Acting as a Dominatrix (DOM)

                                                        Talking and acting as a Dominatrix
                                                                           By Mistress Elisa
    

                   

                  As a Dominatrix there is a certain demeanor and conduct in which YOU carry yourself. A Dominatrix or Mistress as most are called, is never nice, polite, or understanding about anything when interacting with her bitch. In fact she is and should always be a controlling, cruel, ruthless, bitch towards her submissive, as this asserts her power and authority clearly, and it helps keep his energy and attention focused on obeying and pleasing her. Make no mistake, his energy, attention, and drive should always be focused on pleasing you! Being a strict and cruel mistress leaves no room for confusion as to his place or any illusion that he is an equal, has input, opinion, or choice in the matter HE DOES NOT! This demeanor also helps force his submission and keeps him fearful of disobedience and neglecting his obligations and chores as your bitch. A mistress is always very dominant, aggressive and controlling in every situation when interacting with her bitch. She demands respect and obedience, she doesn't put up with attitude, excuses, BS, or backtalk from her bitch. She makes the rules, sets routines, chores, and gives the orders, he submits and obeys without hesitation or question, period! 

You want a strict routine with rules that outlines his submission and divides the line between your place and his. You want it to be very clear what his true purpose is for you, to serve, to obey, to hand over his pay! He must know, understand, and accept his place as your bitch and that he is not your equal or partner and this is how you want it from here out. You will train him to acknowledge this, and there is only one way to do this, through aggressive dominance! YOU have to be the Mistress and you have to show dominance and power at all times. You cannot mix Femdom with the wife life at all, they will never mix and only causes confusion and disruption, so you must choose one, Mistress or Wife. As a DOM, you will no longer have a husband, you don't need or want one either. You have something drastically better, an obedient, submissive, bitch which is a major upgrade. Your bitch is your property, you own him and can do as you please to him. His job is to give support, do all the chores, cooks, laundry, runs errands, washes the car, and anything else you want done while he serves and obeys your every command. There are no more fights, arguments, discussions, compromise, or caring what he thinks. It all about you and best of all, there is no more having to give pussy to an unsatisfying pathetic clitty dick who could never give you an orgasm!!! Your not trying to win an argument with him, your not trying to persuade him, and your definitely not trying to get his permission. YOU are taking your place and taking full utter control of him, If you want to be successful on your path to the best and most rewarding life and sex, you must accept this, live this, let out your inner sadistic Bitch and enjoy the ride. 

It is his natural place to SUBMIT to you, to serve you and to obey you. This demanding lifestyle requires that YOU must have a certain type of attitude and demeanor that YOU use when interacting with your bitch. Every single interaction with your bitch, no matter how short or quick, regardless if it's physical or verbal, in private or public, always requires you to be a cruel, aggressive, dominant Mistress. Understandably there will be times discussion is needed (kids, work, finances, bills, ect.) however there is a time and a place for this to happen and you must strive to keep it seperate and minimal. You must be ruthless, employ a strict dominance, complete control, and an extreme cruelty type of demeanor at all times, as I said this will force his submission and focus his energy on pleasing you. This aggressive demeanor is crucial for extracting true submission and true obedience from your submissive bitch. Learning to use your power, (pussy has unbelievable power) like snap your fingers, point to the ground, shouting one word commands like kneel are effective in conveying dominance, authority, and ownership. Teach him this and lean new ways to control him. Tactics like face slapping, pulling hair, and spitting in his face or mouth will promote dominance, fear, and submissiveness. You may be aroused and turned on by this power. 

Being dominant, strict, cruel and aggressive will not only empower you, and give you confidence, it's also crucial for reprogramming, and successfully training him to be the best bitch he can be for you. This is what it's all about, your bitch serving and obey you the way you deserve. Once you use this redefined side of yourself, he will naturally begin to submit and obey you. He will begin to draw sexual pleasure (training him correctly) through being on his knees, serving and obeying. Small dick Beta men can not resist obeying a cruel dominant woman and the power of hey pussy, just the smell of pussy is enough to drop him to his knees. This is about your power, your control, after all we are talking about FEMDOM (Female Domination) not play time, or make believe, and no Dominant wants an unruly, back talking, or disobedient bitch boy. When YOU practice these standards, along with keeping him in the proper submissive atmosphere (forced submission, naked, on his knees, serving and obeying) you create a dynamic that feels right to him and it forces his natural submission which empowers you. You will develop a euphoric high at times as his submission takes its course and he accepts his true place as your devoted, obedient bitch. This is about your natural place, making your life better, and giving you what you deserve, an exciting lifestyle with the best and most erotic, thrilling, sex you've ever had. 

Femdom is real, it is a belief and a commitment, a permanent lifestyle, that is life changing. Remember your role here, you are the Mistress training him to be your bitch, to serve, to obey, to submit, to act, and do exactly what he is trained and told to do without hesitation, question, or back talk. This means YOU must be very dominant, cruel, extremely strict, aggressive and do what's necessary for you to train him correctly. You will have to break him, destroy his male ego, humiliate and degrade him as well as torment, punish, and scold him to the point he is not only willing to take his obedient sissy bitch place, but HE BEGS YOU TO BE YOUR BITCH!  He will eventually and very sincerely kneel at your feet and beg you to allow him the privilege to serve and obey you!  This is why standards are the absolute minimal you must act and/or do to reform him to accept his submissive nature. You must understand your place as his mistress and that it is his natural place to suffer for you, to please you, to serve and obey you. It is a privilege to be your bitch, and for him to kneel at your feet, it is a privilege to serve and obey you, and it is a privilege for everything you grant him permission to do. However it is your responsibility to demand this, to train for this, to be his Mistress.....Not his wife, partner or equal. 

Being cruel, aggressive, and a controlling bitch isn't just about the reasons described above, it's also very important because you are keeping his hormones and other key chemicals in his body highly elevated. Basically you are psychologically and even physically changing his mind, body, and thought process to bring out his true submission. It's kinda like a natural form of HRT (hormone replacement therapy) or hormone manipulation much like they do for Transgender people. The difference is your using the males own hormones naturally produced by the males body. High levels of key hormones can cause all sorts of emotions like sadness, anger, or short temper that needs to be keep in check. These are not really what's going through his mind but they can run ramped without control and discipline. So how are you doing this, in a nutshell (pun intended) men are biologically design to need sex and also to cum, hormone driven and they can not resist it. Some of this drive comes from testosterone and other chemicals which are produced by the males nuts. When a male isn't able to orgasm/cum theses hormones build, subsequently wearing a chastity keeps the nuts from withdrawing into the body to slow sperm and hormone production down, which further increases the urge and need to cum. The nuts are producing more cum than the body can reabsorb causing a havoc on the males brain.  

He must be controlled, disciplined, and punished!! He needs it, even if he doesn't know or feel it yet he will want it and it is your responsibility to give it and to teach him his role and purpose to you. It is your responsibility to force him on his knees, into submission, and train him correctly in what you want and don't want out of him. Every night you tie him up should have some focus on humiliation, and verbal training, sometimes physical training. Be very strict and serious about your position and his place at all times. Keep in mind the harder you are on him, how cruel you treat him, the more sever you punish, or the worst you do to him, will be the best return you will get out of him. You will get out of him exactly what you put into him. NEVER feel sorry for him, never give him a break or time off.  You can not be to dominant, strict, or to cruel. The fact is, your going to have to be meaner and crueler than he ever thought possible. He must respect your power and submit, he must fear you and your punishment for disobedience. YOU WILL literally have to make him scream, make him cry, make him beg, and make him want to be your bitch. This is how you know your breaking him and training him correctly. He doesn't know it yet and you may not see it yet, but he will love being on his knees and want to please you more for it, he will be the happiest he's ever been! Best of all, you will have all the freedom, reap all the rewards, benefits, and feel exhilarating, and powerful, just by taking your natural place.

Being strict and cruel helps with your dominance, asserting power and authority, as we are not talking about who is more in charge or who wears the pants in the house and you certainly don't want a power struggle, especially when you find that hot alpha male you want to date regularly. We are talking about absolute power, control and dominance by the female and complete submission and obedience of the male, otherwise known as Femdom (Female Domination). Femdom is completely about female empowerment, authority, control and dominance over her subservient, obedient, male. A Mistress doesn't want a submissive bitch that is unruly, disobedient, backtalks, or questions her as she would never allow any of this, she would beat it out of him with a very severe caning and punishment every time he deserves it. Think about this, YOU are conditioning him, emasculating him breaking his will, and destroying all that is male in him so that you can reprogram and train him to be your bitch. A male that has had years of male egotistical BS , and norms of societal influence (vanilla life) thats has falsely mislead him to think he is the boss. YEARS of this and your going to reprogram in just a few months? YES, it is possible by being the cruel dominant Mistress described here in, while training and punishing him correctly. So do you think you'll be able to achieve your goal by being nice, polite, or asking? Or is it more realistic that you will get exactly what you want and deserve by being a strict, cruel, and sadistic bitch that speaks firmly and gives extreme punishments for disobedience, I THINK YOU KNOW THE ANSWER!!! Talking in a aggressive, demanding voice with the thought of previous severe punishments in the back of his head will get you a more sincere and obedient sissy bitch then politely asking him to do the dishes or fetch you a cold drink. A proper caning will show you the difference of his submission before and after the caning and trust me a severe ass beating will stop all misbehavior and bring forth a very submissive and obedient bitch. A Mistress trains and enforces a very strict routine and guide on how her bitch is to act and obey at all times (even in public) including strict rules he must follow, how he submits, where he submits, household chores he is to complete every day and week ect. Her bitch is well disciplined, very submissive, and obedient bitch. There is no excuse for failure!  

*Femdom is strict enforcement, and complete dominance; physically, verbally and especially mentally. It is, taking all control over the male and forcing his natural submission and obedience to you. The very meaning and whole point of Femdom is "female dominance and power", to dominate, and control every aspect of your male, every minute of the day. TRAIN HIM for everything you want out of him!!!

*Including; his actions, what he does day to day, how he serves, where, when and how he kneels and where he looks while kneeling or addressing you. When and how he speaks if allowed at all, how he begs and how he asks for permissions. Does he use his sissy voice, does he wear panties etc. Everything he does is a privilege and requires permission. When, where and how he sleeps, his diet and how, when and where he eats, his bathroom time, asking for permission, plus when, where and how he does it. Even his thoughts, what he is allowed to think, what he should be thinking about. You will give him a routine, chores and rules to follow at all times, no excuses. He will always address you as mistress, even in public in some form or manner. He will respect you as his mistress and obey at all times no matter the demand or situation. 

