Talking and acting as a Dominatrix

                                                        Talking and acting as a Dominatrix

As a Dominatrix there are requirements and standards you use when interacting with and speaking to your bitch. These standards employ dominance, power, and control, and they are crucial for extracting true submission and obedience. They are also crucial for reprogramming, and successfully training him to be the best sub he can be for you. These standards along with keeping him in the proper atmosphere (a subserviently atmosphere) create a dynamic that forces his natural submission and empowers you.  Remember your role, you are training him to be your bitch, to serve, to obey, to submit, to act, and do exactly what he is told. This means you must be very cruel, extremely strict, aggressive and do what's necessary for you to train him correctly. This is why standards are the absolute minimal you must act and/or do to reform him to accept his submissive nature. You must understand that it is his natural place to serve and obey you, it is a privilege for him to kneel at your feet. However it is your responsibility to train him correctly, keeping in mind the worst you do to him, is the best you will get out of him....You can not be to dominant, strict, or to cruel. The fact is, your going to have to be meaner and crueler than he ever thought possible, he needs and wants deep down to be your bitch. 

These standards help with your dominance, asserting power and authority, as we are not talking about who is more in charge or who wears the pants in the house and you certainly don't want a power struggle. We are talking about absolute power, control and dominance by the female and complete submission and obedience of the male, otherwise known as Femdom (Female Domination). Femdom is completely about female empowerment, authority, control and dominance over a subservient, obedient,  male. A Dominatrix doesn't want a submissive bitch that is unruly, disobedient, backtalks, or questions her as she would never allow any of this, she would beat it out of him with a very severe caning and punishment every time he deserves it. A proper caning will show you the difference of his submission before and after the caning and trust me a severe ass beating will stop all misbehavior and bring forth a very submissive and obedient bitch. A Dominatrix trains and enforces a very strict routine and guide on how her bitch is to act and obey at all times including strict rules he must follow, how he submits, and household chores he is to complete every day. Her bitch is well disciplined, very submissive, and obedient following every rule with complete accuracy for fear of an extreme punishment and caning. 

A Mistress doesn't have a husband or an equal, she doesn't want one either, she wants and deserves something far better, an eagerly devoted submissive bitch! You are "THE MISTRESS" and absolute authority, you own a bitch, a trained and domesticated submissive servant WHO's only purpose is to serve, obey, AND hand over his entire paycheck!!! This is his natural place, but he's not just going to give in easily, you have to force him into it and break his will to resist so he can accept his place. Trust me he will not be happier and neither will you, so start treating him like the bitch you want and deserve. A Mistress, YOU have complete power and control, you own everything including him and take his entire paycheck. Never think of your relationship as husband and wife, as partners, as friends or equals. You want it the way it should be, a more natural and matriarchal order that only benefits you, with you as the Dominatrix and he as your submissive bitch. If you don't take this serious, fail to realize this and act on it appropriately, then sweetheart you will fail and all the work you put in will be for nothing. You will get out of it what you put in. So ask yourself this, are you a Wife or are you a Mistress? Will you do what's necessary to have what you deserve? Will you be the strict, sadistic, and cruel Dom you must be to get your perfectly devoted bitch? If you are please read on.

*Femdom is strict enforcement and complete dominance; physically, verbally and especially mentally. It is, taking all control over the male and forcing his natural submission and obedience to you. The very meaning and whole point of Femdom is "female dominance and power", to dominate, and control every aspect of your male, every minute of the day. EVERYTHING! 

*Including; his actions, what he does day to day, how he serves, where, when and how he kneels and where he looks. When and how he speaks if allowed at all, how he begs and how he asks for permission. When, where and how he sleeps, his diet and how, when and where he eats, his bathroom time, when, where and how he does it. Even his thoughts, what he is allowed to think and what he should be thinking about. 

* He exist to serve and obey you!!! His purpose is to make your life perfect and do as he is told. You must rule over him 24/7/365 in an extremely strict, very cruel, ruthless manner so that there is no doubt or question that you are in control and his place is on his knees in front of you

* It is not only his natural place and purpose to serve and obey you, it is a privilege, He should beg you to be there (reminded daily) and thank you for said privilege. He will get no rewards or special treatment for his submission, servitude, and obedience.

* Sex is for your pleasure only, cuckolding is mandatory.   

If this is not your belief, what you practice, or the way you dominate him, then you are not a Dom and should maybe think about another lifestyle choice. I can guide you and tell you what you need and should be doing but your success or failure is up to you. This is the natural order and you do deserve this, so your only goal, focus and the most important act or action you do is to be a proper Mistress and do your part. Hubby and wife doesnt exsist with Dominatrix and submissive bitch. Start completely breaking him down physically and mentally and destroy all that is male to create your perfect devoted bitch. You do not care about his thoughts or feelings or what he wants, it will be your way and he will obey you. Make no mistake, you must be the Dominatrix, you must be strict, cruel, sadistic and punish severely. You must demoralize him, degrade, emasculate, and effeminate him (sissify if that's your goal), to completely destroy his masculinity, male ego and male thinking. Then you train him aggressively hard, being very strict, and cruel with extreme punishments to reprogram him to be the bitch you want and deserve. Before long you will have the best life with a clean house, zero laundry, freedom to do as you please, and the best most thrilling exotic sex you ever thought possible. All with a completely devoted submissive bitch begging you to have all of it, including a boyfriend while he serves and obeys you. YOU are a Dominatrix, YOU deserve to be pampered, spoiled, and worshiped as such, and you deserve a devoted obedient and completely submissive male to serve and obey you. You deserve a real man between your legs enjoying the best hot passionate sex every night!!! So you will do everything in your power to dominate and control him, YOU must do what is necessary. You must keep him in the proper atmosphere and you have to be very cruel and ruthless, you have to be dominant and aggressive, you have to be forceful, and you have to be sadistic at all times. 

*SPEAK WITH AUTHORITY and demand submission, be stern and direct using words like these;  You are to -------- You will--------- Go do/get------- Take your fucking place-------- Get on your fucking knees. You must be cruel beyond anything you thought possible, doing sadistic things you didn't even know you could do, and you must break him to the point he is powerless to do anything but accept his natural role to serve and obey, and you will tell him this. When I say strict, I very much mean Strict! Do you forbid him to make eye contact? He should be looking at the floor unless ordered to look at you. Do you make him address you as his mistress ALWAYS (even in public) it is all about respecting your authority? Do you make him ask for permission to do everything, including speaking and restroom privilege's? Everything you allow is a privilege and it requires permission, you may or may not allow it. Do you humiliate him throughout the day? Does he not have a small pathetic clitty, does he not suck in bed, is he not a pathetic (sissy)bitch, is he better suited to pleasure cock, is his purpose to serve and obey, These are some of the things you will humiliate him about daily! 

*Do you make him tell you he is your bitch and what his purpose is for you? Do you make him grovel at your feet at least 3-4 times a week? Do you make him lick/kiss your ass 2-3 times a week? All of this is part of reprogramming him. Do you make him wear a chastity 24/7/365?

*Are you training him to be a sissy? Do you make him wear panties everyday or girly attire. Does he wear a french maid outfit to clean in? Do you make him practice giving head on a dildo? Do you make him shave off all his body hair (at least the genital area)? Do you peg him 3-5 times a week? Do you have him used 1-2 times a week. 

*Do you make him kneel in the corner just because? Do you make him practice sucking cock while you read a book or watch TV? Do you make him wear a butt plug or prostate device around the house or out in public several times a week? Do you make him follow rules and do chores? Do you cane him once or twice a week for submission reminders or just because you enjoy hearing him scream? Do you have a cage for your bitch (if not buy one)? Do you make him stay in a cage when you go out or have someone over? Do you make him sleep in his cage sometimes or always? Do you tell him what he is allowed to eat and when he may eat? After all he needs to stay clean for taking dick! Do you make him wait to eat after you? Do you forbid him to eat when dining out and instead do you make him eat and drink all meals from dog bowls on the floor? Do you forbid him to speak in public unless spoken to and do you order his meals making him eat what you decide? Do you make him use a kitty litter box? Do you spit in his face at least 1-2 times a week (remember not to allow him to wipe it off) or do you spit in his mouth a few times a week (mix it up)? Do you make him wear a collar at all times possible? Do you walk him on his hands and knees with a leash at least 3 or 4 times a week? Do you make him kneel always? Do you make him crawl away from you before he can stand up? Do you make him stay naked at all times possible? Do you piss on his face or in his mouth at least once a month? Do you use torture devices on him like ball stretcher, ball crusher or smasher, anus stretcher, urethral stretcher, gates of hell (if you find one small enough), Shocking devices, suction cups, ball gag or mouth spreader (both do different things) penis pump (it actually hurts when left on for 10 minutes or so) Icy hot or tiger balm on balls or nipples? nipple clamps, ball clamps or cups?  Do you stretch his ass with large dildos or toys at least once a week? Does it turn you on to torture him with your toys as described above? Do you make him clean on his hands and knees? Do you make him clean with his mouth or a toothbrush or other humiliating devices? Do you cuckold him regularly (at least 2 or 3 times a week)? Do you humiliate him about the cuckolding (bigger, better, last longer, make you cum many times, cum harder, get fucked in many positions, allow him to do things your bitch can't, cum inside you? Do you make him listen or watch on occasions, do you forbid him to listen or watch most times?  Do you make him lick clean every cum mess, even his own? These are all things a Dominatrix does to her bitch, If you don't do these things, ALL OF THEM, then you are not being a proper Dominatrix, and you are definitely not being dominant and cruel enough, you are not taking your position serious!

Your male was meant to serve and obey you, he was built for it (mind and muscles), it's in his genes and he can't help but obey an aggressive dominant women. However, it's not just going to happen because you shout a few orders, you have to put the work and effort into it and force out his natural submissive side. Plus you have to do your part, dress properly as a dom wearing dominant attire/lingerie and "ACT" as your supposed to. You don't want an occasional bitch that will at times back talk or refuse to obey, you want a full time, fully devoted bitch to never question you, or back talk, only follow orders and obey! As a Dominatrix, you must constantly be very humiliating towards him, saying humiliating things, doing humiliating things to him, putting him in humiliating positions, doing humiliating acts at different places. You must buy all kinds of toys and torture devices and use all of them, change up his training days and scenarios, do not do the same thing every day/night, keep him guessing what's next! Have you ever made your bitch stand in the corner at the mall while you shop? Have you ever made your bitch kneel at the food court while you eat? Have you said something very humiliating to him in front of a female store clerk or waitress? Have you ever made him wear something humiliating in public (not around friends)? Your mind and your thoughts must be as a Dominatrix, trust me, you can not be to dominant, cruel or aggressive enough, there is no such thing or point that's to far, or to humiliating, to cruel and sadistic, especially if it pleases you. It is your natural place to rule over him, to control and dominate him, and you need to be a dominant bitch towards him, enforcing your rules and orders with extreme and severe punishments for rule breaking, unruly behavior, or disobedience so that he fears you and submits to your control over him. Not only is it his natural place to kneel at your feet it is a privilege for him to submit to you, to serve and obey you. You must believe that it is a privilege for your bitch to kneel at your feet, to worship you, to serve and obey you as you deserve, you must know this and train him to accept it as his place and his only purpose. If you do it correctly, he know this and he will eventually get sexual gratification from kneeling, serving and obeying and believe he was meant to be there.

