You are reading this because your Mistress is taking her rightful place as your superior and putting you in your natural and proper place. This is a gift, and a privilege to serve, obey, and knell at the feet of your Mistress. She will train you to be her bitch, her cock whipped sissy slut and give you explicit instruction on how you are to act and behave. This is meant for you to read, to understand, to accept, and live by as this will be your life from here out! Its time you realize your here now on your knees because this is where you fucking belong! You were meant to kneel and serve your mistress, to follower her rules, orders, to clean HER fucking house and obey her every command. Stop fooling yourself thinking you have any choice in the matter or that someday you might be allowed the privilege to feel her beautiful warm, smooth, and tight pussy ever again!!! Those days are over bitch and you will never feel her pussy or any pussy ever again, let alone be permitted an orgasm!
You are now owned and the property of your mistress, it is your natural place to be submissive to your mistress and to accept her as your boss and only authority in the house. You are nothing more than her sissy bitch and house servant and it is not only your purpose to serve her, obey her, and hand over your pay check, it is a privilege to do this and submit to her. As a female and your mistress, she is naturally superior to you, and if you really thought about it you would realize its your natural place to knell at her feet. Deep down inside you can't explain it, but you feel the urge to kneel and obey as she commands. DO NOT FIGHT IT, embrace it, let it consume you and every thought you have from this point forward. That urge is there to guide you to your true place, on your knees begging to serve and worship your mistress. You were meant to serve her, to obey her, and worship the ground she walks on. As the man and her sissy bitch, you are inferior to her, you are hers to command, hers to do with as she pleases. As you read this you know its true, you can't help but obey her when she shouts out orders. You feel your heart race and your small pathetic penis stiffens in the chastity at the though of kneeling at her feet, just inches away from her tight pussy that you will no longer have and that you no longer deserve anything at all to do with it. You can't resist it, the thought of serving and obey her feels right and you are powerless to stop it. You are sexually aroused at the fact that you can't help but want to serve her, that you are helpless to do anything but take you fucking place and obey your mistress! As her bitch, you need to bring out her true dominant self, accept her control over you and do as your commanded. Its your place to serve her, to clean up after her, to clean the house, and any other chore needing done while she has free time to do what ever the fuck she wants.
You need to accept the truth...The only way you can please your mistress is by serving and obeying her. Your pathetic clitty is to small, to short, and to thin to give her or any woman pleasure, it has never done anything for her as you were meant to please her on your knees. You know its true, accept it and take your rightful place at her feet, and you will be much happier and so will she! Think about it, when was the last time she wanted sex? You were always the one who asked for it. When did you ever hear her scream or even moan for that matter? Has she ever told you she had a good orgasm or even got off? You've watched porn, you know the screaming and moaning I'm referring to, or maybe you were lucky enough to have already been cuckolded, probably even many times by now. You've seen her with a lover or a boyfriend, does that hot passionate sex sound or look anything like what you could do? HA HA HA, your pathetic and you know you have never satisfied your mistress. Especially they way she wants, needs or DESERVES!!!! Look at your penis if you even can, maybe its already locked up where it should be, in a small chastity device to keep you from playing with the pathetic thing. But still look at how small and pathetic it is, look at how small your balls are. Even rock hard its 2 to 3 fingers at best to hold it. You've seen your cock hard, probably as recent as training and its no where near or any comparison to the size of a real man also known as her boyfriend or lover. There is a big difference, not only in size and performance from her lover but also how she actually gets turned on by him, how she wants and craves sex with him and his big cock. Its humiliating isn't it, but you can't help but submit to her getting what she wants and deserve, you can't help but beg to lick her clean after her sex, you know thats your place, especially because you know its the only time you get that close to her intoxicating pussy! What are you 5 to 5 and 1/2 inches? or even worse, under 5. The true is, if your less than 6.5 inches which is average you should never have had the ability to stick that puny thing in her. She deserve more, she deserves a real man's dick, one that will actually give her the pleasure she needs, and wants. You were selfish for even making her suffer through the 5 minutes of sex with you that did nothing but get you off. You don't ever deserve pussy again, it should be locked away for good and you should do every thing she commands to please her.
She should be enjoying real dick, by real men, not a submissive bitch who should beg her every day to be allowed the privilege to serve her and be inches away from her beautiful, warm, wet, pussy!
you need to accept your place, get on your knees and ask her what she truely wants, and what she wants from you. If she tells you in a serious manner, that she wants your on your knees, chaste and serving her from now on and the ability to fuck who ever she wants, its done! you know then what she wants and what you need to do. It is your place to serve her, and she knows you know its your place to serve her. accept whats in your heart and whats in hers and serve your Mistress!
Tuesday, July 4, 2023
Saturday, January 28, 2023
Proper Pegging and Technique
Pegging and Technique
Pegging is just the proper word in the BDSM/FEMDOM community for fucking your man in the ass with your strap-on dildo. Why would a Dominatrix want to peg her bitch? Well there are many reason why she may want to, and there is every reason she should. For one, there are fewer ways better than to emasculate a man by fucking him in the ass, which only compounds as he starts to love it and becomes addicted to it. It may turn her on or she may like the power she feels by taking his ass with her much larger cock. She may love to hear him scream and moan from it forcing his sissygasms, or she may love watching the penetration as it stretches his ass open with every deep thrust. She will definitely love how submissive it makes him. She may even want to permanently cuckold him and date a full time boyfriend, using pegging to completely deny him pussy. She may be a sadistic Dom and want to turn him into a sissy, manipulating his pleasure zone, forcefully and skillfully reprogramming him to become a cock whipped cum slut, begging to suck and get fucked by real cock. Or she may want to peg for all of the above, but regardless the reason, pegging is a very strong tool for training, submission, and psychological reconditioning of his mind.
At first he will resist, struggle against it, beg you not to, and even think its gay. There is nothing gay about it and you will force him to take it to increase your power over him. It will become one of your most valuable tools to keep him submissive and help take sex completely away from him. It will eventually (with training and punishments) wipe out his ego, help turn him sissy, and drastically reduce the male moncho attitude (as long as your training correctly and punishing). Eventually he will love it, but more importantly, crave it, need it and even beg for it. This adds to the humiliation, authority, and power you have, as your the only way he gets it. It's also the only way to transform him into a sissy bitch, if you want to go that route and most do. Pegging is also mental training, meaning it will help to rearrange his thinking process and increase the need to obey you. Explained; Once you start locking up that little dicklet and take away orgasms, this will switch his pleasure zone from his dicklet to his ass. His ass will eventually be transformed into a pussy, chemically and physically. He will become dependent on your big cock and you owning his ass for his pleasure. When he becomes dependent on your cock, that means he has more less accepted that he will not be allowed pussy and give in to the only pleasure you allow him, COCK! Which he really has no choice because your going to force him to love it, as your cock will work its magic on his tight little hole. He literally won't be able to resist it, as it will force him to have sissygasms after sissygasm and submit to your cock. Plus it will be his only pleasure, even though it will never lead to a real orgasm or any sexual satisfaction or release. Every sub is different plus depending on how long he has gone without pussy or an orgasm and any prior training you've done with him will determine how quickly he becomes submissive to your cock.
WEAR YOUR STRAP-ON
Wearing your strap-on is a show of power, it is a symbol of control and dominance. It emphasizes your place as the dominant and his as the submissive (sissy if trained this way) and magnifies the atmosphere of female domination. It helps in turning him sissy and becoming cock whipped. It will eventually be erotic and sexy to him, as it is to every submissive bitch. You should wear your harness and dildo just about every training day, but at least 4 out of the 7 days a week. You can always remove it during training but at least start out with it on, even if you don't plan to peg him with it. This helps build anticipation, gets him use to seeing cock, preps him for the real thing (if that is your goal) and allows for you to force him to suck it for humiliation (or prep for the real thing). If your pegging with a strap-on he should always be tied down. This prepares him for the real thing as he will always be in chastity and tied down when you have him fucked by a real cock. Did I mention how much of a turn on it is to watch your bitch kneel, beg, and suck your cock, let alone a real cock!
Rather you are starting out new, or been pegging him for a bit, you need to read and follow all steps exactly as written.
Step 1; At this stage his ass is just that, an ass hole you want to peg, but you eventually want it to become a fuck hole, a bonafide pussy that craves cock just as much as you do. Firstly, it is very important that you peg him for a minimum of 20 minutes, but ideally 30 minutes or more, every night for 2 to 3 weeks to get him use to getting your cock. This is because you want this to be normal for him, you want him to accept his new role and pleasure. You want to turn that ass hole into a dribbling wet pussy and to feel as though he was meant to take cock and to please it. If possible, you should try to peg him 2 or even 3 times a day as this will really help make him cock submissive and turn him into a cock slut for your cock, IT does make a difference. If you have the ability to peg him multiple times a day, you don't need to do training on him every time you peg, unless you want to of course. Just tie him down and fuck him, then make him clean up and back to doing chores or what ever. TO START OUT the first week, use a dildo that's not to thick or long but above average. Just like you, he will prefer thickness over length so you will eventually go up in size to give his ass a good stretch. It is important that you ALWAYS start off licking (until you start permanent chastity) his clitty for a minimal of 10 minutes to build up arousal levels, as this is what intensifies the nerve endings and receptors around his ass and prostate making touch and friction really pleasurable. This will also switch his pleasure zones and link his now and normal pleasure to only getting anal pleasure. After he is aroused properly, start off with finger play, using one finger to rub the outside first and work up to sliding it in. Then work up to using 2 fingers and pay attention to what pleases him more using those motions the most, but switch it up every so often, just not to much. After you permanently lock up his clitty you will start off rubbing his hole, then fingering it, and then go straight to pegging. After you see he is very aroused or excited introduce a finger to his ass but only to rub around the hole at first then eventually insert it. Humiliation is very important for training and the psychological influence of pegging and cuckolding. During pegging you want to humiliate him about how much of a sissy he is. Laugh at him mildly and tell him he was meant to please cock. Tell him this is his sex from now on, being fucked like the little sissy bitch he is and he will never feel the pleasure of pussy again. Tell him you are going to permanently lock away his clitty. Humiliate him the entire time you fuck him, but also during the day about how he is a cock slut and so on. You will humiliate him from here out, about being a cock slut (sissy if that's your training). Use the techniques listed at the bottom of the post.
Step 2, second week; During this step there is not much difference than the first week except starting the second week its time to go up in size. Use a dildo that is around 7 inches long and 2 inches thick or 6 inches around. Even if he is not a beginner, this is a good stretch dildo and will work his prostate very well giving him great sissygasms. This cock is the cock that you fuck him with regularly from here out (or cocks close to this size with different textures or shapes). Now is the time to start making him suck your dildo prior to using it on him, unless you have been pegging prior. If so then start off making him suck it. Fuck him with this cock for 2 weeks and remember it is very, very important to continue to humiliate him and use the techniques at the bottom of this post.
Step 3, forth week; By now he has more or less accepted pegging, especially after you start fucking him and he backs up on your cock (as long as your following this guide). He is probably very verbal with moans and screams and tells you he loves your cock. His ass has become more like a pussy, it gets wet, cums, and is starting to crave your strap-on cock. However its not broken in yet and is far from ready for real cock. In this 4th week, you will go up in size again, this will be his every now and then cock so you want it to give him a really good stretch, around 7.5 to 8 inches long and 2.25 to 2.50 inches thick. This cock is the cock that you use to really make him moan and sissygasm hard, but you don't want to use it every time (unless you want him to be a size queen or fisting). You will start off with the normal cock and then switch to the the large one. Again this week is just the introduction to the large cock, don't start out using it and only use it 2 0r 3 of the 7 days. The goal is to peg him until he has fully accepted it, wants it, needs it, and craves it. Meaning there is no resistance when you offer him the privilege of getting fucked and he is moaning and screaming soon as you start fucking him. You want him hooked on your cock, more less addicted to it, and trust me he won't be able to stop it or control his urge and is well on his way to becoming your sissy bitch. Remember to humiliate daily and use the techniques at the bottom of this post.
Step 4; After the end of the 4 weeks he has fully accepted pegging and his ass is now a bonafide pussy. He loves cock, feels submissive towards it and can't resist you offering it to him and is even begging for it. It's time to give him a 2 day break to let his urge/need for your cock build. During this time you should humiliate him and also tease him by using lube and rub around his pussy, by now just rubbing the outside of his pussy will give him a lot of pleasure and build his urgency to need cock, especially while licking his clitty. Eventually after rubbing and teasing his pussy you will finger it, go slow and don't use to much pressure (to much pressure is bad on the prostate). Remember its not the in and out of your finger that gives pleasure (like his clitty its to skinny) its the rub of his prostate. You can rub in a figure 8 pattern, a circle, back and forth/ side to side, the come here gesture, or mix them up, but see what works best on him. You may also use vibrating butt plugs, or prostate toys to build his need for cock.
Rather you are starting out new, or been pegging him for a bit, you need to read and follow all steps exactly as written.
Step 1; At this stage his ass is just that, an ass hole you want to peg, but you eventually want it to become a fuck hole, a bonafide pussy that craves cock just as much as you do. Firstly, it is very important that you peg him for a minimum of 20 minutes, but ideally 30 minutes or more, every night for 2 to 3 weeks to get him use to getting your cock. This is because you want this to be normal for him, you want him to accept his new role and pleasure. You want to turn that ass hole into a dribbling wet pussy and to feel as though he was meant to take cock and to please it. If possible, you should try to peg him 2 or even 3 times a day as this will really help make him cock submissive and turn him into a cock slut for your cock, IT does make a difference. If you have the ability to peg him multiple times a day, you don't need to do training on him every time you peg, unless you want to of course. Just tie him down and fuck him, then make him clean up and back to doing chores or what ever. TO START OUT the first week, use a dildo that's not to thick or long but above average. Just like you, he will prefer thickness over length so you will eventually go up in size to give his ass a good stretch. It is important that you ALWAYS start off licking (until you start permanent chastity) his clitty for a minimal of 10 minutes to build up arousal levels, as this is what intensifies the nerve endings and receptors around his ass and prostate making touch and friction really pleasurable. This will also switch his pleasure zones and link his now and normal pleasure to only getting anal pleasure. After he is aroused properly, start off with finger play, using one finger to rub the outside first and work up to sliding it in. Then work up to using 2 fingers and pay attention to what pleases him more using those motions the most, but switch it up every so often, just not to much. After you permanently lock up his clitty you will start off rubbing his hole, then fingering it, and then go straight to pegging. After you see he is very aroused or excited introduce a finger to his ass but only to rub around the hole at first then eventually insert it. Humiliation is very important for training and the psychological influence of pegging and cuckolding. During pegging you want to humiliate him about how much of a sissy he is. Laugh at him mildly and tell him he was meant to please cock. Tell him this is his sex from now on, being fucked like the little sissy bitch he is and he will never feel the pleasure of pussy again. Tell him you are going to permanently lock away his clitty. Humiliate him the entire time you fuck him, but also during the day about how he is a cock slut and so on. You will humiliate him from here out, about being a cock slut (sissy if that's your training). Use the techniques listed at the bottom of the post.
Step 2, second week; During this step there is not much difference than the first week except starting the second week its time to go up in size. Use a dildo that is around 7 inches long and 2 inches thick or 6 inches around. Even if he is not a beginner, this is a good stretch dildo and will work his prostate very well giving him great sissygasms. This cock is the cock that you fuck him with regularly from here out (or cocks close to this size with different textures or shapes). Now is the time to start making him suck your dildo prior to using it on him, unless you have been pegging prior. If so then start off making him suck it. Fuck him with this cock for 2 weeks and remember it is very, very important to continue to humiliate him and use the techniques at the bottom of this post.