* He exist to serve and obey you!!! His purpose is to make your life perfect and do as he is told. You must rule over him 24/7/365 in an extremely strict, very cruel, ruthless manner so that there is no doubt or question that you are in control and his place is on his knees in front of you, as your bitch!

*You will never allow him to orgasm again. Keep his arousal levels very high which will keep his energy high. Use your body to tease and manipulate him. Be seductive, and sexy from time to time. Wearing Dominatrix outfits during training will help enforce your power and make him feel weak. Wear a strap-on during training, make him suck your cock prior to pegging him. Mix up training nights and don't keep repeating the same scene. Use all you tools/toys (ball gag, nipple clamps, electric devices, ball stretcher, ball clamps, urethral toys, etc) at your disposal. Remember binding, tying, cuffing, and locking him down into various positions helps make him feel submissive and keeps him from jolting around during scenes. 

* It is not only his natural place and purpose to serve and obey you, it is a privilege, He should beg you to be there (reminded daily) and thank you for said privilege. He will get no rewards or special treatment for his submission, servitude, and obedience as it is his place and purpose.

* Sex is for your pleasure only, when, where, how, and with whom is none of his business, but you must utilize every humiliating factor with his involvement via watching, listening, participating in a humiliating manner, video it for playback to him, or even sometimes just describing. Cuckolding is mandatory, and he must lick clean all cum messes (there is a strong reason for this). He will be completely denied pussy except for clean up duty and humiliation or reprogramming. He will be locked in chastity 24/7/365 with no exceptions. His only form of sex will be his pegging or ass play, otherwise known as his pussy. He will address it as such or be extremely punished for not doing so. His sex from now on will be fingering or toys for his pussy (prostate, dildo, etc.). He will be tied down and forcefully pegged by you or even another female or forced to take real dick, in whatever manner or scenario you, your girlfriend, or your boyfriend/bull see fit. He will serve in whatever manner he is ordered to do.  

* Cuckolding; You may and should take sexual partner/s, girlfriend, boyfriend or both as you see fit and date casual or serious at your discretion. Remember to humiliate him about the experiences (he's a lot bigger than you - She eats pussy better than you ever could etc.) you have while cuckolding him. You will have sex with whomever you want whenever you want it. Your bitch will accept your sexual freedom and empowerment with no questions asked. He will have no say so, or imput on your sex life. He will be submissive to and obey your girlfriend, bull or boyfriend. He will accept your preference and priority given TO and FOR your boyfriend/bull. He will accept you giving full control AKA ownership of your pussy to your boyfriend/bull. He will accept his place to sexually be used, performing any and all sex acts commanded to him by you, your girlfriend, or your boyfriend/Bull, or any other male dominant you see fit. He will accept that any participation YOU allow him with regards to your sex or pleasure rather it be; watching, listening, performing, to be a very gracious privilege and never expected. 

*Sissy bitch training is optional but will include; He will be feminized and taught to be feminine. He will be called a sissy or bitch at all times especially when you call for him or introduced to others. He will wear sissy panties 24/7/365 no exceptions. He will wear sissy outfits including body suits, skirts, panty hose, heals, bra's, lingerie, wigs, make-up, thigh highs etc. at all times POSSIBLE or just to please his mistress like during training sessions or even to entertain you and/or guest/boyfriends. He will be trained to suck dick and balls. He will be used regularly (at least 4 times a month) to enforce his sissification and maintain sissy humiliation, by BI-sexual or gay men, whom every you see fit. This could be one nite stands or ongoing service found on bi-sexual sites/apps or gay clubs. At your discretion, he may also be forced to serve and obey other bi-sexual or gay men from said places for your enjoyment, for humiliation, or to complete his sissy transformation. Nevertheless, his only permitted orgasms will be sissygasms and they will only be granted after he has sucked dick (real or dildo) and begged for dick. You will train him and forced him to moan like a true sissy in a femme voice while being pegged or used. He will be trained to show his femme side for the males you subject him to. He will use words like "my pussy", " my clitty", when referencing them. He will acknowledge and admit that he is a cockslut, cockwhore, or cumslut for reference and added humiliation. He will watch gay, sissy or trans porn, with the exception of BBC for humiliation. He will attend LGBTQ events and clubs at your discretion. 

*Free time; he has no free time ever! When he is not messaging you, cooking, cleaning, running errands, serving, amusingly being abused, tortured, punished, teased or humiliated (which he should be always) then he is just kneeling at your feet or in a corner thinking about how he could better serve you or your lovers. He will come home immediately after work and knell naked at your feet or in his predetermined place waiting for your orders. He will serve and obey with gratitude and eagerness. 

*Punishments will be severe; All forms of hitting devices will be used. Punishments will be given for every and any infraction and compounded for repeated offensives. They will be given at the time of rule breaking or ASAP if not possible. Punishments can and will include corporal or hitting the bottom with punishment devices as well as the balls, nipples, dick, and face slapping. Punishments do not have a time limit, they end when you say they end. Punishments are not limited to hitting and may be combined to include various electro devices, anal stretchers, nipple clamps, dick devices like urethral stretcher or plugs, ball stretchers, clamps or other ball devices, mouth gags, blindfolds or masks, mouth spreaders, strait jackets or other bindings, hot wax on balls or nipples, chemical compounds such as creams (tiger balm etc.) ginger in the anus, corner time, sucking dildos in the corner, humiliating poses and more. Punishments can also be given with others watching or participating. Punishments may also include public humiliation, with events or orders.                      

*SPEAK WITH AUTHORITY and a demanding voice/tone, using dominant words like these;  You are to -------- You will--------- Go do/get-------Fetch me-------Take your fucking place-------- Get on your fucking knees------Shut your fucking mouth-------Get in the fucking corner--------Do as you are told etc. The point is to show dominance and make him feel as he has no choice.

You must be cruel beyond what you thought possible (or maybe you did👿), you must do sadistic things like; spitting in his face or mouth, pissing on his face or mouth, making him lick clean all cum messes, eat and drink from dog dishes on the floor, put him in a cage hours/overnight/permanently, beat his balls, abuse to amuse (use punishment toys on him like ball gag, CBT, hot candle wax, electrical etc), make him serve a friend or boyfriend (naked or in lingerie or sissy maid outfit), Suck your dildo/teach to suck dick, be used by trans/BI/Gay men, cuckold him with a female or male lover. Make him potty in kitty litter box and clean it up (he'd need to for cage time anyway) Use your imagination and/or watch BDSM clips for more examples. You must break him to the point he is powerless to do anything but accept his natural role to serve and obey, and you will tell him this. 

*When I say strict, I very much mean Strict! Do you forbid him to make eye contact? He should be looking at the floor unless ordered to look at you. Do you make him address you as his mistress ALWAYS (even in public) it is all about respecting your authority? Do you make him ask for permission to do everything, including speaking and restroom privilege's? Everything you allow is a privilege and it requires permission, you may or may not allow it. 

*HUMILIATION; Do you humiliate him throughout the day by calling him or sending humiliating text? Have you started training him to be a sissy? Have you cuckolded him- do you cuckold him regularly? Have you started an ad for him on any fetish site looking for a master to serve? Have you started an ad for him on any trans/BI/gay sites (like grindr-hornet-gadar-manplay etc.) to slut him out or get used? Have you taken him LGBTQ bars or night clubs? Do you take pictures of him in humiliating positions or poses (like sucking your strap-on or getting pounded by the strap-on), pics of his ass or chastity, wearing panties, in sissy lingerie, and post them on his ad's to attract trans/BI/gay men? Does he not have a small pathetic clitty, does he not suck in bed, is he not a pathetic (sissy) bitch, is he better suited to pleasure cock, is his purpose to serve and obey, These are some of the things you will humiliate him about daily! Do you make him kneel in public? Do you make him wear T-shirts in public that say humiliating phrases like; HER BITCH, THE BITCH, HER PROPERTY, SHORT DICK MAN, TINY COCK, SISSY, SISSY SLUT, I GO DOWN, CAGED, OWNED, etc? Do you write on his ass cheeks or above his clitty with a permanent marker "cock slut-sissy bitch- clitty-owned etc.   

*Do you make him tell you he is your bitch and what his purpose is for you? Do you make him grovel at your feet at least 3-4 times a week? Do you make him lick/worship/kiss your ass 2-3 times a week? *Do you make him lick and put his tongue into your asshole while you use a vib on yourself? Do you straddle his face allowing him to stare at you pussy while you play with it and spread it open to really turn him on and put him into a trance? Do you bend over the bed with him kneeling on the floor nose in your pussy or sit on his face with his nose in your pussy so he can smell it and in hale copulins to put him into a trance? do you make him smell your panties or wear them over his head? Do you walk him around naked on a leash? Do you walk him around in public on a leash? Do you take him to strip clubs? Do you humiliate him at strip clubs by paying a stripper to come sit on his lap to humiliate him about his clitty dick and how he's your bitch? OR she takes him into the back for a private dance but instead of dancing she unzips his pants to expose his clitty in the chastity and laughs and makes fun of how small and pathetic it is and how he should be groveling at your feet for the privilege of being your bitch. Do you make him wear a chastity 24/7/365? All of this is part of training and reprogramming him.

*Are you training him to be a sissy? Do you make him wear panties everyday or girly attire. Does he wear a french maid outfit to clean in? Do you make him practice giving head on a dildo? Do you make him shave off all his body hair (at least the genital area)? Do you peg him 3-5 times a week? Do you have him used 1-2 times a week. Have you taken him to gay parties/clubs/events? Have you gathered up all of his underwear and put them away so that he can only wear panties? Have you ordered him a fufu clip? Have you made him wear wigs, make up, painted his toes or fingernails. (clear or colored depending on situation)? Do you make him eat like a sissy and clean out regularly?

