What do you do? Well first, you need to understand how and why this has happened. You don't want to keep repeating this and end up time and time again, every few months back at this point. And trust me the last thing you want to do is repeat this to the point that there is no recovery from it, at least not very easily anyway. The truth is, its more than likely your actions or lack of actions that got him to this point. I have found that 9 out of 10 times the Mistress has not exactly fulfilled her part of the new life style/relationship.....That's not to say that this happens a lot as most women get a taste of the perfect life and ultimate sex and take to it like fish to water, but it does happen. So what's the problem? Maybe he just needs a break or that he is just not wanting to submit anymore. Maybe If you gave him pussy that might reset things. Maybe he has just been having a hard time at work or stress is to much right now. Hopefully none of this or any other thought along these lines has crossed your mind because you would be wrong, VERY WRONG!! Fact is, if anything other than what I'm about to say has crossed your mind, your not only wrong, you've not been paying attention to or reading my blog, for that matter and I'm only being honest here "you probably wouldn't even be in this situation if you did".
Now if your thinking that maybe you have slacked off quite a bit lately, not been dominate, humiliating or aggressive enough and maybe he's not taking you serious because you haven't been serious and/or not been doing the things you need to do as a mistress.....Well you would be right. I'd even put money on it that you have even taken breaks from the lifestyle 3, 4, or more times over the past year. Then even gone as far as given him pussy at least once during the breaks, didn't you? You see the pattern? This is not the way of a mistress, especially if you really want this lifestyle and all the wonderful perks that go with it. I say it all the time, "a strict, aggressive Mistress always gets what she wants and deserves!" I'm not saying that there can't be a slight chance that there is a different issue causing this. The other things it could be is fighting or arguing, and even once is enough to derail your progress, especially if its a bad one. And the other problem could be you crossed the intimacy line at some point with a boyfriend/lover, or at least your bitch might feel very uncomfortable about it. I'm referring to cuddling, spooning, holding hands or what ever he may feel is to much. Both of these can also lead to trust issues and ultimately complete shutdown of this lifestyle for both of you. This is why its so important to fulfill your part as the mistress because it drastically lessens the chance of problems. In fact if your doing what you should be doing, its almost impossible to be in this predicament.
YOU SEE, it is very hard for him to go back and forth, serious and not serious, and to stay focused with all the elevated hormones and chemicals in his brain from training and lack of getting pussy. You know what its like that time of the month for you, your hormones are crazy from one minute to the next and this is the same with him only much worse. Subconsciously, the very thing that makes him submissive and naturally want to serve is also the thing that rebels when its not focused properly. You have to divert and focus his energy and his will, to pleasing and serving you. This same energy left unchecked will compound issues that normally wouldn't be an issue and find fault that would normally be over looked. This is what leads to him becoming angry or upset, back talking, argumenitive, and combative and ultimately loose the focus and desire to submit. He needs desperately for you to give him consistency, strict guidance and reinforcement to truly be the sissy bitch you want and need him to be. He needs you to be the boss, and he needs you to be serious about it and give him the aggressive, strict and yes even cruel, ruthless dominate side that he longs to serve and obey. You have got to put him in his place forcefully, you have to make him serve you properly and you can't be shy about it and what you want, or what you want to do. Furthermore you definately can't be shy about degrading and humiliating him! The more you do this and the deeper into submission he will be. The more you are serious and show this is his new place and the lifestyle you want, the less likely he will rebel, the easier it is for him to stay focused.
This is the way back, and depending on how many times you have repeated this will determine how hard and long it will be to get things back on track to where they should be, and hopefully for both your sake its not past the point of no return. I have talked about all of this in detail through out my blog, PLEASE take the time to read it. Truth is, you cant just turn him on and off like a switch and if you have the mentality of not taking it serious or maybe you thought it was no big deal, you would get around to it the next time or do better the next time, this just wont cut it. Sure something comes up, or sometimes you don't have time to do a training session or at least as long as it should be, OK that's life, but there is no excuse for you not doing your best during the alloted time or to treat him like the bitch he is before, during, and after (constantly) 24/7. There is always a way to work around issues, and family. You just need to do it and stop making excuses, and if you want this, you will do it. I know the submissive male and he subconsciously and naturally desires his place, needing to be put in it and kept there. I know what he needs and wants, even if he doesn't! You doing what he needs and must have in order to properly submit (even if he necessarily doesn't want it) is what its going to take to get things right again, and get him begging to be back on his knees. He's not going to do it on his own, and a chastity and no sex only goes so far.
To the point; Here is the problem, How can you expect him to take you serious if you don't treat this serious. How can you expect him to be let down time after time, but then be into it when its ok or convenient for you. That may be able to happen for a short period of time but eventually the things that turn him on, or make him submissive will loose its potency. You also can't contradict your rules, and his actions by allowing him to break them with out punishment, this includes but not limited to back talk. Don't contradict what you want and what you say by allowing him to be your equal, or do what he wants, or go with out punishment, and especially giving him pussy!! This not only confuses him and sends the wrong signal to what you actually want, and it messes with the way he conceives things and his sub consciousness! Plus he will get to the point that he can't even focus when you are doing what your supposed to be doing. If your bitching at him, complaining, fighting, or anything other than focusing on keeping him submissive and in his place then this makes things completely worse and lifestyle that you love and enjoy is in jeopardy of ending for good. Isn't it worth it????
At this point you know what I'm saying and where I'm headed with this. Hopefully you have read through my blog and you know how to do things, if anything you will re-read back through it.
To address the problem: There are no breaks, this is 24/7 period and your going to make it that way and keep it that way! Do not go easy on him, and if need be put him in tears. More than likely your not punishing him enough, hard enough or even at all for his rule breaking, or failure to sincerely submit and be submissive. Not to mention punishing him for falling short of commands or chores done the way you want them. You Also punish him lighter on training days just because he needs reminders, but make sure the real punishments are ones to remember! You are also probably lacking in the humiliation side of things as well, and this is just as important as giving him punishment. You should also be emasculating him and turning him into a true bitch by making him wear panties, calling him by his proper bitch name. This means treating him exactly like a bitch all the way to pegging him and having him fucked by someone. Humiliation is also a vital key for breaking his will, emasculating him, and controlling his mind. If you control his mind, you control his body!
