Simple facts for women who want to know

This is a list of facts and information from various scientist, analyst, sexual study organisations, and college research departments. The information is gathered on behalf of and from condom makers and designers, sex toy makers and designers, pharmaceutical companies, various colleges, sex therapy, government, independent research and studies for human sexual behavior.

The sex industry from toys to pornography has a combined annual revenue of over 20 billion in the US alone and is one of the most profitable industries in the world.

Female porn stars make an average salary of double or more than their male counterparts do.
 
Fact, women control sex....When, where and how much, if at all and men know this. As such most men work hard to improve their value, worth, or importance to females by a show of wealth or possessions, display of power, or simply by attraction/looks and sexual pleasure through being well endowed. Most men (the smart ones) also know that pleasing a women sexually and/or mentally means she is far more likely to grant them access to her pussy, most especially a returning visit. The smart women will use this to their advantage.

Women's bodies are genetically designed to attract males and influence their sexual needs and arousal level. We secrete various pheromones and hormones to achieve this goal. The main pheromone responsible for this and other controlling powers is called copulins. Copulins are very powerful and once absorbed by the male will chemically change his brain and thought process. These pheromones create a type of mind control effect, and puts the male brain and thinking process in a hazy state. This makes him susceptible to reconditioning and brainwashing. 
Here is legitimate research on how copulins infiltrate the male’s mind and body.
Fact, 87 % of heterosexual males who have had vaginal sex are addicted to it. That is to scientifically say,  they are addicted to the chemicals secreted by the vagina and absorbed through sexual contact as well as the chemicals released during orgasm. It is believed this number is not 100% because some gay men hide their sexual identity by heterosexual relationships or by being with women. These chemicals don't entirely effect gay men the same way as heterosexual males. However 100 % of these effected men state pussy is divine and mesmerizing, that there is nothing else like it, and nothing can compare to it. They explain that just seeing it or watching it is intoxicating (thanks to copulins) but while they are having sex nothing else in the world matters, and they can't live with out it. *Pussy chemicals are naturally designed to be addicting and research shows its one of the most addicting substances known.*

Some women produce more copulins then others, especially if she is ovulating or other conditions apply as follows. Generally the levels are higher in women that are sexually aroused and/or sexually active, especially in women with multiple sex partners.....Even if one of the partners is not granted direct access to sex (The husband or in our case the bitch). Copulins are at their highest level and work best during foreplay, sex, or even just sex acts.  *which is why they work so well on your bitch as he is restricted on pussy with no sexual relief *

Copulins are absorbed through the penis during sex, but are most commonly absorbed through smell. Generally the closer the male is to the pussy, the stronger the effect of the copulins, and the quicker the response. Compounded by the pussy being exposed or by thin coverings such as panties or yoga pants. 

More and more women are becoming sexually aware of their abilities to have better more thrilling sex, control their sex life (married or not), and use that power to better their life.
66% of Men fear women's sexual power and their ability to have greater pleasure. They fear women's sexual empowerment and liberation. As such they try to control women's sexual appetite, needs, desires, and interactions. They are against and intimidated by women experiencing better sexual satisfaction, through use of sex toys, better sexual partners, or same sex (girl on girl) play, as they fear loss of interest in them by the female, rejection, or replacement. *And they should fear it*

The number one selling dildo's are realistic 8 inches cocks with a girth of 6.5 inches.
Fact, Cock size and girth do matter to the vast majority of women, as high as 86 % and research shows most prefer a cock from 7.5 to 8.5 inches. 67 % of these women say that even though size matters, stamina and performance is important, the remaining 33 % says just size is enough to give great sex. While there are some women, few as they may be that like a smaller cock, even they have a minimal preference and the studies show that to be between 6 to 6.5 inches with less that 2 %  of females at 5.5 to 6 inches. 100% of all women state anything under 5.5 inches wouldn't please them sexually. 100 % of those females that prefer smaller cock, state stamina and performance greatly matters. Nearly all women, 97 % prefer a thicker cock over length.

Fact, 24 % of women have ended a relation ship due to inadequate penis size.

41 % of married women wish their mate had a larger penis and was better in bed. They stated that their mates penis size and ability to perform was insufficient to obtain a vaginal orgasm. They were only able to achieve orgasm through oral (clit licking) or sex toys.
33 % of women stated their mate had an acceptable penis size, but wish their mate was better in bed and had better stamina (lasted longer). These women stated they were able to orgasm at least half the time but the quality was not good. When they did orgasm it was very weak and they were the ones doing all the work to get it by grinding their clit against the mates pelvic bone to achieve it. They felt sex was more a chore than pleasure.
26 % of married women had mates with acceptable penis size or bigger with adequate performance and stamina. They stated sex was at least satisfying and some stated sex was very satisfying.

 61 % of women state the idea duration of sex to be between 30 to 40 minutes, 22 % state 40 minutes to one hour, 15 % state 20 to 30 minutes, 3 % state 10 to 20 minutes. 100 % of women said 1-9 minutes was inadequate and not worth the effort.

52 % of women state the idea amount of sex per week was 4-5 times, 11 % state over 5 times, 24 % stated 2-3 times per week, 7 % state 1-2 times, 6 % state as much as they can. 67 % of females state that if sex was better they would want it more often, 92 % of females state if sex was worse they would want it less often.

63 % of women wish their sex life could improve 24 % state their sex life is okay or acceptable, 13 % state they are having the best sex.

Fact, promiscuous women, are 26 times more likely to be sexually satisfied and have better sex. They also tend to have stronger and multiple orgasms, healthier, happier lives and report less stress. More so for the women who cuckold their mate.

64 % of all married women have at least one sex toy compared to 37 % of single women. This corresponds to single women having a better more fulfilled sex life through multiple partners and or alpha males. Large dildo's and g-spot style vibrators are the most popular sex toys among women with 8 inch cocks being top sellers.
35 % of married women hide their sex toys from the husband and/or use them away from him.

While there is no debate that a larger cock gives more orgasms and they are longer and more powerful than those of smaller or average sized cocks, however a 7 inch cock on the right sexually skilled alpha male can be extremely satisfying.

Fact, cock size also matters to men, almost more than it does women as they know women prefer larger over smaller. Cock size to them can be a status symbol, and confidence tool, or cause low selfesteem or perception of low worth to women, again because it matters to women. As such, studies and polls conducted in the past 20 years by men for average cock size (their conclusion is 5.3 inches) have been diminished or published falsely and inaccurately showing less than actual numbers and percentages. While the blame has been place on faulty studies groups, questioners, and different standards, women in today's research believe this is thought to keep those under average sized men from social, and emotional difficulties with women and peers. But worse, to make women believe that not being able to reach orgasm was their fault. They made it so that smaller cocks are acceptable by lowering average size from 6.5 inches. These same types of men use social or public shamming to suggest that women who enjoy sex, want better sex, or prefer bigger cocks are whores, sluts, size queens, or nymphos. To the contrary, uncorrupted or unbiased studies show that women were made for sex and enjoy sex even more than men. This concerns most men because it means that its harder to control women's appetite, desire for sex, or capacity for partners. Although in today's world more and more women are finding out they don't have to settle for dull or worthless sex, they don't have to choose between marriage and security or great sex, and they don't have to sacrifice their pleasure for a mans pleasure, ego, or confidence. Especially when paired with facts and evidence that prove women have the ability and sexual power to be married, loved, and even worshiped, yet still have the best sex with whom ever she wants as often as she wants through cuckolding and the small dick husband will be just as excited and sexually fulfilled through her sexual endeavors.

Studies show that under endowed men and/or domesticated men not only lack the necessary penis size and sexual prowess to actually pleasure a women in a way she needs to be fulfilled and sexually satisfied, but they also produce less testosterone then alpha men with larger cocks. Testosterone is the key hormone used for sex, sex drive, and penis functions. It also controls behavior like aggression and dominance, but insufficient production causes submissive behavior especially when paired to women with a dominant demeanor. Men with small penises also have fewer androgen receptors which process the testosterone, thus making him submissive by nature for lack of absorbing the hormone. When the lack of testosterone is paired with other key chemicals like over production of estrogen (estrogen also causes ED and penis shrinkage) among other hormones it drastically increases his submission. Although these mixtures of hormones, acids, and other brain chemicals can make a male feel submissive to aggressive or dominant females and some alpha males, it is small in comparison to when these hormones are mixed with the female pheromones like copulins which do control his brain and raise addiction levels.

Most males with smaller penises are more likely to be or have been at some point okay with their mate having sex with other men. Even with cheating or affair relationships that are ongoing where the husband accidentally finds out but finds himself submissive to the act and powerless to do anything but accept it, to the point he doesn't even confront her about it....As long as the wife loves him and stays committed to the relationship he will accept his role as the unwilling cuckold. Some access to pussy in what ever manner or rarity its granted is better than having no access.

Fact, Women are sexually drawn to and fantasize about alpha males but are more bonded to beta males. Most alpha males have a cock size of at least 6.5 inches but average around 7 or bigger and they are considered better lovers and sex partners by women. Not just because of their larger cock size but also because of there sex drive, stamina, attitude/confidence, and skills with regard to pleasuring women. While some can be great mates and partners, most are not ideal for long term or marriage because of their attributes such as being more self centered, arrogant, and controlling. They are also far more likely to cheat and tend to treat women as a possession to show off to their friends. They do however make great secondary partners such as lovers or boyfriends for cuckolding as the Dom already has vested love, security, and a reliable faithful commitment with her sub. The best of both worlds or having your cake and eating it too, as its often said.

Fact, most beta (beta means subservient) men have a cock size of average or less and are considered better long term partners and providers. They are preferred because they are more considerate and caring nature, plus stable, reliable, and faithful. They are also easier to domesticate, control, and mold into the perfect partner (which is subconsciously the number one thing women look for). They also have a strong commitment to family, and are naturally submissive to women. Beta males are also far more likely to forgive an affair and if cuckolded naturally become more submissive to the female and even the alpha male. Under the right circumstances he can be trained to obey the alpha male and more.
Note; while the beta male may be more likely to forgive cheating or an affair, he may not and in any case it would cause emotional instability.

The true average cock size is 6.5 inches, 6.47 to be exact, and  5.5 inches in girth. Nearly all cuckolds have a dick size under average. The average dick size of a cuckold is 5.75 inches inches.
4 % of all cuckolds have a dick the size of 6.5 to 7 inches, that's 4 out of every 100.

8 % of all cuckolds have a dick the size of 6 to 6.5 inches, that's 8 out of every 100. 
81 % of all cuckolds have a dicklet size of 5.5 to 6 inches, That's 81 out of every 100.