*Do you make him kneel in the corner just because? Do you make him practice sucking cock while you read a book or watch TV? Do you make him wear a butt plug or prostate device around the house or out in public? do you do it several times a week? Do you make him follow rules and do chores naked? Do you cane him once a week for submission reminders or just because you enjoy hearing him scream? Do you have a cage for your bitch (if not buy one)? Do you make him stay in a cage when you go out or have someone over? Do you make him sleep in his cage sometimes or always? Do you tell him what he is allowed to eat and when he may eat? After all he needs to stay clean for taking dick! Do you make him wait to eat after you? Do you forbid him to eat when dining out and instead do you make him eat and drink all meals from dog bowls on the floor? Do you forbid him to speak in public unless spoken to and do you order his meals making him eat what you decide? Do you make him use a kitty litter box? Do you spit in his face at least 1-2 times a week (remember not to allow him to wipe it off) or do you spit in his mouth a few times a week (mix it up)? Do you make him wear a collar at all times possible? Do you walk him on his hands and knees with a leash at least 3 or 4 times a week? Do you make him kneel always? Do you make him crawl away from you before he can stand up? Do you make him stay naked at all times possible? Do you piss on his face or in his mouth at least once a month? Do you use torture devices on him like ball stretcher, ball crusher or smasher, anus stretcher, urethral stretcher, gates of hell (if you find one small enough), Shocking devices, suction cups, ball gag or mouth spreader (both do different things) penis pump (it actually hurts when left on for 10 minutes or so) Icy hot or tiger balm on balls or nipples? nipple clamps, ball clamps or cups?  Do you stretch his ass with large dildos or toys at least once a week? Does it turn you on to torture him with your toys as described above? Do you make him clean on his hands and knees? Do you make him clean with his mouth or a toothbrush or other humiliating devices? Do you cuckold him regularly (at least 2 or 3 times a week)? Do you humiliate him about the cuckolding (bigger, better, last longer, make you cum many times, cum harder, get fucked in many positions, allow him to do things your bitch can't, cum inside you? Do you make him listen or watch on occasions, do you forbid him to listen or watch most times?  Do you make him lick clean every cum mess, even his own? These are all things a Dominatrix does to her bitch, If you don't do these things, ALL OF THEM, then you are not being a proper Dominatrix, and you are definitely not being dominant and cruel enough, you are not taking your position serious!

For you the Sissy Bitch

You are reading this because your Mistress is taking her rightful place as your superior and putting you in your natural and proper place. This is a gift, and a privilege to serve, obey, and knell at the feet of your Mistress. She will train you to be her bitch, her cock whipped sissy slut and give you explicit instruction on how you are to act and  behave. This is meant for you to read, to understand, to accept, and live by as this will be your life from here out! Its time you realize your here now on your knees because this is where you fucking belong! You were meant to kneel and serve your mistress, to follower her rules, orders, to clean HER fucking house and obey her every command. Stop fooling yourself thinking you have any choice in the matter or that someday you might be allowed the privilege to feel her beautiful warm, smooth, and tight pussy ever again!!! Those days are over bitch and you will never feel her pussy or any pussy ever again, let alone be permitted an orgasm!

You are now owned and the property of your mistress, it is your natural place to be submissive to your mistress and to accept her as your boss and only authority in the house. You are nothing more than her sissy bitch and house servant and it is not only your purpose to serve her, obey her, and hand over your pay check, it is a privilege to do this and submit to her. As a female and your mistress, she is naturally superior to you, and if you really thought about it you would realize its your natural place to knell at her feet. Deep down inside you can't explain it, but you feel the urge to kneel and obey as she commands. DO NOT FIGHT IT, embrace it, let it consume you and every thought you have from this point forward. That urge is there to guide you to your true place, on your knees begging to serve and worship your mistress. You were meant to serve her, to obey her, and worship the ground she walks on. As the man and her sissy bitch, you are inferior to her, you are hers to command, hers to do with as she pleases. As you read this you know its true, you can't help but obey her when she shouts out orders. You feel your heart race and your small pathetic penis stiffens in the chastity at the though of kneeling at her feet, just inches away from her tight pussy that you will no longer have and that you no longer deserve anything at all to do with it. You can't resist it, the thought of serving and obey her feels right and you are powerless to stop it. You are sexually aroused at the fact that you can't help but want to serve her, that you are helpless to do anything but take you fucking place and obey your mistress! As her bitch, you need to bring out her true dominant self, accept her control over you and do as your commanded. Its your place to serve her, to clean up after her, to clean the house, and any other chore needing done while she has free time to do what ever the fuck she wants.

You need to accept the truth...The only way you can please your mistress is by serving and obeying her. Your pathetic clitty is to small, to short, and to thin to give her or any woman pleasure, it has never done anything for her as you were meant to please her on your knees. You know its true, accept it and take your rightful place at her feet, and you will be much happier and so will she! Think about it, when was the last time she wanted sex? You were always the one who asked for it. When did you ever hear her scream or even moan for that matter? Has she ever told you she had a good orgasm or even got off? You've watched porn, you know the screaming and moaning I'm referring to, or maybe you were lucky enough to have already been cuckolded, probably even many times by now. You've seen her with a lover or a boyfriend, does that hot passionate sex sound or look anything like what you could do? HA HA HA, your pathetic and you know you have never satisfied your mistress. Especially they way she wants, needs or DESERVES!!!! Look at your penis if you even can, maybe its already locked up where it should be, in a small chastity device to keep you from playing with the pathetic thing. But still look at how small and pathetic it is, look at how small your balls are. Even rock hard its 2 to 3 fingers at best to hold it. You've seen your cock hard, probably as recent as training and its no where near or any comparison to the size of a real man also known as her boyfriend or lover. There is a big difference, not only in size and performance from her lover but also how she actually gets turned on by him, how she wants and craves sex with him and his big cock. Its humiliating isn't it, but you can't help but submit to her getting what she wants and deserve, you can't help but beg to lick her clean after her sex, you know thats your place, especially because you know its the only time you get that close to her intoxicating pussy! What are you 5 to 5 and 1/2 inches? or even worse, under 5. The true is, if your less than 6.5 inches which is average you should never have had the ability to stick that puny thing in her. She deserve more, she deserves a real man's dick, one that will actually give her the pleasure she needs, and wants. You were selfish for even making her suffer through the 5 minutes of sex with you that did nothing but get you off. You don't ever deserve pussy again, it should be locked away for good and you should do every thing she commands to please her.

She should be enjoying real dick, by real men, not a submissive bitch who should beg her every day to be allowed the privilege to serve her and be inches away from her beautiful, warm, wet, pussy!
you need to accept your place, get on your knees and ask her what she truely wants, and what she wants from you. If she tells you in a serious manner, that she wants your on your knees, chaste and serving her from now on and the ability to fuck who ever she wants, its done! you know then what she wants and what you need to do. It is your place to serve her, and she knows you know its your place to serve her. accept whats in your heart and whats in hers and serve your Mistress!

Proper Pegging and Technique

                                     Pegging and Technique

Pegging is just the proper word in the BDSM/FEMDOM community for fucking your man in the ass with your strap-on dildo. Why would a Dominatrix want to peg her bitch? Well there are many reason why she may want to, and there is every reason she should. For one, there are fewer ways better than to emasculate a man by fucking him in the ass, which only compounds as he starts to love it and becomes addicted to it. It may turn her on or she may like the power she feels by taking his ass with her much larger cock. She may love to hear him scream and moan from it forcing his sissygasms, or she may love watching the penetration as it stretches his ass open with every deep thrust. She will definitely love how submissive it makes him. She may even want to permanently cuckold him and date a full time boyfriend, using pegging to completely deny him pussy. She may be a sadistic Dom and want to turn him into a sissy, manipulating his pleasure zone, forcefully and skillfully reprogramming him to become a cock whipped cum slut, begging to suck and get fucked by real cock. Or she may want to peg for all of the above, but regardless the reason, pegging is a very strong tool for training, submission, and psychological reconditioning of his mind.

 At first he will resist, struggle against it, beg you not to, and even think its gay. There is nothing gay about it and you will force him to take it to increase your power over him. It will become one of your most valuable tools to keep him submissive and help take sex completely away from him. It will eventually (with training and punishments) wipe out his ego, help turn him sissy, and drastically reduce the male moncho attitude (as long as your training correctly and punishing). Eventually he will love it, but more importantly, crave it, need it and even beg for it. This adds to the humiliation, authority, and power you have, as your the only way he gets it. It's also the only way to transform him into a sissy bitch, if you want to go that route and most do. Pegging is also mental training, meaning it will help to rearrange his thinking process and increase the need to obey you. Explained; Once you start locking up that little dicklet and take away orgasms, this will switch his pleasure zone from his dicklet to his ass. His ass will eventually be transformed into a pussy, chemically and physically. He will become dependent on your big cock and you owning his ass for his pleasure. When he becomes dependent on your cock, that means he has more less accepted that he will not be allowed pussy and give in to the only pleasure you allow him, COCK! Which he really has no choice because your going to force him to love it, as your cock will work its magic on his tight little hole. He literally won't be able to resist it, as it will force him to have sissygasms after sissygasm and submit to your cock. Plus it will be his only pleasure, even though it will never lead to a real orgasm or any sexual satisfaction or release. Every sub is different plus depending on how long he has gone without pussy or an orgasm and any prior training you've done with him will determine how quickly he becomes submissive to your cock.

WEAR YOUR STRAP-ON

Wearing your strap-on is a show of power, it is a symbol of control and dominance. It emphasizes your place as the dominant and his as the submissive (sissy if trained this way) and magnifies the atmosphere of female domination. It helps in turning him sissy and becoming cock whipped. It will eventually be erotic and sexy to him, as it is to every submissive bitch. You should wear your harness and dildo just about every training day, but at least 4 out of the 7 days a week. You can always remove it during training but at least start out with it on, even if you don't plan to peg him with it. This helps build anticipation, gets him use to seeing cock, preps him for the real thing (if that is your goal) and allows for you to force him to suck it for humiliation (or prep for the real thing). If your pegging with a strap-on he should always be tied down. This prepares him for the real thing as he will always be in chastity and tied down when you have him fucked by a real cock. Did I mention how much of a turn on it is to watch your bitch kneel, beg, and suck your cock, let alone a real cock!

Rather you are starting out new, or been pegging him for a bit, you need to read and follow all steps exactly as written.