Your also not going out, or not out enough. Your not flirting enough or getting enough numbers. My guess is your also not taking care of your self like you should be (gym, hair, nails, make up, shopping etc.) And your definitely not treating him like you should be; not strict enough, not demanding enough, not forceful enough. Not controlling enough, not dominating or ruthless enough. Your not forcing him to take his place or calling him by your preferred name for him. Your not looking for and/or getting enough COCK as you should be. Your demeanor isn't that of a dominatrix and mistress, it is always your way, and only your way. You make the rules, he obeys. He cleans the house, and wash. He begs and asks for permission. Always, always, always!! Don't make excuses, do it and make these happen period! If there is a trust issue related to over stepping lines or something that makes him feel uncomfortable, talk about it with him. Its important to reassure him that he may be your bitch but your love is always for him, that you never want to do anything to hurt his heart. Make sure he knows you will always be his and that you love him. The best thing is not to do the things he feels uncomfortable with. But a big no, no is never argue with him over it, or anything else and never get an attitude. AGAIN don't argue with him! Not over anything or anyone!! this is one of the WORST things you can do to ruin the hormones built up or alter the chemical balance for the submissive drive you have spent all that time on creating. Plus, arguing with him removes all your power, as it suggest that he has input, or a decision, or a choice.....None of which he has because he is the "BITCH" and you are the boss, so don't do it. Besides that it creates anger, animosity, and resentment. None of which are positive towards or helping in maintaining the lifestyle you want.
Also, don't bitch at him! Again Bitching at him gives him the impression that he has a choice, that he is able to control something or anything at all. It also kills what you have just built up so, don't do it at all. Arguing, fighting, or Bitching at him is the fastest way to create distrust from him and can take days to get over or work through. It also makes him doubt your time out with your lover/boyfriend. This can lead to the trust issues described earlier. Besides that, it's not DOM LIKE or needed.... If he has done something that's pissed you off or upset you, then be smart and punish him for it. If you ordered something and he didn't do it or what ever the reason is, give him a severe punishment that will deter him from doing it again. JUST DON'T argue,fight, or bitch at him!!!
This is what you want, RIGHT? SO MAKE IT HAPPEN, make it happen 24/7. Don't let things like work, kids, school, extended family or friends get in the way of it. Find away to exert your power over him and for him to show his obedience and submission to you. Lastly, don't make excuses for why you didn't do something, and never ask him for permission. Plus don't give the impression that things are any other way than exactly how you want them to be! Especially when it comes to sex with your boyfriend or lover. Remember all the sex you have is far better than anything he could ever do or give, including cock comparison. And don't make small talk or discussion of any kind other than orders through out the day, especially prior, during, or after training. Try to keep it until bed time or at least wait for a better more suitable time if it is important. The object is to keep him in the trance as long as possible and focused on serving and obey you, which eventually leads to his complete submission. Keep him focused on training and keep him in his place when not training. And remember it's never worth throwing away your hard word and his submissiveness to bitch,fight or argue for any reason, as there is always better ways to show or give your dissatisfaction.
Are you willing to put forth the effort it takes to give you the most rewarding, and exciting life with the best sex you have ever had, getting pampered and pleased by your bitch while at the same time he is happier than ever doing it? Does this sound familiar? Its practically what I said somewhere at the start of this blog, and its still true! But its not just going to happen, you have to work at it, and make him work at it. You CAN NOT be bashful, shy, or hesitant about what you want, what to say, how to act, or what to do. You will need to be dirty thinking, ruthless in punishments, and as strict in rules as you can be and always think of ways to push his boundaries and to show his submission to you. Think of ways to punish if the norm is out of the question because of a certain situation or place. When you punish, be serious about it. When doing spankings or physical punishment, don't be afraid to make him cry, leave marks, or bruising. Don't let it bother you and make sure he knows your enjoying it and willing to keep going. Have fun with it, and make him show his submission often by licking your feet and sucking your toes, kissing and licking your ass cheeks. You must take your place and force him into his, this is how you get what you want and make him want to beg to please and obey you.
This is about you being the Mistress, and him being your bitch. Its what you want, how you want it. You need to do what you want and make him do what you want. Your rules should be what you want them to be. Not what you see here or any other blog, they are only meant for guidance and example of others rules. Do not do something because you think he wants it, and don't let him give input or boss from the bottom (on his knees) and punish him severely if he tries. He may think something should be a certain way because of what he has read, but its going to be your way and your rules. KEEP IN MIND though, if he feels or seems to feel something your doing with a lover or boyfriend is over the line you have to take the proper steps to resolve his uneasiness about it and /or simply don't do it. This does not mean that you can be laxed on them, not make him follow them if it suits you when it suits you, or that you shouldn't put your due diligents into making this 24/7. Only that if you feel a rule or doing what turns you on should be different than the norm, then change it to what you want. Trust me its going to turn him on more and make him more submissive if you do what pleases you over what he thinks pleases you. With all this said, YOU have to be the boss, the mistress at all times and you have to maintain that composure regardless of energy level, feelings of anger, rage, hurtfulness, input or interference from friends, family or life in general, regardless you are the boss. You must do your duty to order him, control him, make him follow rules and knell at all times possible, regardless to any situation. Punish at the time of infraction if at all possible, and never not punish for rule breaking, back talk, or not obeying!! Your going to have to treat him like he needs and deserves to be treated, like your little bitch! Remember he is no longer your married husband (or boyfriend), he is your little cock, BITCH! Make sure you tell him and the more you treat him like that the more he will be submissive, take his place, beg to serve you and be turned on by that fact.
I know this is a lot to read, but this will get you back on track in no time, just don't repeat your mistakes as the best advice I can give is to not end up here in the first place!!
I'm a married woman in a loving but female controlled relationship. I make the rules and he obeys, PERIOD! I firmly believe in female dominance and submission of the men we love. I have always felt that I possessed a certain power over men and the more I looked at this power, the more I realized that all women had this same ability. As i looked at all the relations ships around me, I began to realize that this female power was natural.
Tuesday, June 24, 2014
Thursday, March 13, 2014
Little bitch gets his reward
Sunday, January 27, 2013
Power - Female Supremacy
All women have power and all women use it to some degree or another, however a large growing percentage of us want and feel there is something more to our power and ability, something that drives us, pleases us, and excites us. Something deep inside struggling to get out. Something that is rarely discussed or covered in the norm of social life. That something is Female dominance, the truest of female power. We want ultimate power, submission and obedience from our men, we want control and we want freedom to do as we please. It is those women who embrace and flaunt their natural power that can take it to the ultimate level of female dominance. That growing percent that really knows how to use it, gets what they want and truly enjoys it.
Female Domination/Supremacy (Also called FEMDOM) isn't about strength, it isn't about who's smarter, and it really isn't even about who's inferior. Its about knowing what you have, knowing your natural place and knowing how to use both to get what you want and deserve. Its wanting and craving the power and the ability to control. Its about bringing out his natural submission and belief that his place is kneeling at your feet. Its about making him submit, and making your will his own.