Step 3, forth week; By now he has more or less accepted pegging, especially after you start fucking him and he backs up on your cock (as long as your following this guide). He is probably very verbal with moans and screams and tells you he loves your cock. His ass has become more like a pussy, it gets wet, cums, and is starting to crave your strap-on cock. However its not broken in yet and is far from ready for real cock. In this 4th week, you will go up in size again, this will be his every now and then cock so you want it to give him a really good stretch, around 7.5 to 8 inches long and 2.25 to 2.50 inches thick. This cock is the cock that you use to really make him moan and sissygasm hard, but you don't want to use it every time (unless you want him to be a size queen or fisting). You will start off with the normal cock and then switch to the the large one. Again this week is just the introduction to the large cock, don't start out using it and only use it 2 0r 3 of the 7 days. The goal is to peg him until he has fully accepted it, wants it, needs it, and craves it. Meaning there is no resistance when you offer him the privilege of getting fucked and he is moaning and screaming soon as you start fucking him. You want him hooked on your cock, more less addicted to it, and trust me he won't be able to stop it or control his urge and is well on his way to becoming your sissy bitch. Remember to humiliate daily and use the techniques at the bottom of this post.
Step 4; After the end of the 4 weeks he has fully accepted pegging and his ass is now a bonafide pussy. He loves cock, feels submissive towards it and can't resist you offering it to him and is even begging for it. It's time to give him a 2 day break to let his urge/need for your cock build. During this time you should humiliate him and also tease him by using lube and rub around his pussy, by now just rubbing the outside of his pussy will give him a lot of pleasure and build his urgency to need cock, especially while licking his clitty. Eventually after rubbing and teasing his pussy you will finger it, go slow and don't use to much pressure (to much pressure is bad on the prostate). Remember its not the in and out of your finger that gives pleasure (like his clitty its to skinny) its the rub of his prostate. You can rub in a figure 8 pattern, a circle, back and forth/ side to side, the come here gesture, or mix them up, but see what works best on him. You may also use vibrating butt plugs, or prostate toys to build his need for cock.
Step 5; by the end of 2nd day break he should be all worked up and horny for your cock, if not then give it another day. Now its time to make him show how bad he wants it by begging for it before you give it to him. You will make him beg good for it and begging should include him on his knees, worshiping your feet and then sucking your cock (and balls if there are some), with a lot of heavy humiliation. Tell him to get use to sucking cock, that he was made to please cock (you want him to know and believe this is his place and that he was meant to please cock). Tell him that he will suck what ever cock you tell him and soon he will be sucking a lot of the real cock. Keep up the humiliation and make sure you grab his hair or the back of his head and pull his mouth on your cock as he is sucking it. Take it out of his mouth and smack him in the face with it 2 or 3 times, then tell him to suck it real good. Try to use a dildo that has balls so that you can tell him to suck your balls. Once he has begged to your pleasing your going to tie him down and fuck him really good and hard. You want to treat him just like a cock slut, talking to him in a firm demanding voice as you pound his pussy good. Make him tell you how much he loves it, and thank you for that privilege, continue as you smack his ass hard over and over off and on through out the fucking. Rather you train him to be a sissy bitch or not this is very good humiliation for him and makes him submit to your cock.
Step 6; After that pounding give him another 2 day break and repeat step 5 above. Remember to play with his pussy during that break. Use a finger (or 2) a but plug, or other toys (that is not a dildo or resemble one). Again make sure he is all worked up and horny or give another day. Do as before and tie him down, only this time your going to make him suck another dildo cock while you fuck him (suction the dildo to a plate or wall). Start off making him suck the cock for a bit, force his head up and down on it. While he sucks it get a cane or leather strap and start smacking his ass and make him tell you he loves it, if not hit him 20-30 times as you say in a firm voice, "Tell me you fucking love it!' Them make him tell you he accepts his place as your cock slut (sissy cock slut if training for it). You may humiliate him more, but at some point while he is sucking the cock, your going to start fucking him while he sucks it. Make sure he sucks it the whole time and humiliate him about how he's going to please real cock from now on. Smack his ass hard with a short cane, whip or leather strap as you fuck him hard and demand him to suck that cock. This is his place from now on and you want him to know and believe this so you need to be serious and dominant while forcing him into his cock slut place.
Step 7; At this point he is 100 % a cock slut and ready for permanent cuckolding or full time boyfriend. If you already have one, definitely proceed to permanent chastity. If your training him to take the real cock and or suck it, now is the time to bring someone in. You will take the last 2 day break, then during training your going to tease him by spending a lot of time rubbing the outside of his pussy and edge of his hole while you lick his little clitty. Then you will start fingering him and get him all worked up. You will tell him that you will allow him the privilege of your cock one more time as from this point he will only be allowed your big cock when you feel he deserves it. From this point you will essentially be repeating step 6 above . Only difference is your going to make him confess that he is your cock slut (sissy if training). Your going to make him beg you (on his knees), worshiping your feet at first, then ordered to suck your cock, and while doing so, confess that he is your bitch.....That he is your little cock slut.....That he is cock whipped and will be your Bitch from then on (sissy, if training for this). Make him tell you how much he loves your big cock stretching his pussy open and how he will do anything to have it. Make him say all of this, and then tell him he is not a man, he is your pathetic bitch (Sissy if training) and that he will shave all hair on his body (at least pubic hair) and wear panties from now on. After you have humiliated him to your satisfaction, you will tie him down doggie style and peg him. At this point you will tell him you want to hear him moan and scream, that he better be a good little sissy bitch and take it deep and hard for you. Smack his ass hard and pull his hair and his nuts. During his pegging make sure you humiliate him and tell you he loves your cock, and who's pussy it is. You should fuck him for at least 45 min. to bring out the little cock slut you've created and when finished, make him get on his knees and thank you for allowing him to be your bitch. If he dribbles or oozes precum, he is to lick it clean.
By now he is your cock whipped bitch and eager slut, your pussy can now be completely taken away from him and freely given to whom ever you choose as much and as often as you want. However it is very important that he never be allowed sex, or an orgasm with his clitty, only milking. Milking is not the same as cumming with an orgasm via his penis.
The prostate when stimulated grants him pleasure, much like penis stimulation, but it is a different kind of pleasure. Prostate stimulation uses a network of nerves that are more dense and out number penis nerves 2 to 1. This causes the brain to release higher levels of dopamine, serotonin and oxycontin, the hormones responsible for pleasure during normal sex and they are very addictive. The male brain is not set up to handle this type of pleasure, especially for this long of time. His brain becomes flooded with chemicals that cause a breakdown in normal thinking and reasoning. This is why you see him transform into a submissive, (now a cock loving submissive) and why he mumbles and agrees to anything you say. All he knows is that he loves the pleasure of that big cock and he wants more. He wants that big cock fucking him from then on and is now much more trainable to achieve it. At this point you could literately get him to admit, acknowledge, agree, or do anything. This addiction and higher levels of pleasure are how doms control subs, turn subs sissy, and how they get them hooked on cock, leaving them free to cuckold as much as they want. His desire for pussy will always be there, he will always crave it and be dependent on pussy. This is some what because of copulins, natures way of keeping men chasing women but also the pleasure pussy gives. While you will never rid him of the want, need and desire to get pussy, you can bury it deep and put way out of thought now that he has experienced this type of pleasure through pegging. Especially this pleasure he is permitted, pleasure he is being trained to accept as natural for the place he was meant to be in and what he was meant for.
While the prostate pleasure is greater, it can't lead to a penis orgasm with out also stimulation of the penis (studies show 99 % of men can't cum from pegging alone and need some sort of penis/ball stimulation to achieve penis orgasm while being pegged) When you peg him, the stimulation is built much like your own with vaginal sex, so he feels pleasure the entire time only once it reaches maximum climax there is no penis orgasm which is another reason why this is a powerful tool for a Dominatrix. Once the pleasure is built up to its highest level of pleasure, it can maintain that climax for up to 15 seconds as his stomach and anal muscles contract, it then subsides. That is known as a prostate orgasm, better known as a sissy orgasm (sissygasm for short). That's a far longer sensation than what a penis orgasm gives. Like you he can have multiple sissygasms but he will never feel any real relief because he did not orgasm through his clitty and the cum stays in his balls. After several weeks of pegging him (or if you have pegged him prior to this training) mixed with chastity and no penis orgasm he will start to cum through his ass. That's right, he will cum through his ass, you are slowly chemically transforming his ass into a pussy. This cum is not the same as penis cum as it comes directly from the prostate and contains no sperm, it will however smell the same. Eventually with sexual excitement, his pussy will even get wet (the use of lube is still needed for fucking him).
A sissygasm bypasses the nerves associated with a penis climax, which force muscle contractions to ejaculate cum. This also releases dopamine, and serotonin (on a smaller scale) but also prolactin which is a chemical to rest and reset the body and makes him not need sex for several days (varies by male). Essentially he is experiencing sex similar to the way you do, it builds then releases and then builds again and again. Only far less as intense as you feel it and with out that finial climax that leads to your orgasm. As stated above after he has loss penis orgasms for a while, his pussy can also get very wet as the arousal state builds, and he can even loose cum through his prostate when he experiences a sissygasm. Again the relation to "sissy orgasm" and nick name of his ass to a "pussy". The repeated build up and release of pleasure with out satisfaction of orgasm can drive him into a submissive sex frenzy, pleading and begging for your cock. This intense pleasure and the key brain chemicals with the added loss of penis climax is what makes pegging very addictive and him more submissive.
This is what makes pegging such a powerful tool for a dominatrix plus the humiliation aspect of it, you control it, and he can't orgasm from pegging alone. This allows you to constantly keep him on edge and stimulated the whole time your fucking him with out the fear of him cumming. Also men were not meant to experience that intense of pleasure nor for the duration as they do when getting pegged. Which is why the prostate is inside his ass, hidden. Experiencing this pleasure from a dominant woman with the combination of chastity and loss of orgasm can bring powerful feelings of submission from him. Men don't have the sexual capacity or nerve path ways to deal with that pleasure like women do, even though its no where as intense as what we experience. Sex for them is not the same as it is for us, as they actually experience 95% of the total pleasure they have from the orgasm. Its just powerful enough to cause the muscle to spasm to shoot his sperm out. When they do experience the prolonged intense pleasure with out cumming, they become very submissive and can basically loose control including, moaning, screaming, and sometimes even crying, with willingness to obey any command. Seeing him this submissive and loose control like this is very arousing and intoxicating to a dominatrix, and this is the time you want to humiliate and show your authority . The submission comes from not being able to handle that amount of pleasure for that amount of time and the fact you control it and even force it. Also the psychological effect of you literally forcing that pleasure through penetration at which they have no control. You see, with his penis he could loose interest, not want it and go limp, but when you force pegging on him or even prostate play, he not only has no control physically, but also mentally as there is no going limp and he is literally forced to take the building pleasure leading to his moaning and screaming but with no end or climax for him as he can't cum.
For Beginners;
Before you peg it would probably be better if you watch several videos, this is to get a view of the actual act and the basics. While its pretty straight forward, there is actually a technique to doing a good job, even though the videos might not show it but I'll get into that a little later. Once you get an understanding of whats actually going on, and how to go about it visually, you should be ready to do it. Your first time take it slow and remember he probably isn't excited about taking your cock. He is more than likely dreading it and nervous, thinking its going to hurt, and it might if you go to fast. You don't want it to hurt, you want him to enjoy it, to love it, to need it and to become depended on it. He is also humiliated that your forcing him to be fucked by a cock, and one thats bigger than his. Thats ok, humiliation only adds to his submission and mind control, especially down the road when he is begging you to fuck him.
After the first time, he is no longer a virgin, and unknowingly taken a big step to being your bitch. He has been mind fucked as well as ass fucked because of this; He has been forcefully penetrated by a larger cock than his little dicklet and ended up enjoying it. He has now lost part off his manhood and humiliated that he was forced to take it, but even worse he started to enjoy it and wants more. This humiliation is good because its the first step to breaking him and wiping away his manhood which you drastically need to do in order to get the true submissive you want. Once he realizes he has no control and admits to his self that he gets great pleasure from it, he will accept it, as well as other humiliating submissive acts. Once he accepts that his pleasure now only comes from your cock he will actually loose more of his manhood and take another step towards being your perfect bitch. As the pegging becomes more of a on going reality he will start to get more pleasure because of not fighting it. The humiliation doesn't stop there, once he does accept it and desires your cock, he will be humiliated that he can't help himself, and he truly can't, he is dependent and addicted to that pleasure. Now more humiliated that he needs it and is willing to beg for it and eventually do anything to get it. Even more so if he is made to do other humiliating acts to be granted that privilege. If he only knew what was coming.*BIG GRIN* This is why you will want to make him beg for it, preferably on his knees and made to suck it before before fucking him.
OK, Before your first time you will need to make sure his horniness is built up for several weeks. During that time you will also need to start using toys and your finger to manipulate his prostate. This will break the barrier from virgin ass to pegging and get him use to something going into his ass as well as the pleasure his prostate is capable of giving, and even a finger or 2 can have him moaning like a little girl. Also no pussy or orgasms at all, as you should have already started switching his pleasure from his penis to his ass. This way those areas are far more sensitive and easily stimulated. Take sometime time to play before you insert a finger or toy into his ass. Get some lube and Rub/message his ass hole and perineum (the area between his ass and balls) independently and at the same time. You should also take some time to lick (only, not suck) the underside of his head and lick his balls. After a few minutes he should be loving it, A LOT! His asshole its self will give him a lot of pleasure now that he has not been getting orgasms, and this pleasure will lead to him wanting you to stick your finger in, and eventually your cock. This is now his only erogenous zone and soon the trick to have him begging for your cock. It is the most important place on his body, for him and you from now on, especially if you wish to turn him sissy. Soon that will be the only place he gets pleasure, and the only place he will think about. After playing with his special spots for a while, go a head and slowly stick one finger in. Move it in and out a bit and then start to rub his prostate gently. Use finger motions to rub, example; figure 8, side to side, circles-little o's and big o's, the come hither (come here movement), back and forth, or any combination of the above. pay attention to the ones that make him moan louder as those are the ones that touch that special spot. Again take some time here and there to lick his balls and the underside of his head. (after a few times of playing with just one finger) Now its time to really get him moaning, pull out and get some lube on 2 fingers and slowly slide them both in. After playing with his prostate for a bit and then using 2 fingers, the pleasure is probably more than he can handle, so be sure not to touch his dicklet very much as you don't want him to orgasm. Just keep teasing his head now and then and he will be begging to serve you. after you have had your fun and he is good and horny, now its time to roll him over.
Time for Pegging
He should always be tied down when training but also when pegging and its always best to get him horny before. Always use a finger to loosen up his ass or butt plug at some point during training before you go shoving your cock in his ass. As time goes on this may not be necessary or at best just a finger or two right before will do the trick to loosen him up. The best position for pegging is doggy style (especially for the first time)as it give you more control and it allows you to pull his hair and smack his ass through out the pegging. After a few times when he is use to getting your cock, you will want to change it up now and then by putting him on his back for pegging, standing him up bent over the bed or other ways. Always use a condom on your dildo, unless its only used for his ass. Use plenty of lube and keep it lubed if needed.