Step 1; At this stage his ass is just that, an ass hole you want to peg, but you eventually want it to become a fuck hole, a bonafide pussy that craves cock just as much as you do. Firstly, it is very important that you peg him for a minimum of 20 minutes, but ideally 30 minutes or more, every night for 2 to 3 weeks to get him use to getting your cock. This is because you want this to be normal for him, you want him to accept his new role and pleasure. You want to turn that ass hole into a dribbling wet pussy and to feel as though he was meant to take cock and to please it. If possible, you should try to peg him 2 or even 3 times a day as this will really help make him cock submissive and turn him into a cock slut for your cock, IT does make a difference. If you have the ability to peg him multiple times a day, you don't need to do training on him every time you peg, unless you want to of course. Just tie him down and fuck him, then make him clean up and back to doing chores or what ever. TO START OUT the first week, use a dildo that's not to thick or long but above average. Just like you, he will prefer thickness over length so you will eventually go up in size to give his ass a good stretch. It is important that you ALWAYS start off licking (until you start permanent chastity) his clitty for a minimal of 10 minutes to build up arousal levels, as this is what intensifies the nerve endings and receptors around his ass and prostate making touch and friction really pleasurable. This will also switch his pleasure zones and link his now and normal pleasure to only getting anal pleasure. After he is aroused properly, start off with finger play, using one finger to rub the outside first and work up to sliding it in. Then work up to using 2 fingers and pay attention to what pleases him more using those motions the most, but switch it up every so often, just not to much. After you permanently lock up his clitty you will start off rubbing his hole, then fingering it, and then go straight to pegging. After you see he is very aroused or excited introduce a finger to his ass but only to rub around the hole at first then eventually insert it. Humiliation is very important for training and the psychological influence of pegging and cuckolding. During pegging you want to humiliate him about how much of a sissy he is. Laugh at him mildly and tell him he was meant to please cock. Tell him this is his sex from now on, being fucked like the little sissy bitch he is and he will never feel the pleasure of pussy again. Tell him you are going to permanently lock away his clitty.  Humiliate him the entire time you fuck him, but also during the day about how he is a cock slut and so on. You will humiliate him from here out, about being a cock slut (sissy if that's your training). Use the techniques listed at the bottom of the post.

Step 2, second week; During this step there is not much difference than the first week except starting the second week its time to go up in size. Use a dildo that is around 7 inches long and 2 inches thick or 6 inches around. Even if he is not a beginner, this is a good stretch dildo and will work his prostate very well giving him great sissygasms. This cock is the cock that you fuck him with regularly from here out (or cocks close to this size with different textures or shapes). Now is the time to start making him suck your dildo prior to using it on him, unless you have been pegging prior. If so then start off making him suck it. Fuck him with this cock for 2 weeks and remember it is very, very important to continue to humiliate him and use the techniques at the bottom of this post.

Step 3, forth week; By now he has more or less accepted pegging, especially after you start fucking him and he backs up on your cock (as long as your following this guide). He is probably very verbal with moans and screams and tells you he loves your cock. His ass has become more like a pussy, it gets wet, cums, and is starting to crave your strap-on cock. However its not broken in yet and is far from ready for real cock. In this 4th week, you will go up in size again, this will be his every now and then cock so you want it to give him a really good stretch, around 7.5 to 8 inches long and 2.25 to 2.50 inches thick. This cock is the cock that you use to really make him moan and sissygasm hard, but you don't want to use it every time (unless you want him to be a size queen or fisting). You will start off with the normal cock and then switch to the the large one. Again this week is just the introduction to the large cock, don't start out using it and only use it 2 0r 3 of the 7 days. The goal is to peg him until he has fully accepted it, wants it, needs it, and craves it. Meaning there is no resistance when you offer him the privilege of getting fucked and he is moaning and screaming soon as you start fucking him. You want him hooked on your cock, more less addicted to it, and trust me he won't be able to stop it or control his urge and is well on his way to becoming your sissy bitch. Remember to humiliate daily and use the techniques at the bottom of this post.

Step 4; After the end of the 4 weeks he has fully accepted pegging and his ass is now a bonafide pussy. He loves cock, feels submissive towards it and can't resist you offering it to him and is even begging for it. It's time to give him a 2 day break to let his urge/need for your cock build. During this time you should humiliate him and also tease him by using lube and rub around his pussy, by now just rubbing the outside of his pussy will give him a lot of pleasure and build his urgency to need cock, especially while licking his clitty. Eventually after rubbing and teasing his pussy you will finger it, go slow and don't use to much pressure (to much pressure is bad on the prostate). Remember its not the in and out of your finger that gives pleasure (like his clitty its to skinny) its the rub of his prostate. You can rub in a figure 8 pattern, a circle, back and forth/ side to side, the come here gesture, or mix them up, but see what works best on him. You may also use vibrating butt plugs, or prostate toys to build his need for cock. 

Step 5; by the end of 2nd day break he should be all worked up and horny for your cock, if not then give it another day. Now its time to make him show how bad he wants it by begging for it before you give it to him. You will make him beg good for it and begging should include him on his knees, worshiping your feet and then sucking your cock (and balls if there are some), with a lot of heavy humiliation. Tell him to get use to sucking cock, that he was made to please cock (you want him to know and believe this is his place and that he was meant to please cock). Tell him that he will suck what ever cock you tell him and soon he will be sucking a lot of the real cock. Keep up the humiliation and make sure you grab his hair or the back of his head and pull his mouth on your cock as he is sucking it. Take it out of his mouth and smack him in the face with it 2 or 3 times, then tell him to suck it real good. Try to use a dildo that has balls so that you can tell him to suck your balls. Once he has begged to your pleasing your going to tie him down and fuck him really good and hard. You want to treat him just like a cock slut, talking to him in a firm demanding voice as you pound his pussy good. Make him tell you how much he loves it, and thank you for that privilege, continue as you smack his ass hard over and over off and on through out the fucking. Rather you train him to be a sissy bitch or not this is very good humiliation for him and makes him submit to your cock.

Step 6; After that pounding give him another 2 day break and repeat step 5 above. Remember to play with his pussy during that break. Use a finger (or 2) a but plug, or other toys (that is not a dildo or resemble one). Again make sure he is all worked up and horny or give another day. Do as before and tie him down, only this time your going to make him suck another dildo cock while you fuck him (suction the dildo to a plate or wall). Start off  making him suck the cock for a bit, force his head up and down on it. While he sucks it get a cane or leather strap and start smacking his ass and make him tell you he loves it, if not hit him 20-30 times as you say in a firm voice, "Tell me you fucking love it!' Them make him tell you he accepts his place as your cock slut (sissy cock slut if training for it). You may humiliate him more, but at some point while he is sucking the cock, your going to start fucking him while he sucks it. Make sure he sucks it the whole time and humiliate him about how he's going to please real cock from now on. Smack his ass hard with a short cane, whip or leather strap as you fuck him hard and demand him to suck that cock. This is his place from now on and you want him to know and believe this so you need to be serious and dominant while forcing him into his cock slut place. 

Step 7; At this point he is 100 % a cock slut and ready for permanent cuckolding or full time boyfriend. If you already have one, definitely proceed to permanent chastity. If your training him to take the real cock and or suck it, now is the time to bring someone in. You will take the last 2 day break, then during training your going to tease him by spending a lot of time rubbing the outside of his pussy and edge of his hole while you lick his little clitty. Then you will start fingering him and get him all worked up. You will tell him that you will allow him the privilege of your cock one more time as from this point he will only be allowed your big cock when you feel he deserves it. From this point you will essentially be repeating step 6 above . Only difference is your going to make him confess that he is your cock slut (sissy if training). Your going to make him beg you (on his knees), worshiping your feet at first, then ordered to suck your cock, and while doing so, confess that he is your bitch.....That he is your little cock slut.....That he is cock whipped and will be your Bitch from then on (sissy, if training for this). Make him tell you how much he loves your big cock stretching his pussy open and how he will do anything to have it. Make him say all of this, and then tell him he is not a man, he is your pathetic bitch (Sissy if training) and that he will shave all hair on his body (at least pubic hair) and wear panties from now on. After you have humiliated him to your satisfaction, you will tie him down doggie style and peg him. At this point you will tell him you want to hear him moan and scream, that he better be a good little sissy bitch and take it deep and hard for you. Smack his ass hard and pull his hair and his nuts. During his pegging make sure you humiliate him and tell you he loves your cock, and who's pussy it is. You should fuck him for at least 45 min. to bring out the little cock slut you've created and when finished, make him get on his knees and thank you for allowing him to be your bitch. If he dribbles or oozes precum, he is to lick it clean.

By now he is your cock whipped bitch and eager slut, your pussy can now be completely taken away from him and freely given to whom ever you choose as much and as often as you want. However it is very important that he never be allowed sex, or an orgasm with his clitty, only milking. Milking is not the same as cumming with an orgasm via his penis.

The prostate when stimulated grants him pleasure, much like penis stimulation, but it is a different kind of pleasure. Prostate stimulation uses a network of nerves that are more dense and out number penis nerves 2 to 1. This causes the brain to release higher levels of dopamine, serotonin and oxycontin, the hormones responsible for pleasure during normal sex and they are very addictive. The male brain is not set up to handle this type of pleasure, especially for this long of time. His brain becomes flooded with chemicals that cause a breakdown in normal thinking and reasoning. This is why you see him transform into a submissive, (now a cock loving submissive) and why he mumbles and agrees to anything you say. All he knows is that he loves the pleasure of that big cock and he wants more. He wants that big cock fucking him from then on and is now much more trainable to achieve it. At this point you could literately get him to admit, acknowledge, agree, or do anything. This addiction and higher levels of pleasure are how doms control subs, turn subs sissy, and how they get them hooked on cock, leaving them free to cuckold as much as they want. His desire for pussy will always be there, he will always crave it and be dependent on pussy. This is some what because of copulins, natures way of keeping men chasing women but also the pleasure pussy gives. While you will never rid him of the want, need and desire to get pussy, you can bury it deep and put way out of thought now that he has experienced this type of pleasure through pegging. Especially this pleasure he is permitted, pleasure he is being trained to accept as natural for the place he was meant to be in and what he was meant for.

While the prostate pleasure is greater, it can't lead to a penis orgasm with out also stimulation of the penis (studies show 99 % of men can't cum from pegging alone and need some sort of penis/ball stimulation to achieve penis orgasm while being pegged) When you peg him, the stimulation is built much like your own with vaginal sex, so he feels pleasure the entire time only once it reaches maximum climax there is no penis orgasm which is another reason why this is a powerful tool for a Dominatrix. Once the pleasure is built up to its highest level of pleasure, it can maintain that climax for up to 15 seconds as his stomach and anal muscles contract, it then subsides. That is known as a prostate orgasm, better known as a sissy orgasm (sissygasm for short). That's a far longer sensation than what a penis orgasm gives. Like you he can have multiple sissygasms but he will never feel any real relief  because he did not orgasm through his clitty and the cum stays in his balls. After several weeks of pegging him (or if you have pegged him prior to this training) mixed with chastity and no penis orgasm he will start to cum through his ass. That's right, he will cum through his ass, you are slowly chemically transforming his ass into a pussy. This cum is not the same as penis cum as it comes directly from the prostate and contains no sperm, it will however smell the same. Eventually with sexual excitement, his pussy will even get wet (the use of lube is still needed for fucking him).

