the whippings online real? My husband is to manly, there is no way he will submit to me! My man would never admit he was wrong let alone submit to a beating for it! My husband would leave me if I tried to fuck another man! Let me start with the easy one, Yes I assure you those are real beatings by real Doms, on their subs. Every thing you see on websites, porn hub or where ever is real, you can't fake that type of stuff and trust me I've been involved with some of it, selling vid's for cash. Some are women who are punishing their domestic sub (husband) and some are women punishing owned subs. Owned subs are men that the Dom has no prior relationship ties with, and used for his services or they can be men (usually single men) who pay or support Doms to be used and owned. Most of these video's show women releasing their sadistic side and punishing for what ever the reason or just for fun. It is the norm and reality of punishments for subs who disobey or have a mistress fond of breaking her male slave down to nothing but serving. These are very common, even the extreme ones. I personally use crops, canes, and whips/leather straps for punishments. I use a slapper crop, a flat end crop, a 3/8 cane, a 1/4 cane, a cat of nine leather tails, leather strap, and a leather whip. I use firm strokes that are fairly hard, but not to hard (I judge by his yelps) so that I can whip for long periods of time with out major skin damage as I want his punishment to be long and remembered. The marks and damage will come in time and will hurt longer the more time you spend whipping. I spend at least 20 to 40 minutes of time whipping him (depending on his punishments). I start out with 100 to 150 hits before I give the actual punishment whippings and I whip him in a series of 10-20 consecutive strokes, take a few seconds break and repeat, after a few series of whippings I hit one at a time for 10 or 20 strikes (harder than normal to really bring out the stinging pain), then I go right back to my series of 11-20 strokes, mixing it up during the entire punishment. During this time I scold him, humiliate him, spit in his face, crop hit his balls, slap his balls, squeeze his balls, pull his hair. When I'm done I leave him there for a few minutes before release, then command him to knell in the corner to reflect his punishment, then I make him thank me for it. Punishments can also be acts, positions (such as put into the corner) extra chores, loss of free time, lost of allowance/money, loss of pleasure, what ever you want especially if it is humiliating. You may also do with whipping him, before or after whipping him, use CBT, bondage, candle wax, electric tens unit, toppings (icy hot) or roots in the anus like ginger or radish. The only limit is nothing that involves minors, family, or friends (unless they are lifestyle friends)

Now, Is there anything to humiliating or out of reason, NO, unless against the rule above. Many women use sissy training, to turn him into a sissy and that is one of the most humiliating types of subs. Its so humiliating because it involves transforming your male into a sissy, he is not a man or a girl but a male that has been feminized and trained to serve both. This is humiliation on two fronts as ONE, it is extremely humiliating to serve and obey a man, pleasing real cock by sucking or being fucked, (Bull, boyfriend, a gay or bi-male). TWO its also very humiliating to serve and obey another female, as she now has knowledge that the sub is a sissy bitch, has a little clitty, wears a chastity, is completely denied sex and takes cock and cock whipped....Not to mention if she humiliates him because of it or he is used to enhance their sex via licking ass, sucking on toes, tits or what ever. I use mostly gay or Bi-men as they really get into using him for their pleasure. Note* the first few times should be with your bitch tied down with necessary toys to carry out the scene) your imagination is your only limitation. I've seen women who are very talented and imaginative to humiliate their subs, some using tattoo's or branding, chemical castration, feminizing with forced cross dressing, forced transvestite (extreme sissy) public humiliation, being receiver of gay male orgy/train, and just about every use of submission you can think of.

Is there a limit to how you treat your sub, NO, what you do to him and how you want him to behave is up to you and only limited by your imagination, amount of training, and your ability to commit and make it happen. If it excites you or turns you on then go for it as long as it doesn't break the above rule. I'll tell you about mine; My slave is always to kneel in his place when he comes home and await orders (unless done via text) he must always kneel at my feet when he approaches, and must always ask for permission to speak. He must ask for permission to do anything, including the bathroom. I treat him 100% as a sissy bitch, he must wear panties 24-7-365 (I have removed all but 5 of his undies for just in case moments). He must shave his ass, his balls, his pussy and clit area every other day. When we eat, I eat first, then he is allowed to eat on the floor from the dog bowl, and drink from a dog bowl. if we go out to eat, I order for him he is not permitted to speak or look at te server. Again I eat and then box his up to return home and put into the dog bowl. He must shave and shower every day and scrub his chastity (he wears the chastity 24-7-365 only removed for extra cleaning) At night he is to sleep on the floor with a small blanket and a pillow (unless being punished) He must always address me as mistress or "M" around other people. He is given chores to do every day, when I go out I lock him in a dog cage, when I have males or my BF over he is also locked in the dog cage (the dog cage is in basement) he is allowed to hear me fuck most times (unless being punished) and the cage is brought up to the spare BR at those times. He is given a bowl of water and a container to urinate in, until his release (if it is an emergency he may break the plastic dish to get the key to release himself with a sever punishment on that chance) He must open all doors and slide my seat if possible.

The point is to embrace your sadist side, to train him how you want him trained, and to enjoy the pleasures of having sexual freedom and a bitch to serve!

BDSM - The sadist within the femdom lifestyle part 1

                              FEMDOM SADIST 

                                                                    Part 1

BDSM stands for; Bondage - Discipline - Sadist - Masochist. In the female domination lifestyle (Femdom for short) BDSM is an aspect of the lifestyle, just as cuckolding, sissification, and various other fetishes are. MAKE NO MISTAKE, this is a 24/7 lifestyle and the natural way of order.  

Bondage is not just about physically tying him down or binding him in certain positions or places. It is also a metaphor that means much more as it represents the entirety of Femdom as a whole, and a lifestyle. Bondage is a display and use of your power, it is forcing him to kneel and obey, to follow rules, orders, and a routine of service and chores. It is a belief that you are the superior sex and should always be in control, the authority, the Mistress. Its your power-his weakness, your authority-his submission, your freedom-his servitude. You controlling his actions, his body and even his mind. Bondage is forcing him and changing him to become what you want, training his body and mind to submit and obey with out question, thoughts, or balk talk. It is you replacing his wants, needs and sexual desires to yours, making him know and believe his place is serving and obeying you, the Mistress. Bondage is physical restraint and more importantly strict mental control......Breaking his will, emasculating him, feminizing him, making him weak and forcing him to submit, to serve and obey. But it is also about your pleasure, your desires, your sexual freedom, doing what you want, whenever you want. It is taking your place as his mistress and forcing him into his, using your power over him and creating the type of submissive you desire and deserve! 

Discipline is not the same as punishments although the two go hand in hand. Discipline is a strict act or practice of training your male to follow a routine of service, to submit and obey, to follow rules and orders, using severe punishments to correct and deter disobedience. Discipline is breaking him down, emasculating him, feminizing him, forcing him into his natural place and bringing out his submission and desire to serve you. It requires you doing your part, being strict, aggressive, controlling, cruel, dominant and doing whatever it takes to get the submission you want and deserve. You must be serious, and extremely committed, put in the time and effort to get what you truly want and deserve. Discipline has no morals, no discrepancy, no bottom line, no point to far, and is unyielding to extract the perfect submissive....You simply do what you must in order to achieve a perfectly trained sissy bitch servant. Discipline and the use of punishments have no mercy, no sympathy, no regret and should always be aggressive, relentless, ruthless, humiliating, and demanding. Discipline with punishments is to be feared, to be dominant, to be sexy, to be idolized, and to be worshiped as a Mistress and superior. It is using control, humiliation and severe punishments with a forceful aggressive like demeanor and attitude to achieve the desired submission.    

Sadist is a female who gets sexual pleasure or excitement from the humiliation, pain, and punishments of her male submissive. She loves the power, the control, and servitude of her male while she has the freedom to have sex with whoever she wants and do as she pleases. She loves to use humiliation to deepen his submission and control him. She enjoys teasing him with her sexuality, her body, her voice, while denying him any access to her body, especially pussy, and sexual relief. She loves to destroy his masculinity, forcing him to surrender and accept his submissive place....Bowing his head in humiliation because of it, as he begs to serve her. More so, it pleases her to inflict pain to force his submission and obedience to her. She loves to flaunt her sexual freedom and affairs in his face, humiliating him about his inadequate size, performance, and how pathetic he is. She gets excited and even wet when she hears him screaming and begging her to stop as she inflicts pain from punishments, especially after his ass is severely welted, marked up, and bruised, insuring he won't soon forget he is there to serve and obey.  She loves to hear the begging turn into screaming out, crying, and pleading for her to stop, because she knows this is true power and he will be extremely submissive because of it. She loves seeing him on his knees, obeying her and it greatly excites her to turn him into a sissy cock loving slut and hear him moan from her cock, submitting to it, craving it, transforming him into a cock whipped bitch. She loves and enjoys the power and control over her submissive with no regard or care of his thoughts, feelings, wants or needs. He is not her equal, he is not a man, he is her sissy bitch who's only purpose is to pay for pussy and serve and obey. He is not her mate, or husband, he is simply there to serve, to obey, and to worship her as his superior, his Mistress.