6 % of all cuckolds have a clitty size between 4.5 to 5.5, yes rare at 6 men of every 100.
.5 % of cuckolds have a clitty under 4.5 inches, very rare at 1 for every 200.
.5 % of cuckolds have a dick over 7 inches, also very rare at the same.
There is less than 1 out of every 20,000 cuckold/submissives with a cock 8 inches or more.
These cuckolds are beta males (usually unattractive) dominated by women who want the power and love sex with a variety of men.

90% of Dom's/Mistress cuckold their male slave or bitch, it is the main reason most do this lifestyle, the submission, obeying, service, and freedom to do as they please is just the bonus and effect of cuckolding. Although to do it correctly and yield long term cuckolding, you have to start with the submission and training.
83 % of Dom's and 100 % of Dom's who cuckold use a chastity device to prevent masturbation, and deepen submission, eventually most cuckolding Dom's will insist on long term chastity or permanently chastise the sub.
88 % of those Dom's completely stop having sex with their sub's and restrict or completely deny access to her pussy.
100 % or all of these Dom's use pegging as a replacement to sex with her and focus his pleasure and attention on craving cock to be sexually satisfied. While this is very humiliating and emasculating, he is helpless to resist it as the female hormones, chastity, lack of orgasm, and pleasure is more than enough to convert him.

Fact, brain washing and hypnotizing is real and it does work. 
Fact, punishments and humiliation are the best most effective way to train a male to obey, follow rules, and prevent future disobedience.

68 % of Dom's who peg eventually train him to become a sissy and 49 % of those eventually force the male to orally and anally please real cock.
100 % or all male bitches that are cuckolded become severely submissive the day of and the day after the dom's sex night. The more she fucks, the more submissive he becomes, the more submissive he becomes the more he begs her to cuckold him...A perfect cycle.
The number one turn on and humiliation for a cuckold is watching the dom have sex, even more so if made to participate or involved in the pleasure of the dom and her lover. With maximum humiliation if made to clean up the mess, especially in front of the lover.

39 % of all Dom's who cuckold eventually decide to keep a lover or boyfriend permanently to replace the bitch sexually, physically, and even intimately. This may take time for a particular lover to build to that point or the dom may be so turned on or attracted to the male that she elect him as her boyfriend after the first night of sex. Some doms start out dating with the intention to find a permanent replacement for their bitch. For all intensive purposes the boyfriends roll is that of any normal man-women relationship as it pertains to dating and sex and he has exclusive rights to her body and pussy. The boyfriend is also free to fuck the dom when ever he has the need or want for sex and with out condom (females are on birth control) . On average these doms have sex with their boyfriend 4 to 6 times a week, sometimes several times in one day. It is not uncommon for the dom to spend the night with the boyfriend a few times a month. Some Doms even do a weekend getaways a few times a year (with or with out the sub).
100 % of all cuckolds who have a Dom/Mistress with a full time or permanent boyfriend are very submissive, humiliated and feel helpless to resist serving her. They state they are not a man but a bitch who's purpose is serving their mistress. Almost all Dom's at a month or so of dating take pussy completely away and he is forbidden any access to it permanently. Listening to her have sex is a privilege and done a few times a month to humiliate the bitch. At the point she takes a permanent boyfriend he is completely reduced to a bitch, a sissy maid for chores and services, serving and obeying his mistress (and master if chosen).   

Fact, after 3-5 years of marriage, most men become domesticated because of the female pheromones, natural dominance of women, and submissiveness of men. A domesticated male looses stamina for sex, and the ability to maintain erection. A domesticated male eventually becomes non-sexually attractive to the female mate. She loves and wants a submissive male partner, but there is a difference between love and desire. She desires the passion, thrill, and excitement of being chased by single alpha males. She longs for the stimulating and erotic sexual pleasure of a bigger foreign cock thrusting into her, forcing her to orgasm over and over. She is absorbed by the arousing sexual tension that builds in between sexual encounters. She wishes she cold have both the love and support of her mate, and the sexual satisfaction of her lover from here out.   

Cheating usually refers to having sex with someone other than your mate for a one time or twice act and never again, although it can also reference having sex with several/many different partners at various times through out the relationship with your mate.
Having an affair refers to having an ongoing or committed sexual relationship with one partner, that is not your mate. Affairs are long term and usually last 6 month to a few years.
It is estimated that one in three men don't know they are raising at least one child from a cuckolding or cheating mate and 91 % of those men are not even aware of the mates infidelity.
Fact, 90 % of all cuckolding Dom's have cheated or had an affair at some point in their relationships, 76 % of those were with an ex-boyfriend, college friend, or lover.
50 % of all women in current marriages have or will cheat or have an affair .
90 % of Women who cheat do it for 2 reasons, one and most common is for better sexual experience, to experience the bigger cock size, passion, chase, and thrill of an alpha male and two because they like the person they become (free spirited, kinkier, outgoing, lively) when they are around the other man. The other 10 % of women that cheat, do it because of a failed, bad, or abusive marriage.
88 % of all women who cheat are in a functional, loving and caring marriage, with men they adore or have strong friendship ties with.

Mistress means Female master, the Latin equivalent to Domina. Mistress is also based on the french word Maistresse which means lover in one context but master in the other. Its the female name of Maistre which is the male word for master.

37 % of all married men have cheated or will cheat. 78 % of those men cheat with women that are kinkier, more controlling, or dominant than their wives especially in bed. The other 22 % cheated because of lack of sex at home or easy access to cheating sex. No man has ever cheated for tighter pussy, better pussy, or better sex as it relates to the pleasure of pussy, as opposed to most women who cheat for better sex, longer sex, and bigger cocks. These women that men cheated with are called mistresses and they were women who use the dominant side of sex to get what they want out of men. The term Mistress is coined because of the power or control these women had over men, the master of the heart or more properly stated, cock.

Studies and research show, men are chemically controlled to need release of built up sperm/semen. The higher the build up the more intense need for release. The number of partners and quality of partners makes no difference on the release or the quality of the release/orgasm. All men orgasm easily through vaginal sensation (unless of other factors like health or drugs and alcohol) and all men relatively orgasm the same and in the same manner through vaginal stimulation. Unlike women who require adequate size, performance and stamina which impact the quality of their orgasm. Studies also show the only reason men orgasm is to expel the semen through muscle contractions via the orgasm. They also show that while men experience pleasure through the sex act itself, the majority of pleasure comes from said orgasm, this is to ensure the maximum release of semen.

All men masturbate, especially with out the ability to have sex. They must in order to relieve the intense urge to have sex, which at some point becomes painful or achy, also known as blue balls.

Fact, 87 % of men would be happier, and content with regular or frequent sex, it is the consistency or frequency that matters, not the number of partners it comes from. In fact, most men report they prefer sex with the same female because the "burden or responsibility" of having to preform and please the female is so great.

Fact, Other than bad smell, 99 % of men state they have never felt or had, bad or loose pussy. The majority of men state that for the most part all pussy feels the same with the only difference being tightness or wetness, some tighter or wetter than others. None stated that was factor in orgasm quality. 

Fact, Women have the only organ made for specifically for sex and pleasure, called the clitoris. Research shows that women have as many as 4 times the amount of nerve endings through out the genital and 4 pleasure zones compared to one with a male. Women also processed pleasure differently in the brain with higher brain activity then men. This shows that women were designed for sex and pleasure. Women also experience intense pleasure during the entire time of sex with the greatest pleasure coming from the orgasm which studies show they are capable of feeling/have whole body orgasms compared to men with a focus around the pelvic region to produce greater thrusting and ejaculate. They also found that women experience sex on a higher level than men and that the size of the penis and quality of the sex relates to the amount of pleasure they feel with the intensity and length of the orgasm. Unlike men, women do not orgasm for procreation or breeding purpose, they do so to feel pleasure, their reward for having sex and this is why it is in the best interest for women to have the best sex partner they can. Women are biologically programmed to need different and multiple partner to achieve the best pleasure and thus the better chance for more sperm to produce more offspring/babies.   
Fact,  82 % of women are happier or would be happier with a variety of sex and sexual experiences. They are more aroused or turned on by the thrill of the chase and having multiple men want them. Women want/prefer multiple partners to experience different techniques/styles, shapes and sizes to achieve the best and most intense sex. In fact most women report that they would have an affair with a better looking more endowed man if they knew their husband or mate would not be hurt or possibly if there was no way he would ever find out.     

Fact, No sub, bitch, sissy or any other type submissive has ever cheated on his Dom, master, or mistress. Most submissive males fear pussy, respect it, and idolize it. They long to worship it and consider it to be sacred, they are the true definition of pussy whipped.   

Fact, Women produce pheromones in her pussy called "copulins". These pheromones are used to control and brainwash men. Most women don't know they exist, the ones who do or at least know the power of the "pussy" use them to their advantage (examples; Dom's, and dominant wives, strippers, some women CEO's) They can be absorbed through the urethra opening during sex or inhaled when in close proximity, the amount absorbed is greater the longer the male is still (with out motion) inside the vagina. The amount inhaled is greater the closer the male is to the vagina, with the most during oral or face contact. They are highly addictive and when males are exposed to them they cause his arousal state to heighten drastically depending on the amount absorbed. The effect they have and duration they last on males depends on the amount the male absorbs, and the length of time since his last orgasm, the longer its been the more effect they have. Prolonged and repeater contact has the longest effect time and this exposure over the course of months and years (varies with each male) causes a state called Domesticated male (a submissive and controllable male who looses his manhood and fears repercussions from his mate, also termed pussy whipped). The pheromones are strongest and last longer with males not permitted to orgasm, especially long term denial. With the use of and under the control of copulins women can;
1. Change or remove memories, and even insert false memories
2. Alter the males reality of what he see's, hear's, feel's, taste's, to what she wants him to believe.
3. Insert subconscious thoughts and behavior that will he will believe is his own and normal.
4. plant trigger words or actions that can cause thoughts, actions, or sensations in the male at later dates. (day, weeks, and even months later) 


All men can be controlled through their penis to some degree or another, especially with the right female, 68 % of these men can become very submissive under the correct training. 51 % of those men can become very submissive, and trained to obey without question.