Pussy is power, but owning his mind and knowledge is control. Pussy is his obsession, but demeanor attitude, force and psychology are the control. Knowing how to use your pussy, and your body, with your strict dominating demeanor and attitude is the key to get control and what you want and deserve.
Lets talk about female power, what the power is, what gives us that power;
OK, first lets look at power as a whole....you have what every straight man needs, pussy! Men are chemically and biologically programmed to need pussy, but they are also equally programmed to submit to power. The chemical that dictates both is produced in his balls and builds with every day of not getting pussy. Every day that goes by that he does not get pussy, the urge and desire gets stronger and stronger. Sure he can get relief from masturbation or even a blow job, however this relief is not the same as with pussy. Most males only get relief anywhere from 6 hrs to 1day. Where as getting relief from pussy could last any where from 3 to 4 days for most males depending on age, of course younger males may not even get relief that long. As of now no studies and very Little has been done to figure out why or how this is, but what is known is that pussy secretes certain chemicals that is absorbed through his penis that heightens the stimulation of nerve endings in a manner that only a warm pussy can give. This mixed with a certain working of pelvic muscles (the act of pleasing a pussy even if he is not successful) leading to an orgasm. In short the act of fucking a pussy. More to come.....
Female Domination/Supremacy (Also called FEMDOM) isn't about strength, it isn't about who's smarter, and it really isn't even about who's inferior. Its about knowing what you have, knowing your natural place and knowing how to use both to get what you want and deserve. Its wanting and craving the power and the ability to control. Its about bringing out his natural submission and belief that his place is kneeling at your feet. Its about making him submit, and making your will his own.
Pussy is power, but owning his mind and knowledge is control. Pussy is his obsession, but demeanor attitude, force and psychology are the control. Knowing how to use your pussy, and your body, with your strict dominating demeanor and attitude is the key to get control and what you want and deserve.
Lets talk about female power, what the power is, what gives us that power;
OK, first lets look at power as a whole....you have what every straight man needs, pussy! Men are chemically and biologically programmed to need pussy, but they are also equally programmed to submit to power. The chemical that dictates both is produced in his balls and builds with every day of not getting pussy. Every day that goes by that he does not get pussy, the urge and desire gets stronger and stronger. Sure he can get relief from masturbation or even a blow job, however this relief is not the same as with pussy. Most males only get relief anywhere from 6 hrs to 1day. Where as getting relief from pussy could last any where from 3 to 4 days for most males depending on age, of course younger males may not even get relief that long. As of now no studies and very Little has been done to figure out why or how this is, but what is known is that pussy secretes certain chemicals that is absorbed through his penis that heightens the stimulation of nerve endings in a manner that only a warm pussy can give. This mixed with a certain working of pelvic muscles (the act of pleasing a pussy even if he is not successful) leading to an orgasm. In short the act of fucking a pussy. More to come.....
Monday, December 31, 2012
Introduction to my blog (a must read)
I started this blog to inform, teach, and explain the Dominatrix/Cuckold lifestyle to women. Even if your just curious I encourage to read and take charge of your relationship. You have no idea of how great your sex life and relationship can be when you take your rightful and natural place as a dominatrix. Rather your new or veteran to the lifestyle, you can learn things from my blog. I'll teach you my trials and errors, helpful hints, solutions, attitude, aggression, and punishments. You can also communicate with me via email at herdesire@live.com for any questions or thoughts. By following my blog you will learn to be the best Dominatrix you can, and you will teach him to be the best and most submissive he can.
The cuckold dominatrix is not the way for every women, some are just to closed minded or tied to the old ways, the "social norm" as its called. They have let society or family practice dictate their life and may be fearful of someone finding out, they may be to brain washed, or they may just enjoy what little power they have if any at all and prefer to keep it that way. However for those of you who want to break the cycle, who want more power and pleasure than you ever thought possible, then you have come to the right place. You just need to excepted your calling, demand and take your natural place at the top!
All my chapters are important and helpful, but some of them you must read and follow in order to achieve your goals. I will mark the must read chapters with these stars **. You will need to let go of your fears, embrace your new role and let out your female sexuality. Be the bitch he needs you to be. You must be aggressive, firm and controlling but above all, humiliate and degrade him down to his level, his place of servitude. This will bring out his natural submissive trait and he will be yours to command. He needs you to be his DOM, he needs you to control him and break his will, he needs you to make him fear you and make him serve you the way you desidre, he needs you to force him, humiliate him, be degrading and strict on him, he needs you to talk and treat him like the pussy whipped slave he really is inside, he needs you to be the best DOM you can in every aspect, even if he doesn't know that he needs it, even if he doesn't know he wants it, even if he doesn't know its his natural place....He eventually will! All men are trainable, and all straight men want what you have, so start using this to your advantage.
As you read through this blog, take notes or what ever you need to do to learn this. Make the step in the right direction to not only better your life but his as well. You will reap the rewards for it and he will be happy serving you.
Also, as you read to the end of a topic you may find that it just ends or lacks an ending, this is because I'm constantly updating my blog, refining it and making it better for you women who want to be the best mistress you can be, or its a blog I started when I had free time and are yet to finish it (just bare with me). Dates and times on here are days and times that I started that particular topic but as I said I'm constantly updating things and moving things around so you may read a date of start from 2 yrs ago but I could have just changed it 2 weeks ago...Check back constantly to remain up to date on events, post and news.
If you have questions, comments, or want to discuss things more in depth about a particular topic, again please feel free to email me at herdesire@live.com.
Remember you hold the key to your success, you dictate your future, and you have the power! Except nothing but his complete obedience, his submission to your will. What you put into it, you get out...So if you want 110 percent from him put 110 percent into training him the way you want him!
Enjoy....
The cuckold dominatrix is not the way for every women, some are just to closed minded or tied to the old ways, the "social norm" as its called. They have let society or family practice dictate their life and may be fearful of someone finding out, they may be to brain washed, or they may just enjoy what little power they have if any at all and prefer to keep it that way. However for those of you who want to break the cycle, who want more power and pleasure than you ever thought possible, then you have come to the right place. You just need to excepted your calling, demand and take your natural place at the top!
All my chapters are important and helpful, but some of them you must read and follow in order to achieve your goals. I will mark the must read chapters with these stars **. You will need to let go of your fears, embrace your new role and let out your female sexuality. Be the bitch he needs you to be. You must be aggressive, firm and controlling but above all, humiliate and degrade him down to his level, his place of servitude. This will bring out his natural submissive trait and he will be yours to command. He needs you to be his DOM, he needs you to control him and break his will, he needs you to make him fear you and make him serve you the way you desidre, he needs you to force him, humiliate him, be degrading and strict on him, he needs you to talk and treat him like the pussy whipped slave he really is inside, he needs you to be the best DOM you can in every aspect, even if he doesn't know that he needs it, even if he doesn't know he wants it, even if he doesn't know its his natural place....He eventually will! All men are trainable, and all straight men want what you have, so start using this to your advantage.
