**The New You "The Sexy Bitch" "The Dominatrix"

As you train him, you should also train yourself. Your training is done differently but just like his training it will better and deepen his submission to you. Your going to be sexy, your going to get manicures and pedicures done, your going to get your hair done, your going to do tanning, your going to buy sexy revealing clothes and heels. Your going to flirt with cute guys and make it known that you are available, and yes you are going to get fucked as much and as long as you want by these cute guys. Your going to flaunt your sexiness in front of your bitch. do this by doing what you know turns on men, just like strippers do it....Your going to spread your legs in front of him if you have a skirt on, bend over in front of him. Make him get you dressed (only after you have panties on)  If it doesn't already, it will start to turn you on to treat him the way he deserves and needs to be treated. Especially when you see how much more submissive he is....And he really wants and needs you to take your place as you force him to take his.

      OK so what does this mean? Well you will need to take your place just as he takes his place, your now the boss, his mistress, THE DOMINATRIX. As such you have responsibilities to be dominating  and aggressive to him, to be a bitch, to humiliate and degrade him, and to simply use him to do what ever you want if for no other reason just because you can. No longer are you to ask or be polite,  TELL him what to do and do it in a FIRM demanding voice. You need to be firm speaking and strict at all times possible....Always enforce your rules and punish for disobedience or rule breaking and do it ASAP! This role you take as a Dominatrix is and should always be about your pleasure and what turns you on. You should not only dress sexy but when doing training or punishments, you should dress in black or red typical dominatrix outfits. You will take his money and make him glad your taking it, make him feel it is a privilege to serve you and clean your house. Make him fear you and your ability to give pain and humiliation. Keep him wondering what's next and how much further will you push into submission. Surprise him with new twist of ideas in training sessions and also when fucking your lover.
        
            Its very important to be the new sexy you, I can't stress how much the difference is in his attitude and submission when your strict, demanding, and aggressive when talking to him and equally as much when in using humiliation, hard training and punishments when needed! It is equally as important that you keep him guessing whats next, and change training sessions around from time to time. The tone of your voice, and aggressive way you speak to him is very important, as is the words you choose. Words like GO, GET, KNEEL, BEG, SHUT UP, NOW, DO,  are very effective, just remember to use your voice, and the demeanor of the way you speak. The tone should be firm , and aggressive. Be serious and look serious, he must know that you will not take any back talk, or rule breaking and that you expect his full attention and total submission! He is trainable to do any and everything you want him to do, and exactly how you want it done, you just have to train him correctly just as described above. You need to collar him when doing training, and when ever possible out of training walk him around on his knees or hands and knees( what ever turns you on). When tying him down the ropes and chains should be tight with very little room for movement. He should never be allowed to touch the locks and keys, or allowed to remove /put on his chastity. Remember you get out of it what you put in it, so don't be lazy or laxed When showing him his place and keeping him in it. A submissive and well trained bitch is an obedient bitch, always  eager to please and obey his mistress.
      
          Some of you may be wondering how to be strict and demanding, while some of you have an idea of what it entails or are just plain ruthless about it. Well being ruthless is a perfect demeanor and attitude to have, and you should start by thinking along those lines. You need to enjoy your power, and embrace it, never feel bad about it or the way you use it. You should make him do things just because you can, you should never give in or let him lax on chores, punishments, rules and general acts of submission. MEANING/example, he is on his knees as he should be and he asks for permission to sit or get in bed, "NO! You know your place is kneeling at my feet, now shut up!" When you speak to him, it should not be in the gentle voice that you use to speak to him, it should be firm, loud, and have some bit of humiliation in it if possible. MEANING/example, "Tic Tac Dick get me something to drink and make it fast!!" or (as he is kneeling at your feet waiting for chores or orders after getting off work) " Your going to do your normal chores today, but I'm feeling like being a BITCH, so instead of loading the dish washer, your going to wash them by hand and hand wash my panties while your at it, and the whole time Your doing it I want yo to think about  how pathetically small your dicklet is and what you can do to better serve me since its barely the only way you please me!! You see, it not just what you say, its how you say it. Think about the times you use to get mad at him, how you were short, most likely being a bitch, and mean and aggressive with talking to him. Now up that scale to the dominatrix level and you should be on the right path. You need to control, demand, humiliate, degrade  and treat him for what he is, YOUR SUBMISSIVE PUSSY WHIPPED BITCH! You can not go lightly on him if you wish to gain complete control and submission from him. A very horny male will do anything you command,  a scared male will be quicker to do it and get it done, but a well trained male will be both and feel privileged and horny doing it!