Turn on's that sting with humiliation

                                            Humiliation 
Humiliation is a necessary and vital tool for the Dom, and just as important as punishments. The level of, and sincerity of, his submission is dependent on your ability to punish and humiliate him.  Humiliation is the key to breaking his will and emasculating him, which is needed to making him submissive and its also key to sissifying or feminizing him (which is in its self very humiliating). Humiliation can be done verbally through phrases and words that describe or express his lack of manhood, size of penis, stamina in bed, that he can't sexually satisfy pussy, or that he will never be allowed the pleasure of pussy. Describing his situation as a bitch or sissy, that he has a pussy, that he must be fucked like a bitch or sissy to get pleasure, that he loves cock, that he will or has pleased cock, that your boyfriends cock is much bigger, that you love your boyfriends cock, that your BF turns you on, that its his pussy or is allowed to cum in it, etc. Also anything else that relates his submission to you like, he will be a bitch or sissy forever, That he was born to be a bitch or sissy, That he was meant to please cock, that he will be on his knees serving you or who you say from now on, that his only purpose is serving and obeying, That the only way he can please you is by being a sissy bitch, that has to wear a chastity permanently or anything else you can think of.

Humiliation can also be done through physical acts such as putting him in humiliating positions (free or tied down), Spitting in his face or even better, his mouth, Pissing on his face or body, doing acts of or showing submission or sissification in public, being punished or scolded in public, doing sexual acts at home (like sucking or riding a dildo in front of you or someone else) made to serve or obey someone else, used for sexual pleasure by another male (sucking cock or fucked) and/or female (her getting off by pegging him or double headed dong), watching or listening to you have sex, or anything else you can think of. Humiliation should be done frequently, multiple times through out the day with some extended time given at some point prior to bedtime. Humiliation should be regular, ruthless and cruel. There are different levels of humiliation from mild to extreme, and many ways to use it. Humiliation affects subs in different ways, as some subs may find a particular humiliation very humiliating, while others only a little humiliating. For this reason it is your job as the mistress to find out what humiliates your sub, and what humiliates him the most. This is easy because when you do something humiliating or even threaten to do something humiliating, you sub will sometimes subconsciously tell you it was or it would be humiliating, he may even state how humiliating it was or would be. If not, or if you need more detail just ask like this, "that was/would be humiliating, wasn't it/wouldn't it be?" then you can simply ask "how humiliating?". Its also easier to ask questions during training while he is extremely aroused and under heavy influence of your pheromones (copulins) and his own chemical cocktail as he can not resist or lie about anything. In that state he is more less hypnotized and susceptible to brainwashing, mind control, and questioning with out any resistance.

All forms of, and levels of humiliation are effective in deepening his submission but humiliation that also turns him on or gets him aroused works better and faster. Its also the best kind because it requires little to no energy from you and your usually being please sexually. Turns on's that cut with humiliation are things that arouse your sub while at the same time smack him in the face with humiliation. These are typically things you would do with a boyfriend, bull, or lover. Things you've never said or done sexually with your sub, or things your sub would not expect you to do with your Boyfriend or Bull. However they can also be any form of humiliation that turns him on, like made to do acts of pleasure in ways that humiliate him, like riding your big cock (secured on the floor or device) and sucking your cock (on the wall or in your harness). They can even be things that show your dominance or power over him as a women who is dominant, aggressive, and cruel towards a submissive male turns him on. It is her sexual prowness and show of power that arouses him and makes him feel weak, especially if done while humiliating him or making him do humiliating things. If you want to be a successful Dom, you have to humiliate him, you have to be cruel and ruthless, 24/7/365.

A few weeks after I started seeing my BF, during training (after I got fucked that night) I was humiliating my sub about it and I learned from him that it really humiliated him to see me so excited and turned on to see my boyfriend and to wear lingerie to please him (Which I have rarely done for my sub). Also while I was getting fucked I would be completely into my BF and ignoring my sub altogether, like he wasn't even in the room. Most of the things I did and said were things I have never done with my sub, not even close. We undressed each other and I kissed him passionately, sliding my hands all over his body before I keeled to suck his enormous cock. I enjoyed sucking it and pleasing him, knowing he would fuck me way better than my bitch ever has. I sucked his dick passionately and showed I enjoyed it, deep throating it and moaning while I did. My sub rarely got his clitty sucked and if I did, it was usually just the head, mostly licking it till he cum (with was only about 5 min, lol..I just wasn't into giving his little dicky pleasure). When he licked my pussy, I grabbed his head and arched my back moaning passionately, I also rubbed my breast and played with my nipples. None of which I've done with my sub, even though he did eat pussy very good.

As I got fucked I actually moaned and screamed, loudly even (I couldn't help it, his cock felt amazing) and spread my legs as open as I could to take all of his cock. I loved going from position to position, and I grabbed his ass or back as he fucked me hard. Sometimes I would even dig my nails into his ass as he made me orgasm so hard. In between my moans and screams in the heat of passion I would babble off words, saying things like, " Oh my god, (paused)....Oh fuck, (pause)......, your cock, (paused).....Your cock feels so good" and that I loved his cock, and I really did. Sometimes my eyes rolled back into my head from the ecstasy and pleasure as he gave me powerful orgasms one right after another. I kissed him passionately during sex and sucked on his neck and nipples as I rode his cock. I would even back into his cock while fucking dogie style, even though most of the time he was pounding me hard, pulling me into it. Sometimes he would fucked me again after a short rest. My pathetic sissy couldn't even last more than 7 or 8 minutes, let alone have the ability to get hard again the same night....Not that I'd want it if he could. I have rarely kissed my sub passionately during sex as it just didn't last long enough to build that passion. I've hardly ever rode him (mostly because I didn't want to exert that much energy for such a weak orgasm). I've never backed up on his little dicklet, and his cock never gave me the pleasure to spread my legs wide or dig my nails into him.

Apparently I did all of this to some degree or another every time with my BF. I was so lost in the pleasure and passion that I didn't even realize I was doing or saying most of those things, but I did know that I really loved his cock and my BF fucked me far better than he ever did, honestly there was no comparison. I loved his cock and I loved how he fucked me, he fucked me against the wall, picked me up and fucked me with my legs over his arms, bent me over the bed while standing up, put one leg over his shoulder while standing and many other positions. I really only fucked my sissy in the missionary position, occasionally doggie and I have never babbled at all during sex with my sub or said that his cock even felt good. It did feel good, but that's about it, just feeling good. I would compare it to being fingered, but I'm sure you already know this or you would be here. He said that it was very humiliating to watch me fuck my BF but at the same time it was extremely arousing and made him feel weak and very submissive. Every time we fucked, the whole next day my bitch was very submissive and obedient, and all I had to do was what I loved to do and show how much I really enjoyed it. Which is what you should be doing anyway, especially since your trying to prove to him that your BF is bigger and better than him. The best thing is that this is very humiliating, humiliation for long periods, and I get to have fun while its done, plus I really didn't have to say or do anything directly to my sub. This is a prime example of turning him on with deep humiliation....And he couldn't get enough. As humiliating as it was, he begged me to do it more, and he was more obedient because I did it more. He couldn't help it, my sex was his sex and he was to submissive to resist. Of course the fact that his little dicky was locked away 24/7 after the first week of me dating my new BF helped that happen. Humiliation is so much sweeter when its done while your having fun, especially because you don't really have to do anything but enjoy yourself, and best of all it is some of the most powerful humiliation there is.


Obviously some of the best turn on's that sting with humiliation is your sex with a boyfriend.
These are more effective with the sub watching but can be done with him listening or told about after.
Some of these may also be great ways to turn on your Boyfriend or Bull if they are into BDSM.

1.The number one turn on that cuts with extreme humiliation for most subs, is you fucking your BF bareback and allowing him to cum inside you. Watching or bringing a cum filled pussy home is a visual proof of his loss, a sure sign whose pussy it belongs to and just how much its being pleased. While at the same time the sub is completely denied all access to pussy, even his own orgasms and possibly at this point forced into permanent chastity. Compounded humiliated by you telling your bitch its your Boyfriends pussy from now on. His humiliation being far worse if made to clean up the mess in some manner, (licking off sheet, ass, feet, cock, finger feed, dog bowl or squeezed into his mouth) especially in front of the Boyfriend or Bull.
2.The number two turn on with extreme humiliation is making your sub watch. Close up is key, but the closer the better. Also added humiliation is including him in the sex in some manner, like nose in your ass, licking your ass, sucking your feet/toes, putting BF's cock into your pussy, fluffing, licking balls as you ride, sucking your cum off the cock, holding the vibrator or fetching toys, towels, lube, and even worse forced to lick both of you clean after.
3. The number three thing is really liking the BF or Bull and showing it as described below; Saying it to your bitch, humiliating him about it and how it will be his pussy from now on, telling your bitch the BF really turns you on and showing it by getting fucked several times a week or several times in one day, going over to his house for late night or early morning sex, shopping for clothes or lingerie he likes and only wearing it for him, buying sex toys for you both to use on each other, trimming pussy hair to his liking (diamond, landing strip, clean shaven etc.) Going on dates, spending the night at his house, keeping clothes at his house, weekend get aways. Allowing the BF or Bull to stay the night or even move in. This type of humiliation really forces him to realize his place and purpose.
An extension of number 3, on the rare occasions he is permitted to watch; pay no attention to your bitch, pretend he is not there and show him you really love getting fucked by the BF or Bull. Show him its the best sex, way better than him by letting yourself go and really enjoy it, Spreading your legs wide or wrapping legs around him, grab his ass, and/or back, lots of kissing, telling BF or Bull you love his cock, lots of moaning and scream louder when you orgasm, fuck for long periods and repeat after a short rest. You want to show that you are very turned on by your BF and that you really love his cock. Starring into his eyes at times during sex, as you tell him its his pussy or whatever else.
4. Like number 3 above only with the added humiliation by Fucking in positions that show pussy penetration, like riding the BF or reverse cowgirl so he can see pussy stretch. Humiliate him about how you love his cock, how much bigger and better it is, how he could never fuck you like this, how his clitty is tiny and pathetic. If possible, have him up close to see and smell the sex.
5. Being somewhat submissive to your BF or Bulls cock by following his direction when getting fucked even outside the bedroom and telling him he can fuck you when ever he wants. Making constant remarks that indicate its his pussy, like "he doesn't want you seeing his pussy" or " he likes it when I wear thongs so i'm going to buy some new ones for him"
6. Show that you enjoy sucking his cock, moaning and deep throating it, grabbing his balls, licking his balls, grabbing his ass with both hands pulling him and his cock into your mouth. Grab it by the base to show its size or 2 handing it. Smiling and licking your top lip just before sucking it.
7. Buying and wearing sexy lingerie or bra's and panties for him, of course not letting the bitch see you in them most of the time. On the rare times you do, it will be after you return home from sex, then only briefly as you remove your clothes exposing the lingerie for him to see as you order him to turn around then take of the lingerie to put something comfortable on, make him put the lingerie up.
8. Wearing normal outfits/ street clothes the BF or Bull likes.
9. Sucking your BF or Bull off while your on your period
10. Sucking his dick while he drives, better if your sub is driving and you two are in the back.
11. Meeting him for lunch to fuck
12. Having the BF or Bull sleep in your bed while the sub is on the floor or in a spare bedroom.
13. Letting your bitch listen on the phone while you fuck at BF or Bulls house.
14. Having a three way (guy or girl)or multiple guys fuck you at BF or Bulls request or direction, maybe worse if you bitch is only allowed to watch or hear.