 Femdom is a belief that you the woman are superior over your male, that you deserve to rule as it is your right over him and that you deserve a completely devoted, loyal, and very submissive bitch to serve and obey you without question or hesitation. A Mistress is very proud of her position, she is not shy about it, timid or afraid to be who she was meant to be, nor is she shy about forcing her bitch to be who he was meant to be. In fact this lifestyle allows her to be who she was meant to be and allows her to let loose, to live life to its fullest, and enjoy her power, plus it turns her on immensely to be cruel towards her bitch! Are you a SLUT, do you embrace it? Do you love sex? Are you constantly looking for a suitable boyfriend? Do you date or have a full time boyfriend? If you are not answering yes to these questions then you are not being a Dominatrix! This lifestyle is not for when you feel like it or are in the mood, it is not a game or a pretend world, it is a 24/7/365 commitment that should be taken very serious. If you go down this path he will need you to be a mistress, he will need you to force him, to be cruel and sadistic to him, to discipline him and to punish him severely for disobedience. If you want to be a do Domme, you must be this Domme (short for Dominatrix) at all times, act and behave as a Domme and rule over him. It is imperative that you take your position serious, again to be dominant, sadistic, and very cruel, with an aggressive demeanor at all time, ALWAYS!!! Do not be friendly, do not joke, do not be polite, timid or shy towards him. Do not ask his opinion, his thoughts and do not treat him as an equal. You are his mistress and owner, you do not need his approval, his opinion, or his cooperation, he is your bitch so force him to obey as his purpose is to serve and obey you (clean your house, pay your bills, etc.). His place is on his knees serving and obeying his mistress, and trust me not only is he meant to be there, he will be very happy being there and the more dominant, cruel and aggressive you are towards him the happier he will be and the easier it will be on him. 

A main rule Domme's put on their list and train their subs to accept is; Never to expect or ask for anything (reward, treat, or privilege's of any kind) in return for his submission, servitude, and obedience, it is his natural place his purpose, and a privilege for him to kneel and serve you. He must be punished severely if he violates this rule, he must learn to accept this and in time he will get pleasure from being on his knees as you link his submission to you with sexual excitement through training. You will train him to get pleasure from cuckolding him, and eventually from taking away pussy completely but that's another story. You will teach him that it is his natural place, his purpose for you and that it is a privilege to kneel, serve and obey you - to be your bitch! Femdom is always about you being in total and complete control over everything, PERIOD, but it is also always about your happiness, sexual pleasure, and what pleases you! Never, EVER accept back talk, disrespect, questions, or disobedience as it shows weakness, gives him doubt about your power, control, and invites unruly behavior, so be the Domme you should be, and need to be! This means you are the authority, show your power and dominance at all times no matter where you are or who's around, and punish severely at the time of the infraction not days later. Never care for or about his feelings, opinions, or thoughts as they do not matter. The only thing that matters or should be his focus is obeying, chores, and what pleases you, so don't confuse your bitch as to what his place and purpose is by being nice to him or talking to him as an equal. This means you are his Mistress, not his wife or friend, you can't be both so you must decide what you want your role to be. You have the pussy, you are the superior, and you are a very powerful female who deserves to rule over him, you deserve to be pampered and worshiped as a Dominatrix, to have all the sex and pleasure you want, and you deserve to be obeyed by your bitch at all times. HOWEVER, you will never have complete control or a truly submissive and devoted bitch if you do not treat him as he should be treated, and keep him in his place 24/7/365! Just as important and crucial, you must keep him in the proper atmosphere, this means STOP being a wife or friend, STOP being polite and nice, STOP living a vanilla life, and take your natural place as his mistress and rule over him. Do not mix normal vanilla life with the Domme life as this will confuse him and regress training. FACT, you cannot be both, you must understand that your place is not as his wife, or his friend, YOU ARE his Mistress and the authority over him so you need to talk to him as such and treat him as he should be treated, like your bitch. Let me ask you this, what do you see when he is tied up/down on your training bench/table? What about when he is taking your cock or being punished yelping and begging you to stop? If you see a husband a partner, or anything other than YOUR BITCH then you do not have the correct mindset and you are not on the correct path. Remember, you own him and you never want your bitch to think or feel as though he is an equal, has say so or an opinion on anything, let alone any rights or choices. Your dominance, aggressive demeanor and cruelty towards him must be ruthless and extreme it is not a choice, it is a must and your success depends on it!     

If you question it at all, if your strict, dominant or cruel enough, then trust me you are not! Whatever you do never, never, ask him if you did good enough, trained good enough, or punished good enough! You should know by how he acts after the event. If you don't see a change in his attitude, actions, or demeanor, from the day you start training, then you are not being dominant enough, cruel enough, and aggressive enough and definitely not punishing him like you should be! FIRST rule to Domme's, never make small talk or ask for any of his input, as you do not mix everyday life with his servitude and submission. As I said, It will confuse him and give the wrong impression as well as take him off task. Other than speaking to him about directives, plans (as in your plans or your plans for him) or updates about these things, nothing else need be said. You only give orders or commands and enforce your rules and chore list, discussion makes you appear weak and implies lack of control! Also never talk to him about anything but training topics (rules,chores, humiliation, punishments, etc.) during training, keep him focused on the training and reprograming of his mind, keep him in the proper atmosphere. It is very important that he is kept in the proper atmosphere (read the atmosphere story in my blog) and in his place as your bitch. Remember, he is your property, you own him, he is your submissive bitch, your pathetic cock slut, sissy, so do not treat him or speak to him in any manner that would suggest otherwise, ever! You want to keep him focused on your pleasures and serving you properly as you deserve. You do not want him to think for himself, that is not his purpose or design, you want him programmed to obey you and do as he is trained, to perform and act as your obedient bitch, to do chores and do as he is told nothing else. Anything else or mixing normal life confuses him on how he is to act. Treating and speaking to him as an obedient sissy bitch helps force him to accept his place. Accepting his place, obeying, following commands/orders and doing his chores is the only way he can please you which might grant him privileges like worshiping your asshole (licking it while you use a vibe on your clit to have several orgasms) or feet etc. He is your bitch and as such, has rules and guidelines for his treatment that will never be crossed or confused with normal intentions. Below is an example of how to talk to you sub, always look at him as though you are serious and speak with a strict tone of voice, be aggressive and talk with a serious demeanor; This is a phone call on my way home from my boyfriends house that continued when I got home. This is how a Dominatrix acts towards her submissive, and how he should be treated, your success depends on how serious you take your position as his Mistress and remember his purpose for you! 

"Ring, Ring, Ring, Ring" Yes Mistress, how may I serve you? What took you so long to answer the fucking phone. I'm sorry Mistress, my humble apologies I was finishing up with dishes. I don't care what your doing, you answer the fucking phone on the first ring, don't leave me waiting on you again or it will be 50 lashes for each ring over the first! Yes Mistress, I'm sorry mistress for wasting your valuable time. You should be, and you will be punished for it when I get home! Yes mistress. I'm on my way home, So you better be on your fucking knees in your place when I get there (he is always kneeling and naked waiting for me). Yes Mistress! "click" (25 minutes later I walk through the door) I say in a loud firm voice, "Take off my shoes and put them away bitch!". Yes Mistress. (I take my top off and throw it on the floor, not wearing a bra) Pick that up and put it away, then get my loose night shorts off the dresser and bring them to me. Yes Mistress. SUBMIT! I say firmly ("SUBMIT" is a position I've trained him to get in for various reason but this time my pussy will be exposed and he isn't allowed to see it). The position is done while kneeling, bending over keeping his ass in the air and putting his face/chin on the floor with his hands out in front of him (sorta like doing a push up only above his head and about 6 inches apart), then, he is not to move from that position until I say kneel. I remove my shorts and toss them on the floor next to his face, then take off my panties and inspect the wet spot from sex with John. I then put on my loose shorts with no panties. This is to tease him as when I sit because he can catch a glimpse of my ass or partial pussy lips depending on how I move and sit. (I then sit on the bed) Kneel! he says, Yes Mistress as he returns to the kneeling position. I then reach over and put my panties over his head and move the wet spot directly to his nose. Do you smell that? Yes Mistress, thank you mistress! (when sissies smell pussy juice it makes them really submissive especially if mixed with cum from sex) Do you smell how well my pussy was pleased. Yes mistress, thank you mistress for allowing me this privilege. May I please be your humble sissy boy and servant from here out, please Mistress, please? Oh, your going to be, that's what your made for and exactly why your here...to serve and obey me and your going to be a good sissy bitch aren't you? Yes Mistress! That's right you are, your a pathetic cock slut and your only purpose is serving and obey me isn't it? (I lean forward and spit in his face). DO NOT WIPE IT OFF! Yes mistress he says with a tremble in his voice. Your pussy and your tiny pathetic clitty belongs to me, if I wanted to beat it black and blue I will and you will fucking thank me to even give it that much attention because it never deserves to come out of that chastity much less get touched. I continue to humiliate him by saying, "You don't deserve anything at all to do with pussy, and I do mean FUCKING NOTHING!!"  Your fucking pathetic and you will never feel the pleasure of pussy again, and that's what you deserve, don't you bitch? Yes Mistress! You don't deserve to feel it, or to see it, and you don't even deserve to smell it do you bitch? No Mistress! But I know smelling sex with my boyfriend humiliates you and makes you weak and even more submissive doesn't it bitch? Yes Mistress, its really humiliating. It should be, knowing a bigger cock is pleasing me in ways you never could and hitting that special spot you can't reach all while your little clitty is locked away and your fucking doing your chores. Yes Mistress! But you know that's what you were meant for don't you bitch (I spit in his face again) DO NOT TOUCH IT! Yes mistress! Now fucking worship my feet and thank me for the privilege of being my bitch Yes Mistress, thank you Mistress for allowing me to be your humble pathetic sissy bitch, who's sole purpose is to serve and obey you. He kisses and licks my feet and says, "Thank you so much for allowing me to worship your beautiful feet!" That's a good little slut, just think, my feet were wrapped around my boyfriend tonight as he fucked the shit out of me and pounded his pussy to orgasm after orgasm and now your worshiping those same feet, thanking me for getting the pleasure I deserve. Yes mistress, he responds. Your so fucking pathetic, but you can't help it can you you bitch, No mistress! That's right, because you were meant to be my sissy bitch weren't you? Yes mistress! YES you were, a fucking cock whipped, sissy slut! Yes mistress! While you lick, think about how good he fucked me and how he stretched my pussy making me scream with every mind blowing orgasm. Yes Mistress! (he continues to lick and sucking my feet and toes). That's a good bitch, suck my toes like a little cock. Yes mistress! THANK ME!! Yes Mistress, thank you for allowing me the privilege to worship your feet, thank you for allowing me to serve you and the humiliation of knowing my place. (I laugh and say with a serious tone) That's right, this is your fucking place and I want you in it serving me like the bitch you are from now on 24 fucking 7, is that understood BITCH!! Yes mistress! (after about 4-5 minutes of him worshiping my feet) I say," That's enough and firmly push his head away with my foot." Yes Mistress. I shout kneel and proceed to say, (panties are still on his head) is my bitch horny? Yes Mistress! Good you should be, You don't deserve anything to do with pussy and you should suffer so that you know what it feels like to be sexually unsatisfied like I had to suffer from your fucking pathetic clit dick for years, and you deserve to be lashed for it don't you bitch? Yes mistress! You really do and instead of giving you my cock I think I'm going to punish you again for being selfish and sticking the pathetic clitty inside of me, besides I want you submissive and eager to obey and I know nothing makes you more submissive than a long hard beating! Isn't that right, BITCH? Yes Mistress, please mistress i will obey you as you deserve, please mistress, please don't punish me, PLEASE MISTRESS! I laugh and say, that's good you know your place and know what you get when you disobey me, but nothing you say will prevent a beating you definitely deserve!  