       Even though your attitude, demeanor, and tone in which you speak and shout orders is very important, so is the way you use your power. You should always think of ways to humiliate him as well as where and when to do them. EXAMPLES of using your power, Your in bed at night watching TV or reading a book; you should (only have panties on) spread your legs so he can get aroused for a few minutes and then make him rub your feet. at least once a day while he is in his place, walk up to him and make him lick/worship your feet...remember to humiliate him while he's doing it (That's a good bitch, suck my fucking toes and tell me who's the boss) or (My little bitch knows his place doesn't he, now tell me you have a fucking worthless nub for a dick and thank me for allowing you the privilege of serving me). Have him worship your ass, again while he's doing it humiliate him. If you are capable of having an orgasm(lock his hands behind his back) let him lick your ass till you cum(rub your pussy, and maybe let him smell and/or lick your a finger after he begs).   HUMILIATING WAYS to use your power, while your out shopping and he is with you stand him in the corner somewhere just outside the store(really works good when shopping for lingerie for your lover). make him get in humiliating poses like submission pose or begging to get fucked pose. Make him ask for permission to do anything, and his place should always be kneeling at your feet. He should always be kneeling when he hands you something, if not snap your fingers point to the floor and in a stern firm voice say kneel. Use your power and make him do things just because you can.

     Make him repeat to you that your the boss, or that he has a tiny pathetic nub of a dick, he's your bitch, along with other humiliating things you say to him. remind him daily that he has a useless tiny clit of a dick, and make sure you laugh at his tiny dick. Here is something you can say to him that I say to my PS to humiliate him; Your tiny pathetic little dicklet will never feel pussy again, for that matter it will never even have an orgasm.its useless and doesn't even deserve to be called a cock, and that's why your my little cock sucking bitch! That's right, I said cock sucking....Your going to suck my lovers cock hard for me from now on and if you do a good enough job I might let you lick my ass while he fucks me, with the blind fold on of course (laugh). You don't deserve anything at all to do with pussy, and not just because your little nub is so fucking tiny but you cant even keep it hard or know how to use it. I don't care how horny you get, and I don't care how much it humiliates you to know I'm getting bigger better cock, and it's going to be none of your fucking business. Your not even going to ask me a fucking thing about who I'm fucking, where I'm going,or when i'll be home, and on the occasion I allow you the privilege to hear or watch your going to pay for it later with my amusement of torturing your ass and balls (laugh)Your going to do as your told when your told to do it or you will be punished and you will never feel the pleasure of my big cock in your tight little pussy. You're going to learn your fucking place, And you're going to beg me to allow you to serve me, aren't you? (YES MISTRESS) let me hear you beg, let me hear my little bitch beg to serve me and beg to be on your knees worshiping my ass and feet like a good little bitch should be. You're going to be my little bitch and you're going to suck my cock and whoever's cock I tell you to, In fact I'm going to have you used like the little bitch you are. You're going to beg me to go fuck my boyfriend especially if you ever want to feel my cock in your tight little pussy, And you're going to beg me for that privilege to. Tell me who's the boss? (You mistress) that's right, and who's my bitch? ( I am mistress) Good boy! From now on you only refer to me as mistress, and your name is bitch, and you will refer to me as such from now on. If you Forget you're going to get punished. You will kneel at my feet from now on and you will beg to serve me. I will not touch anything this house is your job to clean my house and do the chores. Now let me hear my little bitch beg!** This conversation is one of the normal conversations I have with my PS, I say things like this in and out of the dungeon. He knows his place and he's very happy being in it.

      
               Remember it is you that has the control, it is you that has the power, USE IT!