Almost as good as the turn on humiliation with your boyfriend or bull is turning him sissy, only more humiliating than a turn on....And for a lovely reason! Training a sissy means several things; first it means that you have decided to date your boyfriend full time (likely seriously) and replace your bitch totally. His forever roll and purpose to you will only be that of a servant/house slave, made to hand of his paychecks paying for pussy he will never have and the privilege to serve you. All while receiving little to no sexual contact, of which only regards to his anal play or pegging or cleaning your cum filled pussy in some manner. Second it means you have decided to lock his clitty away permanently. Third it means that your training him to accept cock as his new and only form of pleasure. It also means that your training him to pleasure cock, both orally and anally, in doing so his ass hole will chemically and physically be converted to his pussy and pleasure hole. It also means that you will give him a girly name or call him sissy or bitch. He will be made to wear sissy under garments 24/7, dress up in sissy attire several times a month, Fucked in sissy lingerie. You can imagine his extreme humiliation yet unable to do anything but accept it to be allowed the privilege of pleasure. Your fun could be endless with this training. If you interested, read my Sissy training story.

HUMILIATION 

Humiliation effects the same brain regions that are associated with physical pain, the inference being that humans evolved to remember social/verbal rewards and punishments as strongly as they do physical reward or pain. This is why daily humiliation and episodes of extreme humiliation is very important and effective in making him submissive. In BDSM, humiliation is connected to sexual fetishism, in that non-sexual activities (exp;kneeling, obeying, chores) and certain types of humiliation (exp;cuckolding) may become sexualised or arousing. Meaning the male submissive will eventually be aroused via acts of servitude or sexual humiliation (verbal and physical) thus being excited or turned on by these acts. This is because they were linked subconsciously through sexual exposure or content and his submission to his mistress. His submission and humiliation is based on his sex, or better stated "his lack of sex and inability to sexually satisfy his mistress" mixed with his loss of sex via chastity. Humiliation is the linking tool that creates, deepens, and forces his submission and can sometimes be more effective than punishments. As stated by subs when asked, "Nothing makes me want to serve my mistress more than when she proves my place and purpose to her". Simply by by being a strict dominant bitch and regularly having sex with her boyfriend, he is humiliated and subconsciously being trained to want to serve and obey her.       

Humiliation helps make him weak, maintains your authority, and keeps him in his place. You should through out the day and even in public humiliate him and make him acknowledge he is your bitch as well as other things, like he has a small pathetic dicklet (who's bitch are you?) Make him admit what he wants (to serve you, for your to get fucked, your big cock etc.) and then tell him he is a bitch for it. Making him admit this humiliation is more humiliation and more effective as it forces the realization that he is in fact your bitch, and meant to be your bitch. This act also helps him to believe this is his natural place, it even encourages him to be there. There are so many ways to humiliate your bitch, some so bad that the threat of using it on him is enough to correct unruliness (but remember every time he is disobedient, or breaks a rule he is to be punished severely). These are in no particular order but here are some, you can mix or combine them or do your own variation. I urge you to try them all and come up with your own, what ever pleases you or turns you on but let your imagination run wild!

Made to start a blog (like this one) to humiliate himself as a sub, proclaim his submission to you as his mistress, telling about his servitude and submission, his humiliation, your boyfriends, his chores, showing video's of his humiliation (as described below) pics and captions, etc. *Use his girly name.
You make an ad or profile on a bi or gay singles site (with pics) as a couple with a virgin bi-curious male. Set up meetings and make him preform what ever they want.
You make an ad or profile for him on kink sites (with pics) explain he is a sissy and wants to please cock. State that you are his mistress and want to watch and possibly participate. Set up the fun! 
Serving you in front of the BF or Bull
Made to serve the BF or Bull, could be made to clean their house while you fuck or play.
Made to fluff BF or Bull prior/after sex
Sucking a cock to orgasm, worse if cums in his mouth. (at first always tie down)
Getting fucked by BF, Bull or another male at your direction (at first always tie down)
Getting fucked and used by multiple men at the same time
Take him to gay bar to pick up men with punishment of 200 hits if he doesn't get at least a number, with NO excuses period, and see the punishment through if he fails.
Suction a dildo on the wall and have him suck it the entire time while you get fucked with a severe caning if he stops or looks at you during that time.
Suction dildo to wall for corner time punishment and made to suck it the whole time, cane if he stops.
Made to suck dildo before the start of every training session.
Suction dildo to wall and peg him doggie style inches away from it, as you fuck him tease and humiliate him about sucking the cock. Tell him all sissies suck cock, tell him its his place and that he was born to please cock. Ruthlessly humiliate him and make him suck it the entire time.
Made to lick clean his cum or precum, and lovers or BF cum.
Made to wear panties at all times
Made to wear female clothes, stockings, lingerie, bra, etc.
Made to shave all pubic hair ( also head, legs, chest, ass if that turns you on.)
Made to ride a dildo in separate bedroom while he listens to you get fucked, with instructions that he must keep the dildo in his ass and ride the entire time until you say he can stop. Record and watch it for proof and if he didn't, punish severely for not obeying. Worse if in front of BF or Bull, made to suck his cock during, or if the BF or Bull fucks him after.
Made to address you as mistress in public
Made to buy panties for him self while you acknowledge it in someway to the store clerk or cashier
Standing in a corner outside the store as you shop (great for buying lingerie for your BF or Bull)

Drinking and eating from dog dishes or directly on the floor (no utensils) AT ALL TIMES.
Sleeping on the floor
Made to worship (kiss and lick) your feet, worse in public (even while wearing Boots or shoes)
Made to suck cock in front of another female- dildo or real.
Made to serve another female.
Made to suck and lick feet/toes and ass of another female.
Made to lick her asshole to orgasm.8
Used to enhance sex/orgasms for both, while playing with another female.
Spit in his face or mouth also could be done by another female
Pegged by another female, or you and another female by double teaming him.
Humiliated by another female.
Punished or whipped by another female
Made to serve another male or female while you are spending the night or weekend with your BF.
Made to regularly service another male or men
Sleeping, eating/drinking, living in dog cage when he is not doing chores or you are out on dates etc.
Making him wear a collar or chain, and leash in public
Restricting him from talking or eating in public.
Restricting eye contact in public (no eye contact with you should always enforced)
Golden shower (pissing on him) on face, and/or body.
Slave tattoo of your choice, temporary or permanent
Branding him as show of ownership or submission to you.
Write on body (with lipstick, black marker etc.) cock slut, bitch, sissy, his pussy, loves cock, etc.
Male cums on his face or dumped from condom, not allowed to wipe it off, must dry and wear it for x amount of time or to bed, or the next day.
Wear a t-shirt in public that says, "I'm a sissy boy I serve my Mistress" or what you want it to say.
Verbally humiliate him in public (could be that he is your bitch- better obey- has little dick- etc.)
Wearing nipple clamps under see through or tight shirt.
Wearing butt plug or prostate massager in public.
Wearing a collar at all times possible *have a dog tag made (at pet store or Walmart) use humiliation caption like "Sissy Bitch" or "Cock Slut" or "your name's Bitch or just his sissy name.
Asking permissions in public and showing submission in public.
Make a mold of his penis (search “clone a willy” on Google). Once made, make him suck it for a while as you humiliate him about sucking his own small clitty. Then fuck his ass with it for a bit before fucking his ass with your biggest dildo. humiliate him and ask him if he feels the difference between his tiny clit and a real man’s cock. Make him admit he has a pathetic clitty and that the dildo fucking him is a real mans cock, then make him beg you to keep fucking him with the real mans cock. Do this several times a month, but sometimes your not going to fuck him with the bigger cock, your only going to fuck him with his clitty dildo, but make sure he begs you to, "have a real mans cock" and make him say it but you won't give it to him, instead humiliate him about you having to fuck the little tiny thing for so long, he can take it now and suffer, then make him suck the big one. 

*2 ways* Its been a few days or more since you had sex, (for what ever reason) but a successful mistress doesn't go with out sex or an orgasm. So you will either ride a big dildo (secure underneath you in some manner) with him watching very close up (inches away) from behind or use a dildo harness for his mouth and ride it so he can see really close up and smell the cum. During this time humiliate him about it being x number of days since you had sex and you would rather ride a fake cock or finger your self then fuck his pathetic little dicklet. Either way make him suck your cum off the dildo. **Remember you may reduce the times he see's or smells your pussy but your not going to take pussy completely away until after you have been dating your full time BF for 2 weeks**

Made to ride a big dildo while he sucks your strap-on or lovers cock

Tell one of your girlfriends he has a small dick and he wears a chastity so you don't have to fuck him, but if your don't have friends that you trust like that then make new friends specifically for going out with to meet guys with the bonus that they know he is your bitch.  

Blind fold him and tie up his clitty and balls, get him hard then put gloves on and rub numbing cream all over his cock. Continue to rub it in for several minutes to take effect, then put on 5 condoms and allow him to fuck a blow up doll or cyber pussy for 60 seconds as you humiliate him about how little his clitty is and how pathetic he fucks etc. Record him as he struggles to cum and post it on his blog. 

Sissify and feminize him, call him bitch, sissy, or girly name at all times, made to wear wig, make up, and dress up in lingerie to be fucked by gay or bi-men, find him regulars. Do at least 3 times a month.
For hands free fun while your getting ready for a date night or upstairs fucking your boyfriend; Buy a sex machine with a stroker or a milking machine and use it on his clitty on low speeds. this will drive him crazy because its just like using your fingers on his clitty and very difficult for him to cum so he can be aroused for long periods even while your gone.
This sex machine can also be used for the mundane task of milking him while you do other things to him, use your dildo or toys on yourself,  or other things you need to get done or simple just relaxing and reading a book. I like to pop in a porno and set up the sex machine on slow/low setting to either milk him (with milking vib) or stroke him keeping him on edge while I jump in the shower to get ready for a date, or sometimes just because I don't feel like training that night. There are so many ways to use a sex machine, you just need an imagination. For instances, you could have it peg him while you humiliate him and make his suck your cock in your strap-on. 