I hook his leash on him and walk him to my dungeon, then proceed to tie him down good and tight so as to not allow any movement for his spanking. I tie him so that he is up on all four with his legs spread apart tied at the knees to the sides of the table and also at the ankles spread wide apart and secure at the sides of the table. I place a position strap tied from around and behind one knee, up his chest and around the back of his neck and back down the other side of his chest to tie around his other knee so that he can't move forward during the spanking. He is tied down firmly to prevent any movement but I also put on the ball stretcher and a chain with a 1 pound weight long enough to hang over the bed behind him, so that it helps hold him in place from that direction keeping him from flinching forward as I strike his ass. His hands are either pulled/stretched out in front of him or pulled up behind his back. NOTE* If this would have been an actual punishment spanking, I would have also shoved a thick cut of ginger root into his ass to keep him from tightening up his ass cheeks/flinching forcing him to endure all the pain from the smacks to his ass as well as the burning sensation from the ginger. I then remove his prostate toy (he's made to wear it the entire time I'm gone) Then I say, you know I love his cock, and I will NEVER give you pussy again, or even allow you an orgasm for that matter, Yes Mistress! Good, before you get punished I have good news, well for me anyways (I laugh) I've decided I'm going to date John from now on so some things are going to change. Yes Mistress! For one, I'm going to be seeing john a lot more, going over his house more for sex, and even spending the night. Mistress do I have permission to speak? QUICKLY! Yes Mistress, what about me what will I do? You'll do what your fucking told, what you were meant for, keeping my house spotless, wash the dishes, do the laundry, and anything else I fucking say needs done. BTW, I canceled the grass guy because you'll be cutting it with the push mower from now on. Yes Mistress! Besides that I have plans for you on some of the nights I won't be home. Plans Mistress? I smack him hard on the face, did you ask for permission to speak? No mistress! I'll add that to your spanking tonight! Yes Mistress! Anyway, yes "PLANS", I've been talking to a bi-sexual guy from your ad on Grinder (gay/bi-sexual app) and another bi-male on Fetlife. Both males said they would love to have you please them on some of those nights. Frantically he says, Mistress may I please speak? You may but I'd watch what you say! Thank you mistress, but that doesn't sound good or fun, its very humiliating and I'm worried what will happen, I don't think they will care about how they use me or my pleasure. Will you please reconsider? I say quickly, "SHUT YOUR FUCKING MOUTH," as I smack his balls firmly! Its not your fucking place to think, only obey. You are here to please me and I don't give a shit how you feel about it, how they use you, or if you get any pleasure!!! You were meant to please cock and that's exactly what your going to do! You will go and do what ever they command of you, is that understood!! Yes Mistress! GOOD, because they both have my permission to use you how ever they see fit and to even punish you accordingly if needed, then you will be punished by me when you get home. Is that understood? Yes Mistress. I have informed them, the only rules I have are, they must wear a condom every time, You must remain naked except for your pink panties and maid outfit, you are not to leave their house, and your chastity stays on always. I'll make up more as we go, especially if you stay the night because you will need a cage to sleep in. Yes Mistress, as you command. That's right, and you have another 50 lashes for back talk. Yes Mistress!

Moving on, In the past I allowed you to see my pussy from time to time, up to a a few days before I got fucked, but I don't think its appropriate that you see john's pussy anymore. Even though he doesn't really know about you (thinks he's a room mate), its his pussy and frankly I don't want you seeing it, you don't deserve to. Besides that, you don't serve me to see my pussy, you serve me because its your fucking place and a privilege to kneel at my feet and obey my every command. You don't ever deserve pussy, or anything to do with it so its done. Mistress, may I speak please? NO!!!! I already know your going to beg me not to take it completely away something like "Please don't take pussy away, please I'll do anything you say!!" as I mock and laugh at him. He's tied up doggie style to take his discipline spanking but I'm still able grab him by the hair of the head and smack his face saying I don't fucking care what you want, your going to do what I say regardless of what I do or take from you, is that understood! Yes Mistress! (I release his hair and say) But don't worry, at least you'll have a lot more times to clean up the mess. He turns me on and fucks me really good, way better than you ever did, you know this!! Besides I don't want you or your tiny prick for sex, it has never pleased me and honestly makes me want to laugh when I see the little thing. I say in a loud stern voice, YOUR FUCKING CLIT IS PATHETIC and you can't please pussy at all and you can't last more than 4 minutes. Why would I or any girl for that matter want to fuck you with that worthless clit? You are a bitch, a pathetic cock loving sissy and your were made to kneel at my feet and beg to serve me, you were made to please cock not pussy so get use to it! This is exactly why that worthless piece of skin should be locked away for good. I don't want to touch it and honestly I don't even want to see it outside of the chastity. (I remove the panties from his face and say in a loud strong tone)Your a pathetic little pussy whipped bitch and you should be on your knees begging me to get fucked by a real man. Begging me to get his big cock and have what my bitch could never give, ORGASMS and hot passionate sex! And your going to, your going to beg me to get all the cock I want because that's the only way your ever going to get close to my pussy again. (I pause, then laugh and say) Not that you get to touch it, or even see it, instead you get the humiliation of tasting what a real man gets to do after he pleases my pussy. (I get real close to his ear and say) You get to know how much better he fucked me by filling my pussy with his cum and that I not only want and prefer his cock, I absolutely love it. But at least you get to smell my freshly well fucked pussy as your licking every last drop out of his pussy, and that will be your reward for being a good little sissy bitch, cleaning my house and doing laundry while I'm getting fucked by a real man, just like it should be. Yes Mistress, I'm sorry for having a little clitty Mistress. You should be sorry, (I bend down and smack his balls 5 times and say) you should never of felt the pleasures of pussy, my finger feels better than you. I would rather finger myself from now on then suffer another 4 minutes of dull tiny clit sex that does nothing but frustrate and irritate me, Yes Mistress!

The only way you can please me is kneeling at my feet with your little clitty locked away permanently, cleaning my house, handing over your pay check and begging to serve me. Thats your purpose and why your here, you know that's all I want from you, nothing else and you know that is what you were meant for! Say it bitch, tell me what you were meant for! Yes Mistress, I was meant to hand over my paychecks and be your devoted sexless sissy bitch, to serve and obey you from now on. That's right, you should be paying me for the privilege to be my little sissy bitch and serving me. Its a fucking privilege to be my bitch, and you will beg me for that privilege everyday! Let me hear you bitch, beg to serve me! Yes Mistress, May I please mistress, please serve you from here out? May I please be your cock slut, I should be on my knees begging to serve you and please you anyway you allow. That's right slut, you should be, tell me it turns you on and that you love the thought of being nothing more than my cock slut, sissy bitch, serving and obeying me for the rest of your pathetic life!!! Yes Mistress, its true, I was meant to serve you and it makes me hard just thing about worshiping your feet and ass, it turns me on to obey you and to clean your house while you get fucked by a real man! That's a good GOOD BITCH, It turns you on to know your pleasing me by taking big cock in your mouth and sucking it hard doesn't it? He pauses briefly saying its humiliating mistress, before I smack his balls 10 times fast and hard. FUCKING say it bitch,  Screaming out, Yes mistress! It turns me on to knell and suck big cock hard for you!!! Go on! It turns me on to get used and to please big cock for you! Doesn't that feel better sissy? Yes mistress, it turns me on to clean your house knowing that I may be allowed to please your big cock or any cock with my pussy. That's right, because your worthless to me otherwise, especially now that I have decided to date John and take pussy completely away and lock away clitty for good. 