Masochist is a male who has been broken or near broken and emasculated, disciplined and converted to derive pleasure and even sexual gratification from his submission to his Mistress. You forcing his loss of masculinity, freedom, pleasure, sex, orgasms, and sexual enslavement has changed how he achieves pleasure. He has lost all normal means of pleasure, been placed in chastity, dominated, controlled and exposed to heavy humiliation through cuckolding, pegging and/or sissified. Usually he is cuckolded because of his small penis size and poor sexual performance, which ironically leads most Mistresses into the lifestyle. The cuckolding inflects extreme humiliation, especially when done properly, which furthers and deepens his submission, a cycle that creates mental enslavement and forced submission.  As a cuckold, he has complete loss of orgasms, is permanently denied sex, and usually denied anything at all to do with or associated with pussy. This means he is denied any real physical pleasure that would grant him a penis orgasm, thus keeping him dependent on her sexual affairs/cuckolding, pegging, and cruel acts for pleasure. He cannot resist being turned on by a cruel dominant, aggressive female, in fact he is naturally submissive to this demeanor. Some of her strongest power and control over him is being cruel, humiliating and degrading him and treating him like a bitch, forcing him to be just that. To show she does not care about what's done to get his submission, or the extremes she does to keep him submissive. He is now simply "a sissy bitch", whose only purpose to to pay her bills, serve and obey!   

       🅰️mistress truly believes that she is the authority, and was meant to rule over her bitch and control everything. She knows his natural place is kneeling at her feet with the sole purpose to hand over his paycheck, serve and obey her. He is owned and her property, existing only to amuse and please her. She will do anything and everything in her power to make that happen, there is no other way of life, and nothing more important than keeping her sissy bitch in his place. She will never let anything get in the way of her belief, her desires, and the femdom lifestyle. She will never return to the social norm of mutual respect, and equality of conventional marriage. This is not the natural way, it is an illusion conspired by small dick men trying to control sex with women and keep them powerless. She will never go back to the short, dull, chore of unsatisfying sex, as she knows SEX is for women's pleasure, given only to endowed males, worthy of her pleasure. Her sissy bitch is not meant for sex, he doesn't even deserve sexual pleasure of any kind, in fact he wasn't meant to have anything to do with her pussy, and deserves to be locked in chastity permanently. Her marriage is that of a Mistress/Dominatrix and a submissive sissy bitch, a marriage of female dominance and superiority, and her devoted obedient sissy bitch. She desires and wants nothing more than a real man to fulfill her sexually and a sexless submissive sissy bitch to serve and obey her. 

She wants a marriage that better suits her, one of her making, her choices, and her decisions. One that sets the natural order of the domesticated male and superior female, that has no concern for his feelings, thoughts, wants, or needs. She makes the rules and enforces them with strict discipline and harsh punishments. She must be dominant, aggressive, sadistic, cruel, and ruthless, she must be feared! She will not be questioned or disrespected and she will not allow disobedience. She will not accept anything less than complete submission. She has had a taste of  power, how life is meant to be, with the natural placement of Female dominance and authority, and a sissy bitch on his knees worshiping her, cleaning up after her, serving and obeying her. She has experienced excitement, passion, with the thrill of unbelievable sex, and powerful orgasms from real men with the servitude and obedience of her devoted submissive sissy bitch. She indulges the freedom to go and do as she pleases with no questioning or explaining. She is the Dominatrix, a woman that loves the power, embraces it, and uses it to make her life better. She is not shy, timid, or embarrassed about who she is, what she wants, or what she does to achieve it. She is proud to be a Dominatrix, a women of dominance and power, a mistress ! She has all the power as she is the essence of sex and pleasure and knows sex was meant for her pleasure. She has the power of her mind and body to control and command her sissy bitch. She will be relentless, take complete control over her submissive, his body but especially his mind. She wants him to know he is powerless to resist, that he was meant to serve and obey her. He has no choice as this is his natural place, this is a gift from her, a privilege to be on his knees serving and obeying his mistress. She is divine, erotic, captivating, sexy and the beauty that is female, his Mistress.  

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                                                                                                                     -Mistress Annabelle-
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 As a Mistress, you must fully live the femdom lifestyle IT CAN NOT BE PART TIME. It has to be second nature to you, constantly think about it and always in the back of your mind with every decision made to reflect it. You have to think and act like a mistress, it is the way you carry yourself that shows your power, this includes your attitude, dress, actions, and especially how you speak to your bitch. A mistress demands, she speaks with authority in a firm voice. She dresses sexy at all times and most of the time she wears a DOMINATRIX outfit when training. You must embrace your power and It must be lived 24/7/365, this is not a suggestion, it is vital, a must and the only way to succeed, anything less and it will fail. As a Mistress you are no longer a wife and equal partner, you must be the the Mistress at all times, there will be no question or doubt that you rule, no confusion that you are the authority and in complete control. You don't have a husband, you have a submissive sissy bitch, so start treating him the way you should be. You must be very strict and aggressively dominant to rule and force his respect and obedience of your authority. You must be sadistic, mean, and cruel to force his submission. You must emasculate, degrade, and humiliate him constantly and punish severely for his disobedience. He must  respect you as his mistress and fear you, he must fear repercussions of disobedience. 

As a Mistress, it is your rightful place and your responsibility to do what you want, to spoil yourself, to date and fuck whomever, and to be worshiped as a Mistress by your sissy bitch. If you are not doing all of these things, then you are not doing what you need to do, and you are not indulging in the euphoric and blissful life of a dominatrix. You are not being the Dominant that you must be in order to succeed. It is also your responsibility to be very aggressive, ruthless, and humiliating as well as make the rules, and enforce them with severe punishments. It's your responsibility to keep your sissy bitch in the correct atmosphere, to always treat him as a sissy bitch and keep him in his place no matter whos around. You deserve to have the hottest, erotic sex and mind blowing pleasure and orgasms, plus have a devoted, obedient sissy bitch to serve and obey you, to clean up after you, do the chores of the house, and to hand over his pay for the privilege of serving you his mistress. This is how it should be, how its meant to be, and how you want it. You will teach him this, and teach him it is a privilege to serve and obey you, that his true and proper place is serving, obeying and worshiping you always. You must do what ever it takes to make it happen, I mean anything! Be the Mistress you should be, use the power and let out the cruel, sadistic, Dominatrix inside you out! 

A Mistress will not accept anything less than complete submission and obedience. However its not just going to happen because you put on a leather Dominatrix outfit and shout orders. This type of commitment takes a very strict Dominatrix, strict training, extreme humiliation, strict discipline and severe punishments on your part. PLEASE read that again, and again if you need to because if you believe nothing else,believe that!!!! You are training your pussy whipped male to be your bitch, but not just any bitch, your perfect sissy bitch, to serve and obey you properly and follow your rules, beg to be on his knees and worship you properly. You must understand that he has been biologically and socially programmed to want, need, and get pussy. You probably even gave it up anytime he demanded it, you gave him pleasure he did not earn and definitely didn't deserve, and got nothing or very little pleasure out of it. Not to mention everything else that is the flawed married male, like laziness, selfish, thinks he is king of the castle and makes the rules, or that he wasn't meant to do house work. Meaning you have been married for however many years prior to taking control? This is all wrong and bad mental conditioning, so you must correct his thinking of the male monch bullshit that he gets pussy anytime he needs it, or that he even deserves pussy at all. As well as his thinking that he's the boss and doesn't have to do house work. It's already deeply rooted in his simple mind that he owns your pussy and it's his right to have it when he wants it, rather your pleased sexually or not. So it's not as simple as denying him pussy, getting him horny, saying a few humiliating comments, and fucking his asshole then calling it a day. It requires you to take total and full control and not just during training, it must be 100 percent of the time, even in public and you will reprogram his mind to the proper way of thinking. As i've said, this requires you to be very strict, aggressive, cruel and dominant at all times, again not just in the bedroom!!!! You will have to be sadistic and very cruel and do things that you never thought you could do or probably never even thought about doing. You absolutely must treat him as a sissy bitch full time, and again, not just when you have the time, or it suits you, ALWAYS 24/7.  You will need to put in the time to train him the correct way to extract the sissy bitch you want him to be and that you deserve. Think about that for a minute, what is it that you really want, what do you really desire? Don't you think you deserve to be pampered and obeyed, worshiped as his mistress, and paid for that privilege including the most erotic pleasurable sex you've ever had???  You should not just know that you truly deserve a submissive sissy bitch to obey you, you should believe it and make it happen. It is your right and your natural place to rule over your sissy bitch and be as mean and cruel to him as you can be. He will not only love you for it, he will be happier than he ever knew he could be, all you have to do is train him and re-programme him to the way you want him to be. You are female, superior in every way, you deserve a sissy bitch to cater to you, to clean up after you, to pay your bills, to serve and obey you without hesitation or back talk and he should beg for the privilege to do so. He should get nothing and never expect anything for the privilege of taking his rightful place kneeling at your feet. The amount of time you put in depends on how hard you train, how strict and cruel you are, how much you humiliate, and how well you discipline and punish. Obviously, the more strict and harder you are on him as described through out this post, the faster the training time (2-3 months). Think about what you want, what you deserve, how bad you want it, then make it happen with no excuses, because it really is as easy as being a cruel sadistic and dominant bitch 24/7, training him to be a sissy bitch, and giving sever punishments for disobedience. His natural place is serving and obeying you, but you have to make him realize this and bring it out of him. You need to train him, YOU WILL NEED TO FORCE him into his place and this will require you to do mean and cruel things, as i've said thing you never thought you could do, didn't think about doing or maybe even embarrassed to do them. Trust me, you could never be to strict, to controlling, and especially never to sadistic, do whatever it takes to break him and train him to get what you want. You must use your mind and your body to control him. You must be cunning, ruthless, sadistic and very cruel....Experiment, try new things, and definitely try everything at least twice to put him in his place, especially if it turns you on. AGAIN being a successful Dom requires you to be sadistic, ruthless and extremely cruel, and you must punish severely and mercilessly. You must drastically humiliate him... break his will.... crush his ego... destroy his manhood... emasculate and feminize him to strip him of his masculinity. He is your sissy bitch with a fucking puny pathetic clitty and his only purpose for you is to hand over his pay, (pay for pussy and the privilege of serving) serve and obey you, PERIOD!!!! He is there for your pleasure, and your amusement, so use him to relieve stress and anger (humiliate, beat and torture him) it really does work. You must put him in his place physically and mentally, take away all his free time and privileges, strip him of everything, even what it is to be a man, and replace all these with chores, service, routines, commands and all that it is to be your submissive sissy bitch. Transform him into the perfect sissy bitch you deserve and want serving you.