   

When doing acts in public, try to stay away from places you normally eat or shop at, you don't want your obvious lifestyle getting back to friends or family. A good idea is to take a day away or weekend away to another city where you will not know anyone. You could also visit the local gay bars there to find him a cock to please for the extra fun and humiliation.

**Sissy-Bitch training

                                                        SISSY BITCH TRAINING
                                                                                                                          Updated 12/2017


**WARNING**This manual is for Dominatrix use only, not for submissive viewing or reading!! Failure to comply will be punishable by 250 lashes and 50 ball slaps by your mistress!!

What is a sissy bitch? A sissy bitch or "sissy" for short is a feminized male submissive that has been striped of his manhood, chastised, and trained to please and submit to cock. The very nature of being a sissy bitch is permanent chastity, and permanently denied sex with pussy (all pussy). His access to pussy has been extremely restrict to cum clean out, the occasional smell (very needed to keep the copulins in his system) and a rare glimpse (for teasing purposes) during worshiping time. His only pleasure comes from anal sex, via other men or pegging and he is required to orally please men several times a week. So you may ask, how do I train him to become a sissy? By being a strict, dominant, and cruel mistress who punishes for EVERY failure, disobedience, broken rule, and back talk (as a Dom should be anyway). But mainly by reconditioning and reprogramming his brain through the proper sissy training and humiliation, discipline, feminizing him, emasculating him, and taking away his manhood. Whats in it for me? Well, besides ultimate power, excitement, fun and being really turned on. Owning a male with little to no interest of other females and is completely dependent on you and cock for pleasure. Also ultimate power over everything and him, with having a completely submissive male devoted to your power and pleasure. Whats in it for him? like it matters HA, HA, HA!! He gets to be what he was made for and fulfill his purpose to you!!

Having a sissy is the ultimate kind of power for a mistress. Much like having a bitch but more so, it takes him to the extreme dedication and submission of your authority. However it requires very serious training and a commitment from you. You truly have to want your bitch to serve and obey you 24/7. This is not a part time training as it will fail if you don't put in 100% every day to its completion. **WARNING** This training is psychological, brain washing, and mind controlling, it will emasculate and strip away his manhood. As such, it is detrimental to his masculinity, there is no going back once he has been turned sissy. He will crave and desire cock, He will become a cock slut, he may loose the ability to maintain erection, if at all. ALSO depending on his dick size now (5 inches or less) his cock may shrink beyond any real ability to ever have conventional sex again. If you are not a mistress who would enjoy watching your sissy suck cock and then get fucked by that same cock while you masturbate or possibly join in, then sissy training is not for you because it is not reversible. NOTE** He will still be able to be aroused by the female body, sight and smell of pussy (Copulins), but he will loose his will to have sex with other females, and he will be terrified of the thought to do so.....He will be completely dependent on you for his pleasure and direction of said pleasure. While his desire for pussy will always be there (its in his DNA), it will be buried deep and hidden by his permitted pleasure, the cock! Ultimately you will be replacing the pussy desire, for cock, and he will submit to cock, crave it, and beg you for it. NONE of all this matters if you want total power, truly don't want his dicklet for sex, or him interested in other women. His submission to you will deepen greatly as the only provider of his pleasure, and as such will loose all interest in other women as they can't offer him what he desires, plus he has the fear and humiliation of not being able to satisfy them, fear they may find out he has a little dicklet.

Sissy training is real and the most rewarding training with endless possibilities, excitement and pleasure for the women who desire extreme power, permanent cuckolding, and the kinkier side of Femdom. It is an extreme turn on for many Doms to use a vibe and masturbate while their sissy sucks cock to rock hard performance and then screams and moans to it pounding them into submission. All of the women who pursue sissifying their bitch want the highest level of servitude and submission from him and believe in complete and total submission 24/7-365. They do not care about his feelings, thoughts, or watching him do any and all sexual acts on other men. They truly believe the bitch's only purpose is SERVING and OBEYING, with complete denial and near permanent loss of her pussy. These women continually date short and long term boyfriends to completely replace him sexually and intimately. They are also really pleased and aroused by the entertainment, excitement and power side of it as well. These women also believe there is no need or want to touch his tiny little clit dick thus permanently locking it in a chastity, keeping focus on serving her and craving cock.

You do not want your bitch to read this or know how your plans of turning him sissy will proceed. He needs to be clueless of the brainwashing so that it may root deeply. You may humiliate him about pleasing real cock and other things but do not discuss the process in anyway, just do and follow the steps. While it is a very erotic and thrilling pleasure for you to create and watch a cock loving sissy slut, and hold that power over him, it is very humiliating to kneel and beg another man to suck his cock and get fucked by him. Because of this he will resist and try to fight it causing a longer harder training process so follow the guide exactly and let the procedure do the work. The over production of hormones and chemicals in his brain along with the hormones you provide (copulins) will keep him oblivious to what is actually happening, soon he will be helplessly dependent and addicted to cock and you will be able to permanently cuckold him. During this time you need to train EVERY day, be very very dominant, and punish severely for rule braking, not obeying, disobedience, and back talk. YOU MUST FOLLOW THESE STEPS EXACTLY AND REREAD AS NECESSARY, keep this manual put up and refer to it often during the process. Wearing a chastity 24/7 is a must and only removed for training. I will also assume you have trained him in the past, and/or currently for at least the past 2-3 weeks and that he has not had an orgasm or pussy for at least 2-3 weeks, ideally a month or longer (the longer the better and easier and faster for this to take root). Past training or current training will help speed up the process, you will be the judge by his actions, desire and submission level to proceed to the next step.

FIRST STEPS - EMASCULATING AND FEMINIZING
Emasculating him is done in several steps;
1st step - If you haven't done so already, you will take pussy completely away ( that's is no seeing and no touching) even seeing you in panties should be rare if at all, unless you allow him to smell pussy through panties (so he can absorb your copulins). It is however OK for him to see your breast and actually more arousing to be topless during training. If your not already doing so, your going to make him lick all of his precum and cum if oozed or when milked, (do it in humiliating ways if possible) this is always his job and it is mandatory. You will also shave off all his pubic hair and hair you don't want, this could be nipple and/or chest hair, leg hair, what ever turns you on, but at least all pubic hair. This is the start of stripping away his manhood. You should do it the first time and then make him maintain it. Humiliate him about only a real man have hair, and get to see pussy. It is also important to wear Dom outfits during training as the symbolize power, enhance the atmosphere, and helps turn him on. You also need to read my pegging guide and start that at the same time as this.

2nd step - This is done with steps 1 to 5 and they require 10 days of training - During training your going to penetrate his ass with your fingers and toys, if you already do this great, but now you will do it every time and spend a lot of your arousal time doing so. However at this point it is important to start off with penis arousal first, then go to prostate arousal. Remember this play can force him to cum easily so watch closely and feel for penis spasms. If they start immediately stop all sensation and give time to recover (20 seconds).  To prevent orgasm, penis stimulation is very minimal during prostate arousal. *Remember to humiliate*

3rd step - After he is use to the pleasures of prostate arousal (usually a few days) you will peg him. again read my manual. Start off by penis arousal, then prostate arousal with a finger or toy, leading to fucking him. *note; If you have not been following my pegging guide, I highly recommend it as it will drastically help with sissy training. Also if following it or been pegged alot then step 2 would have him begging for your cock, either way, give it to him and fuck him good and hard for at least 45 minutes. This is important to give him long pleasure as you want him to love it and crave it. You want the pleasure to over ride the humiliation to the point he can't help but moan and want more of it. You want him to feel that the cock is forcing his pleasure and that he can't resist it. He needs to feel that helplessness to submit to the cock properly so give him a long, good and hard fucking *Humiliate and again read my pegging section for details and technique about pegging him correctly*

4th step - During training and through out steps 2 and 3 you should have humiliated him, and laughed at him about his tiny dick. This step is about emasculating him further and extreme humiliation. NOW you will rename his penis to Dicklet, Clitty, Tiny, little Pee-Pee, stubby, inch worm, dickless, or what ever you choose that sound appealing. From her on you will always refer to it as that and make him do the same or be severely punished, you must whip him till he is screaming and begging you to stop, a good sissy knows how to properly address his tiny thing. You will humiliate the fact that he is not a man, he is a bitch with a pathetic (your name for his dick), that you don't ever want sex with him, and want to lock it away for good. Its puny and he can't keep it hard or last. Let him know other women would laugh at his cock size, and they would never want to fuck anything that small. Tell him he will never have anything to do with pussy, and will never cum again (refer that bitches don't get to cum they get sissygasms) AT this point he should be watching or have watched you have sex in the past. Now you will make him clean up cum from your lover, by being blinded folded and tied down to lick it directly from your pussy (if your lover fucks you bare back), or from the panties you wore if away from the house, or from the condom he used. You would or should be fucking him with your dildo directly after he cleans up the mess to look at your pleasure and sex as his reward (which will help when you lock clitty away for good and stop fucking him for a week or long even though you may be fucking daily). You will laugh at him as he moans from being fingered and fucked, and then humiliating him that he is a bitch for it, remind him that its cock giving him that pleasure. Make him acknowledge it, and admit he loves it. Remind him to beg you for it and thank you. Humiliation is very important in breaking him and striping his manhood, as well as maintaining submission, so you need to be creative, cruel and relentless with it. Now is also the time you punish him for his small cock, use only canes and be serious about how selfish he was to get pussy and give nothing in return. Whip him hard and long, you want this felt and marks seen for at least a week, and you want him to believe you are dissatisfied with his pathetic dicklet. Remember to degrade him about not being a man, and never having anything to do with pussy. Laugh about him loving cock and wanting it for pleasure, tell him only SISSIES want cock. Remind him that his place is serving and obeying nothing else.