Start out slow giving his ass time to adjust to the size (the bigger the dildo the longer he may need). Slide it in inch by inch taking a few minutes in between until he can take it all (hit bottom) and then give him a few minutes to get use to the whole cock in his ass (the first few times you may need to ask feed back from him). Now slowly pump in and out with short strokes giving his ass time to adjust to the motion. After you see that he is relaxing and accepting the cock you can use longer strokes and slowly start working your way to fucking him fast and hard. Use his reactions to judge by how fast and hard you slam it in him. You will learn his body reactions and better technique the more times you do it, As time goes on he will eventually start moaning and screaming like a girl when pleasure is at its best for him, and may even try to back up on it as you fuck him. This is a good time to laugh at him and tell him things like, "my little bitch loves that cock doesn't he or she) Make him answer and ask him who's bitch he is as you smack his ass hard 3 times, then keep humiliating him!
*Technique*
Use your hands a lot, grab his hips pulling him back firmly towards your cock as you fuck him. This teaches him you have control. Pull his hair, smack his ass hard and loud, leave deep red hand prints to show as ownership later after the fucking. Smack it off and on during the whole time and occasionally grab his balls by the base and pull. Ideally you will want to fuck him just like you like getting fucked doggy style, driving that cock in good and hard. *NOTE* Its very important in making his ass feel owned and thus the smacking of the ass leaving the hand prints for visual after. This is a mental training as well as psychical. You want him to believe you own his ass but more importantly you want him to want you to own it.
*Technique*
Just like for you getting fucked by a guy who knows how to fuck good, you need to learn how to fuck him good. The best positions for his pleasure and more fun is doggie style followed by him bent over the bed, next would be his ass on the edge of the bed with legs straight up (in chains) while he is on his back and you stand and fuck, followed by missionary, just remember he should be in chastity and tied down. While fucking him, from time to time go slow and use your hands to really spread his ass cheeks far apart, let him feel his ass crack spread which puts more sensation on his ass hole. You should also do this now and then when fucking him faster as well. You should be very verbal, this is the perfect time to degrade and humiliating him about how much of a bitch he is (and sissy if you want) and how much he loves your cock. Say things like, "you like my big cock taking this ass, don't you?" After he says yes, and he will, tell him"your going to be my bitch from now aren't you?" this is a great time to make him feel like your submissive little bitch, and to want to be your bitch. Also remember to take time here and there to pull his hair and smack his ass very hard while humiliating him. Use other toys and tools from time to time when fucking him, I like to tie a rope around the base of his balls and cock and pull it snug to tie off at the bottom of the bed. This keeps him in position and every time I slam it in he gets a little squeeze of pain, especially when I give the rope a little pull by hand. I also like to take 2 small wooden pins (get at the local hardware store) and push his dicklet inside its self, putting the pins squeezed together with rubber bands at the end to keep the head from poking out, then roll it up like a hose, then use another rubber band to rap it around the new penis ball and his balls to secure it in place. This does 2 things, first it almost eliminates penis sensation which helps keep him from orgasm and it can give more sensation on his prostate because it forces the corpora cavernous down closer to the prostate, grouping the nerves closer. You could also just force it inside its self as far as you can and use a heavy duty pin or clip to hold it inside its self. Remember you want to be very verbal yourself, humiliating him about this being the only pleasure he will get, and how he is being a good bitch taking your cock (what ever else you want to say to humiliate him) Make him beg for it or you will stop, have him tell you he wants to be your bitch from now on. Laugh at him moaning and tell him "hearing you moan like a bitch makes me want to get fucked by a real man". think of your own things to say, what ever you want, and have fun with it. Trust me the more you make him feel like your bitch, the more he will want to be your bitch.
I always make him beg for my cock on his knees and then suck my cock first before I put him into position and sometimes I make him suck it after he is in position before I fuck him. Regardless of what rout you go with him, you should always or at least most of the time make him suck a big dildo while you fuck him. Buy a dildo holder and place it in front of him while you peg him and demand he suck it. Make sure he does a good job and smack his ass really hard if he fails, also use this time to humiliate him about it and this is his place from now on, especially if you plan to turn him sissy and suck real cock. If you decide to go the sissy route, make him wear panties and stockings and leave them on while you fuck him.
*NOTE and re-cap* It is very, very rare that a man can orgasm by fucking him in the ass, (he may have some cum ooze out, but that's not an orgasm). The feeling he gets is a lot like a pre-orgasm (much like you feel when your getting close to getting off but don't quite reach that stage, only not as intense as you feel). This is why pegging is so valuable to Dom's as a great tool to make him submissive, you get all the perks but he gets none of the glory. Its is the best tease you can do to him even with out you doing penis stimulation on him and why its works great for long term chastity or permanent chastity. Every time he gets fucked, the sensation builds and he feels like he may cum, but it never happens. This leaves him unsatisfied, still horny(only worse), and begging for more, with the added benefit he feels more like your bitch and wants to please you to get your cock again. After a certain point, he will be hooked on your cock, begging to do anything you ask and please you to feel that cock in his pussy/ass. If you really want to push his boundaries, make him take your lovers cock.
Have fun!!
Wednesday, January 18, 2023
pegging
PEGGING
You've stopped having sex with him, locked his clitty in a chastity, hopefully started dating to some degree or at least having sex regularly (this is important for your health) and training towards permanent chastity for you bitch. You should be pegging him by now, so this blog is about different techniques and the proper way to peg him and the benefits of pegging. First off, pegging is essential in femdom and orgasm denial as its an obtainable pleasure for him, usually as a reward for his submission and obedience or other reasons like sissy training etc. Pegging is something that will become very valuable to him (since its his only source of pleasure) and the longer he is denied sex and orgasms the more sensitive his p-spot becomes making it more addicting and pleasurable especially if using the edging technique. This is power for you as he will not be able to control it and with time even beg you to use your cock on him. Pegging will also give him drive and focus to serve and obey you, as you eventually take pussy completely away as most Doms do. However, pegging isn't just a reward and pleasure for him, it's a powerful training tool for you and will help convert his desire from your pussy to your cock. Pegging mixed with chastity, denial of pussy and loss of orgasms will make him very submissive towards you and the pleasure of your cock, he will essentially become "cock whipped". Pegging is something you can easily control and it will help to control him by giving or taking it away as necessary after training. Eventually after you find a full time boyfriend to date and he is really cock whipped, you will only peg him as a reward obviously when you decide (usually twice a week) he's earned it. During training, you will train him to always beg for your cock, and suck it prior to giving him the privilege to have it. You will even train him to beg you to have all the cock you want just so he might be allowed the privilege of your cock, after all a sexually satisfied Dom craves the power of making her bitch squeal.
Pegging is also the only way to sissy training and goes hand in hand with chastity, especially permanent chastity as it truly will be his only source of pleasure. Pegging him will turn you on and give you pleasure, plus most dom's state they have had orgasms while doing strap-on pegging. It will make you feel powerful and in control as you force your cock into his tight little hole and watch him eventually turn into a screaming cock slut, sissy bitch, begging for your cock. This is something to be proud of and at the same time laugh at him because he really is turning into a cock slut. Its normal to feel he's sexually pathetic and has a clitty, that he is not a real man and that you definitely don't want him between your legs again. Accept and embrace these feelings because this is what you want, you need and deserve real pleasure and orgasms. When you start pegging he might not like it and will resist until the pleasure forces him to submit to it and then he will not be able to resist it. As he is tied down/up forced to endure the penetration and the friction of your cock assaulting his prostate he will give into the pleasure. Eventually he will submit to the control of your cock, be addicted to it and beg you to get it....He will be your cock whipped sissy bitch. Pegging is a valuable tool for humiliation as well as to bring out submission, it is very humiliating (in several ways) to beg for your cock, to crave it, to moan from it and to eventually submit to it especially if done in front of another person, boyfriend, girlfriend, or even a "master" you set up for him. The humiliation helps degrade and emasculate him which takes away his manhood making him more trainable and obedient. It also switches his pleasure zones from that little clitty to his tight little pussy, and helps to reprogram his mind to crave cock. It also replaces his sex with your sex by defacto, meaning by keeping conventional sex and orgasms from him and fucking him with your dildo, you are making him dependent on your cock for pleasure. This insures that you will keep him dependent on you getting sex from real men in order to have the privilege of your cock. A skilled Dom utilize this and re-program him (using firm aggressive directives and commands while under heavy hormone influence), during pegging and edging or copulin arousal techniques. Directives like; you will think about my cock stretching your pussy the entire time you see or hear me fuck a real man (my boyfriend), or You will be cock whipped and there's nothing you can do to stop it etc. Tell him things (in a firm voice) that you want to embed into his subconscious mind. Reprogramming directives are statements or comments said (again with a firm voice) that unknowingly imbed into his thinking process during a high arousal state making him feel or act as you describe in said statements. This is a reprogramming or brainwashing technique. Basically while his arousal levels are very high describe what, how, or when he is to act or think and he will (with time of this training) due your bidding.
Pegging also gives him a focus point and reward for being your sissy bitch, as I said its an obtainable pleasure he is permitted, pleasure that last for as long as your fucking him. Pegging is a pleasure unlike anything he could experience with his clitty. Unlike normal sex where he does all the work and most of his pleasure comes at the end from the ejaculating orgasm, then his sex is over. However pegging is a constant pleasure that builds to a climax (much like our sex, but far less as intense) where he has what's called a sissygasm. He can have sissygasms over and over and even back to back (again just like us) for as long as your cock pounds his tight little pussy. This is also another reason he will become addicted to your cock and learn to love it and submit to it. Also sissygasms last a lot longer than normal orgasm, but they are not the same feeling as an ejaculation orgasm because it comes from 2 different places much like a clit orgasm vs a vaginal orgasm with us. The best thing is, sissygasms are not sexually satisfying because they don't effect the sex nerves/erogenous zones that trigger the orgasmic muscle contractions meant to ejaculate, which in turn signals the brain to release chemicals that stop blueballs (in short his balls don't get emptied with sissygasms so he remains horny and submissive). In fact, most Dom's (especially if in permanent chastity phase) after mid to end of training don't even remove the chastity to peg their sissy bitches or they use an electro-chastity devices to intensify his need for cock and give a little shock pain at the same time. He is also free from the stress of having to preform and please pussy, keep an erection, or premature ejaculation all of which he fails at because he was meant to be your little cock slut. Sissygasms do nothing at all to ease his arousal level or submission, but instead intensifies it and helps build his submission and arousal level, especially towards cock.
There are 3 types of pegging; freestyle (using a dildo with your hands) strap-on (dildo in a harness) machine (dildo in a fuck machine). Its important to know, pegging is not about the speed of how fast you can pump the cock in and out of him. Using a slower, steady pace will give better pleasure than a fast pace. Switching from slow and deep with firm impacts to long strokes will also switch up the intensity of pleasure. Pay attention to his body and moans to see what's doing the trick, if he is requesting you to slow down or speed up there is a reason (to much sensation, pain etc.), try to remember his preferences. Regardless of which style you do, you always want him sucking a dildo prior to using one on him (ideally a clean or unused dildo solely for the purpose of sucking it). This is humiliation and a non-threatening prep to get him ready to suck real cock if you choose this path (part of sissy training). Freestyle pegging is good for most times as its simpler and quicker to get ready for and a bit easier to clean after. It is fairly less body work physically, but can give your arm a good workout until you get use to it (great for burning fat off your arms though so switch between arms). It does a good job of giving him sissygasms and a desire for cock. You can put him in any position for freestyle pegging, I always suggest changing it up during each time, at least occasionally, and definitely tie him down securely. ** NOTE** with any type of pegging start off rubbing the outside of his pussy to arouse him. The area around his hole is pleasurable and helps build arousal and anticipation. Then work up to fingering his hole and prostate for a few minutes to get it lubricated. Now that he is lubricated and aroused, slowly slide you cock in and start off with slow short strokes going in only about half way. As you see him relax and moan, slide it all the way in and let it sit for a few seconds as you rub/massage his balls and rub your finger around his stretched hole. Then start to move it in and out with long, slow, deep strokes, **NOTE** avoid pulling it out to far, you don't want it falling out. You want the ridge of the head to hit the end of his prostate and slide down it on the pull out stroke and then on the in stroke the head of the cock will stroke the full length of his prostate giving him max pleasure. Now pick up speed moving it in and out to a STEADY pace (remember steady is key), pushing the cock firmly into his pussy (imitating hips bouncing off his ass). **NOTE** Something to think about, a steady pace is more real like actual fucking, gives the prostate time to pulse which gives a much better feeling and pleasure than a fast pace plus its less work on you. However a faster speed is good now and then (key word now and then) to change up the pleasure. *NOTE* clitty stimulation (if not in perma-chastity) should be sporadic.
Strap-on fucking is more visually appealing for you as you have a more realistic feel (like its your actual cock pounding him) of position and view of his pussy stretching as it takes your cock deep inside him. You also feel more power and control over him as its your thrust that makes him moan and scream. Strap-on pegging can also arouse you and a lot of girls can orgasm from pegging their sissy. You can also start off freestyle with a different dildo (smaller) then switch to strap-on after a few minutes. Strap-on is more physical, but worth the energy as it helps to keep you in shape and it is the best pleasure for males as it gives a more realistic feel and impact as your hips slam against his ass. It also allows your hands to be free for other activity (which is a must for bringing out the sissy bitch side of him) like pulling his hair back or his collar (make him wear a collar if he is low trimmed or bald) - smacking his ass or balls - inserting a finger with the cock to give that extra stretch - using both hands to spread his ass cheeks wide to expose and open up his pussy hole (makes sensation better - squeezing his ass cheeks - spitting on his pussy hole for lube (more humiliation than lube) - and one of the best techniques for increasing sensations is grabbing the base of his balls and pulling them up and towards you as you slam into him, lastly smack the shit out of his ass and leave a hand print (you can also use a leather slapper) that last a few days. Technique with strap-on is exactly like with freestyle pegging, start out slow with short strokes and build to long, deep strokes and eventually bouncing your hips of his ass with a steady pace and deep strokes, and change to short fast strokes from time to time. your hips can only move so fast so speed is not important with this style of pegging, just remember to switch it up. Again remember not to pull to far out on your out strokes, your cock will fall out!
As I said, Strap-on is the best sex for him, especially if training him to become sissy and take real cock, and it allows you to have him kneel and suck it prior to training and pegging. Freestyle is great for easier nights and a bit quicker, but it is a must to use Strap-on at least 3 times month. Machine pegging is good on days when your tired or don't feel like doing much training. You just humiliate him and let the machine do all the work and still achieve his submission of cock. It also allows your hands to be free to do other stuff just like with strap-on sex and even more like making him suck your cock (real or not) while he is fucked (although you could suction a dildo to the wall as you fuck him strap-on style) or your could whip his as with a cane or what ever while the machine pounds away at his tight little hole. This is actually a mind fuck as he can't fully enjoy the pleasure because the pain is to intense. Its also a bit harder to clench his ass cheeks with movement inside his hole, and the pain is a little more sensitive since the inner nerve ending are being stimulated. Machine pegging is also great because you don't even have to stay in the room if you have other things to do like get ready for a date, run a quick errand, or a DOM favorite, if your in the other room fucking a Boyfriend. The possibilities are endless, so use your imagination and try new things, especially putting him into different positions for pegging as each will give a different sensation and pleasure, and remember to let out your sadistic dominant side. Fucking him on his back (missionary) might be best for pleasure but its more humiliating for him fucking him doggie and your hands can do more stuff. This is why its always best to switch him around and be creative when pegging so his mind is always running wild with desire of your cock.