You are in a Femdom relationship as mistress, and like any relationship, the success of it depends on the commitment to it and how you live it. You must be dominant AT ALL TIMES!! You can not skip on training (its a must, at least once day for at least 1 hour is acceptable), you can not be lazy or make excuses for you not doing and living as it should be. You can't lax on rules, chores, submissive positions, and you cannot threaten punishment and not follow through, it makes you look weak. You must punish severely for every rule breaking, back talking or disobedience. He needs discipline, punishments, strict domination and submissive reinforcement, he needs to fear you, see and feel your power and for you to take it very serious. Because things done to him through training like humiliation, edging, taking away his ability to masturbate via chastity, denying him pussy and orgasms, will cause chemical changes in his brain. This is natural and necessary to bring out his true submission and chemically change his thinking process to what you want. This is very powerful to him as he is unable to control it or do anything about it, he is essentially powerless, making him feel weak and submissive as the chemicals build. This is because nature has programmed him to need to ejaculate into pussy, and to need release. After a certain point of being locked in chastity without sex or an orgasm, and his hormones are building up, he will not be able to deal with it, he will eventually become mouthy, disobedient, and rebel against you. He will try everything and anything to get pussy or at least an orgasm, including fighting, crying, or down right refusing to be your bitch (DO NOT GIVE IN, DO NOT GIVE HIM EITHER!!). This will happen UNLESS you are the strict, dominant, cruel, and sadistic bitch you need to be, with extreme humiliation and severe punishments from the start. He needs forced submission, strict training, strict discipline, and extreme unyielding punishments. I promise he will rebel at some point, he will try anything to get pussy or release if you are not the strict Mistress you need to be. It must be on your mind constantly, you must live the lifestyle, be the dominatrix, become it 24/7/365! 

So let's recap, you must become Mistress and sissy bitch from here out. This means you are not a couple anymore, not husband and wife, not friends and especially not equals. You have your place as his mistress and he has his as your sissy bitch servant. The love and commitment will always be there, but it will be there as its supposed to be, as Mistress and sissy bitch and it does not affect what you want, what you deserve, or your belief that you should rule and control him. It does not affect how things are meant to be and It will not affect your training of him, your punishments, or the way you live. You will not live as a couple, act as a couple, or talk and function as a couple, this is beneath you. Every thought you have, every action and decision you make, everything you do will be as HIS MISTRESS. His thoughts and actions will be of those that please you, to serve and obey you, to be your sissy bitch and you will train him that way. You must live it and keep him in the correct atmosphere so that he can thrive as the submissive sissy bitch you want and deserve. It is vital and imperative that you do not care about his feelings, his thoughts, or the pain he must endure to accept his permanent place. You will not care of his preference, his pleas, his misery or his tears. This is the way he needs it, how it must be, and what will make it easier for him to submit to you. You will not care that he is cuckolded, sexless, orgasmless, and permanently lock into chastity. You will not allow him input or questions. You will not care if he is uncomfortable, horny, bruised, angry, aggravated, upset or crying! In fact, you want it to be as hard on him as you can make it, you want it forced and for him to feel despair, but especially helpless to do anything about it, welted, bruised, and crying in order to break his will, accept his natural place and transform him into the sissy bitch you want and deserve. You want him helpless to resist, helpless to do anything about it, you want to break him and destroy his will, make him fear you, break him down to build the perfect obedient sissy bitch. When he does cry from lack of sex, edging, pain and torment, or from punishments, be more aggressive, strict and humiliating, show no mercy and explain that it will be this way from now on and he has no choice but to accept his place. He will start to accept it when he realizes he has no choice, but you must make him believe he has no choice. Once he does you will reprogram him to be the sissy bitch you want and deserve and you will see that not only will you be happier and have the best life and sex ever, he will also be extremely happy and never want to stop serving you. You will deeply satisfy him sexually in ways he never thought possible, through your sex (as it should be) through his submission to you and through the pleasure of your big cock and any cock that uses him. Soon you will shift his pussy whipped submission into a cock whipped submission. This has a greater advantage as a cuckolding Mistress with special perks.   

Start using your sadistic side, embrace it, and use it to unlock your power and his deep submission. You will find that once you free your mind and body, you will get turned on, excitement, and even pleasure from punishments and making him suffer for your enjoyment. This is how a SADISTIC mistress should be; A sadistic Mistress will always wear Dominatrix outfits during training and sometimes in the house when not training for full effect. She will wear a strap-on in the same manner, and force him to suck it periodically but especially prior to fucking him with it. She will always make him beg to get the privilege of her big cock. Always make him beg for the privilege to serve his mistress and force him to acknowledge it and accept it. She will humiliate him constantly about his puny clitty and make him acknowledge he doesn't deserve sex ever. She will humiliate him about how pathetic he is to be turned on by being her sissy and begging to sever her just to get her cock. She will make him ask for permission to speak, to move, to use the restroom, to eat or drink, make him him ask permission to do anything! She will make him eat and drink on all fours, out of dog dishes in his cage (labeled BITCH) or on the floor. She will walk him with a leash around the house and make him crawl on his hands and knees at all times, but especially to fetch things. She will keep him in a dog cage as necessary, but especially when out on dates, and on times he is not permitted to see or hear sex with her boyfriend or bull, and sometimes when the boyfriend or bull sleeps over night. She will make him use kitty litter in place of the restroom (kept inside his cage) and clean it out when needed. She will stand him in the corner of every store she shops in at the mall and make him do humiliating things in public like kneeling at her feet in rest areas or food courts at the mall. She will scold or humiliate him in public, make him wear a collar in public. She will return from dates with doggie bags or take home boxes of food that wasn't ate and dump it in his dog bowl for his dinner or make him go till morning to eat. On nights he is allowed to accompany her to dinner, she will order his food and drink for him and make him wait till he is home to eat it out of the dog bowls. He will walk behind her (and boyfriend) in public with his hands behind his back, he will also open all doors for her. She will take all free time away from him, no games, no nights out with the guys, no sports, nothing but serving her. She will keep him on his knees at all times possible, even in front of her boyfriend, until she is ready to put him to bed. Sometimes she will force him to sleep on the floor. He will always sleep on the floor when her boyfriend is staying over or sleep in his cage on nights she wants privacy. She will kneel him in the corner when she wants rid of him or his wandering eyes. he must knell in the corner or on all fours - face on the floor, when she will be undressed or naked. He is never allowed to look at her face unless ordered to do so. She will force him to worship her feet legs and ass, sometimes licking her asshole to orgasm as she uses a toy OR while being fucked by her boyfriend. 