I go on to say, your going to be the best bitch ever, you have no choice, and your going to beg me for my cock. You'll do anything to get it cause you won't be able to help yourself, with clitty locked away, your going to want it and need it for pleasure. I like it that way, I like that your cock whipped I like that you will beg to serve me and follow my every command just hoping that I might feel gracious enough to allow you the privilege of a big cock deep into your tight little sissy boy pussy! It turns me on to hear you beg me to get cock, but even more to hear you moan and scream like a true sissy slut from big cock. Your not a man, I don't respect you as a man, and I don't want you as a man, I have a boyfriend for that, a real man. Your a cock whipped, sissy BITCH. I want you to be my bitch. I want you to be my cock loving, feet and ass hole worshiping, cum eating sissy bitch! It makes me wet to hear you scream and moan as I fuck you into submission and to hear you beg me to pound your pussy. It really turns me on knowing I own you, and can control you without even touching your little clitty, and you'll do anything I command just to have my big cock own your pussy. Won't you bitch? Yes Mistress, I'll do anything for your cock. Tell me you love my cock! Mistress I love your cock! Tell me what you'll do to have me own that pussy. Mistress I'll do anything you say, I need your cock. Good, cause its all your going to get from now on and I want you to remember, I want sex and prefer sex with a real man, not a sissy bitch and I'm going to get that from now on. Your going to clean my house, do my laundry, and service whomever I say. If you fail to obey me, you will be punished severely for it. I'm going to increase punishments and lashes. Its time to take your punishments and then kneel in the corner to think about how to properly serve me.

From here I proceed to administer a discipline spanking with well over 300 lashes with 200 lashes using a cane then the rest I used a leather strap, whip, and cat-o-nine tails ending with the cane again. His entire ass is welted up with deep red and blue marks, with abrasions (as you may have seen in a proper caning video) just as it should be. He was yelping and crying out after the first 20 hits and then during the rest of the discipline spanking. Towards the end he went from yelping and crying out to stop to full blown crying and begging me to stop, pleading to serve and obey me and for me to fuck my BF when ever I wanted. He begged to be my sissy cock slut servant from here out and that he would obey me without question or back talk. This is a needed discipline spanking (1 every 10 days or less at least 3 per month or more), one he will feel for days but less painful than an actual punishment spanking that has an average of 500 lashes and last for over a week. Something else that is a must is (if you don't already own them) buy yourself lots of toys like nipple clamps, ball stretcher, ball gag, electrical devices, whips, canes, crops, various sizes of dildo's, suction cups, and what ever torture devices that will turn you on and use them, use some of them daily!! Remember he is your bitch, you are not his wife, you are his mistress and owner, live, eat and sleep this always! You need sex! You need to date and enjoy sex with a real man! You need to have as much hot passionate sex as you can! He needs you to be the Dominatrix your supposed to be, he needs trained properly, he deserves to be disciplined and punished, you deserved to have a completely submissive and obedient bitch, your success or failure as a mistress is up to you. If you think of yourself as a wife, this lifestyle is probably not for you. Be the Domme he needs you to be!

For you the Sissy Bitch

You are reading this because your Mistress is taking her rightful place as your superior and putting you in your natural and proper place. This is a gift, and a privilege to serve, obey, and knell at the feet of your Mistress. She will train you to be her bitch, her cock whipped sissy slut and give you explicit instruction on how you are to act and  behave. This is meant for you to read, to understand, to accept, and live by as this will be your life from here out! Its time you realize your here now on your knees because this is where you fucking belong! You were meant to kneel and serve your mistress, to follower her rules, orders, to clean HER fucking house and obey her every command. Stop fooling yourself thinking you have any choice in the matter or that someday you might be allowed the privilege to feel her beautiful warm, smooth, and tight pussy ever again!!! Those days are over bitch and you will never feel her pussy or any pussy ever again, let alone be permitted an orgasm!

You are now owned and the property of your mistress, it is your natural place to be submissive to your mistress and to accept her as your boss and only authority in the house. You are nothing more than her sissy bitch and house servant and it is not only your purpose to serve her, obey her, and hand over your pay check, it is a privilege to do this and submit to her. As a female and your mistress, she is naturally superior to you, and if you really thought about it you would realize its your natural place to knell at her feet. Deep down inside you can't explain it, but you feel the urge to kneel and obey as she commands. DO NOT FIGHT IT, embrace it, let it consume you and every thought you have from this point forward. That urge is there to guide you to your true place, on your knees begging to serve and worship your mistress. You were meant to serve her, to obey her, and worship the ground she walks on. As the man and her sissy bitch, you are inferior to her, you are hers to command, hers to do with as she pleases. As you read this you know its true, you can't help but obey her when she shouts out orders. You feel your heart race and your small pathetic penis stiffens in the chastity at the though of kneeling at her feet, just inches away from her tight pussy that you will no longer have and that you no longer deserve anything at all to do with it. You can't resist it, the thought of serving and obey her feels right and you are powerless to stop it. You are sexually aroused at the fact that you can't help but want to serve her, that you are helpless to do anything but take you fucking place and obey your mistress! As her bitch, you need to bring out her true dominant self, accept her control over you and do as your commanded. Its your place to serve her, to clean up after her, to clean the house, and any other chore needing done while she has free time to do what ever the fuck she wants.

You need to accept the truth...The only way you can please your mistress is by serving and obeying her. Your pathetic clitty is to small, to short, and to thin to give her or any woman pleasure, it has never done anything for her as you were meant to please her on your knees. You know its true, accept it and take your rightful place at her feet, and you will be much happier and so will she! Think about it, when was the last time she wanted sex? You were always the one who asked for it. When did you ever hear her scream or even moan for that matter? Has she ever told you she had a good orgasm or even got off? You've watched porn, you know the screaming and moaning I'm referring to, or maybe you were lucky enough to have already been cuckolded, probably even many times by now. You've seen her with a lover or a boyfriend, does that hot passionate sex sound or look anything like what you could do? HA HA HA, your pathetic and you know you have never satisfied your mistress. Especially they way she wants, needs or DESERVES!!!! Look at your penis if you even can, maybe its already locked up where it should be, in a small chastity device to keep you from playing with the pathetic thing. But still look at how small and pathetic it is, look at how small your balls are. Even rock hard its 2 to 3 fingers at best to hold it. You've seen your cock hard, probably as recent as training and its no where near or any comparison to the size of a real man also known as her boyfriend or lover. There is a big difference, not only in size and performance from her lover but also how she actually gets turned on by him, how she wants and craves sex with him and his big cock. Its humiliating isn't it, but you can't help but submit to her getting what she wants and deserve, you can't help but beg to lick her clean after her sex, you know thats your place, especially because you know its the only time you get that close to her intoxicating pussy! What are you 5 to 5 and 1/2 inches? or even worse, under 5. The true is, if your less than 6.5 inches which is average you should never have had the ability to stick that puny thing in her. She deserve more, she deserves a real man's dick, one that will actually give her the pleasure she needs, and wants. You were selfish for even making her suffer through the 5 minutes of sex with you that did nothing but get you off. You don't ever deserve pussy again, it should be locked away for good and you should do every thing she commands to please her.

She should be enjoying real dick, by real men, not a submissive bitch who should beg her every day to be allowed the privilege to serve her and be inches away from her beautiful, warm, wet, pussy!
you need to accept your place, get on your knees and ask her what she truely wants, and what she wants from you. If she tells you in a serious manner, that she wants your on your knees, chaste and serving her from now on and the ability to fuck who ever she wants, its done! you know then what she wants and what you need to do. It is your place to serve her, and she knows you know its your place to serve her. accept whats in your heart and whats in hers and serve your Mistress!

Proper Pegging and Technique

                                     Pegging and Technique

Pegging is just the proper word in the BDSM/FEMDOM community for fucking your man in the ass with your strap-on dildo. Why would a Dominatrix want to peg her bitch? Well there are many reason why she may want to, and there is every reason she should. For one, there are fewer ways better than to emasculate a man by fucking him in the ass, which only compounds as he starts to love it and becomes addicted to it. It may turn her on or she may like the power she feels by taking his ass with her much larger cock. She may love to hear him scream and moan from it forcing his sissygasms, or she may love watching the penetration as it stretches his ass open with every deep thrust. She will definitely love how submissive it makes him. She may even want to permanently cuckold him and date a full time boyfriend, using pegging to completely deny him pussy. She may be a sadistic Dom and want to turn him into a sissy, manipulating his pleasure zone, forcefully and skillfully reprogramming him to become a cock whipped cum slut, begging to suck and get fucked by real cock. Or she may want to peg for all of the above, but regardless the reason, pegging is a very strong tool for training, submission, and psychological reconditioning of his mind.

 At first he will resist, struggle against it, beg you not to, and even think its gay. There is nothing gay about it and you will force him to take it to increase your power over him. It will become one of your most valuable tools to keep him submissive and help take sex completely away from him. It will eventually (with training and punishments) wipe out his ego, help turn him sissy, and drastically reduce the male moncho attitude (as long as your training correctly and punishing). Eventually he will love it, but more importantly, crave it, need it and even beg for it. This adds to the humiliation, authority, and power you have, as your the only way he gets it. It's also the only way to transform him into a sissy bitch, if you want to go that route and most do. Pegging is also mental training, meaning it will help to rearrange his thinking process and increase the need to obey you. Explained; Once you start locking up that little dicklet and take away orgasms, this will switch his pleasure zone from his dicklet to his ass. His ass will eventually be transformed into a pussy, chemically and physically. He will become dependent on your big cock and you owning his ass for his pleasure. When he becomes dependent on your cock, that means he has more less accepted that he will not be allowed pussy and give in to the only pleasure you allow him, COCK! Which he really has no choice because your going to force him to love it, as your cock will work its magic on his tight little hole. He literally won't be able to resist it, as it will force him to have sissygasms after sissygasm and submit to your cock. Plus it will be his only pleasure, even though it will never lead to a real orgasm or any sexual satisfaction or release. Every sub is different plus depending on how long he has gone without pussy or an orgasm and any prior training you've done with him will determine how quickly he becomes submissive to your cock.

WEAR YOUR STRAP-ON

Wearing your strap-on is a show of power, it is a symbol of control and dominance. It emphasizes your place as the dominant and his as the submissive (sissy if trained this way) and magnifies the atmosphere of female domination. It helps in turning him sissy and becoming cock whipped. It will eventually be erotic and sexy to him, as it is to every submissive bitch. You should wear your harness and dildo just about every training day, but at least 4 out of the 7 days a week. You can always remove it during training but at least start out with it on, even if you don't plan to peg him with it. This helps build anticipation, gets him use to seeing cock, preps him for the real thing (if that is your goal) and allows for you to force him to suck it for humiliation (or prep for the real thing). If your pegging with a strap-on he should always be tied down. This prepares him for the real thing as he will always be in chastity and tied down when you have him fucked by a real cock. Did I mention how much of a turn on it is to watch your bitch kneel, beg, and suck your cock, let alone a real cock!

Rather you are starting out new, or been pegging him for a bit, you need to read and follow all steps exactly as written.