As you read through this blog, take notes or what ever you need to do to learn this. Make the step in the right direction to not only better your life but his as well. You will reap the rewards for it and he will be happy serving you.
Also, as you read to the end of a topic you may find that it just ends or lacks an ending, this is because I'm constantly updating my blog, refining it and making it better for you women who want to be the best mistress you can be, or its a blog I started when I had free time and are yet to finish it (just bare with me). Dates and times on here are days and times that I started that particular topic but as I said I'm constantly updating things and moving things around so you may read a date of start from 2 yrs ago but I could have just changed it 2 weeks ago...Check back constantly to remain up to date on events, post and news.
If you have questions, comments, or want to discuss things more in depth about a particular topic, again please feel free to email me at herdesire@live.com.
Remember you hold the key to your success, you dictate your future, and you have the power! Except nothing but his complete obedience, his submission to your will. What you put into it, you get out...So if you want 110 percent from him put 110 percent into training him the way you want him!
Enjoy....
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
How to manipulate his penis with out orgasm
EDGING THE CLITTY
Penis stimulation
The most important physical erogenous zones and maximum stimulation areas of the penis are the sensations from the frenulum band, (marked and yellow in the picture below) and the head with greater emphasis on the entire rim of the head. These spots are very sensitive and contain most of the nerve endings of the penis. For this reason you will focus most of your time stimulating these areas not just useful for building arousal with your pussy slave but also good to use during foreplay with your lover or boyfriend. These structures each have their own feeling, and each contributes in its own way to the man's total sensitisation of pleasure and/or sexual build up. When training or building arousal of your PS It must be emphasized that emotional and mental excitement is an extremely important component of sexual control, and intensifies the man's perception of physical sensations from his penis...... Thus the importance of verbal humiliation and describing in vivid detail about your long nights of fucking with your boyfriend or lover. While you are stroking and licking his over grown clit, you should be telling him all details so as to paint a picture in his mind of how much you enjoyed sex with your boyfriend and exactly how he pleased you. This does also serve another function, it helps to persuade his mind and thoughts to help prove that his tiny prick does not please you and that you really do prefer a real cock. When you pleasure your boyfriend or lover the same special attention should be given to his cock with the difference being that you will also mix this technique in while giving him a normal blow job.About the cock;
- The rim of the head contains sensory receptors called Meissner corpuscles. research shows that these nerves, similar to nerve endings in the fingertips, are there to provide pleasure, as well as fine sensory perception. This seems to help a man to enjoy sex longer without ejaculating prematurely, because he can more easily tell when he is approaching the threshold of orgasm.
- The male cock has 4000 nerve endings mostly located in the yellow and red areas of the picture below, while the clitoris alone has over 8000. The vagina also contains around 4000 nerve endings and they are mainly located at the vaginal opening to a depth of 1/3 of its total depth, thus the reason woman prefer bigger thickness/girth over length.
- Thus the importance of pleasuring the rim from time to time during foreplay.
- Stimulation of the frenulum and ridged band results in intense pleasurable feelings during arousal. The ridged band consists of a number of "ridges", described by Dr. John Taylor in his recent article. Sensations from these structures during oral, intercourse, or masturbation are thought to be the primary trigger of orgasm in the intact male.
- We believe that stimulation of the Frenulum, head, and ridge/rim is most significant in the later stages of sexual intercourse, when penetration is deepest and the nerve endings in the shaft come into play bringing sensation at its highest. Sensations from the all the glans contribute to the quality of the sensual experience and more easily triggers orgasm. This is why its very important that only the head can be inserted into the mouth or licking of the head is practiced when building or maintaining arousal of your PS.
To start get his cock hard (remember that if it is your PS not to stick more than the head into your mouth and even keep that to a minimum). Once his cock is hard you will begin to lick his Frenulum bottom to top and vise versa. You should start to notice his cock harden even harder after a few minutes. Now its time to expand the licking from the bottom of his urinary opening to the bottom of the Frenulum and the rim from the side of his cock to where it meets the Frenulum left and right. After a few minutes and some serious signs of enjoyment from him its time to expand and add using your fingers. Do this by taking your pointer and middle finger(you can also use your index finger and thumb if it feels more comfortable to you) in a V shape then straddle your fingers over his cock in a position that both the left and right sides of his rim are between your fingers and then move them up and down while licking the bottom of the frenulum to the bottom of the urinary opening. After a few minutes of this he should be melting in your hands! Once you see he is good and worked up, use your finger to rub these area's especially the underside of the rim and rim also the Frenulum. Remember that if you are doing this to your lover or boyfriend you will also want to mix inserting his cock into your mouth
Penis Shaft
The shaft of the penis is the part that extends out of the body to the rim of the head. When flaccid (no erect) the skin on the shaft of the penis will be loose and stretchy. It also contains nerve endings that help males feels penetration. These nerve endings help trigger a satisfaction feeling in the brain when the stimulation of the shaft is combined with frenulum and rim stimulation. Again the reason why we only stimulate the head and frenulum of our PS. However, using the same techniques with shaft sensation on your Boyfriend/lover will drive him crazy.Glans Penis
The head of the penis is called the glans, just below the tip of the urethral opening (where both urine and semen come out). The glans is a highly sensitive area, with many nerve endings. The glans is considered to be fairly similar in function to the clitoris with far fewer nerve endings.Frenulum
The frenulum is the indentation on the underside of the penis where the glans meets the shaft and run up to the urethral opening. The frenulum is an area of great sensitivity, and when stimulated correctly can have a man on the edge for hours begging to be released, especially when using the rim and head stimulation jointly. While it has far less nerves than that of a womans clit and does not give as great of a sensation, it does trigger the part of a mans brain to release chemicals to put him in a trans like state.Sunday, December 25, 2011
**From a Bulls/Lovers point of view
My point of view.... Well let me be clear here, I take my position in a cuckold relationship serious. I'm there for a reason, and that reason is very clear to all involved. My job is to make sure that the mistress is pleased sexually but also to use, help humiliate, and put her pussy slave in his proper place. My involvement really helps in his submission to his mistress, it helps break his will and ego. Once he sees his mistress is getting bigger, better cock, having far better orgasms and realizes that she prefers to fuck me not his little cock....Its a shock to his manhood. But also that she is willing to let me use him like a sissy bitch shows that she is a true dominatrix and demands his submission. I enjoy using her pussy slave, and i really enjoy how much it turns her on watching me use him. I believe that women are, and should be very powerful and sexually active creatures. I know she is capable of great pleasure, pleasure that far exceeds that of mine or any other male. I know how to please her and bring out her inner power, the true dominatrix she needs to be. No I'm not huge in the cock department but I'm above average, 7 inches and fairly thick. Plenty big enough to please her pussy the proper way and far bigger than her pussy slave, and I know how to use it. I also know how to talk to her, I know how to take control of her body and I know what turns her on. I know how she wants me to treat her pussy slave and I know how to use him properly to get both her and I excited and pleased.