She will force him to accept her boyfriend as the alpha male and serve her boyfriend on his knees. She will force him to call her boyfriend "Master or SIR" (whatever is approved by the BF). She will force him to orally pleasure the BF's cock to get it hard and ready while they make out or sometimes give a full blow job to please her boyfriend. She will cuckold him often and because the boyfriend is the alpha male (if he is into pegging your sissy) he will be forced to accept being used by the boyfriend and even finished inside of, then made to kneel over a plate and then clean up the cum after it runs out. She will use him in whatever way sexually to enhance their sex with no limits or rules to his use. She will punish him in front of her boyfriend (if the BF is okay with watching you bruise and welt his ass) then leave him tied up while they go make hot passionate love and return to force him to lick the cum in a humiliating manner. She will make him shave off all pubic hair (body hair if she desires it) make him wear panties 24/7/365, and make him wear lingerie and force him to wear maid outfits to clean. She will turn him completely sissy and force him to be used sexually. She will find him a bull or master to serve in front of her while she watches or send him off by himself while she stays the night with her boyfriend. She will find a girlfriend that will help humiliate him or help in training and use him for cleaning or whatever is needed. She will spit in his face and refuse him to clean it off or spit in his mouth. She will force him to do clean up duty in whatever way pleases her and make him clean up his own cum messes. She will smack his balls, smack his face and pull his hair at home or in public. She will make him suck dildos often, even in front of friends or her boyfriend. She will piss on his face or in his mouth and even occasionally force him to drink some of it. She will use him to lick her clean after she pisses in the bathroom, even at friends house. If he is not permitted anything to do with pussy, he must close his eyes during the entire time of cleaning up. She will place him in humiliating positions for her amusement: example-face on the floor ass in the air hold his ass spread to expose his pussy, or holding a dildo or butt plug inside his pussy. She will have a crop and cane handy at all times so she can spank his balls or ass solely for her amusement and to hear him yell or cry.  This is about you using your power, being cruel and sadistic to him, to emasculate him to destroy his ego, and his masculinity. You don't want a man, you want an obedient sissy bitch to serve and obey you. You must be dominant, strict, ruthless, and cruel to your submissive bitch at all times even after he breaks, and especially after training is completed. This is a must, a requirement, this is absolute and not a request or a preference, it is the way and the life of a true Dominatrix. To be successful you will have to take your place, and forcefully put him in his. To be successful you must punish and be unyielding with it. Your rules and orders must be followed and obeyed exactly the way you want them and you must punish severely for rule breaking, disobedience and back talking. You should be feared, worshiped, and obeyed! It is the only way to get what you want, what you deserve!

I know I've gone over things again and again and there is a lot of redundancy in this post, but I need you to understand just how crucial this is and I want this to soak into your mind to help you. You must treat him as you should 24/7, keep him in the proper atmosphere, and train him properly. You must break him, be sadistic, cruel, strict and dominating as this is what works and what forces him to realize his natural place as well as yours! You must punish for disobedience, rule breaking, and back talking every time! You must not care of his thought, feeling or allow him input or say so! You can not appear weak, uncertain, or forgiving. You must train him hard as often as possible! You must flirt and go out and meet new guys at least once a week until you have a full time BF or a few sex partners or both! You must have sex at least 3 to 4 times a week and take care of yourself, do what turns you on! You can not be shy, embarrassed, or hold back what you want, what you need to say, how you need to act, or what needs done!!! A submissive male will be truly submissive to a female that takes control and is extremely dominant to him, he will be helpless and can't resist her power or authority  especially if she is strict, cruel, and sadistic!!! Until part two....
 
                    

Simple facts for women who want to know

This is a list of facts and information from various scientist, analyst, sexual study organisations, and college research departments. The information is gathered on behalf of and from condom makers and designers, sex toy makers and designers, pharmaceutical companies, various colleges, sex therapy, government, independent research and studies for human sexual behavior.

The sex industry from toys to pornography has a combined annual revenue of over 20 billion in the US alone and is one of the most profitable industries in the world.

Female porn stars make an average salary of double or more than their male counterparts do.
 
Fact, women control sex....When, where and how much, if at all and men know this. As such most men work hard to improve their value, worth, or importance to females by a show of wealth or possessions, display of power, or simply by attraction/looks and sexual pleasure through being well endowed. Most men (the smart ones) also know that pleasing a women sexually and/or mentally means she is far more likely to grant them access to her pussy, most especially a returning visit. The smart women will use this to their advantage.

Women's bodies are genetically designed to attract males and influence their sexual needs and arousal level. We secrete various pheromones and hormones to achieve this goal. The main pheromone responsible for this and other controlling powers is called copulins. Copulins are very powerful and once absorbed by the male will chemically change his brain and thought process. These pheromones create a type of mind control effect, and puts the male brain and thinking process in a hazy state. This makes him susceptible to reconditioning and brainwashing. 
Here is legitimate research on how copulins infiltrate the male’s mind and body.
Fact, 87 % of heterosexual males who have had vaginal sex are addicted to it. That is to scientifically say,  they are addicted to the chemicals secreted by the vagina and absorbed through sexual contact as well as the chemicals released during orgasm. It is believed this number is not 100% because some gay men hide their sexual identity by heterosexual relationships or by being with women. These chemicals don't entirely effect gay men the same way as heterosexual males. However 100 % of these effected men state pussy is divine and mesmerizing, that there is nothing else like it, and nothing can compare to it. They explain that just seeing it or watching it is intoxicating (thanks to copulins) but while they are having sex nothing else in the world matters, and they can't live with out it. *Pussy chemicals are naturally designed to be addicting and research shows its one of the most addicting substances known.*

Some women produce more copulins then others, especially if she is ovulating or other conditions apply as follows. Generally the levels are higher in women that are sexually aroused and/or sexually active, especially in women with multiple sex partners.....Even if one of the partners is not granted direct access to sex (The husband or in our case the bitch). Copulins are at their highest level and work best during foreplay, sex, or even just sex acts.  *which is why they work so well on your bitch as he is restricted on pussy with no sexual relief *

Copulins are absorbed through the penis during sex, but are most commonly absorbed through smell. Generally the closer the male is to the pussy, the stronger the effect of the copulins, and the quicker the response. Compounded by the pussy being exposed or by thin coverings such as panties or yoga pants. 

More and more women are becoming sexually aware of their abilities to have better more thrilling sex, control their sex life (married or not), and use that power to better their life.
66% of Men fear women's sexual power and their ability to have greater pleasure. They fear women's sexual empowerment and liberation. As such they try to control women's sexual appetite, needs, desires, and interactions. They are against and intimidated by women experiencing better sexual satisfaction, through use of sex toys, better sexual partners, or same sex (girl on girl) play, as they fear loss of interest in them by the female, rejection, or replacement. *And they should fear it*

The number one selling dildo's are realistic 8 inches cocks with a girth of 6.5 inches.
Fact, Cock size and girth do matter to the vast majority of women, as high as 86 % and research shows most prefer a cock from 7.5 to 8.5 inches. 67 % of these women say that even though size matters, stamina and performance is important, the remaining 33 % says just size is enough to give great sex. While there are some women, few as they may be that like a smaller cock, even they have a minimal preference and the studies show that to be between 6 to 6.5 inches with less that 2 %  of females at 5.5 to 6 inches. 100% of all women state anything under 5.5 inches wouldn't please them sexually. 100 % of those females that prefer smaller cock, state stamina and performance greatly matters. Nearly all women, 97 % prefer a thicker cock over length.

Fact, 24 % of women have ended a relation ship due to inadequate penis size.

41 % of married women wish their mate had a larger penis and was better in bed. They stated that their mates penis size and ability to perform was insufficient to obtain a vaginal orgasm. They were only able to achieve orgasm through oral (clit licking) or sex toys.
33 % of women stated their mate had an acceptable penis size, but wish their mate was better in bed and had better stamina (lasted longer). These women stated they were able to orgasm at least half the time but the quality was not good. When they did orgasm it was very weak and they were the ones doing all the work to get it by grinding their clit against the mates pelvic bone to achieve it. They felt sex was more a chore than pleasure.
26 % of married women had mates with acceptable penis size or bigger with adequate performance and stamina. They stated sex was at least satisfying and some stated sex was very satisfying.

 61 % of women state the idea duration of sex to be between 30 to 40 minutes, 22 % state 40 minutes to one hour, 15 % state 20 to 30 minutes, 3 % state 10 to 20 minutes. 100 % of women said 1-9 minutes was inadequate and not worth the effort.

52 % of women state the idea amount of sex per week was 4-5 times, 11 % state over 5 times, 24 % stated 2-3 times per week, 7 % state 1-2 times, 6 % state as much as they can. 67 % of females state that if sex was better they would want it more often, 92 % of females state if sex was worse they would want it less often.

63 % of women wish their sex life could improve 24 % state their sex life is okay or acceptable, 13 % state they are having the best sex.

Fact, promiscuous women, are 26 times more likely to be sexually satisfied and have better sex. They also tend to have stronger and multiple orgasms, healthier, happier lives and report less stress. More so for the women who cuckold their mate.

64 % of all married women have at least one sex toy compared to 37 % of single women. This corresponds to single women having a better more fulfilled sex life through multiple partners and or alpha males. Large dildo's and g-spot style vibrators are the most popular sex toys among women with 8 inch cocks being top sellers.
35 % of married women hide their sex toys from the husband and/or use them away from him.

While there is no debate that a larger cock gives more orgasms and they are longer and more powerful than those of smaller or average sized cocks, however a 7 inch cock on the right sexually skilled alpha male can be extremely satisfying.