Step 1; At this stage his ass is just that, an ass hole you want to peg, but you eventually want it to become a fuck hole, a bonafide pussy that craves cock just as much as you do. Firstly, it is very important that you peg him for a minimum of 20 minutes, but ideally 30 minutes or more, every night for 2 to 3 weeks to get him use to getting your cock. This is because you want this to be normal for him, you want him to accept his new role and pleasure. You want to turn that ass hole into a dribbling wet pussy and to feel as though he was meant to take cock and to please it. If possible, you should try to peg him 2 or even 3 times a day as this will really help make him cock submissive and turn him into a cock slut for your cock, IT does make a difference. If you have the ability to peg him multiple times a day, you don't need to do training on him every time you peg, unless you want to of course. Just tie him down and fuck him, then make him clean up and back to doing chores or what ever. TO START OUT the first week, use a dildo that's not to thick or long but above average. Just like you, he will prefer thickness over length so you will eventually go up in size to give his ass a good stretch. It is important that you ALWAYS start off licking (until you start permanent chastity) his clitty for a minimal of 10 minutes to build up arousal levels, as this is what intensifies the nerve endings and receptors around his ass and prostate making touch and friction really pleasurable. This will also switch his pleasure zones and link his now and normal pleasure to only getting anal pleasure. After he is aroused properly, start off with finger play, using one finger to rub the outside first and work up to sliding it in. Then work up to using 2 fingers and pay attention to what pleases him more using those motions the most, but switch it up every so often, just not to much. After you permanently lock up his clitty you will start off rubbing his hole, then fingering it, and then go straight to pegging. After you see he is very aroused or excited introduce a finger to his ass but only to rub around the hole at first then eventually insert it. Humiliation is very important for training and the psychological influence of pegging and cuckolding. During pegging you want to humiliate him about how much of a sissy he is. Laugh at him mildly and tell him he was meant to please cock. Tell him this is his sex from now on, being fucked like the little sissy bitch he is and he will never feel the pleasure of pussy again. Tell him you are going to permanently lock away his clitty.  Humiliate him the entire time you fuck him, but also during the day about how he is a cock slut and so on. You will humiliate him from here out, about being a cock slut (sissy if that's your training). Use the techniques listed at the bottom of the post.

Step 2, second week; During this step there is not much difference than the first week except starting the second week its time to go up in size. Use a dildo that is around 7 inches long and 2 inches thick or 6 inches around. Even if he is not a beginner, this is a good stretch dildo and will work his prostate very well giving him great sissygasms. This cock is the cock that you fuck him with regularly from here out (or cocks close to this size with different textures or shapes). Now is the time to start making him suck your dildo prior to using it on him, unless you have been pegging prior. If so then start off making him suck it. Fuck him with this cock for 2 weeks and remember it is very, very important to continue to humiliate him and use the techniques at the bottom of this post.

Step 3, forth week; By now he has more or less accepted pegging, especially after you start fucking him and he backs up on your cock (as long as your following this guide). He is probably very verbal with moans and screams and tells you he loves your cock. His ass has become more like a pussy, it gets wet, cums, and is starting to crave your strap-on cock. However its not broken in yet and is far from ready for real cock. In this 4th week, you will go up in size again, this will be his every now and then cock so you want it to give him a really good stretch, around 7.5 to 8 inches long and 2.25 to 2.50 inches thick. This cock is the cock that you use to really make him moan and sissygasm hard, but you don't want to use it every time (unless you want him to be a size queen or fisting). You will start off with the normal cock and then switch to the the large one. Again this week is just the introduction to the large cock, don't start out using it and only use it 2 0r 3 of the 7 days. The goal is to peg him until he has fully accepted it, wants it, needs it, and craves it. Meaning there is no resistance when you offer him the privilege of getting fucked and he is moaning and screaming soon as you start fucking him. You want him hooked on your cock, more less addicted to it, and trust me he won't be able to stop it or control his urge and is well on his way to becoming your sissy bitch. Remember to humiliate daily and use the techniques at the bottom of this post.

Step 4; After the end of the 4 weeks he has fully accepted pegging and his ass is now a bonafide pussy. He loves cock, feels submissive towards it and can't resist you offering it to him and is even begging for it. It's time to give him a 2 day break to let his urge/need for your cock build. During this time you should humiliate him and also tease him by using lube and rub around his pussy, by now just rubbing the outside of his pussy will give him a lot of pleasure and build his urgency to need cock, especially while licking his clitty. Eventually after rubbing and teasing his pussy you will finger it, go slow and don't use to much pressure (to much pressure is bad on the prostate). Remember its not the in and out of your finger that gives pleasure (like his clitty its to skinny) its the rub of his prostate. You can rub in a figure 8 pattern, a circle, back and forth/ side to side, the come here gesture, or mix them up, but see what works best on him. You may also use vibrating butt plugs, or prostate toys to build his need for cock. 

Step 5; by the end of 2nd day break he should be all worked up and horny for your cock, if not then give it another day. Now its time to make him show how bad he wants it by begging for it before you give it to him. You will make him beg good for it and begging should include him on his knees, worshiping your feet and then sucking your cock (and balls if there are some), with a lot of heavy humiliation. Tell him to get use to sucking cock, that he was made to please cock (you want him to know and believe this is his place and that he was meant to please cock). Tell him that he will suck what ever cock you tell him and soon he will be sucking a lot of the real cock. Keep up the humiliation and make sure you grab his hair or the back of his head and pull his mouth on your cock as he is sucking it. Take it out of his mouth and smack him in the face with it 2 or 3 times, then tell him to suck it real good. Try to use a dildo that has balls so that you can tell him to suck your balls. Once he has begged to your pleasing your going to tie him down and fuck him really good and hard. You want to treat him just like a cock slut, talking to him in a firm demanding voice as you pound his pussy good. Make him tell you how much he loves it, and thank you for that privilege, continue as you smack his ass hard over and over off and on through out the fucking. Rather you train him to be a sissy bitch or not this is very good humiliation for him and makes him submit to your cock.

Step 6; After that pounding give him another 2 day break and repeat step 5 above. Remember to play with his pussy during that break. Use a finger (or 2) a but plug, or other toys (that is not a dildo or resemble one). Again make sure he is all worked up and horny or give another day. Do as before and tie him down, only this time your going to make him suck another dildo cock while you fuck him (suction the dildo to a plate or wall). Start off  making him suck the cock for a bit, force his head up and down on it. While he sucks it get a cane or leather strap and start smacking his ass and make him tell you he loves it, if not hit him 20-30 times as you say in a firm voice, "Tell me you fucking love it!' Them make him tell you he accepts his place as your cock slut (sissy cock slut if training for it). You may humiliate him more, but at some point while he is sucking the cock, your going to start fucking him while he sucks it. Make sure he sucks it the whole time and humiliate him about how he's going to please real cock from now on. Smack his ass hard with a short cane, whip or leather strap as you fuck him hard and demand him to suck that cock. This is his place from now on and you want him to know and believe this so you need to be serious and dominant while forcing him into his cock slut place. 

Step 7; At this point he is 100 % a cock slut and ready for permanent cuckolding or full time boyfriend. If you already have one, definitely proceed to permanent chastity. If your training him to take the real cock and or suck it, now is the time to bring someone in. You will take the last 2 day break, then during training your going to tease him by spending a lot of time rubbing the outside of his pussy and edge of his hole while you lick his little clitty. Then you will start fingering him and get him all worked up. You will tell him that you will allow him the privilege of your cock one more time as from this point he will only be allowed your big cock when you feel he deserves it. From this point you will essentially be repeating step 6 above . Only difference is your going to make him confess that he is your cock slut (sissy if training). Your going to make him beg you (on his knees), worshiping your feet at first, then ordered to suck your cock, and while doing so, confess that he is your bitch.....That he is your little cock slut.....That he is cock whipped and will be your Bitch from then on (sissy, if training for this). Make him tell you how much he loves your big cock stretching his pussy open and how he will do anything to have it. Make him say all of this, and then tell him he is not a man, he is your pathetic bitch (Sissy if training) and that he will shave all hair on his body (at least pubic hair) and wear panties from now on. After you have humiliated him to your satisfaction, you will tie him down doggie style and peg him. At this point you will tell him you want to hear him moan and scream, that he better be a good little sissy bitch and take it deep and hard for you. Smack his ass hard and pull his hair and his nuts. During his pegging make sure you humiliate him and tell you he loves your cock, and who's pussy it is. You should fuck him for at least 45 min. to bring out the little cock slut you've created and when finished, make him get on his knees and thank you for allowing him to be your bitch. If he dribbles or oozes precum, he is to lick it clean.

By now he is your cock whipped bitch and eager slut, your pussy can now be completely taken away from him and freely given to whom ever you choose as much and as often as you want. However it is very important that he never be allowed sex, or an orgasm with his clitty, only milking. Milking is not the same as cumming with an orgasm via his penis.

The prostate when stimulated grants him pleasure, much like penis stimulation, but it is a different kind of pleasure. Prostate stimulation uses a network of nerves that are more dense and out number penis nerves 2 to 1. This causes the brain to release higher levels of dopamine, serotonin and oxycontin, the hormones responsible for pleasure during normal sex and they are very addictive. The male brain is not set up to handle this type of pleasure, especially for this long of time. His brain becomes flooded with chemicals that cause a breakdown in normal thinking and reasoning. This is why you see him transform into a submissive, (now a cock loving submissive) and why he mumbles and agrees to anything you say. All he knows is that he loves the pleasure of that big cock and he wants more. He wants that big cock fucking him from then on and is now much more trainable to achieve it. At this point you could literately get him to admit, acknowledge, agree, or do anything. This addiction and higher levels of pleasure are how doms control subs, turn subs sissy, and how they get them hooked on cock, leaving them free to cuckold as much as they want. His desire for pussy will always be there, he will always crave it and be dependent on pussy. This is some what because of copulins, natures way of keeping men chasing women but also the pleasure pussy gives. While you will never rid him of the want, need and desire to get pussy, you can bury it deep and put way out of thought now that he has experienced this type of pleasure through pegging. Especially this pleasure he is permitted, pleasure he is being trained to accept as natural for the place he was meant to be in and what he was meant for.