A sissygasm bypasses the nerves associated with a penis climax, which force muscle contractions to ejaculate cum. This also releases dopamine, and serotonin (on a smaller scale) but also prolactin which is a chemical to rest and reset the body and makes him not need sex for several days (varies by male). Essentially he is experiencing sex similar to the way you do, it builds then releases and then builds again and again. Only far less as intense as you feel it and with out that finial climax that leads to your orgasm. As stated above after he has loss penis orgasms for a while, his pussy can also get very wet as the arousal state builds, and he can even loose cum through his prostate when he experiences a sissygasm. Again the relation to "sissy orgasm" and nick name of his ass to a "pussy". The repeated build up and release of pleasure with out satisfaction of orgasm can drive him into a submissive sex frenzy, pleading and begging for your cock. This intense pleasure and the key brain chemicals with the added loss of penis climax is what makes pegging very addictive and him more submissive.

This is what makes pegging such a powerful tool for a dominatrix plus the humiliation aspect of it, you control it, and he can't orgasm from pegging alone. This allows you to constantly keep him on edge and stimulated the whole time your fucking him with out the fear of him cumming. Also men were not meant to experience that intense of pleasure nor for the duration as they do when getting pegged. Which is why the prostate is inside his ass, hidden. Experiencing this pleasure from a dominant woman with the combination of chastity and loss of orgasm can bring powerful feelings of submission from him. Men don't have the sexual capacity or nerve path ways to deal with that pleasure like women do, even though its no where as intense as what we experience. Sex for them is not the same as it is for us, as they actually experience 95% of the total pleasure they have from the orgasm. Its just powerful enough to cause the muscle to spasm to shoot his sperm out. When they do experience the prolonged intense pleasure with out cumming, they become very submissive and can basically loose control including, moaning, screaming, and sometimes even crying, with willingness to obey any command. Seeing him this submissive and loose control like this is very arousing and intoxicating to a dominatrix, and this is the time you want to humiliate and show your authority . The submission comes from not being able to handle that amount of pleasure for that amount of time and the fact you control it and even force it. Also the psychological effect of you literally forcing that pleasure through penetration at which they have no control. You see, with his penis he could loose interest, not want it and go limp, but when you force pegging on him or even prostate play, he not only has no control physically, but also mentally as there is no going limp and he is literally forced to take the building pleasure leading to his moaning and screaming but with no end or climax for him as he can't cum.

For Beginners;
Before you peg it would probably be better if you watch several videos, this is to get a view of the actual act and the basics. While its pretty straight forward, there is actually a technique to doing a good job, even though the videos might not show it but I'll get into that a little later. Once you get an understanding of whats actually going on, and how to go about it visually, you should be ready to do it. Your first time take it slow and remember he probably isn't excited about taking your cock. He is more than likely dreading it and nervous, thinking its going to hurt, and it might if you go to fast. You don't want it to hurt, you want him to enjoy it, to love it, to need it and to become depended on it. He is also humiliated that your forcing him to be fucked by a cock, and one thats bigger than his. Thats ok, humiliation only adds to his submission and mind control, especially down the road when he is begging you to fuck him.

After the first time, he is no longer a virgin, and unknowingly taken a big step to being your bitch. He has been mind fucked as well as ass fucked because of this; He has been forcefully penetrated by a larger cock than his little dicklet and ended up enjoying it. He has now lost part off his manhood and humiliated that he was forced to take it, but even worse he started to enjoy it and wants more. This humiliation is good because its the first step to breaking him and wiping away his manhood which you drastically need to do in order to get the true submissive you want. Once he realizes he has no control and admits to his self that he gets great pleasure from it, he will accept it, as well as other humiliating submissive acts. Once he accepts that his pleasure now only comes from your cock he will actually loose more of his manhood and take another step towards being your perfect bitch. As the pegging becomes more of a on going reality he will start to get more pleasure because of not fighting it. The humiliation doesn't stop there, once he does accept it and desires your cock, he will be humiliated that he can't help himself, and he truly can't, he is dependent and addicted to that pleasure. Now more humiliated that he needs it and is willing to beg for it and eventually do anything to get it. Even more so if he is made to do other humiliating acts to be granted that privilege. If he only knew what was coming.*BIG GRIN*  This is why you will want to make him beg for it, preferably on his knees and made to suck it before before fucking him.

OK, Before your first time you will need to make sure his horniness is built up for several weeks. During that time you will also need to start using toys and your finger to manipulate his prostate. This will break the barrier from virgin ass to pegging and get him use to something going into his ass as well as the pleasure his prostate is capable of giving, and even a finger or 2 can have him moaning like a little girl. Also no pussy or orgasms at all, as you should have already started switching his pleasure from his penis to his ass. This way those areas are far more sensitive and easily stimulated. Take sometime time to play before you insert a finger or toy into his ass. Get some lube and Rub/message his ass hole and perineum (the area between his ass and balls) independently and at the same time. You should also take some time to lick (only, not suck) the underside of his head and lick his balls. After a few minutes he should be loving it, A LOT! His asshole its self will give him a lot of pleasure now that he has not been getting orgasms, and this pleasure will lead to him wanting you to stick your finger in, and eventually your cock. This is now his only erogenous zone and soon the trick to have him begging for your cock. It is the most important place on his body, for him and you from now on, especially if you wish to turn him sissy. Soon that will be the only place he gets pleasure, and the only place he will think about. After playing with his special spots for a while, go a head and slowly stick one finger in. Move it in and out a bit and then start to rub his prostate gently. Use finger motions to rub, example; figure 8, side to side, circles-little o's and big o's, the come hither (come here movement), back and forth, or any combination of the above. pay attention to the ones that make him moan louder as those are the ones that touch that special spot. Again take some time here and there to lick his balls and the underside of his head. (after a few times of playing with just one finger) Now its time to really get him moaning,  pull out and get some lube on 2 fingers and slowly slide them both in. After playing with his prostate for a bit and then using 2 fingers, the pleasure is probably more than he can handle, so be sure not to touch his dicklet very much as you don't want him to orgasm. Just keep teasing his head now and then and he will be begging to serve you. after you have had your fun and he is good and horny, now its time to roll him over.

Time for Pegging
He should always be tied down when training but also when pegging and its always best to get him horny before. Always use a finger to loosen up his ass or butt plug at some point during training before you go shoving your cock in his ass. As time goes on this may not be necessary or at best just a finger or two right before will do the trick to loosen him up. The best position for pegging is doggy style (especially for the first time)as it give you more control and it allows you to pull his hair and smack his ass through out the pegging. After a few times when he is use to getting your cock, you will want to change it up now and then by putting him on his back for pegging, standing him up bent over the bed or other ways. Always use a condom on your dildo, unless its only used for his ass. Use plenty of lube and keep it lubed if needed.

Start out slow giving his ass time to adjust to the size (the bigger the dildo the longer he may need). Slide it in inch by inch taking a few minutes in between until he can take it all (hit bottom) and then give him a few minutes to get use to the whole cock in his ass (the first few times you may need to ask feed back from him). Now slowly pump in and out with short strokes giving his ass time to adjust to the motion. After you see that he is relaxing and accepting the cock you can use longer strokes and slowly start working your way to fucking him fast and hard. Use his reactions to judge by how fast and hard you slam it in him. You will learn his body reactions and better technique the more times you do it, As time goes on he will eventually start moaning and screaming like a girl when pleasure is at its best for him, and may even try to back up on it as you fuck him. This is a good time to laugh at him and tell him things like, "my little bitch loves that cock doesn't he or she) Make him answer and ask him who's bitch he is as you smack his ass hard 3 times, then keep humiliating him!

*Technique*
Use your hands a lot, grab his hips pulling him back firmly towards your cock as you fuck him. This teaches him you have control. Pull his hair, smack his ass hard and loud, leave deep red hand prints to show as ownership later after the fucking. Smack it off and on during the whole time and occasionally grab his balls by the base and pull. Ideally you will want to fuck him just like you like getting fucked doggy style, driving that cock in good and hard. *NOTE* Its very important in making his ass feel owned and thus the smacking of the ass leaving the hand prints for visual after. This is a mental training as well as psychical. You want him to believe you own his ass but more importantly you want him to want you to own it.

*Technique*
 Just like for you getting fucked by a guy who knows how to fuck good, you need to learn how to fuck him good. The best positions for his pleasure and more fun is doggie style followed by him bent over the bed, next would be his ass on the edge of the bed with legs straight up (in chains) while he is on his back and you stand and fuck, followed by missionary, just remember he should be in chastity and tied down. While fucking him, from time to time go slow and use your hands to really spread his ass cheeks far apart, let him feel his ass crack spread which puts more sensation on his ass hole. You should also do this now and then when fucking him faster as well. You should be very verbal, this is the perfect time to degrade and humiliating him about how much of a bitch he is (and sissy if you want) and how much he loves your cock. Say things like, "you like my big cock taking this ass, don't you?" After he says yes, and he will, tell him"your going to be my bitch from now aren't you?" this is a great time to make him feel like your submissive little bitch, and to want to be your bitch. Also remember to take time here and there to pull his hair and smack his ass very hard while humiliating him. Use other toys and tools from time to time when fucking him, I like to tie a rope around the base of his balls and cock and pull it snug to tie off at the bottom of the bed. This keeps him in position and every time I slam it in he gets a little squeeze of pain, especially when I give the rope a little pull by hand. I also like to take 2 small wooden pins (get at the local hardware store) and push his dicklet inside its self, putting the pins squeezed together with rubber bands at the end to keep the head from poking out, then roll it up like a hose, then use another rubber band to rap it around the new penis ball and his balls to secure it in place. This does 2 things, first it almost eliminates penis sensation which helps keep him from orgasm and it can give more sensation on his prostate because it forces the corpora cavernous down closer to the prostate, grouping the nerves closer. You could also just force it inside its self as far as you can and use a heavy duty pin or clip to hold it inside its self.  Remember you want to be very verbal yourself, humiliating him about this being the only pleasure he will get, and how he is being a good bitch taking your cock (what ever else you want to say to humiliate him) Make him beg for it or you will stop, have him tell you he wants to be your bitch from now on. Laugh at him moaning and tell him "hearing you moan like a bitch makes me want to get fucked by a real man".  think of your own things to say, what ever you want, and have fun with it. Trust me the more you make him feel like your bitch, the more he will want to be your bitch.