Fact, cock size also matters to men, almost more than it does women as they know women prefer larger over smaller. Cock size to them can be a status symbol, and confidence tool, or cause low selfesteem or perception of low worth to women, again because it matters to women. As such, studies and polls conducted in the past 20 years by men for average cock size (their conclusion is 5.3 inches) have been diminished or published falsely and inaccurately showing less than actual numbers and percentages. While the blame has been place on faulty studies groups, questioners, and different standards, women in today's research believe this is thought to keep those under average sized men from social, and emotional difficulties with women and peers. But worse, to make women believe that not being able to reach orgasm was their fault. They made it so that smaller cocks are acceptable by lowering average size from 6.5 inches. These same types of men use social or public shamming to suggest that women who enjoy sex, want better sex, or prefer bigger cocks are whores, sluts, size queens, or nymphos. To the contrary, uncorrupted or unbiased studies show that women were made for sex and enjoy sex even more than men. This concerns most men because it means that its harder to control women's appetite, desire for sex, or capacity for partners. Although in today's world more and more women are finding out they don't have to settle for dull or worthless sex, they don't have to choose between marriage and security or great sex, and they don't have to sacrifice their pleasure for a mans pleasure, ego, or confidence. Especially when paired with facts and evidence that prove women have the ability and sexual power to be married, loved, and even worshiped, yet still have the best sex with whom ever she wants as often as she wants through cuckolding and the small dick husband will be just as excited and sexually fulfilled through her sexual endeavors.

Studies show that under endowed men and/or domesticated men not only lack the necessary penis size and sexual prowess to actually pleasure a women in a way she needs to be fulfilled and sexually satisfied, but they also produce less testosterone then alpha men with larger cocks. Testosterone is the key hormone used for sex, sex drive, and penis functions. It also controls behavior like aggression and dominance, but insufficient production causes submissive behavior especially when paired to women with a dominant demeanor. Men with small penises also have fewer androgen receptors which process the testosterone, thus making him submissive by nature for lack of absorbing the hormone. When the lack of testosterone is paired with other key chemicals like over production of estrogen (estrogen also causes ED and penis shrinkage) among other hormones it drastically increases his submission. Although these mixtures of hormones, acids, and other brain chemicals can make a male feel submissive to aggressive or dominant females and some alpha males, it is small in comparison to when these hormones are mixed with the female pheromones like copulins which do control his brain and raise addiction levels.

Most males with smaller penises are more likely to be or have been at some point okay with their mate having sex with other men. Even with cheating or affair relationships that are ongoing where the husband accidentally finds out but finds himself submissive to the act and powerless to do anything but accept it, to the point he doesn't even confront her about it....As long as the wife loves him and stays committed to the relationship he will accept his role as the unwilling cuckold. Some access to pussy in what ever manner or rarity its granted is better than having no access.

Fact, Women are sexually drawn to and fantasize about alpha males but are more bonded to beta males. Most alpha males have a cock size of at least 6.5 inches but average around 7 or bigger and they are considered better lovers and sex partners by women. Not just because of their larger cock size but also because of there sex drive, stamina, attitude/confidence, and skills with regard to pleasuring women. While some can be great mates and partners, most are not ideal for long term or marriage because of their attributes such as being more self centered, arrogant, and controlling. They are also far more likely to cheat and tend to treat women as a possession to show off to their friends. They do however make great secondary partners such as lovers or boyfriends for cuckolding as the Dom already has vested love, security, and a reliable faithful commitment with her sub. The best of both worlds or having your cake and eating it too, as its often said.

Fact, most beta (beta means subservient) men have a cock size of average or less and are considered better long term partners and providers. They are preferred because they are more considerate and caring nature, plus stable, reliable, and faithful. They are also easier to domesticate, control, and mold into the perfect partner (which is subconsciously the number one thing women look for). They also have a strong commitment to family, and are naturally submissive to women. Beta males are also far more likely to forgive an affair and if cuckolded naturally become more submissive to the female and even the alpha male. Under the right circumstances he can be trained to obey the alpha male and more.
Note; while the beta male may be more likely to forgive cheating or an affair, he may not and in any case it would cause emotional instability.

The true average cock size is 6.5 inches, 6.47 to be exact, and  5.5 inches in girth. Nearly all cuckolds have a dick size under average. The average dick size of a cuckold is 5.75 inches inches.
4 % of all cuckolds have a dick the size of 6.5 to 7 inches, that's 4 out of every 100.

8 % of all cuckolds have a dick the size of 6 to 6.5 inches, that's 8 out of every 100. 
81 % of all cuckolds have a dicklet size of 5.5 to 6 inches, That's 81 out of every 100.

6 % of all cuckolds have a clitty size between 4.5 to 5.5, yes rare at 6 men of every 100.
.5 % of cuckolds have a clitty under 4.5 inches, very rare at 1 for every 200.
.5 % of cuckolds have a dick over 7 inches, also very rare at the same.
There is less than 1 out of every 20,000 cuckold/submissives with a cock 8 inches or more.
These cuckolds are beta males (usually unattractive) dominated by women who want the power and love sex with a variety of men.

90% of Dom's/Mistress cuckold their male slave or bitch, it is the main reason most do this lifestyle, the submission, obeying, service, and freedom to do as they please is just the bonus and effect of cuckolding. Although to do it correctly and yield long term cuckolding, you have to start with the submission and training.
83 % of Dom's and 100 % of Dom's who cuckold use a chastity device to prevent masturbation, and deepen submission, eventually most cuckolding Dom's will insist on long term chastity or permanently chastise the sub.
88 % of those Dom's completely stop having sex with their sub's and restrict or completely deny access to her pussy.
100 % or all of these Dom's use pegging as a replacement to sex with her and focus his pleasure and attention on craving cock to be sexually satisfied. While this is very humiliating and emasculating, he is helpless to resist it as the female hormones, chastity, lack of orgasm, and pleasure is more than enough to convert him.

Fact, brain washing and hypnotizing is real and it does work. 
Fact, punishments and humiliation are the best most effective way to train a male to obey, follow rules, and prevent future disobedience.

68 % of Dom's who peg eventually train him to become a sissy and 49 % of those eventually force the male to orally and anally please real cock.
100 % or all male bitches that are cuckolded become severely submissive the day of and the day after the dom's sex night. The more she fucks, the more submissive he becomes, the more submissive he becomes the more he begs her to cuckold him...A perfect cycle.
The number one turn on and humiliation for a cuckold is watching the dom have sex, even more so if made to participate or involved in the pleasure of the dom and her lover. With maximum humiliation if made to clean up the mess, especially in front of the lover.

39 % of all Dom's who cuckold eventually decide to keep a lover or boyfriend permanently to replace the bitch sexually, physically, and even intimately. This may take time for a particular lover to build to that point or the dom may be so turned on or attracted to the male that she elect him as her boyfriend after the first night of sex. Some doms start out dating with the intention to find a permanent replacement for their bitch. For all intensive purposes the boyfriends roll is that of any normal man-women relationship as it pertains to dating and sex and he has exclusive rights to her body and pussy. The boyfriend is also free to fuck the dom when ever he has the need or want for sex and with out condom (females are on birth control) . On average these doms have sex with their boyfriend 4 to 6 times a week, sometimes several times in one day. It is not uncommon for the dom to spend the night with the boyfriend a few times a month. Some Doms even do a weekend getaways a few times a year (with or with out the sub).
100 % of all cuckolds who have a Dom/Mistress with a full time or permanent boyfriend are very submissive, humiliated and feel helpless to resist serving her. They state they are not a man but a bitch who's purpose is serving their mistress. Almost all Dom's at a month or so of dating take pussy completely away and he is forbidden any access to it permanently. Listening to her have sex is a privilege and done a few times a month to humiliate the bitch. At the point she takes a permanent boyfriend he is completely reduced to a bitch, a sissy maid for chores and services, serving and obeying his mistress (and master if chosen).   

Fact, after 3-5 years of marriage, most men become domesticated because of the female pheromones, natural dominance of women, and submissiveness of men. A domesticated male looses stamina for sex, and the ability to maintain erection. A domesticated male eventually becomes non-sexually attractive to the female mate. She loves and wants a submissive male partner, but there is a difference between love and desire. She desires the passion, thrill, and excitement of being chased by single alpha males. She longs for the stimulating and erotic sexual pleasure of a bigger foreign cock thrusting into her, forcing her to orgasm over and over. She is absorbed by the arousing sexual tension that builds in between sexual encounters. She wishes she cold have both the love and support of her mate, and the sexual satisfaction of her lover from here out.   

Cheating usually refers to having sex with someone other than your mate for a one time or twice act and never again, although it can also reference having sex with several/many different partners at various times through out the relationship with your mate.
Having an affair refers to having an ongoing or committed sexual relationship with one partner, that is not your mate. Affairs are long term and usually last 6 month to a few years.
It is estimated that one in three men don't know they are raising at least one child from a cuckolding or cheating mate and 91 % of those men are not even aware of the mates infidelity.
Fact, 90 % of all cuckolding Dom's have cheated or had an affair at some point in their relationships, 76 % of those were with an ex-boyfriend, college friend, or lover.
50 % of all women in current marriages have or will cheat or have an affair .
90 % of Women who cheat do it for 2 reasons, one and most common is for better sexual experience, to experience the bigger cock size, passion, chase, and thrill of an alpha male and two because they like the person they become (free spirited, kinkier, outgoing, lively) when they are around the other man. The other 10 % of women that cheat, do it because of a failed, bad, or abusive marriage.
88 % of all women who cheat are in a functional, loving and caring marriage, with men they adore or have strong friendship ties with.