While the prostate pleasure is greater, it can't lead to a penis orgasm with out also stimulation of the penis (studies show 99 % of men can't cum from pegging alone and need some sort of penis/ball stimulation to achieve penis orgasm while being pegged) When you peg him, the stimulation is built much like your own with vaginal sex, so he feels pleasure the entire time only once it reaches maximum climax there is no penis orgasm which is another reason why this is a powerful tool for a Dominatrix. Once the pleasure is built up to its highest level of pleasure, it can maintain that climax for up to 15 seconds as his stomach and anal muscles contract, it then subsides. That is known as a prostate orgasm, better known as a sissy orgasm (sissygasm for short). That's a far longer sensation than what a penis orgasm gives. Like you he can have multiple sissygasms but he will never feel any real relief  because he did not orgasm through his clitty and the cum stays in his balls. After several weeks of pegging him (or if you have pegged him prior to this training) mixed with chastity and no penis orgasm he will start to cum through his ass. That's right, he will cum through his ass, you are slowly chemically transforming his ass into a pussy. This cum is not the same as penis cum as it comes directly from the prostate and contains no sperm, it will however smell the same. Eventually with sexual excitement, his pussy will even get wet (the use of lube is still needed for fucking him).

A sissygasm bypasses the nerves associated with a penis climax, which force muscle contractions to ejaculate cum. This also releases dopamine, and serotonin (on a smaller scale) but also prolactin which is a chemical to rest and reset the body and makes him not need sex for several days (varies by male). Essentially he is experiencing sex similar to the way you do, it builds then releases and then builds again and again. Only far less as intense as you feel it and with out that finial climax that leads to your orgasm. As stated above after he has loss penis orgasms for a while, his pussy can also get very wet as the arousal state builds, and he can even loose cum through his prostate when he experiences a sissygasm. Again the relation to "sissy orgasm" and nick name of his ass to a "pussy". The repeated build up and release of pleasure with out satisfaction of orgasm can drive him into a submissive sex frenzy, pleading and begging for your cock. This intense pleasure and the key brain chemicals with the added loss of penis climax is what makes pegging very addictive and him more submissive.

This is what makes pegging such a powerful tool for a dominatrix plus the humiliation aspect of it, you control it, and he can't orgasm from pegging alone. This allows you to constantly keep him on edge and stimulated the whole time your fucking him with out the fear of him cumming. Also men were not meant to experience that intense of pleasure nor for the duration as they do when getting pegged. Which is why the prostate is inside his ass, hidden. Experiencing this pleasure from a dominant woman with the combination of chastity and loss of orgasm can bring powerful feelings of submission from him. Men don't have the sexual capacity or nerve path ways to deal with that pleasure like women do, even though its no where as intense as what we experience. Sex for them is not the same as it is for us, as they actually experience 95% of the total pleasure they have from the orgasm. Its just powerful enough to cause the muscle to spasm to shoot his sperm out. When they do experience the prolonged intense pleasure with out cumming, they become very submissive and can basically loose control including, moaning, screaming, and sometimes even crying, with willingness to obey any command. Seeing him this submissive and loose control like this is very arousing and intoxicating to a dominatrix, and this is the time you want to humiliate and show your authority . The submission comes from not being able to handle that amount of pleasure for that amount of time and the fact you control it and even force it. Also the psychological effect of you literally forcing that pleasure through penetration at which they have no control. You see, with his penis he could loose interest, not want it and go limp, but when you force pegging on him or even prostate play, he not only has no control physically, but also mentally as there is no going limp and he is literally forced to take the building pleasure leading to his moaning and screaming but with no end or climax for him as he can't cum.

For Beginners;
Before you peg it would probably be better if you watch several videos, this is to get a view of the actual act and the basics. While its pretty straight forward, there is actually a technique to doing a good job, even though the videos might not show it but I'll get into that a little later. Once you get an understanding of whats actually going on, and how to go about it visually, you should be ready to do it. Your first time take it slow and remember he probably isn't excited about taking your cock. He is more than likely dreading it and nervous, thinking its going to hurt, and it might if you go to fast. You don't want it to hurt, you want him to enjoy it, to love it, to need it and to become depended on it. He is also humiliated that your forcing him to be fucked by a cock, and one thats bigger than his. Thats ok, humiliation only adds to his submission and mind control, especially down the road when he is begging you to fuck him.

After the first time, he is no longer a virgin, and unknowingly taken a big step to being your bitch. He has been mind fucked as well as ass fucked because of this; He has been forcefully penetrated by a larger cock than his little dicklet and ended up enjoying it. He has now lost part off his manhood and humiliated that he was forced to take it, but even worse he started to enjoy it and wants more. This humiliation is good because its the first step to breaking him and wiping away his manhood which you drastically need to do in order to get the true submissive you want. Once he realizes he has no control and admits to his self that he gets great pleasure from it, he will accept it, as well as other humiliating submissive acts. Once he accepts that his pleasure now only comes from your cock he will actually loose more of his manhood and take another step towards being your perfect bitch. As the pegging becomes more of a on going reality he will start to get more pleasure because of not fighting it. The humiliation doesn't stop there, once he does accept it and desires your cock, he will be humiliated that he can't help himself, and he truly can't, he is dependent and addicted to that pleasure. Now more humiliated that he needs it and is willing to beg for it and eventually do anything to get it. Even more so if he is made to do other humiliating acts to be granted that privilege. If he only knew what was coming.*BIG GRIN*  This is why you will want to make him beg for it, preferably on his knees and made to suck it before before fucking him.

OK, Before your first time you will need to make sure his horniness is built up for several weeks. During that time you will also need to start using toys and your finger to manipulate his prostate. This will break the barrier from virgin ass to pegging and get him use to something going into his ass as well as the pleasure his prostate is capable of giving, and even a finger or 2 can have him moaning like a little girl. Also no pussy or orgasms at all, as you should have already started switching his pleasure from his penis to his ass. This way those areas are far more sensitive and easily stimulated. Take sometime time to play before you insert a finger or toy into his ass. Get some lube and Rub/message his ass hole and perineum (the area between his ass and balls) independently and at the same time. You should also take some time to lick (only, not suck) the underside of his head and lick his balls. After a few minutes he should be loving it, A LOT! His asshole its self will give him a lot of pleasure now that he has not been getting orgasms, and this pleasure will lead to him wanting you to stick your finger in, and eventually your cock. This is now his only erogenous zone and soon the trick to have him begging for your cock. It is the most important place on his body, for him and you from now on, especially if you wish to turn him sissy. Soon that will be the only place he gets pleasure, and the only place he will think about. After playing with his special spots for a while, go a head and slowly stick one finger in. Move it in and out a bit and then start to rub his prostate gently. Use finger motions to rub, example; figure 8, side to side, circles-little o's and big o's, the come hither (come here movement), back and forth, or any combination of the above. pay attention to the ones that make him moan louder as those are the ones that touch that special spot. Again take some time here and there to lick his balls and the underside of his head. (after a few times of playing with just one finger) Now its time to really get him moaning,  pull out and get some lube on 2 fingers and slowly slide them both in. After playing with his prostate for a bit and then using 2 fingers, the pleasure is probably more than he can handle, so be sure not to touch his dicklet very much as you don't want him to orgasm. Just keep teasing his head now and then and he will be begging to serve you. after you have had your fun and he is good and horny, now its time to roll him over.

Time for Pegging
He should always be tied down when training but also when pegging and its always best to get him horny before. Always use a finger to loosen up his ass or butt plug at some point during training before you go shoving your cock in his ass. As time goes on this may not be necessary or at best just a finger or two right before will do the trick to loosen him up. The best position for pegging is doggy style (especially for the first time)as it give you more control and it allows you to pull his hair and smack his ass through out the pegging. After a few times when he is use to getting your cock, you will want to change it up now and then by putting him on his back for pegging, standing him up bent over the bed or other ways. Always use a condom on your dildo, unless its only used for his ass. Use plenty of lube and keep it lubed if needed.

Start out slow giving his ass time to adjust to the size (the bigger the dildo the longer he may need). Slide it in inch by inch taking a few minutes in between until he can take it all (hit bottom) and then give him a few minutes to get use to the whole cock in his ass (the first few times you may need to ask feed back from him). Now slowly pump in and out with short strokes giving his ass time to adjust to the motion. After you see that he is relaxing and accepting the cock you can use longer strokes and slowly start working your way to fucking him fast and hard. Use his reactions to judge by how fast and hard you slam it in him. You will learn his body reactions and better technique the more times you do it, As time goes on he will eventually start moaning and screaming like a girl when pleasure is at its best for him, and may even try to back up on it as you fuck him. This is a good time to laugh at him and tell him things like, "my little bitch loves that cock doesn't he or she) Make him answer and ask him who's bitch he is as you smack his ass hard 3 times, then keep humiliating him!

*Technique*
Use your hands a lot, grab his hips pulling him back firmly towards your cock as you fuck him. This teaches him you have control. Pull his hair, smack his ass hard and loud, leave deep red hand prints to show as ownership later after the fucking. Smack it off and on during the whole time and occasionally grab his balls by the base and pull. Ideally you will want to fuck him just like you like getting fucked doggy style, driving that cock in good and hard. *NOTE* Its very important in making his ass feel owned and thus the smacking of the ass leaving the hand prints for visual after. This is a mental training as well as psychical. You want him to believe you own his ass but more importantly you want him to want you to own it.

*Technique*
 Just like for you getting fucked by a guy who knows how to fuck good, you need to learn how to fuck him good. The best positions for his pleasure and more fun is doggie style followed by him bent over the bed, next would be his ass on the edge of the bed with legs straight up (in chains) while he is on his back and you stand and fuck, followed by missionary, just remember he should be in chastity and tied down. While fucking him, from time to time go slow and use your hands to really spread his ass cheeks far apart, let him feel his ass crack spread which puts more sensation on his ass hole. You should also do this now and then when fucking him faster as well. You should be very verbal, this is the perfect time to degrade and humiliating him about how much of a bitch he is (and sissy if you want) and how much he loves your cock. Say things like, "you like my big cock taking this ass, don't you?" After he says yes, and he will, tell him"your going to be my bitch from now aren't you?" this is a great time to make him feel like your submissive little bitch, and to want to be your bitch. Also remember to take time here and there to pull his hair and smack his ass very hard while humiliating him. Use other toys and tools from time to time when fucking him, I like to tie a rope around the base of his balls and cock and pull it snug to tie off at the bottom of the bed. This keeps him in position and every time I slam it in he gets a little squeeze of pain, especially when I give the rope a little pull by hand. I also like to take 2 small wooden pins (get at the local hardware store) and push his dicklet inside its self, putting the pins squeezed together with rubber bands at the end to keep the head from poking out, then roll it up like a hose, then use another rubber band to rap it around the new penis ball and his balls to secure it in place. This does 2 things, first it almost eliminates penis sensation which helps keep him from orgasm and it can give more sensation on his prostate because it forces the corpora cavernous down closer to the prostate, grouping the nerves closer. You could also just force it inside its self as far as you can and use a heavy duty pin or clip to hold it inside its self.  Remember you want to be very verbal yourself, humiliating him about this being the only pleasure he will get, and how he is being a good bitch taking your cock (what ever else you want to say to humiliate him) Make him beg for it or you will stop, have him tell you he wants to be your bitch from now on. Laugh at him moaning and tell him "hearing you moan like a bitch makes me want to get fucked by a real man".  think of your own things to say, what ever you want, and have fun with it. Trust me the more you make him feel like your bitch, the more he will want to be your bitch.