I always make him beg for my cock on his knees and then suck my cock first before I put him into position and sometimes I make him suck it after he is in position before I fuck him. Regardless of what rout you go with him, you should always or at least most of the time make him suck a big dildo while you fuck him. Buy a dildo holder and place it in front of him while you peg him and demand he suck it. Make sure he does a good job and smack his ass really hard if he fails, also use this time to humiliate him about it and this is his place from now on, especially if you plan to turn him sissy and suck real cock. If you decide to go the sissy route, make him wear panties and stockings and leave them on while you fuck him.

*NOTE and re-cap* It is very, very rare that a man can orgasm by fucking him in the ass, (he may have some cum ooze out, but that's not an orgasm). The feeling he gets is a lot like a pre-orgasm (much like you feel when your getting close to getting off but don't quite reach that stage, only not as intense as you feel). This is why pegging is so valuable to Dom's as a great tool to make him submissive, you get all the perks but he gets none of the glory. Its is the best tease you can do to him even with out you doing penis stimulation on him and why its works great for long term chastity or permanent chastity. Every time he gets fucked, the sensation builds and he feels like he may cum, but it never happens. This leaves him unsatisfied, still horny(only worse), and begging for more, with the added benefit he feels more like your bitch and wants to please you to get your cock again. After a certain point, he will be hooked on your cock, begging to do anything you ask and please you to feel that cock in his pussy/ass. If you really want to push his boundaries, make him take your lovers cock.


Have fun!!

     

pegging

                                                                         PEGGING

You've stopped having sex with him, locked his clitty in a chastity, hopefully started dating to some degree or at least having sex regularly (this is important for your health) and training towards permanent chastity for you bitch. You should be pegging him by now, so this blog is about different techniques and the proper way to peg him and the benefits of pegging. First off, pegging is essential in femdom and orgasm denial as its an obtainable pleasure for him, usually as a reward for his submission and obedience or other reasons like sissy training etc. Pegging is something that will become very valuable to him (since its his only source of pleasure) and the longer he is denied sex and orgasms the more sensitive his p-spot becomes making it more addicting and pleasurable especially if using the edging technique. This is power for you as he will not be able to control it and with time even beg you to use your cock on him. Pegging will also give him drive and focus to serve and obey you, as you eventually take pussy completely away as most Doms do. However, pegging isn't just a reward and pleasure for him, it's a powerful training tool for you and will help convert his desire from your pussy to your cock. Pegging mixed with chastity, denial of pussy and loss of orgasms will make him very submissive towards you and the pleasure of your cock, he will essentially become "cock whipped". Pegging is something you can easily control and it will help to control him by giving or taking it away as necessary after training. Eventually after you find a full time boyfriend to date and he is really cock whipped, you will only peg him as a reward obviously when you decide (usually twice a week) he's earned it. During training, you will train him to always beg for your cock, and suck it prior to giving him the privilege to have it. You will even train him to beg you to have all the cock you want just so he might be allowed the privilege of your cock, after all a sexually satisfied Dom craves the power of making her bitch squeal.    

Pegging is also the only way to sissy training and goes hand in hand with chastity, especially permanent chastity as it truly will be his only source of pleasure. Pegging him will turn you on and give you  pleasure, plus most dom's state they have had orgasms while doing strap-on pegging. It will make you feel powerful and in control as you force your cock into his tight little hole and watch him eventually turn into a screaming cock slut, sissy bitch, begging for your cock. This is something to be proud of and at the same time laugh at him because he really is turning into a cock slut. Its normal to feel he's sexually pathetic and has a clitty, that he is not a real man and that you definitely don't want him between your legs again. Accept and embrace these feelings because this is what you want, you need and deserve real pleasure and orgasms. When you start pegging he might not like it and will resist until the pleasure forces him to submit to it and then he will not be able to resist it. As he is tied down/up forced to endure the penetration and the friction of your cock assaulting his prostate he will give into the pleasure. Eventually he will submit to the control of your cock, be addicted to it and beg you to get it....He will be your cock whipped sissy bitch. Pegging is a valuable tool for humiliation as well as to bring out submission, it is very humiliating (in several ways) to beg for your cock, to crave it, to moan from it and to eventually submit to it especially if done in front of another person, boyfriend, girlfriend, or even a "master" you set up for him. The humiliation helps degrade and emasculate him which takes away his manhood making him more trainable and obedient. It also switches his pleasure zones from that little clitty to his tight little pussy, and helps to reprogram his mind to crave cock. It also replaces his sex with your sex by defacto, meaning by keeping conventional sex and orgasms from him and fucking him with your dildo, you are making him dependent on your cock for pleasure. This insures that you will keep him dependent on you getting sex from real men in order to have the privilege of your cock. A skilled Dom  utilize this and re-program him (using firm aggressive directives and commands while under heavy hormone influence), during pegging and edging or copulin arousal techniques. Directives like; you will think about my cock stretching your pussy the entire time you see or hear me fuck a real man (my boyfriend), or You will be cock whipped and there's nothing you can do to stop it etc. Tell him things (in a firm voice) that you want to embed into his subconscious mind. Reprogramming directives are statements or comments said (again with a firm voice) that unknowingly imbed into his thinking process during a high arousal state making him feel or act as you describe in said statements. This is a reprogramming or brainwashing technique. Basically while his arousal levels are very high describe what, how, or when he is to act or think and he will (with time of this training) due your bidding.   

Pegging also gives him a focus point and reward for being your sissy bitch, as I said its an obtainable pleasure he is permitted, pleasure that last for as long as your fucking him. Pegging is a pleasure unlike anything he could experience with his clitty. Unlike normal sex where he does all the work and most of his pleasure comes at the end from the ejaculating orgasm, then his sex is over. However pegging is a constant pleasure that builds to a climax (much like our sex, but far less as intense) where he has what's called a sissygasm. He can have sissygasms over and over and even back to back (again just like us) for as long as your cock pounds his tight little pussy. This is also another reason he will become addicted to your cock and learn to love it and submit to it. Also sissygasms last a lot longer than normal orgasm, but they are not the same feeling as an ejaculation orgasm because it comes from 2 different places much like a clit orgasm vs a vaginal orgasm with us. The best thing is, sissygasms are not sexually satisfying because they don't effect the sex nerves/erogenous zones that trigger the orgasmic muscle contractions meant to ejaculate, which in turn signals the brain to release chemicals that stop blueballs (in short his balls don't get emptied with sissygasms so he remains horny and submissive). In fact, most Dom's (especially if in permanent chastity phase) after mid to end of training don't even remove the chastity to peg their sissy bitches or they use an electro-chastity devices to intensify his need for cock and give a little shock pain at the same time. He is also free from the stress of having to preform and please pussy, keep an erection, or premature ejaculation all of which he fails at because he was meant to be your little cock slut. Sissygasms do nothing at all to ease his arousal level or submission, but instead intensifies it and helps build his submission and arousal level, especially towards cock.

There are 3 types of pegging; freestyle (using a dildo with your hands) strap-on (dildo in a harness) machine (dildo in a fuck machine). Its important to know, pegging is not about the speed of how fast you can pump the cock in and out of him. Using a slower, steady pace will give better pleasure than a fast pace. Switching from slow and deep with firm impacts to long strokes will also switch up the intensity of pleasure. Pay attention to his body and moans to see what's doing the trick, if he is requesting you to slow down or speed up there is a reason (to much sensation, pain etc.), try to remember his preferences. Regardless of which style you do, you always want him sucking a dildo prior to using one on him (ideally a clean or unused dildo solely for the purpose of sucking it). This is humiliation and a non-threatening prep to get him ready to suck real cock if you choose this path (part of sissy training). Freestyle pegging is good for most times as its simpler and quicker to get ready for and a bit easier to clean after. It is fairly less body work physically, but can give your arm a good workout until you get use to it (great for burning fat off your arms though so switch between arms). It does a good job of giving him sissygasms and a desire for cock. You can put him in any position for freestyle pegging, I always suggest changing it up during each time, at least occasionally, and definitely tie him down securely. ** NOTE** with any type of pegging start off rubbing the outside of his pussy to arouse him. The area around his hole is pleasurable and helps build arousal and anticipation. Then work up to fingering his hole and prostate for a few minutes to get it lubricated. Now that he is lubricated and aroused, slowly slide you cock in and start off with slow short strokes going in only about half way. As you see him relax and moan, slide it all the way in and let it sit for a few seconds as you rub/massage his balls and rub your finger around his stretched hole. Then start to move it in and out with long, slow, deep strokes, **NOTE** avoid pulling it out to far, you don't want it falling out. You want the ridge of the head to hit the end of his prostate and slide down it on the pull out stroke and then on the in stroke the head of the cock will stroke the full length of his prostate giving him max pleasure. Now pick up speed moving it in and out to a STEADY pace (remember steady is key), pushing the cock firmly into his pussy (imitating hips bouncing off his ass). **NOTE** Something to think about, a steady pace is more real like actual fucking, gives the prostate time to pulse which gives a much better feeling and pleasure than a fast pace plus its less work on you. However a faster speed is good now and then (key word now and then) to change up the pleasure. *NOTE* clitty stimulation (if not in perma-chastity) should be sporadic. 

Strap-on fucking is more visually appealing for you as you have a more realistic feel (like its your actual cock pounding him) of position and view of his pussy stretching as it takes your cock deep inside him. You also feel more power and control over him as its your thrust that makes him moan and scream. Strap-on pegging can also arouse you and a lot of girls can orgasm from pegging their sissy. You can also start off freestyle with a different dildo (smaller) then switch to strap-on after a few minutes. Strap-on is more physical, but worth the energy as it helps to keep you in shape and it is the best pleasure for males as it gives a more realistic feel and impact as your hips slam against his ass. It also allows your hands to be free for other activity (which is a must for bringing out the sissy bitch side of him) like pulling his hair back or his collar (make him wear a collar if he is low trimmed or bald) - smacking his ass or balls - inserting a finger with the cock to give that extra stretch - using both hands to spread his ass cheeks wide to expose and open up his pussy hole (makes sensation better - squeezing his ass cheeks - spitting on his pussy hole for lube (more humiliation than lube) - and one of the best techniques for increasing sensations is grabbing the base of his balls and pulling them up and towards you as you slam into him, lastly smack the shit out of his ass and leave a hand print (you can also use a leather slapper) that last a few days. Technique with strap-on is exactly like with freestyle pegging, start out slow with short strokes and build to long, deep strokes and eventually bouncing your hips of his ass with a steady pace and deep strokes, and change to short fast strokes from time to time. your hips can only move so fast so speed is not important with this style of pegging, just remember to switch it up. Again remember not to pull to far out on your out strokes, your cock will fall out!  