I expect him to submit to me just as he does his mistress. He may find it hard at first, and he will definitely find it hard to take my cock into his mouth, but he will eventually submit to his place as my bitch. I want him to know I'm his master and while I don't own him, I will control him while I'm there. He is to knell at my feet and obey me just as he would her. He is to address me as master (some bulls go by SIR) and when he is ordered to suck my cock by his mistress or myself he is to submit to that command fully and show his submission by sucking my cock to his best ability. He is to deep throat it and suck it hard, I want to hear him gag and I want to see slobber dripping from his mouth. When His mistress wants me to fuck him in the ass (I always wear protection) He is to be tied down bent over across the bed or dogie style with his hands between his legs and cuffed to his ankles. When I know I'm going to fuck him after I'm done pleasing his mistress, I tell him that he is to show his submission while I'm fucking her by kneeling facing away from the bed, bend over with his face to the floor, reach back with his arms and spread his pussy (ass cheeks) open and stay that way till I'm done fucking his mistress. Before or after he gets tied down in his place to get fucked, he is ordered to suck my cock hard. As I'm behind him putting on my condom, I tell him to beg me to fuck him like the bitch he is. While I fuck him I take the time to slap his ass and also tell him I want to hear him scream and moan like the bitch he is. I also find it amusing to have him suck his mistresses dildo while I fuck his tight little pussy. Then after I've come but before he is let up, I pull the condom off and have him suck me clean. In case your wondering, "no" he does not get off and he always wears his chastity while he's taking my cock deep inside his pussy. Another humiliating act that really turns on his mistress is having him suck my cock while she fucks him with her strap on or smacking/paddling his ass and balls while he sucks me just prior to her fucking him.
OUR FIRST PLAY
From the first meeting I lean what she wants, and her expectations. I learn what turns her on and what pleases her, as well as the limits of both her and her pussy slave. Then on our first secession I meet the pussy slave, I go a little easy on him but not to easy. I give her what she needs, what she wants and craves.....Real orgasms, orgasms her pussy slave could never give and the thrill of watching her bitch serve me. I'm greeted at the door by a very seductive and sexy dressed mistress, she is eager to fuck and watch her bitch serve me. I come through the door and as we walk to the family room she yells for her bitch. No sooner than we sit down her naked(except for his chastity) bitch is kneeling at her feet. In a firm and strict voice she says, "Go get us a drink!". He quickly retrieves us a beer and again is kneeling in his place. She begins to humiliate him by telling him shes going to get pleased by a real mans cock and that he knows whats expected of him. I begin to rub her breast and humiliate him myself, telling him I'm going to please her the way she deserves, and that from now on he's going to serve me when I'm over. With in seconds I'm making out with her and fingering her pussy and on my way down on her.
After a few minutes she's good and wet, and shouting out to her bitch to go take his place in the bedroom. We move up to the bed room and she puts his blindfold on and cuffs his hand behind his back. She then humiliates him as I start undressing her and myself. With him on his knees, he is perfect height to suck my cock, and she doesn't hesitate to grab his chain and pull him over to my cock while saying, "Suck his fucking cock and make sure you get it really hard and ready to fuck me since your tiny cock can't please me"! Then she grabs the back of his head and guides it to my cock and pushes his mouth onto my cock. As he is sucking my cock we are kissing and I'm rubbing her breast and fingering her pussy. After a few minutes she starts pushing the back of his head hard on my cock and shouts," Suck that fucking cock and let me hear you gag!" then she takes a crop off the wall and starts smacking his ass. Now he's really sucking my cock and its super hard! She pulls his chain and tells him to listen to how a real cock can make her scream. I go to town sucking her pussy, slide on my condom and have him put my cock into her pussy. She starts moaning as I slide it in, and with in a few minutes she is screaming from her first orgasm. After she has cum a few times I move from missionary position to her riding me and she pulls his chain over to have the bitch insert my cock and orders him to lick her ass. After a few orgasms I move him to the bed laying on his back head hanging over the bed. I slide my cock into his mouth and begin to fuck it and she rubs his balls. Then I grab her and pull her over him 69 position and tell him to put my cock in. As I start to fuck her dogie she tells him to lick her clit. Her orgasms build fast, and I can tell she is really turned on by all this. After several orgasms I cum deep inside her. She pulls her pussy just over his face and humiliate him about how well she was pleased, tells him its my pussy from now on and orders him to clean out the mess.
After she feels that he's properly cleaned up the mess, she gets a robe on, removes is blindfold, cuffs, and tells him to get us drinks. He promptly returns with drinks and takes his place. She spends the next 10 to 15 minutes humiliating him and tells him to get use to this because this is the way its going to be from now on. She then puts back on his blindfold but no cuffs and removes the robe. By now I'm on my back on the bed and she orders him to suck me hard again, at the same time she climbs on my face 69 position so I can lick her pussy and she can watch her bitch suck my cock. once she sees that I'm rock hard again she spins around and starts riding my cock push him out of the way and ordering him to the corner to knell. After another 40 minutes of fucking I cum and again he is order over for clean up duty. After he's done his job we get dressed and head down stairs and he is ordered to clean up the room and take his place by the bed to wait for her return. We go to talk a bit in the family room and discuss the next nights events. I tell her I'm eager to take the roll of his master and her bull/lover and she agrees to give me ownership of her pussy (when she's not fucking another lover) and control of her bitch.
From then on when I come over, I'm not easy about using him or ordering him around. I put him in his place and she loves every bit of it!