Mistress means Female master, the Latin equivalent to Domina. Mistress is also based on the french word Maistresse which means lover in one context but master in the other. Its the female name of Maistre which is the male word for master.

37 % of all married men have cheated or will cheat. 78 % of those men cheat with women that are kinkier, more controlling, or dominant than their wives especially in bed. The other 22 % cheated because of lack of sex at home or easy access to cheating sex. No man has ever cheated for tighter pussy, better pussy, or better sex as it relates to the pleasure of pussy, as opposed to most women who cheat for better sex, longer sex, and bigger cocks. These women that men cheated with are called mistresses and they were women who use the dominant side of sex to get what they want out of men. The term Mistress is coined because of the power or control these women had over men, the master of the heart or more properly stated, cock.

Studies and research show, men are chemically controlled to need release of built up sperm/semen. The higher the build up the more intense need for release. The number of partners and quality of partners makes no difference on the release or the quality of the release/orgasm. All men orgasm easily through vaginal sensation (unless of other factors like health or drugs and alcohol) and all men relatively orgasm the same and in the same manner through vaginal stimulation. Unlike women who require adequate size, performance and stamina which impact the quality of their orgasm. Studies also show the only reason men orgasm is to expel the semen through muscle contractions via the orgasm. They also show that while men experience pleasure through the sex act itself, the majority of pleasure comes from said orgasm, this is to ensure the maximum release of semen.

All men masturbate, especially with out the ability to have sex. They must in order to relieve the intense urge to have sex, which at some point becomes painful or achy, also known as blue balls.

Fact, 87 % of men would be happier, and content with regular or frequent sex, it is the consistency or frequency that matters, not the number of partners it comes from. In fact, most men report they prefer sex with the same female because the "burden or responsibility" of having to preform and please the female is so great.

Fact, Other than bad smell, 99 % of men state they have never felt or had, bad or loose pussy. The majority of men state that for the most part all pussy feels the same with the only difference being tightness or wetness, some tighter or wetter than others. None stated that was factor in orgasm quality. 

Fact, Women have the only organ made for specifically for sex and pleasure, called the clitoris. Research shows that women have as many as 4 times the amount of nerve endings through out the genital and 4 pleasure zones compared to one with a male. Women also processed pleasure differently in the brain with higher brain activity then men. This shows that women were designed for sex and pleasure. Women also experience intense pleasure during the entire time of sex with the greatest pleasure coming from the orgasm which studies show they are capable of feeling/have whole body orgasms compared to men with a focus around the pelvic region to produce greater thrusting and ejaculate. They also found that women experience sex on a higher level than men and that the size of the penis and quality of the sex relates to the amount of pleasure they feel with the intensity and length of the orgasm. Unlike men, women do not orgasm for procreation or breeding purpose, they do so to feel pleasure, their reward for having sex and this is why it is in the best interest for women to have the best sex partner they can. Women are biologically programmed to need different and multiple partner to achieve the best pleasure and thus the better chance for more sperm to produce more offspring/babies.   
Fact,  82 % of women are happier or would be happier with a variety of sex and sexual experiences. They are more aroused or turned on by the thrill of the chase and having multiple men want them. Women want/prefer multiple partners to experience different techniques/styles, shapes and sizes to achieve the best and most intense sex. In fact most women report that they would have an affair with a better looking more endowed man if they knew their husband or mate would not be hurt or possibly if there was no way he would ever find out.     

Fact, No sub, bitch, sissy or any other type submissive has ever cheated on his Dom, master, or mistress. Most submissive males fear pussy, respect it, and idolize it. They long to worship it and consider it to be sacred, they are the true definition of pussy whipped.   

Fact, Women produce pheromones in her pussy called "copulins". These pheromones are used to control and brainwash men. Most women don't know they exist, the ones who do or at least know the power of the "pussy" use them to their advantage (examples; Dom's, and dominant wives, strippers, some women CEO's) They can be absorbed through the urethra opening during sex or inhaled when in close proximity, the amount absorbed is greater the longer the male is still (with out motion) inside the vagina. The amount inhaled is greater the closer the male is to the vagina, with the most during oral or face contact. They are highly addictive and when males are exposed to them they cause his arousal state to heighten drastically depending on the amount absorbed. The effect they have and duration they last on males depends on the amount the male absorbs, and the length of time since his last orgasm, the longer its been the more effect they have. Prolonged and repeater contact has the longest effect time and this exposure over the course of months and years (varies with each male) causes a state called Domesticated male (a submissive and controllable male who looses his manhood and fears repercussions from his mate, also termed pussy whipped). The pheromones are strongest and last longer with males not permitted to orgasm, especially long term denial. With the use of and under the control of copulins women can;
1. Change or remove memories, and even insert false memories
2. Alter the males reality of what he see's, hear's, feel's, taste's, to what she wants him to believe.
3. Insert subconscious thoughts and behavior that will he will believe is his own and normal.
4. plant trigger words or actions that can cause thoughts, actions, or sensations in the male at later dates. (day, weeks, and even months later) 


All men can be controlled through their penis to some degree or another, especially with the right female, 68 % of these men can become very submissive under the correct training. 51 % of those men can become very submissive, and trained to obey without question.

Turn on's that sting with humiliation

                                            Humiliation 
Humiliation is a necessary and vital tool for the Dom, and just as important as punishments. The level of, and sincerity of, his submission is dependent on your ability to punish and humiliate him.  Humiliation is the key to breaking his will and emasculating him, which is needed to making him submissive and its also key to sissifying or feminizing him (which is in its self very humiliating). Humiliation can be done verbally through phrases and words that describe or express his lack of manhood, size of penis, stamina in bed, that he can't sexually satisfy pussy, or that he will never be allowed the pleasure of pussy. Describing his situation as a bitch or sissy, that he has a pussy, that he must be fucked like a bitch or sissy to get pleasure, that he loves cock, that he will or has pleased cock, that your boyfriends cock is much bigger, that you love your boyfriends cock, that your BF turns you on, that its his pussy or is allowed to cum in it, etc. Also anything else that relates his submission to you like, he will be a bitch or sissy forever, That he was born to be a bitch or sissy, That he was meant to please cock, that he will be on his knees serving you or who you say from now on, that his only purpose is serving and obeying, That the only way he can please you is by being a sissy bitch, that has to wear a chastity permanently or anything else you can think of.

Humiliation can also be done through physical acts such as putting him in humiliating positions (free or tied down), Spitting in his face or even better, his mouth, Pissing on his face or body, doing acts of or showing submission or sissification in public, being punished or scolded in public, doing sexual acts at home (like sucking or riding a dildo in front of you or someone else) made to serve or obey someone else, used for sexual pleasure by another male (sucking cock or fucked) and/or female (her getting off by pegging him or double headed dong), watching or listening to you have sex, or anything else you can think of. Humiliation should be done frequently, multiple times through out the day with some extended time given at some point prior to bedtime. Humiliation should be regular, ruthless and cruel. There are different levels of humiliation from mild to extreme, and many ways to use it. Humiliation affects subs in different ways, as some subs may find a particular humiliation very humiliating, while others only a little humiliating. For this reason it is your job as the mistress to find out what humiliates your sub, and what humiliates him the most. This is easy because when you do something humiliating or even threaten to do something humiliating, you sub will sometimes subconsciously tell you it was or it would be humiliating, he may even state how humiliating it was or would be. If not, or if you need more detail just ask like this, "that was/would be humiliating, wasn't it/wouldn't it be?" then you can simply ask "how humiliating?". Its also easier to ask questions during training while he is extremely aroused and under heavy influence of your pheromones (copulins) and his own chemical cocktail as he can not resist or lie about anything. In that state he is more less hypnotized and susceptible to brainwashing, mind control, and questioning with out any resistance.

All forms of, and levels of humiliation are effective in deepening his submission but humiliation that also turns him on or gets him aroused works better and faster. Its also the best kind because it requires little to no energy from you and your usually being please sexually. Turns on's that cut with humiliation are things that arouse your sub while at the same time smack him in the face with humiliation. These are typically things you would do with a boyfriend, bull, or lover. Things you've never said or done sexually with your sub, or things your sub would not expect you to do with your Boyfriend or Bull. However they can also be any form of humiliation that turns him on, like made to do acts of pleasure in ways that humiliate him, like riding your big cock (secured on the floor or device) and sucking your cock (on the wall or in your harness). They can even be things that show your dominance or power over him as a women who is dominant, aggressive, and cruel towards a submissive male turns him on. It is her sexual prowness and show of power that arouses him and makes him feel weak, especially if done while humiliating him or making him do humiliating things. If you want to be a successful Dom, you have to humiliate him, you have to be cruel and ruthless, 24/7/365.