As I said, Strap-on is the best sex for him, especially if training him to become sissy and take real cock, and it allows you to have him kneel and suck it prior to training and pegging. Freestyle is great for easier nights and a bit quicker, but it is a must to use Strap-on at least 3 times month. Machine pegging is good on days when your tired or don't feel like doing much training. You just humiliate him and let the machine do all the work and still achieve his submission of cock. It also allows your hands to be free to do other stuff just like with strap-on sex and even more like making him suck your cock (real or not) while he is fucked (although you could suction a dildo to the wall as you fuck him strap-on style) or your could whip his as with a cane or what ever while the machine pounds away at his tight little hole. This is actually a mind fuck as he can't fully enjoy the pleasure because the pain is to intense. Its also a bit harder to clench his ass cheeks with movement inside his hole, and the pain is a little more sensitive since the inner nerve ending are being stimulated. Machine pegging is also great because you don't even have to stay in the room if you have other things to do like get ready for a date, run a quick errand, or a DOM favorite, if your in the other room fucking a Boyfriend. The possibilities are endless, so use your imagination and try new things, especially putting him into different positions for pegging as each will give a different sensation and pleasure, and remember to let out your sadistic dominant side. Fucking him on his back (missionary) might be best for pleasure but its more humiliating for him fucking him doggie and your hands can do more stuff. This is why its always best to switch him around and be creative when pegging so his mind is always running wild with desire of your cock. 

After a few weeks of no sex, chastity, and pegging, mixed with training and humiliation, you will notice a physical change to his ass. It will start to become more and more like a pussy, literally. It will start getting wet, self lubricate (still need lube from time to time) during sex, and eventually cum. Yes cum, a sissy equivalent to female cum that looks and smells like actual cum, but it is more lubricating and lacks sperm, as sperm cums from testicles and this comes from his prostate. This is a good sign that he is becoming cock whipped and a cock slut. **NOTE this is also the time to start sissy training and convert him to a "sissy bitch" permanently switching his pleasure zones. Now is when you start making him wear panties, even female lingerie (French maid outfits etc.), make sure he shaves all his pubic hair, clean up his own cum messes, all of them. Teach him to suck cock by sucking dildo's every training night, start accounts on bi/gay online dating sites and look for real cock for him to please. Note, once you convert his ass to a pussy and make him a cock slut, he will always crave cock. This will make it easier to turn him back into a cock slut if ever there is a lapse in the femdom lifestyle for unseen reasons. 

As days turn to weeks and months of wearing a chastity and no sex and orgasm, his ass will become his pussy, it will actually become his pussy. It will chemically and physically change his demeanor, submissive state, and pleasure preference. It will become his pleasure zone and his weakness. You will train him to acknowledge and accept this is his pussy. You must treat his ass as a pussy, call it his pussy (your ownership is known so just keep it simply "his pussy" to avoid confusion) make him call it his pussy, rub it as a pussy, finger it as a pussy. The longer he goes without orgasm, and the more he is pegged, the more his ass feels like a pussy to him the more sissy he feels and becomes. Just rubbing the rim of his pussy will give him great pleasure and build his arousal level. (which is needed for Perma-chastity) You will want to tease him with this area prior to insertion of anything. Simply edge him for at least 10-15 minutes and start off by rubbing around the hole, and make sure you humiliate him. After enough time with out sex and fucking him, he will become dependent on you fucking him. Make him beg for it, make him suck the cock prior to being fucked. Remember, always spend time rubbing it prior to fingering or fucking to build up sensation and arousal. When fucking him, spread his checks and pussy wide to give better sensation, ALSO grab his balls and pull up on them, this adds pleasure and maximizes the sensation on his prostate. Experiment with it by trying all kinds of toys, shapes, sizes. Stick a finger in it at the same time as the dildo. Try to to use 2 smaller dildo's in his pussy at the same time, working them in and out independently for cross sensation. When fingering it, try to build up to 2,3,4, and eventually all 5 fingers in (this is not for a beginner, and don't try this every time you finger him, just occasionally). Note* 4 and 5 fingers are easier to get in after the use of a large dildo. When fucking him, be humiliating, Spit on his hole, tell him that's his lube, use his own cum to lubricate it, and humiliate him with that and how he is a sissy bitch. NOTE* remember to make him shave all hair around it and his clitty, all of it, especially if your going to train him to be a sissy bitch. Smack his ass hard several times when fucking him or use a leather strap or cane, reach down and pull his head back by his hair or around his neck or use a collar on him and pull the leash as he has a sissygasm. Switch it up, force his head down into the bed, make him keep it down, and make him spread his legs wide or arch his ass to take the cock or threaten to stop. Switch things up with dildo's, trying different shapes and make him take bigger. NOTE* don't use the bigger dildo every time, you don't want him use to it, you want it to be that OMG dildo every now and then. Also you don't want him to sore to take cock at all.  Make him go out with but plugs or other toys in his pussy. Use remote control devices while your out. Note, plugs will put him into a submissive state and make it hard for him to focus, especially ones that move or vibrate. This is good for you and fun to play with while your out, remember to try new ideas. Remember to grag his balls and pull them as you fuck him or use your dildo on him. I usually grab them with both hands and use them as a handle to pull my hips into him forcing my cock deeper, or I'll use one hand to smack his as with a small crop (very hard).

As you lock him into chastity and start pegging, you will also want to restrict pussy from him, let him see it or smell it occasionally until you have found a full time Boyfriend or bull. Pussy is very powerful to him and even a more powerful tool for you. Just the copulins alone are very valuable in aiding towards his submission and reprogramming him. Even just seeing it will cause a flood of hormones to make him weak, especially if its restricted and used to tease him. Smelling and tasting it will only compounding his feeling of submission as your copulins work their magic. You will threaten to take it away, especially when you find a bull or BF to fuck, but for now you need the extra control, humiliation and focused submission that pussy has on him. This means that on some days he wont see or smell it, while on others he may only see it in panties (rarely naked) or he maybe only smell it and other days he may smell and taste it. Switch it up, make it sporadic, and make sure you put 4 or 5 days of nothing in between his contact. It is very important that he smell pussy out of panties 3-4 times a month (with or with out a blind fold on) and you want to put it inches from his face and spread your lips open. Let him see you vagina opening, maybe even rub his nose in it. He needs to be close to inhale as much copulins as possible, and this is best with pussy inches away from his face and lips spread open. The more aroused you are the better, especially if done shortly after you fucked your BF. You could even fuck a dildo or use a vib on yourself to expedite the copulins production and add the arousal sight humiliation on him. Let him smell in for at least 5 minutes, while you use verbal humiliation and verbal training  methods to brainwash him. The most powerful copulins are absorbed through his penis while you sit still on top of him for at least 5 minutes but up to 15. (see my copulins section for more info)

**MOST IMPORTANT**  You need big cock ASAP! As you deny you bitch and start pegging, you need to start cuckolding as you will soon loose chemicals that your body needs, CUM. Yes semen is very good for your body and emotional health. Semen is comprised of vital chemicals that helps your body stay healthy, like vitamins and minerals that promote energy, cognition, and helps viral immunity. Plus it has antidepressants to reduce stress, depression, anxiety and moods swings while it promotes happiness. It also contains hormones like testosterone, oxytocin, cortisol that slow aging, reduce inflammation (achiness and joint pain), improve blood flow (numb or cold hands and feet), and skin health (younger skin, reduces wrinkles, and quick healing) as well as other important chemicals. Not to mention having regular sex and orgasms is some of the best calorie burning and exercises you can do to loose weight and stay in shape. Penetration of the penis into the vagina exercises pelvic muscles necessary for healthy bladder control and functions (helps stop frequent peeing and regulate bowel movement) tightens uterus and vaginal walls to aid in a tighter vagina. SO YES, to say the least, it is very important that you have sex regularly!!!!!  You need to take care of yourself and nothing is more important than your sex and best of all it feels really, really good!!!!! You also need to take care of your physical looks, work out, get manicures and pedicures, get your hair done, and tan, buy sexy outfits (and lingerie) to wear for your boyfriends. You need to look good for yourself esteem and for your boyfriend or potential boyfriends. 

Do not be afraid to talk and flirt with guys, you need to do it often and everywhere. You must actively go out looking for boyfriends or sex partners, and enjoy sex with them. It is crucial to show him that you love the sex more and prefer bigger and better cock with your BF. He needs to be humiliated this way to help break him, and to understand his place was meant to serve you. He must see that you are excited and horny to go on date and get sex from your boyfriend. He needs to know that you do not want or need sex with him, he must believe it. You will tell him that your sex is none of his business and its none of his business who you date, where your going, when you'll be home, (if you even come home) or who you fuck. Tell him, if you want him to know then you will tell him, if not to keep his mouth shut, asking is a severe punishment. He should focus on serving you, not what you do. After your dating or maybe seeing several guys, (at least 2 guys) you will not tell him who your going out with, or anything about the date, IT IS none of his business! However for humiliation, only tell him about the sex, every detail. Where you fucked, what positions you fucked in, how long you fucked, how much better it was, how long it was, how wet you were and how many times you had orgasms. Bring home hickies on your boobs and inner thigh for him to see, show him the opened condom rappers as your order him to throw it away. Have him refill the travel sized lube you took with you but used all up during a long night of sex. It is vital that you include him in one way or another with all the sex you have. This can be as simple as bringing home a condom full of cum for him to mentally visualize your sex (possibly even made to suck on it till all the cum is gone), listening on the phone as you moan and scream over and over from all the orgasms, smelling worn panties after sex (especially if cum soaked), anything you can think of that keeps him horny and excited about you having sex. He must also clean up all messes, including his own precum and milking.