After a few weeks of no sex, chastity, and pegging, mixed with training and humiliation, you will notice a physical change to his ass. It will start to become more and more like a pussy, literally. It will start getting wet, self lubricate (still need lube from time to time) during sex, and eventually cum. Yes cum, a sissy equivalent to female cum that looks and smells like actual cum, but it is more lubricating and lacks sperm, as sperm cums from testicles and this comes from his prostate. This is a good sign that he is becoming cock whipped and a cock slut. **NOTE this is also the time to start sissy training and convert him to a "sissy bitch" permanently switching his pleasure zones. Now is when you start making him wear panties, even female lingerie (French maid outfits etc.), make sure he shaves all his pubic hair, clean up his own cum messes, all of them. Teach him to suck cock by sucking dildo's every training night, start accounts on bi/gay online dating sites and look for real cock for him to please. Note, once you convert his ass to a pussy and make him a cock slut, he will always crave cock. This will make it easier to turn him back into a cock slut if ever there is a lapse in the femdom lifestyle for unseen reasons.
As days turn to weeks and months of wearing a chastity and no sex and orgasm, his ass will become his pussy, it will actually become his pussy. It will chemically and physically change his demeanor, submissive state, and pleasure preference. It will become his pleasure zone and his weakness. You will train him to acknowledge and accept this is his pussy. You must treat his ass as a pussy, call it his pussy (your ownership is known so just keep it simply "his pussy" to avoid confusion) make him call it his pussy, rub it as a pussy, finger it as a pussy. The longer he goes without orgasm, and the more he is pegged, the more his ass feels like a pussy to him the more sissy he feels and becomes. Just rubbing the rim of his pussy will give him great pleasure and build his arousal level. (which is needed for Perma-chastity) You will want to tease him with this area prior to insertion of anything. Simply edge him for at least 10-15 minutes and start off by rubbing around the hole, and make sure you humiliate him. After enough time with out sex and fucking him, he will become dependent on you fucking him. Make him beg for it, make him suck the cock prior to being fucked. Remember, always spend time rubbing it prior to fingering or fucking to build up sensation and arousal. When fucking him, spread his checks and pussy wide to give better sensation, ALSO grab his balls and pull up on them, this adds pleasure and maximizes the sensation on his prostate. Experiment with it by trying all kinds of toys, shapes, sizes. Stick a finger in it at the same time as the dildo. Try to to use 2 smaller dildo's in his pussy at the same time, working them in and out independently for cross sensation. When fingering it, try to build up to 2,3,4, and eventually all 5 fingers in (this is not for a beginner, and don't try this every time you finger him, just occasionally). Note* 4 and 5 fingers are easier to get in after the use of a large dildo. When fucking him, be humiliating, Spit on his hole, tell him that's his lube, use his own cum to lubricate it, and humiliate him with that and how he is a sissy bitch. NOTE* remember to make him shave all hair around it and his clitty, all of it, especially if your going to train him to be a sissy bitch. Smack his ass hard several times when fucking him or use a leather strap or cane, reach down and pull his head back by his hair or around his neck or use a collar on him and pull the leash as he has a sissygasm. Switch it up, force his head down into the bed, make him keep it down, and make him spread his legs wide or arch his ass to take the cock or threaten to stop. Switch things up with dildo's, trying different shapes and make him take bigger. NOTE* don't use the bigger dildo every time, you don't want him use to it, you want it to be that OMG dildo every now and then. Also you don't want him to sore to take cock at all. Make him go out with but plugs or other toys in his pussy. Use remote control devices while your out. Note, plugs will put him into a submissive state and make it hard for him to focus, especially ones that move or vibrate. This is good for you and fun to play with while your out, remember to try new ideas. Remember to grag his balls and pull them as you fuck him or use your dildo on him. I usually grab them with both hands and use them as a handle to pull my hips into him forcing my cock deeper, or I'll use one hand to smack his as with a small crop (very hard).
As you lock him into chastity and start pegging, you will also want to restrict pussy from him, let him see it or smell it occasionally until you have found a full time Boyfriend or bull. Pussy is very powerful to him and even a more powerful tool for you. Just the copulins alone are very valuable in aiding towards his submission and reprogramming him. Even just seeing it will cause a flood of hormones to make him weak, especially if its restricted and used to tease him. Smelling and tasting it will only compounding his feeling of submission as your copulins work their magic. You will threaten to take it away, especially when you find a bull or BF to fuck, but for now you need the extra control, humiliation and focused submission that pussy has on him. This means that on some days he wont see or smell it, while on others he may only see it in panties (rarely naked) or he maybe only smell it and other days he may smell and taste it. Switch it up, make it sporadic, and make sure you put 4 or 5 days of nothing in between his contact. It is very important that he smell pussy out of panties 3-4 times a month (with or with out a blind fold on) and you want to put it inches from his face and spread your lips open. Let him see you vagina opening, maybe even rub his nose in it. He needs to be close to inhale as much copulins as possible, and this is best with pussy inches away from his face and lips spread open. The more aroused you are the better, especially if done shortly after you fucked your BF. You could even fuck a dildo or use a vib on yourself to expedite the copulins production and add the arousal sight humiliation on him. Let him smell in for at least 5 minutes, while you use verbal humiliation and verbal training methods to brainwash him. The most powerful copulins are absorbed through his penis while you sit still on top of him for at least 5 minutes but up to 15. (see my copulins section for more info)
As days turn to weeks and months of wearing a chastity and no sex and orgasm, his ass will become his pussy, it will actually become his pussy. It will chemically and physically change his demeanor, submissive state, and pleasure preference. It will become his pleasure zone and his weakness. You will train him to acknowledge and accept this is his pussy. You must treat his ass as a pussy, call it his pussy (your ownership is known so just keep it simply "his pussy" to avoid confusion) make him call it his pussy, rub it as a pussy, finger it as a pussy. The longer he goes without orgasm, and the more he is pegged, the more his ass feels like a pussy to him the more sissy he feels and becomes. Just rubbing the rim of his pussy will give him great pleasure and build his arousal level. (which is needed for Perma-chastity) You will want to tease him with this area prior to insertion of anything. Simply edge him for at least 10-15 minutes and start off by rubbing around the hole, and make sure you humiliate him. After enough time with out sex and fucking him, he will become dependent on you fucking him. Make him beg for it, make him suck the cock prior to being fucked. Remember, always spend time rubbing it prior to fingering or fucking to build up sensation and arousal. When fucking him, spread his checks and pussy wide to give better sensation, ALSO grab his balls and pull up on them, this adds pleasure and maximizes the sensation on his prostate. Experiment with it by trying all kinds of toys, shapes, sizes. Stick a finger in it at the same time as the dildo. Try to to use 2 smaller dildo's in his pussy at the same time, working them in and out independently for cross sensation. When fingering it, try to build up to 2,3,4, and eventually all 5 fingers in (this is not for a beginner, and don't try this every time you finger him, just occasionally). Note* 4 and 5 fingers are easier to get in after the use of a large dildo. When fucking him, be humiliating, Spit on his hole, tell him that's his lube, use his own cum to lubricate it, and humiliate him with that and how he is a sissy bitch. NOTE* remember to make him shave all hair around it and his clitty, all of it, especially if your going to train him to be a sissy bitch. Smack his ass hard several times when fucking him or use a leather strap or cane, reach down and pull his head back by his hair or around his neck or use a collar on him and pull the leash as he has a sissygasm. Switch it up, force his head down into the bed, make him keep it down, and make him spread his legs wide or arch his ass to take the cock or threaten to stop. Switch things up with dildo's, trying different shapes and make him take bigger. NOTE* don't use the bigger dildo every time, you don't want him use to it, you want it to be that OMG dildo every now and then. Also you don't want him to sore to take cock at all. Make him go out with but plugs or other toys in his pussy. Use remote control devices while your out. Note, plugs will put him into a submissive state and make it hard for him to focus, especially ones that move or vibrate. This is good for you and fun to play with while your out, remember to try new ideas. Remember to grag his balls and pull them as you fuck him or use your dildo on him. I usually grab them with both hands and use them as a handle to pull my hips into him forcing my cock deeper, or I'll use one hand to smack his as with a small crop (very hard).
As you lock him into chastity and start pegging, you will also want to restrict pussy from him, let him see it or smell it occasionally until you have found a full time Boyfriend or bull. Pussy is very powerful to him and even a more powerful tool for you. Just the copulins alone are very valuable in aiding towards his submission and reprogramming him. Even just seeing it will cause a flood of hormones to make him weak, especially if its restricted and used to tease him. Smelling and tasting it will only compounding his feeling of submission as your copulins work their magic. You will threaten to take it away, especially when you find a bull or BF to fuck, but for now you need the extra control, humiliation and focused submission that pussy has on him. This means that on some days he wont see or smell it, while on others he may only see it in panties (rarely naked) or he maybe only smell it and other days he may smell and taste it. Switch it up, make it sporadic, and make sure you put 4 or 5 days of nothing in between his contact. It is very important that he smell pussy out of panties 3-4 times a month (with or with out a blind fold on) and you want to put it inches from his face and spread your lips open. Let him see you vagina opening, maybe even rub his nose in it. He needs to be close to inhale as much copulins as possible, and this is best with pussy inches away from his face and lips spread open. The more aroused you are the better, especially if done shortly after you fucked your BF. You could even fuck a dildo or use a vib on yourself to expedite the copulins production and add the arousal sight humiliation on him. Let him smell in for at least 5 minutes, while you use verbal humiliation and verbal training methods to brainwash him. The most powerful copulins are absorbed through his penis while you sit still on top of him for at least 5 minutes but up to 15. (see my copulins section for more info)
**MOST IMPORTANT** You need big cock ASAP! As you deny you bitch and start pegging, you need to start cuckolding as you will soon loose chemicals that your body needs, CUM. Yes semen is very good for your body and emotional health. Semen is comprised of vital chemicals that helps your body stay healthy, like vitamins and minerals that promote energy, cognition, and helps viral immunity. Plus it has antidepressants to reduce stress, depression, anxiety and moods swings while it promotes happiness. It also contains hormones like testosterone, oxytocin, cortisol that slow aging, reduce inflammation (achiness and joint pain), improve blood flow (numb or cold hands and feet), and skin health (younger skin, reduces wrinkles, and quick healing) as well as other important chemicals. Not to mention having regular sex and orgasms is some of the best calorie burning and exercises you can do to loose weight and stay in shape. Penetration of the penis into the vagina exercises pelvic muscles necessary for healthy bladder control and functions (helps stop frequent peeing and regulate bowel movement) tightens uterus and vaginal walls to aid in a tighter vagina. SO YES, to say the least, it is very important that you have sex regularly!!!!! You need to take care of yourself and nothing is more important than your sex and best of all it feels really, really good!!!!! You also need to take care of your physical looks, work out, get manicures and pedicures, get your hair done, and tan, buy sexy outfits (and lingerie) to wear for your boyfriends. You need to look good for yourself esteem and for your boyfriend or potential boyfriends.
Do not be afraid to talk and flirt with guys, you need to do it often and everywhere. You must actively go out looking for boyfriends or sex partners, and enjoy sex with them. It is crucial to show him that you love the sex more and prefer bigger and better cock with your BF. He needs to be humiliated this way to help break him, and to understand his place was meant to serve you. He must see that you are excited and horny to go on date and get sex from your boyfriend. He needs to know that you do not want or need sex with him, he must believe it. You will tell him that your sex is none of his business and its none of his business who you date, where your going, when you'll be home, (if you even come home) or who you fuck. Tell him, if you want him to know then you will tell him, if not to keep his mouth shut, asking is a severe punishment. He should focus on serving you, not what you do. After your dating or maybe seeing several guys, (at least 2 guys) you will not tell him who your going out with, or anything about the date, IT IS none of his business! However for humiliation, only tell him about the sex, every detail. Where you fucked, what positions you fucked in, how long you fucked, how much better it was, how long it was, how wet you were and how many times you had orgasms. Bring home hickies on your boobs and inner thigh for him to see, show him the opened condom rappers as your order him to throw it away. Have him refill the travel sized lube you took with you but used all up during a long night of sex. It is vital that you include him in one way or another with all the sex you have. This can be as simple as bringing home a condom full of cum for him to mentally visualize your sex (possibly even made to suck on it till all the cum is gone), listening on the phone as you moan and scream over and over from all the orgasms, smelling worn panties after sex (especially if cum soaked), anything you can think of that keeps him horny and excited about you having sex. He must also clean up all messes, including his own precum and milking.
Tuesday, January 10, 2023
THE RITUAL
THE RITUAL
The ritual is a subjugation act performed to force the submission of you dating your boyfriend in a serious type relationship or even exclusively AND it is repeated again when you decide to start permanent chastity, which should follow shortly after (about 2-3weeks or less) the committed relationship with your Boyfriend starts. The ritual is preformed even if you have been training correctly and your submissive is actively pleading (as he should be) you to date more seriously. The ritual is a powerful stance on your position to date whom you please, how you please and removes any doubt that he has no choice in your decision and must submit to it, plus it reinforces his place as your obedient sissy bitch. It is done to subdue him physically but also mentally with the forced acceptance of your decisions and to help prevent any defiance, disobedience, temper tantrums, or unruly behavior that could otherwise arise when the humiliation of complete denial sets in. You will more than likely need to repeat the ritual multiple times through out your relationship with your BF as weeks turn to months of denial on top of permanent chastity when the realization sinks in that he will never have the privilege's of pussy again. It is imperative and highly recommended that you do this ritual when you have made the decision to date your boyfriend full time, but also DO IT AGAIN when you enact permanent chastity. Not doing it will likely result in unwanted behavior, disruption in training and servitude, or flat out disobedience. The ritual is done when you have decided to allow your boyfriend to fuck you without a condom and cum inside you, but also more importantly you have chosen sex this way because you are very attracted to him, or have feelings of some sort or even infatuated and want to date him on a serious level. You have also decided to give him complete access to your body and completely deny your sissy bitch anything to do with pussy. At this point as far as your concerned it is now his pussy (this decision could come in a week, a month, or whenever you decide after you first meet your boyfriend) and this decision means you want to spend time with your boyfriend intimately but also, you truly never want sex with your sissy bitch.
Fucking with a condom is just sex, this could happen with anyone you want to have sex with and as a Dom I'm sure you've already done many times. Fucking without a condom and cumming inside your pussy is a stronger sexual connection and attraction, but also typically proof of a relationship or at least the acceptance of one. The continuous or on-going sex in this manner is an extreme attraction, with passion and desire, also a high form of intimacy (not to mention makes sex way better), thus making the relationship more than just a fuck. A relationship of sorts with SERIOUS involvement you could even say. Deciding to date with serious involvement, and allowing your BF access to your pussy anytime he wants it day or night is A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP and and your right as a Dom if you so choose. This desire to form a relationship in this manner should be talked about mutually with your boyfriend. "The ritual" is where you make it formally known to your sissy bitch that you have decided to date your BF seriously and/or exclusively, even permanently if you choose, giving him complete access "AKA ownership" of your body and/or pussy. You will date with the intentions of intimate sex with out a condom, to cum inside his pussy and you doing whatever sex acts that turns him on sexually (oral, 3some's etc.) including how you dress, lingerie, how you shave pussy. As a Dom it is your right to have sex with whom ever you want, how you want, you deserve the best pleasure and sex possible and you deserve to date a real man in any manor you choose. This ritual as well as your decision to date seriously is reinforcement that your sissy's only purpose to you is just handing over his pay, serving and obeying you, with complete servitude and obedience, nothing else. This means you (at your own discretion or your BF's) will drastically limit or completely deny your sissy bitch access to your pussy and most probably your body. Clean up duty (in the manner you choose) and the occasional copulin training is absolutely a must!