I always make him beg for my cock on his knees and then suck my cock first before I put him into position and sometimes I make him suck it after he is in position before I fuck him. Regardless of what rout you go with him, you should always or at least most of the time make him suck a big dildo while you fuck him. Buy a dildo holder and place it in front of him while you peg him and demand he suck it. Make sure he does a good job and smack his ass really hard if he fails, also use this time to humiliate him about it and this is his place from now on, especially if you plan to turn him sissy and suck real cock. If you decide to go the sissy route, make him wear panties and stockings and leave them on while you fuck him.

*NOTE and re-cap* It is very, very rare that a man can orgasm by fucking him in the ass, (he may have some cum ooze out, but that's not an orgasm). The feeling he gets is a lot like a pre-orgasm (much like you feel when your getting close to getting off but don't quite reach that stage, only not as intense as you feel). This is why pegging is so valuable to Dom's as a great tool to make him submissive, you get all the perks but he gets none of the glory. Its is the best tease you can do to him even with out you doing penis stimulation on him and why its works great for long term chastity or permanent chastity. Every time he gets fucked, the sensation builds and he feels like he may cum, but it never happens. This leaves him unsatisfied, still horny(only worse), and begging for more, with the added benefit he feels more like your bitch and wants to please you to get your cock again. After a certain point, he will be hooked on your cock, begging to do anything you ask and please you to feel that cock in his pussy/ass. If you really want to push his boundaries, make him take your lovers cock.


Have fun!!

     

pegging

                                                                         PEGGING

You've stopped having sex with him, locked his clitty in a chastity, hopefully started dating to some degree or at least having sex regularly (this is important for your health) and training towards permanent chastity for you bitch. You should be pegging him by now, so this blog is about different techniques and the proper way to peg him and the benefits of pegging. First off, pegging is essential in femdom and orgasm denial as its an obtainable pleasure for him, usually as a reward for his submission and obedience or other reasons like sissy training etc. Pegging is something that will become very valuable to him (since its his only source of pleasure) and the longer he is denied sex and orgasms the more sensitive his p-spot becomes making it more addicting and pleasurable especially if using the edging technique. This is power for you as he will not be able to control it and with time even beg you to use your cock on him. Pegging will also give him drive and focus to serve and obey you, as you eventually take pussy completely away as most Doms do. However, pegging isn't just a reward and pleasure for him, it's a powerful training tool for you and will help convert his desire from your pussy to your cock. Pegging mixed with chastity, denial of pussy and loss of orgasms will make him very submissive towards you and the pleasure of your cock, he will essentially become "cock whipped". Pegging is something you can easily control and it will help to control him by giving or taking it away as necessary after training. Eventually after you find a full time boyfriend to date and he is really cock whipped, you will only peg him as a reward obviously when you decide (usually twice a week) he's earned it. During training, you will train him to always beg for your cock, and suck it prior to giving him the privilege to have it. You will even train him to beg you to have all the cock you want just so he might be allowed the privilege of your cock, after all a sexually satisfied Dom craves the power of making her bitch squeal.    

Pegging is also the only way to sissy training and goes hand in hand with chastity, especially permanent chastity as it truly will be his only source of pleasure. Pegging him will turn you on and give you  pleasure, plus most dom's state they have had orgasms while doing strap-on pegging. It will make you feel powerful and in control as you force your cock into his tight little hole and watch him eventually turn into a screaming cock slut, sissy bitch, begging for your cock. This is something to be proud of and at the same time laugh at him because he really is turning into a cock slut. Its normal to feel he's sexually pathetic and has a clitty, that he is not a real man and that you definitely don't want him between your legs again. Accept and embrace these feelings because this is what you want, you need and deserve real pleasure and orgasms. When you start pegging he might not like it and will resist until the pleasure forces him to submit to it and then he will not be able to resist it. As he is tied down/up forced to endure the penetration and the friction of your cock assaulting his prostate he will give into the pleasure. Eventually he will submit to the control of your cock, be addicted to it and beg you to get it....He will be your cock whipped sissy bitch. Pegging is a valuable tool for humiliation as well as to bring out submission, it is very humiliating (in several ways) to beg for your cock, to crave it, to moan from it and to eventually submit to it especially if done in front of another person, boyfriend, girlfriend, or even a "master" you set up for him. The humiliation helps degrade and emasculate him which takes away his manhood making him more trainable and obedient. It also switches his pleasure zones from that little clitty to his tight little pussy, and helps to reprogram his mind to crave cock. It also replaces his sex with your sex by defacto, meaning by keeping conventional sex and orgasms from him and fucking him with your dildo, you are making him dependent on your cock for pleasure. This insures that you will keep him dependent on you getting sex from real men in order to have the privilege of your cock. A skilled Dom  utilize this and re-program him (using firm aggressive directives and commands while under heavy hormone influence), during pegging and edging or copulin arousal techniques. Directives like; you will think about my cock stretching your pussy the entire time you see or hear me fuck a real man (my boyfriend), or You will be cock whipped and there's nothing you can do to stop it etc. Tell him things (in a firm voice) that you want to embed into his subconscious mind. Reprogramming directives are statements or comments said (again with a firm voice) that unknowingly imbed into his thinking process during a high arousal state making him feel or act as you describe in said statements. This is a reprogramming or brainwashing technique. Basically while his arousal levels are very high describe what, how, or when he is to act or think and he will (with time of this training) due your bidding.   

Pegging also gives him a focus point and reward for being your sissy bitch, as I said its an obtainable pleasure he is permitted, pleasure that last for as long as your fucking him. Pegging is a pleasure unlike anything he could experience with his clitty. Unlike normal sex where he does all the work and most of his pleasure comes at the end from the ejaculating orgasm, then his sex is over. However pegging is a constant pleasure that builds to a climax (much like our sex, but far less as intense) where he has what's called a sissygasm. He can have sissygasms over and over and even back to back (again just like us) for as long as your cock pounds his tight little pussy. This is also another reason he will become addicted to your cock and learn to love it and submit to it. Also sissygasms last a lot longer than normal orgasm, but they are not the same feeling as an ejaculation orgasm because it comes from 2 different places much like a clit orgasm vs a vaginal orgasm with us. The best thing is, sissygasms are not sexually satisfying because they don't effect the sex nerves/erogenous zones that trigger the orgasmic muscle contractions meant to ejaculate, which in turn signals the brain to release chemicals that stop blueballs (in short his balls don't get emptied with sissygasms so he remains horny and submissive). In fact, most Dom's (especially if in permanent chastity phase) after mid to end of training don't even remove the chastity to peg their sissy bitches or they use an electro-chastity devices to intensify his need for cock and give a little shock pain at the same time. He is also free from the stress of having to preform and please pussy, keep an erection, or premature ejaculation all of which he fails at because he was meant to be your little cock slut. Sissygasms do nothing at all to ease his arousal level or submission, but instead intensifies it and helps build his submission and arousal level, especially towards cock.

There are 3 types of pegging; freestyle (using a dildo with your hands) strap-on (dildo in a harness) machine (dildo in a fuck machine). Its important to know, pegging is not about the speed of how fast you can pump the cock in and out of him. Using a slower, steady pace will give better pleasure than a fast pace. Switching from slow and deep with firm impacts to long strokes will also switch up the intensity of pleasure. Pay attention to his body and moans to see what's doing the trick, if he is requesting you to slow down or speed up there is a reason (to much sensation, pain etc.), try to remember his preferences. Regardless of which style you do, you always want him sucking a dildo prior to using one on him (ideally a clean or unused dildo solely for the purpose of sucking it). This is humiliation and a non-threatening prep to get him ready to suck real cock if you choose this path (part of sissy training). Freestyle pegging is good for most times as its simpler and quicker to get ready for and a bit easier to clean after. It is fairly less body work physically, but can give your arm a good workout until you get use to it (great for burning fat off your arms though so switch between arms). It does a good job of giving him sissygasms and a desire for cock. You can put him in any position for freestyle pegging, I always suggest changing it up during each time, at least occasionally, and definitely tie him down securely. ** NOTE** with any type of pegging start off rubbing the outside of his pussy to arouse him. The area around his hole is pleasurable and helps build arousal and anticipation. Then work up to fingering his hole and prostate for a few minutes to get it lubricated. Now that he is lubricated and aroused, slowly slide you cock in and start off with slow short strokes going in only about half way. As you see him relax and moan, slide it all the way in and let it sit for a few seconds as you rub/massage his balls and rub your finger around his stretched hole. Then start to move it in and out with long, slow, deep strokes, **NOTE** avoid pulling it out to far, you don't want it falling out. You want the ridge of the head to hit the end of his prostate and slide down it on the pull out stroke and then on the in stroke the head of the cock will stroke the full length of his prostate giving him max pleasure. Now pick up speed moving it in and out to a STEADY pace (remember steady is key), pushing the cock firmly into his pussy (imitating hips bouncing off his ass). **NOTE** Something to think about, a steady pace is more real like actual fucking, gives the prostate time to pulse which gives a much better feeling and pleasure than a fast pace plus its less work on you. However a faster speed is good now and then (key word now and then) to change up the pleasure. *NOTE* clitty stimulation (if not in perma-chastity) should be sporadic. 

