Wednesday, January 27, 2010

**Milking**

Because forced chastity has become so popular I wanted to post on the proper way to milk your PS.

“Prostate milking” is a term commonly used to refer to the erotic, recreational (i.e. not for medical purposes), non-orgasmic variant of prostate massage, especially between people of the BDSM-ish persuasion who incorporate elements of orgasm control and/or chastity into their partnerships.

Strong pulsating muscle contractions during ejaculation are a primary source of male pleasure during orgasm. Using prostate massage to drain the build up of fluids from his prostate, but without triggering forceful orgasmic muscle contractions, is what is called “prostate milking”, or simply “milking”.

If you are one of the lucky girls that force your PS to wear a chastity, its a must to do a cleaning of his ducts once every 10 days. This cleans out the build up that can cause problems with his prostate and duct work. By its very nature, forced chastity is related to and in conjunction with orgasm denial and this causes the build up of seminal fluids that really needs to be discharged to keep him from having urinary tract infections or other possible complications. The best way to do this and promote a healthy system for him is prostate milking.

The procedure is not complicated and really requires little effort from you. It should be worked into a training session as the sexual energy is already at its highest at that point. Milking with your index and/or middle finger (both fingers) works better than with a milking tool however some dominants use milking tools, (you will have to see what works best for your PS and gets the job done) Fingers can give a better feel and control plus a more direct feel, but a device may work faster. In all the process could take anywhere from 15 minutes to 45 minutes depending on your experience and his build up.

First;  After you have obtained a high level horniness you need to put him into position for milking (or have him in this position at the start of raising his horniness level).The best position for most men is with his ass in the air and legs spread or bent over a bed, table or other prop letting his balls hang and giving you the best access to his arias, however some men its easier with him on his back and feet in stirrups/chains. REGARDLESS OF THE POSITION HE MUST BE TIED DOWN!

Second;  Start stroking and sucking his cock to get it good and hard, then lube up a milking tool/finger and insert it slowly into his ass while still stroking his cock. Work it in and out slowly giving his sphincter mussel time to adapt to the toys size (especially if he does not receive dildo play). Once you have reached the point that his sphincter has relaxed you may pick up a bit of speed sliding the massager in and out, not to fast just a steady comfortable pace.

Third;  Up till now you have been stroking and sucking his cock at the same time you are working the massager in and out, but its time to give his cock a break and only work the tool/finger in and out for a bit. By now he should have pre-cum dripping pretty well (and begging for sex). Now go back to stroking and sucking his cock while working the tool/finger in and out. Keep doing this off and on till you notice his semen discharge has increased. The point will eventually (time varies with every PS) come where semen is seeping out fairly steadily.

Fourth;  Now the sensation has increased so that fluid is flowing and his prostate is ready for drainage. Keep working both his cock and prostate together, once you feel his muscles start to clench and spasm (you will want to make him inform you to let you know when he is about to orgasm) STOP STROKING HIS COCK, and keep stroking his prostate. The orgasm will not happen but the prostate will open letting out mild spurts of semen/cum. ORGASM FREE! Keep in mind that even though he didn't reach climax/orgasm he will not be quite as horny because the release will alter the chemicals built up in his brain . However, with a little secession by the next day he will back to misery.

The milking is now complete. All you need to do now is make him lick up the mess.
As I said your fingers might work better than a tool/toy but if its not for you or you and your PS prefers toys then try out a few.

Milking devices are sold at most sex stores or on line sites. I have found that Mens sex toys/ Gay men toy sites carry a wider range of product and usually at cheaper prices. I recommend these;  Silicone P. E. vibe royal ( any P. E vibe), Mens pleasure wand, P rock prostate message, Dr Joel 5 function prostate stimulator (any Dr Joel massager), and the nexus 3.15 G play-collection.