Maybe you have already allowed your boyfriend to cum inside you for a few weeks or longer before you've made this decision and that's OK and actually normal, the ritual isn't to just to signify and inform him that your BF is cumming inside you, the humiliation is actually worse if your boyfriends been doing it for some time without his knowledge. Along with worse humiliation ,this also helps with reinforcing the "Its none of your business" practice you should be enforcing. The ritual is making your sissy acknowledge and accept your status together and commitment to your boyfriend (with or without the BF's knowledge of the actual ritual) on a more serious level. Also as said above, that you are officially giving your BF complete access to your pussy and/or dating full time/seriously with his permanent denial of pussy. This denial will be as you demand it, like none of his business and complete denial of sex, with complete denial of pussy as in no touching it, and/or seeing it bare with out panties on and only smelling it through panties or clean up duty (copulin arousal/training) or only smelling it on your fingers or in freshly worn panties. And lastly, its about the enforcement of denial through this act and further punishments.
This ritual is done at night, best if the cum and hormones are fresh (with in 30 minutes or less of your BF cumming inside you) but if not possible, as soon as you possibly can. *Note do not ever clean up any of the mess, as we normally do when we go to the restroom after sex, you don't want to lessen the hormones and you want it very messy to degrade and humiliate him.
AFTER INTIMATE SEX WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND, FOLLOW BELOW.....
1st; Begin by having him kneel on the floor where you normally do training and start stripping down to just your panties. Now humiliate him and then make him beg to serve you and worship your feet for 2-3 minutes. After this, tell him you have a treat for him and show him the wet spot from sex soaked into your panties. Stick your finger into your pussy and wipe it under his nose to make him weak.
2nd; Then order him up to his back in a firm voice, proceed to tie him down on his back for 10-15 minutes of edging and be sure to use a finger or prostate toys to help flood his brain with hormones.
3rd; Now flip him over and tie him down securely for a punishment spanking, but DO NOT tell him (he will think he is getting pegged) as you want fear to start after the first hit. After he is firmly tied down, get your canes ready and start off with 10 very firm and slow, one at a time hits, while you humiliate him about being your sissy cock slut and will never receive the pleasure of pussy again nor will he ever cum again. Tell him he doesn't deserve it, and never deserved it *be very serious about this*.
4th; Dip your finger into your pussy and wipe the smell under his nose again, then explain that you have decided to date your Boyfriend seriously and/or exclusively, that you really like him and/or love his cock. Remember to humiliate him on how much bigger and better his cock is and how much better he fucks you. Tell him you deserve to be pleased and proceed to tell him that it is your boyfriends pussy from now on and he is no longer allowed anything to do with his pussy and then describe this in what even manner you have decided to restrict him from it. Remember if it is complete denial of pussy, explain he will only be able to smell it on rare occasions if at all, like when you allow him the privilege's of cleaning up the fucking mess and even then you may only finger feed it to him. *Note make sure you are speaking in a strict firm dominant voice, he needs to know you are serious about this decision and he needs to fear you.
5th; Now Hit him with 20 slow firm and hard strikes and make sure he understands. Explain that his only purpose is giving you his pay or paying for pussy he will never have, serving and obey you! Next explain that he is not a man but your sissy bitch meant to serve you and that's what you want him to be your sissy bitch from now on.
6th; Now hit him 20 fast (in a row) hard hits then another 20 slow hits as you scream in a firm voice "IS THAT UNDERSTOOD BITCH!!" He should yell YES MISTRESS!
7th; Now remove your cum soaked panties and position yourself in front of him as though he is going to lick pussy, sit with your pussy touching his nose. Spread your lips open and allow him to smell your sex for 5 minutes (to let the copulins do their job). As you do this, tell him this is the last time he will see pussy ever again and demand him in a loud firm voice to lick clean the fucking mess. As he is licking up the mess, tell him that from this point forward he is never allowed to ask about or speak of (BLANK'S) pussy in any manner for any reason or face extreme punishments. Tell him this will be a taste of that punishment and demand him to lick deeper, you want ALL THE CUM CLEANED OUT!!
8th; Now get up and place your cum soaked panties fully into his mouth then proceed to strike another slow 20 firm strikes. Then tell him you will not stop the punishments until he sincerely begs you to date and give your boyfriend complete control of your pussy, but you will not allow him to beg for that privilege until your ready to hear it.
9th; Now pull out the panties and put them around his head to position the wet spot under his nose then put a ball gag in his mouth with the panties on his head and strike him with 20 slow firm hits followed by 20 fast firm hits followed by 20 slow hits without taking a break. 60 total hits back to back, he should be screaming into the ball gag.
10th; Now explain that from this point on his only purpose is to serve and obey you, and of course hand over his paycheck. Hit him with 10 slow hits as you yell "is that understood!". Now hit him with 20 fast strikes and explain that failing to be your sissy bitch and serve you as you deserve will result in extreme punishments including but not limited to no cock for a week. Now strike him with 20 fast hits and then explain that he may beg you to give your BF complete control of your pussy, then begin hitting him with a mix of slow and then fast hits, but don't stop striking him until you are satisfied with his begging (wait at least another 30- 40 hits).
11th; After you stop then inform him that you will soon lock his clitty away permanently so that he can focus on serving you the way you deserve. Tell him his clitty doesn't deserve to be touched and that he will also beg you to lock it away permanently when you decide its time. Strike him 10 slow firm hits and explain that his only purpose is serving and obeying and handing over his paycheck. Now strike him another 10 times and shout "is that understood!" YES MISTRESS! PLEASE MISTRESS!
12th; Tell him its time to lock the clitty away for now and have him beg you to lock it on now, hit slowly as you allow him to beg, once satisfied then lock on the chastity (you may have to flip him over if you can't put it on with his ass in the air. Note* he should have been screaming/crying and begging you to stop at least mid way through this, if not you are not hitting hard enough and need to hit harder and longer before each step. His ass should be red and blue with welts and bruising that last for at least 4-5 days.
13th; Now put your strap-on on and force him to suck it while you humiliate him about how big cock will be his only pleasure from here out. Grab his collar and smack him in the face with your cock a few times and then back into his mouth. Continue to humiliate and degrade him about being a true sissy from here out and being used by real cock. Make sure you make him thank you for that privilege and humiliate him about being a cock whipped slut and sissy bitch from here out. After your done with humiliation, get behind him and fuck him good and hard for at least 30 mins or so and finish the night with him worshiping your feet and ass.
If your boyfriend is in the house you may want to only fuck him for 20 min but the whole ritual shouldn't last more than 50 min to an hour. If your BF is not there, its better to make it last longer especially with the whipping his ass part. You could even make it worse by using a vibe on yourself as he licks your ass hole, kneeling at the foot of the bench of course (with or with out a blindfold on) but demand him to lick deeper. Regardless to what training you have left or fun you have, from this point DO NOT remove the chastity device after a date night with your Boyfriend. Wait till the next day to remove it as this will start the permanent chastity enforcement! Your cock, when you allow it is his only reward from now on. From this point on, your BF is the focus of your sexual desires, so definitely dress in what he likes, shave your pussy how he likes it, buy lingerie for him, if possible bring him on short vacations with your sissy bitch. I'm sure you get the point, its time for fun with your boyfriend and your sissy bitch should only be your cock slut sissy bitch and house servant. Just remember that you must continue to be very cruel, dominant, with strict discipline and severe punishments for disobedience and punish immediately if possible or as soon as possible, same day is very crucial.
REMEMBER REPEAT THIS WHEN YOU DO PERMANETLY CHASTITY!
Sunday, January 1, 2023
Relationships and Marriage,
RELATIONSHIPS, DATING, & MARRIAGE
I've had A series of questions asked of me over the years on this topic, by both single men and my fellow Dom's. In the past, the single men these women and my self were seeking to hook up with or date have on occasion asked, "Are you in a relationship?" This was expected from time to time, but it didn't happen that often so it wasn't really a need to address. Back then things were different and most guys were just looking for the sex, if a relationship started, so be it! If the question ever arose most women said NO, or I'm in an open relationship and most of the time all was good. Over the years it appears that more guys are asking this question. My guess is that it has to do with the tremendous increase of women seeking sex outside their relationship, be it dating or marriage. But not just from this lifestyle, Swingers and vanilla women as well are seeking sex from single males. While the number of Dominatrix/Mistresses have increased drastically, its not just this that has impacted the increased rise in questions from single men. These days, a lot of involved women are cuckolding, seeking "BIGGER" better and longer sex from single men, while they enjoy the love, comfort, support, and security, of their relationship. Of course who could blame them, women are intelligent no matter what lifestyle they live. So why wouldn't women who know nothing about this lifestyle (or just to scared about social conviction from friends, family, or co-workers) want to enjoy cuckolding, taking his paycheck and having the best sex they can. With all in consideration, a single guy looking to find a relationship or hook up is far more likely find that she is already in some sort of commitment with someone else than find a true single female. So a single male in the field has over time discovered that the majority of the women he has talked to or hooked up with is in fact spoken for in some manner, especially if she is attractive or fit. Thus the rise in questions from these single men if "YOU" are in a relationship or married. Most Women that have been in this lifestyle for years can deal with this easily enough as we always have. However with the rise of new women joining our ranks so quickly with out proper training or information on how to deal with being a women of power, she is unsure what to say, or how to react. Also the question has arose from time to time here lately, "Do I have a moral obligation to answer truthfully?"
Well here is the truth, if he asked you if your in a relationship or married, he is meaning in the conventional sense, husband and wife like vanilla's do. Meaning having regular, normal sex, day to day intimacy, living as equals with equal power and say. Which in his mind says that he has no hopes for anything other than a one time hook up or a few casual encounters at best. Even worse a husband or boyfriend that would beat him up or damage his property. But that's not you, you don't have that type of marriage or relationship, and you don't want that type. If you are in this lifestyle, you do not have a conventional relationship.....Especially if you are married. Sex and intimacy is not even in your vocabulary with your sub and it shouldn't be. You don't want your bitch for sex, and frankly you don't want him to have anything to do with your pussy, or any pussy. You want him as a bitch, your submissive, cock loving bitch. You surely don't want him as an equal, and honestly his only purpose is to serve and obey you, to make your life better. So in reality, you are looking for a boyfriend or lover to date, to give you the better sex you want, spend time with and even more with the right guy. Just because you are married does not mean you can't be a Mistress/dominatrix and have things your way or that you have to suffer sexually because of this commitment. In fact, the fact that you are married gives you even more of the power and your only commitment to your partner is to love only him, to stand by him, and care for his well being until death due you part. It has nothing to do with sex or who you have sex with and it surely doesn't mean he is granted sex or that you ever have to give sex to him at all. On the contrary, being married means you say when sex happens and how or what type of sex happens. Sex can be anything you allow, like him in a chastity licking you off for hours, allowing him to jerk off once a month, him sucking on a big cock (real or not) or him getting pounded by a big cock (real or not). So if a single guy asks, the answer to his question should truthfully and always be NO, you are not married or your in an open relationship.
You at some point were oblivious to this lifestyle, you didn't realize the power, and the pleasure you could have. But you knew and even saw in other relationships that women gave orders and the men would obey, especially with the threat of no sex. Deep down inside, the longer you were married you knew you were the boss, that you made the rules, and that he would do what you said or be refused sex. So you obviously didn't marry him for the sex, even if it was OK or good sex, you married him for everything else as I said above. Let me ask you this, purely talking sex and no thought of a relationship or marriage; knowing what you know now about cock size, sex, pleasure, and orgasms, would you have even had sex with your husband or would you laughed turning him down for sex? My bet is that you would have denied him from the start, just like your denying him now. At first sex with him was new, probably good (before you knew what good sex was) and maybe even passionate, it was an emotional bonding time. But eventually (even though you might of had OK orgasms) it was just to make him happy. But the sex is dull and quick, or he can't keep it hard. By now you really don't ever think about sex with him, but you do think about having sex with other well endowed men. Am I right? Now that you have had great sex and long powerful orgasms, there is no way you want to to give that up. You probably aren't even sexually attracted to him, and are more turned on by the thought of him being your bitch and serving you then having that tiny, pathetic excuse for a dick inside you. So, you know you didn't marry him for the sex, you married him for the same instinctive reason 95% of women marry the men they do, because you can control him, because he is good to you, because he is a good father and a good supporter for you, and because you love him. None of these has to do with sex or your pleasure and thus why you have chosen to take your natural place as the boss and authority. To have him take his natural place serving at your feet, to date and get the sex you love and deserve.
You see, your husband has been domesticated, it happens naturally as it is his natural biological place to follow orders from his dominant wife when she takes control of her pussy and his will. It happens to 99 % of married men. This happens out of this lifestyle, on a much milder level, but often leads to women joining the lifestyle when she feels the power and control she has. He can't help it, pussy is very powerful as are the urges he has, to get it. Over time, or in the hands of a very dominant woman, his will to a mild degree has become yours and he finds himself doing things to please you, obeying, and buying you what you want. This is to get your approvals and possibly the graces of sex. The more this becomes routine, and pleasing you is his only access to sex, the more submissive he becomes. The so called marriage papers and the act of doing so were nothing more than the signing and proof of ownership, to you the WIFE. This is all great for the vanilla woman (like you use to be) but the problem with a domesticated male is he becomes lazy, the sex is dull and quick (but quick is probably a good thing though) he still has the ability to argue or become unruly and your sex life suffers greatly. However, being a Mistress or Dominatrix has taken his domestication to a whole new level. The Mistress/Dominatrix women uses this power and defines it, making it stronger and him weaker. She is dominant, aggressive, and ruthless towards him. She doesn't just take control of his will, she breaks it to destroy the male part and create a submissive, a slave, a bitch. She doesn't suffer from lack of sex, she makes him suffer from continual tease and denial and never an orgasm. She embraces her sexuality and the ability to have hot, erotic sex and mind blowing orgasms with whoever she wants, when ever she wants. She gives him strict rules, chores, and enforces them with severe punishments, especially for back talk, questioning, or disobeying. It is her commitment to getting what she wants that gets her what she wants. Her actions, demeanor, attitude, punishments, humiliation and extremely active cuckolding dictate his submission level and willingness to obey.
Domestication doesn't happen to single males, you have to be owned via marriage (or long term relationship) having regular access to pussy. A dominant woman and the threat of loss of that pussy brings it out. They can be submissive, especially ones that were in a previous relationship where the female was very dominant. However, in general single males are more less wild, and thus better sex partners or lovers. Not so much in the relationship sense though, there is a reason they are single. Men are very simple creatures, as you would expect from something meant to serve females. They really only require SEX, food and sleep to keep them happy, with sex being the majority part of that. It is a proven fact, through study after study; Males think about sex most of the day and a males main goal is to deposit his semen, he has a biological urge to do so. While he may get some weak pleasure from the act of sex, it is the climax of ejaculating sperm into a pussy that yields 95% of his pleasure. This climax is relatively felt the same no matter the pussy. So any pussy will do, thus why a male is turned on visually. It is very different for a woman, as you know. We enjoy the act of sex and the building of the orgasm as well as the intensity of the orgasm. We enjoy sex as a whole and as such the difference in size and shape gives of various types of pleasure, with regards to the bigger and thicker the cock the better the sex and the orgasm. So by definition not just any cock will do. We were meant to have a variety to have the best sexual experiences, not just one small or less than average cock. This is why they make so many types and sizes of dildo's for women and why most of the sex toys are for women. There may be several manufactures of pocket pussy's but the hole is all the same with the only factor of being which one feels more real. Pussy toys only try to mimic the feel and sensation of the real thing, while some cock toys try to mimic the same, most (even life like cocks) are made to pleasure a woman by SIZE, THICKNESS, including, TEXTURE, HUMPS, GROVES, RIDGES, or what ever. We were meant to experience different kinds of sex. This is the best part and the main reason women choose to be a Dom and take their rightful place as the authority and queen, to fuck whom ever you want when ever you want. You should always be actively searching, flirting, dating, and fucking.....Every thing else with the lifestyle is just a bonus!