I expect him to submit to me just as he does his mistress. He may find it hard at first, and he will definitely find it hard to take my cock into his mouth, but he will eventually submit to his place as my bitch. I want him to know I'm his master and while I don't own him, I will control him while I'm there. He is to knell at my feet and obey me just as he would her. He is to address me as master (some bulls go by SIR) and when he is ordered to suck my cock by his mistress or myself he is to submit to that command fully and show his submission by sucking my cock to his best ability. He is to deep throat it and suck it hard, I want to hear him gag and I want to see slobber dripping from his mouth. When His mistress wants me to fuck him in the ass (I always wear protection) He is to be tied down bent over across the bed or dogie style with his hands between his legs and cuffed to his ankles. When I know I'm going to fuck him after I'm done pleasing his mistress, I tell him that he is to show his submission while I'm fucking her by kneeling facing away from the bed, bend over with his face to the floor, reach back with his arms and spread his pussy (ass cheeks) open and stay that way till I'm done fucking his mistress. Before or after he gets tied down in his place to get fucked, he is ordered to suck my cock hard. As I'm behind him putting on my condom, I tell him to beg me to fuck him like the bitch he is. While I fuck him I take the time to slap his ass and also tell him I want to hear him scream and moan like the bitch he is. I also find it amusing to have him suck his mistresses dildo while I fuck his tight little pussy. Then after I've come but before he is let up, I pull the condom off and have him suck me clean. In case your wondering, "no" he does not get off and he always wears his chastity while he's taking my cock deep inside his pussy. Another humiliating act that really turns on his mistress is having him suck my cock while she fucks him with her strap on or smacking/paddling his ass and balls while he sucks me just prior to her fucking him.
OUR FIRST PLAY
From the first meeting I lean what she wants, and her expectations. I learn what turns her on and what pleases her, as well as the limits of both her and her pussy slave. Then on our first secession I meet the pussy slave, I go a little easy on him but not to easy. I give her what she needs, what she wants and craves.....Real orgasms, orgasms her pussy slave could never give and the thrill of watching her bitch serve me. I'm greeted at the door by a very seductive and sexy dressed mistress, she is eager to fuck and watch her bitch serve me. I come through the door and as we walk to the family room she yells for her bitch. No sooner than we sit down her naked(except for his chastity) bitch is kneeling at her feet. In a firm and strict voice she says, "Go get us a drink!". He quickly retrieves us a beer and again is kneeling in his place. She begins to humiliate him by telling him shes going to get pleased by a real mans cock and that he knows whats expected of him. I begin to rub her breast and humiliate him myself, telling him I'm going to please her the way she deserves, and that from now on he's going to serve me when I'm over. With in seconds I'm making out with her and fingering her pussy and on my way down on her.
After a few minutes she's good and wet, and shouting out to her bitch to go take his place in the bedroom. We move up to the bed room and she puts his blindfold on and cuffs his hand behind his back. She then humiliates him as I start undressing her and myself. With him on his knees, he is perfect height to suck my cock, and she doesn't hesitate to grab his chain and pull him over to my cock while saying, "Suck his fucking cock and make sure you get it really hard and ready to fuck me since your tiny cock can't please me"! Then she grabs the back of his head and guides it to my cock and pushes his mouth onto my cock. As he is sucking my cock we are kissing and I'm rubbing her breast and fingering her pussy. After a few minutes she starts pushing the back of his head hard on my cock and shouts," Suck that fucking cock and let me hear you gag!" then she takes a crop off the wall and starts smacking his ass. Now he's really sucking my cock and its super hard! She pulls his chain and tells him to listen to how a real cock can make her scream. I go to town sucking her pussy, slide on my condom and have him put my cock into her pussy. She starts moaning as I slide it in, and with in a few minutes she is screaming from her first orgasm. After she has cum a few times I move from missionary position to her riding me and she pulls his chain over to have the bitch insert my cock and orders him to lick her ass. After a few orgasms I move him to the bed laying on his back head hanging over the bed. I slide my cock into his mouth and begin to fuck it and she rubs his balls. Then I grab her and pull her over him 69 position and tell him to put my cock in. As I start to fuck her dogie she tells him to lick her clit. Her orgasms build fast, and I can tell she is really turned on by all this. After several orgasms I cum deep inside her. She pulls her pussy just over his face and humiliate him about how well she was pleased, tells him its my pussy from now on and orders him to clean out the mess.
After she feels that he's properly cleaned up the mess, she gets a robe on, removes is blindfold, cuffs, and tells him to get us drinks. He promptly returns with drinks and takes his place. She spends the next 10 to 15 minutes humiliating him and tells him to get use to this because this is the way its going to be from now on. She then puts back on his blindfold but no cuffs and removes the robe. By now I'm on my back on the bed and she orders him to suck me hard again, at the same time she climbs on my face 69 position so I can lick her pussy and she can watch her bitch suck my cock. once she sees that I'm rock hard again she spins around and starts riding my cock push him out of the way and ordering him to the corner to knell. After another 40 minutes of fucking I cum and again he is order over for clean up duty. After he's done his job we get dressed and head down stairs and he is ordered to clean up the room and take his place by the bed to wait for her return. We go to talk a bit in the family room and discuss the next nights events. I tell her I'm eager to take the roll of his master and her bull/lover and she agrees to give me ownership of her pussy (when she's not fucking another lover) and control of her bitch.
From then on when I come over, I'm not easy about using him or ordering him around. I put him in his place and she loves every bit of it!
Monday, March 7, 2011
**The New You "The Sexy Bitch" "The Dominatrix"
As you train him, you should also train yourself. Your training is done differently but just like his training it will better and deepen his submission to you. Your going to be sexy, your going to get manicures and pedicures done, your going to get your hair done, your going to do tanning, your going to buy sexy revealing clothes and heels. Your going to flirt with cute guys and make it known that you are available, and yes you are going to get fucked as much and as long as you want by these cute guys. Your going to flaunt your sexiness in front of your bitch. do this by doing what you know turns on men, just like strippers do it....Your going to spread your legs in front of him if you have a skirt on, bend over in front of him. Make him get you dressed (only after you have panties on) If it doesn't already, it will start to turn you on to treat him the way he deserves and needs to be treated. Especially when you see how much more submissive he is....And he really wants and needs you to take your place as you force him to take his.
OK so what does this mean? Well you will need to take your place just as he takes his place, your now the boss, his mistress, THE DOMINATRIX. As such you have responsibilities to be dominating and aggressive to him, to be a bitch, to humiliate and degrade him, and to simply use him to do what ever you want if for no other reason just because you can. No longer are you to ask or be polite, TELL him what to do and do it in a FIRM demanding voice. You need to be firm speaking and strict at all times possible....Always enforce your rules and punish for disobedience or rule breaking and do it ASAP! This role you take as a Dominatrix is and should always be about your pleasure and what turns you on. You should not only dress sexy but when doing training or punishments, you should dress in black or red typical dominatrix outfits. You will take his money and make him glad your taking it, make him feel it is a privilege to serve you and clean your house. Make him fear you and your ability to give pain and humiliation. Keep him wondering what's next and how much further will you push into submission. Surprise him with new twist of ideas in training sessions and also when fucking your lover.