Cock Size/ Pussy Technique

Cock size is very important and can even out weigh physical looks of a possible lover. More often then not, your average looking male will have a larger and or thicker cock than that of the better looking male (nature had to find some way of passing on his genes). Cocks comes in all shapes, bends, and sizes and each can give its own feeling and intensity of orgasm, and every male has a different technique/style of fucking. So a male with an average size cock could please you just as good as one with a larger cock. However the general rule is the thicker the better, thicker even being better than length. The best cocks are the ones with thickness and length, and once you have fucked just one big-thick cock, you will never feel the same way about a smaller less than average size cock. The orgasms you get from fucking one are so intense and long that you will never forget fucking that cock and most likely lose all interest in the smaller undersized ones. Fact is, once you have fucked a lover with a big and thick cock a few times, you'll find yourself thinking about his cock several times a day and with great anticipation of the next time you'll get to fuck him again. I have said it before in other post, its better to have a lover with less attractive looks but with a thick cock then it is to have a hot looking lover with an average or less cock size. I know attraction is important for some women but your not fucking his face and your just using him for his cock anyway. There is plenty of time to find a hot well hung lover down the road, the key now is to find 3 or 4 well endowed males to fuck you then look to move up.

I get questions  all the time  "how do you know if a man has a big thick cock?" or "Do black guys have bigger cocks?" Well the truth is there is no sure way to tell, but usually guys with big hands or big feet have thicker cocks than average. While I have fucked more than my share of guys, I've really not found that black guys have bigger cocks, (the biggest and thickest cock I've fucked was that of a white guy) but what I have found is that its more common for black guys to have bigger cocks then white guys, so your more likely to find a big cock on a black guy then a white one....which is why the majority of the guys I fuck are black (the odds are better i'm getting a larger than averge cock) and once I find a lover with a thick cock (black or white), I keep on to him. I never cancel a date/fuck night, I go more out of my way to please him, and I make sure he knows my pussy belongs to him in front of my PS as I found that it really turns on my lovers.

The benefit to cuckolding your PS is that you get experience new cocks, orgasms, and pure excitement. You get to fuck who you want, when you want, where you want. You get to experience the best and most erotic sex that you'll ever have, orgasms that you could never believe you could have, ones that you PS could never give you and when your start getting them, will never want to give them up. With this said, enjoy yourself....Don't focus on looks by them self, take the whole package into consideration. Yeah he's average looking, but he has a great personality, a thick cock, and he really knows how to help me put my PS in his proper place! Like I said you can always find better looking to add to your list of lovers.



PUSSY TECHNIQUE

Your pussy is also capable of giving your lovers intense feeling and orgasms. Just the very feeling of sliding your pussy down on mosts cock can be enough to get him off (yet another reason you probably don't want to fuck your PS) Your lover will have staying power and size to give you the orgasms you deserve and your pussy will give him a hormone rush that will be addicting as some of the most addictive drugs. Any average or above average sized cock will find your pussy very tight and smooth (all pussy are normally the size of a pencil and stretches to accommodate the cock size, the bigger the cock the more your pussy stretches and tightens around his cock) But there are ways to tighten your pussy naturally. One of the best and less active ways is simply to have sex, just by having sex your pussy shrinks and stretches by the in and out motion of getting fucked (by at least an average size cock) and this promotes elastic virginal walls, also when you get off your pussy mussels contract this over time of frequent fucking your pussy tightens. A more physical way and to use in conjunction with getting fucked often, is to use Ben wall balls or Kegals Just insert them and walk around with them for an hour or so. But probably the most physical and most effective is the weighted bar bell, designed to slide in the vagina (while a portion, the weighting part is still exposed) and you use your pussy muscle to hold it inside your pussy while gravity tries to pull it out which builds your pussy muscle and promotes a tighter pussy. Keeping your pussy tight, and working it out regularly will also benifit you as well because it will help make orgasms stronger.
A good technique to give an extra tight feeling to your lover (even driving him crazy) and to even increase your orgasm intensity is to tighten your pussy muscles as he is sliding his cock in and re-tighten it on every in stroke of him fucking you, but if this is difficult or uncomfortable because of his size try squeezing your pussy muscles on every out stroke of him fucking you. So on either (one or the other) in-stroke or out-strok tighten your pussy muscles as your getting fucked and watch the sparks fly!

Remember as I said before, having sex is healthy, it helps your body create natural hormones and vitamins, builds and strengthens your bodies cardio system, firms your breast and tightens your pussy, and help regulate hormones and chemicals that cause depression, insomnia, fatigue (lack of energy), and several other things. Enjoy it and use it to the fullest!