Strap-on fucking is more visually appealing for you as you have a more realistic feel (like its your actual cock pounding him) of position and view of his pussy stretching as it takes your cock deep inside him. You also feel more power and control over him as its your thrust that makes him moan and scream. Strap-on pegging can also arouse you and a lot of girls can orgasm from pegging their sissy. You can also start off freestyle with a different dildo (smaller) then switch to strap-on after a few minutes. Strap-on is more physical, but worth the energy as it helps to keep you in shape and it is the best pleasure for males as it gives a more realistic feel and impact as your hips slam against his ass. It also allows your hands to be free for other activity (which is a must for bringing out the sissy bitch side of him) like pulling his hair back or his collar (make him wear a collar if he is low trimmed or bald) - smacking his ass or balls - inserting a finger with the cock to give that extra stretch - using both hands to spread his ass cheeks wide to expose and open up his pussy hole (makes sensation better - squeezing his ass cheeks - spitting on his pussy hole for lube (more humiliation than lube) - and one of the best techniques for increasing sensations is grabbing the base of his balls and pulling them up and towards you as you slam into him, lastly smack the shit out of his ass and leave a hand print (you can also use a leather slapper) that last a few days. Technique with strap-on is exactly like with freestyle pegging, start out slow with short strokes and build to long, deep strokes and eventually bouncing your hips of his ass with a steady pace and deep strokes, and change to short fast strokes from time to time. your hips can only move so fast so speed is not important with this style of pegging, just remember to switch it up. Again remember not to pull to far out on your out strokes, your cock will fall out!  

As I said, Strap-on is the best sex for him, especially if training him to become sissy and take real cock, and it allows you to have him kneel and suck it prior to training and pegging. Freestyle is great for easier nights and a bit quicker, but it is a must to use Strap-on at least 3 times month. Machine pegging is good on days when your tired or don't feel like doing much training. You just humiliate him and let the machine do all the work and still achieve his submission of cock. It also allows your hands to be free to do other stuff just like with strap-on sex and even more like making him suck your cock (real or not) while he is fucked (although you could suction a dildo to the wall as you fuck him strap-on style) or your could whip his as with a cane or what ever while the machine pounds away at his tight little hole. This is actually a mind fuck as he can't fully enjoy the pleasure because the pain is to intense. Its also a bit harder to clench his ass cheeks with movement inside his hole, and the pain is a little more sensitive since the inner nerve ending are being stimulated. Machine pegging is also great because you don't even have to stay in the room if you have other things to do like get ready for a date, run a quick errand, or a DOM favorite, if your in the other room fucking a Boyfriend. The possibilities are endless, so use your imagination and try new things, especially putting him into different positions for pegging as each will give a different sensation and pleasure, and remember to let out your sadistic dominant side. Fucking him on his back (missionary) might be best for pleasure but its more humiliating for him fucking him doggie and your hands can do more stuff. This is why its always best to switch him around and be creative when pegging so his mind is always running wild with desire of your cock. 

After a few weeks of no sex, chastity, and pegging, mixed with training and humiliation, you will notice a physical change to his ass. It will start to become more and more like a pussy, literally. It will start getting wet, self lubricate (still need lube from time to time) during sex, and eventually cum. Yes cum, a sissy equivalent to female cum that looks and smells like actual cum, but it is more lubricating and lacks sperm, as sperm cums from testicles and this comes from his prostate. This is a good sign that he is becoming cock whipped and a cock slut. **NOTE this is also the time to start sissy training and convert him to a "sissy bitch" permanently switching his pleasure zones. Now is when you start making him wear panties, even female lingerie (French maid outfits etc.), make sure he shaves all his pubic hair, clean up his own cum messes, all of them. Teach him to suck cock by sucking dildo's every training night, start accounts on bi/gay online dating sites and look for real cock for him to please. Note, once you convert his ass to a pussy and make him a cock slut, he will always crave cock. This will make it easier to turn him back into a cock slut if ever there is a lapse in the femdom lifestyle for unseen reasons. 

As days turn to weeks and months of wearing a chastity and no sex and orgasm, his ass will become his pussy, it will actually become his pussy. It will chemically and physically change his demeanor, submissive state, and pleasure preference. It will become his pleasure zone and his weakness. You will train him to acknowledge and accept this is his pussy. You must treat his ass as a pussy, call it his pussy (your ownership is known so just keep it simply "his pussy" to avoid confusion) make him call it his pussy, rub it as a pussy, finger it as a pussy. The longer he goes without orgasm, and the more he is pegged, the more his ass feels like a pussy to him the more sissy he feels and becomes. Just rubbing the rim of his pussy will give him great pleasure and build his arousal level. (which is needed for Perma-chastity) You will want to tease him with this area prior to insertion of anything. Simply edge him for at least 10-15 minutes and start off by rubbing around the hole, and make sure you humiliate him. After enough time with out sex and fucking him, he will become dependent on you fucking him. Make him beg for it, make him suck the cock prior to being fucked. Remember, always spend time rubbing it prior to fingering or fucking to build up sensation and arousal. When fucking him, spread his checks and pussy wide to give better sensation, ALSO grab his balls and pull up on them, this adds pleasure and maximizes the sensation on his prostate. Experiment with it by trying all kinds of toys, shapes, sizes. Stick a finger in it at the same time as the dildo. Try to to use 2 smaller dildo's in his pussy at the same time, working them in and out independently for cross sensation. When fingering it, try to build up to 2,3,4, and eventually all 5 fingers in (this is not for a beginner, and don't try this every time you finger him, just occasionally). Note* 4 and 5 fingers are easier to get in after the use of a large dildo. When fucking him, be humiliating, Spit on his hole, tell him that's his lube, use his own cum to lubricate it, and humiliate him with that and how he is a sissy bitch. NOTE* remember to make him shave all hair around it and his clitty, all of it, especially if your going to train him to be a sissy bitch. Smack his ass hard several times when fucking him or use a leather strap or cane, reach down and pull his head back by his hair or around his neck or use a collar on him and pull the leash as he has a sissygasm. Switch it up, force his head down into the bed, make him keep it down, and make him spread his legs wide or arch his ass to take the cock or threaten to stop. Switch things up with dildo's, trying different shapes and make him take bigger. NOTE* don't use the bigger dildo every time, you don't want him use to it, you want it to be that OMG dildo every now and then. Also you don't want him to sore to take cock at all.  Make him go out with but plugs or other toys in his pussy. Use remote control devices while your out. Note, plugs will put him into a submissive state and make it hard for him to focus, especially ones that move or vibrate. This is good for you and fun to play with while your out, remember to try new ideas. Remember to grag his balls and pull them as you fuck him or use your dildo on him. I usually grab them with both hands and use them as a handle to pull my hips into him forcing my cock deeper, or I'll use one hand to smack his as with a small crop (very hard).

As you lock him into chastity and start pegging, you will also want to restrict pussy from him, let him see it or smell it occasionally until you have found a full time Boyfriend or bull. Pussy is very powerful to him and even a more powerful tool for you. Just the copulins alone are very valuable in aiding towards his submission and reprogramming him. Even just seeing it will cause a flood of hormones to make him weak, especially if its restricted and used to tease him. Smelling and tasting it will only compounding his feeling of submission as your copulins work their magic. You will threaten to take it away, especially when you find a bull or BF to fuck, but for now you need the extra control, humiliation and focused submission that pussy has on him. This means that on some days he wont see or smell it, while on others he may only see it in panties (rarely naked) or he maybe only smell it and other days he may smell and taste it. Switch it up, make it sporadic, and make sure you put 4 or 5 days of nothing in between his contact. It is very important that he smell pussy out of panties 3-4 times a month (with or with out a blind fold on) and you want to put it inches from his face and spread your lips open. Let him see you vagina opening, maybe even rub his nose in it. He needs to be close to inhale as much copulins as possible, and this is best with pussy inches away from his face and lips spread open. The more aroused you are the better, especially if done shortly after you fucked your BF. You could even fuck a dildo or use a vib on yourself to expedite the copulins production and add the arousal sight humiliation on him. Let him smell in for at least 5 minutes, while you use verbal humiliation and verbal training  methods to brainwash him. The most powerful copulins are absorbed through his penis while you sit still on top of him for at least 5 minutes but up to 15. (see my copulins section for more info)

**MOST IMPORTANT**  You need big cock ASAP! As you deny you bitch and start pegging, you need to start cuckolding as you will soon loose chemicals that your body needs, CUM. Yes semen is very good for your body and emotional health. Semen is comprised of vital chemicals that helps your body stay healthy, like vitamins and minerals that promote energy, cognition, and helps viral immunity. Plus it has antidepressants to reduce stress, depression, anxiety and moods swings while it promotes happiness. It also contains hormones like testosterone, oxytocin, cortisol that slow aging, reduce inflammation (achiness and joint pain), improve blood flow (numb or cold hands and feet), and skin health (younger skin, reduces wrinkles, and quick healing) as well as other important chemicals. Not to mention having regular sex and orgasms is some of the best calorie burning and exercises you can do to loose weight and stay in shape. Penetration of the penis into the vagina exercises pelvic muscles necessary for healthy bladder control and functions (helps stop frequent peeing and regulate bowel movement) tightens uterus and vaginal walls to aid in a tighter vagina. SO YES, to say the least, it is very important that you have sex regularly!!!!!  You need to take care of yourself and nothing is more important than your sex and best of all it feels really, really good!!!!! You also need to take care of your physical looks, work out, get manicures and pedicures, get your hair done, and tan, buy sexy outfits (and lingerie) to wear for your boyfriends. You need to look good for yourself esteem and for your boyfriend or potential boyfriends. 

Do not be afraid to talk and flirt with guys, you need to do it often and everywhere. You must actively go out looking for boyfriends or sex partners, and enjoy sex with them. It is crucial to show him that you love the sex more and prefer bigger and better cock with your BF. He needs to be humiliated this way to help break him, and to understand his place was meant to serve you. He must see that you are excited and horny to go on date and get sex from your boyfriend. He needs to know that you do not want or need sex with him, he must believe it. You will tell him that your sex is none of his business and its none of his business who you date, where your going, when you'll be home, (if you even come home) or who you fuck. Tell him, if you want him to know then you will tell him, if not to keep his mouth shut, asking is a severe punishment. He should focus on serving you, not what you do. After your dating or maybe seeing several guys, (at least 2 guys) you will not tell him who your going out with, or anything about the date, IT IS none of his business! However for humiliation, only tell him about the sex, every detail. Where you fucked, what positions you fucked in, how long you fucked, how much better it was, how long it was, how wet you were and how many times you had orgasms. Bring home hickies on your boobs and inner thigh for him to see, show him the opened condom rappers as your order him to throw it away. Have him refill the travel sized lube you took with you but used all up during a long night of sex. It is vital that you include him in one way or another with all the sex you have. This can be as simple as bringing home a condom full of cum for him to mentally visualize your sex (possibly even made to suck on it till all the cum is gone), listening on the phone as you moan and scream over and over from all the orgasms, smelling worn panties after sex (especially if cum soaked), anything you can think of that keeps him horny and excited about you having sex. He must also clean up all messes, including his own precum and milking.