5th step - This is done on day 8 step 2 training time - During steps 2, 3, and 4 you will also humiliate him and degrade his man hood through out the day via texting or phone conversations, and more so in person, especially during training. This will be about him being a bitch with a tiny dicklet, that he can't keep it hard or last, that he will only get your big cock for pleasure from now on, that he sounds like a bitch when he moans, that he is not a man, that you don't even want to touch his tiny dicklet ever again, that he can't please women, any women and they would laugh at his tiny worm etc. This step is about feminizing him and deepening his desire for cock. You should have been having him kneel and beg to serve you multiple times a day, and also thank you for that privilege. Now you will make him grovel at your feet admitting and telling you he is your bitch, that he loves cock and will obey his mistress to have it. Make him recite your rules (punish if wrong after worshiping your feet) and then have him worship your feet. You will also humiliate him about you wanting bigger cock, a real man, and you will actively search for one letting him know you are. You should be cuckolding him regularly, but you will talk to men and flirt with them in his presence, telling him to go to the car or to a chair or corner (explain he is a friend from work or a brother). DURING this step you will also start feminizing him by forcing him to wear sissy panties 24/7 under his clothes. You will take all of his underwear away and box them up putting his panties in the drawers. You will pick them out, make them feminine and try to buy them with crotch-less or no ass as he will eventually wear them during training and when getting fucked by real cock. It is very important that through out the day and especially during training, you make him tell you and acknowledge he's your bitch, he has a pathetic dicklet, he loves cock, will serve cock, can't please women, that he wants you to to get big cock and replace him sexually, etc. This is also the step that you show him the difference in cock size and pleasure related to bigger cock, thus deepening his desire for big cock. You will buy a bigger, thicker cock (8.5 inches or more and thick) and after the proper steps as described above, fuck him long and hard making him acknowledge the bigger cock is giving him better pleasure. humiliate him, make him admit to only wanting that cock from now on and laugh about it, degrade him and bring out the sissy your creating. All of this is humiliation and very important for emasculating him and creating the sissy cock loving slut you want.

6th step -  5 training days long, done on the 10th day of step 2 - You will start putting on your strap-on prior to training and wear it during the entire time of training. You want him use to seeing your cock, not your pussy. You want his focus to be on cock not pussy and his sex to deal with cock only. You want him thinking about your cock the entire time your training and eventually through the entire day (he remembers the pleasure your big cock gives and he knows its the only pleasure he gets so he will be wondering if your going to allow him the privilege of getting it). You want him to crave it, to submit to it, to sincerely beg for it and do anything to have it. As such he will begin every training session sucking it for you, to please it, to be worthy of having it. You will humiliate him about learning to suck cock from now on and pleasing it. You may even humiliate him about finding him a real cock to suck or get fucked by. Laugh at him and remind him he is not a man, he is a bitch on his knee's pleasing cock, where he should be, and thats where you want him to be. Tell him you can't wait till he is pleasing the real thing and continue to humiliate him and laugh while he sucks it.  You will have him suck it for a minimal of 5-10 min. and humiliate him the whole time. Grab the back of his head and force it to the back of his throat. Make sure you let him know that begging for and sucking your cock is the only way he will get fucked by it from now on. This is the respectful way to be allowed that privilege. After he is finished to your liking you will continue with normal training as described in above steps. When your ready, and he has begged properly, For now you will fuck him with it for a few days longer. This step is about Feminizing him more by referring to his ass as a pussy, if you already do, great but from now on it will only be referred to as a pussy and make him address it as such. Also his mouth will now be called a cock pleaser, and referred to as such from now on (failure is a sever punishable offence). By now you should be actively making him admit he loves cock but don't be specific about your cock, just loving cock as you don't want him to only be at ease with wanting your cock, you want him craving all cock, what ever cock you force in his face. Remember to humiliate him as much as possible, make him grovel and worship your feet, and cane him on occasion for his small dicklet (not as bad as the first time but felt).

7th step - 12 days long - After following steps 1-6, today after working him up to begging for cock, you will not give him cock. You will reduce him from cock every day to every 3rd day for 12 days, and you will only fuck him after you put the chastity back on. Training will still be the same and you will still have him beg for it but telling him he won't get it until YOU decide (which is that 3rd day only). Tell him a sissy has to earn that privilege. This is when you will start having him suck your dildo several times during training in what ever way or position you desire. Remember to humiliate him and tell him "you like sucking and being fuck by that cock, don't you bitch", "that's a good little sissy pleasing that big cock for my pleasure", "your becoming a good little sissy bitch, sucking cock much better", "you want to please that cock don't you", "your pussy is probably soaking wet isn't it" Make him acknowledge it! You need to be creative on your own, these are the stages that he will submit and give ib to his desires to want cock, so be as cruel as you can with your own ideas as well. Also at this point you will further his feminizing and give him a girly name. You can turn his name girly like Tim to Tina, John to Janell, Tom to Tammy, Mike to Michelle, or just call him slut, sissy, or bitch...Your choice of course. This step, Step 7 also involves training his mind, and mind control with HYPNOSIS. You will begin HYPNOSIS training (This is the part you brain wash him to want what you want, and it really does work). For the first hypnosis session start after he is really aroused.  Bring an ipad, tablet, or computer in with you prior to training. Right before you start the hypnosis, it is crucial that you either put a used pair of panties over his head and nose to let him smell pussy and/or off your finger the whole time he watches the video. Your pussy contains various pheromones/hormones that are addicting and mind controlling, the most important one is called copulins. This one blocks his thought process allowing you (and the hypnotizing) to input your will as his own (look up pussy copulins on google for more info) and will help you brain wash him to what you want making the hypnosis very effective. Let him watch it for at least 10 minutes during training. You are already doing your part of brain training but hypnosis is a faster way, and the best way to use your copulins for full transformation to sissy bitch. All you need to do is make him watch it on video. You can pay this from various Dominatrix sites or get them for free from one of the popular free porn sites. I use Pornhub.com and type in the search bar " SISSY HYPNOSIS COCK SUCKING" for hypnotizing him to suck cock, and type "SISSY HYPNOTIC SHEMALE" for hypnotizing him to want fucked (alternate the video's during each training night). If possible, have him watch these videos several times a day(head phones on if needed) for 3 days or 5 days if only watching during training's. You need to keep arousing him with prostate stimulation during the entire time he watches, but do not talk to him during the video.

8th step - 15 days long - Removing the last of his masculinity, this step is focused on feminizing him further and keeping him in chastity during training. By now you've trained hard, been very strict and punished severely for not obey rules, unruliness or not doing chores as needed or to your liking. You have humiliated and degraded him to a very submissive state, and hypnotize him to be a good cock loving and cock submissive sissy. He loves your cock and will do anything you say to have it. By now you have been actively cuckolding him or better have a full time boyfriend. In the past or up till now you allowed him to watch you fuck, however from this point on, you will no longer allow him that privilege until after he has sucked a real cock and/or been fucked by a real cock. However you will still have him clean up every time. Even after he gets real cock, watching you get fucked will be a reward and only every now and then (once or twice a month at most). Instead he is only allowed to listen, either by being blindfolded in the corner of the same room (better if sucking on your dildo), on the phone, or from a different room. However you will wait till step 9 to find him cock. If you fuck away from him and he is not able to listen, then it is imperative to tell him all about it when you return, while he is sucking your cock or your fucking him. He is to always suck your cock after you get fucked, but fucking him will only be every 3 days (at least until he gets real cock).  Now its time to begin permanent chastity. Begin by only taking off his chastity for training 3 times the first week, 2 times the second week, and none the third week leading to the 15th day, from that point you will not remove his chastity for training until after he gets real cock in some manner. For now you will only arouse his balls, electrical play, and prostate play and fucking every 3rd day. Up till now you have only ordered him to wear panties 24/7, but now you will make him wear pantyhose, and training bra's 24/7 under his clothes along with the panties (of course only if this is of interest to you, but I recommend trying it). You will also make him shop with you for these things (stores away from the house) making sure the assistand has knowledge the garments are for him (great humiliation and loss of masculinity). If your turned on by the thought of him wearing wigs, lingerie, and shoes, now is the time to get those and have him wear them during training. To start step 9, prep by making him watch one hypnosis video a day, do it at first during training, do it for the last 7 days of the 15 day training for this step..

9th step - do this 3 or 4 times - You are now over a month into sissy training, again you have been strict, dominant and relentless with humiliation, as well as hypnosis training. Its time to take him to the gay bar (or on line hook up like Craig's list) for his first real cock encounter AGE AND LOOKS DO NOT MATTER, this is humiliation for him and it is the experience that deepens his sissy. When you find someone on line or at the gay bar, you will want to tell this guy you are his dom/mistress and that he is your bitch. Tell him that your bitch wears a chastity 24/7 and is not allowed pussy or to cum. Tell him that your bitch is a virgin and this is his first experience (that usually gets bi or gay men aroused) let them know he will be in bondage for your pleasure and the added fun, while he is being used.  Tell him anything goes but he must wear condoms and the chastity stays on. you will want to find out if the guy is ok with your bitch serving him or just wants the sex. When playtime is happening, your bitch will be naked except the chastity, have him serve you drinks and go in to get into position waiting for you to enter, let the guest no your going to tie him down and then do so. Start out with him kneeling on the floor legs and hands cuffed behind back with a mouth spreader in (the first time is very hard even with training and this says he has no choice. OR put him on the bed in doggie style position with an anal hook in and nose clamp forcing his head back to suck cock, again a mouth spreader is in. Then go out and explain what you want and let him know how he will be tied down. You will both enter the room and start out with the guy getting undressed and going straight for his cock getting sucked. You've already told him your bitch has a mouth spreader in so he knows to force his cock into his mouth and start pumping. You will have your cane ready to order him to lick his cock as the mouth spreader only holds his mouth open and he will want maximum pleasure of the tongue. Smack his ass hard about 3 times telling to to suck that cock. If the guys is only there for a cock sucking, and doesn't cum after the first 5-10 minutes you may remove the mouth spreader and order him to suck his cock until he cums. remember to humiliate him and smack his ass with your cane the whole time. If he is fucking then after the cock sucking part is done, remove the mouth spreader after the guy mounts him. Again humiliate him and have him beg for that cock and tell you how much he loves it and is a sissy for it. let the guy cum(with condom on in his ass or where he wants) and make the sub suck him clean afterwards. Walk him to the door after clean up and then proceed to humiliate and degrade your sub. This would be a good time to blind fold the sub and get yourself off as you WILL be extremely aroused and horny, you may even find you play with yourself during the intense thrill of watching your power come to life. Then have him lick the dildo clean and clean up. Remember to humiliate him and tell him good sissy, refer that he better learn to suck cock better.

10th Step -  You are now on the last step to complete sissy training, its time to explore your fantasies, or the guys fantasies. After 3 times of your sissy playing, you no longer need the mouth spreader, It is highly recommended that you use your cane to smack his ass if there is hesitation. It is still necessary to bound or tie him down to get fucked. At this point you will stop fucking him and instead instruct him to ask for (the guys name) cock, tell him he will no longer get your cock until he learns to please him and must rely on serving and obey you, as well as pleasing his cock in order to get that reward. This is where you want him begging to him and you, to suck his cock and get fucked by it. humiliate him and be cruel with it, make him by condoms for the event. After a full 10 days of getting cock, your bitch will now be a fully submissive, cock loving sissy slut. Its time to start having him used regularly, Find him 3,4,5,6 guys to pleasure on a regular basis. You may also elect to have him go to serve them on date nights or weekends you spend with your boyfriend. Be creative and remember its all about what turns you on and pleases you, not him....The power is from what you do with it and his excitement is watching you be ruthless about it. Your sissy bitch will also be better sexually satisfied as anal sex for little cocks is far better than regular sex, especially if the female is not into it and he doesn't have the humiliation to preform and fail.     