Its very important to be the new sexy you, I can't stress how much the difference is in his attitude and submission when your strict, demanding, and aggressive when talking to him and equally as much when in using humiliation, hard training and punishments when needed! It is equally as important that you keep him guessing whats next, and change training sessions around from time to time. The tone of your voice, and aggressive way you speak to him is very important, as is the words you choose. Words like GO, GET, KNEEL, BEG, SHUT UP, NOW, DO, are very effective, just remember to use your voice, and the demeanor of the way you speak. The tone should be firm , and aggressive. Be serious and look serious, he must know that you will not take any back talk, or rule breaking and that you expect his full attention and total submission! He is trainable to do any and everything you want him to do, and exactly how you want it done, you just have to train him correctly just as described above. You need to collar him when doing training, and when ever possible out of training walk him around on his knees or hands and knees( what ever turns you on). When tying him down the ropes and chains should be tight with very little room for movement. He should never be allowed to touch the locks and keys, or allowed to remove /put on his chastity. Remember you get out of it what you put in it, so don't be lazy or laxed When showing him his place and keeping him in it. A submissive and well trained bitch is an obedient bitch, always eager to please and obey his mistress.
Some of you may be wondering how to be strict and demanding, while some of you have an idea of what it entails or are just plain ruthless about it. Well being ruthless is a perfect demeanor and attitude to have, and you should start by thinking along those lines. You need to enjoy your power, and embrace it, never feel bad about it or the way you use it. You should make him do things just because you can, you should never give in or let him lax on chores, punishments, rules and general acts of submission. MEANING/example, he is on his knees as he should be and he asks for permission to sit or get in bed, "NO! You know your place is kneeling at my feet, now shut up!" When you speak to him, it should not be in the gentle voice that you use to speak to him, it should be firm, loud, and have some bit of humiliation in it if possible. MEANING/example, "Tic Tac Dick get me something to drink and make it fast!!" or (as he is kneeling at your feet waiting for chores or orders after getting off work) " Your going to do your normal chores today, but I'm feeling like being a BITCH, so instead of loading the dish washer, your going to wash them by hand and hand wash my panties while your at it, and the whole time Your doing it I want yo to think about how pathetically small your dicklet is and what you can do to better serve me since its barely the only way you please me!! You see, it not just what you say, its how you say it. Think about the times you use to get mad at him, how you were short, most likely being a bitch, and mean and aggressive with talking to him. Now up that scale to the dominatrix level and you should be on the right path. You need to control, demand, humiliate, degrade and treat him for what he is, YOUR SUBMISSIVE PUSSY WHIPPED BITCH! You can not go lightly on him if you wish to gain complete control and submission from him. A very horny male will do anything you command, a scared male will be quicker to do it and get it done, but a well trained male will be both and feel privileged and horny doing it!
Even though your attitude, demeanor, and tone in which you speak and shout orders is very important, so is the way you use your power. You should always think of ways to humiliate him as well as where and when to do them. EXAMPLES of using your power, Your in bed at night watching TV or reading a book; you should (only have panties on) spread your legs so he can get aroused for a few minutes and then make him rub your feet. at least once a day while he is in his place, walk up to him and make him lick/worship your feet...remember to humiliate him while he's doing it (That's a good bitch, suck my fucking toes and tell me who's the boss) or (My little bitch knows his place doesn't he, now tell me you have a fucking worthless nub for a dick and thank me for allowing you the privilege of serving me). Have him worship your ass, again while he's doing it humiliate him. If you are capable of having an orgasm(lock his hands behind his back) let him lick your ass till you cum(rub your pussy, and maybe let him smell and/or lick your a finger after he begs). HUMILIATING WAYS to use your power, while your out shopping and he is with you stand him in the corner somewhere just outside the store(really works good when shopping for lingerie for your lover). make him get in humiliating poses like submission pose or begging to get fucked pose. Make him ask for permission to do anything, and his place should always be kneeling at your feet. He should always be kneeling when he hands you something, if not snap your fingers point to the floor and in a stern firm voice say kneel. Use your power and make him do things just because you can.
Make him repeat to you that your the boss, or that he has a tiny pathetic nub of a dick, he's your bitch, along with other humiliating things you say to him. remind him daily that he has a useless tiny clit of a dick, and make sure you laugh at his tiny dick. Here is something you can say to him that I say to my PS to humiliate him; Your tiny pathetic little dicklet will never feel pussy again, for that matter it will never even have an orgasm.its useless and doesn't even deserve to be called a cock, and that's why your my little cock sucking bitch! That's right, I said cock sucking....Your going to suck my lovers cock hard for me from now on and if you do a good enough job I might let you lick my ass while he fucks me, with the blind fold on of course (laugh). You don't deserve anything at all to do with pussy, and not just because your little nub is so fucking tiny but you cant even keep it hard or know how to use it. I don't care how horny you get, and I don't care how much it humiliates you to know I'm getting bigger better cock, and it's going to be none of your fucking business. Your not even going to ask me a fucking thing about who I'm fucking, where I'm going,or when i'll be home, and on the occasion I allow you the privilege to hear or watch your going to pay for it later with my amusement of torturing your ass and balls (laugh)Your going to do as your told when your told to do it or you will be punished and you will never feel the pleasure of my big cock in your tight little pussy. You're going to learn your fucking place, And you're going to beg me to allow you to serve me, aren't you? (YES MISTRESS) let me hear you beg, let me hear my little bitch beg to serve me and beg to be on your knees worshiping my ass and feet like a good little bitch should be. You're going to be my little bitch and you're going to suck my cock and whoever's cock I tell you to, In fact I'm going to have you used like the little bitch you are. You're going to beg me to go fuck my boyfriend especially if you ever want to feel my cock in your tight little pussy, And you're going to beg me for that privilege to. Tell me who's the boss? (You mistress) that's right, and who's my bitch? ( I am mistress) Good boy! From now on you only refer to me as mistress, and your name is bitch, and you will refer to me as such from now on. If you Forget you're going to get punished. You will kneel at my feet from now on and you will beg to serve me. I will not touch anything this house is your job to clean my house and do the chores. Now let me hear my little bitch beg!** This conversation is one of the normal conversations I have with my PS, I say things like this in and out of the dungeon. He knows his place and he's very happy being in it.
Remember it is you that has the control, it is you that has the power, USE IT!
OK so what does this mean? Well you will need to take your place just as he takes his place, your now the boss, his mistress, THE DOMINATRIX. As such you have responsibilities to be dominating and aggressive to him, to be a bitch, to humiliate and degrade him, and to simply use him to do what ever you want if for no other reason just because you can. No longer are you to ask or be polite, TELL him what to do and do it in a FIRM demanding voice. You need to be firm speaking and strict at all times possible....Always enforce your rules and punish for disobedience or rule breaking and do it ASAP! This role you take as a Dominatrix is and should always be about your pleasure and what turns you on. You should not only dress sexy but when doing training or punishments, you should dress in black or red typical dominatrix outfits. You will take his money and make him glad your taking it, make him feel it is a privilege to serve you and clean your house. Make him fear you and your ability to give pain and humiliation. Keep him wondering what's next and how much further will you push into submission. Surprise him with new twist of ideas in training sessions and also when fucking your lover.