THE RITUAL

 THE RITUAL

The ritual is a subjugation act performed to force the submission of you dating your boyfriend in a serious type relationship or even exclusively AND it is repeated again when you decide to start permanent chastity, which should follow shortly after (about 2-3weeks or less) the committed relationship with your Boyfriend starts. The ritual is preformed even if you have been training correctly and your submissive is actively pleading (as he should be) you to date more seriously. The ritual is a powerful stance on your position to date whom you please, how you please and removes any doubt that he has no choice in your decision and must submit to it, plus it reinforces his place as your obedient sissy bitch. It is done to subdue him physically but also mentally with the forced acceptance of your decisions and to help prevent any defiance, disobedience, temper tantrums, or unruly behavior that could otherwise arise when the humiliation of complete denial sets in. You will more than likely need to repeat the ritual multiple times through out your relationship with your BF as weeks turn to months of denial on top of permanent chastity when the realization sinks in that he will never have the privilege's of pussy again. It is imperative and highly recommended that you do this ritual when you have made the decision to date your boyfriend full time, but also DO IT AGAIN when you enact permanent chastity. Not doing it will likely result in unwanted behavior, disruption in training and servitude, or flat out disobedience. The ritual is done when you have decided to allow your boyfriend to fuck you without a condom and cum inside you, but also more importantly you have chosen sex this way because you are very attracted to him, or have feelings of some sort or even infatuated and want to date him on a serious level. You have also decided to give him complete access to your body and completely deny your sissy bitch anything to do with pussy. At this point as far as your concerned it is now his pussy (this decision could come in a week, a month, or whenever you decide after you first meet your boyfriend) and this decision means you want to spend time with your boyfriend intimately but also, you truly never want sex with your sissy bitch. 

Fucking with a condom is just sex, this could happen with anyone you want to have sex with and as a Dom I'm sure you've already done many times. Fucking without a condom and cumming inside your pussy is a stronger sexual connection and attraction, but also typically proof of a relationship or at least the acceptance of one. The continuous or on-going sex in this manner is an extreme attraction, with passion and desire, also a high form of intimacy (not to mention makes sex way better), thus making the relationship more than just a fuck. A relationship of sorts with SERIOUS involvement you could even say. Deciding to date with serious involvement, and allowing your BF access to your pussy anytime he wants it day or night is A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP and and your right as a Dom if you so choose. This desire to form a relationship in this manner should be talked about mutually with your boyfriend. "The ritual" is where you make it formally known to your sissy bitch that you have decided to date your BF seriously and/or exclusively, even permanently if you choose, giving him complete access "AKA ownership" of your body and/or pussy. You will date with the intentions of intimate sex with out a condom, to cum inside his pussy and you doing whatever sex acts that turns him on sexually (oral, 3some's etc.) including how you dress, lingerie, how you shave pussy. As a Dom it is your right to have sex with whom ever you want, how you want, you deserve the best pleasure and sex possible and you deserve to date a real man in any manor you choose. This ritual as well as your decision to date seriously is reinforcement that your sissy's only purpose to you is just handing over his pay, serving and obeying you, with complete servitude and obedience, nothing else. This means you (at your own discretion or your BF's) will drastically limit or completely deny your sissy bitch access to your pussy and most probably your body. Clean up duty (in the manner you choose) and the occasional copulin training is absolutely a must!   

Maybe you have already allowed your boyfriend to cum inside you for a few weeks or longer before you've made this decision and that's OK and actually normal, the ritual isn't to just to signify and inform him that your BF is cumming inside you, the humiliation is actually worse if your boyfriends been doing it for some time without his knowledge. Along with worse humiliation ,this also helps with reinforcing the "Its none of your business" practice you should be enforcing. The ritual is making your sissy acknowledge and accept your status together and commitment to your boyfriend (with or without the BF's knowledge of the actual ritual) on a more serious level. Also as said above, that you are officially giving your BF complete access to your pussy and/or dating full time/seriously with his permanent denial of pussy. This denial will be as you demand it, like none of his business and complete denial of sex, with complete denial of pussy as in no touching it, and/or seeing it bare with out panties on and only smelling it through panties or clean up duty (copulin arousal/training) or only smelling it on your fingers or in freshly worn panties. And lastly, its about the enforcement of denial through this act and further punishments. 

This ritual is done at night, best if the cum and hormones are fresh (with in 30 minutes or less of your BF cumming inside you) but if not possible, as soon as you possibly can. *Note do not ever clean up any of the mess, as we normally do when we go to the restroom after sex, you don't want to lessen the hormones and you want it very messy to degrade and humiliate him. 

AFTER INTIMATE SEX WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND, FOLLOW BELOW.....

1st; Begin by having him kneel on the floor where you normally do training and start stripping down to just your panties. Now humiliate him and then make him beg to serve you and worship your feet for 2-3 minutes. After this, tell him you have a treat for him and show him the wet spot from sex soaked into your panties. Stick your finger into your pussy and wipe it under his nose to make him weak. 

2nd; Then order him up to his back in a firm voice, proceed to tie him down on his back for 10-15 minutes of edging and be sure to use a finger or prostate toys to help flood his brain with hormones. 

3rd; Now flip him over and tie him down securely for a punishment spanking, but DO NOT tell him (he will think he is getting pegged) as you want fear to start after the first hit. After he is firmly tied down, get your canes ready and start off with 10 very firm and slow, one at a time hits, while you humiliate him about being your sissy cock slut and will never receive the pleasure of pussy again nor will he ever cum again. Tell him he doesn't deserve it, and never deserved it *be very serious about this*. 

4th; Dip your finger into your pussy and wipe the smell under his nose again, then explain that you have decided to date your Boyfriend seriously and/or exclusively, that you really like him and/or love his cock. Remember to humiliate him on how much bigger and better his cock is and how much better he fucks you. Tell him you deserve to be pleased and proceed to tell him that it is your boyfriends pussy from now on and he is no longer allowed anything to do with his pussy and then describe this in what even manner you have decided to restrict him from it. Remember if it is complete denial of pussy, explain he will only be able to smell it on rare occasions if at all, like when you allow him the privilege's of cleaning up the fucking mess and even then you may only finger feed it to him. *Note make sure you are speaking in a strict firm dominant voice, he needs to know you are serious about this decision and he needs to fear you. 

5th; Now Hit him with 20 slow firm and hard strikes and make sure he understands. Explain that his only purpose is giving you his pay or paying for pussy he will never have, serving and obey you! Next explain that he is not a man but your sissy bitch meant to serve you and that's what you want him to be your sissy bitch from now on.

6th; Now hit him 20 fast (in a row) hard hits then another 20 slow hits as you scream in a firm voice "IS THAT UNDERSTOOD BITCH!!"  He should yell YES MISTRESS!

7th; Now remove your cum soaked panties and position yourself in front of him as though he is going to lick pussy, sit with your pussy touching his nose. Spread your lips open and allow him to smell your sex for  5 minutes (to let the copulins do their job).  As you do this, tell him this is the last time he will see pussy ever again and demand him in a loud firm voice to lick clean the fucking mess. As he is licking up the mess, tell him that from this point forward he is never allowed to ask about or speak of (BLANK'S) pussy in any manner for any reason or face extreme punishments. Tell him this will be a taste of that punishment and demand him to lick deeper, you want ALL THE CUM CLEANED OUT!! 

8th; Now get up and place your cum soaked panties fully into his mouth then proceed to strike another slow 20 firm strikes. Then tell him you will not stop the punishments until he sincerely begs you to date and give your boyfriend complete control of your pussy, but you will not allow him to beg for that privilege until your ready to hear it. 

9th; Now pull out the panties and put them around his head to position the wet spot under his nose then put a ball gag in his mouth with the panties on his head and strike him with 20 slow firm hits followed by 20 fast firm hits followed by 20 slow hits without taking a break. 60 total hits back to back, he should be screaming into the ball gag.

10th; Now explain that from this point on his only purpose is to serve and obey you, and of course hand over his paycheck. Hit him with 10 slow hits as you yell "is that understood!". Now hit him with 20 fast strikes and explain that failing to be your sissy bitch and serve you as you deserve will result in extreme punishments including but not limited to no cock for a week. Now strike him with 20 fast hits and then explain that he may beg you to give your BF complete control of your pussy, then begin hitting him with a mix of slow and then fast hits, but don't stop striking him until you are satisfied with his begging (wait at least another 30- 40 hits). 

11th; After you stop then inform him that you will soon lock his clitty away permanently so that he can focus on serving you the way you deserve. Tell him his clitty doesn't deserve to be touched and that he will also beg you to lock it away permanently when you decide its time. Strike him 10 slow firm hits and explain that his only purpose is serving and obeying and handing over his paycheck. Now strike him another 10 times and shout "is that understood!"  YES MISTRESS! PLEASE MISTRESS! 

12th; Tell him its time to lock the clitty away for now and have him beg you to lock it on now,  hit slowly as you allow him to beg, once satisfied then lock on the chastity (you may have to flip him over if you can't put it on with his ass in the air. Note* he should have been screaming/crying and begging you to stop at least mid way through this, if not you are not hitting hard enough and need to hit harder and longer before each step. His ass should be red and blue with welts and bruising that last for at least 4-5 days. 

13th; Now put your strap-on on and force him to suck it while you humiliate him about how big cock will be his only pleasure from here out. Grab his collar and smack him in the face with your cock a few times and then back into his mouth. Continue to humiliate and degrade him about being a true sissy from here out and being used by real cock. Make sure you make him thank you for that privilege and humiliate him about being a cock whipped slut and sissy bitch from here out. After your done with humiliation, get behind him and fuck him good and hard for at least 30 mins or so and finish the night with him worshiping your feet and ass. 

If your boyfriend is in the house you may want to only fuck him for 20 min but the whole ritual shouldn't last more than 50 min to an hour. If your BF is not there, its better to make it last longer especially with the whipping his ass part. You could even make it worse by using a vibe on yourself as he licks your ass hole, kneeling at the foot of the bench of course (with or with out a blindfold on) but demand him to lick deeper. Regardless to what training you have left or fun you have, from this point DO NOT remove the chastity device after a date night with your Boyfriend. Wait till the next day to remove it as this will start the permanent chastity enforcement! Your cock, when you allow it is his only reward from now on. From this point on, your BF is the focus of your sexual desires, so definitely dress in what he likes, shave your pussy how he likes it, buy lingerie for him, if possible bring him on short vacations with your sissy bitch. I'm sure you get the point, its time for fun with your boyfriend and your sissy bitch should only be your cock slut sissy bitch and house servant. Just remember that you must continue to be very cruel, dominant, with strict discipline and severe punishments for disobedience and punish immediately if possible or as soon as possible, same day is very crucial.

REMEMBER REPEAT THIS WHEN YOU DO PERMANETLY CHASTITY!