The reason and appealing nature for a mistress to starting this kind of training! There is no power stronger, fulfilling, or more intoxicating than watching your bitch turn sissy and submit to cock or suck cock and get fucked at your command or orders, especially if your sex is involved.

BELOW IS THE OLD GUIDE, READING IS NOT NECESSARY, YOU MAY READ FOR BULL DETAILS. FOLLOWING THE ABOVE STEPS ARE CRUCIAL, REREAD IF NECESSARY.

TRAINING
OK, depending on where you are in training and how strict you are in his servitude and punishments, this sissy training could cause him to rebel, especially if not done correctly. To be honest you might even have a bit of reluctance from him no matter how strict and dominant you've been towards him so its best not to mention your full intentions. If he rebels, just stay firm, strict and turn up the bitch mode then hand out the punishments! After all you are going to begin "Training your sissy bitch" to be just that, YOUR SISSY BITCH! This sort of training involves you really pushing his limits and submission to the point that he is truly submissive, obedient, and terrified of you and your ability to punishment him severly! As your BITCH, you should be/ have been training him to shave all pubic hair, take your strap-on in the ass, maybe lick your ass while you get fucked and do some kind of clean up duty on you after you get fucked.  HOWEVER as your sissy bitch he would loose all pussy privileges and be trained to; obey your lover (his Master/ Sir), fluff (orally get him hard) your lover for you and re-fluff after he cums for rounds 2, 3 so on, insert your lovers cock in your pussy for you, give your lover a blow job (fully cumming in his mouth) on the days in the month you can't play (or just because), Clean up duty on both of you, Fucked in the ass by your lover, or whom ever you choose (condoms always) just for the humiliation of it or on the days of the month you can't play, used in ways to help you and your lover achieve maximum pleasure during sex (not just licking your ass but licking your feet, sucking your lovers balls while you ride him, licking your clit as you mount him reverse style or your lover fucks you dogie style, your lover switches from fucking your pussy to fucking him in the mouth, or what ever humiliating ways you can come up with). He will also be made to pick up males from gay bars or internet sites, wear sissy clothes: panties, stockings, skirts, dresses or what ever you decide and turns you on (panties full time under his clothes), maybe even made to put a kotex in his ass on the days of the month you need one, and for some mistresses even made to wear makeup and/or a wig the nights he is to be used. It all comes down to what turns you on and if your unsure, I would experiment and try different things. You'll be surprised at the power you feel, the fun you have and just what does really turn you on, remember its also about his humiliation!

Where do you start? Well first you going to need to get him far enough along in training (horniness level maintained fairly high and disciplined good enough to not back talk or question your orders)
that he excepts this. This will not happen over night but with strict enforcement of rules, punishments daily training, and pegging, in a few weeks he will be ready to start sissy training. When you do start his sissy training, you must put in 100% until it is completed, especially punishing severely for broken rules and not obeying. At the end you want his will broken, him completely emasculated and feminized, loving, craving, and completely submissive to cock.  You start off by emasculating and feminizing him. Heavy use of humiliation will also help break him down to except the transformation. Make him shave any hair you don't want on him, (always pubic hair) and wear sissy panties 24/7 (sissy panties are specially made for chastity devices and can be purchased online). You will also start wearing a strap on but not using it when you do normal training and punishments, this gets him use to a cock being present but in a non-threatening way and its psychologically going to build his acceptance. If you have done some sort of pegging or bitch training before, you can immediately start having him suck cock every training day, and skip him getting use to the strap on. After 2 or three days of wearing the strap on during training, you will start to include the dildo in your training. This is done by having him knell (hands cuffed behind him) at your feet with it on, now he is submitting to your cock not your pussy in panties, thus now he is serving your cock and not your pussy (psychologically and physically you will be replacing everything to do with your pussy and him wanting it, to him now serving and wanting your cock) While he is knelling in front of you, start humiliating him about how much bigger it is than him and how this cock actually pleases women. Your also going to need to pick out a girly name for him, or just simply call him bitch, this will be the only thing you call him from now on. As you humiliate him your going to place a mouth spreader device on him and then your going to tell him in a firm demanding voice that he is going to start serving your cock and that from now on he is going to be your little sissy bitch. Furthermore he will suck your cock on demand or be severely punished, you will explain that he has no choice in the matter that for the next few days your going to prove that to him by making him wear the mouth spreader during training and force it in his mouth anyway (and during training you will from time to time put it in his mouth demanding he suck it like a good little bitch) . As you force your cock into his mouth (don't go to deep as you don't want to gag him) tell him he will obey and suck it willingly, and suck it like he loves it, like sucking it pleases his mouth....This is the way he will please you sexually from now on and that his ability to please you this way and show he really wants to please your cock will keep his ass from being welted and bruised, greatly helping him in the weeks to come. After fucking his mouth for a few minutes (make sure you treated him just like a sissy and grabbed his head/hair forcing it into his mouth) and he has slobbered all over his mouth and your cock, you will take it out. At this point take some time to do a few things you want to him, things you would normally do in a training session. After 15-20 min of that its time you tie him up doggy style, make sure he is good and tight. Get him hard and then use your finger on his prostate. When he is good and worked up( babbling like a good little bitch) your going to fuck him in the ass, and humiliate him that this is the only way he will receive pleasure from now on and only after he has been a good little sissy bitch and has begged properly for the privilege.(Soon he will always be in his chastity when you fuck him). Eventually by taking pussy away from him and switching the pleasure he gets from his cock to his ass, he will be begging you to be your little sissy bitch. *note Start off with a 7.5 inch dildo* you may already have him begging for cock through pegging if so skip the getting him use to cock part. Whats important is replacing pussy completely and having him submit to, suck, and fuck your dildo, and then real cock.

The first time or 2 of fucking him you probably won't see a significant change but by the 3rd or 4th time you should see a noticeable more submissive side to your cock fucking him. Especially after you've been fucking him for a few minutes. Eventually after going with out pussy or an orgasm for a while he will completely submit to your cock in his ass to the point he is moaning to your pumps in him, backing up on it, begging you not to stop and babbling many things that could range from how he wants you to fuck him from now on and be your little bitch, to how much he wants to serve your cock and loves it. WHEN he does this your going to want to lead him and make him really want this. To do this you will make him tell you he loves your cock, make him tell you he wants to be your little sissy bitch from now on and ask him who's bitch he is? Make him really open up and crave it, have him beg you not to stop, have him tell you that he will suck your lovers cock or who evers cock you tell him. Don't be shy about this, fuck him good and pull his hair and smack his ass hard enough to leave hand prints, and do it over and over to redden up his ass (remember this is his sissy bitch transformation and you want to treat him just like that). While he is in this state use your imagination and let loose on him. (eventually after a month or so of no pussy contact, strict discipline, and the occasional fucking from you, he really will crave and be cock whipped). After 2 weeks from the day you start fucking him and treating him like your little sissy bitch your going to go a full week (7 days) of not fucking him but still giving him prostate stimulation by hand or toy and still wearing your strap on in every training session with him sucking it on occasion. This way it's always on his mind. On the 7th day start off with your normal training then after he is all worked up your going to give him the chance to show just how much he wants to please your cock and maybe get to have your cock in his pussy. Have him knell and beg to suck you cock, after he does allow him to suck it, but no matter how good he does tell him "he must not want cock bad enough because he's not doing a very good job", then take your crop and smack his ass hard saying suck my cock like you want it and continue to whack him while he sucks it. After a few minutes pull it away from him telling him it's not good enough he can do better and he won't be getting cock today, but you will give him one more chance in a few days. In 2 days repeat, this time you want to use a bigger dildo 8.5 inches and thick, humiliate him and while fucking his mouth really smacking his ass hard with the crop (you will notice a difference in how much he really wants your cock). When you feel he has pleased you enough your going to tie him down doggy style telling him to beg you for your cock, again leading him to tell you who's bitch he is, that he will suck who's cock you tell him and that he serves your cock from now on to never bring up, ask for, or have anything to do with your pussy ever again or be severely punished. Once he agrees lube his ass and tell him he better show you how much he enjoys the privilege of getting your cock by moaning and screaming like the little sissy bitch he is. By now he should always be in his chastity when you fuck him....give it to him good, fast and hard, pulling hair, spreading his ass cheeks, spitting on his pussy, smacking his ass very hard. You want to treat him and make him feel like a submissive cock loving sissy, so  fuck him long and hard. Make sure you always have a dish beneath his chastity to catch the dripping precum and also when you milk him, then have him lick it off as you humiliate him and cane his ass. Remember earlier how I said his ability to show you that really he wants to please your cock will help him in weeks to come, we'll from this point on you will only give him cock after he has sucked your cock to your satisfaction, and even then only after you have been fucked several times. Later after months of not getting an orgasm, or released from his chastity, and nothing to do with pussy (except the rare tease with cum or smell) plus not getting your cock until after you have been fucked 2, 3, or 4, times, He will really become cock whipped and do practically anything to have it, he may even cry when you deny him the privilege of getting fuck by it. If he does, great don't let him have it...You are doing a great job!  Let's not waste this and really tease and humiliate him, letting him know as you smile and laugh that seeing him cry like a little sissy turns you on and he better get use to only getting cock when he really deserves it. Let him know what you really want from him from now on, to earn your cock....Be sure to let him know that nothing puts you in the mood to fuck him, like getting big cock from your lover or boyfriend and coming home to a spotless house. 

At this point its time to start looking for a suitable lover that can fit the bull position, or learn to be a 
bull. He should be open minded, or maybe even Bi/ bi-curious, so he is more willing or even excited
to be serviced by your Bitch. He should also be OK with/or even  turned on by being your bitches 
"MASTER" thus ordering him to serve you and or him in what ever ways the two of you see fit. At the same time there is no reason to waste his ultimate submission, start looking for Bi or gay men to use him. LOOKS don't matter, their purpose is to have him suck them and fuck him (condoms always), he needs the experience and humilliation of being fucked by real cock, forced to admit he loves it, wants it, needs it! They will not be there for your sexual needs (unless you want to join) but try to find an above average (more than 6.5 inches) cock if possible. Once you have the lover/'s and/or users picked out you would then discuss your plans/scenarios that you would like to take place, go over the do's and don'ts, answer and ask any questions you have. Let new master/Bull or user know his roll a head of time, as in, is he a lover for you to fuck as we'll or just a master for you sissy to service and serve, or just there to use your sissy. When it's time for play no matter the persons roll,  Don't be shy, or afraid to do what you want, what you want him to do or what you want done to him or sissy. This is about what turns you on as well as his humiliation. All men are turned on by a women in control, especially if she is firm, demanding and flaunts it. You could even ask the new guy for his ideas and/or maybe just let him take control the first few times or until you want it.