I've had A series of questions asked of me over the years on this topic, by both single men and my fellow Dom's. In the past, the single men these women and my self were seeking to hook up with or date have on occasion asked, "Are you in a relationship?" This was expected from time to time, but it didn't happen that often so it wasn't really a need to address. Back then things were different and most guys were just looking for the sex, if a relationship started, so be it! If the question ever arose most women said NO, or I'm in an open relationship and most of the time all was good. Over the years it appears that more guys are asking this question. My guess is that it has to do with the tremendous increase of women seeking sex outside their relationship, be it dating or marriage. But not just from this lifestyle, Swingers and vanilla women as well are seeking sex from single males. While the number of Dominatrix/Mistresses have increased drastically, its not just this that has impacted the increased rise in questions from single men. These days, a lot of involved women are cuckolding, seeking "BIGGER" better and longer sex from single men, while they enjoy the love, comfort, support, and security, of their relationship. Of course who could blame them, women are intelligent no matter what lifestyle they live. So why wouldn't women who know nothing about this lifestyle (or just to scared about social conviction from friends, family, or co-workers) want to enjoy cuckolding, taking his paycheck and having the best sex they can. With all in consideration, a single guy looking to find a relationship or hook up is far more likely find that she is already in some sort of commitment with someone else than find a true single female. So a single male in the field has over time discovered that the majority of the women he has talked to or hooked up with is in fact spoken for in some manner, especially if she is attractive or fit. Thus the rise in questions from these single men if "YOU" are in a relationship or married. Most Women that have been in this lifestyle for years can deal with this easily enough as we always have. However with the rise of new women joining our ranks so quickly with out proper training or information on how to deal with being a women of power, she is unsure what to say, or how to react. Also the question has arose from time to time here lately, "Do I have a moral obligation to answer truthfully?"
Well here is the truth, if he asked you if your in a relationship or married, he is meaning in the conventional sense, husband and wife like vanilla's do. Meaning having regular, normal sex, day to day intimacy, living as equals with equal power and say. Which in his mind says that he has no hopes for anything other than a one time hook up or a few casual encounters at best. Even worse a husband or boyfriend that would beat him up or damage his property. But that's not you, you don't have that type of marriage or relationship, and you don't want that type. If you are in this lifestyle, you do not have a conventional relationship.....Especially if you are married. Sex and intimacy is not even in your vocabulary with your sub and it shouldn't be. You don't want your bitch for sex, and frankly you don't want him to have anything to do with your pussy, or any pussy. You want him as a bitch, your submissive, cock loving bitch. You surely don't want him as an equal, and honestly his only purpose is to serve and obey you, to make your life better. So in reality, you are looking for a boyfriend or lover to date, to give you the better sex you want, spend time with and even more with the right guy. Just because you are married does not mean you can't be a Mistress/dominatrix and have things your way or that you have to suffer sexually because of this commitment. In fact, the fact that you are married gives you even more of the power and your only commitment to your partner is to love only him, to stand by him, and care for his well being until death due you part. It has nothing to do with sex or who you have sex with and it surely doesn't mean he is granted sex or that you ever have to give sex to him at all. On the contrary, being married means you say when sex happens and how or what type of sex happens. Sex can be anything you allow, like him in a chastity licking you off for hours, allowing him to jerk off once a month, him sucking on a big cock (real or not) or him getting pounded by a big cock (real or not). So if a single guy asks, the answer to his question should truthfully and always be NO, you are not married or your in an open relationship.
You at some point were oblivious to this lifestyle, you didn't realize the power, and the pleasure you could have. But you knew and even saw in other relationships that women gave orders and the men would obey, especially with the threat of no sex. Deep down inside, the longer you were married you knew you were the boss, that you made the rules, and that he would do what you said or be refused sex. So you obviously didn't marry him for the sex, even if it was OK or good sex, you married him for everything else as I said above. Let me ask you this, purely talking sex and no thought of a relationship or marriage; knowing what you know now about cock size, sex, pleasure, and orgasms, would you have even had sex with your husband or would you laughed turning him down for sex? My bet is that you would have denied him from the start, just like your denying him now. At first sex with him was new, probably good (before you knew what good sex was) and maybe even passionate, it was an emotional bonding time. But eventually (even though you might of had OK orgasms) it was just to make him happy. But the sex is dull and quick, or he can't keep it hard. By now you really don't ever think about sex with him, but you do think about having sex with other well endowed men. Am I right? Now that you have had great sex and long powerful orgasms, there is no way you want to to give that up. You probably aren't even sexually attracted to him, and are more turned on by the thought of him being your bitch and serving you then having that tiny, pathetic excuse for a dick inside you. So, you know you didn't marry him for the sex, you married him for the same instinctive reason 95% of women marry the men they do, because you can control him, because he is good to you, because he is a good father and a good supporter for you, and because you love him. None of these has to do with sex or your pleasure and thus why you have chosen to take your natural place as the boss and authority. To have him take his natural place serving at your feet, to date and get the sex you love and deserve.
You see, your husband has been domesticated, it happens naturally as it is his natural biological place to follow orders from his dominant wife when she takes control of her pussy and his will. It happens to 99 % of married men. This happens out of this lifestyle, on a much milder level, but often leads to women joining the lifestyle when she feels the power and control she has. He can't help it, pussy is very powerful as are the urges he has, to get it. Over time, or in the hands of a very dominant woman, his will to a mild degree has become yours and he finds himself doing things to please you, obeying, and buying you what you want. This is to get your approvals and possibly the graces of sex. The more this becomes routine, and pleasing you is his only access to sex, the more submissive he becomes. The so called marriage papers and the act of doing so were nothing more than the signing and proof of ownership, to you the WIFE. This is all great for the vanilla woman (like you use to be) but the problem with a domesticated male is he becomes lazy, the sex is dull and quick (but quick is probably a good thing though) he still has the ability to argue or become unruly and your sex life suffers greatly. However, being a Mistress or Dominatrix has taken his domestication to a whole new level. The Mistress/Dominatrix women uses this power and defines it, making it stronger and him weaker. She is dominant, aggressive, and ruthless towards him. She doesn't just take control of his will, she breaks it to destroy the male part and create a submissive, a slave, a bitch. She doesn't suffer from lack of sex, she makes him suffer from continual tease and denial and never an orgasm. She embraces her sexuality and the ability to have hot, erotic sex and mind blowing orgasms with whoever she wants, when ever she wants. She gives him strict rules, chores, and enforces them with severe punishments, especially for back talk, questioning, or disobeying. It is her commitment to getting what she wants that gets her what she wants. Her actions, demeanor, attitude, punishments, humiliation and extremely active cuckolding dictate his submission level and willingness to obey.
Domestication doesn't happen to single males, you have to be owned via marriage (or long term relationship) having regular access to pussy. A dominant woman and the threat of loss of that pussy brings it out. They can be submissive, especially ones that were in a previous relationship where the female was very dominant. However, in general single males are more less wild, and thus better sex partners or lovers. Not so much in the relationship sense though, there is a reason they are single. Men are very simple creatures, as you would expect from something meant to serve females. They really only require SEX, food and sleep to keep them happy, with sex being the majority part of that. It is a proven fact, through study after study; Males think about sex most of the day and a males main goal is to deposit his semen, he has a biological urge to do so. While he may get some weak pleasure from the act of sex, it is the climax of ejaculating sperm into a pussy that yields 95% of his pleasure. This climax is relatively felt the same no matter the pussy. So any pussy will do, thus why a male is turned on visually. It is very different for a woman, as you know. We enjoy the act of sex and the building of the orgasm as well as the intensity of the orgasm. We enjoy sex as a whole and as such the difference in size and shape gives of various types of pleasure, with regards to the bigger and thicker the cock the better the sex and the orgasm. So by definition not just any cock will do. We were meant to have a variety to have the best sexual experiences, not just one small or less than average cock. This is why they make so many types and sizes of dildo's for women and why most of the sex toys are for women. There may be several manufactures of pocket pussy's but the hole is all the same with the only factor of being which one feels more real. Pussy toys only try to mimic the feel and sensation of the real thing, while some cock toys try to mimic the same, most (even life like cocks) are made to pleasure a woman by SIZE, THICKNESS, including, TEXTURE, HUMPS, GROVES, RIDGES, or what ever. We were meant to experience different kinds of sex. This is the best part and the main reason women choose to be a Dom and take their rightful place as the authority and queen, to fuck whom ever you want when ever you want. You should always be actively searching, flirting, dating, and fucking.....Every thing else with the lifestyle is just a bonus!
Wednesday, November 16, 2022
His new treat
HIS NEW TREAT
I have been a dominatrix for over 5 years, which has been most of my marriage (at 7 yrs) and it's definitely been the best part of my marriage as I'm sure all Dom's will tell you. I'm not just talking about cuckolding him and the sex part, even though that in itself has been unbelievably mind blowing and honestly the main reason I forced him into submission in the first place (I think why most Doms do it). But I'm also talking about the quality, tranquility, and lifestyle of our reformed relationship, which is not as husband and wife. No, our relationship is far better, natural, and how it should be with him on his knees serving and obey me 24/7/365. But not just serving in my home, he serves me at all times and everywhere we go including holidays, vacations, even on our anniversary, and yes in public as well. I demand this and so should you, as his Mistress it's what I deserve and the way it should be but also the way I want it. Since the day I started taking this serious (there was a short time I didn't) being a Dom and actually living the femdom relationship, I have never been happier and neither has he. By serious, meaning; being an actual Dominatrix which is dominant to say the least, aggressive, controlling, cruel, and sadistic, but also extremely strict and taking full control forcing his submission. Now, there is never a fight or argument, there is no back talking, (he is severely punished for it), I don't put up with any male bullshit at all, or anything else that comes with normal marriage. I don't ask him to do things, I command it and I simply do what I want, when I want and I control everything including the money. We live a 24/7/365 femdom lifestyle as Mistress and Bitch (actually he is a sissy bitch) just like every other femdom relationship does, and I do truly believe this is the way it should be. The terms Husband and Wife are never used, mentioned or even thought of and he is never allowed to think of himself as an equal, or even a man, nothing but my cock whipped sissy bitch. This is what I want and I do everything I can to keep it that way, I make him tell me several times a week, that he is my sissy bitch, that I own him, and tell me his place. He must also accept his place and acknowledge it when ordered to say it then say"he is my bitch and my property". In fact he has no input and he isn't even allowed to speak unless he asks for permission to do so. He has no opinion, thoughts, or control on anything, not even himself, much less his chores, how I govern my house or his servitude to me. He's never to touch my property (phone and all) and never allowed to question me or ask anything about my pussy in any capacity, Its none of his business as he is simply here to serve, obey and pay (actually hand over his entire paycheck) for the privilege of being on his knees in front of me.
I don't play around with him, I want him to know his place and understand he is my bitch and I'm very dominant, strict, and controlling of him at all times. I take rule violations and disrespect very serious, none is tolerated and all infractions are dealt with severe punishments immediately as it should be and must be! If I could give you words of advice to be successful and get to the next level of submission or even just finishing his training, is this; You must understand that you are changing him mentally and physically through training and chemical altering and conditioning (by denying him sex/orgasms and building up key hormones in his system that keep him horny and promote submissiveness) and this is exactly what you want. But, because of this transformation YOU must take this serious and be the Dom not a wife and friend in order to keep the training progressing to the next level. As he takes this journey he will need you to be his Dom, he must believe that this is truly what you want and he must fear you to let go of any notions that he has any power or worse that he could still have pussy if he throws a big enough fit or temper tantrum to get it. He will never be the submissive he should be and you will never get the devoted submissive bitch you deserve if he doesn't fear you and believes he can get pussy if he really wants it. You must break him through cruelty, humiliation, and punishments forcing his submission to you. You must maintain his submissive nature by forcing him to accept his natural place kneeling at your feet, being devoted, obedient, and very happy to be there. It truly is vital that you be aggressively dominant, very cruel, and sadistic, plus enforce rules and routines with severe punishments for rule breaking or disobedience. This means at the time of the infraction or as soon as possible, NOT days later if you even do it at all, punishments must be given! Lastly you must also understand that Femdom can't be a half the time or only when its a convenient lifestyle, it is a belief and a 24/7/365 choice and should always be in the forefront of your mind. Men's brains are not capable of switching on and off in that capacity, and even if they could the chemical change wouldn't allow them to go from submissive to normal especially very long without complications and remember it is their natural place to be submissive to you. So Being as mean, strict, ruthless and cruel as you can be, is the only way to success and what he really needs to be the best bitch he can be, FOR YOU! Beside it takes no more energy, or skill to be what you want to be anyway. You have to take the initiative and change things up, try doing scenero's you read about, (even this scenario) try new things like putting him in different positions, or new places (woods, hotel rooms, ect.) different types of humiliation and punishments, get new toys or devices (even have him make them if money is tight) and keep him guessing what's next! When you are very strict, dominant, and cruel he will have no choice but to serve and obey as you direct him, plus it makes the days when you are not able to (maybe your sick, etc.) carry through to the next day when you can. So ask yourself this, what do you truly want? Where do you want to be in 3-4 month from now? How can you make that happen? Maybe you want a serious relationship with a hottie you might be talking to? Do you want to be the Boss in the relationship and do what you want when you want to from here out? Do you want to come home to a clean house, laundry done, and meals cooked, no backtalk or question asked, with full body messages, feet rubs and a very submissive bitch waiting on you hand and foot, eager to serve and obey just for the privilege of being your bitch? If you said yes to any of this, take my words of advice and be proud, be the Dom you are meant to be!
Obviously when it all started for me, I didn't have a guide so I had to learn (why I put my time posting thess how to's, and scenes to try). I wasn't sure exactly what I was doing and I wasn't one of those women that naturally took charge and control because I'm fairly shy, didn't want to embarrass myself or look stupid, and I didn't want to hurt him to bad or scare him away. Honey, let me tell you this, you could never do anything to make yourself look anything but perfect if your doing things as you should be, and he needs exactly that! You also couldn't hurt him anymore than he needs or deserves and trust me, if your the Dom you should be no other woman would matter, he would only want to kneel at your feet and serve you. While most Doms already know all of this and have no problem breaking their bitch, it took time for me to realize that I had to be very dominate, strict and cruel with him. I'm not talking about telling him no, making him kneel or just refusing him sex, no I mean down right cruel, ruthless, and sadistic not to mention pain and punishments. Doing things that I didn't even know I could do or had in me. I'm talking about locking him in a dog cage for hours and using a litter box instead of a toilet, eating and drinking from dog dishes (that he washes out by hand) walking him on a leash, keeping him on his knees, spitting on his face or in his mouth, and even pissing on his face and/or in his mouth, sometimes forcing him to swallow some of it. This was just the tip of things I now do, I also took him to woods, strip him naked and walked him on a leash to a tree that I tied him to, then used a whip and cane on him till he cried and walked him back to the car. I also have made him stand in the corner at the mall or in stores, and even kneel at my feet in the food court while I ate. As crazy as this all sounded to me, it also turned me on and I eventually found out these are all normal things all Dom's do. I also made him serve friends and even boyfriends wearing nothing but his chastity and his panties, and had him used (fucked and suck cock) regularly by gay or bi-sexual men. So to say the least I eventually let loose, let out the bitch and let go of whatever was holding me back from taking my true and natural place as his mistress plus having the best sex I've ever had. He must fear you, The truth is you have to be dominate, cruel, sadistic, and ruthless to be a proper Dom and you have to punish every time he deserves it. Not just for your benefit, or because he needs this from you to be the best bitch he can be, but because this is how its meant to be. As I said before you deserve this so don't let yourself hold you back from having a devoted sissy bitch and a hot boyfriend to fuck you like you need it. Wants you let go of feeling restricted and start treating him the way he should be treated it will feel natural and honestly it will start to turn you on. Now I absolutely love the power and control I have over him as well as being served and treated like a goddess. OH and I really, really loved the fact I could have his complete submission and devotion as my bitch as well as date and fuck whomever I wanted while cuckolding and denying him sex.