A few weeks after I started seeing my BF, during training (after I got fucked that night) I was humiliating my sub about it and I learned from him that it really humiliated him to see me so excited and turned on to see my boyfriend and to wear lingerie to please him (Which I have rarely done for my sub). Also while I was getting fucked I would be completely into my BF and ignoring my sub altogether, like he wasn't even in the room. Most of the things I did and said were things I have never done with my sub, not even close. We undressed each other and I kissed him passionately, sliding my hands all over his body before I keeled to suck his enormous cock. I enjoyed sucking it and pleasing him, knowing he would fuck me way better than my bitch ever has. I sucked his dick passionately and showed I enjoyed it, deep throating it and moaning while I did. My sub rarely got his clitty sucked and if I did, it was usually just the head, mostly licking it till he cum (with was only about 5 min, lol..I just wasn't into giving his little dicky pleasure). When he licked my pussy, I grabbed his head and arched my back moaning passionately, I also rubbed my breast and played with my nipples. None of which I've done with my sub, even though he did eat pussy very good.

As I got fucked I actually moaned and screamed, loudly even (I couldn't help it, his cock felt amazing) and spread my legs as open as I could to take all of his cock. I loved going from position to position, and I grabbed his ass or back as he fucked me hard. Sometimes I would even dig my nails into his ass as he made me orgasm so hard. In between my moans and screams in the heat of passion I would babble off words, saying things like, " Oh my god, (paused)....Oh fuck, (pause)......, your cock, (paused).....Your cock feels so good" and that I loved his cock, and I really did. Sometimes my eyes rolled back into my head from the ecstasy and pleasure as he gave me powerful orgasms one right after another. I kissed him passionately during sex and sucked on his neck and nipples as I rode his cock. I would even back into his cock while fucking dogie style, even though most of the time he was pounding me hard, pulling me into it. Sometimes he would fucked me again after a short rest. My pathetic sissy couldn't even last more than 7 or 8 minutes, let alone have the ability to get hard again the same night....Not that I'd want it if he could. I have rarely kissed my sub passionately during sex as it just didn't last long enough to build that passion. I've hardly ever rode him (mostly because I didn't want to exert that much energy for such a weak orgasm). I've never backed up on his little dicklet, and his cock never gave me the pleasure to spread my legs wide or dig my nails into him.

Apparently I did all of this to some degree or another every time with my BF. I was so lost in the pleasure and passion that I didn't even realize I was doing or saying most of those things, but I did know that I really loved his cock and my BF fucked me far better than he ever did, honestly there was no comparison. I loved his cock and I loved how he fucked me, he fucked me against the wall, picked me up and fucked me with my legs over his arms, bent me over the bed while standing up, put one leg over his shoulder while standing and many other positions. I really only fucked my sissy in the missionary position, occasionally doggie and I have never babbled at all during sex with my sub or said that his cock even felt good. It did feel good, but that's about it, just feeling good. I would compare it to being fingered, but I'm sure you already know this or you would be here. He said that it was very humiliating to watch me fuck my BF but at the same time it was extremely arousing and made him feel weak and very submissive. Every time we fucked, the whole next day my bitch was very submissive and obedient, and all I had to do was what I loved to do and show how much I really enjoyed it. Which is what you should be doing anyway, especially since your trying to prove to him that your BF is bigger and better than him. The best thing is that this is very humiliating, humiliation for long periods, and I get to have fun while its done, plus I really didn't have to say or do anything directly to my sub. This is a prime example of turning him on with deep humiliation....And he couldn't get enough. As humiliating as it was, he begged me to do it more, and he was more obedient because I did it more. He couldn't help it, my sex was his sex and he was to submissive to resist. Of course the fact that his little dicky was locked away 24/7 after the first week of me dating my new BF helped that happen. Humiliation is so much sweeter when its done while your having fun, especially because you don't really have to do anything but enjoy yourself, and best of all it is some of the most powerful humiliation there is.


Obviously some of the best turn on's that sting with humiliation is your sex with a boyfriend.
These are more effective with the sub watching but can be done with him listening or told about after.
Some of these may also be great ways to turn on your Boyfriend or Bull if they are into BDSM.

1.The number one turn on that cuts with extreme humiliation for most subs, is you fucking your BF bareback and allowing him to cum inside you. Watching or bringing a cum filled pussy home is a visual proof of his loss, a sure sign whose pussy it belongs to and just how much its being pleased. While at the same time the sub is completely denied all access to pussy, even his own orgasms and possibly at this point forced into permanent chastity. Compounded humiliated by you telling your bitch its your Boyfriends pussy from now on. His humiliation being far worse if made to clean up the mess in some manner, (licking off sheet, ass, feet, cock, finger feed, dog bowl or squeezed into his mouth) especially in front of the Boyfriend or Bull.
2.The number two turn on with extreme humiliation is making your sub watch. Close up is key, but the closer the better. Also added humiliation is including him in the sex in some manner, like nose in your ass, licking your ass, sucking your feet/toes, putting BF's cock into your pussy, fluffing, licking balls as you ride, sucking your cum off the cock, holding the vibrator or fetching toys, towels, lube, and even worse forced to lick both of you clean after.
3. The number three thing is really liking the BF or Bull and showing it as described below; Saying it to your bitch, humiliating him about it and how it will be his pussy from now on, telling your bitch the BF really turns you on and showing it by getting fucked several times a week or several times in one day, going over to his house for late night or early morning sex, shopping for clothes or lingerie he likes and only wearing it for him, buying sex toys for you both to use on each other, trimming pussy hair to his liking (diamond, landing strip, clean shaven etc.) Going on dates, spending the night at his house, keeping clothes at his house, weekend get aways. Allowing the BF or Bull to stay the night or even move in. This type of humiliation really forces him to realize his place and purpose.
An extension of number 3, on the rare occasions he is permitted to watch; pay no attention to your bitch, pretend he is not there and show him you really love getting fucked by the BF or Bull. Show him its the best sex, way better than him by letting yourself go and really enjoy it, Spreading your legs wide or wrapping legs around him, grab his ass, and/or back, lots of kissing, telling BF or Bull you love his cock, lots of moaning and scream louder when you orgasm, fuck for long periods and repeat after a short rest. You want to show that you are very turned on by your BF and that you really love his cock. Starring into his eyes at times during sex, as you tell him its his pussy or whatever else.
4. Like number 3 above only with the added humiliation by Fucking in positions that show pussy penetration, like riding the BF or reverse cowgirl so he can see pussy stretch. Humiliate him about how you love his cock, how much bigger and better it is, how he could never fuck you like this, how his clitty is tiny and pathetic. If possible, have him up close to see and smell the sex.
5. Being somewhat submissive to your BF or Bulls cock by following his direction when getting fucked even outside the bedroom and telling him he can fuck you when ever he wants. Making constant remarks that indicate its his pussy, like "he doesn't want you seeing his pussy" or " he likes it when I wear thongs so i'm going to buy some new ones for him"
6. Show that you enjoy sucking his cock, moaning and deep throating it, grabbing his balls, licking his balls, grabbing his ass with both hands pulling him and his cock into your mouth. Grab it by the base to show its size or 2 handing it. Smiling and licking your top lip just before sucking it.
7. Buying and wearing sexy lingerie or bra's and panties for him, of course not letting the bitch see you in them most of the time. On the rare times you do, it will be after you return home from sex, then only briefly as you remove your clothes exposing the lingerie for him to see as you order him to turn around then take of the lingerie to put something comfortable on, make him put the lingerie up.
8. Wearing normal outfits/ street clothes the BF or Bull likes.
9. Sucking your BF or Bull off while your on your period
10. Sucking his dick while he drives, better if your sub is driving and you two are in the back.
11. Meeting him for lunch to fuck
12. Having the BF or Bull sleep in your bed while the sub is on the floor or in a spare bedroom.
13. Letting your bitch listen on the phone while you fuck at BF or Bulls house.
14. Having a three way (guy or girl)or multiple guys fuck you at BF or Bulls request or direction, maybe worse if you bitch is only allowed to watch or hear.

Almost as good as the turn on humiliation with your boyfriend or bull is turning him sissy, only more humiliating than a turn on....And for a lovely reason! Training a sissy means several things; first it means that you have decided to date your boyfriend full time (likely seriously) and replace your bitch totally. His forever roll and purpose to you will only be that of a servant/house slave, made to hand of his paychecks paying for pussy he will never have and the privilege to serve you. All while receiving little to no sexual contact, of which only regards to his anal play or pegging or cleaning your cum filled pussy in some manner. Second it means you have decided to lock his clitty away permanently. Third it means that your training him to accept cock as his new and only form of pleasure. It also means that your training him to pleasure cock, both orally and anally, in doing so his ass hole will chemically and physically be converted to his pussy and pleasure hole. It also means that you will give him a girly name or call him sissy or bitch. He will be made to wear sissy under garments 24/7, dress up in sissy attire several times a month, Fucked in sissy lingerie. You can imagine his extreme humiliation yet unable to do anything but accept it to be allowed the privilege of pleasure. Your fun could be endless with this training. If you interested, read my Sissy training story.