No matter if this new user, Master/Sir is just for your sissy bitch or he is someone you also want to play with (making him a lover) you'll want to start off by having your sissy waiting in another room while you greet his master and bring him to a place to sit with you or near you depending on his roll there. If he is not a lover then you should sit with a little distance between you. After a few minutes of talking and the user, or master is ready call for your sissy to come knell in his place. (he should be naked with his chastity on) You will introduce the man as his new master or user,  and if also a lover let sissy know that as well. Tell your bitch to fetch you both drinks and towels for later. Make sure he knells at your feet before giving you the drinks. Snap your fingers and be demanding! When you and the man are ready leash your bitch and walk him to the play room on his knees. When you get to the room place your sissy where he needs to be (start off blind folded and kneeling with hands cuffed behind him, and for the first time use your mouth spreader device as the real cock is much more humiliating and difficult to suck) from here the man's role of master, user, or lover plays a big part. If he is a lover you two would start making out and taking off each other's clothes before you get to the real point of the master/lover being there, if not a lover then the next step, directly to the point. The master removes  his cloths and you tell your sissy he is going to suck his cock hard for you. The master will put his cock into the sissy's forced open mouth and begin to fuck his mouth because the mouth spreader will keep sissy from truly sucking his cock, fucking his mouth is necessary this first time. You will have your crop smacking his ass hard telling him to suck his fucking cock like a good little bitch and use his tongue, use a firm loud voice. After 6/7 smacks your going to lube sissy's ass and slowly work in a butt plug or toy to get him worked up and loose. Once the guy is good and hard it's time to move on to the next step. Again the guys roll determines that. If he is a lover then you will remove the mouth spreader (it would be good to have the bitch wearing a butt plug strap to keep it from falling out), then proceed to the bed for a good fucking, doing the steps along the way to have sissy bitch in position to please both of you. Once you 2 are done fucking, its time to put sissy in his place to get fucked and remove the butt plug (make sure the master treats him like a sissy bitch smacking his ass and making sissy tell him he loves his cock along with any other humiliating things you discuss with him to say). If he is just a master then you would skip the having sex part and proceed to training him with the master, if he is a user then skip the training step and go to the user step. MASTER STEP* Start off by getting sissy good and horny, rub his cage and balls while you tell him how tiny and useless it is. Also use a prostate vibrator and suck on his nipples and ears to boost his horniness level. during this time you will use verbal humiliation, tie him down in humiliating positions, and have the master put his cock in sissy's mouth from time to time (the mouth spreader would have been left in) Next you will remove your clothes except for your panties (and bra if uncomfortable) put on your strap-on, then you will proceed to the corporal side of training. You will do everything from CBT (cock and ball torture) to spanking him with the crop, paddle, flogger and cane including nipple clamps, electro shock, and candle wax burning (if you have these). When doing all this make sure the master does his part (what ever you guys have discussed during the first meeting or conversations by texting or over the phone, and/or when he first arrives before you call sissy in). Sissy should still be blind folded and make sure the spankings are fairly hard and range from one hitters to fast multiple hits (10 in a row), and humiliate him during this time. Make sure you tell him he is going to take the masters cock deep and please it or be severely punished. Once you have had your fun and you feel sissy is ready then you would put sissy in his position to get fucked (your or masters choose of position not the sissy's) and tie him down. Remove the butt plug and harness and do as described above. Have the master start out with a slow insert (condom on and lots of lube), and a slow fuck gradually building speed and pounding. during this time be sure to give sissy humiliation and smacks to the ass, then proceed to have sissy suck on your strap-on cock and tell him to do a good job sucking it like a good little bitch. After the master is done or sissy cant take anymore cock, (which ever comes first but if sissy can't take it anymore then the lover should jack off and cum on his ass or face at your discretion) then sissy is untied and told to clean up then take his place again kneeling and serving both of you in what way you see fit. USER STEP* After the user is good and hard and ready to fuck, put sissy in his place to get fucked and tie him down. put on your strap on and grab your crop. User must always wear a condom and lube up, then start out slow and build to fucking hard and fast. During this entire time you will be humiliating him about his new role, being used from now on and eventually sucking cock on command. humiliate him about being a sissy bitch from now on and that he will eventually beg you for this privilege, tell him you want to hear him moan and scream like a good little bitch. Keep humiliating him as you force your cock through the mouth spreader and command him to suck your cock while he gets fucked by the user, smack his back with the crop from time to time. This would also be a good time to use your finger and let him smell how aroused and turned on you are by watching him being used, the smell of pussy will force him over the submission thresh hold, to complete sissy bitch especially since he can't help but start to love the feeling of that real cock building him to sissygasm. After about 10 minutes you will switch positions with the user, have him remove the condom and fuck his mouth while you fuck sissie's ass good and hard, then switch back with the user putting on a new condom. The user is going to cum inside the condom while he fucks the sissy, then discard it on the floor for sissy to clean up. Allow him to clean up and walk him out setting up another date or a time to call him for another date. When you come back you may begin again to fuck sissy or what ever fun you want.

No matter the role of the man use your own ideas, humiliation, and positions, and after 3 or 4 times of forced oral, you may choose to not use the mouth spreader. Remember, this as with anything is about your pleasure, excitement, entertainment and fun. He is only permitted this by you, even if he does't know he wants and needs this from now on. In time he will love the real cock fucking him and become cock whipped as it will be the only time he gets pleasure. You need to have several regular men (5,6,7) to use him, have him used at least 3-4 times per month. You should find at least male out of them you trust, so that you can drop the sissy off at, for chores, repairs, cleaning and/or sexual service while you go get fucked. This is especially useful on long day, or spending the nigh and/or weekend with your Boyfriend or Bull/lover. 

MASTER NOTE*When its time for the master to go, leave sissy on his knees in the play room and walk out the master. The blind fold should still be on sissy and not have been removed at all during the masters stay (you will have your sissy blind folded right before every play session with the master and most every time you get fucked). For the first few times 3 or 4 of the master coming over (after he leaves) you will tie sissy up laying down and remove his chastity. Then you will get his little dick hard and keep him on the edge until you feel like putting it back away. During this time make sure you humiliate him and tell him this is his new place from now on.Then you will lock it back away and release him to take his place kneeling at your feet where you will inform him that this is the only sex he will have from now on and humiliate him about it, making sure you have him thank you for that privilege, have him worship your feet and/or ass. After his break in period (the first 3 or 4 times) you will not be removing his chastity instead you will come through the door after walking out the master (and still have nothing on but your panties) and while he is kneeling in his place you tell him how good of a little bitch he was and again informing him this is the way it's going to be from now on. Tell him how well he has pleased you and tell him that he's going to get a reward for being a good little sissy bitch by allowing him to put his nose in your crotch to smell your pussy ( but only for a minute or two). This may be a reward for him as he has done good but it also serves another purpose, it allows him to smell your sweat freshly fucked pussy (if the master is also a lover) allowing the hormones you secrete to do their job and subconsciously deepen is submission and craving of you getting fucked which will also cause him to crave being fucked. Even if he was just a master not a lover, he would still smell the hormones from how horny you got just by watching him get used like a little sissy bitch. If the master is not a lover you may also want to take the time and relieve the sexual build up from watching sissy get used by having sissy hold a dildo in his mouth while you fuck it or have sissy wear a strap-on while you ride him.


Remember, you should be looking for men that are more open to your fun, bi or gay men are more likely to play or fuck him. You can find them at gay bars, gay or fetish web sites, or Craig's list. A lot of this has been gone over in other topics, please be sure to read all of them for more ideas as well as gaining more experience.... As always explore, have fun, and do what pleases you!

Sissy explained
Turning him sissy is not something that happens over night, it involves several weeks to months of hard, correct training. It is a specific and special kind of training that forces him mentally and physically to need and crave cock. It is much more fulfilling, intense and gratifying than just having a bitch and cuckolding him. It is done by psychologically and physically replacing his desire and need for pussy to cock but with a much more intensity. It is much more intense because with an orgasm in pussy the brain releases counter reacting chemicals that says he is finished, acheived the goal so to speak. When he cum's/ orgasms anally that is not released thus building the nee and desire for pleasure. ,  It involves mind control and brain washing. First by build up of his natural chemicals, a cocktail of hormones and proteins that in small amount create a drive to want sex, however in large amounts cause submissive behavior, which is used to make him submissive to pussy and crave cuckolding. These are created in his testicles and prostate, however the key chemicals for changing and replacing sexual desire are only secreted during repeated prostate sex, ideally through big cock penetration. But for these chemicals to work correctly and complete the transformation, the male must not have access to pussy, or an orgasm for 3-4 weeks. It also involves your pheromones called copulins to trick his brain into believing this is the only sex he needs and desires. The process is further helped and quickened by hypnotizing the male through subliminal messages, via picture and/or voice, on video that subconsciously forces him to want, need, believe he is a sissy and loves cock. The best video's are ones that talk or flash words to describe him wanting cock, loving cock, sucking it, being fucked by it, thinking about it, submitting to it etc. Also that his cock is tiny, can't please women, and was built to be a sissy. It is however only about the cock and not who's giving it, (why looks don't matter) meaning this doesn't make him gay as he would never want to date a man or be intimate with him, his DNA can't be over written. It can be focused on dildo cock, real cock or both or if wanting him to mainly crave or only crave real cock or sex with other men. FACTS; Most all sissies have small cocks, around 5 inches or less. During conversion, all sissies would prefer cock over sex with other females (not his mistress) as the humiliation of small cock, performance, and being unable to maintain erection is to much to handle. After conversion, they prefer cock over all pussy and loose interest in other females. They have accepted that they can't give any pleasure to anyone, and that the pleasure of the cock is more intense, powerful, longer lasting and they can have sex for as long as the penis is hard, enjoying pleasure far longer than the quick penis orgasm they were once permitted. They are still turned on by the sight of a naked female body, and make them feel weak and submissive to it, especially that of his mistress. however have no instinct or desire to act in normal sex as it would have a reverse action actually causing them to crave cock more (why strip clubs/lap dances help to depend his desire for cock).

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