"His new treat" I had been seeing my boyfriend for just under 2 months. He was attractive and we got along great, plus the sex was so amazing, as I saw him more and more I couldn't get enough. He felt the same and we both admitted we really liked each other, so the last time he was over (2 days prior) we decided to make it more than just fuck friends (FWB) and officially be exclusive with each other. So today, (Friday) we wanted to have a few drinks to celebrate the official "we're dating thing", plus have more intimate sex. Earlier that morning I planned how the day and night would unfold. First thing I went to the mall to get a new lingerie outfit to wear for my boyfriend (Carter) and obviously tanning and nails as well. From there I went to the local sex store to buy a sissy porn video, and a couples toy for Jarrad. I ended up getting a small anal/vag vibe for me called a We-Vibe Jive that is remotely controlled by a phone app. Carter had mentioned he wanted to get something he could remotely control when we were out at dinner or where ever to turn me on and watch the reaction in my face, plus I could wear it while we had sex. Next it was the liquor store for Jack and coke for him and premade margarita drinks for me. From there I ended up at the grocery store to get some large ginger for my cock slut and a small pack of condoms. It was now pretty late so I hurried home to get stuff ready before my sissy bitch got home from work. I peeled the ginger - ginger causes a bad burning sensation when inserted into the ass and left, which gets worse the longer its left in or when the butt is tensed up from a punishment spanking (google ginger punishment) and put it into a small bowl of cold water with 4 ice cubes and then took it down to my dungeon for later. While I was downstairs in my dungeon I put the sissy video into the disc player and pressed play (the dvd player starts over when the disc is finished) for later. This is humiliating for him to watch because it focuses his attention on him being a sissy and craving cock.
As I was coming up My bitch was coming through the door and I said (in a firm voice)go take your fucking place. He hurried up the steps to get undressed and into his place kneeling by the door and the bed. I came in and said," You are to straighten up the house and get back in your fucking place, also the dungeon looks like shit CLEAN IT UP! Yes Mistress, thank you mistress! and he crawled out (he is never allowed to walk in front of me, he must crawl in the house) I proceeded to look for something sexy to wear for Carter. I had decided to just wear the lingerie outfit with a sexy see through robe that was rested just above the bottoms of my ass cheeks. I jumped into the shower to wash and shave, Carter likes a landing strip so I trim it to please him (I showed sissy the first time I shaved it for humiliation). I came out of the shower to find my cum slut kneeling in his place (my towel was rapped around me as sissy is never allowed to see me naked, unless for humiliation) I asked if the chores were all done including laundry, dishes, and vacuuming? Yes mistress, and your drink is setting on your nightstand (he keeps up on the chores daily so they are finished fairly quick). He has been trained to fetch me a drink if he see's I don't have one or its empty. I took a drink and told him to get in the fucking corner (you must speak firmly). Since he is never allowed to see me naked, he must either kneel in the corner or put his face on the floor hands out in front of him (called the submit position). He isn't allowed to ask me whats going on or question me in any way so at this point he has no clue what's going to happen tonight. I did my hair and makeup then carefully put on the lingerie outfit. My sissy bitch isn't allowed to see me in lingerie unless my boyfriends see's me first, and he is serving in some manner, so I put on a bathrobe over it until my boyfriend arrives. I told my sissy he could come take his place, as he crawled over very close, I'm sure he could smell that I was very aroused and excited to see Carter. I stuck my finger inside me and put it up close to his nose then said do you smell how excited I am to see Carter tonight? Yes mistress, thank you mistress for allowing the privilege to smell Carters pussy. Smelling pussy is also a rare treat for him and when I use this I can practically get him to do anything, and I do use it to make him do humiliating acts just to be allowed the privilege to smell it, even on my finger. What can I say I'm a cruel bitch, LoL. I was looking at him seductively as I was thinking how happy I was that I emasculated, chatized, and mentally castrated him. Thrilled that I broke him and striped him of everything it was to be a man and reprogramed him into the perfect devoted and cock whipped sissy bitch that I deserve. Not to mention how much it turns me on to be cruel and sadistic to him, so I spit in his face (he isn't allowed to clean it off unless I say) and shout worship my fucking feet bitch. While he is thanking me for the privilege and worshiping my feet my boyfriend text me and said he is taking the exit. Oh shit, I need to get moving
I opened the drawer and grabbed his prostate massager put his leash on (he always wears a collar in the house) and walk him down (he always crawls) the stairs and into the family room towards his corner to kneel. I said SUBMIT (the position where his ass is in the air, legs spread apart, his chin on the floor looking down and his arms out in front of him) and slid the toy inside his pussy and turned it on. Then I ordered him to kneel in the corner and not to move unless ordered to do so. Then hooked the hand part of the leash onto his collar with a carabiner (the carabiner is left on his collar for instances like this). I got into my purse and got the condoms out and took them up to my bedroom for later and hung up my bathrobe. As I came down Carter was coming through the door, and saw me in the lingerie I picked out for him. WOW! he said, you look very beautiful and sexy to girl! He grabbed me and started kissing me passionately (I love how he kisses me) and squeezing my ass cheeks. After a few more kisses he took my hand and walked me upstairs to the bed room to drop his duffle bag of cloths then began telling me about his day and asked me about mine while he was getting dressed into something comfortable, grey sweats and a tight black t-shirt with socks to be exact (It turns me on when he wears grey sweets because I can see the outline of his big cock). That reminds me, I picked up the condoms on the nightstand and explained my plans for my sissy bitch later. He obviously knows all about my bitch as I explained most everything to him on our second date and of course he had questions that were explained in more detail on the third date and so on. For the record, men are very turned on by taking control of and pleasing another mans pussy. I told him that it really wasn't even an open relationship that Zack was my bitch, sissy bitch to be exact. I also explained that his only purpose was to serve and obey me and pay the bills. But what really excited Carter was that my bitch wasn't allowed sex or anything at all to do with my pussy, no touching, not even allowed to see it. If that didn't excite him enough, I told him he wore a chastity 24/7/365 and showed him picks of him in his pink chastity with panties on. See he isn't even allowed to touch his clitty as I laughed. So he wears the chastity all the time, he said? YES, it's only removed to change between chastities and clean a few times a month. To which he said, I'm actually turned on and impressed! However, the first time we meet I told him I was in an open relationship and explained I do what I want (never tell a potential boyfriend your married). Here we are almost 2 months later and he's starting to command my bitch himself and help me use him for sexual activities as well because we talked about it really turning me on.
After I told him about my plans for my sissy tonight, he said your ruthless and it's fucking hot! He was also pretty turned on so he picked me up and laid me on the bed as we kissed. He pulled down the bra and began sucking my breast at the same time his finger pulled my panties aside and entered me. I started to moan as he moved to sucking on my neck. He then slid down and started licking on my clit while he fingered me and I quickly got off, 2 times to be exact. By now I was wanting his cock so bad (I actually wanted it the day prior so I was really horny for it by now). I pulled him up to sit up and suck his cock which was already swollen and rock hard. I absolutely love his cock, it's not just long (8 1/2 inches) but very thing (the way I love it) and he really knows how to use it. He truly fucks me way better than my pathetic sissy bitch ever did. He grabs a condom off the nightstand and says should I wear it now or wait till I'm about to cum and just blow inside it? I said, you know I love to feel you bare back, so just blow in it when your close! He opened it up to have it ready and laid it next to me as he slid his beautiful cock inside me. Almost instantly I started moaning (men love hearing a woman moan). He got me off at least 5 times over the next 30 minutes and quickly grabbed the condom and slid it on and then his cock back inside me and pumped till he came (which caused me to orgasm yet again). He got up and I squeezed his cock as I carefully slid the condom off to make sure I got every last drop. I then Tied it into a knot and slid it inside me with the knot barley hanging out (easier to grab to pull out) to keep the cum wet and warm for later. He slid his sweats back on as I straightened my self up and put my panties back on. then we walked back downstairs to see my cock slut still kneeling in the corner like a good bitch.
We sat down on the couch and I laid on Carter's chest as he turned on the movie that he told me he wanted to see on the phone (he bought it on my sissies account). I ordered my sissy bitch to get ice and make our drinks, yes mistress he said as he crawled to the kitchen to stand up to full fill my order. Since he wasn't able to crawl with 2 drinks in his hand (he is allowed to walk but must kneel immediately after). He kneeled and looked at the floor (he is never allowed to make eye contact unless ordered) and handed us our drinks. Now get my phone, I left it up stairs on the nightstand. This was done on purpose for humiliation as I wanted him to go upstairs and see that the bed he made earlier was messed up from sex and so that he could smell sex in the air (the hormones make sissy's weak and submissive). But I also wanted him to see the condoms and the open wrapper the condom was in (mind fuck for later lol). He quickly returned crawling with my phone and kneeled in his place at our feet. Now go get back into the corner until your required again, yes mistress he said. I ordered chinese food (Carter loves it) on my bitches credit card. As we somewhat watched the movie we were making out fairly heavily and I know my bitch could hear as we messed around. After about 30 minutes into the movie the doorbell rang. GO GET OUR FOOD BITCH, I yelled. He quickly crawled out to go get on his tight pink spandex shorts and pink half shirt to answer the door in. He's made to wear them as part of his humiliation as they go up the crack of his ass and if you look, you can see his chastity outline, he looks very sissy like. He again walks back in and gets silverware for our food and comes to kneel back in his place repeating as he did earlier. I took our food out of the bag and told him to sit the bag (this was his food) on the counter and make us another drink. He returned with drinks and I said back to your fucking corner cock slut! After we ate he was ordered to clean up the mess and back to the corner.
The movies was just about over (about 20 minutes or so left) and we started kissing as he rubbed my clit. I was so turned on, not that it mattered as I was already wanting his cock again. I made sure my bitch could hear us kissing and messing around throughout the movie but it was time for some more humiliation, so I stood up and said, "GET OVER HERE BITCH!" He quickly crawled over as his ass depended on it, literally. As he kneeled, I took off my see through gown so he could get a little glance of the lingerie outfit and I said hold this as I threw it over his shoulder. I turned around to face Carson and bent over so sissy could see my ass really good (about a foot away from his face) but more importantly Carter's big cock through the opening between my legs. I had it out playing with it towards the end of the movie and he was still hard, unlike my sissy, his pathetic clitty wouldn't be able to stay hard. It's good for submission, but I also love to humiliate my sissy about how much bigger Carson's cock is (if your cuckolding you need to humiliate about how much bigger, better, and last longer than your sissy), how he is a real man and he can actually please me. Humiliation helps put subs in there place but also keeps them there. I started to suck his big cock letting my sissy see how I could barely get it into my mouth, again more humiliation. I sucked for about a minute or two then turned to notice his clitty was dripping pre-cum out of the chastity. I then said, "GO THE FUCK AWAY!" This is a command I use that means "to go kneel in the corner of another room", which his place is the dining room so he can hear me give orders to obey. He's sometimes permitted to watch or just hear us mess around, but rarely allowed to watch us have sex unless for humiliation or when he is enhancing our pleasure by licking or sucking one of us or both of us. He crawls away to the dining room with a dripping clitty. When sissy's leak/drip pre-cum out of their chastity it is a sign of a high arousal state but more importantly its submission to the alpha male. This brings up another point between a real man and a pathetic sissy bitch, while I'm standing in front of my boyfriend (a real man) in lingerie he gets hard, grabs my ass, is excited and thinking about fucking the shit out of me. But I stand exactly the same in front of my sissy bitch and he gets weak, submits, and can only think about serving and worshiping my ass....Which is exactly what I want and why he was meant to be my bitch. Truthfully, He could never please me sexually with his pathetic small clitty, or last longer than a few minutes (not that I wanted him to with no pleasure) but he can please me or even turn me on (wanting Carson's big cock) by suffering for me, serving and obeying, or worshiping my feet and ass and last as long as I want him on his knees doing so. Not to mention the whole body massages, head and foot rubs, so he is where he was meant to be and exactly where I want him!
After my sissy left the room I kneeled down and sucked Carter's cock more, knowing he would lose whatever focus he had left on the movie and take me upstairs to fuck the shit out of me again. Needless to say a few minutes later he was saying lets go fuck (of course baby). We stood up and he kissed me, then he grabbed my hand walking me towards the steps. I yelled to my bitch to shut off everything, clean up and bring us up some fresh drinks. About 10 minutes later sissy came in with our drinks and kneeled next to us as I was straddled on Carter's lap facing him (both sitting up) with my arms around the top of his shoulder and neck, his holding my waist. We were both naked except my panties (as Carter undressed me and then threw off his clothes as soon as we got upstairs). I said sit the drinks down and put on your blindfold in the top draw. After it was on, I stood up checked the blindfold to make sure it was tight, then took off my panties and grabbed his leash pulling him over to my ass as I climbed back onto Carson. I said lick my fucking asshole bitch and you better do it right. As he licked the rim for a few minutes and then tongued deep into my asshole (which he knows I love), Carter laid back onto the bed and pulled me down on top of him so sissy could lick my ass better as we kissed. My bitch knows he is never to lick past my asshole to carters pussy (a severe punishment stopped that) After about 5 minutes I said enough and sissy thanked me for the privilege to worship my ass (he knows failing to thank me for privileges is a severe punishment). I took the leash off the carabiner and walked him through the door and told him to "submit" and stay. I then closed the door over the leash so that he was on the outside of the bedroom with the door closed and the leash went under the door and I pulled it up to hook on the door knob so he couldn't get up or move. All he could do is stay on his knees in the "submit position" and listen to Carson fuck the shit out of me as I moaned and screamed for over an hour (1 hour 15 minutes). The humiliation of hearing me moan and scream the entire time was not all the humiliation he received, he also heard me telling Carson that I loved his cock and Carson making me tell him its his pussy and that I wanted it to be his pussy from now on... How tight his pussy is and how good it feels, as well as other humiliating stuff. Humiliation is very important in his submission not just to me but also to Carson as it helps reprogram his mind and reinforce his position and purpose to me (as well as it will you). I really wanted him to know his place from now on, his true place and purpose for me which as I said is serving, obey, and paying me for the privilege to do so.
After a hard fuck session with me moaning and groaning just about the entire time, we needed a break and Carter wanted some alone time for more intimate sex with me. Plus it was more humiliating for my bitch to only hear part of it (and why I love Carson's cock so much) then go to his cage not being permitted to hear the rest so his mind can run wild with humiliation. After I slid on some panties, I unhooked the leash from the door knob and opened the door and said in a firm voice up! I noticed that his clitty was leaking pre-cum so I bent down and wiped it with my finger saying open your fucking mouth and shoved it into his mouth. Then I ordered in a firm voice for him to lick clean the mess on the carpet. Then I walked sissy to the dungeon but instead of locking him in his cage as I normally do, I made him kneel at the foot of the bed/bench (its more of a tie down table) facing the door. I then cuffed his hinds behind his back and put in a mouth spreader so he would slobber all over himself and I could force him to suck my strap-on cock later. Then put the "wedge stool" under him to force him up on his knees (for torture knowing keeping him in his place, on his knees would be more painful with as long as he's been kneeling tonight). The "wedge" is a sharp triangle shaped kneeling stool made of wood (sometimes steel) that the sub kneels on to hold him in place. It causes pain in the area of the asshole and in between the balls if he lowers off his knees. So It basically keeps him on his knees, you can also strap various types of dildos onto it for added stretch pain as well. And you can attach shock pads from a shocking device and strap his balls to it, kind of forcing him to endure some pain from the wedge and shock at the same time. Finally I take some Tiger Balm and rub it all over his balls, then turned out the lights except the bright spot light which I have mounted on the wall facing his face. I shut the door and washed my hands (you don't want this in your eyes) before going back up to my bedroom.