HUMILIATION 

Humiliation effects the same brain regions that are associated with physical pain, the inference being that humans evolved to remember social/verbal rewards and punishments as strongly as they do physical reward or pain. This is why daily humiliation and episodes of extreme humiliation is very important and effective in making him submissive. In BDSM, humiliation is connected to sexual fetishism, in that non-sexual activities (exp;kneeling, obeying, chores) and certain types of humiliation (exp;cuckolding) may become sexualised or arousing. Meaning the male submissive will eventually be aroused via acts of servitude or sexual humiliation (verbal and physical) thus being excited or turned on by these acts. This is because they were linked subconsciously through sexual exposure or content and his submission to his mistress. His submission and humiliation is based on his sex, or better stated "his lack of sex and inability to sexually satisfy his mistress" mixed with his loss of sex via chastity. Humiliation is the linking tool that creates, deepens, and forces his submission and can sometimes be more effective than punishments. As stated by subs when asked, "Nothing makes me want to serve my mistress more than when she proves my place and purpose to her". Simply by by being a strict dominant bitch and regularly having sex with her boyfriend, he is humiliated and subconsciously being trained to want to serve and obey her.       

Humiliation helps make him weak, maintains your authority, and keeps him in his place. You should through out the day and even in public humiliate him and make him acknowledge he is your bitch as well as other things, like he has a small pathetic dicklet (who's bitch are you?) Make him admit what he wants (to serve you, for your to get fucked, your big cock etc.) and then tell him he is a bitch for it. Making him admit this humiliation is more humiliation and more effective as it forces the realization that he is in fact your bitch, and meant to be your bitch. This act also helps him to believe this is his natural place, it even encourages him to be there. There are so many ways to humiliate your bitch, some so bad that the threat of using it on him is enough to correct unruliness (but remember every time he is disobedient, or breaks a rule he is to be punished severely). These are in no particular order but here are some, you can mix or combine them or do your own variation. I urge you to try them all and come up with your own, what ever pleases you or turns you on but let your imagination run wild!

Made to start a blog (like this one) to humiliate himself as a sub, proclaim his submission to you as his mistress, telling about his servitude and submission, his humiliation, your boyfriends, his chores, showing video's of his humiliation (as described below) pics and captions, etc. *Use his girly name.
You make an ad or profile on a bi or gay singles site (with pics) as a couple with a virgin bi-curious male. Set up meetings and make him preform what ever they want.
You make an ad or profile for him on kink sites (with pics) explain he is a sissy and wants to please cock. State that you are his mistress and want to watch and possibly participate. Set up the fun! 
Serving you in front of the BF or Bull
Made to serve the BF or Bull, could be made to clean their house while you fuck or play.
Made to fluff BF or Bull prior/after sex
Sucking a cock to orgasm, worse if cums in his mouth. (at first always tie down)
Getting fucked by BF, Bull or another male at your direction (at first always tie down)
Getting fucked and used by multiple men at the same time
Take him to gay bar to pick up men with punishment of 200 hits if he doesn't get at least a number, with NO excuses period, and see the punishment through if he fails.
Suction a dildo on the wall and have him suck it the entire time while you get fucked with a severe caning if he stops or looks at you during that time.
Suction dildo to wall for corner time punishment and made to suck it the whole time, cane if he stops.
Made to suck dildo before the start of every training session.
Suction dildo to wall and peg him doggie style inches away from it, as you fuck him tease and humiliate him about sucking the cock. Tell him all sissies suck cock, tell him its his place and that he was born to please cock. Ruthlessly humiliate him and make him suck it the entire time.
Made to lick clean his cum or precum, and lovers or BF cum.
Made to wear panties at all times
Made to wear female clothes, stockings, lingerie, bra, etc.
Made to shave all pubic hair ( also head, legs, chest, ass if that turns you on.)
Made to ride a dildo in separate bedroom while he listens to you get fucked, with instructions that he must keep the dildo in his ass and ride the entire time until you say he can stop. Record and watch it for proof and if he didn't, punish severely for not obeying. Worse if in front of BF or Bull, made to suck his cock during, or if the BF or Bull fucks him after.
Made to address you as mistress in public
Made to buy panties for him self while you acknowledge it in someway to the store clerk or cashier
Standing in a corner outside the store as you shop (great for buying lingerie for your BF or Bull)

Drinking and eating from dog dishes or directly on the floor (no utensils) AT ALL TIMES.
Sleeping on the floor
Made to worship (kiss and lick) your feet, worse in public (even while wearing Boots or shoes)
Made to suck cock in front of another female- dildo or real.
Made to serve another female.
Made to suck and lick feet/toes and ass of another female.
Made to lick her asshole to orgasm.8
Used to enhance sex/orgasms for both, while playing with another female.
Spit in his face or mouth also could be done by another female
Pegged by another female, or you and another female by double teaming him.
Humiliated by another female.
Punished or whipped by another female
Made to serve another male or female while you are spending the night or weekend with your BF.
Made to regularly service another male or men
Sleeping, eating/drinking, living in dog cage when he is not doing chores or you are out on dates etc.
Making him wear a collar or chain, and leash in public
Restricting him from talking or eating in public.
Restricting eye contact in public (no eye contact with you should always enforced)
Golden shower (pissing on him) on face, and/or body.
Slave tattoo of your choice, temporary or permanent
Branding him as show of ownership or submission to you.
Write on body (with lipstick, black marker etc.) cock slut, bitch, sissy, his pussy, loves cock, etc.
Male cums on his face or dumped from condom, not allowed to wipe it off, must dry and wear it for x amount of time or to bed, or the next day.
Wear a t-shirt in public that says, "I'm a sissy boy I serve my Mistress" or what you want it to say.
Verbally humiliate him in public (could be that he is your bitch- better obey- has little dick- etc.)
Wearing nipple clamps under see through or tight shirt.
Wearing butt plug or prostate massager in public.
Wearing a collar at all times possible *have a dog tag made (at pet store or Walmart) use humiliation caption like "Sissy Bitch" or "Cock Slut" or "your name's Bitch or just his sissy name.
Asking permissions in public and showing submission in public.
Make a mold of his penis (search “clone a willy” on Google). Once made, make him suck it for a while as you humiliate him about sucking his own small clitty. Then fuck his ass with it for a bit before fucking his ass with your biggest dildo. humiliate him and ask him if he feels the difference between his tiny clit and a real man’s cock. Make him admit he has a pathetic clitty and that the dildo fucking him is a real mans cock, then make him beg you to keep fucking him with the real mans cock. Do this several times a month, but sometimes your not going to fuck him with the bigger cock, your only going to fuck him with his clitty dildo, but make sure he begs you to, "have a real mans cock" and make him say it but you won't give it to him, instead humiliate him about you having to fuck the little tiny thing for so long, he can take it now and suffer, then make him suck the big one. 

*2 ways* Its been a few days or more since you had sex, (for what ever reason) but a successful mistress doesn't go with out sex or an orgasm. So you will either ride a big dildo (secure underneath you in some manner) with him watching very close up (inches away) from behind or use a dildo harness for his mouth and ride it so he can see really close up and smell the cum. During this time humiliate him about it being x number of days since you had sex and you would rather ride a fake cock or finger your self then fuck his pathetic little dicklet. Either way make him suck your cum off the dildo. **Remember you may reduce the times he see's or smells your pussy but your not going to take pussy completely away until after you have been dating your full time BF for 2 weeks**

Made to ride a big dildo while he sucks your strap-on or lovers cock

Tell one of your girlfriends he has a small dick and he wears a chastity so you don't have to fuck him, but if your don't have friends that you trust like that then make new friends specifically for going out with to meet guys with the bonus that they know he is your bitch.  

Blind fold him and tie up his clitty and balls, get him hard then put gloves on and rub numbing cream all over his cock. Continue to rub it in for several minutes to take effect, then put on 5 condoms and allow him to fuck a blow up doll or cyber pussy for 60 seconds as you humiliate him about how little his clitty is and how pathetic he fucks etc. Record him as he struggles to cum and post it on his blog. 

Sissify and feminize him, call him bitch, sissy, or girly name at all times, made to wear wig, make up, and dress up in lingerie to be fucked by gay or bi-men, find him regulars. Do at least 3 times a month.
For hands free fun while your getting ready for a date night or upstairs fucking your boyfriend; Buy a sex machine with a stroker or a milking machine and use it on his clitty on low speeds. this will drive him crazy because its just like using your fingers on his clitty and very difficult for him to cum so he can be aroused for long periods even while your gone.
This sex machine can also be used for the mundane task of milking him while you do other things to him, use your dildo or toys on yourself,  or other things you need to get done or simple just relaxing and reading a book. I like to pop in a porno and set up the sex machine on slow/low setting to either milk him (with milking vib) or stroke him keeping him on edge while I jump in the shower to get ready for a date, or sometimes just because I don't feel like training that night. There are so many ways to use a sex machine, you just need an imagination. For instances, you could have it peg him while you humiliate him and make his suck your cock in your strap-on. 

   

When doing acts in public, try to stay away from places you normally eat or shop at, you don't want your obvious lifestyle getting back to friends or family. A good idea is to take a day away or weekend away to another city where you will not know anyone. You could also visit the local gay bars there to find him a cock to please for the extra fun and humiliation.