Its very important to be the new sexy you, I can't stress how much the difference is in his attitude and submission when your strict, demanding, and aggressive when talking to him and equally as much when in using humiliation, hard training and punishments when needed! It is equally as important that you keep him guessing whats next, and change training sessions around from time to time. The tone of your voice, and aggressive way you speak to him is very important, as is the words you choose. Words like GO, GET, KNEEL, BEG, SHUT UP, NOW, DO, are very effective, just remember to use your voice, and the demeanor of the way you speak. The tone should be firm , and aggressive. Be serious and look serious, he must know that you will not take any back talk, or rule breaking and that you expect his full attention and total submission! He is trainable to do any and everything you want him to do, and exactly how you want it done, you just have to train him correctly just as described above. You need to collar him when doing training, and when ever possible out of training walk him around on his knees or hands and knees( what ever turns you on). When tying him down the ropes and chains should be tight with very little room for movement. He should never be allowed to touch the locks and keys, or allowed to remove /put on his chastity. Remember you get out of it what you put in it, so don't be lazy or laxed When showing him his place and keeping him in it. A submissive and well trained bitch is an obedient bitch, always eager to please and obey his mistress.
Some of you may be wondering how to be strict and demanding, while some of you have an idea of what it entails or are just plain ruthless about it. Well being ruthless is a perfect demeanor and attitude to have, and you should start by thinking along those lines. You need to enjoy your power, and embrace it, never feel bad about it or the way you use it. You should make him do things just because you can, you should never give in or let him lax on chores, punishments, rules and general acts of submission. MEANING/example, he is on his knees as he should be and he asks for permission to sit or get in bed, "NO! You know your place is kneeling at my feet, now shut up!" When you speak to him, it should not be in the gentle voice that you use to speak to him, it should be firm, loud, and have some bit of humiliation in it if possible. MEANING/example, "Tic Tac Dick get me something to drink and make it fast!!" or (as he is kneeling at your feet waiting for chores or orders after getting off work) " Your going to do your normal chores today, but I'm feeling like being a BITCH, so instead of loading the dish washer, your going to wash them by hand and hand wash my panties while your at it, and the whole time Your doing it I want yo to think about how pathetically small your dicklet is and what you can do to better serve me since its barely the only way you please me!! You see, it not just what you say, its how you say it. Think about the times you use to get mad at him, how you were short, most likely being a bitch, and mean and aggressive with talking to him. Now up that scale to the dominatrix level and you should be on the right path. You need to control, demand, humiliate, degrade and treat him for what he is, YOUR SUBMISSIVE PUSSY WHIPPED BITCH! You can not go lightly on him if you wish to gain complete control and submission from him. A very horny male will do anything you command, a scared male will be quicker to do it and get it done, but a well trained male will be both and feel privileged and horny doing it!
Even though your attitude, demeanor, and tone in which you speak and shout orders is very important, so is the way you use your power. You should always think of ways to humiliate him as well as where and when to do them. EXAMPLES of using your power, Your in bed at night watching TV or reading a book; you should (only have panties on) spread your legs so he can get aroused for a few minutes and then make him rub your feet. at least once a day while he is in his place, walk up to him and make him lick/worship your feet...remember to humiliate him while he's doing it (That's a good bitch, suck my fucking toes and tell me who's the boss) or (My little bitch knows his place doesn't he, now tell me you have a fucking worthless nub for a dick and thank me for allowing you the privilege of serving me). Have him worship your ass, again while he's doing it humiliate him. If you are capable of having an orgasm(lock his hands behind his back) let him lick your ass till you cum(rub your pussy, and maybe let him smell and/or lick your a finger after he begs). HUMILIATING WAYS to use your power, while your out shopping and he is with you stand him in the corner somewhere just outside the store(really works good when shopping for lingerie for your lover). make him get in humiliating poses like submission pose or begging to get fucked pose. Make him ask for permission to do anything, and his place should always be kneeling at your feet. He should always be kneeling when he hands you something, if not snap your fingers point to the floor and in a stern firm voice say kneel. Use your power and make him do things just because you can.
Make him repeat to you that your the boss, or that he has a tiny pathetic nub of a dick, he's your bitch, along with other humiliating things you say to him. remind him daily that he has a useless tiny clit of a dick, and make sure you laugh at his tiny dick. Here is something you can say to him that I say to my PS to humiliate him; Your tiny pathetic little dicklet will never feel pussy again, for that matter it will never even have an orgasm.its useless and doesn't even deserve to be called a cock, and that's why your my little cock sucking bitch! That's right, I said cock sucking....Your going to suck my lovers cock hard for me from now on and if you do a good enough job I might let you lick my ass while he fucks me, with the blind fold on of course (laugh). You don't deserve anything at all to do with pussy, and not just because your little nub is so fucking tiny but you cant even keep it hard or know how to use it. I don't care how horny you get, and I don't care how much it humiliates you to know I'm getting bigger better cock, and it's going to be none of your fucking business. Your not even going to ask me a fucking thing about who I'm fucking, where I'm going,or when i'll be home, and on the occasion I allow you the privilege to hear or watch your going to pay for it later with my amusement of torturing your ass and balls (laugh)Your going to do as your told when your told to do it or you will be punished and you will never feel the pleasure of my big cock in your tight little pussy. You're going to learn your fucking place, And you're going to beg me to allow you to serve me, aren't you? (YES MISTRESS) let me hear you beg, let me hear my little bitch beg to serve me and beg to be on your knees worshiping my ass and feet like a good little bitch should be. You're going to be my little bitch and you're going to suck my cock and whoever's cock I tell you to, In fact I'm going to have you used like the little bitch you are. You're going to beg me to go fuck my boyfriend especially if you ever want to feel my cock in your tight little pussy, And you're going to beg me for that privilege to. Tell me who's the boss? (You mistress) that's right, and who's my bitch? ( I am mistress) Good boy! From now on you only refer to me as mistress, and your name is bitch, and you will refer to me as such from now on. If you Forget you're going to get punished. You will kneel at my feet from now on and you will beg to serve me. I will not touch anything this house is your job to clean my house and do the chores. Now let me hear my little bitch beg!** This conversation is one of the normal conversations I have with my PS, I say things like this in and out of the dungeon. He knows his place and he's very happy being in it.
Remember it is you that has the control, it is you that has the power, USE IT!
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