As I enter, Carson was still lying naked on the bed, only now he had some soft R&B music playing on my google nest hub (Mini screen device similar to Alexa) and was playing on his phone. As he quickly stood up, he asked if sissy was locked down, to which I replied painfully locked down whith a sadistic grin on my face. He grabbed my waist and pulled me to him and started kissing me very passionately then pushed me towards the bed. He gently pushed me back onto the bed and started licking me (which he is honestly very good at) for several minutes. After about three orgasms he slowly licks up my stomach to my breast and spent some time licking and sucking on my nipples until he left a sucker mark right next to my right nipple (so my sissy can see he's marking his property). He knows not to leave a hickey on my neck because I think its tacky but I'm fine anywhere else that shows sissy humiliation. He then starts kissing me again as I reach down to play with his cock that is already rock hard. He spreads my legs wide and slowly enters me and starts pumping in and out. I instantly feel pleasure and get very wet (something I've never done with sissy) as he again starts kissing me very slow and passionately. His cock is hitting that perfect spot that makes me build to a strong orgasm, only he's going slow and steady purposely to keep me building higher and higher to an orgasm. I'm already moaning softly from the pleasure of his cock, but now he starts sucking on my neck (which he knows I love), and I feel the orgasm build to the point I didn't think it could build anymore. But it did, higher and higher as he started picking up speed as his slow gentle strokes turned into harder steady strokes and there it was a mind blowing passionate orgasm that was far better than anything my sissy ever gave me (but then again they all were lol). But it wasn't over yet, as soon as I start moaning and screaming louder from the intense orgasm, he pulls my head up and we lock eyes as he starts pounding me harder and faster and I start scream out OMG, OMG as I completely explode to the best orgasm I've ever had.
We continue to have hot passionate sex like this in various positions for about another 1 1/2 hours, It literally was some of the best sex I've ever had, if not the best. At the end he had cum at the same time I had another mind blowing orgasm and filled my pussy with his cum, I actually love it when he cums inside me and I feel his big cock get very hard as his warm load unleashes. We laid there for another few minutes kissing passionately as I felt his cock get soft (even soft he is still bigger then sissy hard) inside me. Carson rolled off me and laid next to me and we talked for a few minutes before I had to get up to go pee. I then grabbed the cum filled condom from earlier (I stuck in a heating pad on low setting to keep it warm and fresh). By now it was getting late so I put on my panties and told Carson I'd better get downstairs and punish sissy and give him his treat reminding him he was welcome to come watch. He said to leave the door cracked he might come down after he gets a shower. He has watched a few times before without my sissy knowing as he was wearing a blind fold. I kissed him then started to walk away and he pulled me back to kiss him again and said, "your so fucking hot when your cruel". I gave him an evil grin and walked down to the dungeon.
As I walked in sissy had slobber running down his face and his clitty was still leaking a lot of pre-cum. I said firmly, your pathetic little clitty can't stop leaking (remember leaking pre-cum is a sign of submission to an alpha male), you can't help but submit to a real man fucking me like I deserve because you know your meant to be a cock whipped sissy slut, don't you! Yes mistress he replied. It must be fucking humiliating that there's nothing you can do about it and you can't even control your fucking mess, but that's all that will ever come out of that worthless tiny clit. That's what Sissie's are for, humiliation, torture, amusement, and fucking obeying his mistress, OH, and paying for the privilege to serve me. Well I bet your ready to get out of those cuffs and off the "wedge" aren't you. YES Mistress! he tried saying through the mouth spreader. That's to bad, I have plans for your fucking sissy mouth, I went over and put on my strap-on with the large cock then forced it into his mouth. I fucked his mouth and made him gag a little as I humiliated him that Carson cock was about this big (it really is) and that he fucked me way better than your pathetic clitty ever could, but I'm sure you could tell, couldn't you bitch? He tried to say yes mistress the best he could with a large cock in his mouth. I had one hand on his leash and the other grabbing a hand full of hair forcing my cock into his wet mouth telling him to suck my fucking cock like he loves it. As he is gaging on it, I explained that he better get use to sucking and pleasing cock a lot because he was about to start for real as I had listed him a profile with pics of him (he didn't know I had taken them as he was blind folded) some naked pics of his ass in various positions and some with panties on, plus one with his pink chastity on and one with it off and hard. I posted them on several gay and bi-sexual web sites including "Grindr". I told him that I'd been talking to several guys from there and explained our situation and that he could literally be used anytime they wanted (with in reason and a little advanced notice). So you already have a few cocks that can't wait to use you like you fucking deserve. But don't worry, eventually your going to love it and even beg to have your cock hole fucked. I could see the desperation and humiliation in his eyes as he said, are you serious mistress? Yes, and you will be trained to please cock the proper way, I said as I laugh at him.
After a few more minutes of humiliation I said, well lets get this mouth spreader off so you can suck the pre-cum off my finger, then I'll let you up to lick the wedge board clean of your nasty mess. After he finished cleaning up his mess (yes I made him suck the pre-cum off my fingers like it was icing), I uncuffed him and told him to worship my fucking feet, which he quickly bent down and started kissing and licking my feet. As he worshiped them, I reached over to get a latex glove on and then continued to humiliate him about being a pathetic panty wearing cock slut as I reached down to play with his asshole and started fingering his pussy. I bet your craving my cock right now aren't you bitch? Yes mistress as he moaned and continued to kiss and lick my feet. That's a good cock slut, now KNEEL I said in a firm voice to which he quickly obeyed. Beg me just like the pathetic cock whipped slut you are, beg me to allow you the fucking privilege to have my big cock deep in your pussy. Immediately he started to beg for my cock as he looked down at the floor (he is never allowed to look up unless ordered to do so). He was begging sincerely as I shouted, LOOK AT ME AND BEG! then I spit on his face. He looked up and said yes mistress, please mistress, may I please be permitted the pleasure of your big cock? May I please be permitted to be a good cock slut for you and amuse you by moaning and screaming to your big cock forcing me to cum and submit to it? Please mistress I'm begging you? SHUT THE FUCK UP and get up on the bench I yelled! He climbed up and I proceeded to lock him down good and tight because I didn't want him to move at all for what was about to happen. I unlocked his chastity (it had been almost a week since it was off) and pulled his tiny package (balls and all) back and clamped them in the bench. This puts his clitty facing down towards the floor, and I started to edge him by licking and fingering his prostate. After about 10 minutes he was begging for cock again and I said beg louder, to which he did as I walked around to the front of him and said SUCK MY FUCKING COCK AND GET IT READY! He opened wide as I slid it into his mouth and again began fucking his mouth. I pulled it out and slapped him across the face with it then lubed it up and slowly slid it in saying thank your mistress for the privilege of my fucking cock. He thanked me as his words turned into moans and whimpering from my cock stretching his pussy and going deep. I said That's right bitch as I laughed, you can't help but moan from my cock can you bitch? No mistress he replied. After about 20 minutes of pounding his pussy and humiliating him I pulled out and again went around the front, grabbed him by the leash and made him suck and lick my cock clean of lube (Strep can happen but is rare if properly cleaned out, and there's antibiotics if it does) saying suck my fucking cock clean slut! This is very humiliating for sissies, and reinforces their place. After about 5 minutes, I pulled it out and said what should you say slut? He again thanked me for the privilege of pleasing my cock. I absolutely love seeing and hearing him beg to be my bitch and transform into a true sissy bitch willing to obey my every command, it is so intoxicating.
It was time for his treat and training to accept his treat with any dirty humiliating way I want him to take it. For the record, he has been forced to lick clean his own messes and even did clean up duty a few times with my last boyfriend, but this time it was going to be different. From now on he would do clean up every time possible, and from here out he would not be allowed to lick it directly from my pussy (at least very rarely). Instead I would squat over him and squeeze it into his mouth then finger feed the rest of it to him or do it in whatever humiliating way I could think of like having Carson shoot it straight into his mouth. I took off the strap-on and hung it up, then I got the ginger off the table by the door, took it out of the cold water and shoved it into his ass hole so it could start to take its affect on him before his caning. Then I grabbed the ball gag and walked in front of him saying its time for your new treat. He looked puzzled as his mind went wild with curiosity of what I was talking about. I walked over and grabbed his dog dish (it says sissy bitch on it in all caps) and placed it in front of him and proceeded to squat over it and pull my panties aside just enough for him to see the cum dripping from my pussy lips. I squeezed and fingered my pussy to get every last drop into his dish then reached up to wipe what was on my finger across the bottom of his nose and lips. I knew the smell of sex would both drive him crazy inside and make him weak and submissive. I then took the condom full of cum and cut it open and squeezed it into his bowl. The whole time he looked very humiliated as by now he was understanding 2 things, first what his new treat was going to be and how much of it there was, and second that I had started letting Carson cum inside his pussy. At least that's what he thought, but he was about to get even more humiliation. I Then stood up and said you look humiliated and frustrated! Yes Mistress, That's good, you should be. Mistress may I please have permission to speak, he said in a humble tone. Yes bitch, what? Its very humiliating that your going to make me eat his cum especially since I can't even lick it from his pussy but its really humiliating that you let him cum inside his pussy tonight. I laughed and said, your going to be eating Carson's cum every time possible from now on, but tonight wasn't the first time he didn't use a condom and cum inside me. He then spoke without permission saying, its not mistress? Again I laughed and said no, he's been fucking me almost the whole time without one and cumming inside his pussy. He looked like he was about to cry, and I said AW-AW, is sissy going to cry for me as I started laughing at him, don't worry sissy's going to have plenty of time for that tonight especially since you spoke with out permission. The fear of punishment snapped him back into submission as he quickly said I'm sorry Mistress for my disobedience! Oh your going to be very sorry, I promise you that. Yes Mistress!
Your probably really humiliated that he's fucked me this whole time with out a condom and you didn't know, yes Mistress! Its none of your fucking business though is it BITCH! I said in a very strict tone. No Mistress! That's right, you deserve nothing at all to do with pussy, the only reason you know now is for the humiliation of it and as I said before so you can expect to clean up the fucking mess every time possible. I walk over to get the cane and the cat-0-nine tails whip and start using the cane on his ass first, hitting his ass 10 times slow and hard. Then I said, I'm sure knowing this your really realizing that its going to be his pussy from now on and there is nothing you can do about it, is there bitch? No mistress, that's fucking right, your place and purpose for me is nothing more than serving and obey and paying for that privilege. Yes mistress! Then I hit another 10 times slow and hard, followed by 20 fast and hard hits. Do I have your attention bitch? YES MISTRESS! he yelped out. GOOD, your training is about to begin I said in a firm voice. I want you to know I meant what I said, you will never have anything to do with pussy again much less feeling the pleasure of it. I hit him another 20 fast and hard while saying, You will be grateful and thank me for the rare times I even let you smell it, even if on my finger is that understood bitch! YES MISTRESS! he cried out. Another 10 slow, hard hits. Now he is really whimpering and flinching with every hit, but the ginger is keeping him from clenching his ass checks so he must endure every hit. I speak in a dominant and firm voice from here till I'm finished with him, saying Your going to lick every drop of his cum out of your bowl and your going to beg me to do it, but not yet, not till I'm finished with you. I want you ready to do it, then hit him another 10 fast and hard. I want you really wanting his cum in your mouth, I want you sexually excited to taste his warm cum in your mouth and please me that way. I want you to be a true cock whipped slut, ass I hit him another 20 fast and hard. Then I put the ballgag in and continued to hit him in series of 10 and 20 hits mixing them slow and hard. He eventually was screaming and yelling with muffled cries and pleads to stop, but I continued to hit, humiliate and scold him about his place and purpose. His muffled yelps, and screams eventually turned into crying and tears and I laughed at him and hit more until I felt he was ready to beg me to lick up Carson's cum (over 300 hits later).
I hit him as I said are you ready to beg me to clean up Carson's cum, he shook his head violently saying yes mistress may I please beg you to lick it up. It was muffled but it still really excited me and turned me on especially with the power I have over him. I took off the gag and slobber was all over the floor and gag, I laughed and said see your slobber tells me you want it in your mouth more than you know, joking of course it was the ball gag that did this. Yes mistress he said in a trembling voice. Well, what do you have to say as I hit him another 10 times hard and fast. As He starts saying PLEASE MISTRESS! PLEASE!PLEASE! may I lick up Carson's cum. I feel Carson reach around to my pussy and start rubbing my clit. Please mistress I'm begging you to allow me the privilege of cleaning up his cum. I hit him another 10 times fast and hard as best I can anyways with Carson telling me how much it turns him on to see sissy submit to me. I say you can do better than that in a loud voice. Yes mistress! As he again pleads to taste his cum and begs to be my cum licking cock slut, Carson spins me around and kisses me passionately and I feel his cock harden as he presses it against my pussy lips (thinking thank goodness for the V pill). He starts to rub my clit with his cock pumping it in and out before he spins me around and slides it in from behind. He pumps about 10 times then pulls it out saying hurry this up and get your ass upstairs, I want that again before bed. Then he smacks me on the ass and walks out. I zone back in and sissy is still begging me to lick his cum from the bowl, so I don't think he even heard Carson in the room or at least he was to scared to take his focus off begging me for his cum to prevent another beating. Now I switch to the cat-o-nine tails whip and say tell me who's bitch you are and start hitting him back hand and front hand with the whip. As he confesses he's my bitch he pleads to stop, but I continue saying what's you place and where do you belong from here out? My place is serving and obey you mistress and I belong kneeling at your feet from here out mistress! GOOD BITCH! You may now clean up his fucking mess but you better not disappoint me! He licks the bowl clean and says thank you mistress for allowing me the privilege of licking his cum. His ass is extremely welted up, purple and red (black and blue as they say) and I'm very pleased with my work and the submission it accomplished.
I tell him I'm going to let him up, he is not to touch his ass or the ginger until the mess is cleaned up. I untie him and he quickly drops to his knees and thanks me for the privilege of serving me and allowing him to lick Carson's cum up. He begs to serve me from now on and asks me to please allow him to be my cock slut from here out. I smiled and said in a firm voice, YES that's your fucking place, now clean up the fucking mess. He quickly started cleaning up and came back to kneel at my feet, but all I could think of was hurrying to get up stairs to Carson. I said GET IN YOUR FUCKING CAGE! Then locked the door, I said as I walked to the door that if he was lucky after Carson left in the morning I would bring down his cum breakfast from morning sex and allow him to sniff my cum filled panties a bit before doing Saturday chores, as I was going upstairs to get fucked again. Then looked at him with an evil grin as he said yes mistress, please mistress may I have that privilege then turned out the light and closed the door saying we'll see bitch! I went upstairs and climbed on top of Carson and we had slow passionate sex for about 20 minutes, my pussy was already swollen and sore and I wanted it to rest before morning sex. I fell asleep laying on his chest.
You can and even should use this entire event as a scenario for you to follow. I did as this is an actual ceremonial event most Doms due for forced cum eating or just for humiliation as they stop using condoms with a boyfriend. Till next time...
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